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Having a new baby in the family can be an exciting time for everyone! However, many women are struggling with navigating postpartum boundaries, difficult family dynamics, and feeling pressure for things they might not be ready for quite yet. This podcast was made to dive deep into these issues, and to validate new mom's feelings. Join me as we change the culture around postpartum!
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Birth and postpartum is a sacred space. Protecting your peace before, during, and after birth can make all the difference in the start of your motherhood journey. Emily, a Birth Doula from Colorado, joins me today to discuss what boundaries should be considered for labor and postpartum!
00:00 intro/Emily’s story
02:31 why do boundaries matter in birth and postpartum
05:00 boundaries in the weeks leading up to birth
08:29 boundaries during labor
12:30 boundaries in the weeks after birth
25:02 outro/Emily’s info
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Trigger warning: this episode contains stories and discussions about children being s*xually abused.
Mel Watson is a child s*xual abuse survivor and former prison officer who is using her Instagram platform to help spread awareness and education on s*xual abuse. She joins me today to discuss how we can protect our children from abuse and grooming, how child predators are treated in prison, and more!
00:00 intro/Mel’s story
02:51 how child predators are treated in prison
05:20 do predators deserve a second chance
06:23 what is grooming
09:10 forced affection from family members
10:56 sleepovers
13:17 early exposure to p*rnography
15:51 what to do if you have a bad feeling about a family member but your partner doesn’t see it
18:32 what’s the best way to protect our children against abuse
24:27 being a “helicopter parent”
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Is going low or no contact with your parents or in-laws a “trend”? How do you go about this? What if your partner doesn’t agree? We discuss all this and more today!
00:00 intro
02:30 how do you know it’s time
05:40 what if your partner is not on board
10:13 how to go about the conversation
11:34 dealing with the aftermath
13:24 outro and announcement
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Article info:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/21/well/family/the-maternal-grandparent-advantage.html
00:00 Intro
01:52 in-laws tread lightly?
02:39 the maternal grandparent advantage
06:49 is the DIL the gatekeeper of the kids?
08:27 DIL keeping new baby away
11:20 sons “have to be loyal to their wives”
12:50 grandparents providing routine “care”
14:27 outro
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Story timestamps:
00:55 MIL thinks my baby is a toy
06:30 my mom wants to spank my toddler
12:43 pregnant and my mom won’t respect my boundaries
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Many new moms are struggling with their parents and in-laws after their baby is born. Here are my theories why.
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Just because you're a busy mom doesn't mean you have to stop growing, learning, and becoming the best version of yourself! Make 2024 your year with these tips.
00:00 intro
00:40 let go of what doesn’t serve you
02:42 move your body
03:53 have a health relationship with your phone
08:11 get to bed at a decent time
09:35 get out of negative mindsets
11:33 have hobbies outside of motherhood or making money
12:19 re-evaulate relationships
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Is the nuclear family a scam? Should we all go back to multigenerational living? Let's discuss!
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People pleasing is a common struggle that many women face. I personally have dealt with this all my life, and have been on a journey to overcome this. Angela Martella, LCSW and therapist joins me today to discuss how to stop having "yes girl" energy and how to overcome people pleasing. We discuss how to start setting boundaries, learn to deal with the fear of rejection, and more!
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Welcome to the first episode of Ask Maddie! Thank you guys for submitting your stories. I hope this can be helpful for those looking for advice or guidance. If you want to be featured in a future episode, please email askmaddie@outlook.com
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DeeDee from More Than Grand is on a mission to help grandparents step into their new role and form healthy relationships with their grandchildren and their parents. In this episode, we discuss the importance of healthy grandparent relationships and how to navigate struggles with your child's grandparents.
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Stephanie DeFilippis, LCSW, PMH-C is a licensed clinical social worker and a certified perinatal mental health clinician. She is the founder of Crescent Moon Therapy, a maternal mental health therapy practice located in Illinois. She joins me today to talk about navigating the holidays, how to effectively set a boundary, and all things perinatal mental health. She is an amazing therapist with so much knowledge to share! I know you will enjoy this conversation as much as I did.
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2Setting boundaries with family regarding your baby is always a good idea, but speaking up for ourselves and our boundaries is not always easy. It's definitely not easy when people have a poor reaction to our boundaries. In this episode, we talk about some methods of communication for boundaries and how to deal with people who gaslight, manipulate, or disregard our boundaries.
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Some moms feel pressured to leave their children with family members before they feel ready for that. In this video, we discuss how to handle this situation and I discuss why I think pushing for alone time with a child can be a red flag.
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It never fails that when I talk about boundaries I get the comment "this is why you guys don't have a village" or "don't push away your village". In this episode, I touch on why I don't think boundaries will push your village away. I also discuss the concept of a village and why it can't coexist with toxic family.
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Many moms are put in a situation where someone mistreats them, whether that's verbal disrespect or passive aggressive comments, and then this person turns around and wants to have babysitting privileges or to play a significant role in their child's life. In this episode we discuss different types of mistreatment, and what you should do about them.
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I used to think I was the only mom who didn't feel ready to leave her baby. But after connecting with so many of you on social media, I realized I am not alone in this! In this episode we discuss why it's so normal and natural to not want to be separated from your baby.
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Getting on the same page with your partner about boundaries regarding your baby can be challenging! Especially if there is a complicated mother-in-law situation. My husband joins me to discuss these issues and gives advice to couples who are dealing with this.
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In this episode, we discuss how you can set and enforce boundaries to create a peaceful postpartum experience! Boundaries can be so important to ensure that you have time to properly rest, recover, and bond with your baby.
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It can be a challenging situation to be in when someone in your family oversteps boundaries and wants to play more of a role in your child's life than you are comfortable with. Today we will discuss why I think so many women are struggling with this issue, and what to do about it!
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