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Author: Deadra Ussery

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Welcome to a space where it's not only okay, but encouraged to open up, vent, and express yourself freely. This is your safe haven to unpack everything—whether it’s the ups and downs of love and relationships, navigating the chaos of trending topics, or tackling the real talk about life as we approach (and live through) our 30s. From personal growth and mental health to pop culture, career struggles, and everything in between, we're diving deep into the things that matter most, and we're doing it unapologetically. Get ready to rant, laugh, reflect, and maybe even heal, one episode at a time
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Deadra is catching you up on her life and love life. She is telling you about how the government told us aliens are real (duh), expressing her troubles with dating, and when to look out for your manifestations. We call this episode "the case of the rambles". Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram, TikTok, & Twitter: deadraaaa Intro & Outro Music Details: Music track: Love by Amine Maxwell Source: https://freetouse.com/music No Copyright Music for Video (Free)
This week we are breaking down all of Deadra's hot takes or unpopular opinions. She is breaking down the Kardashian sister feud, out of touch NYC influencers, and the tea on the Drake concert. Another juicy trending topic this week as well. Also, did we peep the new intro and outro?! Make sure to follow Deadra on all her social media platforms listed below so you can keep up with all the updates! Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram, TikTok, & Twitter: deadraaaa Intro & Outro Music Details: Music track: Love by Amine Maxwell Source: https://freetouse.com/music No Copyright Music for Video (Free)
If you predicted this week's trending topic, you are correct. We are jumping right into the OceanGate, Titanic madness. Deadra gives you her opinion on all things submersible, even if no one asked for it. Last week was the first day of summer so let's create our summer bucket list together. Deadra spills all her amazing product recommendations and tells you how to keep your spirits high. Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram: deadraaaa ISTM Podcast Apple Music playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/istm-podcast/pl.u-76oNNdMuWjbgza Products Mentioned: Reoria Crop Top EOS 24-Hour Moisture Body Lotion in vanilla cashmere Fenty Perfume Loving Tan Luminous Cream Sun Bum Tanning Lotion Trucker Hats Rice Water Facial Cleanser Elf Halo Glow Liquid Filter
Deadra is discussing it all today. Recent conversations with her ex, black women on reality dating TV shows, and the crazy cheating scandal that has taken over your social media feed. It's our favorite chit chatty trending topic episodes and it is a good one. Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram: deadraaaa ISTM Podcast Apple Music playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/istm-podcast/pl.u-76oNNdMuWjbgza
This week Deadra is telling us how she is surviving a rough work week and how she is using that energy to help take her life to the next episode. From breaking down the lost generation to Reddit dating stories, we are talking about everything this episode. Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram: deadraaaa ISTM Podcast Apple Music playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/istm-podcast/pl.u-76oNNdMuWjbgza
We are back with the word vomiting of emotions. Deadra’s long-awaited return is here, and she is letting you know what she has been up to. She explains how she spent her time off and gives tips and tricks for when she’s in a rut. Life has been crazy, and you know Deadra will talk about it.   ISTM PODCAST Playlist on Apple & Spotify Instagram: istm.podcast TikTok: deadraaaa
On our last episode of the season, we are going through three trending topics that did not make the cut and talking about all the things Deadra has learned this season. We are learning that we can have discipline with the things we love, we need to take a moment to smell the roses, and much more. After this episode we are taking a small break, but Deadra will be posting on her social media pages which are listed below. Deadra put all of the song of the weeks into one playlist on BOTH Apple Music and Spotify. You can find the links for the playlist and social media pages below.  ISTM PODCAST INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/istm.podcast DEADRA'S INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/deadraaaa DEADRA'S TIKTOK: www.tiktok.com/@deadraaaa ISTM PODCAST PLAYLIST APPLE MUSIC: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/istm-podcast/pl.u-76oNNdMuWjbgza ISTM PODCAST PLAYLIST SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0Bs0v4UqEBQZQzg607pDaG?si=6bafc2f6303b4e69
In today’s episode we are breaking down what it means to be lonely and what it truly means to be alone. We are tackling these hard emotions and recognizing that they are very complexed. Whether it’s from being single, motherhood, or other life changes - it’s okay to admit you are lonely.
Happy Valentine's Day! Today we are talking about all things love but make it all about you. We are breaking down the big three things you should be working on to get where you want to be in  your healing journey. Self love to help you be better to yourself, self worth so you know you deserve better, and self awareness for so you can know when you are not being the best.  If you are spending Valentine's Day alone, spend it with Deadra. If you are not spending Valentine's Day alone, spend it with Deadra anyway. 
Today, Deadra is breaking down all the ups and downs of adult friendships. Navigating new life paths with your close friends, platonic friendships of the opposite sex, and the age-old question of can you be friends with your ex. If you want to hear Deadra spill the TEA this week, stay tuned because this is a good one. 
We are going through all the things Deadra loves the most. Let's take a break from all of our deep emotional episodes and do a little retail therapy. From technology to her favorite body oil. Deadra will also be teaching you all of her tips and tricks that she has learned along the way when it comes to everything skincare. If you go shopping after this episode, she warned you first. 
Today Deadra is discussing all things "no contact". Have you cut off someone in your life recently? She's going to give you the tips and tricks on how to successfully go no contact with ZERO regrets. Things might get petty at first, but we live, and we learn.  If you have someone toxic in your life, listen to this episode and cut them out. Since App link for IOS devices: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/since-day-counter-tracker/id1291763003 www.instagram.com/istm.podcast
1993 babies get ready, we are heading right towards 30. On today's episode of Okay I Said Too Much, Deadra is covering all things leading up to 30. Society talks so much about turning 30, but no one discusses 27-29 and the limbo that age leads you into. Relationships, losing weight, and FOMO. Deadra is breaking it all down and telling you some tips and tricks on how to handle it. Deadra (with the help of astrology) is here to tell you why you may be in your late twenties and freaking out.  Clean & Reset Playlist (Apple Music): https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/clean-reset/pl.u-V9D770EuBDLyJo
Who else is sick of every other TikTok being an outrageous dating rule? I know I am. On this episode of ISTM Podcast, Deadra is covering all the things that annoys her about dating and social media dating tips. She goes into detail about how these rules drive her crazy and what she does to combat that. Stick around for her very useful (and only) piece of dating advice and other great tips.  Please remember to like, review, rate, and download ISTM Podcast! Remember, grab a shot and stay awhile.  Instagram: istm.podcast
Do you ever feel like you need to dump all the information and feelings in your brain somewhere? Well, this is the podcast for you. Okay I Said Too Much is the place where nothing has to go left unsaid. Tell me all your feelings because I am definitely going to tell you all of mine. This season we will cover all the things we start to over analyze as we get closer to the big 3-0. No one said it would be easy, but we can talk about that too.
In this episode of 'I Said Too Much Podcast', Deadra explores the complexities of adult friendships, particularly after the age of 30. She discusses the impact of COVID-19 on social connections, the rise of individualism, and the challenges of maintaining friendships in a world that often promotes low maintenance relationships. Deadra shares her personal experiences with social anxiety, the changing expectations around celebrations, and the difficulty of making new friends as adults. Ultimately, she concludes that adult friendships can be disappointing and that navigating them requires effort and understanding of shared values.Instagram: istm.podcastDeadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaaMusic track: Back To Promise by UnheardSource: ⁠⁠https://freetouse.com/music
In this episode, Deadra Ussery delves into the controversial case of Jesse Smollett, exploring the complexities surrounding the incident, the investigation, and the subsequent legal battles. She discusses the impact of media narratives, public perception, and the role of the Chicago police department, while also reflecting on the broader implications of the case in relation to activism and societal issues.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Overview of the Case02:27 The Jesse Smollett Incident: Background and Initial Reactions04:45 Investigation and Controversies10:49 The Arrest and Legal Proceedings16:09 Public Perception and Media Influence21:52 The Aftermath and Ongoing Discussions26:33 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsInstagram: istm.podcastDeadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaaMusic track: Back To Promise by UnheardSource: ⁠⁠https://freetouse.com/music
TikTok's Worst Takes

TikTok's Worst Takes

2025-09-1233:42

In this episode of the I Said Too Much Podcast, discusses various controversial topics trending on TikTok, including dating expectations, financial conversations in relationships, and the impact of social media on self-worth. She critiques the influencer culture that shapes unrealistic standards, particularly for women, and emphasizes the importance of emotional connection over financial expectations. The conversation also touches on political discourse, cultural conversations, and the policing of black women's natural hair, ultimately questioning the exhaustion that comes from societal pressures and expectations.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Podcast Updates02:02 TikTok's Worst Takes: Coffee Dates and Dating Culture08:34 Financial Expectations in Relationships15:30 The Leftist Agenda and Political Discourse19:52 The Gay Son vs. Thought Daughter Debate22:56 Policing Black Women's Hair and Length Retention27:40 Conclusion: Exhaustion from Social Media DiscourseInstagram: istm.podcastDeadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaaMusic track: Back To Promise by UnheardSource: ⁠https://freetouse.com/music
In this episode, Deadra discusses her return to podcasting after a hiatus, inspired by other successful podcasts. She dives into the world of reality dating shows, particularly focusing on 'Perfect Match' and 'Love Island', comparing the USA and UK versions. The conversation explores the challenges of authenticity and diversity in casting for these shows, questioning whether reality dating is still relevant. Deadra concludes with a music recommendation from Bryson Tiller's new album.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Podcast Comeback03:52 Reality Dating Shows Overview08:24 Perfect Match: A Fresh Concept13:16 Love Island vs. Love is Blind18:20 Casting and Authenticity Issues25:09 The Future of Reality Dating Shows31:34 Song of the Week and Closing RemarksInstagram: istm.podcastDeadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaaMusic track: Back To Promise by UnheardSource: https://freetouse.com/music
In this episode of 'Okay, I Said Too Much' podcast, we dive into the hot topic of a potential TikTok ban and its implications for TikTok creators. We discuss whether their content can transition successfully to platforms like YouTube and Instagram, and explore what the future holds for them. Additionally, we touch on the types of content creators, the phenomenon of e-begging on TikTok lives, and some current TikTok lore involving notable creators. Join us as we break down the intricacies of social media shifts and what it means for the digital landscape. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:08 Potential TikTok Ban Explained 03:24 Impact on TikTok Creators 04:41 Content Creators vs Influencers 07:55 The Future of Yapper Content 11:29 E-Begging on TikTok 15:49 Ashley Trevino and TikTok Lore 20:03 Super Five Saga and Controversies 25:04 Challenges of Transitioning Platforms 30:03 Final Thoughts and Questions 34:08 Song of the Week and Conclusion Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaa   Intro & Outro Music Details: Music track: Love by Amine Maxwell Source: https://freetouse.com/music No Copyright Music for Video (Free)
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