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Christian podcast messages on dating, relationships, finances and marriage and life brought to you by Oasis- Singles.com Our mission at Oasis Christian Singles is to be a resource hub that provides loving and practical support for Christian Singles of all stripes We are partnering with hundreds of Christian singles ministries, pastors, counselors and singles like yourself to bring you practical stuff you can use.
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Christian singles ask us this often: What can Christian couples do sexually before marriage? Is masturbation together ok? Another question I hear often is: Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? In today’s age of modern relationships, many Christian couples find themselves navigating the intricate boundaries of intimacy before marriage. Traditional Christian teachings emphasize the importance of preserving sexual purity, and not why Christian couples should not live together before marriage. And when Christian couples falter, is a […]
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So, you’re a single Christian trying to stay holy while navigating a world that seems determined to throw temptation at you from every direction. It’s like walking through a dessert buffet when you’re on a strict diet. Except instead of desserts, it’s a never-ending stream of, well… you get the idea. Fear not, friend. This guide is here to help you keep your focus on God while keeping your sense of humor intact. Let’s dive into some practical, warm, and […]
The post How to Control Desire for Sex as a Christian Single: A Warm, Witty Guide appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips.
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Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical […]
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Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent […]
The post Loving a Dismissive-Avoidant Christian Single appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips.
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Dating after divorce for Christian single men and women is wrought with theological and emotional minefields. So before discussing dating tips for the newly divorced, let us express our simple views on what we feel the Bible teaches about divorce and remarriage. A future article will discuss this in depth. The bottom line is God hates divorce (Mal. 2:16), and desires couples to reconcile if at all possible. However, under certain circumstances where there has been unrepentant infidelity, the offended […]
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Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate […]
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Having personal experience in this area, it’s easy for Christians, especially singles, to fall into the trap of constant worrying. This concern can pertain to aspects of daily life, relationships, future plans, and even spiritual growth. However, the Bible provides profound wisdom and practical advice on how to release these anxieties and find peace in God’s promises. Understanding Worry Through a Christian Lens Worry is often a reaction to the uncertainties and potential problems that we might face. But as […]
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Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions designed by God, symbolizing the union between Christ and the Church. As Christian singles, it’s natural to desire a spouse who aligns with your values and deepens your walk with God. However, navigating singleness with a Christ-centered focus can be challenging in today’s world. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or considering engagement, this guide provides marriage advice tailored to Christian singles seeking to honor God in their relationships. 1. Embrace Singleness as a Season […]
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Being a single dad is a bit like starring in your own reality show—complete with the chaos, triumphs, and plenty of snack-time drama. Add to that the desire to raise your kids with biblical principles, and you’ve got a role that requires faith, patience, and a sense of humor sharper than a toddler’s “why” phase. Let’s unpack the joys and challenges of being a single Christian dad, with some laughs along the way, because, let’s face it, we all need […]
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Have you ever heard of the saying, “There’s a thin line between love and hate?” Have you ever been in a love-hate dating relationship? In the realm of Christian dating, navigating the intricate dynamics between love and hate can be a delicate endeavor. This dichotomy, often as slender and fragile as a thread, warrants a profound understanding and discernment, especially when it comes to building relationships that honor both personal values and spiritual beliefs. Below, we delve into the nuanced […]
The post Thin Line Between Love and Hate: A Christian Dating Perspective appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips.
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Relationships, even the most God-centered ones, can sometimes be challenging. Arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship but for Christian couples, navigating these conflicts with grace, patience, and biblical wisdom is essential. If you and your partner argue regularly, don’t be discouraged—there are ways to communicate more effectively, grow closer to each other, and strengthen your relationship with Christ. In this article, we’ll explore Christian dating advice for couples who argue often, backed by biblical principles and practical solutions. […]
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Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of […]
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Financial independence is a goal that resonates deeply with many, including Gen Z Christian singles navigating today’s complex economic landscape. It’s a pursuit of freedom—freedom from financial stress, from reliance on others, and from the burden of debt. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are reminded that financial wealth is not the ultimate measure of our lives. It is God who grants us the ability to accumulate wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18), and with that blessing comes the responsibility of stewardship. As […]
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Burnout is an increasingly prevalent issue in today’s fast-paced world, affecting people across various life stages and vocations. For Christian singles, the challenges of balancing faith, relationships, work, ministry, and personal goals can lead to unique stressors. This article explores the signs and symptoms of burnout among Christian singles, providing compassionate insights and steps toward healing. What is Burnout? Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged and excessive stress. It often manifests when someone […]
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I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves […]
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Christian stewardship might sound like one of those heavy, grown-up topics best left for pastors and church treasurers, but let’s face it—stewardship is for all of us! Yes, even you, single and thriving (or surviving). In fact, being single offers unique opportunities to practice stewardship in ways that honor God and make life richer—not to mention a bit more fun. Let’s dive into how you, as a single Christian, can embrace stewardship with warmth, humor, and a little creativity. What […]
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In the journey of life, many Christian singles often find themselves pondering, “Why am I still single?” This profound question resonates through the corridors of their hearts, mingling with faith and the yearning for companionship. As a single Christian myself, I understand the intricate blend of hope, patience, and trust in God’s plan that shapes our experience. In this article, we’ll explore this journey, offering insights and tips to remain hopeful about the future. Understanding God’s Timing First and foremost, […]
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Life as a Christian single can feel like an intricate dance—a delicate balancing act between work, ministry, family, friendships, and the looming question of whether God’s calling for you includes a partner. It’s easy to tip the scales in one direction, neglecting self-care, relationships, or your walk with Christ. But fear not! Balancing life and prioritizing as a single Christian doesn’t have to feel like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. Let’s explore some practical (and hopefully funny) ways […]
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Knowing when to leave a relationship can be one of the most daunting decisions. Grounded in faith, Christian singles are often guided by principles of love, commitment, and the belief in a God-ordained partnership. However, there are circumstances where leaving a relationship is not only wise but necessary for personal well-being and spiritual growth. This article aims to provide Christian singles with a compassionate, biblically-informed guide on recognizing when a relationship may no longer be their path to walk. Understanding […]
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So you’ve decided to try Online Christian Dating? Great! Now let’s talk about safety dating tips to keep you from ending up in some whacko’s trunk! Most online Christian personals, dating sites and Christian chatrooms provide some online safety dating tips, and do their best to ensure members’ privacy and safety while using their particular dating services. However, since none of these Christian dating sites can 100% guarantee that your next date will not be Ted Bundy II, Christian singles […]
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