EOW Dad | Every Other Weekend Dad

Part of Our Toxicity in Your Relationship Series. Knowledge is Power, although there are many who would rather not know that their behavior may be contributing to the toxicity in their relationship. Be the change you want to see. We Can Do Hard Things

If you're in an abusive relationship, get help immediately. If you can't, talk with a friend or trusted family member and begin to make a plan of escape. If you have children, you owe it to them to keep them safe and free from harm.  If however, you use allegations of abuse to feed your narrative with reasons to live in a victim mentality, seek help just the same. If you're taking away from others, if you lie for selfish purpose and you allege abuse to establish coercive control and use your children as pawns to hurt the dad, or increase your chances in front of the family court, you're just plain evil. 

I am a dad. I’ve fought since day one to be one. I still fight for rights that most dads have and may even take for granted. As terrible as my plight has been to navigate, it has helped to develop into the person I am today. It’s been quite the adventure, plenty of ups and downs. Despite my son’s mother’s attempts to sabotage the relationship I have with my now 8 year old son, our father son bond is like no other, and is surviving all of her attempts to break it. This is my story of how I perceived our situation, facts and truths to support my narrative. Outcomes that align with the tools I created and used to see my way through the heartache and hurt of being alienated from my only child. Today I coach others to navigate through their narrative. Toxic relationships aren’t fun. Abusive behavior hurts. You’re welcome to your perception, but still must face the consequences of your actions. Let’s Talk.