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#321: If you've ever felt like you had to choose between the beauty trends you love and the ones that were "meant for you," this conversation will feel like permission to explore it all. Today I'm sitting down with Darcei Giles — the award-winning content creator who's been pioneering inclusivity in beauty since before it was an industry buzzword.Darcei shares her journey from making webcam videos in 2010 to becoming a bridge between Korean beauty innovation and Black beauty consumers. She opens up about the viral series that changed everything, the moment a brand actually listened to her feedback, and why she's spent over a decade refusing to delete her early content.This episode is for you if:You're navigating spaces where you don't see yourself reflectedYou're curious about what real brand inclusivity looks like behind the scenesYou want to understand how to build longevity in a constantly changing industryWe talk about…How a lighthearted video concept became a movement that gave thousands of Black women permission to experimentThe real reason Korean beauty brands are getting inclusivity right (and what American brands can learn)Why Darcei made three TikToks a day for 90 days straight — and gained 100K followersWhat happened when she told a foundation brand "call me" and they actually didThe difference between creating 30 shades and creating 30 good shadesGoing into the lab to create foundation shades that had never existed beforeWhy she keeps her earliest videos up despite the cringe factorWhat it takes to stay relevant for 15 years without losing yourselfHer plans to merge Korean skincare innovation with Black beauty needs in her own future brandEpisode Links:Follow Darcei on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missdarcei/?hl=enFollow Darcei on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missdarcei?lang=enCheck out Parnell Serum Cushion Foundation: https://parnellbeauty.com/products/parnell-serum-cushionGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#320: What if there’s less standing between you and your dream life than you think? If you've ever caught yourself thinking "that's too big of a dream," this episode is going to completely shift how you see what's possible for your life.Today I'm sitting down with Olivia Rose Thomas — manifestation coach, co-host of Inspired Delusions, and someone who went from being skeptical of the idea of manifesting to completely transforming her life through it. Olivia breaks down the neuroscience behind why getting your hopes up is the most powerful thing you can do, why your 95% subconscious mind might be sabotaging what you want, and how to rewire your brain to expect good things.This isn't just woo-woo talk — Olivia connects quantum physics, nervous system regulation, and brain science to explain why manifestation actually works. She shares how she manifested her dream apartment the day after putting it on her vision board, why being audacious about your goals gives your brain more dopamine and motivation, and the exact tools that help you feel safe enough to dream bigger than you ever thought possible.This episode is for you if:You're tired of playing it safe and ready to let yourself receive what you actually wantYou've tried manifesting before and felt like it didn't workYou want to understand the science behind why your thoughts literally shape your realityYou're ready to stop being realistic and start being audaciousWe talk about…The moment Olivia went from manifestation skeptic to believer — and manifested her exact dream living situationWhy getting your hopes up is actually less painful than believing nothing is possibleThe study that proves we only see what we're looking for (and how to use this to your advantage)What your subconscious mind really is and why 95% of your thoughts are working against you without you knowing itThe three R's formula: Recognize, Rewire, Regulate — and how to actually change your beliefsWhy EFT tapping calms your nervous system and clears the "clouds" blocking your natural state of worthinessHow to use subliminals safely (and why creating your own with your voice works faster)Why acting "as if" and changing your identity is more powerful than any manifestation ritualWhy being realistic is the fastest road to mediocrity — and what to do insteadHow to feel safe enough in your nervous system to actually let yourself hope for moreEpisode Links:Follow Olivia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliviarosethomas_/Follow Olivia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oliviarosethomas?lang=enListen to Olivia’s podcast, Inspired Delusions: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ETFmbKuK8CU6vYU9wFRwu?si=c93d63ba996d4dd7Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.Google Shopping: If you're stressing about finding those perfect presents, head over to g.co/holiday100Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#319: If you've ever lost your spark — that fire that used to drive you — and wondered if it would ever come back, this conversation is for you. Today I’m welcoming Rachel Rodgers back to the podcast. You know Rachel as the founder and CEO of Hello Seven, bestselling author, and someone who's living proof that audacious goals are within our reach.Rachel gets incredibly honest about a period of deep grief that nearly derailed her eight-figure business, how community pulled her back to her center, and the casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar plan. She shares why 10X-ing isn't about doing more (it's actually about doing less), how to use what you already have to create something new, and why setting small goals keeps us stuck.This episode is for you if:You're ready to stop playing small and set goals that actually light you upYou’re ready to get your spark back after a period of being off your gameYou want to understand what it really takes to 10X your focus and impactWe talk about…How Rachel turned a podcast into a TV show by following her creative instinctsThe six-month period of grief and depression that nearly stopped her businessWhy shame shields solutions — and the importance of community during hard timesThe casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar business planWhy 10X-ing your business is actually about subtraction and editing, not additionHow big goals wake you up in ways that 10% growth never willWhy most people quit right before things work — and how consistency winsHow to take stock of what you have and cook up your next move (even with nothing)Why Gen Z needs a completely different financial playbook than generations before themEpisode Links:Listen to Episode 223: Rachel Rodgers on How to Establish Million-Dollar HabitsWe Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel RodgersFuture Millionaire: A Young Person’s Step-by-Step Guide to Making Wealth Inevitable by Rachel RodgersMillion-Dollar Action Plan by Rachel RodgersSupport The Rachel Rodgers Show: Entrepreneurship, Uncensored on KickstarterGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Mosh: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever wondered what it really takes to scale a mission-driven business without losing yourself (or your values) along the way, this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by Beatrice Dixon, co-founder and CEO of The Honey Pot Company — the groundbreaking personal care brand that's transformed an entire industry.Beatrice opens up about what it means to lead a company that serves millions while staying deeply connected to its purpose. She shares the real story behind turning down a $450 million offer, why choosing the right partners matters more than the biggest check, and how she's learning to balance ambition with actual rest.This episode is for you if:You're building something at the intersection of abundance and integrityYou want to understand what a partnership really looks like in businessYou're trying to figure out when to say no (even to big opportunities)We talk about…How preparation creates freedom (even when plans don’t go exactly right)Why Beatrice turned down higher offers to protect the integrity of her companyWhat founders should look for when choosing investors and partnersWhere The Honey Pot stands on its relationship with TargetThe difference between being ahead of your time and wasting energyHow to stay in flow while still being strategic and preparedWhy loyalty and gratitude matter in business relationshipsEpisode Links:Pre-Order Beatrice’s Book, The Soul InstinctLearn more about The Honey Pot: https://thehoneypot.co/Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program at kalehealth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#317: If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything “right” in your career but still felt stuck, this is your episode. Today I’m joined by Naomi Wright and Krystal Vega, the powerhouse best friends and co-founders of Fortune & Forks — a community and social club built by and for women navigating their careers, connections, and calling.We talk about they went from meeting as interns at BET to launching and scaling a thriving movement. They share how they grew from curating intimate dinners to building a cross-city network of 500+ women, a foundation, and game-changing partnerships — all without losing the plot (or each other).This episode is for you if:You’re looking to build genuine relationships in your industry.You’ve been wondering how to actually find your people.You need motivation to help you start something before you’re ready.We talk about…How to actually network acrossWhy good people still win in businessHow Naomi and Krystal grew Fortune & Forks in its early stagesHow to be a real villager in your friendships + communityNavigating entrepreneurship during an economic downturnEpisode Links:Follow Fortune & Forks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fortuneandforks/Apply to join Fortune & Forks: https://www.fortuneandforks.com/applyLearn more about the Fortune & Forks Foundation Gala: https://givebutter.com/c/FortuneAndForksFoundationGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#316: Nia Sioux has been in the public eye since she was 9 years old. Most people first met her on Dance Moms, where she became known for her talent, her grace under pressure — and yes, for often being put at the bottom of the pyramid.Now at 24, Nia is reclaiming her story — on her own terms.In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to be perceived before you even know who you are, and how you begin to unpack that when the whole world thinks they already know your story. Nia opens up about the emotional process of writing her upcoming memoir Bottom of the Pyramid, what it took to revisit her childhood through adult eyes, and how she found closure by using her own voice.This is an honest, layered conversation about resilience, identity, and what it means to own the narrative of your life, especially when that narrative has long been shaped by others.Nia reminds us that reclaiming your narrative isn't just empowering — it's healing.In this episode, we cover:Nia’s emotional journey of revisiting her childhood on reality TVWhat it means to be “the underdog” — and how that label lingersHow the title Bottom of the Pyramid became a reclamation, not a resignationLearning how to tell your full story, even when people only want to hear certain partsReleasing the pressure to prove yourself (and who that performance is really for)What she's learned from watching the show as an adult — and what her mom taught her about strengthEpisode Links:Check out Nia’s memoir, Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life, available November 4thFollow Nia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/niasiouxFollow Nia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@niasiouxGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Jones Road Beauty: Modern-day makeup that’s clean, strategic, and multifunctional for effortless routines. Use code LUCKY at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase!Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.MOSH Bars: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#315: If you’ve ever felt underestimated, this episode is for you.Taylor Rooks is one of the most respected sports journalists in the game — and not because she plays it safe. She's built her career on asking fearless questions, trusting her gut, and refusing to shrink herself to fit into anyone else's idea of who she should be.In this conversation, Taylor and I talk about what it means to be a woman who takes up space and why the pressure to be palatable isn’t worth giving in to.We talk about ambition, integrity, reinvention, and the deep self-trust it takes to keep showing up when you have a big vision for your life. Taylor doesn’t just bring her voice to the table — she brings her values. And you can feel it in everything she does.We talk about:How the experiences of women in sports mirror broader societal beliefsWhy it’s powerful not to respond to every criticThe art of asking better questions (in life and interviews)Knowing your value, even when others want you to shrinkBuilding a career that reflects your values, not just your resumeHow to trust yourself when the opinions of others become too loudEpisode Links:Follow Taylor on InstagramWatch NBA on Prime VideoLearn more about the Taylor Rooks FoundationSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#314: If you've ever felt like you're supposed to be everything for everyone—while somehow also building a career, maintaining relationships, and taking care of yourself—this conversation is for you.Nina Westbrook is a licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of the mental wellness app Nebbi, host of the Do Tell Relationship Podcast, and a wife and mom of three. She's also someone who knows what it's like to push through challenging seasons including launching a business while navigating a debilitating injury.We talk about what happens when you stop making yourself smaller to keep everyone else comfortable. Nina shares how she navigates the tension between being fully present for her family and building something that matters to her, why difficult conversations don't have to feel like confrontations, and what it actually looks like to let people see your full humanity—even when it's messy. If you've been shrinking yourself to make room for everyone else, or waiting for the "right time" to prioritize what you actually need, this episode will leave you feeling inspired to show up for yourself fully.We also talk about:Recognizing when you're in a difficult season vs. when it's just your lifeHow to teach the people in your life that you're a whole person, not just their support systemWhy prioritizing yourself first isn't selfishHow to build self-care moments into small moments of your dayResources:Follow Nina on Instagram @ninawestbrookSubscribe to Nina’s podcast, Do Tell Relationship PodcastDownload Nina’s app Nebbi, a cognitive behavioral therapy app that offers daily self-care tools.Get your She’s So Lucky MerchSponsors:Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesJoin the newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#313: If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up to where you “should” be—whether that’s finding partnership by a certain age, building lasting friendships as an adult, or navigating the expectations society throws at you—this episode is for you.Today, I’m sitting down with the always insightful Shan Boodram to talk about the real journey of connecting—from romance, to friendship and everywhere in between. Shan doesn’t shy away from the messy, inconvenient parts of connection—whether it’s dating in a world that prizes efficiency, how algorithms influence our decisions and attachment styles, or the challenges of learning how to nurture deep friendships later in life.We dive into why your age or relationship timeline doesn’t define your worth, how to find and nurture love that truly sees you, and why inconvenience might be the secret ingredient to building bonds that last. Shan shares her wisdom on how to show up authentically in both romantic and platonic relationships, break away from rigid dating rules, and live a big, joy-filled life at any stage.If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s too late for new love or genuine friendships—or if you’re simply craving more meaningful connection—hit play on this episode.We talk about:How online algorithms are impacting our attachment styles and preferencesNavigating dating and romance without falling into the efficiency trapThe truth about cultivating friendships as an adultThe power of showing up, even when it’s inconvenientLetting go of dating rules and loving by your own standardsLinks & Resources:Watch Lovers by ShanJoin the Lovers by Shan communityFollow Shan on Instagram @shanboodramGet your She’s So Lucky MerchSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Vionic Shoes: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at vionicshoes.com.Bumble: Start your love story on BumbleGrüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Vimergy: Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Stay in TouchFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#312: If you’ve ever felt like you’re too loud, too soft, too opinionated, too emotional, too ambitious—or just too much—this episode is for you.Nicole Walters is back on the podcast, and in true Nicole fashion, she’s not holding anything back. After walking away from a 12-year marriage, becoming a mom again at 40, writing a bestselling memoir, and rebranding her platform, she’s learned exactly what it costs to become your truest self. And why it’s always worth it.We talk about what happens when you stop downplaying yourself to stay likable, why clarity often comes after loss, and how to stop shrinking yourself just because it makes other people more comfortable.If you’ve been tiptoeing around your own evolution—afraid of how it might look, or who it might upset—you need to press play on this episode.We talk about:The cost of shrinking to be palatableUsing your platform when your values are louder than your fearThe difference between responding and reactingHer postpartum experience and why having a baby at 40 changed everythingBeing misunderstood and doing it anywayHow to know when it’s time to leave—your job, your relationship, your old selfLinks & Resources:Listen to Nicole’s podcast, Tell Me MoreCheck out Nicole’s book Nothing is Missing: How to Live Boldly and Step Into Your PurposeFollow Nicole on Instagram @nicolewaltersGet your Clover merch at shop.dearmedia.comSponsors:Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.Ritual: Support a balanced gut microbiome with Ritual’s Synbiotic+. Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/balanced.Keep in Touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesJoin the newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcasePlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#311: Have you ever hit a wall—mentally, creatively, emotionally—and wondered how you were going to get through it? I have, many times.When I’m low on motivation or facing something that feels bigger than me, I’ve started asking myself a simple question: What would Beyoncé do? Not in a “she’s perfect” kind of way, but because she embodies discipline, reinvention, and showing up even when it’s hard.In this solo episode, I’m sharing why Beyoncé is one of my go-to sources of inspo when I need to recalibrate, plus a few lessons I’ve pulled from her rehearsals, performances, and fearless approach to business. Whether it’s a new creative project, a tough decision, or just getting through a blah week—channeling a little Bey energy can go a long way.If you’ve been needing a mindset reset or a reminder that you’ve got this (even when it feels like you don’t) this episode is for you.Links:Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky newsletter and get my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredSponsors:Today’s episode is brought to you by Bumble, the go-to dating app for finding love. Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerCotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#310: Self-love is a popular topic, but what does it actually mean in practice?In this episode I’m joined by content creator and creative powerhouse Simi Muhumuza for a conversation that’s honest, affirming, and full of softness. We talk about what it means to return to yourself, especially after a year that asked you to slow down and start over.Simi shares why 2024 and 2025 have been life-changing years, chronicling her journey of releasing fear, surrendering to joy, and trusting her body again. We also talk about her breast reduction experience, the emotional healing that came with it, and what it means to feel at home in your body after a big shift.If you’re in a season of resetting, reclaiming, or just figuring out what your version of growth looks like, this episode is for you.Resources:Follow Simi on Instagram @simimoonlightFollow Simi on TikTok @simimoonlightSubscribe to Simi’s YouTube ChannelSubscribe to Simi’s SubstackSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter and get our Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on. your order and 365-day returns.Mosh: Support your brain health with Mosh. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#309: Is it possible to maintain visibility and authenticity at the same time?In this episode I’m joined by content creator and entrepreneur Jaz Smith to talk about what it actually looks like to build a brand around your real life.We get into her evolution from working in real estate to becoming a full-time creator, what shifted when she started treating social media like a business, and how she balances visibility with authenticity in a world that often demands both.Jazmyn shares the behind-the-scenes of growing her platform with intention, the pressure of always being “on,” and why some of the most powerful career moves don’t look like work at all.This conversation is such a refreshing reminder that growth can be strategic and human.We Talk About…Her pivot from real estate to full-time contentThe exact moment she started treating TikTok like a jobHow she planned her dream wedding on her own termsThe parts of her life she doesn’t postNavigating friendship changes in your 20s and 30sResources:Follow Jaz on Instagram @justjazzzyidkFollow Jaz on TikTok @justjazzzyidkListen to Jaz’s podcast Delusional DiariesDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Cakes: Sticky Cakes are comfortable, seamless, adhesive nipple covers that can be worn with every outfit. Go to cakesbody.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#308: Is working in fashion as glamorous as it seems?This week, I’m joined by fashion consultant and PR powerhouse Sandrine Charles for a conversation that I know is going to stick with you. From working her way up in the fashion industry to starting her own agency and co-founding the Black in Fashion Council, Sandrine has built a career rooted in intention, integrity, and impact.We talk about what it actually takes to grow a career in fashion PR, how she knew it was time to branch out on her own, and why representation in fashion goes way beyond who’s walking the runway.Whether you’re in a creative industry, figuring out your next career move, or just trying to build something that feels more aligned—you’ll get so much out of this conversation. This episode is for anyone who's craving a more values-aligned path—and wants the inspiration to go after it.We also talk about:How Sandrine broke into the fashion industryThe not-so-glamorous truth about PRWhy she started her own agency (and how she knew she was ready)How the Black in Fashion Council came to beWhy fashion is about so much more than just clothesResources:Follow Sandrine on Instagram @sandrinecharlesLearn more about Sandrine’s agency https://www.sandrinecharles.com/Follow the Black in Fashion Council on Instagram @blackinfashioncouncilDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on. your order and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.com.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#307: This week, I’m diving into something that’s been coming up a lot in my own life and in so many conversations with friends, too: the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we sabotage ourselves.In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why other people don’t actually have the power to block what’s meant for us—but we do. Whether it’s through self-doubt, procrastination, perfectionism, or just plain fear, we can end up being our own biggest haters.I’m also sharing some mindset shifts and honest reflections that have helped me recognize when I’m getting in my own way and how I try to move through it with a little more self-compassion and a lot more clarity.If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that you might be the one holding yourself back… this one’s for you.Resources:Follow me on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow me on TikTok @balancedlesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypodDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Dove & CVS: Let’s keep beauty Positively Real. Learn more at https://creatoriq.cc/3JgXMvECotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#306: I usually keep things pretty neutral on She’s So Lucky, but today I’m spicing things up with some unpopular opinions you didn’t see coming. From the phrases we need to retire, to my unfiltered thoughts about your favorite TV shows, to the truth about influencer culture, join me for a casual kiki dishing some hot takes.Resources:Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateEpisode 297: How to Be More Lucky: Lucky Girl Commandments You Need to ThriveEpisode 304: Stop Being So Realistic:Why You’re Playing Yourself While Playing It SafeSponsors:Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order. Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#305: What does it mean to actually understand the media you’re consuming—and how does that shape how you move through the world? That’s what we’re getting into this week with our guest, Nikki Ogunnaike.Nikki is the Editor in Chief of Marie Claire **US, host of Marie Claire’s Nice Talk podcast and one of the sharpest voices in fashion and culture today. Having held roles at Harper’s Bazaar, GQ, Elle, Glamour, InStyle, and Vanity Fair, she’s spent years helping people not just look good, but think critically about what they’re watching, reading, and sharing.In this episode, we talk about the power of media literacy, why your personal style isn’t a destination, and why having your own lens is one of the most underrated success tools out there.We Also Talk About…How we can be more conscious consumers of fashion and mediaHow running has helped her find clarity and communityHer “Ins and Outs” for 2025—and whether they still hold upWhy media literacy is a non-negotiable in today’s worldThe difference between copying style vs. cultivating itResources:Listen to Nice Talk on Apple PodcastsListen to Nice Talk on SpotifyFollow Marie Claire on Instagram @marieclairemagazineFollow Marie Claire on TikTok @marieclairemagazineDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#304: Is being too “realistic” keeping you stuck?This week, I’m getting into something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: how being “realistic” can actually be a form of shrinking our goals to fit our fears.In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why being realistic isn’t always the wise or grounded choice it’s made out to be, and how it might actually be self-sabotage disguised as protection.I also share some mindset shifts that have helped me stop shrinking my goals to fit what feels “safe” and start thinking bigger again—without spiraling into overwhelm. If you’ve ever talked yourself out of something because it felt too bold or too unlikely, this one’s for you.In this episode, I talk about:Why “being realistic” can be a trapHow I’ve noticed it showing up in my own lifeWhat to do when your big goals start to feel too far awayThe difference between grounded strategy and self-sabotageEncouragement to stop playing small and dream a little biggerResources:Follow me on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow me on TikTok @balancedlesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypodDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.The Real Real: The Real Real is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/lucky.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#303: What does it look like to build a brand that’s rooted in real community, not just clout? That’s what we’re diving into this week with our guest, Nana Agyemang.Nana is a journalist-turned-entrepreneur, founder of EveryStylishGirl, and the visionary behind Sip N’ Slay — one of today’s most sought-after events for women creatives and media professionals.In this episode, we talk about building an authentic personal brand, why community is the best business strategy, and how Nana is planning for early retirement (at 40!) without sacrificing joy or alignment.We Also Talk About…What it really means to build an authentic brandHow Sip N’ Slay became the go-to event for women creativesMapping out your long game (and making peace with slow growth)Shifting your money mindset for legacy and wealthKnowing when to say no, and why boundaries are essentialResources:Get your tickets for Sip N’ Slay NYC on August 23Follow Nana on Instagram @itsreallynanaFollow Nana on TikTok @itsreallynanaaaFollow EveryStylishGirl on Instagram @everystylishgirlDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.comSimply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.NOCD: NOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#302: What if the version of success you’re chasing isn’t actually yours?In this episode I’m joined by Amina AlTai, executive coach and author of The Ambition Trap, to unpack what it really means to pursue ambition with purpose. We talk about the difference between chasing success to prove something vs. purposeful ambition that aligns with your values and desires.Amina shares the personal and professional wake-up calls that led her to redefine ambition, why we can feel our lowest during moments that are supposed to be our highest, and why fulfillment isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. If you’ve ever hit a milestone and felt underwhelmed, this conversation is for you.We Also Talk About…Why performative ambition can leave you feeling emptyThe signs you’re stuck in the Ambition TrapHow to reconnect with purposeful, aligned goalsThe difference between identity-driven success and ego-driven successPermission to want more, but for the right reasonsResources:Check out Amina’s book The Ambition TrapFollow Amina on Instagram @aminaaltaiFollow Amina on TikTok @aminaaltaiFollow Amina on LinkedInCheck out Amina’s podcast, Amina Change Your LifeDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @balancedles @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.