Ignite with Jess Soto-Ramirez

If you’ve been doing the work, building the thing, showing up consistently…but still hesitating to fully own your voice, your title, or your authority, this episode is for you.In this episode I’m calling out one of the biggest blocks I see in women in business when it comes to owning your voice and your authority: waiting for permission.Permission to be confident.Permission to be seen as the expert.Permission to take up space.Authority isn’t about being louder, more polished, or more “strategic”, it’s about ownership. Ownership of who you are, what you know, and the woman you’re becoming.We talk identity.We talk imposter syndrome.We talk the quiet self-doubt that shows up even when you’re doing everything “right”.And I’ll walk you through simple reflection prompts to help you start showing up differently - not "one day", but now.Why authority has nothing to do with ego or dominanceHow waiting for external validation keeps you stuckThe identity shifts required to grow your businessWhy imposter syndrome is often a sign you’re expandingHow old beliefs quietly cap your confidenceWhat it actually means to own your titleHow to start positioning yourself as the go-to... without forcing itHere are your journal prompts to sit with & be real...What would help me feel more like the [insert title] I envision myself to be?What makes me feel like I'm not that version of myself? Be specificWhat evidence do I have to prove otherwise? The type that proves your capable.Who am I becoming in this next chapter of my business?Other eisodes referenced:#33 - Are you carrying a backpack filled with limiting beliefs?https://open.spotify.com/episode/7e3zHNn6N0giPJijJV4iV6?si=66bd50756cb548acLET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Welcome to 2026, Queen!This episode is your permission slip to ditch the January hustle, move at your pace, and build a business that actually feels aligned.I’m sharing why mindset matters more than strategy, how limiting beliefs keep you stuck (even when you’re “busy”), and why you don’t have to do this alone.We dive into:Creating success without burnout or guiltWhy pressure ≠ productivityThe real reason you procrastinate or second-guess yourselfHow community, mindset + accountability unlock confidenceWhat it truly means to step into your girl on fire energyPlus, I introduce Fuel Your Fire — a supportive membership for women ready to grow their business with self belief, intuition, and aligned action.If 2026 is your year to stop overthinking and start trusting yourself, this episode is for you.Join us in FYF: https://coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/fyfLET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Feliz Año Nuevo Amiga!!As you step into 2026, I'm taking you back to an episode that came from the SOUL!You know that feeling that sits in your body, but you can't explain it... the one that tells you you're made for more. The one that tugs at your heart and won't let up.But what happens? What do you do with that knowing?? Do you get intentional about it and honour what you feel from a place of your higher self?Or do you talk yourself out if it? Question what you're capable of and dilute the desire you have that wants to burn like wildfire?As we kick this year off I'm here to remind you and hold you to your higher self - the one that knows she's made for more and wants to honour that. Coz my love you were not made for mediocre and the world needs what you have!LET'S CONNECT:Raedy to activate your girl on fire mindset and step into your MORE!? DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Or let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com Share this episode and Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Queens I'm sending you a throwback today - one that is great for this time of reflection and looking forward.Victim mentality can affect us without us even realising - because the old wiring system is running the show. Maybe you say things and you don't even realise.Maybe you feel like your jinxed.Maybe you feel like shit always happens to you.In his episode I want to unravel this victim mentality that you need to undo if you're serious about moving forward in your life and stepping into your upleved self with a girl on fire mindset.Come say hello in my DM @jesssotoramirez and tell me what you took from this episode.LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Leave me a review of the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Hello my Queen,This is my final Ignite episode for 2025… and honestly, I’m feeling everything. Gratitude. Emotion. Reflection. Fire in my belly. And so much love for you being here with me at the end of another year.In this episode, I slow things down. I speak from the heart. And I share 10 powerful reflections that I want you to take with you; not just into 2026, but into your life and business, whenever you need them.Some of these reflections are for end of year energy. Some are for the messy middle. Some are for the days when the bullets bounce off you… and some are for the days when they hit hard. All of them are rooted in self leadership, identity, mindset, seasons, and honouring the fire inside you.This is a sit with yourself, real talk, Jess fire kind of conversation.Why change doesn’t need January 1st — it needs a decisionHow your thoughts shape your emotions (and your entire life)Why identity is not fixed — and which parts may need sheddingThe truth about why a new year doesn’t magically change anythingReframing “failure” into learning and growthUnderstanding and honoring your current seasonThe power of spaciousness (and why hustle isn’t always the answer)Choosing your rhythm instead of dancing to everyone else’sGetting honest about your downfalls — and addressing them with supportAnd the deepest one of all: honoring your gifts and fighting for your fireI also share personal stories, real client moments, and why I’m taking a short podcast break (with some juicy replays coming your way).Most of all, I want you to remembe this:You are not here to let your fire dwindle. You are here to let it shine.Free Resources & Support Rewire & Rise eBook - for shifting the thoughts that drain you - https://coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/freebieFuel Your Fire - accountability & mindset support - https://coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/fuelyourfireFollow me on Instagram: @jesssotoramirez www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirezIf this episode landed in your heart, please share it with a woman who needs it. Leave a review. Send the ripple out further than we’ll ever see.Thank you. Gracias. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being part of this movement in 2025.Mucho amor,Jess

As the year wraps up, for some the pressure starts creeping in... the comparison, the “everyone’s killing it but me”, the “WTF happened this year?” spiral.Sound familiar, babe?In this episode, I'm cracking open the REAL conversation women in business need right now. No highlight reels. No toxic positivity. No pretending everything is perfect. Just truth. Heart. And a powerful mindset shift to pull you out of the end of year emotional quicksand.I'm breaking down:Why we MUST normalise the seasons of business - the bloom and the burnoutThe sneaky way your thoughts → trigger your emotions → dictate your actions (or lack of them)Why feeling “behind” is more about your mindset wiring than your actual resultsThe negativity bias your brain uses against you, and how to outsmart itA simple but potent reframe that shifts you from “I failed” → to “I actually DID way more than I realised”A practical reflection method that shows you EXACTLY where you grew, even when the numbers don’t show itHow a 1% shift can turn into massive transformationLet's talk about powerful reframes, and examples you can apply instantly - whether you’re reflecting on business or your personal life.This episode is your permission slip to stop dragging your spirit through the mud and to step into the new year (or new season) with clarity, intention, compassion… and your head held high.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:How to shift out of scarcity + self-doubtThe mindset pattern sabotaging your successA journaling framework to reflect without spirallingHow to adopt a growth mindset (even when it feels impossible)The ONE action step that will move you forward immediatelyTHIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF YOU’RE SAYING:“I didn’t do enough.”“I thought I’d be further ahead by now.”“I don’t feel good at business.”“I’m tired of feeling like I’m failing.”“Why is this so hard?”WANT SUPPORT?If you’re stuck in the loop of wanting → procrastinating → doubting… I invite you into a powerful 90 minute deep dive session to uncover the REAL blocks, rewire your mindset, and map out your personalised action plan.Book a free 20 minute chat today ⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠LOVED THIS EPISODE?Share it with a woman who needs this truth.DM me @jesssotoramirez with your biggest “OMG I needed this” moment.

Amiga, today we’re diving into a big, juicy, uncomfortable but necessary question: Are you actually choosing yourself?In this episode, I’m unpacking what it really looks like when we don’t choose ourselves... in our inner dialogue, our relationships, our business, our decisions, and all the tiny everyday moments where we shrink, stay quiet, or slip back into old versions of us.I share the stories, the triggers, the patterns, and the sneaky ways we abandon ourselves without even realising it… and the powerful shift that happens when we start backing the woman we’re becoming instead of the woman we’ve been.We talk:✨ choosing yourself vs choosing comfort✨ the inner wise woman and why she whispers✨ people-pleasing, silence, shrinking and self-doubt✨ evolving into the next version of you✨ making decisions from self-worth, not fear✨ the business upgrade that happens when you finally say “I choose me”If you’re ready to stop second guessing and start showing up with grounded, rock solid self belief; this one’s for you.And if this hits home? Pop into my DMs and let’s chat about 1:1 support. You don’t have to figure this out alone!Instagram: instagram.com/jesssotoramirezBook a free 20 min chat: ⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7

Queeeeen! Today’s episode is all about that sticky, sweaty, heart thumping space outside your comfort zone. You know the one where your brain screams “get TF outta here!” even though your soul is whispering “go girl!”In this episode, I’m sharing my real and raw experience of walking into a room full of strangers, battling resistance, and doing it anyway. Because here’s the truth, confidence isn’t built in comfort. It’s built in the stretch, in the moments we show up despite the fear, self doubt, or stories we tell ourselves.Here's what you'll take with you:Why your body and mind resist change (and how to move through it)How to recognise your self sabotage patterns before they trip you upThe mindset shift that turns “I can’t” into “watch me”Practical ways to calm your nervous system when fear kicks inHow to strengthen your Girl on Fire mindset — the one that says, “F*** yes, I can and I will.”Growth doesn’t come from staying safe, it comes from showing up when it feels hard. The resistance isn’t a sign to stop; it’s proof that you’re stepping into something new.I want to know... what’s one thing you’re doing this week to stretch out of your comfort zone? Send me a DM and tell me about it! www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirezAnd if you’re ready to dismantle the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck, lets chat about how I can support you!Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Love the podcast? Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

In this episode, I’m sharing the fire that was lit inside me after speaking at the Candle Business Coach’s Glow & Grow Retreat - a powerful event filled with women ready to expand, connect, and dream big.From the nervous jitters before I hit record to the deep conversations that unfolded at the retreat, I’m taking you behind the scenes to share my 3 biggest takeaways; lessons every woman in business needs to hear:* Create your own opportunities – No one’s coming to hand them to you. You get to go first.* Women thrive in connection – We rise higher when we’re supported, seen, and surrounded by the right people.* Dream boldly – Those wild ideas in your heart are there for a reason. It’s time to bring them to life.If you’ve ever questioned your worth, felt stuck, or wondered if it’s too late to dream again, this episode is your reminder that you’re capable of more than you think.LET'S CONNECT:💬 DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ 💖 Want support to dismantle your limiting beliefs and step into your next level? Book your free 20-minute chat here: ⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Ok Queen, this episode is PRACTICAL in CAPS!As the women who wear ALL the dam hats, our minds get overloaded with STUFF - details, dates, deadlines and the rest!So I'm sharing with you a simple AF hack that I've been using to simplify my life and offload all the tiny details that take up valuable brain space!This episode will help you Create space in your mindBe more organised Build your brain capacityFind peace in delegating details.It's not rocket science but it will change your life when you apply it consistently and diligently.Share it with your fellow "all the hats" wearer - she'll appreciate it! I did and she was so excited to simplify her life!Enjoy Queen!LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

I sat down with the incredibleHayleigh Watson from Hali Helper to talk about identity, healing, and what it really means to rewrite your story.Hayleigh grew up in the foster care system from birth to 18, carrying abandonment wounds, fear of being seen, and a constant need to “be good” just to feel safe. These childhood experiences didn’t just shape her; they followed her into adulthood, relationships, and even into business ownership.But here’s the powerful part, Hayleigh didn’t let her past define her. She’s built a life and a business rooted in helping women rise, not from a place of perfection, but from deep resilience, honesty, and heart.In this conversation we go deep on:- Growing up in foster care and what most people don’t see- The invisible weight of abandonment wounds and fear of being seen- How childhood patterns sneak into business, relationships, and self-worth- Reclaiming identity after shrinking to fit into someone else’s box- Building a business legacy rooted in helping women do the work that lights them up- Learning to rest, set boundaries, and become your own safe placeThis episode is about choosing freedom, creating your own identity, and finding strength in the softness of who you are.Share it with one person today!CONNECT WITH HAYLEIGH:Hayleigh is a passionate entrepreneur and community builder, dedicated to empowering female founders. She is the founder of Hali Helper, abusiness support studio that supporting women in business, and Girls Gotta Work, a thriving community and podcast for female entrepreneurs.Drawing on her own experiences of resilience and growth, Hayleigh combines authenticity, practical insights, and a supportive spirit to help others build businesses and lives they love. She’s committed to helping women feel supported, connected, and confident in their entrepreneurial journeys.www.instagram.com/halihelperwww.instagram.com/girlsgottaworkpodcast www.halihelper.com.auCONNECT WITH JESS:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

You’ve probably heard affirmations and imposter syndrome described as complete opposites, right? One builds you up, the other tears you down. But what if I told you that the way you’re using affirmations might actually be fuelling your imposter syndrome instead of helping you rise above it?In this episode, I get real about:✨ Why “fluffy” affirmations often fall flat (and sometimes make us feel worse)✨ How your mean girl voice interrupts those affirmations the second you say them✨ The sneaky link between generic affirmations and feeling like a fraud✨ Why worthiness and imposter syndrome are so deeply connected✨ The process I use to create affirmations that actually transform, rather than triggerI’ll walk you through how to move from empty words to affirmations that land on a soul level—ones that not only feel true but empower you to finally launch that course, pitch that podcast, press ‘go live,’ or say yes to the opportunities you’ve been holding back from.And because I know how powerful this practice can be, I’ve created a free playbook called Rewire & Rise - your guide to rewriting affirmations that connect with your truth, rewire your subconscious, and help you rise into the next version of yourself.👉 Grab it here: www.coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/freebie👉 If this episode hits home, share it with your bestie (and don’t forget to leave a review! Your review helps this podcast create the ripple effects and reach even more women).Review the Podcast:⁠ ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠⁠LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com 

On this episode I’m joined by Elisha Tamasi, The Polynesian Life Coach. You guys know I love a good old raw, real and juicy chat, especially when it comes to sharing a story that can change someone’s life.From the age of 6, Elisha felt different. She grew up in government housing in “the hood”, had big dreams, went left when everyone else was going right, yet deep down she battled with body shame and searched for freedom, worthiness and self acceptance,recalling her first diet at the tender age of 11.Now, Elisha Tamasi is a Self Love and Confidence Coach dedicated to empowering women to embrace their worthiness, love what they see in the mirror, and step boldly into their power. Through her coaching and signature program, Destination Self Love, Elisha helps women break free from the chokehold of dieting, perfectionism, and self criticism to reclaim their confidence and live unapologetically as their most authentic selves.Jump in with me as we weave our way through Elisha's life and witness her "unbecoming" from external expectations and comes home to herself with self love and compassion.Connect with Elisha:@thepolynesianlifecoach on Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Youtube. And check out this incredibale opportunity to join her coaching program - Destination Self Love - fully funded! Complete your online application - https://form.jotform.com/252128635988874Connect with Jess:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

After a foggy morning in Sydney and an emotionally heavy day, I want to explore the truth that so many female entrepreneurs avoid - the power of sitting in the discomfort AND understanding your body!Instead of rushing through the hard days, what happens when we actually pause and listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us? Is it your nervous system sabotaging your next level?How can you create new safety in the discomfort?In this episode, you’ll hear:My emotional crash and what it sparked in meMy childhood stress that showed up in my body How our bodies physically react to playing small, self-silencing, and avoiding truthThe subconscious patterns that whisper “Who do you think you are?”The real reason my throat would literally shut down every time I spoke my truth on cameraHow to tell the difference between your body saying rest vs your fear keeping you “safe”Tired of second guessing, done with self silencing, and ready to reclaim your fire ?Book a free 20 minute chat to see how I can support you to go deeper to untangle the fear and doubt that is holding you back from unshakable safety while growing your business with boldness.LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

Ever felt that ick feeling of stuckness lingering in you when you think about your business?Overwhelmed with the sheer question of how do you undo the overwhelm?But the answer is simple However it requires patience, discipline, commitment and consistency In this episode I want to share with you a lesson I learned recently that helps to answer this loaded question.And it doesn't just apply to your business, it applies to life and your mindset is as much a part of this!The big chunky stone over feeling stuck and overwhelmed becomes what you choose to create with it.LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Discover the 3 codes to rewire the thoughts holding you back from growing your business and rise! - grab your free playbook here: https://coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/freebie Review the Podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠

This one’s raw, real, and straight from a shower download — no notes, just truth bombs.As a woman building a business (and building a new version of yourself), this episode is your reminder: the way you speak to yourself will make or break your experience of life.I’m going all in on the power of inner dialogue, subconscious beliefs, and why shifting the voice inside your head is the biggest game changer you'll ever make. We’re calling out the self doubt, the toxic self talk, the comparison traps... and we’re replacing them with fire, confidence, and grounded self-leadership.Because the most important relationship in your life? It's the one you have with yourself!!! You’re not here to play small.!! You’re here to trailblaze.In this episode:How your self-talk shapes your realityWhy your subconscious beliefs are holding you backWhat to do when you’re the one tearing yourself downPractical ways to shift your inner voice and step into your girl on fire mindsetNeed support with this work?I’ve got a FREE resource to help you start shifting your internal dialogue today. Grab your instant download here: https://coaching.jesssotoramirez.com/freebieTo keep the conversation going, DM me @jesssotoramirez Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Share this with someone who needs to hear it. Let’s stop playing small!

Got a big idea, then instantly talk yourself out of it?In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful breakthrough from a recent coaching call — and the 3 questions that can snap you out of fear and self-doubt before it spirals.🔥 You’ll learn:Why self-doubt kicks in right after inspiration hitsHow scarcity thinking sneaks in and keeps you smallThe 3 questions to shift your mindset and move forward instantly I know you're over falling down the spiral, so this episode will show you how to STOP getting stuck in the deep dark hole of doubt and start backing yourself!https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7 DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ 💌 Share this with a queen who needs to hear it. Let’s go!

If you ask me, this is a pretty funny episode [at my expense] yet deeply insightful as I share a story that starts with an awkward [and wildly uncomfortable] on-stage moment involving a fluffy pink sloth, a lap dance competition, and a crowd of strangers - and evolves into a powerful reflection on business, integrity, and staying true to yourself.Let's chat aboutRecognising when something doesn’t feel rightThe importance of tuning into your inner "yes" and "no"The pressure to perform or show up a certain way for approval - in life and businessWhy listening to your inner compass matters more than following someone else's formula.The subtle but powerful difference between pushing your comfort zone vs. compromising your values.How to resist the “shoulds” and stay anchored in what actually feels aligned for you.Tune in!LET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠

This episode is here to challenge the quiet woman in you who feels like she can't fully speak with confidence!If you:You feel like you're bothering othersApologise often, even unnecessarilyAvoid asking for help or following up on opportunitiesStruggle to say "no" Are a people pleaserFear being seen as pushy, rude, or arrogantDilute your words to avoid judgmentStay quiet instead of speaking your truthListen in!It's time to move past the deeply ingrained fear of "taking up space"!So many women are unknowingly seeking permission to speak, act, and pursue what they want. Let's untangle where this is coming from and get your voice heard so you can create your dream!It's time to step out of shrinking habits and own your voice unapologetically!Want help with this? Let's book a time to chat! Here: ⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠Or DM me on Instagram: ⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠ 

Life will test you amiga. It’ll throw a whole lot of sh*t your way! Let's be real.This raw and unfiltered episode is for you if you're filled with confusion, frustration, and “WTF am I doing?” energy.I want to remind you, struggle doesn't mean failure. You are not alone, and you are not behind. You have something powerful inside you.If you're:questioning your path...feeling stuck, unseen, or uninspired...If you need a hug in podcast form...Listen in. This one's for you.You're a change maker, impact driven and a heart led visionary. Your voice matters. You're worthy. And this messy moment? It's part of your becoming.Send this to someone who’s in the thick of it right now.Hit the share icon xLET'S CONNECT:DM me - ⁠⁠www.instagram.com/jesssotoramirez⁠⁠ Let's work together - book a call:⁠⁠https://calendar.app.google/i8MgfB4LpFxWrY7n7⁠⁠⁠www.jesssotoramirez.com⁠ Review the Podcast:⁠ ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ignite-with-jess-soto-ramirez/id1650700891⁠⁠