Love and Money Podcast

If you've ever felt overwhelmed, confused, or ashamed when it comes to money, you're not alone. Most of us were never taught how to manage our finances or how to talk about them. That silence often turns into stress, avoidance, and big financial mistakes. In this episode, Tracy Coenen sits down with certified financial therapist Erika Wasserman, author of the brand new book Conversations With Your Financial Therapist. Erika is here to break down the emotional side of money, help you shift your mindset, and give you the tools to start powerful money conversations with your partner, your kids, or even just yourself. Whether you're rebuilding your life after divorce, navigating a new relationship, or finally getting serious about your finances, Erika shows you how emotional clarity leads to financial confidence. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What financial therapy is and how it can change the way you relate to money Why 90% of our money decisions are emotional, not logical How to identify the money mindset you inherited and start shifting it Why even smart, successful women often feel stuck or ashamed around money The best ways to start honest money conversations in your relationships Erika believes you don't need to know everything about money to take control of it. What you need is confidence, clarity, and a willingness to start where you are. How to Change Your Relationship With Money: Start with one small conversation and use prompts if you need them Notice your internal money story and challenge negative patterns Use storytelling to make money talks feel less awkward If your financial advisor doesn't make you feel heard, find a new one Focus on progress, not perfection. Financial healing is a journey Tune in now to hear Erika’s personal story of reinvention, learn how financial therapy works, and discover how to build a mindset that supports the life you want. Resources & Links: Get Erika's new book Conversations With Your Financial Therapist: https://amzn.to/3TITsY0 Learn more about Erika's work: https://www.yourfinancialtherapist.com Follow Erika on Instagram: @yourfinancialtherapist

For many divorcing women, the biggest financial decision isn't just about money, it's about the home. Should you fight to keep it? Should you sell and start fresh? And if you do keep it, can you really afford it? Tami Wollensak, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional, specializes in helping divorcing women make smart mortgage decisions that protect their financial future. In this conversation, Tami shares her best insights on making an informed choice that won't leave you house-poor. Knowledge you'll walk away with from this interview: The truth about refinancing and why it's not as simple as keeping your current mortgage Mortgage myths debunked, such as why “just assuming the loan” isn't always possible Hidden costs of home ownership: Property taxes, maintenance, and unexpected expenses that can derail your budget How to decide if you can really afford the home post-divorce Why renting (even temporarily) might be the smartest financial move you can make Your home may hold sentimental value, but it's also a major financial commitment. Tami breaks down everything you need to consider so you can make a decision that supports your long-term financial well-being. Insights that could save you thousands:  A mortgage assumption isn't always an option. Know your lender's rules. Refinancing could mean a much higher interest rate, so plan accordingly. Home ownership comes with more than just a mortgage. Factor in all the costs. Renting can give you time to reset financially before making a big decision. Buying a new home post-divorce might be easier than you think. Listen in to get the expert advice you need to make the right housing decision during divorce! Get Tami's guide, Divorcing With a Home: https://tami.samcart.com/products/divorcing-with-a-home Coupon code for 50% off the guide: 50DMG

Money and relationships. These two things should go together seamlessly, but often they don't. Jack Howard knows this better than anyone. As a financial strategist with a passion for money psychology, she's on a mission to help people understand their financial behaviors and build a money mindset that fosters both love and wealth. In this interview, Jack shares the missing link in financial education: How money psychology impacts our financial decisions and relationships. She breaks down why budgeting doesn't work for everyone, how money stories shape our financial habits, and how couples can build financial intimacy instead of financial fights. Game-changing insights that Jack offered on love and money: Why money isn't just about budgets, it's about emotions and identity The most common financial conflicts in relationships and how to fix them. The one crucial money conversation every couple must have to avoid financial resentment How to have money conversations without guilt, blame, or frustration. Why knowing your “money story” helps you communicate better with your partner How money psychology can explain (and fix) your worst financial habits Why money date nights are the secret to financial harmony in relationships Talking about money with your partner doesn't have to be stressful. Jack shares practical tools for navigating financial conversations, understanding your own money mindset, and making financial decisions that support both your relationship and your long-term goals. How to strengthen your financial partnership: Schedule regular “money date nights” to talk about finances in a relaxed setting. Unpack your personal “money story” to understand your own financial habits. Use value-based spending instead of rigid budgeting to align financial goals. Create individual spending “splurge” accounts to prevent financial resentment. Practice active listening in financial discussions, not just problem-solving. Want to rethink your relationship with money? Follow Jack Howard's work at Ally Financial, where she's leading the charge on financial wellness with a modern, psychology-based approach. You can participate in their free Money Roots program here: https://www.ally.com/moneyroots

Coercive control isn't just about abuse, it's about power, manipulation, and psychological warfare, especially when children are involved. Dr. Christine Cocchiola has spent over 20 years advocating for survivors of coercive control, domestic abuse, and child welfare. A trauma-trained therapist and creator of The Protective Parenting Program, she's on a mission to educate parents about the hidden dangers of coercive control and how to protect their children from its long-term effects. In this eye-opening conversation, Christine reveals the insidious ways coercive controllers operate, how they manipulate children, and why family court often fails to protect the most vulnerable. Understanding coercive control and how it impacts children: What coercive control actually is and why it's the foundation of all abuse The subtle but dangerous ways coercive controllers manipulate kids Why family court often sides with abusers, and how to fight back The hidden ways coercive controllers turn kids against the protective parent How to support your children if they're being manipulated or emotionally abused Coercive controllers don't just abuse their partners, they weaponize children to maintain control. Dr. Cocchiola explains how to recognize it, protect your kids, and regain your role as their safe parent. How to protect your child from coercive control: Prioritize connection over correction. Your child's attachment to you is key. Recognize when your child is aligning with an abuser for survival. Stay emotionally regulated. Your child needs to see you as their safe space. Document everything. Coercive control thrives on secrecy and misinformation. Work with professionals who understand coercive control, not just standard custody cases. Get Dr. Cocchiola's FREE guide, Clinical Interventions for Children of Coercive Control: https://drchristinemarie.kartra.com/page/childvictimofccgrowthguide Dr. Cocchiola's Protective Parenting Program is designed to equip parents with the tools they need to navigate these incredibly difficult situations: https://go.drcocchiola.com/ppp-accelerated If you're facing a high-conflict custody battle or worried about your child's safety, don't miss this interview.

Divorce can leave you feeling crazy, but what if you could turn that energy into strength? Erica Bennett, founder of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, is here to help women harness their emotions for personal growth, healing, and empowerment. With nearly 20 years of behavioral training and a decade of coaching experience, she’s an expert in rewiring the mind and moving through emotional pain. Erica believes that emotions aren’t something to be feared. They’re powerful tools for transformation and self-discovery. Whether you’re grieving a divorce, struggling with co-parenting, or just feeling stuck, this episode will show you how to shift your mindset and turn pain into progress. How to reclaim your emotional power: Why feeling "crazy" during divorce is completely normal—and how to channel it for good The most common emotional roadblocks that keep women stuck in pain How to process anger, guilt, and grief in a way that actually helps you heal Simple strategies like breathwork, meditation, and movement to release emotional baggage Erica’s coaching and community are designed to support women through one of the most emotional transitions of their lives. Take Erica’s quiz, Finding Your Way Forward, to see where you are in your relationship journey and get strategies for moving forward: https://www.thecrazyexwivesclub.com/quiz-what-phase-are-you If you're ready to stop feeling lost and start stepping into your power, connect with Erica today.

Divorce is life-changing for anyone... But when you’re also running a business, the challenges multiply. How do you keep your business afloat when your personal life is crumbling? How do you rebuild when your entire future vision just disappeared? Jen Yip, the founder of Lunch Money, shares how she built Lunch Money from a side project into a thriving business, only to have her entire life plan upended by an unexpected divorce. Instead of giving up, she reinvented her business, redefined her purpose, and turned her pain into a powerful reset. Lessons from Jen’s journey: How Jen turned a side project into a thriving, scalable business The emotional and financial challenges of running a business while going through a divorce How she kept her business alive when she barely had the energy to function The power of community and why her business thrived even when she stepped away Why divorce forced her to redefine success on her own terms The four major business changes she made after divorce to ensure long-term success How she rebuilt her confidence while running a company 🚀Jen shares how she turned her personal struggles into the fuel she needed to scale her business and regain her independence. Through a difficult divorce, she was able to sustain her business and ultimately the company was stronger because of that. Check out Lunch Money, a personal finance management app: https://lunchmoney.app

Talking about money in relationships can feel awkward, stressful, or even scary. But what if it didn’t have to be? What if, instead of tension, financial conversations could bring couples closer together? If you ever wished your relationship came with a financial blueprint… Jessica and Brandon Norwood, hosts of The Sugar Daddy Podcast and a powerhouse financial couple, are here to share their D.R.E.A.M. Framework, a step-by-step system for couples to manage money together in a way that strengthens their relationship. Most couples struggle with money because they never learn how to talk about it. Jessica and Brandon reveal how they built wealth together, are becoming work-optional, and have created a financial plan that supports their dream life. From this interview, you’re going to learn: How to uncover your personal “money story”... the beliefs and experiences that shape how you handle finances today. Why so many couples fight about money and how to have healthier conversations. How to set long-term financial goals that actually excite you. The key to balancing different money personalities (spender vs. saver, anyone?). Why the concept of retirement is outdated and how to plan for a “work optional” lifestyle instead. The D.R.E.A.M. framework for couples: Dive into your past and uncover your money mindset Reflect on how your past influences your financial habits today Engage in open, honest money conversations with your partner Act on your plan, with clear steps to build the life you want Manage money as a team and keep adjusting your financial goals as life changes Jessica and Brandon help couples get on the same page financially and build wealth without resentment. Sign up for the Sugar Daddy Podcast newsletter and receive the DREAM Big Quiz to help you understand how aligned you and your partner are with your goals and finances: https://www.thesugardaddypodcast.com/ Check out financial planning with Brandon through his company, Oak City Financial: https://www.oakcityfinancial.us/

Divorce mediation can be a great way to settle things without stepping into a courtroom --but only if you’re prepared. In this solo session, Tracy Coenen walks you through what to expect in mediation, how to prepare financially, and the biggest mistakes to avoid when negotiating. Whether you're hoping for a peaceful resolution or just trying to get through the process without losing what’s rightfully yours, this episode is packed with must-know tips. Mediation puts you in control of your divorce agreement, but you have to be ready to advocate for yourself. Tracy shares how to prepare your financials, understand your negotiation power, and avoid common mistakes that could cost you in the long run. What you need to know before mediation: What mediation really is and how it works The key financial documents you need before stepping into mediation Why you should never agree to anything without proof (and what to ask for) Smart strategies to negotiate for what you deserve When mediation is a waste of time and money and how to know if it’s right for you The more prepared you are, the better your mediation experience will be. Don’t go in blind! Check out the Divorce Money Guide and other courses here: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com

Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, but too often, women give up financial power without even realizing it. From career sacrifices to financial transparency, how we handle money in marriage can have long-term consequences... especially if the marriage ends. Cindy DiTiberio is the creator of The Mother Lode, a feminist Substack newsletter exploring motherhood, marriage, and divorce. Cindy shares her personal journey of financial awakening, the hidden costs of motherhood, and why every couple should consider a postnuptial agreement. Things you’ll learn from this interview: The #1 financial mistake women make in marriage and how to fix it Why financial transparency is key, even if your partner "handles the money" The real cost of stepping back from your career for caregiving (it’s bigger than you think) How financial infidelity happens and why so many women don’t see it until divorce Why a postnuptial agreement might actually save your marriage Money conversations aren’t just about budgets. They’re about power. Cindy shares how to rethink financial roles in marriage, advocate for yourself, and ensure you don’t wake up one day financially vulnerable. Key points for you: Stepping out of the workforce impacts your future earnings, so you should plan for it. If you don’t know the details of your household finances, it’s time to ask. Spousal support isn’t a handout. It’s repayment for unpaid labor in the marriage. A postnuptial agreement can actually strengthen a marriage by creating fairness. Listen now and learn how to take control of your financial future, whether you’re married, divorcing, or somewhere in between! Follow along with The Mother Lode newsletter here: https://cindyditiberio.substack.com/

What if instead of waiting until your 60s to retire, you could take meaningful breaks throughout your life? Imagine pausing your career for a month or two to travel, pivot careers, learn something new, or simply rest and reset. In this episode, Tracy Coenen sits down with Jillian Johnsrud, host of the Retire Often podcast and author of the new book Retire Often. Jillian has taken more than a dozen “mini-retirements” and is on a mission to help others escape burnout, reclaim their time, and build wealth and meaning along the way. From traveling the world to raising six children to buying real estate during a month off, Jillian has redefined what retirement looks like and why it shouldn’t be something we save for the end of life. If you’re navigating a big transition like divorce or career change, this episode will challenge how you think about work, money, and your timeline for success. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:  What a mini-retirement really is and how it works How even a modest income can support intentional time off Why you don’t need to be wealthy or self-employed to take a break Ways to budget, save, and plan for your own mini-retirement How these breaks can actually increase your lifetime income Whether you're burned out, at a crossroads, or simply craving more purpose, Jillian offers practical, inspiring advice for pressing pause now, not someday. You don’t have to wait until 65 to live the life you’ve imagined. How to Make a Mini-Retirement Work for You: Plan a month off every few years instead of dreaming about “someday” Negotiate time away with your employer or schedule between jobs Think creatively about where and how you can afford to take time off Use your break to invest in yourself, your health, or your next chapter Focus on building a career and a life you don’t need to escape from Tune in now to learn how mini-retirements can help you avoid burnout, discover new possibilities, and live a more intentional life. Get Jillian’s new book Retire Often (out September 9): https://amzn.to/4jFtBdN Listen to her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/retire-often/id1701353628 Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianjohnsrud

Financial abuse is one of the most common but least recognized forms of domestic abuse.  It’s also one of the most effective ways to keep someone trapped in a marriage. If you’ve ever been denied access to money, restricted in your spending, or told you're "bad with money" while your spouse controls every financial decision, you may be experiencing financial abuse. Kate Anthony, host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast and author of The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, is here to expose the hidden ways financial control traps women in toxic relationships... and how to break free. Signs and solutions for financial abuse: How to identify financial abuse, even when it's disguised as "helping" The most common financial control tactics used in marriages How abusers sabotage your financial independence. From ruining your credit to blocking you from working The subtle ways financial abuse can show up in marriages that seem "normal" on the surface What to do if your spouse is hiding money or controlling access to finances Steps to reclaim financial independence before, during, and after divorce Many women don't realize they're experiencing financial abuse until they try to leave. Kate breaks down the red flags, the power dynamics, and the steps you must take to regain financial independence. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels financially trapped in their relationship. Kate's coaching programs empower women to make smart, informed decisions about their marriages and finances. If you're feeling stuck and need guidance, check out Phoenix Rising, Kate's group coaching program designed to walk you through some of the hardest parts of your divorce, in community with other women who are going through it too:https://kateanthony.com/decided/ Get Kate's book, The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: https://amzn.to/41f7OTd

Your career isn’t just a single path—it’s a series of chapters, reinventions, and pivots. But for many midlife professionals, the idea of starting over can feel overwhelming. Whether it’s by choice or by force, navigating career changes in your 40s, 50s, and beyond requires a whole new approach. Bradley Richardson is living proof that career shifts don’t mean failure—they mean growth. As a five-time bestselling author, speaker, and coach, Bradley helps people navigate the complexities of midlife career changes with confidence. From internet sales in the ‘90s to headhunting to personal development, he has embraced reinvention time and time again. In this episode, we break down the fears and myths around career changes in midlife, discuss why identity is so tied to work, and uncover the biggest mistakes people make when shifting careers. What you’ll walk away with from this conversation with Bradley: Why midlife career changes feel so personal, and how to separate your identity from your job The biggest mistake people make when trying to pivot— and what to do instead. How to fight back against age discrimination and position yourself as an asset in today’s job market Why traditional job applications won’t cut it and how to tap into the hidden job market How to leverage your experience and network to land new opportunities—without starting from scratch The key to negotiating your worth in a new industry Reinvention isn’t about starting over—it’s about using everything you’ve learned to create a new path forward. Bradley shares the mindset shifts and tactical strategies you need to take control of your next career move. Check out the Advanced Adulting Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCogmTgcdf7QjZGnWGXTvTtQ?sub_confirmation=1 New episodes drop every Thursday, and the podcast offers a raw, unfiltered look at the realities, challenges, and joys of navigating life for those aged 45-65+.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep paying off debt, only to rack it right back up... you’re not alone. The debt cycle is real, and it’s keeping millions of people trapped in financial stress. But breaking free isn’t just about cutting expenses or making bigger payments, it’s about changing your entire approach to money. Haley Brown-Woods, financial coach and co-founder of Price of Avocado Toast, helps people break the cycle of debt without extreme penny-pinching or deprivation. If you're tired of making payments but never making progress, this episode is for you! Whether it's credit cards, personal loans, or legal fees from your divorce, debt can feel like an endless trap. Haley reveals the most common mistakes people make when trying to get out of debt—and why most "quick fixes" only make things worse. What you’ll learn in this conversation: Why you keep falling back into debt even after paying it off The sneaky ways society pushes you into debt (hello, credit card points and balance transfers!) Why consolidating debt can actually make it harder to pay off How debt cycles work and why they’re so hard to escape. Why paying off debt isn’t just about numbers, it’s about psychology and behavior. The difference between spending mindfully and spending mindlessly. Getting out of debt isn’t just about making payments, it’s about changing the behaviors that put you there in the first place. Haley shares her personal story of overcoming massive debt and gives practical steps to help you stop the cycle once and for all. How to finally break the debt cycle: Stop relying on willpower and build a real plan instead. Cut the shame. Debt is a financial problem, not a moral failing. Get clear on your spending habits. Awareness is the first step to change. Make saving a priority. Having cash on hand stops you from turning to credit. Set up a system that makes debt freedom sustainable, not just temporary. Haley has helped families pay off over $3 million in debt and now she’s sharing her strategies with you. Get your free budgeting template here: https://priceofavocadotoast.kit.com/145c68dadc Check out Haley’s financial coaching services: https://www.priceofavocadotoast.com/coaching

Talking about money in a relationship can be uncomfortable. But what if you could turn those awkward conversations into a game plan for building real wealth.... together? In this episode of the Love and Money Podcast, Tracy sits down with Bola Sokunbi, founder of Clever Girl Finance and bestselling author of My Wealth Plan Workbook and the Clever Girl Finance series. Bola shares her personal journey of building financial independence and why empowering women with money is her life’s mission. Together, they dive into what it actually takes to manage money as a couple, get on the same page financially, and build wealth with intention, without losing your mind (or your marriage) in the process. This episode is packed with wisdom, heart, and practical strategies that couples at any stage of life can use to grow together financially. What you'll hear in this episode: Why joint finances don’t work for every couple, and what to do instead How to talk about money when one partner avoids it (or hates it) What to do when your financial styles don’t match The power of setting regular money “check-ins” as a couple How Bola and her husband balance shared goals with individual freedom Whether you’re just starting a life together, navigating money disagreements, or trying to rebuild after divorce, this episode will help you rethink how money and love can actually work side by side. How to build wealth as a team with your romantic partner: Create shared goals, but keep space for personal autonomy. Set a recurring time to talk about finances that works for both of you. Don’t force your partner to change. Lead by example and invite them in. Use each other’s strengths to divide and conquer financial tasks. Remember: money is a tool, not a power play. Tune in now to learn how to align your finances with your relationship, so you can build a future that works for both of you. Resources & Links: Explore over 30 free courses at https://www.clevergirlfinance.com Check out My Wealth Plan Workbook https://amzn.to/4k24nYg Follow Bola on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance

Prenups have a bad reputation. People assume they’re only for the rich, that they mean you don’t trust your partner, or that they’re just a plan for divorce. But what if a prenup could actually strengthen your marriage? Aaron Thomas, also known as Prenup Guy, is a Harvard Law graduate, award-winning family law attorney, and founder of Prenups.com. He’s worked with NBA Hall of Famers, Super Bowl winners, and Grammy-winning artists.  Aaron is on a mission to change how couples view prenups, turning them into a tool for financial clarity rather than just an escape plan. This conversation is about busting the biggest myths about prenups and showing why they can actually save a marriage instead of doom it. You’ll walk away with knowledge about:  Why every couple already has a prenup, even if they didn’t sign one. The biggest myths about prenups and why they’re completely wrong. How a prenup can actually protect the lower-earning spouse. The unexpected benefits of a prenup, including better communication and financial transparency. How prenups help prevent financial surprises and save both spouses from costly legal battles later. A prenup isn’t just about what happens if you get divorced, it’s about setting financial expectations for your marriage. Aaron breaks down why more couples are choosing prenups and how they can be a game-changer for your relationship. Key takeaways from this conversation: A prenup lets you decide your financial future. Not state laws. It’s not just for high earners. It protects both spouses. Prenups encourage better money conversations, leading to healthier marriages. The process is easier and more affordable than you think. Planning for financial success in marriage is smart, not cynical. This is an eye-opening interview that will change the way you think about prenups forever! Aaron’s firm, Prenups.com, helps couples across the country create fair, enforceable agreements with attorneys in every state. Get Aaron’s book, The Prenup Prescription: Meet the Premarital Contract Designed to Save Your Marriage, here: https://amzn.to/40YOCZB

Making extra money as a busy single mom isn’t just about covering the bills. It’s about creating freedom, options, and financial security. But where do you start if you need to increase your income quickly or want to build something long-term? Amber Shaw, founder of The Wellness Revolution, is a business coach who helps divorced moms turn their expertise and life experience into successful online coaching businesses. After walking away from an unfulfilling corporate career post-divorce, she built a six-figure coaching business in just six months. Now, she’s helping other women do the same. Forget MLMs, surveys, and mystery shopping. Amber is sharing real, legitimate ways to create financial freedom and independence, no matter your starting point. Listen in as Amber talks about practical ways to start making money today: The first step to making money is figuring out what you’re good at (and what actually excites you) How to identify the hidden skills you already have that people will pay for Three powerful ways to start earning more, whether you need quick cash or a long-term career change Why you don’t need fancy degrees, certifications, or years of experience to get started The biggest mindset shifts women need to make to stop feeling stuck financially Amber’s passion is helping women break free from financial dependence and create income streams that align with their strengths. Connect with her for business coaching, mindset work, and strategies to build a profitable coaching business.  Amber’s website: https://ambershaw.com/ Connect with Amber on Instagram: @msambershaw

Most parents want their kids to grow up financially secure, but how do you teach what you were never taught? If you didn’t grow up learning about investing, wealth-building, or money management, how can you make sure your kids don’t repeat the same cycle? If you want to raise financially savvy kids who understand money better than you did, then this conversation with  Maya Corbic, CPA and founder of Wealthy Kids Investment Club, is for you! Maya is on a mission to help parents teach their kids about saving, investing, and financial independence, even if no one taught them growing up. With nearly 200,000 Instagram followers and a bestselling book, she’s making financial education fun and accessible for families. Many adults struggle with money because they were never taught how to manage it. Maya believes the best way to break the cycle is to start teaching kids early. In this episode, she shares simple, effective strategies for instilling financial confidence in children without overwhelming them. Listen in to learn how to raise money-smart kids: Why financial literacy isn’t taught in schools and why it’s up to parents to teach it The four different allowance methods and how to choose the right one for your family The biggest money myth keeping kids (and adults) from building wealth How to start investing for your kids, even if you’re a complete beginner Why letting kids make small money mistakes now prevents big financial mistakes later Why saving alone won’t make you rich and what to do instead How to get kids excited about money (instead of scared of it). You don’t need to be a financial expert to teach your kids about money. Maya breaks down simple, actionable strategies to help parents give their kids the financial head start they never had. Smart money moves for parents and children: Investing isn’t just for adults. Kids can (and should) start early. Money mindset is everything. What kids hear about money shapes their future. Allowance isn’t a handout. It’s a tool for learning money management. You don’t need thousands to start investing. Just $10 a week can change your child’s future. Small money lessons now lead to big financial wins later. Get Maya’s free cheat sheet on how she successfully invests with her kids for maximum profit: https://www.wealthykids.club/4-step-cheat-sheet Check out Maya’s Wealthy Kids Investment Club: https://www.wealthykids.club/ Get Maya’s book, From Piggy Banks to Stocks: The Ultimate Guide for a Young Investor: https://amzn.to/3EOxOgz

You don’t need a law degree to take control of your divorce. Tracey Bee, former family law attorney turned pro se strategist, is on a mission to help people represent themselves in family court with confidence and clarity. Her work empowers self-represented litigants to take charge of their legal process without spending tens of thousands of dollars on an attorney. In this episode, Tracey and Tracy dive into the realities of going pro se, including when it’s the right move, what skills are needed, and how to avoid common missteps in the courtroom. If you’ve ever felt like hiring an attorney is out of reach, this conversation is packed with tools and encouragement to help you take action. What you'll take away from this episode: When it makes sense to go pro se and when it doesn’t  Why understanding court procedure is more important than knowing the law  Creative ways to work with legal professionals using unbundled services  How to prepare for court without being overwhelmed  The role of strategy, research, and self-advocacy in a successful pro se case  Tracey offers one-on-one strategy sessions, unbundled services, and downloadable resources to help you make smart decisions in family court. Be sure to check out her quiz and e-guide, "The Ultimate Conflict Predictor: How Much Will My Divorce Conflict Cost Me?"  to estimate the cost and complexity of your divorce: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1A8BcgUG7RU3fe_7BjvRq72UxkgKIT5z5/view You can also visit Tracey's website here: https://thedivorcesolutionist.com

When you’re divorcing a narcissist, facts are your best weapon, and Victoria Kirilloff is here to show you how to use them. A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of Divorce Analytics, Victoria helps women transform chaos into clarity with data-driven financial strategies that neutralize emotional manipulation.  In this episode, Victoria shares her own harrowing divorce story—one that began with financial abuse and ended with a fact-based, ironclad settlement. She introduces her signature tool, the Global Settlement Proposal, and explains why it’s a game-changer for anyone navigating a high-conflict divorce. Why financial facts beat narcissistic fiction How the Global Settlement Proposal can disarm a narcissist’s tactics The connection between gaslighting and financial manipulation Why your lawyer is not the one to figure out your finances—and who is How to hold a narcissist accountable by creating consequences backed by evidence  Victoria’s mission is to empower women through financial transparency. Learn more about her work here: https://divorceanalytics.com/ Sign up for Victoria's upcoming webinar, How to Successfully Divorce a Narcissist: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0ud-CsqjItGdN9quJxcfa94vYbCz0hiwul

When it comes to divorce, not knowing what you don’t know can cost you a lot. Brooke Summerhill is a financial consultant who works with ultra-high-net-worth families during divorce, bringing together financial strategy and emotional insight. Her consultative approach focuses on helping women avoid costly mistakes, gain clarity, and feel empowered during the divorce process. In this episode, Brooke and Tracy dive into the most common financial pitfalls women face in divorce... and how to sidestep them with confidence. Whether you're negotiating the house, retirement, or child-related expenses, this is the conversation every woman needs before signing a settlement. Key takeaways from this episode: Why “keeping the house” could be a financial trap if you don’t run the numbers The importance of reframing language: It’s OUR retirement, OUR business What to consider before accepting promises about college or long-term support How working with a financial professional can lead to a better, more creative settlement Why your personal values should guide your financial decisions during divorce Brooke helps women build financial clarity and confidence through one-on-one consulting. To connect with her and learn more about her work at The Summerhill Firm, head here: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/