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#334: You can’t manifest what you don’t protect. And if you’re still doing deals in DMs and hoping for the best… we need to talk.In the last episode of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by attorney and tech founder Kameron Monet to get into the parts of the process we don’t romanticize enough: the structure. The contracts. The negotiation. The uncomfortable emails. Because manifestation is cute — but protection is power.Our conversation goes beyond vision boards and affirmations and into the tactical moves that actually secure the life you’re building. We talk about how to negotiate with conviction, what “perpetuity” really means (and why you should care), why you should never start work without a signed agreement, and how to stop leaving money on the table — whether you’re a creator or a corporate girl.If you want more, you need the courage to ask for it and the infrastructure to keep it.This episode is your reminder that getting what you want isn’t just about desire. It’s about protecting your hard work, discipline and clarity with the right education.This episode is for you if…You’ve ever accepted an offer too quickly and regretted it later.You want more money, more opportunities and more ownership but don’t know where to start.You feel intimidated by negotiation and you want to overcome that.You don’t know what the “rule of three” is.You’ve worked without an agreement in place.You’re dipping your toes into the creator economy.You’re new to the world of corporate.You’ve signed contracts without fully understanding the terms.Episode Links:Follow Kameron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kameronmonet/Follow Kameron on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kameronmonetFollow Kameron on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kameronmonetFollow Kameron on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kameronmbuckner/For more information on the Social Docket: https://www.socialdocketdialogue.com/Follow the Social Docket on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/socialdocket/Download Social Docket’s free foundational guide for creators to confidently navigate pricing when working with brands: https://www.socialdocketdialogue.com/resources/p/the-influence-income-pyramid.Sponsors:Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlNuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.Leesa: Go to leesa.com/LUCKY and use code LUCKY for up to $750 off your Leesa mattress plus 2 free pillows.Square: Right now, you can get up to $200 off Square hardware at square.com/go/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#333: If you’ve been telling yourself you want more, but your actions haven’t caught up yet… this episode is your nudge to close that gap.In this week’s installment of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by journalist, creator, and professional question-asker, the incomparable, Danielle Robay.This conversation is a masterclass in what happens when you stop waiting and start moving.We talk about the discipline of betting on yourself, the courage it takes to walk away from spaces that undervalue you, and why curiosity might be the most underrated success strategy there is. Danielle didn’t just hope for opportunity — she positioned herself for it, executed on it, and kept going even when the answer was no over and over again.Because the truth is, luck favors the woman who’s already moving. The one who put herself at the bus stop — prepared, decisive and ready to get on when the door opens.This episode is for you if…Your curiosity is pulling you in a new direction.You want to question everything.You need the reminder that luck favors the people who prepare, show up and take the shot.You say you want more yet you’re still negotiating with your comfort zone.You’re done romanticizing your potential and are ready to execute.You know you’re meant for more and you’re finally ready to move like it.You’re ready to stop fearing rejection and understand that trying is what creates momentum and success.Episode Links:Follow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/Follow Danielle on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellerobayListen to Danielle’s Podcast Question Everything: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/question-everything/id1550883345Follow Danielle on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEzBqnMsqkOI09wW7EJyu5AFor everything else, check out Danielle’s Website: https://www.daniellerobay.com/Sponsors:Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#332: If you’ve been waiting for permission, validation, or a sign to make a change, this is it.In this episode of the “How to Get What You Want” series, I’m sitting down with psychic medium, spiritual teacher, and author Aycee Brown for a conversation about the one thing standing between you and the life you want: telling yourself the truth.Because most of the time when you feel stuck, it’s a sign of self-rejection, not confusion.Together, we unpack why clarity is the real catalyst for manifestation, how many of us unconsciously abandon our desires to be more palatable, and what it looks like to trust your body, your intuition, and your inner knowing.If luck is created through alignment, then honesty is where it begins.Aycee also shares how spiritual frameworks like astrology, numerology, and human design can deepen your self-understanding, why success can feel more threatening than failure, and how small acts of self-trust build the life you’ve been envisioning.Consider this your reminder: you don’t need to become someone else to have the life you want. You need to embody who you already are.This episode is for you if…You know you want more and you’re done pretending you don’t.You’re ready to be honest about what you want.You’ve outgrown who you used to be.You’re learning that self-trust is the real strategy.You want clarity — not confusion — guiding your next chapter.You’re done waiting for luck to knock on your door and are ready to create it.Episode Links:Follow Aycee on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayceebrown/Follow Aycee on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ayceebrownListen to Aycee’s podcast “Is My Aura on Straight?” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-my-aura-on-straight/id1459927270Order Aycee’s new book “Embody Your Magic” out February 17: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780063360327Sponsors:IM8: if you're ready to feel more like your best self, go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Monarch Money: Set yourself up for financial success in 2026 with Monarch. Go to monarch.com and use code LUCKY for 50% off your first year.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#331: In this unfiltered solo episode, I break down why February is about claiming what’s yours and what it really takes to get what you want. Not the aesthetic version. Not the “manifest and wait” version. The real version: with clarity, courage, discipline, and having that dog in you.From recognizing your unfair advantage, to building the capacity to hold bigger dreams, to shooting your shot even when you’re scared, I walk you through how luck is actually built through bold decisions, uncomfortable growth, and choosing yourself even when it feels risky✨ In this episode:I share personal stories about how early conditioning and outside voices can plant desires in us that aren’t actually oursWhy it’s crucial to get honest about what you truly want (not what you’ve been told to want)I tell you the truth about “being humble” and why it makes you smallLeaning into your real gifts instead of copying others and why that alignment is keyWhy the people closest to you may struggle the most with your growthHow to protect your dreams without cutting everyone offHow to unlock your unfair advantage, shoot your shot and get louder about your desiresIf you’ve been feeling a pull toward something bigger but haven’t given yourself full permission to be honest about what you want, this episode is your wake-up call.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order site wide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Rula: This year, make one change you can actually stick with. Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started — mental health care that’s actually built to last. #rulapodLeesa: Go to Leesa.com for their President’s Day Early Access Sale through February 9th to get 25% off mattresses, plus get an extra $50 off with promo code LUCKY, exclusive for my listeners.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#330: The more successful you get, the easier life gets…right?In our final installment of the Breaking the Rules series, today I’m welcoming back the one, the only, Tricia Lee, real estate powerhouse for a truly activating and inspiring conversation about what it takes to truly reach your potential.From choosing discomfort on purpose to breaking into new rooms and establishing new versions of yourself, Tricia shares why expansion requires ego checks, bold moves, and a willingness to stop playing it safe.We talk about:How to intentionally put yourself in rooms where no one knows you to push yourself and expand your opportunities.The strategies Tricia used to build the emotional muscle to tolerate discomfort, criticism, and setting ego aside while growing her brand and career.What it really takes to break into new spaces when you’re already successful in one lane.What’s required of you to level up to your fullest potential.Why growth never gets easier and how to develop the resilience needed to keep growing.How bold preparation, relationship-building, and “act as if” energy turn ambition into real, tangible results.Episode Links:Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialeeListen to Tricia’s Podcast, Short and Sweet, here.For exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.Sponsors:Notion: Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedNutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlIM8: Give your body what it deserves with IM8! Go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus ten percent off your order.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#329: If you need confirmation that it’s okay to follow a path that isn’t linear, this episode is it. In this week’s installment of the Breaking the Rules series, I chat with entrepreneur, investor, and creative multi-hyphenate Hannah Bronfman about rewriting timelines, releasing perfection, and trusting the turns that lead you exactly where you’re meant to be.From building businesses and investing in women’s health to evolving publicly and creating a life beyond rigid five-year plans, Hannah shares what it really means to break out of the boxes you were placed in—and design your own blueprint.This episode is for you if:You’re feeling like you want to make a change, but you’re scared to let go of the identity or path you originally planned.You no longer wants to live by linear timelines or traditional ideas of success.You want to build wealth, invest in, and support women-owned businesses but don’t know where to start.You’re ready to embrace evolution as part of creating your next chapter.You want to become more comfortable in unfamiliar spaces.Episode Links:Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbronfman/Follow Hannah on Substack: https://substack.com/@hannahslistCheck out the CEO Club on Amazon Prime, airing on February 23rd: https://press.amazonmgmstudios.com/us/en/original-series/the-ceo-club/1Sponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.Hungryroot: Take advantage of this exclusive offer: For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com/lucky and use code LUCKY.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#328: So you know it’s time to make a pivot, but you aren’t sure what comes next. Today’s conversation will help guide you through it.In the next installment of the “Breaking the Rules” series, I’m talking all things pivots with Jeannette Reyes and Mona Abdi, co-hosts of the Awf the Record podcast, who both left stable news careers to bet on themselves. And spoiler: they're not looking back.Jeannette and Mona get refreshingly honest about the unsexy parts of pivoting: the financial spreadsheets, the years-long planning timelines, the moments of wondering if they’re doing the right thing. They share why loving your job isn't always enough, how to know when your intuition is screaming louder than your fear, and why having a "board of advisors" can make or break your leap.This episode is for you if:You're on the cusp of making a major life pivot, and need help taking the next stepYou're struggling with the pressure to balance expectations and joyYou want to build a community to support you during your pivotYou want to understand how to build a business from scratchYou're curious about what it really takes to launch a podcast (hint: it's not vibes alone)If you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube.Episode Links:Listen to Jeannette and Mona’s podcast, Awf the Record: https://www.awftherecord.com/Follow Awf the Record on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awftherecordpodcast/Follow Jeannette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msnewslady/Follow Mona on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monakabdi/Check out the Primed to Pivot E-Book: https://msnewslady.com/primed-to-pivot/Sponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Notion: Notion brings all your notes, docs, and projects into one connected space that just works. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedMonarch Money: This New Year, achieve your financial goals for good. Use code LUCKY at monarch.com for half off your first year.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Honeylove: Treat yourself to the most advanced bras and shapewear on the market. Get 20% off Honeylove at honeylove.com/luckyKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#327: If you want 2026 to feel different — clearer, more aligned, less like you’re holding your breath — you’re going to have to break a few rules. Especially the quiet ones you’ve been following without realizing it.In this solo episode, we’re kicking off the year by tossing out the performative resolutions and getting honest about the unspoken rulebook that’s been running your life. You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. But you might still be living by stories, standards, and timelines that were never yours to begin with.This is about rewriting those scripts — and choosing yourself more boldly than you ever have before.In This Episode:The invisible rules keeping you small — and how to spot themWhy being “the good girl” is blocking your growthThe problem with playing it safe (and how to build risk tolerance)What to do with the “I should be further by now” spiralThe exact rules I broke in 2025 — and how they changed everythingThe difference between operating from your past vs. your future selfA 3-step strategy to build a year that feels luckyHow to take bold action without burning yourself outWhy rebellion can be soft, focused, and wildly effectiveThe rules I’m leaving behind this year — and what I’m replacing them withYou’re not here to play by invisible rules anymore. You’re here to design something intentional — and this is where that begins.Episode Links:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Hungry Root: Go to hungryroot.com/lucky to get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#326: You don't have to play fair to win — you just have to play like you know who you are.This week, we’re re-airing a conversation that’s packed with big energy, boss-level insight, and the kind of clarity that only comes from betting on yourself — again and again.Tricia Lee is a serial entrepreneur, luxury real estate broker, and breakout star of Owning Manhattan on Netflix. But before the show, before the million-dollar listings, and long before she was mentoring the next generation — she was figuring it out like the rest of us: building businesses, walking away from things that weren’t working, and learning how to stop shrinking her magic to make other people comfortable.If you're in a season of transition, ready to quit something (or everything), or just need a little reminder of how powerful you already are — this one’s for you.In This Episode:The real reason Tricia left corporate America — and how she used anger to fuel her glow-upKnowing the difference between a growth challenge and pure chaos (and why perseverance isn’t always the flex)What to do when you're the most prepared and the most underestimated person in the roomThe truth about pivoting: how Tricia went from beauty entrepreneur to top NYC real estate brokerMental toughness, mindset shifts, and why being your biggest fan isn’t arrogance — it’s freedomHow to show up as that version of you, even when you’re still buildingAdvice for women who’ve been conditioned to come in last — and are done with itThis is the kind of conversation that makes you sit taller. Save it. Revisit it. Share it with the friend who needs a nudge to take up more space.Episode Links:Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialeeFor exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.Sponsors:Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonJones Road Beauty: Visit jonesroadbeauty.com and use code LUCKY for a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase.Keep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re ready to step into your most aligned, magnetic, and wildly lucky era — this episode is for you. We're closing out the year with a roundup of the 7 most powerful, perspective-shifting lessons from the She's So Lucky conversations that had you replaying, journaling, and texting the group chat.These aren’t just motivational soundbites — they’re practical, lived-in wisdom from women who’ve made bold pivots, shut down doubt, and redefined what success looks like on their own terms.Whether you’re manifesting a fresh start, navigating a career leap, or just trying to stay focused without losing yourself in the hustle — this episode will remind you who you are, what you're capable of, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission.In This Episode:How to stop being your own biggest critic and actually back yourselfKnowing when it’s time to walk away (from a job, a relationship, or a version of you that no longer fits)The underrated superpower that took Ami Colé from idea to industry disruptorGabrielle Union on choosing softness and stillness in a loud, demanding worldThe mindset shift Alexis Barber used to unapologetically step into her confidenceHow to rebrand your life — without waiting for January 1Taylor Rooks on what to do when people underestimate you (and why that’s not always a bad thing)Whether you're traveling for the holidays, cleaning your kitchen, or vision-boarding for 2026 — save this one. It's the blueprint.Revisit the Full Episodes:Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole WaltersThe Power of Focus with Diarrha N'DiayeGabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis BarberHow to Rebrand Your Life in 2025How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor RooksSponsors:Notion: Notion Agent can do anything you can do in Notion. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedVionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#324: If you've ever wondered what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar brand from scratch — beyond the polished Instagram posts and the "overnight success" stories — this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Siff Haider, co-founder of Arrae and host of the Dream Bigger podcast, who turned wedding savings into a $100M wellness empire while keeping her sanity, her marriage, and her authenticity intact.Siff gets refreshingly real about the unglamorous early days: bootstrapping, sounding like "two little bitches" on investor calls (her dad's words, not mine), and sweating through her first podcast recording. She shares the mindset shifts that helped her step into her power, why she treats customers like influencers, and how she built a team of 33 people who care as deeply as she does.This episode is for you if:You're building something and terrified of looking cringeYou're trying to figure out when to take funding (and how much)You want to understand how to scale without losing your soulYou're navigating the balance between data and intuition as a founderYou're curious about building a personal brand that's bigger than your businessIf you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. See you next week!Episode Links:Learn more about Arrae at arrae.comFollow Siff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/siffhaiderFollow Siff on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@siffhaiderListen to The Dream Bigger Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CDL6BcfZc6AmQeRZpjAxs?si=e095083332ee43eaThe Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780062838636Sponsors:Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonQuince: Find gifts so good you’ll want to keep them with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.BBoutique: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcastKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#323: Nothing is more impactful to our ability as women to create our own luck than the journey of motherhood—how we embark on it, and when. That's why I sat down with Dr. Catha Fischer, reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director at Spring Fertility, for this critical bonus episode to demystify reproductive health, fertility, and the power of reproductive autonomy. We dive into what every woman in her 20s and 30s needs to know, from understanding your menstrual cycle (which Dr. Fischer calls your "fifth vital sign") to the truth about how birth control impacts your fertility, and what egg freezing actually entails. This is an honest, judgment-free conversation about removing the shame around fertility and making informed, empowered choices for your future.This episode is for you if: You want to understand your reproductive options regardless of your relationship status. You're on hormonal birth control and are curious about what's *really* happening with your natural menstrual cycle. You've been frustrated by the shame and secrecy surrounding fertility struggles or feel like you're "running out of time." You want a factual breakdown of the egg freezing process, including pricing, and outcome data. You're having a hard time getting your questions about reproductive health answered and are seeking patient-centered care.Episode Sponsor:Visit springfertility.com and use code LUCKY for $150 off your initial fertility consult (virtual or in-person). Episode Links: Follow Les on IG @lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod Follow Les on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shessoluckypod Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcase Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#322: Sometimes the biggest transformations happen not when everything changes around you, but when you finally shift how you show up. In this solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the internal work that led to one of the most profound shifts I've ever experienced — and why people keep telling me my energy feels completely different.I'm sharing the honest story of what most of this year really looked like behind the scenes (spoiler: it wasn't what you saw on social media), the exact daily practices that changed everything for me over the summer, and why finally feeling content has nothing to do with checking boxes or hitting milestones.This episode is for you if:You're doing all the "right things" but still feel like something's missingYou're tired of feeling like you're grasping for the next achievement to feel wholeYou're ready to shift your energy but don't know where to startYou want to understand what manifestation actually looks like in practiceYou're struggling with the gap between how your life looks and how it feelsI talk about…Why going full-time with the podcast in 2024 brought up more triggers than I expectedWhat it was like to have everything feel hard during the months that looked the most successful from the outsideMy exact daily manifestation practiceHow mirror work went from incredibly uncomfortable to one of my most powerful toolsWhy the manifestations I wanted didn't come exactly when or how I expected, but something better happened insteadWhy feeling content doesn't mean you stop being ambitiousThe real prize of manifestation workCheck Out These Related Episodes:The Science of Manifesting Your Dream Life (Even When It Feels Impossible)The Journaling Practice That Changed My Life: Best Case Scenario JournalingEpisode Links:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#321: If you've ever felt like you had to choose between the beauty trends you love and the ones that were "meant for you," this conversation will feel like permission to explore it all. Today I'm sitting down with Darcei Giles — the award-winning content creator who's been pioneering inclusivity in beauty since before it was an industry buzzword.Darcei shares her journey from making webcam videos in 2010 to becoming a bridge between Korean beauty innovation and Black beauty consumers. She opens up about the viral series that changed everything, the moment a brand actually listened to her feedback, and why she's spent over a decade refusing to delete her early content.This episode is for you if:You're navigating spaces where you don't see yourself reflectedYou're curious about what real brand inclusivity looks like behind the scenesYou want to understand how to build longevity in a constantly changing industryWe talk about…How a lighthearted video concept became a movement that gave thousands of Black women permission to experimentThe real reason Korean beauty brands are getting inclusivity right (and what American brands can learn)Why Darcei made three TikToks a day for 90 days straight — and gained 100K followersWhat happened when she told a foundation brand "call me" and they actually didThe difference between creating 30 shades and creating 30 good shadesGoing into the lab to create foundation shades that had never existed beforeWhy she keeps her earliest videos up despite the cringe factorWhat it takes to stay relevant for 15 years without losing yourselfHer plans to merge Korean skincare innovation with Black beauty needs in her own future brandEpisode Links:Follow Darcei on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missdarcei/?hl=enFollow Darcei on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missdarcei?lang=enCheck out Parnell Serum Cushion Foundation: https://parnellbeauty.com/products/parnell-serum-cushionGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#320: What if there’s less standing between you and your dream life than you think? If you've ever caught yourself thinking "that's too big of a dream," this episode is going to completely shift how you see what's possible for your life.Today I'm sitting down with Olivia Rose Thomas — manifestation coach, co-host of Inspired Delusions, and someone who went from being skeptical of the idea of manifesting to completely transforming her life through it. Olivia breaks down the neuroscience behind why getting your hopes up is the most powerful thing you can do, why your 95% subconscious mind might be sabotaging what you want, and how to rewire your brain to expect good things.This isn't just woo-woo talk — Olivia connects quantum physics, nervous system regulation, and brain science to explain why manifestation actually works. She shares how she manifested her dream apartment the day after putting it on her vision board, why being audacious about your goals gives your brain more dopamine and motivation, and the exact tools that help you feel safe enough to dream bigger than you ever thought possible.This episode is for you if:You're tired of playing it safe and ready to let yourself receive what you actually wantYou've tried manifesting before and felt like it didn't workYou want to understand the science behind why your thoughts literally shape your realityYou're ready to stop being realistic and start being audaciousWe talk about…The moment Olivia went from manifestation skeptic to believer — and manifested her exact dream living situationWhy getting your hopes up is actually less painful than believing nothing is possibleThe study that proves we only see what we're looking for (and how to use this to your advantage)What your subconscious mind really is and why 95% of your thoughts are working against you without you knowing itThe three R's formula: Recognize, Rewire, Regulate — and how to actually change your beliefsWhy EFT tapping calms your nervous system and clears the "clouds" blocking your natural state of worthinessHow to use subliminals safely (and why creating your own with your voice works faster)Why acting "as if" and changing your identity is more powerful than any manifestation ritualWhy being realistic is the fastest road to mediocrity — and what to do insteadHow to feel safe enough in your nervous system to actually let yourself hope for moreEpisode Links:Follow Olivia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliviarosethomas_/Follow Olivia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oliviarosethomas?lang=enListen to Olivia’s podcast, Inspired Delusions: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ETFmbKuK8CU6vYU9wFRwu?si=c93d63ba996d4dd7Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.Google Shopping: #sponsored If you're stressing about finding those perfect presents, head over to g.co/holiday100Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#319: If you've ever lost your spark — that fire that used to drive you — and wondered if it would ever come back, this conversation is for you. Today I’m welcoming Rachel Rodgers back to the podcast. You know Rachel as the founder and CEO of Hello Seven, bestselling author, and someone who's living proof that audacious goals are within our reach.Rachel gets incredibly honest about a period of deep grief that nearly derailed her eight-figure business, how community pulled her back to her center, and the casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar plan. She shares why 10X-ing isn't about doing more (it's actually about doing less), how to use what you already have to create something new, and why setting small goals keeps us stuck.This episode is for you if:You're ready to stop playing small and set goals that actually light you upYou’re ready to get your spark back after a period of being off your gameYou want to understand what it really takes to 10X your focus and impactWe talk about…How Rachel turned a podcast into a TV show by following her creative instinctsThe six-month period of grief and depression that nearly stopped her businessWhy shame shields solutions — and the importance of community during hard timesThe casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar business planWhy 10X-ing your business is actually about subtraction and editing, not additionHow big goals wake you up in ways that 10% growth never willWhy most people quit right before things work — and how consistency winsHow to take stock of what you have and cook up your next move (even with nothing)Why Gen Z needs a completely different financial playbook than generations before themEpisode Links:Listen to Episode 223: Rachel Rodgers on How to Establish Million-Dollar HabitsWe Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel RodgersFuture Millionaire: A Young Person’s Step-by-Step Guide to Making Wealth Inevitable by Rachel RodgersMillion-Dollar Action Plan by Rachel RodgersSupport The Rachel Rodgers Show: Entrepreneurship, Uncensored on KickstarterGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Mosh: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever wondered what it really takes to scale a mission-driven business without losing yourself (or your values) along the way, this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by Beatrice Dixon, co-founder and CEO of The Honey Pot Company — the groundbreaking personal care brand that's transformed an entire industry.Beatrice opens up about what it means to lead a company that serves millions while staying deeply connected to its purpose. She shares the real story behind turning down a $450 million offer, why choosing the right partners matters more than the biggest check, and how she's learning to balance ambition with actual rest.This episode is for you if:You're building something at the intersection of abundance and integrityYou want to understand what a partnership really looks like in businessYou're trying to figure out when to say no (even to big opportunities)We talk about…How preparation creates freedom (even when plans don’t go exactly right)Why Beatrice turned down higher offers to protect the integrity of her companyWhat founders should look for when choosing investors and partnersWhere The Honey Pot stands on its relationship with TargetThe difference between being ahead of your time and wasting energyHow to stay in flow while still being strategic and preparedWhy loyalty and gratitude matter in business relationshipsEpisode Links:Pre-Order Beatrice’s Book, The Soul InstinctLearn more about The Honey Pot: https://thehoneypot.co/Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program at kalehealth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#317: If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything “right” in your career but still felt stuck, this is your episode. Today I’m joined by Naomi Wright and Krystal Vega, the powerhouse best friends and co-founders of Fortune & Forks — a community and social club built by and for women navigating their careers, connections, and calling.We talk about they went from meeting as interns at BET to launching and scaling a thriving movement. They share how they grew from curating intimate dinners to building a cross-city network of 500+ women, a foundation, and game-changing partnerships — all without losing the plot (or each other).This episode is for you if:You’re looking to build genuine relationships in your industry.You’ve been wondering how to actually find your people.You need motivation to help you start something before you’re ready.We talk about…How to actually network acrossWhy good people still win in businessHow Naomi and Krystal grew Fortune & Forks in its early stagesHow to be a real villager in your friendships + communityNavigating entrepreneurship during an economic downturnEpisode Links:Follow Fortune & Forks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fortuneandforks/Apply to join Fortune & Forks: https://www.fortuneandforks.com/applyLearn more about the Fortune & Forks Foundation Gala: https://givebutter.com/c/FortuneAndForksFoundationGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#316: Nia Sioux has been in the public eye since she was 9 years old. Most people first met her on Dance Moms, where she became known for her talent, her grace under pressure — and yes, for often being put at the bottom of the pyramid.Now at 24, Nia is reclaiming her story — on her own terms.In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to be perceived before you even know who you are, and how you begin to unpack that when the whole world thinks they already know your story. Nia opens up about the emotional process of writing her upcoming memoir Bottom of the Pyramid, what it took to revisit her childhood through adult eyes, and how she found closure by using her own voice.This is an honest, layered conversation about resilience, identity, and what it means to own the narrative of your life, especially when that narrative has long been shaped by others.Nia reminds us that reclaiming your narrative isn't just empowering — it's healing.In this episode, we cover:Nia’s emotional journey of revisiting her childhood on reality TVWhat it means to be “the underdog” — and how that label lingersHow the title Bottom of the Pyramid became a reclamation, not a resignationLearning how to tell your full story, even when people only want to hear certain partsReleasing the pressure to prove yourself (and who that performance is really for)What she's learned from watching the show as an adult — and what her mom taught her about strengthEpisode Links:Check out Nia’s memoir, Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life, available November 4thFollow Nia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/niasiouxFollow Nia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@niasiouxGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Jones Road Beauty: Modern-day makeup that’s clean, strategic, and multifunctional for effortless routines. Use code LUCKY at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase!Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.MOSH Bars: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#315: If you’ve ever felt underestimated, this episode is for you.Taylor Rooks is one of the most respected sports journalists in the game — and not because she plays it safe. She's built her career on asking fearless questions, trusting her gut, and refusing to shrink herself to fit into anyone else's idea of who she should be.In this conversation, Taylor and I talk about what it means to be a woman who takes up space and why the pressure to be palatable isn’t worth giving in to.We talk about ambition, integrity, reinvention, and the deep self-trust it takes to keep showing up when you have a big vision for your life. Taylor doesn’t just bring her voice to the table — she brings her values. And you can feel it in everything she does.We talk about:How the experiences of women in sports mirror broader societal beliefsWhy it’s powerful not to respond to every criticThe art of asking better questions (in life and interviews)Knowing your value, even when others want you to shrinkBuilding a career that reflects your values, not just your resumeHow to trust yourself when the opinions of others become too loudEpisode Links:Follow Taylor on InstagramWatch NBA on Prime VideoLearn more about the Taylor Rooks FoundationSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.