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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships
Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships
Author: George Lizos
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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com
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Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/How many ways do you know to masturbate? If you've been using the same technique since you were a teenager, you might be missing out on a whole world of sexual pleasure. In this educational solo episode, I'm exploring 12 male masturbation techniques to help you experiment with different sensations, discover new turn-ons, and develop a deeper understanding of your body. We'll look at how changing the way you stimulate yourself can make solo sex more varied, pleasurable, and satisfying, whether you're gay, bisexual, queer, or simply curious about exploring male pleasure. I'll also explore how mindfulness, body awareness, and sexual experimentation can help you move beyond habitual masturbation and become more connected to your pleasure. From experimenting with different types of stimulation to understanding your personal preferences and exploring pleasure beyond orgasm, this episode is an invitation to approach masturbation with curiosity, confidence, and a sense of play. You'll come away with ideas for expanding your solo sex experiences and learning more about what genuinely turns you on. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkitJoin the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.56: Circumcision Myths, Intactivism, and Foreskin Restoration with Georganne Chapin: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/6718dc98ba9ea08cd85b701fEp. 57: Manual Foreskin Restoration Techniques with Tim Hammond: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/672caeef1e4926b519b98144Ep.33: Masturbation Techniques for Men with Cam Fraser: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0c5Apply for the Next Chapter Mentorship: https://georgelizos.com/the-next-chapterCONNECT WITH MEInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/MY BOOKSBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/What if the secret to mind-blowing sex has less to do with what you do with your penis and more to do with how you touch, kiss, and connect with your partner? In this educational solo episode, I'm diving into the science of sexual touch, kissing, and erogenous zones to help you discover new ways of giving and receiving pleasure. I'll walk you through five different types of touch, from feather-light strokes and firm pressure to scratching, nibbling, and stillness, explaining how different sensations affect the nervous system and why what feels incredible to one person might do absolutely nothing for another. I'll also share kissing techniques and explore the often-overlooked erogenous zones of the male body, including the neck, nipples, back, inner thighs, hands, and feet. We'll also explore the neuroscience of pleasure and the five variables that can transform almost any sexual experience: pressure, speed, texture, temperature, and rhythm. I'll introduce you to Sensate Focus, a sex therapy exercise designed to help you explore physical sensations without the pressure to perform, maintain an erection, or reach orgasm. Throughout the episode, I'll share practical exercises you can try alone or with a partner to discover your unique turn-ons, communicate your preferences, and become a more attentive lover. Whether you're a top, bottom, vers, or side, this episode will help you expand your understanding of male pleasure and discover how much more there is to sex than penetration. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkitJoin the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.85: Dentist Tips for Oral Health, Bad Breath, and Better Blowjobs with Dr Brian Novy: https://georgelizos.com/blog/dentist-tips-for-oral-health-bad-breath-and-better-blowjobs-with-dr-brian-novyApply for the Next Chapter Mentorship: https://georgelizos.com/the-next-chapterCONNECT WITH MEInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/MY BOOKSBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Why can a seemingly small moment with someone you love suddenly bring up overwhelming shame, anxiety, anger, or fear? In this personal solo episode, I explore why romantic relationships can activate some of our deepest wounds and how our triggers can become doorways into unresolved trauma. I share a vulnerable experience from my own relationship that triggered a freeze response around sex, shame, and performance, and how I recognized what was happening and brought myself back into safety. I then guide you through the three-step process I use to work with relationship triggers: regulating your nervous system, acknowledging and expressing what you’re feeling, and exploring the deeper experiences underneath the trigger. We talk about fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses, nervous system regulation, the wet noodle technique, box breathing, the butterfly hug, somatic awareness, and journaling questions for identifying where a trigger began. This episode will help you understand what your body may be trying to communicate when you get triggered and approach those moments with greater awareness and care. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkitJoin the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Explore my Fear Buster Session: https://georgelizos.com/product/fear-busterCONNECT WITH MEInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/MY BOOKSBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/For gay men who dream of becoming dads, adoption can feel like a maze of options, costs, legal requirements, and ethical questions. In this episode, I sit down with Amos Wolff to create a practical guide to adoption for gay men. We explore domestic and international adoption, foster-to-adopt, open versus closed adoption, realistic costs, discrimination gay couples may encounter, and what happens when an international adoption initially recognizes only one father as the legal parent. We also go beyond the logistics to explore what’s actually best for the child. We discuss attachment and trauma, maintaining connections with birth families, talking to children openly about their adoption story, navigating changing boundaries in open adoption, and the psychological preparation prospective gay dads should consider before becoming parents. We finish by comparing adoption and surrogacy through the financial, legal, psychological, and ethical questions gay men may want to consider when deciding how to build their family. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ABOUT AMOS WOLFFAfter a decade-long career as an actor, Amos refocused his passion for storytelling to be of service to individuals, couples, and families on their quest to reconcile relationships and explore identity and is now a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. KingfisherMFT was founded in 2021 in order to provide quality care to queer and allied communities, and to mentor a next generation of intersectional systemic thinkers. Amos lives with his husband, their adoptive children, and dog HattieMae.Website: https://kingfishermft.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kingfishermft/CONNECT WITH MEInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/MY BOOKSBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Season five kicks off with a bang as I take you inside my wildest summer yet, spanning London, Barcelona, and New York City. From sex parties and dark rooms to cruising parks, hostel shower hookups, and unexpected group encounters, I’m sharing the highs, the awkward moments, and everything I learned from pushing my sexual boundaries. Along the way, I also reflect on how understanding my neurodivergence has helped me make more sense of overstimulation, consent, boundaries, and what I actually need to feel safe, comfortable, and turned on. But underneath all the sex, something deeper started to emerge. What began as my first summer of complete sexual freedom after becoming single gradually revealed a craving for intimacy, tenderness, and genuine connection. From unexpectedly wanting to hold hands with strangers in Barcelona to meeting a gorgeous Spanish guy during my final days in New York, this episode is about what happens when a summer devoted to being single, slutty, and free ends with the one thing I definitely wasn’t looking for: falling for someone. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.55: Orgies, Sex Parties and the City Part I: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/67065c2447b414d1544aa774Ep.77: Sex Shame, OnlyFans, and My Top Era: https://georgelizos.com/blog/sex-shame-onlyfans-and-my-top-eraCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.




