No 2 Gays About It

It feels like all of our conversations have lead up to this; gay men and PTSD. To say that we've experienced trauma during our many years on this planet is an understatement. We'll take a look at all the reasons why we carry around so much baggage from childhood trauma to the AIDS crisis, as well as talk about ways we can lift ourselves, and others, out from under its effects. Join us for this very important conversation. 💙, Tom & Michael -- Support Queer Businesses and look good while doing it! Alder NY makes clean, vegan skincare for all skin types, genders, & ethnicities. Viewers of No 2 Gays About It get 10% off selected items and the first month of subscriptions! Shop now! https://aldernewyork.com/NO2GAYSABOUTIT Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Boundaries, I have 'em, you have 'em, we all have 'em or at least we should... because we all know that one guy who doesn't have them and doesn't respect yours... so today, we'll talk about the different types of boundaries there are, how they tend to be crossed, and how you can assert your need when they are crossed. Hope this helps! 💙, Tom & Michael -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

You'd think by this age we'd have all our retirement and life stuff figured out, but a staggering number of gay men over 50 are behind. Why? What do we need to get in order, and what are the steps we can take to get there. Enjoy! 💙, Tom & Michael 🧼🧖🏻 Support Queer Businesses and look good while doing it! Alder NY makes clean, vegan skincare for all skin types, genders, & ethnicities. Viewers of No 2 Gays About It get 10% off selected items and the first month of subscriptions! Shop now! https://aldernewyork.com/NO2GAYSABOUTIT -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Sexuality is a big part of our identification as gay men, but are we obsessed with it? We'll talk about how this obsession spills out into everyday life, why we're so one track minded, and if we should redefine our relationship with it at this age. Enjoy this honest conversation! 💙, Tom & Michael -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024

The longer you've walked on this earth, the more likely you've experienced, in some way... ADDICTION. Today, we'll talk about why we as gay men over 50 are so susceptible to addiction, how you can seek help, or seek others. Join us for this important conversation. 💙, Tom & Michael --Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Let's face it, whether you're the one being judged or the one judging, it's not coming from a good place... so why are we still doing it at this stage in our lives? Today, we'll discuss who is doing the judging, why they feel the need to judge, how to deal with someone in your life who is judgmental, and how you can stop yourself from being the judge. Enjoy! 💙, Tom & Michael -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Whether you're no stranger to it or you're experiencing it for the first time, loss is something we all will come to experience... but is it something that we as gay men over 50 experience differently? What does loss and grief do to our lives, our body? And how can we overcome loss, especially when it keeps on coming? We'll explore all these topics as it pertains to loss, and more. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024    

After years of being labelled by others, Tom and Michael explore why we gay men over 50 still feel the needs to label ourselves... are labels good, bad, useless? We'll talk about it all, as well as the many different types of sexual labels that exist i the wild, aka Dating Apps. 💙, Tom & Michael -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

***Trigger Warning*** SUICIDE & DEPRESSION Today we have an open and honest discussion about the Loneliness Epidemic; why and how it's affecting our aging gay community. This is an important conversation for us to have because at some some point, we have or will experience loneliness. You are not alone. We share ways you can cope and overcome loneliness, as well as how you can help others who might be suffering. 💙, Tom & Michael RESOURCES FOR HELP• DIAL or TEXT 998 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Or click here: https://988lifeline.org/ • SAGE - Advocacy and Services for LGBTQ+ Elders https://www.sageusa.org/ • PSYCHOLOGY TODAY - To help you find a therapist in your area that not only searches by type of insurance accepted but sexual orientation and types of therapy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

The gay sex act after 50 is one that can be riddled with hardships and obstacles, especially if it's your main way of defining yourself. In this video, we'll unpack the different challenges we face with sex after 50, solutions to those challenges, and how to be intimate when sex is truly off the table.   If you've sworn off sex and relationships in your silver years, this episode is especially for you. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Like it or not, friends and friendship are important aspect of life for the aging gay male, but at this point, it might feel too difficult to make friends, let alone keep them.   In this episode, Michael and Tom explore the many different kinds of friendships, the difficulties of making and keeping friends, and whether or not it's truly important for us gay men over 50 these kinds of companions. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 3 is about COMPANIONSHIP. Join us as we explore this important topic for all Gay Men over 50. We want to hear from you! What kind of COMPANIOSHIP do YOU want us to talk about? Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Find us on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Over 36 years of marriage has taught Tom some things, so let's do this. Let's get into the nitty gritty of gay marriage over 50. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

Michael's doing it. Tom never has. And even if you're somewhere in between, Hookups are part of our gay culture. In this episode, we explore what they are, how to do them, and if they're enough. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! This season is all about COMPANIONSHIP. We explore the different ways we as gay men over 50 seek it and provide it, and why it's so important to us. Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2024  

In our Season 2 Finale, Tom and Michael discuss all the things they learned over the last 12 episodes. After exploring the many different relationships we as gay men over 50 have, there are four different ways we can apply these lessons that will help us have healthier and happier lives. - Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023  

Well, we thought we had covered it all last week, but when it comes to the holidays, stressors come from many places. Part two of our holiday series offers Tom & Michael the opportunity to discuss all the stressing factors that come with the Holiday Season, from people who don't like the season, to people who like it too much, and more! -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023

At the first sight of Mariah Carey wearing a Santa suit, a number of emotions may arise, but one thing is for sure, the holidays have arrived! Tom and Michael share the many different emotions they've experienced during the holidays throughout the years, as well as ways to cope with the inevitable stressors we all face. If you're having trouble getting into the swing of things, this episode will help! -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023    

On this week's episode, we continue our series on relationships by exploring CHANGE. One thing is for certain, things change... and how well you learn to accept that determines how enjoyable the ride will be. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023  

In today's episode, we explore the importance of embracing our inner child so we can cultivate joy and individuality. Join your hosts, Tom Burke and Michael Foley, as they share four ways the gay man over 50 can be young at heart all while allowing yourself to be YOU! -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023    

Just because we're over 50, does that mean we don't get to be sexual? Tom & Michael discuss the difference between Sexuality and Sex, the importance of confidence, and ways you can embrace your personal style of courtship. -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023    

Trigger Warning: Depression & Suicide Mental Health is a topic that we as gay men over 50 are not comfortable with, and it's time to rip off the bandaid and talk about it. Michael and Tom share their personal journey with mental health as well as different methods you, too, can be supported on your path. This episode deals with mental health, anxiety, and depression. There is a mention of suicide for those that are triggered by that subject. - There are many ways you can seek help: DIAL or TEXT 998 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Or click here: https://988lifeline.org/ SAGE - Advocacy and Services for LGBTQ+ Elders https://www.sageusa.org/ PSYCHOLOGY TODAY - To help you find a therapist in your area that not only searches by type of insurance accepted but sexual orientation and types of therapy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ -- Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It! Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you! Here are the different ways you can get involved: Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT JLV Productions | 2023