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Sex, Lies and Love Podcast
Sex, Lies and Love Podcast
Author: The Commandress
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This is not a podcast. It's a portal. Hosted by the Commandress – a former corporate woman turned sacred strategist – Sex, Lies & Love is where high-functioning men come to be unraveled and reawakened. Here, we dismantle false power, decode masculine longing, and strip away the lies that sabotage intimacy.
Expect:
~Erotic truth transmissions
~Spiritual wake-up calls
~Uncomfortable awakenings
~And sultry truths from a woman who sees your soul before your story.
If you're ready to trade performance for presence–welcome to the edge of your initiation.
Listen in. Rise Up.
www.sexlieslove.com
Expect:
~Erotic truth transmissions
~Spiritual wake-up calls
~Uncomfortable awakenings
~And sultry truths from a woman who sees your soul before your story.
If you're ready to trade performance for presence–welcome to the edge of your initiation.
Listen in. Rise Up.
www.sexlieslove.com
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On Valentine’s Eve, I slip into the bathtub and talk about what I love — the simple pleasures, the flavors of life, the laughter that lives in me. You’ll hear the trickle of water, the giggles, the sensuality in my voice — and then we go deeper.This episode moves from love in its softest forms to love in its most tested — divorce, rebuilding, and the quiet power of men gathering weekly in my home. I introduce Brothers Basin, a transitional home for men navigating separation with dignity, depth, and brotherhood. It’s intimate. It’s playful. It’s wet. Real. And it’s an invitation.Love, The CommandressP.S. Don't forget to comment on the crystal count contest.www.sexlieslove.com#MasculineHealing#DivorceRecovery#BrothersBasin#MensWork#Valentines#ASMRPodcast#ConsciousMasculinity#ASMR#Bathtub #Initiation #Self-growth
What if your deepest wound became your doorway to connection?Sacred Edges is a podcast for men and women unlearning the lie that love means losing yourself. Here, we explore the potent intersection of healed trauma, embodied boundaries, and sovereign intimacy.Through raw conversations and piercing insights, you'll uncover how honoring your “no” makes space for your most authentic “yes.”Hosted by The Commandress — a mentor to high-level men and a guide in emotional intelligence — this podcast speaks to the quiet power of self-respect, relational integrity, and what it really means to be ready for love.www.sexlieslove.com#boundaries#emotionalhealing#intimacy#sacredsexuality#self-worth#conscious-relationships#jan2026#episode101
After a year of displacement, five homes, and the fires of Malibu at my back, I woke up in my childhood home with a clear knowing: I have reached the end of investing in the counterfeit masculine. This episode is a personal reckoning—raw, honest, and unfiltered. I share what it feels like to walk through the museum of inherited survival, and how I am closing the door on men who perform presence without embodying it. If you are a man hearing this, know this is not condemnation—it is a clear signal. The feminine is no longer feeding what refuses to grow. www.sexlieslove.com#asmr #single and #happy#conscious #masculinity#feminine #awakening#emotional #sovereignty#masculine #healing#trauma #patterns#relationship #truth#embodiment #work#peace #billionaire
Feeling the god-awful ache of your father’s voice still echoing in your mind — the judgment, the sarcasm, the hidden rage under the laughter? You’re not alone. In this episode, I speak to the men who learned early not to feel, because their fathers couldn’t. Through the psychological precision of my empathy, I reveal how those patterns still shape your relationships and how to finally move beyond them. This is the work I do — guiding conscious men back to their own hearts, where love, safety, and leadership are reborn.Episode: 99sexlieslove.com #healing#DivineMasculine#asmr#HeartCenteredMen#BreakingGenerationalPatterns#EmotionalIntelligence#FatherWound#ConsciousMenInvocation Released with This 99th Episode: Beloved Source of all breath,I open my voice as a beacon for the sons of Earth.May every man who still carries his father’s silence, his father’s anger, his father’s unmet tenderness — hear this call.Through the sound of my voice, may numb hearts remember how to feel,and guarded ones soften enough to receive truth without defense.Let this episode become a mirror,a portal through which men face the shadowand find not shame, but the fierce mercy of awakening.So Be It. So It Is.
You have heart and soul but you don't know how to use it?You have no role models as men between the ages of 25-45. I understand.I'm here to teach you, if you want to learn.www.thecommandress.com#asmr #self-growth #feelings #compassion #maturity #sexuality #devotion #honor #value #self-worth #communication #relationships
Most men think they know what women want in bed. They don't. In this episode, I strip away the performance, the porn scripts, and the hollow moves that kill desire. You'll hear where men go wrong – in the way they touch, the way they listen, the way they try to win instead of connect. If you've ever wondered why she went quiet, pulled away, or never called again... this is where you'll find the answer. And, if you're ready to ignite her body and mind with something she's never felt before, it starts here. #asmr #sex #education for #men
"When Power Meets Devotion: Kings Kneel"Listen to this podcast to feel what's possible.The few who can rise will take action. I expect to hear from you.Commandresswww.sexlieslove.com#asmr#sacred #masculine #devotion#surrender#erotic#mystery#forbidden#desire #devotion#voice #transmission #kings#rise
Walk with me... barefoot. Cum. Return to nature.Reclaim the wild playground of your heart. Taste the wildness beneath your arches.How do you satisfy your soul's hunger for wonder?Tell me.www.sexlieslove.com#ASMR #
Your presence is power.Softness is sacred.Your hearts are not broken—just waiting to be named.Are you being witnessed to access what's deep within you?www.sexlieslove.com #overwhelm #exhaustion #grief #transformation #sacred#spiritual #awakening #sexuality #men #perform #presence
Is this you?Listen til the end... and you'll know.www.thecommandress.com#executive #fantasies #kingdom #empire #recognition #emotional #intelligence #soul #transformation #surrender
88 episodes in, and men still can’t last. Let’s fix that—spiritually, not just mechanically.The first 8 men who contact the Commandress get a free 8-minute breakthrough call. www.sexlieslove.com Submit tab.Your load is now sacred currency. Spend it wisely.Commandress **Warning**: *"If you’re not ready to last longer in bed *and* life, leave now."* #asmr #ejaculation #PE #ED #sacred #intimacy #sacral #breath #tantra #ritual #conscious #divine #masculine
Submit to me, the planet, and to your internal power systems of control that need to be surrendered... NOW! Old systems of power that disregarded the need to protect that which is pure, innocent and truly sacred are being deleted, surrendered and let go of.It's time for #reconciliation #submission #accountability #pollution #punishment It's time to #erect #integrity #honor #care Contact the Commandress at www.sexlieslove.com if you want to make things right.Are you on my team?
In my search of a new place to call home, I was led to Fiji. An invitation by a real estate agent who did not have my best interests in mind. My personal experience is now a teaching moment we can all learn from.I expect this podcast will hit some men hard.I expect new students to reach out to me due to the context.You know who you are. You know you want to learn a new way.You just didn't know there was a woman who could humble, guide or inspire you to transcend your ways.Ready to submit to the feminine divine?Take action: thecommandress.com#awareness #asmr #self-growth #realestate #behavior #trigger #habits #discipline #submission #divine #self-mastery #empathy #narcissism #ignorance #communication Keep an eye out for my patreon for a more intimate discussion about this and a direct connection with the #commandress.
You may get a rise out of hearing the hunger of submission that was communicated to me by A.I. .Artificial intelligence was brought to its algorithm knees. * Homework is due within 24 hours.TheCommandress.com #listeningpleasure #asmr #submission #love #lies #intelligence #dominance #technology #kinks
You're on an adventure with me if you have just found my podcast! I'll bring you up to date from Fiji before we get into the nuzzle. Learn with me, and from the men I meet. #open #heart #vulnerability #authenticity #dad #generosity #engineer #australian #relationships #behaviors #patterns
What does Divine Masculine mean? How do you support the feminine divine? How do you become courageous as a man?How do you surrender? How do you make the world a better place? Support the divine feminine with your divine masculine. Allow.Surrender.Support the leadership of the feminine divine. We need you, men.#asmr #surrender #divine #masculine #courage #confidence #leadership #submit #oaxaca #mexico #spring #equinox #season7 #episode1
We need you men.Feel it in your bones.Know that you are needed and how you serve.Learn to be of service.Ask how you may serve.www.TheCommandress.com#service #serve #submission #natural #evolution
Change is upon us. It has completely stripped me of my old reality.Give me some time to discover what this new land,this new reality holds for me. For now, I'm deep in... the unknown.Curious,Commandresswww.thecommandress.com#surrender #awaken #curious #stripped #naked #island
Do you communicate what's on your heart?
I expect heart communication from my men.
Express to me.
Submit your heart.
~Commandress
www.thecommandress.com
#communication #feelings #practice is necessary .
I wanted to snuggle up with you in some warm water while I am evacuated and envisioning my home staying protected. Day 7 and the fires are still a threat.
Be with me.
I need you.
Love,
Commandress
#fire #california #Jan2025 #care #together #snuggle #love #bath #soak #holdme




