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Help is Here - Beyond Porn Addiction

Author: Thomas Molyneux

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After 9 years in a porn addiction, Tom Molyneux met Mari Paulus who taught him how to connect to compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change his addicted neural pathways.

Here at the Beyond Compulsion Academy, we are on a mission to empower the disempowered and help people learn how to stay stopped correctly, without using willpower.

www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com to learn more.

Email - thomas@beyondcompulsionacademy.com
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Subscribe to Joe's YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@joeybeyondcompulsionLearn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.comJoin the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyListen to Joe's journey through addiction recovery, focusing on his experiences with various programs, including the Beyond Compulsion Academy.We explore the limitations of traditional approaches to addiction, the concept of full-time addiction, and the importance of changing neural pathways.Joe shares insights on how the Beyond Compulsion method has transformed his life, emphasizing the significance of education and community support in overcoming compulsive behaviors. The conversation concludes with reflections on the journey towards recovery and the potential for personal growth.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests03:15 Joe's Journey with Beyond Compulsion Academy05:28 Critique of Previous Programs10:15 The Limitations of Traditional Approaches15:16 Understanding Full-Time Addiction24:44 The Impact of Addiction on Life28:56 Navigating Unanswerable Questions in Addiction29:46 Understanding the Addictive Mind30:16 Exploring Recovery Programs34:03 The Impact of Comparison in Recovery39:55 Life Beyond Compulsion44:19 Building Confidence Through Experience50:04 The Power of Community and Sharing Experiences
Book a 1-1 Discovery Call with me at https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughCompulsion Test: https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecardIn this episode of the Help is Here podcast, Tom and Mari delve into the complex world of junkie thoughts and unanswerable questions.They emphasize that having these thoughts is a natural part of the recovery process and discuss how awareness and understanding can empower individuals to regain control over their compulsive behaviors. Through client experiences, they explore the impact of denial, the importance of present moment awareness, and dealing with the addicted part of the mind directly.The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding addiction, including survivorship bias, and concludes with a message of hope for those wishing for permanent mental freedom.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Junkie Thoughts03:04 Understanding Junkie Thoughts and Unanswerable Questions05:54 Client Experiences with Junkie Thoughts08:58 The Impact of Denial and Rationalisation11:55 Empowerment Through Awareness14:54 Addressing Unanswerable Questions17:46 Understanding Addiction and Unanswerable Questions20:46 The Role of Compulsive Behaviour in Addiction23:38 Junkie Thoughts and Their Impact on Recovery27:28 Survivorship Bias and Misconceptions about Addiction30:46 Managing Addictive Thinking36:49 Rewiring Neural Pathways for Recovery#junkythoughts, #unanswerablequestions, #addictionrecovery #compulsivebehaviour, #mindfulness #neuralpathways, #empowerment #denial #rationalisation #BeyondCompulsionAcademy #pornaddiction #addicted #nofap
Book a call if you want to explore joining BCA with me over the phone: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughLearn how to build a script to deal with all compulsive desires, moment by moment, and change your neural pathways correctly: https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy/aboutI share a remember letter which I think a lot of people will relate to. Feel free to comment your experience with any of this below in the comments.#sissy #sissyhypno #shemales #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery
Learn how to build a script to deal with all compulsive desires, moment by moment, and change your neural pathways correctly: https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy/aboutRead other people’s Remember Letters: https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberlettersBook a call if you want to explore joining BCA with me over the phone: https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughIn this video, I reply to two recent YouTube comments:“Hey Tom thanks for this video could you make a video on how you should think in the exact moment you choose to make that change after a relapse. A million stuff go through my mind in that moment and like you said always searching for more” and “Basically you said to not be focusing on what we shouldn't do because it creates resistance in the mind and deprivation based thinking. But in that moment of desire by making the choice of discomfort isn't that having some resistance? I don't quite get the difference. Also, I was doing pretty well and made the wrong choice now which has completely hit me, how do I now make the solemn decision to no longer go back again?”#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery
I reply to recent YouTube comment: “I would love if you went more in depth into the self help compulsion. I got tricked by that stuff and it drove me manic when trying to get this corn compulsion under control.”Learn how to build a script to deal with all compulsive desires, moment by moment, and change your neural pathways correctly: https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy/about#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery
We share how people are not destined to stay addicted to femdom for life and how they can take control of their choices, moment by moment.Start rewiring your brain by joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyLearn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#femdomaddiction #femdom #addictionrecovery
Start to rewire your brain in less than 14 days by joining the Beyond Compulsion Academy - https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyWe discuss how you truly can start to take back control of your mind from the moment you know how to deal with compulsive desires correctly.#pornaddictionrecovery #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery
If you want to take the next step, you can learn how to deal with your desires in a rational way at: https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academyPeople often think their desires are due to depression or an unfulfilling life.This leads to them working on many different areas of their life, but still having the desires.Eventually, they get fed up with this and go ahead and relapse.People get stuck in a revolving door of relapse and self-improvement.I know that door well as I went through it countless times over a number of years.In this episode, we explain why people really have desires for porn.#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery
If you would like to learn the same method that I have used to solve my porn addiction, book in a free discovery call - https://calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthroughIn the Beyond Compulsion method we bring awareness to three parts involved in addiction.Usually, we discuss the addicted part of the mind and the rational part of the mind.However, in this episode, we discuss the third player involved.#addictionrecovery #pornaddiction
We discuss how people can get trapped stuck in the relapse data cycle. Often we call these guys circle people.A better approach is to learn to deal with compulsive desires directly and then live your life freely on the straight line.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddictionrecovery #pornaddiction
I used to believe I had something called POIS.That was when I was struggling with a porn addiction.Nowadays, I do not believe any speculation around the symptoms of POIS is useful as once you know how to deal with the addicted part of the mind effectively, the “symptoms” are negligible.Learn more about overcoming porn addiction at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pois #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #postorgasmicillnesssyndrome
I received the comment below on a recent YouTube video:“Hi, do you think that maybe in the future (if you haven't already) you could do a video on how porn addiction can lead to cuckold fantasies and desires?”In this video I respond to this comment sharing my perspective on if porn addiction can lead to cuckold fantasies.Learn more about overcoming porn addiction at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com
We talk about how food compulsion can get in the way of people’s ability to overcome their porn addiction.Learn more about dealing with your desires to change your neural pathways at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddiction #nofap #addictionrecovery #foodcompulsion #obesity #foodaddiction
We discuss why motivation and NoFap streaks rarely result in long term, sustainable changes.Learn more about dealing with your desires to change your neural pathways at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddiction #nofap #addictionrecovery
Femdom Addiction can be challenging to overcome, but if you choose to be proactive - you can overcome this addiction for good.Book a call - calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddictionrecovery #newyearsresolutions #addictionrecovery #femdom
Throughout 2025, I have become even clearer on what leads to success in overcoming porn addiction.I share what I have learned during 2025.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddictionrecovery #addictionrecovery #pornaddiction
In the moment of compulsive desire, you have two choices.But, the addicted part of the mind will try and make your choice about anything but what it truly is.I talk about how conflated thinking can lead to relapse.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery #addictionrecovery
Every year I used to write in my journal “do not go on Instagram” alongside many other goals focused on “not” doing something.I explain how these goals result in relapse.If you would like to explore proactively rewiring your brain to achieve freedom from porn addiction, you can book a free 1-1 discovery call with me.Book a call - calendly.com/beyondcompulsion/breakthrough Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddictionrecovery #newyearsresolutions #addictionrecovery
In this episode, I share how 2025 was the most successful year of my life and some of the most crucial lessons I have learned.Find out if you are addicted to porn by taking the compulsion test and receiving a score out of 100 - www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecard#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery
In this episode, I share a lesson from Wife Swap and the crucial change I needed to make to overcome my porn addiction for good.Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery
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