Talk With Wavy

we're back with more overthinking episodes, and we're here to talk about friendship overthinking or people in general. where we always overanalyze and say "what if they hate me? what if i said something wrong that's why he is not responding?" we've all been there, and i'm here to tell you all what to know when you start overthinking about your friendships again. i hope you all enjoy.

i've been really scared to go outside recently. it's not social anxiety in general, i was never diagnosed with it, but i think i have agoraphobia? i don't want to assume really. maybe i just get scared to go outside in general to see people that i don't want to see. also to escape some bad guys and just run away from people. but let's talk about why i'm scared to go outside, and what can i do in order to escape this feeling?

nostagia hit me again, i unexpectedly started to miss shs. after some parts of me saying that i want to start a new era in college, i want to forget about shs, i was wrong. i actually want to go back in shs and experience everything again. it came to the part where i reflected and had regrets. such as wishing that i made more friends, new experiences, and even making that section's podcast. but let's dive deep and why i actually miss shs.

all of us get fomo (fear of missing out) majority all of us wants to be updated by the latest news that our colleagues, friends, family when there's some hot tea to share. but if we drift apart with the people in our lives, or we don't have time to listen to all of the latest news, we get fomo. we want to know everything, but what if i tell you that... we don't need to know everything? and maybe protect our peace of mind?

i've always been an extrovert, i always wanted to be around my friends, i didn't want to go home, i just wanted to surrounded by society. but recently, when graduating in senior high, and ever since the beginning of college, i've been wanting to be alone. not feeling lonely, but just feeling the solitude and hearing my inner thoughts. that's what we're going to be talking about today.

a lot of people say it. it’s easier to say: “i don’t care anymore” other than: “ i care enough to try again.” we are prone to always give up easily if something dosen't go right in the first time. but what if i tell you that in reality, you always don't get it right in the first time? you may get it right when it's the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 5th time? yes you will get tired, fail, lose motivation, and mess up. but you only have one option, and it's to try again. it isn't the end of the world when you fail, it just resets. as in today's podcast, we're going to be talking about, trying all over again and do not give up easily. i hope you all enjoy.

if you knew me before and have been a follower or a subscriber for a really long time, you might have known that i used to do interviews on the channel. i used to interview live streamers, my friends, student councils, and a lot of people to get to know their lives even more better. but i never really told you all the reason why i stopped doing it, now i did. i hope you all enjoy and see u on future projects!

one of my favorite celebrities, toni gonzaga released her new card game of having deep conversations with your friends and family, and i decided to play it on my podcast channel! i hope you all enjoy!

i'm still not okay, and i wanted to reflect on everything that's been happening. why is am i feeling like this, why am i burnt out? why am i losing friends? turns out, it's actually just the reality. but you're actually going to be on your own in college. only having a few friends, only speaking to people on group works, and a lot of reflections. to all my loners out there in college, here's some advice and reflections on what i've realized, and maybe make you even more comfortable when it comes to just being alone. let's make being alone have a bright side, other than having a negative side on it. i hope you all enjoy as this is another personal podcast episode that i have been making.

i've been having an academic burnout ever since the start of term 2 in my college life. it's exhausting. i always don't want to go to school, i don't want to see my profs or blockmates, i don't want to do any school related things. it's not that i'm lazy i'm just burnt out, and physically exhausted. i spoke about this to make it relateable to students really, and what can we do in order to improve and stop our burnout? here's how, i hope you enjoy.

i wasn't interested in having a crush recently. i was focused more on my personal life, my content creation, and schoolworks. but sometimes, the era or the times we were in love with the person resurfaced. we can't control it, they just pop up in our heads. let's talk about why i thought about them, and how it is TOTALLY normal for you to think about them randomly. i hope you all enjoy.

whenever we have a break up, we always have a broken version of ourselves. we choose to fix ourselves. usually, some people fix themselves because they want their ex to miss them and want them to be back. but what if we can fix ourselves to be the better version of ourselves next time? yes he might miss you, but fixing yourself first is more better. let's talk about it. + my experiences as well loving some people.

silly me posted this podcast on february 15 instead of the 14th lol, oh well. i'm a day late, so it's okay! maybe people are still celebrating valentine's on the 15th or on the 16th hehe. i talked about valentine's day, how the pressure of single people need to have a valentine on the 14th every year. but what if i tell you that valentine's dosen't need to have a +1? but you can enjoy valentine's alone? let's talk about it. a valentine's self care day for you, some personal valentine's stories, and spending time alone. i hope you all enjoy and have a great valentine's with your partner or maybe even alone :)

this episode is kind of connected to the getting attached and not giving your all past 2 previous episodes, now we are at the 'final' stage which is to let go and stop wasting ur energy on one person. i've made this into a generalized topic and gave less personal stories, so that i can focus more on giving out advice, guidance, and help to other people. i hope you all enjoy.

we often get obsessed with someone, it tends to happen on a friend, or someone your in love with. and we mainly give our all, but then we realize. the love and the energy isn't equal, and ur not getting it back as well. let's talk about not giving your all isn't worth it, and how you should reflect on this, and maybe give ur all to different people that you think is equal to you. i hope you all enjoy.

i have a lot of friends, but i often get too attached to one person who we share an equal mutual energy. i feel safe, seen, and understood by them. their my rant and vent buddy, my comfort, my go-to, and just my 'favorite person' but often times, the attachment gets too unhealthy. so let's talk about getting attached, and how to let go quietly and slowly.

i always tried to be friends with everyone, but then i realized that not everyone can be my friend. even if i try my best to be a good person, try having the same interests, and just want them to like me. someone out there, will still be disappointed in you. in reality, you cannot please everyone. in this podcast episode, we'll talk about being a people pleaser, how life changes, and what i do to my real friends, and to myself. i hope you all enjoy.

they say that, college is the era of having the hardcore crushes. this is where you find the right one, a long term relationship, do a lot of adult stuff. but for me, it wasn't. i'm way more different than what other people do. i never found it to love someone in college. only attraction. some people are cute, handsome, beautiful, and just i admire them. but it didn't go way deeper where i can see them in my relationship status, or whatsoever. so let's talk about having a college crush... or not..

growing up, im very much different than other people in college or in shs. they drink, smoke, go party often, even do sexual stuff. im pretty much into content creation, dancing, small hangouts, cafes, etc. but let's talk about the adult stuff, am i interested in doing it? was i ever curious? enjoy listening.

there's a lot of changes that happened on my podcast journey. from wavytalks to a new name called talk with wavy. from a webcam setup, to a new HD look with rgb lights, or even a sunset lamp. there's a lot that changed. i stated the reasons why i changed it, and i hope u all listen and enjoy.