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Sales is NOT a Dirty Word
Sales is NOT a Dirty Word
Author: Aleasha Bahr
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Are you a DFY service provider who wants to convert over 50% of your sales conversations without acting like a douchebag? Then this is for you.
In this value packed podcast, creator of the Black Sheep Sales Method™, Aleasha Bahr, brings her signature humor and ”keeping it real” sass to deliver a powerful blend of actionable solo sales episodes and expert interviews.
In her solo episodes, she shares easy-to-implement sales strategy that will catapult your sales without pressure, pitching or pretending to be someone else.
In her expert interviews, she carefully curates only the most bad ass black sheep guests to share their refreshing, unconventional approaches to all things business, mindset and life.
Aleasha and her clients regularly convert 80% of their calls and show you how to do the same with the Black Sheep Sales Method™ - ”Because if it’s a fit, it’s a fact and there’s no selling involved.”
In this value packed podcast, creator of the Black Sheep Sales Method™, Aleasha Bahr, brings her signature humor and ”keeping it real” sass to deliver a powerful blend of actionable solo sales episodes and expert interviews.
In her solo episodes, she shares easy-to-implement sales strategy that will catapult your sales without pressure, pitching or pretending to be someone else.
In her expert interviews, she carefully curates only the most bad ass black sheep guests to share their refreshing, unconventional approaches to all things business, mindset and life.
Aleasha and her clients regularly convert 80% of their calls and show you how to do the same with the Black Sheep Sales Method™ - ”Because if it’s a fit, it’s a fact and there’s no selling involved.”
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Too many people are burned by service providers - it’s almost like a right of passage at this point.
Many companies are great at the sales process and terrible at the fulfillment part.
This hurts everyone.
So, in this episode of Sales Is NOT a Dirty Word, I’m digging into the part of buying that deserves far more attention: what you need to know before you say yes.
Coaches, consultants, agencies, software providers, and other service businesses are trained to communicate their value. Some can deliver every inch of it. Others have simply become very skilled at focusing only on what you want to hear.
The key to understanding whether something is actually a good investment comes down to good questions that make vague claims harder to hold up.
The strongest offers can withstand scrutiny.
A credible seller should be able to discuss limitations, expectations, ownership, timelines, and the clients who did not get the promised result without falling into polished generalities.
This episode can and should change the questions you ask before your next significant investment, especially when everything sounds convincing and you are already halfway to yes.
KEY POINTS WE COVER:
The questions buyers should ask before signing
How persuasive sales language can disguise what you’re actually purchasing
The types of evasive answers that are red flags
The details that deserve clarity while you still have leverage
Why discernment belongs in every buying decision
SELL THE WAY YOU WISH YOU HAD BEEN SOLD TO
If this episode reminded you of every vague promise and expensive disappointment you have encountered as a buyer, take that standard back to your own sales process.
Black Sheep Sales helps businesses build a detailed, repeatable sales system grounded in fit, transparency, and realistic expectations. Your prospects understand what they are buying, your team knows how to sell it, and fewer nightmare clients make it through the door.
Build a sales process that remains credible after the contract is signed:
https://blacksheepsales.com/
MAKE YOUR SALES PROCESS WORTH SAYING YES TO
A strong sales conversation can open the door. What you deliver afterward determines whether people trust you, refer you, and return.
In Black Sheep Sales, I share a more honest, human way to sell that respects the buyer’s intelligence and builds a business people feel good choosing.
Get your copy here: https://tinyurl.com/blacksheepsalesbook
Key Timestamps
02:14 When excellent marketing conceals poor delivery
03:26 The question that forces sellers to discuss failure
04:41 Why generic answers deserve greater scrutiny
05:23 How ethical sellers protect buyers from a bad fit
06:28 What client complaints and cancellations can reveal
07:06 Clarifying the first 30, 60, and 90 days
07:47 Who owns the work, assets, and data when you leave
09:42 The problem hiding inside “everything is included”
10:46 Finding the provider’s genuine area of strength
11:53 What hesitation and evasiveness can tell you
12:22 Trusting your instincts and hiring slowly
13:04 Building a custom, repeatable sales system
#BusinessCoaching #BusinessCoach #ConsultingServices #ServiceProvider #BusinessInvestment #DueDiligence #BuyerBeware #SalesTransparency #EthicalSales #SalesStrategy #BusinessGrowth #Entrepreneurship #SmallBusinessOwner #BlackSheepSales #SalesIsNotADirtyWord
Sales hires are a different type of role than anything most business owners have hired before.
Unless an owner was previously in sales, it can be difficult to know what to look for.
And many times, confidence is confused for competence.
A history of impressive numbers appears to settle the question. Even arrogance can slip through as evidence that someone possesses the personality required to sell.
But what are those signals actually measuring?
A candidate may have an extraordinary track record and still be completely wrong for your business. Their results belong to a particular offer, market, company, sales process, and moment in their career. Once those conditions change, the résumé can become far less predictive than it first appeared.
In this newest episode of Sales is NOT a Dirty Word, I examine the assumptions that cause business owners to misread sales candidates and make expensive hiring decisions.
The traits commonly associated with great salespeople deserve more scrutiny. So do the qualities that rarely sound impressive in an interview, yet may reveal far more about how someone will sell, collaborate, and respond once the easy momentum disappears.
Listen in to consider:
What a candidate’s previous results can and cannot tell you
Which familiar “sales personality” traits deserve closer examination
The interview questions that reveal how someone thinks beneath the polished answers
What compensation preferences may expose about a candidate’s expectations
Hiring a salesperson requires you to see deeper than the performance happening across the interview table or the story on the resume.
If you are preparing to hire a salesperson or your current team is underperforming, book a Grow Your Sales call with me. We’ll examine your sales process, compensation plan, KPIs, and the conditions your team needs to perform consistently:
https://calendly.com/aleasha/salesteam-levelup
You can also take the free Sales Personality Assessment to uncover your natural sales strengths and learn how to use them instead of forcing tactics that do not fit you:
https://assessment.aleashabahr.com/salespersonality
KEY TIMESTAMPS
01:00 | How sales candidates sell business owners during the interview
02:00 | Why previous sales success may not transfer to your offer
03:00 | The revenue consequences of hiring someone motivated only by commission
04:00 | When industry relationships disguise deteriorated sales skills
05:40 | Interview questions that reveal empathy and collaboration
06:20 | Why a lone-wolf salesperson can become a serious liability
08:00 | What a large base salary request may reveal
08:40 | Structuring commissions around the behavior your business needs
10:00 | Why winging your first sales hire becomes painfully expensive
11:00 | Getting support with your sales process, KPIs, and compensation plan
#SalesIsNotADirtyWord #BlackSheepSales #SalesHiring #SalesRecruitment #HiringSalespeople #SalesInterview #SalesLeadership #SalesManagement #SalesTeam #SalesCompensation #CommissionStructure #SalesStrategy #BusinessGrowth #SalesCoaching #EntrepreneurPodcast
Your highest-grossing salesperson may be the most expensive problem on your team.
They get the best leads, extra resources, and a different set of rules. Their revenue looks too valuable to risk, so leadership keeps making exceptions.
Meanwhile, the rest of the team notices.
Talented salespeople stop trying. Good ideas stay buried. Resentment grows. Eventually, people leave while the person causing the damage becomes even more indispensable.
In this newest episode of Sales is NOT a Dirty Word, I’m talking about the sales diva: the salesperson whose results give them enough leverage to manipulate opportunities, demand special treatment, and leave business owners feeling trapped.
Their numbers may look impressive and they certainly reference them often when asking for exceptions and preferential treatment.
It’s important to take a close look and ask - How much of their success comes from skill? How much comes from receiving better leads, inheriting established relationships, or claiming opportunities developed by someone else?
And if one person needs every advantage to remain your top performer, what could the rest of your team accomplish with equal support?
Listen in to discover:
How a salesperson gradually gains enough leverage to hold a business hostage
The warning signs that special treatment is damaging the rest of your team
Why revenue alone cannot tell you who your strongest salesperson is
What genuinely skilled salespeople bring to a team beyond closed deals
A sales diva rarely becomes a serious problem overnight. The danger grows every time leadership overlooks harmful behavior to protect the revenue attached to it.
So how much damage are you willing to absorb before your “top performer” becomes too expensive to keep?
Book a sales call audit with me, and we’ll uncover where your sales process or team structure may be costing you revenue:
https://calendly.com/aleasha/salesteam-levelup
You can also take the Sales Personality Assessment to uncover your natural sales strengths and learn how to use them instead of forcing tactics that don’t fit you:
https://assessment.aleashabahr.com/salespersonality
Key Timestamps
01:00 What a sales diva is and how someone grows into one
01:40 When the business owner feels held hostage
02:25 What the rest of the team sees: the favorite child effect
03:15 The poison behind the scenes: lead stealing and office politics
04:00 The plant analogy every sales leader needs to hear
05:00 The long-tenure rep coasting on old relationships
06:00 Hungry vs. entitled: what separates real top performers
06:45 How sales divas drive turnover and silence good people
07:45 The worst reason to favor a salesperson
08:30 Prevention: what actually makes a top-performing salesperson
09:40 How to get support building a win-win sales team
#SalesIsNotADirtyWord #BlackSheepSales #SalesLeadership #SalesManagement #SalesTeam #TopPerformer #SalesCulture #SalesStrategy #SalesPerformance #TeamLeadership #BusinessGrowth #SalesCoaching #EmployeeRetention #RevenueGrowth #EntrepreneurPodcast
You just got off a great discovery call. You can already see everything you could fix, every opportunity they’re missing, and the massive result you could create together.
So you put all of it into a $100,000 or $150,000 proposal, present your big vision, and wait for them to say yes.
Instead, they disappear.
The problem isn’t necessarily your pricing or the value of your work. A brand-new prospect simply doesn’t know if you’re full of shit yet.
So, asking them to commit to a massive engagement before you’ve delivered anything means asking them to take on a level of risk most buyers aren’t comfortable with.
In this newest episode of Sales is NOT a Dirty Word, I’m breaking down why ambitious proposals often stall, why emailing the proposal makes it even easier for prospects to ghost you, and how to create a smaller first offer that gives the client a real result without devaluing your expertise.
Because the goal is a long term client and a big proposal - and that’s more likely to happen when you earn trust first.
Listen in to discover:
Why a prospect can believe in your solution and still reject the proposal
What buyers are really evaluating when you ask them to approve a large investment
How to create a smaller first offer without discounting or diminishing your work
The discovery questions you need answered before structuring your proposal
Why a well-designed first engagement can lead to longer and more profitable client relationships
If your proposals keep stalling after you email them over, you probably don’t need a more persistent follow-up sequence. You need to understand what’s making the initial decision feel too risky.
Book a sales call audit call with me, and we’ll find out where your sales process is losing the deal:
https://calendly.com/aleasha/salesteam-levelup
You can also take the Sales Personality Assessment to uncover your natural sales strengths and learn how to use them instead of forcing tactics that don’t fit you:
https://assessment.aleashabahr.com/salespersonality
Key Timestamps
00:00 – Why I don’t email sales proposals
01:40 – The mistake behind $100K and $150K proposals
02:10 – Why new prospects are afraid of getting burned
02:35 – Selling one small win that can stand on its own
03:15 – Why retention and upselling beat constant client acquisition
04:40 – The two definitions of success your proposal must address
06:00 – Why giant proposals keep great service providers from getting hired
06:25 – Making the first investment easier to say yes to
07:00 – What a valuable standalone offer can look like
08:00 – Building an intentional upsell process
08:25 – Why simple proposals convert better than buzzword-heavy decks
#SalesIsNotADirtyWord #BlackSheepSales #SalesProposal #ProposalStrategy #B2BSales #SalesStrategy #SixFigureSales #ClientAcquisition #ClientRetention #Upselling #ConsultativeSelling #SalesConversion #SalesCoaching #ServiceBasedBusiness #EntrepreneurPodcast
“Let me think about it” has probably launched more awkward follow-up emails than any other sentence in sales.
You leave the call not even knowing where to go after that because there wasn’t an obvious objection to work through. How do you follow up with that - ask them what they need to think about? How long do they need? Neither.
The answer is to get curious - yes - but in a different, more specific way.
People rarely arrive at hesitation out of nowhere. There’s usually something underneath it: a question they haven’t asked, a concern they haven’t named, a detail that still feels fuzzy, or a very legitimate reason that moving forward today would be the wrong decision.
And yes, sometimes that reason is absolutely valid. You don’t know until you do some digging though.
In this episode of Sales Is Not a Dirty Word, I’m pulling apart what can actually be happening when a promising sales conversation ends in “let me think about it” and where you should start looking when you hear it.
Listen in to discover:
What signals to spot when a prospect hesitates at the end of a conversation
The questions buyers can have without quite knowing how to articulate them
Why curiosity gets you further with an objection than trying to convince or overcome
How to discern when hesitation deserves more conversation and when someone genuinely needs more time
If you’ve ever experienced the paralyzing uncertainty that can happen in the face of this nebulous objection - listen to the full episode before you send another “just checking in” follow-up.
Curious why your own sales conversations are converting less than 50%?
Book your sales audit with me and let’s find out what’s happening inside your process:
https://calendly.com/aleasha/salesteam-levelup
Take the Sales Personality Assessment to leverage your own unique strengths here:
https://assessment.aleashabahr.com/salespersonality
01:15 — The real reason it happens: something wasn't uncovered earlier
02:10 — Why prospects don't ask the questions they actually have
03:05 — Client story: when "I need to regroup" was really about the offer, not the price
04:20 — Not a fit yet versus not a fit ever, and why the difference matters
05:10 — What "let me think about it" is really hinting at
06:00 — Why bringing up objections yourself builds trust instead of planting doubt
07:05 — What happens when you skip this question, and why prospects ghost instead of answering
08:00 — Telling prospects exactly when your offer doesn't work
09:00 — The last resort line to use when someone says they'll think about it
#SalesIsNotADirtyWord #BlackSheepSales #SalesObjections #LetMeThinkAboutIt #SalesTraining #SalesTips #SalesStrategy #SalesCoach #SmallBusinessSales #B2BSales #EntrepreneurPodcast #SalesPodcast #ConversionRate #SalesLeadership #AuthenticSelling #SalesSkills #TrustBasedSelling #WomenInSales #BusinessGrowth #SalesMindset








