How to Deal When the Shit Gets Real Podcast

Buckle up as I am starting Season 7 with a bang! Buffie talks about handling her daughters' medical conditions that started before she was even born. That doesn't even include her medical concerns, between the two of them they have had a total of 14 surgeries. To top it all off, Buffie found out that after 9 years of marriage her husband, now X was a pedophile. This is one strong woman and you don't want to miss her story!

Today we talked with Dani about all her travels including hitchhiking on the west coast. Dani also opens up about an accident she was lucky to walk away from and how she healed and still handles having a TBI. **Update** Dani has since published her first book since our chat. Check it out at the link below! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHV2KQB7

We start the new year with the wonderful Naomi. She talks about her sister being diagnosed with cancer, finding out she has the BRCA gene, and how she was able to restart her life with purpose and love! If you are interested in getting involved with Naomi's non-profit, The Sassy Carmen Foundation, click the link below! https://www.sassycarmen.org/

In part two of my talk with Matt Williams, we dive deep into the power—and necessity—of having conversations about controversial topics. Matt opens up about what it’s really like to run for office, the lessons he learned along the way, and why respectful dialogue matters now more than ever.We talk about listening when it’s uncomfortable, finding common ground in chaos, and how courage and curiosity can change the world—one conversation at a time.

From surviving a rough childhood to working on a shrimp boat surrounded by addiction and being allergic to shrimp, Matt has lived through things that could break most people. In this episode, he opens up about the realities of growing up in chaos, his time in the military, and how those experiences led him to start his own podcast and find his voice.This is Part I of our conversation — next week, in Part II, we dig even deeper: why we’re so quick to believe one side before hearing the other, how to navigate hard conversations, and why open dialogue still matters.Important Links:WebsiteThe Life Liberty Show

After losing his son to devastating medical complications, Dr. Greg found himself questioning everything — his faith, his purpose, and even his beliefs about what it means to love unconditionally.In this powerful conversation, Greg opens up about the healing power of journaling, the importance of speaking your truth, and how grief can strip you down to what really matters. He shares how his work with Joni and Friends helped him rediscover peace, and how choosing empathy over judgment changed the way he views faith, family, and connection.This episode is a gentle reminder that your story matters. Your voice matters. And healing often begins the moment we stop hiding from our truth.Important Links:WebsiteJoni and FriendsBook

In this deeply personal episode, Pops shares how tragedy transformed into purpose. After losing his youngest son, Zach, he launched Zach’s Rays of Hope to honor his memory by bringing light and support to those who feel unseen. What started with handing out backpacks to people experiencing homelessness has grown into a mission of dignity, compassion, and community.Pops opens up about his grief, the vision behind the nonprofit, and what each backpack truly represents—more than supplies, they’re a message: you matter. We also dig into the realities of homelessness, how society can do better, and actionable ways each of us can help restore hope, one person at a time.Important Links:WebsiteYouTubeTikTok

Today I am joined by the incredible Nichole Lee who opens up about the grief she carried after her mother’s death — and how that loss became the catalyst for her own rebirth. She shares how she discovered the power of compound healing, why we don’t have to hold onto pain for the rest of our lives, and the ways we can alter our state by shifting the choices we make every day.This conversation is raw, powerful, and a reminder that while grief shapes us, it doesn’t have to define us.Ways to connect with Nichole:WebsiteIG

In this episode, I sit down with Pamela, who shares her incredible journey of transformation — from working as a nurse to finding her true calling as a hypnotherapist. Pamela opens up about leaving not one, but two difficult marriages, and how those experiences shaped her path toward healing and empowerment. Along the way, she offers practical advice and encouragement for anyone facing their own challenges, reminding us that it’s never too late to rewrite your story.Tune in for an honest, inspiring conversation about resilience, growth, and the power of choosing yourself.You can connect with Pamela at the following links:InstagramYoutubeWebsite

What if the memories you hold onto so tightly… aren’t as accurate as you think? In this powerful conversation, we dive into the fascinating ways memory gets reshaped every time it’s recalled — and how that impacts trauma, healing, and the stories we tell ourselves.Our guest shares her expertise in hypnosis, trauma recovery, and breaking free from victim mentality, helping us understand how the mind stores pain and how we can rewrite the narrative to step into freedom. From challenging what “truth” in memory really means, to uncovering the tools that can reprogram limiting beliefs, this episode is packed with insights that can shift how you see both your past and your future.If you’ve ever wondered why it’s so hard to move on, or why certain experiences still feel so fresh, this conversation will help you reclaim your power and begin the process of true healing.If you would like to connect with Conny or purchase her book you can do so below!WebsiteBook

Why are so many veterans struggling to find purpose after service — and what can we do about it?In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Don Gleason joins us to talk about the often-overlooked realities of transitioning out of the military. From skyrocketing suicide rates to the challenges of landing the right civilian job, Don shares personal insight, hard truths, and practical advice for veterans and everyday job seekers alike.We dive into:Why so many veterans feel lost after leaving the militaryThe mental toll of transition — and how to copeWhy applying to 100 jobs isn't the answer (hint: quality > quantity)How to craft a targeted resume that actually gets resultsThe power of self-reflection, purpose, and reinventionWhether you’re a veteran trying to find your next mission or someone stuck in a soul-sucking job search, this episode will change how you think about work, purpose, and personal growth.If you want to connect with Don, you can do so at the following link!Website

This week, I sit down with Yuki, founder of the Satori Mindset, to explore what it really means to live with intention, connect with your soul’s purpose, and rise out of the fog of feeling lost. Whether you're in the middle of a life pivot or just searching for deeper meaning, this conversation is exactly what your spirit needs.Connect with Yuki!www.feeling-awesome.comwww.satori-mindset.comSoul Purpose Skool Group

What is narcissism, really? In this episode, we’re joined by coach and expert Elizabeth Aguilera as she breaks down the different types of narcissists, the red flags to look out for, and how to protect yourself from their manipulative behaviors. Whether you’ve dealt with one or are just now learning what to watch for, this conversation will leave you empowered and equipped.🎙 Want to work with Elizabeth? You can do so at the following link!WebsiteFacebookLinkedInYouTube

Claudine Francois joins me to share her powerful journey from debilitating migraines to healing through functional medicine. After years of traditional treatments that only masked her symptoms, she discovered how to truly listen to her body and get to the root of her pain. In this episode, Claudine breaks down how functional medicine changed her life, why your symptoms are signals—not inconveniences—and how you can start advocating for your own health.If you've ever felt dismissed or stuck in the cycle of symptom management, this conversation will open your eyes and empower you to take control.To connect with Claudine you can do so below!WebsiteIGYouTube

Today I am joined by Maggie. She shares the importance of the flow method, Chakra healing, and shifting that timeline to get to where you want to be! Maggie has some wonderful tips and insight you do not want to miss!To connect with Maggie you can do so at the following linkWebsite

Today is about Heather Nicole Turner. Her case has gone unsolved for 8 years to the day. This is the year we want answers. I give a small breakdown of the case, how I got involved, and why we need to keep saying Heather's name.Links:Justice for Heather Turner FB pageJustice for Heather Turner TikTokMy TikTokDocumentary about Heather Turner - It Couldn't Happen Here

Today, I am joined by Tina, who at 10 years old had her dreams ripped away from her when her family joined a cult-like church. Later on, she ended up in not one, but three narcissistic relationships. She takes us on her journey from no boundaries to healthy boundaries! Tina has excellent advice you do not want to miss.

Today, I am joined by Jason, who provides a deep look into how men grieve. After losing his son, he struggled to find support and ended up taking things into his own hands. He not only created a group more geared towards men, he also made a grief coloring book! What started as letters to his son has now become a resource for so many(not just men)!If you want to connect with Jason or purchase the grief coloring book, you can do so at the links below!WebsiteColoring BookLetter To Zachary Grief Group

Today, I had the pleasure of chatting with Vinaya. After leaving his strict homeland of Germany, Vinaya traveled in flow on his quest for enlightenment. Once realizing what he needed was already inside, he found freedom from himself and true happiness. Vinaya's advice is something you don't want to miss.If you want to connect or work with Vinaya, you can do so below!Website

Today I am joined by Tatiana, who broke generational cycles to become a trauma therapist. Now focused on helping others, she shares the importance of nervous system regulation, somatic experience, and a safe environment. Tatiana serves up some simple yet beautiful ways to heal and you won't want to miss them.