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Help is Here - Beyond Porn Addiction

Author: Thomas Molyneux

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After 9 years in a porn addiction, Tom Molyneux met Mari Paulus who taught him how to connect to compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change his addicted neural pathways.

Here at the Beyond Compulsion Academy, we are on a mission to empower the disempowered and help people learn how to stay stopped correctly, without using willpower.

www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com to learn more.

Email - thomas@beyondcompulsionacademy.com
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Subscribe to Joe's YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@joeybeyondcompulsionLearn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comJoin the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyListen to Joe's journey through addiction recovery, focusing on his experiences with various programs, including the Beyond Compulsion Academy.We explore the limitations of traditional approaches to addiction, the concept of full-time addiction, and the importance of changing neural pathways.Joe shares insights on how the Beyond Compulsion method has transformed his life, emphasizing the significance of education and community support in overcoming compulsive behaviors. The conversation concludes with reflections on the journey towards recovery and the potential for personal growth.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests03:15 Joe's Journey with Beyond Compulsion Academy05:28 Critique of Previous Programs10:15 The Limitations of Traditional Approaches15:16 Understanding Full-Time Addiction24:44 The Impact of Addiction on Life28:56 Navigating Unanswerable Questions in Addiction29:46 Understanding the Addictive Mind30:16 Exploring Recovery Programs34:03 The Impact of Comparison in Recovery39:55 Life Beyond Compulsion44:19 Building Confidence Through Experience50:04 The Power of Community and Sharing Experiences
Book a 1-1 Discovery Call with me at https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughCompulsion Test: https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardIn this episode of the Help is Here podcast, Tom and Mari delve into the complex world of junkie thoughts and unanswerable questions.They emphasize that having these thoughts is a natural part of the recovery process and discuss how awareness and understanding can empower individuals to regain control over their compulsive behaviors. Through client experiences, they explore the impact of denial, the importance of present moment awareness, and dealing with the addicted part of the mind directly.The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding addiction, including survivorship bias, and concludes with a message of hope for those wishing for permanent mental freedom.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Junkie Thoughts03:04 Understanding Junkie Thoughts and Unanswerable Questions05:54 Client Experiences with Junkie Thoughts08:58 The Impact of Denial and Rationalisation11:55 Empowerment Through Awareness14:54 Addressing Unanswerable Questions17:46 Understanding Addiction and Unanswerable Questions20:46 The Role of Compulsive Behaviour in Addiction23:38 Junkie Thoughts and Their Impact on Recovery27:28 Survivorship Bias and Misconceptions about Addiction30:46 Managing Addictive Thinking36:49 Rewiring Neural Pathways for Recovery#junkythoughts, #unanswerablequestions, #addictionrecovery #compulsivebehaviour, #mindfulness #neuralpathways, #empowerment #denial #rationalisation #BeyondCompulsionAcademy #pornaddiction #addicted #nofap
Comfort is the enemy of the truth.Choosing discomfort can unlock a path to a greater level of freedom than you can even imagine right now.If you want to discover how to take control of your mind and stop engaging in compulsive behaviours, book a free 1-1 discovery call with Tom at https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough
More analysis of junkie thoughts today!Learn how to master your mind by understanding and correctly responding to the addicted part of the mind.Freedom is possible for anyone willing to do the necessary work.Learn how to stop watching porn by receiving the right training at https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery
Some of our clients have been in a porn addiction for decades. But, this does not mean they will continue to stay stuck.Change is possible for anybody willing to do the necessary work.Learn how to stop watching porn by receiving the right training at https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery
When did overcoming porn addiction become all about working out and eating broccoli and watercress?We are living in crazy times and if you are not careful, you could end up spinning in circles trying ridiculous things to end your porn addiction.Want to get started on learning what porn addiction recovery is actually all about? You can watch the free training video at www.beyondcompulsioacademy.com#pornaddiction #watercress #broccoli #mushrooms #quitbyhealing #addictionrecovery
If you have been stuck in a cycle of relapse and streaks, continually doing work on trauma or feelings of shame - this episode is for you.We explore a very different approach towards porn addiction recovery.One which focuses on dealing with desires first, and trauma second.Are you struggling to stop engaging in a compulsive behaviour you want to stop?Learn how to deal with desires very directly and take back complete control of your mind by getting the right training at https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy
Book in a 1-1 discovery call to explore joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughDownload the free remember letter booklet -https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberlettersI share a client’s remember letter.
I share how different approaches can impact your chances of success in overcoming porn addiction.Book a free 1-1 discovery call with me - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough#pornaddiction #freedom #addictionrecovery
Book in a 1-1 discovery call to explore joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughDownload the free remember letter booklet -https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberlettersI share one of my remember letters.
Your strategy will either empower you to make rational choices or keep you stuck in a cycle of helplessness.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comBook a free 1-1 discovery call with me - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough#pornaddiction #freedom #addictionrecovery
If you think you may be struggling with a porn addiction, take the compulsion test at https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardMany people who struggle with porn addiction eventually develop a tolerance to vanilla content.We explain what is going on here.#femdom #sissy #findomaddiction
Learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comUrologist talks about changes in semen volume and quality when discussing No Nut November.#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #nonutnovember #nnn
Do wet dreams count as a relapse?Can you avoid them?What do they mean for your porn addiction recovery?I share my experience of wet dreams and provide clarity on how to move on if you have one.If you wish to stop watching porn and feel good about doing so, head over to www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com to see if we can help you.
Scandinavian Bob who runs the Dopamine Focused Warriors YouTube channel seems like a nice, direct guy who wants to help people.No doubt there will be many who feel supported by him and that is great.We are also confident his videos are created with the purpose of helping others.However, the problem is that the content created uses information from other sources which are also ineffective for actually overcoming porn addiction.Sources such as Dopamine Nation and Your Brain on Porn are cited. And as we have explained in other videos, such books are filled with helpless, disempowering language and provide no real solution. These are the kinds of books that regurgitated the same information and kept me (Tom) stuck in a porn addiction for 10 years. Now that I am out of that mess, I want to share with the world what doesn’t work and provide those who wish for serious change  an alternative solution. A solution built with Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy at its foundations.If you feel like you keep relapsing, even after learning more and more about porn addiction, we are here to share that it’s not your fault. There is nothing wrong with you. You just haven’t been taught how to stop yet!#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery
Take the compulsion test to receive a score out of 100 = www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardIn this episode, we dive deep into the difference between avoiding compulsive desires and learning how to directly deal with them.NoFap, self-improvement, and streaks often focus on behavior — but real transformation comes from building a consistent, repeatable skill: dealing with desire itself.We talk about how to:Stop relying on streaks as your measure of progressDevelop the inner skill of thinking through urges instead of fighting themCreate a non-changing, repeatable approach to working with compulsive desiresUnderstand why this practice is separate from “self-improvement” or external motivationBook a 1-1 Discovery Call with Tom at: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough
Most people are stuck getting bullied by the addicted part of the mind.I share how to identify this bullying so you can stop wasting time going round in circles trying to answer unanswerable questions. And instead, focus on what really matters - learning to deal with the addicted part of the mind correctly.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com
Explore Joining The Beyond Compulsion Academy on a 1-1 discovery call: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughI share my experience of living life without porn and without removing any triggers.Learn to deal with compulsive desires, and go enjoy your life.
Learn more about changing the way you think so you can overcome porn addiction at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com“Slipping up” when trying to stop watching porn has become the normalised language that people use.I know because I used to minimise and fail to take responsibility by calling my choices to engage a “slip up” in the past too.This kind of language needs to be called out if we are to have any chance of empowering  people to take back control from the addicted part of their mind.
If you think you may also have a problem with porn, take the compulsion test to get a score out of 100 - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardA lot of people have the misconception that they can overcome porn addiction through self-improvement. Dylan McKnight’s porn addiction is a great example of how this approach can go wrong.We share some examples of what sort of thing the addicted part of the mind will say when someone is struggling with porn addiction.
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