What would change if health care truly organized itself around what matters most to older adults, patients, families, and caregivers?
In this episode, Alice Bonner, a nationally recognized leader in age-friendly care and person-centered systems, joins Dr. Philip McAdoo to discuss ageism, dignity, caregiving, and what it takes to make health care more responsive to older adults. She explains how ageism shows up in everyday assumptions, communication, workflows, physical spaces, and care decisions, and why it must be treated as a health equity issue. Alice also highlights the importance of age-friendly care, the 4Ms framework, listening deeply to older adults, engaging caregivers without bypassing the person receiving care, and making “what matters” visible, documented, and actionable across the system.
Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about designing care around dignity, trust, and the real lives of older adults and the people who care for them!
About Alice Bonner:Alice Bonner is a nationally recognized leader in age-friendly care, person-centered systems, and efforts to make “what matters” a reliable part of care for older adults, families, and caregivers. Her work focuses on helping health systems address ageism, strengthen dignity and respect in care delivery, and build reliable practices that support older adults across hospitals, nursing homes, clinics, home care, and community settings.
IHI Spotlight: Kate DeBartolo
In this episode’s IHI Spotlight, Kate DeBartolo highlights practical tools that help older adults prepare for medical appointments and communicate what matters most. She discusses IHI’s My Health Checklist and The Conversation Project, which support care planning around priorities, medications, mind, mobility, and end-of-life wishes. Kate also shares how IHI’s partnership with AARP has expanded these resources through community engagement, translations, caregiver support, and tools for health care teams.
Things You’ll Learn:
Ageism often begins with assumptions about older adults before getting to know them as individuals.
Health systems can unintentionally create inequities when they do not account for hearing, mobility, cognition, language, fear, or the need for more time.
Dignity should not be optional in health care; it should be treated as a design requirement.
Age-friendly care is built around the 4Ms: what matters, medication, mentation or mind, and mobility.
Families and caregivers often hold important information about medications, safety, finances, living conditions, and social support.
Asking “what matters” is only the first step; health systems must document, share, and act on the answer.
Leaders can make person-centered care real by modeling dignity, listening to frontline teams, and building age-friendly practices into workflows.
Resources:
Connect with and follow Alice Bonner on LinkedIn.
Explore the Institute for Healthcare Improvement’s Age-Friendly Health Systems work.
Learn more about IHI’s My Health Checklist.
Learn more about The Conversation Project.