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Courtney Robertson is the most notorious villain in Bachelor History. She won Season 16 of The Bachelor and went on to write the New York Times Bestseller "I Didn't Come Here to Make Friends: Confessions of a Reality TV Show Villain"
Now Courtney weighs in on current episodes of the Bachelor Franchise, pop culture news, and every week she talks to other reality stars about how being on reality TV changed their lives for better or for worse.
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In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Chris Lancaster to talk about his experience being in the running to become the next Bachelor. He opens up about the intense casting process—from background checks and psychological evaluations to even being asked by producers to cut his hair to fit the show’s aesthetic.But just as things were gaining momentum, everything shifted. The network pivoted to The Bachelorette with Taylor Frankie Paul, and Chris shares how producers then encouraged him to join her season as a contestant instead.He was told that going on her season could eventually lead to him becoming the Bachelor—but ultimately, he chose to walk away. For Chris, it came down to authenticity and wanting something real.We talk about what that decision meant for him, how the experience pushed him to grow, and why it helped clarify what he’s truly looking for in a committed relationship—outside of reality TV.He also shares advice for anyone considering the process, emphasizing the importance of staying grounded, trusting your instincts, and protecting your heart in an industry that can be incredibly high-pressure@_chrislancaster_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Noah Erb, the inaugural winner of Bachelor Mansion Takeover. And I’ll say it—Bachelor Mansion Takeover is officially the best Bachelor spin-off series. We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s terminal illness.We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s illness.Noah opens up about his journey from working in the ICU to stepping into the high-pressure world of reality TV, and how those experiences shaped the way he handled competition, stress, and vulnerability.We also talk about grief—how losing his mom impacted him, why he chose to stay in the competition, and how he honored her throughout that experience. It’s a really honest and meaningful conversation.Of course, we lighten things up too—getting into the behind-the-scenes moments from Bachelor Mansion Takeover, including his headline-making win, flying home with that silver suitcase in hand, and where things currently stand with Dean Bell. I had to ask… is the rivalry still alive? And more importantly—has he been paid yet?Plus, we talk about what’s next for Noah, including his future goals, the possibility of a home renovation show (yes please), and teaming up with his wife, Abigail Erb on future projects or maybe Dean Bell? This episode is an intimate look at the intersection of reality TV, resilience, and real-life loss—with a little competition and chaos mixed in—and one I won’t forget anytime soon.@noah_erb Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Chad Kultgen, from Game of Roses, to break down my recent experience on Bachelor Mansion Takeover. Chad reveals his behind-the-scenes role as my “secret strategist,” helping me craft specific speeches and moments during filming to capture producer attention and maximize screen time. We also get into the controversial casting of Taylor Frankie Paul, with Chad sharing his thoughts on where the franchise stands today — why it may be lacking clear creative direction after recent production shakeups, and weighing in on where we go from here casting-wise, including whether we’ll ever actually see Taylor Frankie Paul’s season come to life.Chad and I dive into the real mechanics of reality TV and why your relationship with producers can matter even more than the actual rules of the game.And of course, we go a little deeper. We talk about Chad’s interest in metaphysics, his experiences with lucid dreaming, and even his one-of-a-kind political podcast featuring his parents, The Necessary Conversation.@bachelorclues @gameofrosespod @thenecessaryconversationpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Christopher Stallworth to talk about his unique experience filming not one, but two reality shows alongside Joan Vassos—The Golden Bachelorette and HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover.We get into his unexpected casting story, what really goes on behind the scenes, and how he stayed grounded while navigating it all—including the reason he ultimately turned down Bachelor in Paradise. Christopher opens up about leading with authenticity, being a positive force on set, and why being a team player mattered so much to him throughout the experience.He also drops some real wisdom on finding your “why” and stepping into your purpose, sharing how faith and manifestation have guided his path into the entertainment world. More than anything, this conversation reflects the genuine friendship we built and our shared gratitude for the wild, once-in-a-lifetime opportunities that come from being part of Bachelor Nation.@christopher_stallworth_nyc@contracting_spec Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today on After Reality, I’m sitting down with the incredibly talented builder and TV personality, Mitch Oaks—also known as Mitch the Maker!We recently filmed Bachelor Mansion Takeover together, and let me just say… this man does not mess around when it comes to bringing big ideas to life. From swinging hammers to creating jaw-dropping transformations, Mitch is the real deal—and he’s quickly becoming a fan favorite in the HGTV world.In this episode, we get into his backstory—how he got started, what it really takes to make it in the building world, and what it’s like filming for HGTV versus reality TV. We also talk about the pressure of seeing your work on screen, whether he actually watches himself back, and yes… we get into his relationship status. From craftsmanship to camera time, this episode is all about what happens when creativity meets reality TV—and trust me, you’re going to love getting to know Mitch beyond the tools.@mitch.the.maker Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my heart and my journey on Bachelor Mansion Takeover—the highs, the growing pains, and the moment it all came to an end. From navigating creative differences with my team during the fireplace renovation to finding my voice in a high-pressure environment, this experience truly pushed me in ways I didn’t expect.I was also showing up and competing while playing hurt most days, which made every challenge that much more personal. Getting a second chance through the redemption twist meant so much to me, especially hearing such kind words from guest judge Nate Berkus. It gave me the confidence to step into my first solo challenge—designing and building a terrace bar that felt like me. Even though that moment marked the end of my time on the show, it was something I’m incredibly proud of.At the core of it all was my “why”—wanting to win that prize money to build a pool for my kids. That dream carried me through every long day, every tough moment, and every small win along the way.I’m walking away with so much gratitude. I stayed true to myself, trusted my instincts, and built friendships I’ll cherish long after the cameras stopped rolling. This one means a lot 🤍 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by former Bachelor producer Adam Mansfield, who weighs in on the current state of the franchise, the pressure to evolve, and what today’s audiences are really looking for. We also get into the buzz around Taylor Frankie Paul potentially stepping in as the next Bachelorette—and what that kind of casting could mean for the future of the show.From there, we go behind the scenes of Adam’s time on The Bachelor, where he shares what it’s really like producing a 24/7 reality show, the emotional connections formed with contestants, and how he mastered the ultimate producer poker face. We also revisit the magic of “Happy Couple” weekends (yes, he was part of making those happen) and what it takes to pull off international filming and travel at that level.Now a dad and producing for the Food Network, Adam opens up about how his career has evolved and where life has taken him after stepping away from the franchise.If you’ve ever wondered what’s happening behind the curtain—and what’s next for The Bachelor—this is an episode you don’t want to miss.@themansfield@meatcutebbq Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of After Reality, I’m sitting down with fellow Bachelor alum Dean Bell—and we’re diving into what it’s really like going from receiving roses to swinging hammers.We get into our experience filming at the Bachelor Mansion for this new HGTV renovation series, and let’s just say… it was no walk in the park. I’m talking long days, real physical labor, and learning how to work (and survive) alongside a house full of big personalities. It’s competitive, chaotic, and honestly, so much fun to relive. We also get into how different it is filming a home renovation show versus a dating show.Dean also spills on winning the coveted “Golden Hammer” and the strategy behind it—including one very bold (and slightly mischievous) move involving a blue-painted ceiling that definitely got people talking.Beyond the competition, we shift gears and talk about Dean’s personal life. He opens up about his decision to change his last name to Bell in honor of his late mother, his marriage, and what life looks like for him these days in Colorado. From his background in construction to his unexpected love for his cat Karl, it’s a side of Dean I think people are really going to connect with.It’s a fun, honest conversation about growth, reinvention, and what life can look like after reality TV—because sometimes going from roses to hammers leads you exactly where you’re meant to be.@deanie_babies Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Cindy Cullers, the standout from The Golden Bachelor, for a candid and heartfelt conversation about her experience on the show—and what life really looks like after reality TV.We dive into her casting story, the friendships she built along the way, and how she’s navigated the post-show chatter, including her portrayal and dynamics within the cast. Cindy shares how she’s choosing to move forward with grace, honesty, and a strong sense of self.Of course, we go beyond reality TV. We get into all things wellness—from hair growth journeys to her fascinating background in biomedical engineering—and how those passions continue to shape her next chapter.We also talk about dating after the show, what she’s looking for now, and whether she’d ever consider stepping back into the spotlight… possibly as the next Golden Bachelorette 👀It’s a real, thoughtful conversation about reinvention, resilience, and finding your footing after reality TV—with plenty of insight, a little behind-the-scenes perspective, and a lot of heart. 💫@cmcullers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my initial thoughts on the shocking cancellation of The Bachelorette season starring Taylor Frankie Paul.I break down what we know so far following the release of a disturbing video reported by TMZ, which includes allegations of domestic violence and details surrounding a toxic relationship with her ex-partner. From the network’s decision to scrap a fully filmed season to the bigger questions around casting and accountability, I’m giving my real-time, unfiltered reaction to how this all unfolded.In the second half of the episode, I’m joined by Brad Smith, the first-ever lead of The Bachelor Canada, who brings a former lead’s perspective to the conversation. We dive into the financial and cultural fallout for the franchise, whether producers ignored major red flags in an effort to chase ratings, and what this means for the future of the show.This episode explores what could be a major turning point for reality TV, as we question whether The Bachelor franchise can recover from a scandal of this magnitude—and where it goes from here.@bradcsmith Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today's episode of After Reality: I'm breaking down Episode 3 of Bachelor Mansion Takeover — dishing on my design ideas being dismissed, the "mean girl" behavior I faced, and those guilt‑tripping "mom card" jabs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I return to TV on HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover with a behind-the-scenes look at the renovation competition where 12 Bachelor alums compete for $100,000. I play a clip revealing who voted for me, reflect on early vulnerability in the game, and ask: am I an easy target because I have kids? Are opinions like assholes? What would you do with $100,000? Plus: surprises from filming, from craftsmanship to a supportive production. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I’m back with a solo life update — and I’m officially returning to TV for the first time in 14 years with HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover. I’m sharing the real behind-the-scenes prep (mom guilt, body changes, and the very humbling moment I forgot my entire makeup bag), plus a quick reality TV roundup with Traitors finale spoilers. And because you know I love a true crime moment, I’m also talking about Clayton Echard’s new podcast Love Trapped and why it’s worth a listen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this Mom Talk: Valentine’s Day Edition of After Reality, I’m reflecting on the many sides of this holiday — the sweet stuff, the pressure, and everything in between. I’m celebrating my seventh Valentine’s Day with my husband (the longest Valentine I’ve ever had), and sharing how I’m trying to create meaningful traditions for our three kids — inspired by how my mom always made Valentine’s Day feel so special when I was growing up.I also take a minute to honor Catherine O’Hara and James Van Der Beek, and how their passing had me thinking about nostalgia, legacy, and the people who shape us. Along the way, I share a few personal stories — from affordable gifts to family memories — and invite you to zoom out and think about what love really means to you.And yes — we keep it a little spicy too. I’m talking love languages, including physical touch, and how intimacy can look different in the thick of parenting… but still matters. Because sometimes love isn’t a grand gesture. Sometimes it’s the small, everyday things — and showing up for each other in the middle of real life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Psychic Shirley for a fun, prediction-filled preview of the upcoming season of The Bachelorette featuring Taylor Frankie Paul. Shirley pulls Tarot cards and shares her insights on Taylor’s journey — including what she’s truly looking for in a partner (think: safety, devotion, and real emotional security), plus reflections on her past relationships and the lingering dynamic with her ex, Dakota. We also zoom out into bigger-picture relationship advice, and how humor and joy can be a lifeline when life feels heavy. I wrap things up by sharing how you can book a private reading with Shirley using Courtney10. https://www.shirleylipner.com/@psychicshirley Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my dad (your favorite) Papa Robertson for a February check-in—and some simple, practical ways to feel better now and keep that momentum going into the rest of the year.We talk about a few lifestyle goals that can make a big difference: choosing real, direct human communication, staying physically active, and tightening up finances by cutting those sneaky little daily expenses that add up fast. Papa also shares his go-to wellness advice—moderating alcohol, steering clear of overly processed foods, and taking a step back from the stress of the 24-hour news cycle.We also get into minimalism and doing an “energy audit”: focusing on the people and habits that lift you up, and letting go of the toxic stuff that drains you. And to wrap it all up, we lean into personal growth—reading classic books, spending more time in nature, and finding joy in new hobbies (yes, including Papa and his ukulele era). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Jaydi Samuels Kuba — a Hollywood matchmaker, dating coach, and former Family Guy writer — to talk all things modern dating and what it really takes to find a lasting relationship. Jaydi shares insights from her newly released book, Your Last First Date: Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker (out January 27), and breaks down why dating can feel extra complicated in high-pressure worlds like entertainment (and honestly… just in general these days).We get into her matchmaking philosophy — focusing on quality, true compatibility, and ethical boundaries, rather than promising a certain number of “matches” like some high-cost agencies. Jaydi also opens up about her own love story, including the wild (and very unconventional) way she met her husband… who was originally a client, and yes, she eventually broke her own rules.Plus, she gives practical, actionable advice you can actually use right now: how to navigate physical attraction, communicate boundaries without killing the vibe, and update your online dating profile so it reflects the real you (and attracts the right people).@matchmadeinhollywoodhttps://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Your-Last-First-Date/Jaydi-Samuels-Kuba/9781668079645?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Reality Steve and we’re breaking down the latest Bachelor Nation headlines. We kick things off with Mel Owens and his final pick Peg Munson, and share why their recent podcast appearances came off defensive and rubbed a lot of people the wrong way.Then we get into Kat Izzo spilling the tea on her breakup with Dale Moss—what she’s said publicly, what stood out to us, and why Bachelor Nation can’t stop talking about it...We also weigh in on the controversial casting of Colton Underwood on The Traitors, share an update on the ongoing legal investigation involving Laura Owens, and wrap with a few lighter tangents on nostalgic pop culture, winter weather, and whatever we’re currently into. Hot takes, honest opinions, and plenty of laughs along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Ramon Preciado — back on the mic with me after a long break. We’re sharing a real-life catch-up on what’s been going on behind the scenes, from his career shift (from criminal prosecutor to personal injury attorney at a local firm) to some eye-opening thoughts on insurance, work culture, and what he’s learned along the way.We also get into the heart of our current season: parenting three little ones. Humberto opens up about what it was really like running the house solo while I was away filming, and we talk honestly about the chaos, the pressure, and what actually helped us get through it. Routine worked because it gave the kids predictability and gave Humberto a game plan. Same anchors every day = fewer power struggles, less chaos, and more peace.Along the way, we touch on Humberto’s personal backstory — including his early FBI dreams and the academic path that helped shape his career — and we wrap things up with a few sweet kid milestone updates and some fun streaming TV recommendations to add to your watch list. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by registered dietitian Abbey Sharp for a refreshing, evidence-based conversation about nutrition that isn’t rooted in restriction or diet culture. Abbey breaks down her “Hunger Crushing Combo” — a simple framework built around fiber, protein, and healthy fats — and explains why focusing on what you can add to your plate is often more sustainable than obsessing over what to cut out.Abbey also opens up about her personal history with orthorexia and how that experience shaped her mission to help people build a more peaceful relationship with food. We talk about blood sugar balance, honoring hunger cues, and what “healthy” can look like when it’s actually realistic for real life.Plus, we get into the impact of social media on body image, along with practical wellness topics like supplements, sleep, and navigating nutrition through menopause. If you’re looking for a grounded approach to feeling your best — without the all-or-nothing mindset — this episode is for you.@abbeyskitchen @neuetheoryhttps://www.abbeyskitchen.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Courtney's audio is so quiet - hard to hear at times!