The Tired Dad & Tired Mom Podcast

In this episode, we talk about setting up our new podcast studio and how that whole process has been equal parts exciting and chaotic. From there, the conversation shifts into something we deal with daily: ADHD in a relationship and what that looks like while raising kids.We share how ADHD shows up differently for each of us and how learning to understand those differences has changed the way we communicate and divide responsibilities. We talk about building simple systems to survive the day-to-day, parenting kids who are encouraged to be themselves, and finding a balance between social lives, activities, and family time.We also reflect on how different childhood looks now compared to when we were growing up, especially with how convenience has reshaped social skills and resilience. At the heart of it all, this episode is about showing up for your partner, your kids, and yourself, even when you’re still figuring it out.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the New Podcast Studio02:55 Understanding ADD in Relationships05:43 Dividing Responsibilities in Parenting08:47 Managing Overwhelm and Daily Routines11:49 The Importance of Structure and Systems14:46 Encouraging Self-Expression in Children17:58 Navigating Social Interactions with Kids20:43 Balancing Extracurricular Activities23:37 Reflections on Childhood Experiences26:35 The Impact of Convenience on Social Skills29:33 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

In this episode of the Tired Dad and Tired Mom Podcast, we welcome 2026 by reflecting on how quickly time moves and how much we’ve grown along the way. We talk about what it’s taken to strengthen our communication, how outside negativity can quietly affect a relationship if you let it, and why learning to let go of resentment has mattered so much for us. We share why pursuing what lights us up isn’t selfish, how creativity plays a big role in the way we’re raising our kids, and what we’re focusing on in the year ahead. More connection. More authenticity. And building a community that feels honest, supportive, and real.Chapters00:00 Welcome to 2026: Reflections on Time02:54 Navigating Life Changes and Personal Growth05:51 Yucking Your Yum: Overcoming Negativity08:45 The Importance of Communication in Relationships11:36 Letting Go of Resentment and Embracing Change14:51 Finding Your Passion and Purpose17:57 The Journey of Self-Discovery20:52 Raising Creative Kids: Supporting Their Interests23:51 Setting Goals for 2026: A Year of Connection26:45 Embracing Aging: The Wisdom of Experience29:42 Creating a Family Culture of Connection32:33 The Power of Authenticity in Storytelling35:35 Building a Community of Support38:24 The Value of Vulnerability and Real Conversations41:32 Looking Ahead: Goals and Aspirations for the Future Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com 

We lied! We had to get one more episode in! This is an important one becaus eof its honesty. Before recording, the stress got the best of us and we had an argument. During the recording we were decompressing through it.In this episode, I reflect on how external chaos can quietly create tension between two people who actually love each other. How easy it is to snap, withdraw, or just go into survival mode instead of connection. We talk about why boundaries matter—especially during busy seasons—and how protecting your family sometimes means protecting your energy first.We touch on family rhythms and traditions—the ones we’re trying to build, and the ones that keep us grounded when everything feels rushed. And I open up about sobriety, growth, and what it really means to live authentically instead of just getting through the days.At the core of it all is this: real support, honest communication, and choosing each other—especially when life feels loud. This is a reminder that growth doesn’t happen when things are easy. It happens when we stay present in the hard moments and keep showing up anyway.Chapters00:00 The Chaos of the Holiday Season13:03 Navigating Family Dynamics and Stress19:27 Finding Balance and Self-Care20:26 Authenticity in Marriage24:11 Navigating External Stresses29:55 The Journey of Sobriety34:46 Understanding Alcohol's Impact48:40 Community and Support in SobrietySubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

Last episode of 2025 and I think we bring it home well!In this episode, we sit down and talk honestly about parenting as we’re living it right now. We get into the ups and downs of co-sleeping, how stuff from our own childhoods shows up in ways we don’t always expect, and why helping our kids understand their emotions feels just as important as anything else we’re trying to teach them.We share what we’ve learned so far, what we’re still figuring out, and how becoming parents has forced us to grow in ways we never saw coming. It’s really a conversation about connection, being more aware, and accepting that parenting is a constant work in progress, not something you ever fully have “figured out.”00:00 Introduction and Frame TV Art01:41 Generational Trauma and Parenting Reflections02:37 Co-Sleeping: Breaking Parenting Norms11:38 Parenting Challenges and Emotional Intelligence23:13 Rethinking Discipline and Gender Roles35:01 Learning from Children: Wisdom and Empathy47:36 The Journey of Parenthood: Growth and ChangeSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

In this episode we discuss the challenges of parenting during the holiday season, the importance of teaching children about generosity, and the impact of technology on social skills. We share personal anecdotes about their experiences with customer service, dining out with children, and the significance of fostering communication skills in kids. Our conversation also touches on the challenges posed by social media and the need for parents to set boundaries with technology. As they reflect on family traditions and look ahead to the future, they emphasize the importance of intentional parenting and embracing the chaos that comes with raising children.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast01:12 Navigating the Holiday Season03:30 Teaching Kids About Generosity05:16 The Importance of Customer Service09:35 Encouraging Communication Skills in Children11:01 The Impact of Technology on Social Skills21:48 Raising Kids in a Digital Age30:05 Setting Boundaries as Parents38:39 The Challenges of Social Media51:37 Reflections on the Holiday Season01:02:43 Looking Ahead to the FutureSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

In this episode, my wife and I talk about how wild the holidays can feel as parents. Trying to stay afloat while keeping up with everything while still making it special for the kids. We aren't experts on this but I do think all parents are in it together!Chapters00:00 Holiday Chaos and Multitasking Madness02:30 Nostalgia and Holiday Traditions05:04 Cultural Differences in Holiday Celebrations10:35 Family Dynamics and Growing Up16:12 Pets and Their Impact on Family Life21:17 Managing Stress During the Holidays29:33 Navigating Holiday Stress and Family Responsibilities35:16 Cherishing Family Traditions37:56 The Joy of Christmas Movies and Music40:22 Concert Experiences and Music Preferences45:25 Finding Balance During the Holidays49:41 Acts of Kindness and Community SupportSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

In this episode, we share our personal experiences with love, parenting, and the challenges that come with it. We discuss our love story, the impact of having children on our relationship, and the struggles of postpartum challenges. The conversation also touches on sobriety, balancing life and work, and the challenges of raising kids in a digital age. We emphasize the importance of communication, understanding, and the hard work that goes into parenting, while also reflecting on our hopes for our children's future.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates01:49 Love Story: When Did You Know?08:38 The Impact of Parenthood on Relationships17:35 Navigating Postpartum Challenges24:11 Sobriety and Parenting31:11 Balancing Life, Work, and Parenting36:29 Raising Kids in the Digital Age44:17 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

I sit down with Rob the Executive director of the Nonprofit, Sad Dads Club. He shares his story and how the organization is helping so many fathers through grief. Follow: Sad Dads ClubLearn about Sad Dads ClubSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com 

We finally got around to part two, and it led to so many other conversations! This is a prime example of how my wife and I communicate—laughs, tears, passionate explanations, it’s all in this episode. Hope you enjoy!Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com 

When my wife was 16, something happened that would change the course of the next 10 years of her life. This is part 1 of her story, where she shares what she went through and where we are now in our parenting journey. We share this vulnerability in hopes of helping those who still feel unheard and those who share the desire to raise emotionally healthy children.Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com  

Our opinion on the phrase, "I love my kids but I don't love parenting." We also discuss how the phrase, "Square Peg, Round Hole," has literally changed our life for the better!Get 50% OFF your first order when you use promo code “TIREDDAD” at GoNutre.com.Download the safest browser for your children, AngelQSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com 

We discuss the fact that we’re raising our children in a scary digital age, and what it means to be an intentional parent while trying to balance it all.Download the safest browser for your children, AngelQSubscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

After six cups of java, I jumped on a podcast with my amazing wife, and we dove deep into why parenting is never easy, why we sometimes pour from an empty cup, how struggles have made our marriage stronger, and what’s really causing parental burnout. I hope this encourages parents to see that being tired is, in fact, a badge of honor.Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

I sit down with DJ Envy, host of the world-famous show The Breakfast Club, and his amazing wife of 24 years. RaaShaun and Gia Casey are parents to six children and bring a wealth of wisdom and experience when it comes to parenting. We talk about everything from raising kids in the digital age to growing up in the '90s, guiding our children, marriage, and of course, I had to ask their Top 5 Emcees! Don’t miss this episode!Order their new book, Real Life, Real Family: A Guide to Raising Empowered ChildrenFollow DJ EnvyFollow Gia Casey

I welcome the founders of Desert Plunge, Matt and Brie. They have an inspiring story of how cold plunging changed their lives and how they plan on inspiring the world. We discuss sobriety, anxiety, and the challenging but rewarding side of entrepreneurship. Hope you enjoy this amazing episode!Make sure to follow Matt and Brie on InstagramEnter code TIREDDADLIFE for $100 off at Desert Plunge

We've entered the world of youth sports, spoken openly about what honesty should look like in marriage, and shared the reality of financial planning in our lives. This might be my favorite episode yet—we lay it all out in this one. Hope you enjoy!Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

Our family vacation to Florida, how my wife initially felt about my decision to get sober, current sobriety statistics, and teaching our children to have empathy to bullies. Stay in Okaloosa Island, FL with your family! BLU403DEAL for $100 off 5 night stay (excluding June/July) $200OFFBLU403 for $200 off 6 or 7 night stay (excluding June/July)Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

5 ways we avoided divorce after kids, date nights, remembering our sweet nanas, and more!Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

Embracing your weirdness, the "to do" list can wait, tangible memories and more in this short but meaningful episode!Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com

What does it mean to raise yourself again? How much screen time should we allow our kids? And what do we do when we mess up? All of this and more in this episode! Hope you enjoy!Follow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com