Claim OwnershipIntimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
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The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame!
*TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST*
Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you.
I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust.
Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, wife, and working mom. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked.
I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you!
If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ,
Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage,
Feel authentic connection without the secrets,
And move forward with strength and dignity,
Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and your marriage can be even better than it was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your life and marriage better than it’s ever been!
*TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST*
Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you.
I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust.
Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, wife, and working mom. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked.
I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you!
If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ,
Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage,
Feel authentic connection without the secrets,
And move forward with strength and dignity,
Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and your marriage can be even better than it was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your life and marriage better than it’s ever been!
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What is it that you really want? Could you describe your ideal life and family in detail? If not, it's time to get serious about dreaming with God again!
"Your body cannot go where your brain has never been."
Today is all about coloring in the picture of your life and marriage. Begin to tell your brain what is safe and familiar and what YOU choose to pursue. No more letting old patterns control you.
Come share your answers in our community!
You are worth dreaming with Daddy, my sister!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Do you cringe at words like boundaries or rules? I do!
But when I reflected on that because I was looking for a new M.O., I realized, I need structure and support. Ahh, that feels better.
Last episode we talked about a plant and how we can choose success in thriving instead of failure to thrive.
Now, let's dig deeper into some practical applications of what that might look like for you! Come share your structure in our community!
You are a beautiful and precious flower, my sister!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Do you cringe at words like boundaries or rules? I do!
But when I reflected on that because I was looking for a new M.O., I realized, I need structure and support. Ahh, that feels better.
Today, let's dive into an example of a plant and how we can choose success in thriving instead of failure to thrive. Next week, we'll dig deeper into some practical applications of what that might look like for you.
You are a beautiful and precious flower, my sister!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Last episode, we talked about getting out of your head and taking back control of your mind and thoughts. Today, I think it's equally as important to talk about our bodies.
God made our bodies and called them very good. But do you ever struggle with wanting to go back to your former way of living? The one that didn't honor your body how God intended?
Join me as I walk through a few Scripture passages and remind us of what God says. Stop focusing on the past. We have a new nature, created to be holy and righteous!
How else do YOU care for your physical body?
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Do you ever catch yourself thinking or doing something you wish you could stop? Do you ever feel stuck in a rut like you can't get out of your head?
I'm coming at you today with tons of practical tips on changing that! Let's work to rewire your brain so that you can create the habits and life you actually want.
I'd love to hear what your next step is!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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Imagine if Jesus showed up at your house today and sat down with you. What if He asked you, "Do you want to be healed? Do you want to get well?" How would you answer?
Unfortunately, the only "right" answer is the honest one. But there is HOPE for healing and forgiveness in Jesus's name!
And always remember: You are not alone!
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I had a mentor ask me a really great question: What do you think you need to do next? And my own answer really surprised me. I needed a plan in several areas of my life, because without a plan, I was less likely to get anything done.
I realized this applied to exercise. To business. To time with God. And even to my marriage!
So are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? What do you need to do next? Listen as I share my 6 tips for both your personal and marriage growth!
Always remember: You are not alone!
JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link!
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For the first time ever, I'm giving you a sneak peek into a weekly coffee chat I hosted. You women bring so much experience and wisdom to the table, and I'm so grateful to be on this journey with you! We talked about:
1. When an affair affects your family relationships
2. What has helped you grow spiritually on your healing journey?
3. Having an experience of Christ's love- do we have to walk through a traumatic experience?
4. Christ meets us in our anxiety!
Always remember: You are not alone!
JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link!
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It's that time of year! Roses, hearts, love, teddy bears and chocolate, and- emotional overload. During the affair, holidays were always a disconnecting experience. I disconnected from God, disconnected from my husband, and disconnected from myself. Today, I choose different!
Get ready for some mindset work AND practical application! It's time we commit to living in truth, communicating our desires, and working on ourselves. Remember to come tell me what you're changing this week!
And always remember: You are not alone!
JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link!
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Maybe you've heard the verse "There is no more condemnation" (Romans 8:1) or "Throw off your former way of life" (Ephesians 4:22), but for some reason, the past keeps popping up in your mind and blocking your vision. Even after I was on my healing journey, I still wrestled with everything pointing back to "the affair"!
I want to share a sneak peak into a counseling session I had during that season and share a few reflection questions I learned then. Join me on the daily journey of shedding your shame to live in true freedom!
And always remember: You are not alone!
JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link!
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You were created for connection. But somewhere along the line, your Enemy tried to steal it. He tried to disconnect you from others, from God, and even from yourself. But not today! Let's chat about what happens when the Enemy lies to you and why community is really that important.
You are not alone!
JOIN US for our coffee chat and Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Tuesdays at 8:30 pm EST. Ask me for the link!
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Jumping in today to a difficult question and answer- Is it okay if I still miss my affair partner? And the (short) answer is- yes! But then I would challenge you to dig in a bit deeper.
-How are you giving yourself space to ride out the emotions like you ride out a snow storm?
-What are you believing about the affair? About the partner? About yourself? About your marriage?
-Have you ever written out your whys for why you chose to end the affair? And why you chose to commit to your marriage?
You are not alone!
JOIN US for our coffee chat and Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Tuesdays at 8:30 pm EST. Ask me for the link!
Community on Facebook
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Email me directly
Grab Fervent on Amazon (or Audible)
Do you know you know you should be praying for yourself and your marriage, but you just can't drag your feet to your prayer closet anymore? Have you started to think that maybe your sin really is blocking your prayers from heaven?
You are not alone!
JOIN ME for our Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Starting THIS Tuesday, January 9 at 8:30 pm EST. Just ask me for the link...
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Looking for accountability? Let's connect over HERE! You are not alone!
Need access to a coach on demand? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can support you!
Ever been part of an accountability group? What was your experience? I've had a few great ones, but I've also been part of a few that fed my shame and guilt.
Join me today as I look at a few ideas of what accountability should NOT look like and also some things it needs to have.
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
Happy 6 months Podcast Family! Today I take a few minutes to reflect on how I decided to share my story publically, a few things I've learned along the way, and some advice on whether or not you should go public as well.
Have you ever wished you had immediate access to a coach who gets it? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
PS- Did you know your brain physically heals as you share your story in a safe space? COME join our FREE community HERE! You are not alone!
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you!
One of the first questions in my healing journey was around my identity: who am I now? And more importantly, who does God say I am? So often we look at what we DO for a job or what we accomplish. But what if my identity isn't about my actions? That's great news for those of us who have struggled!
Join me today as I use Colossians 3 to answer those questions and more! Where are you? Who are you? And what can I do based off that?
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
Join community HERE. You are not alone!
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you!
Sister, Do you resonate with this? Sometimes you don't need another 3 point sermon; you just need someone to sit and hold your heart.
Today, I just want to sit and share some thoughts I've had while reading a life-changing book, Quenched. I pray that these thoughts challenge you in the deepest parts to know God more fully and get a clearer picture of how He sees you. (Hint: It's NOT with disgust!)
I pray you feel loved and seen, and that this encourages your healing journey. You were rescued and set FREE! It's time to walk in the freedom.
Find Jessica Harris's book Quenched HERE
Follow Jessica on Instagram @beggarsdaughter
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Let's be honest, healing is sort of like an onion. Just when you think it's going to be smooth sailing, then it's time to peel back another layer.
Today, I share about a time I almost relapsed, but this time I had a plan. And I had wise counsel who almost made me cry on an airplane. So let's shed that shame and lean in to the hard and holy work of taking every thought captive.
Check out the Facebook community where we can be that safe space for the scary moments!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
Next steps:
Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity
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I get it: the day starts, you get everyone out the door, you're off to work, then you're home for homework, dinner, baths, and bed, and then you crash into bed with any ounce of energy you have left. And for what? To get up and do it again tomorrow?
I promise you, friend- there IS a better way! Today, let's talk about eliminating hurry, and creating space for the things that matter.
You matter. Your marriage matters. Your children matter. Your time matters. Let's take them back instead of letting the temptation of hurry take control.
Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on!
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
Next steps:
Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity
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Listen up: God used my passion for Network Marketing to rescue me from the affair. What?! How's that for a business strategy?
Today I share the part of my story where I chose to be around leveled up leaders who are determined to make an impact for the Kingdom. I share the lessons they taught me and how it applies to you, too.
Now if you are a network marketer who wants to know the upcoming 2024 trends along with how to make a Kingdom-Impact with your business, I have a treat for you!
Monique Scrip & Becky Baxter will be hosting a FREE masterclass all about how to use Kingdom strategies to build your business. We would love for you to join us and share with with your teams!
Register here: https://scripandbaxter.myflodesk.com/freemasterclass
I pray you experience the love of Christ today!
xoxo,
KristinaJoy
PS- Hear my interview on Monique's podcast! Episode 95: Prioritizing your Marriage
Next steps:
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