The Favorite Marriage

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine explain how unrealistic, unspoken, and rigid personal expectations damage marriages by creating resentment, causing constant disappointment, and promoting impossible standards for a partner to meet. When individuals expect their spouse to be perfect or fulfill all their needs, it leads to conflict and hides the relationship's strength.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #MarriageGoals #DateNightChallenge #BiblicalMarriage #GodsFavorOnYourForever #ManagingExpectations

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine unpack the idea of selfishness in marriage. Selfishness has an underlying issue, and trying to understand the root cause can provide a different perspective and a positive way forward to a healthy marriage.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #MarriageGoals #DateNightChallenge #BiblicalMarriage #GodsFavorOnYourForever

The greatest enemy to marriages is selfishness. Every couple at some point in their marriage will experience some form of selfishness. In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine ask a question every spouse has asked - "Why is my spouse so selfish?" Every couple encounters it at some point, and when it shows up, it can quietly erode connection, trust, and intimacy.Monty and Jeannine unpack three common root causes of selfishness in marriage:Distorted expectations – when our assumptions about marriage don’t match reality.Hidden resentment – when unresolved hurt begins shaping our behavior.Parental modeling – when the patterns we witnessed growing up influence how we treat our spouse.But the conversation doesn’t stop with the problem. They also share the powerful antidote to selfishness: Agape love—the kind of selfless, sacrificial love that strengthens marriages and reflects God’s design.If selfishness has ever crept into your relationship (and it has for all of us), this episode will give you practical insight and biblical encouragement to help you move from self-centered living to Christ-centered loving.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #MarriagePitfalls #NationalMarriageWeek #GodsFavorOnYourForever

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine sit down with Jeff Anderson to talk about the importance of returning to God’s original design for marriage. In a culture with many competing ideas about relationships, they discuss why rediscovering the Biblical foundation for marriage can bring strength, clarity, and lasting love.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #MarriageGoals #DateNightChallenge #BiblicalMarriage #GodsFavorOnYourForever

“There can be no intimacy—emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, physical intimacy—without vulnerability.”  - Brene Brown.In this 5-Minute Friday, we share a Marriage Motivation on the topic of being vulnerable. Vulnerability is one of the most strongest qualities in marriage. When a couple leans into the practice of being vulnerable, they will discover a lasting intimacy - emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Vulnerability is not weakness, it's a strength. Vulnerability is scary and often takes a "shaky courage" to show up for your spouse and let them see you for who you really are. 🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #Vulnerability #GodsFavorOnYourForever

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine were guests on Crosswalk Colorado Springs radio show (100.7 Way FM) with Jeff Anderson. In light of National Marriage Week, they discussed how to avoid two pitfalls in marriage.1. The Performance Trap2. The Comparison TrapIf you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage, this episode is just for you.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #MarriagePitfalls #NationalMarriageWeek #GodsFavorOnYourForever #DateNightChallenge

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine unpack two essential date nights every couple should intentionally build into their marriage. First, the Fun Date—a time to laugh, play, and simply enjoy being together again. Then, the Romantic Date—a more intentional space to rekindle passion, deepen emotional connection, and nurture physical intimacy.If your marriage has slipped into routine mode, this quick conversation will give you practical clarity on how both types of dates work together to keep love vibrant, playful, and deeply connected.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #MarriageGoals #DateNightChallenge #MarriageandDating #GodsFavorOnYourForever #Dating

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine were guests on Crosswalk Colorado Springs radio show (100.7 Way FM) with Jeff Anderson. They share creative ways how couples can make Valentine's Day even better. They invite couples to the 3 Date Night Challenges:1. The Fun Date2. The Romantic Date3. The Communication DateIf you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage and exciting date night ideas, this episode is just for you.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #ValentinesDay #MarriageandValentinesDay #GodsFavorOnYourForever #DateNightChallenge

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine get spicy as they talk about buying lingerie and feeling the pressure to perform. They also reveal a performance trap that couples fall into when planning for Valentine's Day.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #ValentinesDay #MarriageandValentinesDay #GodsFavorOnYourForever

Valentine's Day is a time to slow down the rush of life and celebrate your marriage and love. In this heartfelt episode of The Favorite Marriage, Monty and Jeannine discuss what married couples really want on Valentine’s Day, and some of it may surprise you. Valentine’s Day forces a moment to slow down and ask, “How are we really doing?”This episode also helps couples avoid the Valentine's Day Traps:1. The Trap of Performance - "Did I do enough?"2. The Trap of Comparison - "Their marriage is better than ours."If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage, this episode is just for you.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #ValentinesDay #MarriageandValentinesDay #GodsFavorOnYourForever #LoversandLeaders

In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine dive into the realities of life in a blended family and the intentional work it takes to keep your marriage strong at the center. They unpack how humility, transparency, and shared grace can transform the tone of a blended home, strengthen your connection as a couple, and create a safer space for everyone involved. Whether you’re navigating step-parenting, merging family cultures, or simply trying to protect your marriage, this short conversation offers practical encouragement you can apply right away.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.#blendedfamily #parenting #marriageandparenting

In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty and Jeannine explore how the pressures of raising children don’t create new marriage problems but instead expose the ones that were already there. From communication breakdowns and unmet expectations to unresolved conflict and differing parenting styles, this episode helps couples understand why parenting stress often amplifies tension in marriage. More importantly, they give hope-filled encouragement to help couples address the root issues, strengthen their connection, and build a healthier marriage while navigating the demands of parenthood.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.

In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine Mora talk openly about keeping your marriage a priority while raising children.  They discuss how marriage shifted from romance to parental leadership—and why that’s not a loss, but a calling.Together, they walk couples through four essential areas as lover and leaders:Marriage is firstParenting reveals marriage The kids are really watchingChoosing each other in every seasonThis episode is filled with practical questions, prudent insight, and real-life encouragement to help you and your spouse balance marriage and parenting.If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage while leading kids, this episode is just for you.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #NewYearMarriage #GodsFavorOnYourForever #MarriageandParenting #LoversandLeaders

In this 5-Minute Friday, Monty & Jeannine talk about the power of mapping out your marriage for the year ahead. Marriages don’t drift on purpose—they drift when there’s no clear vision or direction. In just five minutes, you’ll gain simple clarity to help you be intentional about where your marriage is headed.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful message. A better marriage.#MarriageMap #TheFavoriteMarriage #MarriageGoals

Conflict is bound to happen in your marriage. But what matters is how you handle it. If you learn to handle conflict well, you can grow closer. In this 5-Minute Friday of The Favorite Marriage podcast, Monty and Jeannine address common mistakes couples make in trying to manage conflict. Sadly, many couples never learn how to deal with issues. They live their lives in a constant stream of unhealthy conflict resolution. It's important to know the really bad ways to resolve conflict so you don’t repeat them in your marriage.Just 5 minutes. One meaningful message. A better marriage.

What if your marriage didn’t just drift into 2026—but moved forward with intention?In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine Mora introduce a powerful marriage tool called The Marriage Map—a practical and faith-filled way for couples to plan their year together on purpose. Just like any journey, a healthy marriage needs direction, alignment, and a shared destination.Together, we walk couples through four essential areas every marriage must map out:Spiritual – Growing closer to God together, not just individuallyEmotional – Strengthening connection, communication, and trustPhysical / Relational – Prioritizing time, intimacy, and friendshipFinancial – Creating unity, clarity, and peace around moneyThis episode is filled with practical questions, prudent insight, and real-life encouragement to help you and your spouse get on the same page and move into 2026 with confidence.If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a marriage with vision, direction, and purpose—this episode is your roadmap.🎧 Tune in and start mapping your favorite marriage.🔗 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow The Favorite Marriage Podcast for weekly relationship insights that are real, fun, and deeply helpful.Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resourcesRecent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/The Favorite Marriage Podcast: https://thefavoritemarriage.comConnect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #TheMarriageMap #MarriageGoals #NewYearMarriage #GodsFavorOnYourForever

In this 5-Minute Friday,Monty and Jeannine talk honestly about navigating transitions in marriage and recognizing when it’s time to pivot and move in a new direction—together. Whether you’re facing a career shift, empty-nesting, spiritual growth, health changes, or emotional disconnect, transitions can either strengthen your marriage or slowly pull you apart.This episode will help you discern when to hold steady, when to adjust your course, and how to walk confidently into your next season together.🎧 Perfect for couples asking: “What season are we in—and where is God leading us next?”Just 5 minutes. One meaningful message. A better marriage.

Welcome back to The Favorite Marriage Podcast with Monty and Jeannine Mora. In this special seasonal episode, Monty and Jeannine invite couples to experience what they call an ADVENTurous Marriage—one that intentionally embraces the sacred rhythms of Advent within married life. As the world rushes toward Christmas, this conversation gently calls couples to slow down, wait well, and prepare their hearts together.Through the lens of Advent, Monty and Jeannine take a meaningful deep dive into the four timeless themes of the season—hope, peace, joy, and love—and explore how each one strengthens, restores, and anchors a healthy marriage. From learning how to hold onto hope in hard seasons, to cultivating peace at home, choosing joy in the everyday moments, and allowing love to lead, this episode offers practical encouragement wrapped in spiritual truth.Celebrating Advent as a married couple can be one of the most spiritually intimate and connecting practices you share—creating space not only for Christ, but also for one another.So grab a warm drink, settle in, and join Monty and Jeannine as they unwrap the gift of Advent—and discover how slowing down, waiting together, and welcoming Jesus into the season can make this Advent—and your marriage—brighter than ever.To order KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise, visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🎉 Recent RecognitionThe Favorite Marriage Podcast was recognized as one of the Top Marriage Podcasts to Follow in 2025.“I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage, has been selected by our panelists as one of the Top Marriage Podcasts on the web.”— Anuj Agarwal, Founder of Feedspot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌐 The Favorite Marriage Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠📲 Connect With Us▶️ Follow Us:Website: https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriageFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #AdventAndMarriage #ChristianMarriage #FaithFilledMarriage #HealthyMarriage #WaitingWithHope #LoveCameDown

As the holiday season approaches, it’s more than just twinkling lights, family gatherings, and festive traditions—it’s a powerful invitation to slow down and notice the blessings right in front of us. And one of the greatest blessings we often overlook? Our marriage.In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast, Monty and Jeannine dive into the transformative power of gratitude and how it can strengthen your relationship in ways big and small.They explore:✨ Why gratitude is more than a feeling—it’s a practice✨ How expressing appreciation rewires the emotional climate of your marriage✨ Simple, everyday ways couples can show thankfulness✨ How gratitude can diffuse conflict, increase connection, and create joy✨ Stories from their own 30-year journey and the lessons they’re still learningWhether your marriage is thriving, surviving, or somewhere in between, gratitude has the power to soften hearts, shift perspectives, and remind you both of the beauty God has placed in your relationship.So grab a warm drink, settle in, and join Monty and Jeannine as they unwrap the gift of gratitude—and discover how being thankful can make this season (and your marriage) brighter than ever. Resources:To order the KEEP SHOWING UP merchandise visit our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2025. "I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web."  - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://blog.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Favorite Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠https://thefavoritemarriage.com⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media▶️ Follow:Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.thefavoritemarriage.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@thefavoritemarriage?si=oDZQ126jzF3Wymde -Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095217663567Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_favorite_marriage/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#TheFavoriteMarriage #TheFavoriteMarriagePodcast #ThanksgivingandMarriage #HealthyMarriage #GratitudeInMarriage

In this 5-Minute Friday of The Favorite Marriage podcast, Monty and Jeannine discuss their favorite holiday traditions. They also include several "Holiday Tips" on how to split up the holiday time with family and friends. If you are newlyweds or been married for a while, having flexibility in your holiday plans will be important as your family expands. Just 5 minutes. One meaningful message. A better marriage.