EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss:what PDA is as a theorized profile of autismvarying perspectives about PDAco-occurring conditions and their overlap with PDAsupport strategies and how to continue learningRESOURCES⚡️ download my free PDA guide⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Amber Arrington discuss:the emotional and practical journey of receiving and embracing 3 autism diagnoses, reflecting on the changes in understanding and approaches over timethe significance of community, self-education, and tailored support in navigating the autism parenting experiencethe evolving conversation around autism therapies, particularly ABA, and the shift towards a neurodiversity-affirming perspective that celebrates individual strengths and needsRESOURCES⚡️ Register for The Autism Savvy Summit: While You Wait Edition⚡️ connect with Amber Arrington, autism mom and founder of Autism Savvy >>Instagram @autismsavvyTikTok @autismsavvyOrder Amber's book Not Atypical Motherhood: The Guide For Navigating a Child's New Autism Diagnosis⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay, Chris Wenger, and Jessie Ginsburg discuss:the impact of embracing neurodiversity in speech therapy, focusing on intrinsic motivation and sensory integrationchallenges and solutions for implementing sensory-friendly practices in therapy and educational settingsadvice for parents on advocating for neuroaffirming approaches and navigating school systemsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Chris Wenger, CCC-SLP @speechdude on Instagram and TikTok >>DM the word “BANANAS” for his neuroaffirming resources⚡️ connect with Jessie Ginsburg, MS, CCC-SLP @sensory.slp on Instagram and TikTok >>order Jessie's book Ready, Set Connect: A Sensory Based Approach to Accelerate Communication in Autistic Children⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:the complex issue of seeking a cure for autism, including the risks and ethical concerns of treatments like chelation and hyperbaric oxygen therapythe shift towards acceptance and neurodiversity, highlighting the value of unconditional love and present parenting in the autism communitydebunking myths around autism recovery, such as reducing screen time, and stressing the importance of accurate information and holistic family supportRESOURCES⚡️ your next episode >> 96 | key autism parenting mindset shifts⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

Dr. Tay and Elizabeth Duttera from @aut2ask discuss:Elizabeth's personal advocacy sparked by her late diagnosis and how individual stories can highlight broader issues within the autism community.insights from the Aut2Ask survey struggles with accessing affordable support and the necessity for systemic and policy changes to provide better resources for autistic individuals.RESOURCES⚡️ complete the Aut2Ask Survey⚡️ connect with Elizabeth >>Instagram @aut2askX @aut2ask ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Malia Phelps Waller discuss:transitioning to homeschooling: Malia's journey from public schooling to a play-based homeschooling approach during the pandemic.homeschooling methodologies: discussions on unschooling, Montessori, and eclectic styles, emphasizing child-centered education.practical homeschooling aspects: navigating state regulations, curriculum choices, and integrating real-world experiences for learning.RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Malia Phelps Waller homeschool mama, special educator and BCBAMalia's WebsiteInstagram @maliaphelpswallerhomeschoolFacebook @maliaphelpswallerhomeschoolDownload Malia's Homeschool Toolbox⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Brittyn Coleman, Registered Dietitian, discuss:the overlap between sensory experiences and eating for autistic childrensensory-friendly strategies to diversify diets and support gut healthoffering practical advice for parents on supporting their autistic children with feeding therapy and neurodivergent affirming approachesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Brittyn Colemanvisit her website (including her 5-day workshop + membership)Instagram @autismdietitianTikTok @autismdietitian Facebook @autismdietitianYouTube @autismdietitian⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Liz Angoff, an educational psychologist, discuss:the importance of parents embracing and understanding neurodiversity and how they can help their child understand how their brain works empowering strategies and how-tos for parents to discuss autism with their child, including relatable metaphors and AI toolsemphasizing ongoing, open conversations with your family about autism (including with siblings)RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Dr. Liz AngoffInstagram @explainingbrainshttps://explainingbrains.com/autism⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Donna Henderson define the following:PDAinteroception and emotionsneurocrashautistic burnoutRSDautigender RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Donna Henderson, clinical neuropsychologist https://www.drdonnahenderson.com/her book along with Drs. Sarah Wayland and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"Donna's practice: https://stixrud.com/⚡️ additional resources mentioned by Dr. Hendersonhttps://www.kelly-mahler.com/neurodivergentinsights.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses:her journey from graduate school and D1 athletics to specializing in autism, highlighting her personal and professional experiences that shaped her focus.a sneak peek of a new 12-week course on PDA, developed in collaboration with Katherine L'Etang, @theneurodiversitymom, to better serve the autistic communityRESOURCES⚡️ get on the waitlist for the PDA course >> https://link.drtaycoaching.com/widget/form/1K4FJdMEqHU7qVBu9apU⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇this is a special episode to celebrate 100 episodes of autism education here on the podcast. I emphasize the parallel of how consistency and time got me here and how that perfectly describes the autism parenting journey! at the end, I announce a big giveaway - a chance to win a three-month group therapy scholarship. RESOURCES⚡️ 10K GIVEAWAY POST - DETAILS TO ENTER >>https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3nsfwixnXq/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses:Taylor Swift's potential neurodivergence and its relevance to your autistic child.embracing neurodivergence in parenting and advocating for acceptance.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusseslessons learned from her dating experiencethe importance of vulnerability and growthRESOURCES⚡️ No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP discuss:understanding tantrums vs meltdownschild communication and coping strategiesimportance of parent regulation during meltdownsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP. she is a parent coach and founder of Orchid Kids.Instagram @speechkidsdcLinkedIn @gabriele-nicoletFacebook @ gabriele.nicoletSubstack @gabrielenicolethttps://www.raisingorchidkids.com/https://www.speechkids.com/⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:emphasizing flexibility in parenting autistic children, adapting to their unique needs.encouraging parents to accept uncertainties and learn alongside their child.understanding and embracing neurodivergent perspectives over conventional expectations.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Katherine L'Etang of @theneurodiversitymom discuss:The journey of self-realization as an autistic woman and navigating life with autistic children.Learning about neurodiversity and how to become an advocate.Insights into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a profile of autism, and adopting a neuroaffirming low demand lifestyle.RESOURCES⚡️⚡️ connect with Katherine L'EtangInstagram + TikTok @theneurodiversitymomhttps://www.theneurodiversitymom.net/⚡️ also discussed in this episode was Erin of @spinsandstomps roadmap (PS she was on the pod too - episode 68). download it here 👇🏼https://www.spinsandstomps.com/resources⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Arielle Rubin, a board-certified child and adolescent psychiatrist, discuss:the field of psychiatry and its role in diagnosing autism and co-occurring conditionstreating anxiety, depression, and ADHD in the context of autismdifferent options and considerations when it comes to medicationRESOURCES⚡️⚡️Connect with Dr. Arielle Rubin >>Instagram @ariellerubinmdhttp://www.ariellerubinmd.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tayplease note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFTABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Pasha Marlowe, marriage and family therapist / neurodiversity coach, discuss: challenges in family relationships when children or partners are neurodivergentthe role of communication and balancing individual needs in neurodivergent familiesinsights on redefining perceptions and thriving in neurodiversityRESOURCES⚡️Connect with Pasha Marlowe >>on LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, and Facebookhttps://pashamarlowe.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:the concept of getting “delulu” in the context of autism parentingbelieving in your autistic child's communication and developmental potential through various methodsthe transformative effect of applying 'getting delulu' to personal growth and aspirationsRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and anti-hustle coach + autism parent Marisa Hohaia discuss:her family's autism journey, the impact of her son's diagnosis on her work, and her philosophy of living that helps them navigate through their lifethe importance of enjoying the present moment and letting go of expectations in the autism journey, emphasizing how not getting caught up in a rigid vision for the future can open up more room for joy and progress in the present.manifestation in the context of autism parenting, suggesting that while parents can't directly shape or control their child's journey, they can manifest and attract necessary support, resources, and growth experiences.RESOURCES⚡️continue to learn from Marisa >>follow on Instagramcheck out resources on her website breakupwithbusy.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.