DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel

#83 (ENG): SHORT STORY: I picked Peter the Policeman (SHIBARI | TUNNEL PLAY | HEIGHT DIFFERENCE).DISCOUNT 16% NATURALLY NAUGHTY CODE: PPMH16 | Link: https://www.naturallynaughty.shop/discount/ppmh16ABOUT INGWER & NATURALLY NAUGHTY: www.naturallynaughty.shophttps://www.instagram.com/naturallynaughty.love/Shibari is often reduced to aesthetics or technique. In this story, it becomes something quieter and more intimate: a way of creating focus, containment, and trust. Rope isn’t used to restrain, but to hold attention. To narrow the world. To invite presence.The story explores tunnel play — the deliberate narrowing of sensation and perception. When options fall away, feeling sharpens. Touch becomes louder. Breath slows. Small details begin to matter. It’s not about intensity for its own sake, but about depth.Sensation plays a central role here. The warmth of ginger spray is used not as a gimmick, but as a contrast — a spark that wakes the skin and pulls awareness back into the body. Heat meets stillness. Anticipation meets care. The result is not spectacle, but intimacy.Written and narrated by Lisa Opel, the story isn’t a guide or a lesson. It doesn’t explain how to do anything “right.” Instead, it lingers in the why: why slowing down can feel radical, why trust changes how sensation lands, and why intimacy doesn’t need to be loud to be powerful.The audio format is intentional. Listening mirrors the experience the story describes — contained, focused, embodied. It asks the listener to stay present rather than consume.The short story is available on all podcast platforms.It’s for anyone curious about sensuality that unfolds slowly, where less stimulation creates more feeling — and where being held, in all senses of the word, becomes the point.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#82 (DE): Natascha Ditha Berger & Martin Gostentschnig von KAPA Experts über Intimität, Angst und spielerische Selbstentfaltung.WERBUNG // BEDUCATED - Manchmal beginnt Veränderung mit einer guten Frage. Wenn du herausfinden willst, wo du auf deiner sexuellen Reise stehst und was dir wirklich gut tut, klick auf den Link zum Beducated Quiz. Am Ende wartet eine individuelle Roadmap zu mehr sexuellem Glück. Link: https://beducate.me/pd2606-ppmhIn dieser Folge sprechen Natascha Ditha Berger und Martin Gostentschnig darüber, warum Kink nichts mit Grenzüberschreitung zu tun hat, Polyamorie nichts mit Bindungslosigkeit, und Konsens sehr viel mehr ist als ein „Ja“ oder „Nein“. Ein Gespräch über Angst, Mut, Trauma, Spiel und die Freiheit, die eigene Sexualität als Ausdruck von sich selbst zu begreifen.In dieser Folge spreche ich mit Natascha Ditha Berger und Martin Gostentschnig von der Kink Aware Professionals Association (KAPPA) über moderne Beziehungen, Kink, Polyamorie, Trauma, Konsens und sexuelle Identität.Wir reden darüber, warum Kink nichts mit Grenzüberschreitung zu tun hat, sondern viel mit Selbstwahrnehmung, Kommunikation und Verantwortung. Warum moderne Beziehungen weniger starre Regeln und mehr Intention brauchen. Und weshalb Konsens weit mehr ist als ein einfaches Ja oder Nein.Ein zentrales Thema ist der Zusammenhang zwischen Angst und Shaming: Viele Abwertungen gegenüber Kink, Poly oder offener Sexualität entstehen nicht aus Wissen, sondern aus Unsicherheit und der Angst vor dem Unbekannten. Gleichzeitig zeigen Natascha und Martin, wie wichtig sichere Räume, unterstützende Bubbles und kink-aware Professionals sind, damit Menschen sich überhaupt trauen, ehrlich über ihre Wünsche zu sprechen.Wir sprechen über Trauma und Timing, über innere Anteile, Ambivalenz und darüber, warum es okay ist, nicht immer sofort Worte für alles zu haben. Und darüber, wie Sexualität als Spielwiese dienen kann, um sich selbst besser kennenzulernen – spielerisch, neugierig und ohne Perfektionsdruck.Eine Folge über Mut, Geduld, Spiel und die Freiheit, Beziehungen und Sexualität so zu gestalten, wie sie sich stimmig anfühlen.Diese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/LGvTYn13KiYPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#81 (ENG): "I am my own dream lover" (and I paid to be dominated) with Pauline Marie Antoinette @paulinemarieantoinette.What happens when a woman with a corporate career, a political science degree, and a perfectly respectable CV decides she’s done living in her head?She pays a professional dom. She writes erotic poetry. She builds a cabaret where fantasies are spoken out loud.In this episode of DEEP & DIRTY, I sit down with Pauline Marie Antoinette — poet, performer, and founder of Berlin’s Cabaret Cravache — to talk about pleasure, power, and what it actually feels like to let go of control.We talk about:- leaving the corporate world behind- discovering sexuality beyond performance and penetration- why paying for pleasure can be deeply empowering for women- being dominated safely, consensually, and intentionally- how poetry became a way to process desire, fear, and heartbreakPauline shares her experience of booking a professional domination session — not as shock value, but as a lesson in trust, communication, and surrender.What surprised her most wasn’t the pain or the ropes, but how safe she felt being asked what she wanted, what her boundaries were, and how she was feeling throughout.We also dive into:- why women are still taught to feel guilty about receiving pleasure- how kink can be less about sex and more about presence- why language matters — in bed, in poetry, and in everyday intimacy- and how Cabaret Cravache gives people a space to explore desire without shameThis episode isn’t about extremes. It’s about honesty.About what happens when you stop outsourcing your desires — or silencing them — and start giving them a voice.About PaulinePauline Marie Antoinette is a Berlin-based poet, performer, and facilitator. Originally from the south of France, she transitioned from a career in political science and international event production into creating embodied, sex-positive, and participatory art experiences.She is the founder of Cabaret Cravache, a Berlin cabaret blending erotic poetry, kink, ritual, and audience fantasies — inviting people to explore desire, vulnerability, and power in a curated and consensual space.Pauline also facilitates workshops and retreats focused on creative intimacy and kink, and collaborates with Sensuali, a platform connecting people with sex-positive experiences and professionals.Find Pauline here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulinemarieantoinette | Cabaret Cravache: https://www.instagram.com/cabaretcravache | Website: https://www.paulinemarieantoinette.comWatch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/rcKtdCD5ofkPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#80 (DE): Einer will, der andere nicht.„Einer will mehr, der andere weniger“ klingt nach einem altbekannten Beziehungsproblem. Nach Zahlen, nach Frequenz, nach Kompromissen. Nach etwas, das man irgendwie lösen müsste. Und genau deshalb greift diese Erzählung oft zu kurz.Denn was mir immer wieder begegnet – in Gesprächen, in Zuschriften, in Beziehungen – ist weniger ein echtes Lustproblem als ein Kontaktproblem. Oder genauer: ein Qualitätsproblem.Wir sprechen viel über Libido. Über wie oft, wie selten, wie lange schon nicht mehr. Kaum jemand spricht über das, was dazwischen liegt. Über Stimmung, Müdigkeit, Druck. Über den Kopf, der lauter ist als der Körper. Über Erwartungen, Automatismen und dieses diffuse Gefühl, dass mit einem Ja sofort „das volle Menü“ verbunden ist.In meiner neuen Podcastfolge geht es genau darum. Nicht um schnelle Lösungen oder einfache Antworten. Sondern um die leisen Momente vor dem Sex. Um das Nein, das manchmal gar kein Nein zu Nähe ist, sondern ein Nein zu dem, was unausgesprochen mitschwingt. Und um die Frage, was passiert, wenn Grenzen nicht als Abbruch verstanden werden, sondern als Übergang.Ich spreche darüber, warum viele Menschen irgendwann einfach Ja sagen, um den Druck loszuwerden – und warum dieses „Es war okay“ oft ein Hinweis ist, dass der Körper zwar dabei war, aber das innere Ja gefehlt hat. Es geht um Lusttypen, um Sex Amnesia, um das Vergessen, wie Lust sich eigentlich anfühlt, wenn sie nicht eingefordert wird.Und ja, es geht auch um Sprache. Um das Lautwerden dessen, was noch unsortiert ist. Um ehrliche Sätze, die kein Versprechen sind, sondern ein Bleiben im Gespräch. Manchmal ist genau das der Moment, in dem Lust wieder auftaucht. Nicht geplant. Nicht eingefordert. Sondern als Reaktion auf Ehrlichkeit.Diese Folge ist kein Ratgeber. Sie ist ein Denkraum. Ein Impuls. Vielleicht ist ein Satz dabei, der hängen bleibt. Vielleicht ein Bild, das etwas verschiebt. Und vielleicht ist das schon genug.Wenn Du mit mir darüber reden magst: www.mrs-opel.comPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... and never sent: horny, grieving and more poems.Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#79 (ENG): Alien play in the bedroom. How to get weird, wild & wonderfully curious.✨ Read the complete article - including a downloadable PDF packed with language examples, scene ideas, toys, and playful prompts - on my webpage.So, here’s a fun truth about humans: give us a strange-looking toy, a slightly odd texture, or a fantasy that lets us step out of our everyday bodies, and suddenly we’re all willing to explore the unknown like Mulder sprinting after a suspicious glow in the woods.Alien play isn’t about green body paint (unless you’re into that), nor do you need encyclopaedic knowledge of nebulae. It’s about curiosity. It’s about letting yourself touch, speak, and play differently. It’s about lifting the pressure to “perform” and instead asking, What would happen if we approached each other like we’ve never met a human before?It can be soft and exploratory, silly and giggly, or full of consensual power dynamics: “You will remain still for examination, human.” It can be a single line whispered during sex or a full scene with sensory scanning, strange toys, and non-verbal communication. Tentacle fantasies? Absolutely valid. Scientists examining mysterious specimens? Love it. Aliens with unusual biological quirks? Delicious.For many people, alien play is also a wonderfully inclusive way to experience desire. Aliens don’t come with preconceived ideas about bodies. They don’t expect genitals to look or behave a certain way. They don’t judge. They explore. And that makes the fantasy incredibly liberating for trans lovers, disabled partners, neurodivergent bodies, shy folks... Honestly? Anyone who wants to feel desired exactly as they are.Whether you want something as simple as adding a curious “What does this bit do?” to your next intimate moment, or you’re ready to strap in for a multi-tentacled mission, the beauty of alien play is that there’s no right way to do it. Just curiosity, imagination, and consent guiding you through the stars.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#78 (DE): Brauch ich einen Sex Therapeuten?In dieser Folge geht es um die Fragen hinter der Frage.Um Lustlosigkeit, unterschiedliche Bedürfnisse, unausgesprochene Fantasien und das Gefühl, mit all dem allein zu sein. Eine ehrliche Einladung für Solo und Paare, erstmal hinzuhören, bevor man etwas reparieren will.Wenn Du mit mir darüber reden magst: www.mrs-opel.comWERBUNG // BEDUCATED - Manchmal beginnt Veränderung mit einer guten Frage. Wenn du herausfinden willst, wo du auf deiner sexuellen Reise stehst und was dir wirklich gut tut, klick auf den Link zum Beducated Quiz. Am Ende wartet eine individuelle Roadmap zu mehr sexuellem Glück. https://beducate.me/pd2603-ppmhPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... and never sent: horny, grieving and more poems.Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#77 (ENG): My 2025 RECAP.This year broke me open and I’m not putting myself back the same way. Here are my unfiltered, honest thoughts looking back.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#76 (ENG): No vagina but all power with Ally Hensley.Ally Hensley was born without a vagina (MRKH). In this conversation, she walks us through the emotional and physical rollercoaster of growing up with a “missing parts” diagnosis. From shame, self-destruction and abusive relationships to healing, sex, friendship, boundaries, and reclaiming her pleasure and voice.Ally Hensley is an internationally recognised advocate for women’s health, an author, speaker, and the co-founder of MRKH Australia and Global MRKH. Born with MRKH syndrome, her work centres on breaking shame, expanding the narrative of womanhood, and supporting others through the emotional and physical realities of living with a “missing parts” diagnosis. Her memoir Vagina Uncensored challenges stigma with humour, honesty, and deep humanity. Ally also hosts the podcast Stigma Shakers, where she sparks conversations most people are too afraid to start.🔗 Website: www.allyhensley.com 🔗 Instagram: www.instagram.com/ally__hensley/ 🔗 Podcast: www.instagram.com/stigmashakers/ 🔗 Book: https://amzn.eu/d/9uzrC8XWatch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#75 (DE): Sind Orgien einfacher als Dreier? Solo-Folge.Viele fantasieren von einem Dreier. Doch wenn es ernst wird, spüren wir oft mehr Unsicherheit als Lust. In diesem Artikel erfährst du, warum Dreier emotional aufgeladen sein können und wieso eine Orgie für manche entspannter ist.Diese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#74 (DE): Dr. Stephanie Kossow über Alien Kinks, Fantasien und schlechtem Sex.BEDUCATED: 60% Rabatt im Dezember: PLEASEPINCHMEHARD. Link hier https://beducate.me/pd2547-ppmh | 24 hour free trialÜBER DR. STEPHANIE KOSSOW: Ihr Buch: https://shop.autorenwelt.de/products/das-gute-an-schlechtem-sex-von-stephanie-dr-kossow-und-stephanie-kossow?variant=54711683154245 | Webpage: www.stephanie-kossow.de | IG: @dr.stephanie.kossowDiese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#73 (DE): Ingwer Soerensen über Sinne, Sinnlichkeit, Männlichkeit und Ingwer.PLEASEPINCHMEHARD DISCOUNT 16% auf NATURALLY NAUGHTY: CODE: PPMH16 | Link: https://www.naturallynaughty.shop/discount/ppmh16ÜBER INGWER & NATURALLY NAUGHTY: www.naturallynaughty.shophttps://www.instagram.com/naturallynaughty.love/Diese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#72 (ENG): Bisexual women moaning out loud? Yes, in this live reading.Ever wished you could be a fly on the wall at a Skirt Club night? Now’s your chance. I wrote this story especially for their Mistress Masquerade event... and you get to listen in, no mask required.More of Lisa Opel on:Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard): https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/Webpage: www.pleasepinchmehard.comLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#71 (DE): 24/7 BDSM & Kink mit Frau Tagtraum und Addolorato. Lust, Macht, Vertrauen – wenn BDSM zur Liebessprache wird.BEDUCATED: 69% off this November with my code: PLEASEPINCHMEHARD69. Link here https://beducate.me/pleasepinchmehard69 | 24 hour free trialÜBER FRAU TAGTRAUM & ADDOLORATO: https://www.instagram.com/frau.tagtraum/ | https://www.instagram.com/_addolorato_/ | https://onlyfans.com/frautagtraum | https://www.bestfans.com/frautagtraumDiese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#70 (ENG): Secret Masturbation in Relationships: Why we touch ourselves in private — and what it really says about love, intimacy, and desire.MORE INFO: Read the full article here: https://pleasepinchmehard.com/secret-masturbation-in-relationshipsMore of Lisa Opel on:Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard): https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/Webpage: www.pleasepinchmehard.comLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#68 (DE): Wer fängt an? Über die große Frage, wer beim Sex initiiert.DEN GANZEN ARTIKEL DAZU: https://pleasepinchmehard.com/wer-initiiert-beim-sex-wie-mental-load-lust-und-nahe-beeinflusst/Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#68 (DE): Salvadore-Hugo Garth & Lisa Opel - Mehr als "Sex-Puppen".ÜBER SALVADORE & HOUSEDOLL: housedoll: housedoll.com ERISER – Infos & Pre-Order: get-arisa.comDiese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#67 (ENG): Another Day, Another Dungeon with Tim Richardson @brightontimMORE ABOUT TIM: Dungeon: www.brightondungeon.co.uk | Taboo: www.taboo.co.uk | Lust: www.lust.co.uk | Instagram: www.instagram.com/brightontim | Killing Kittens: www.killingkittens.comBEDUCATED: 50% off this October with my code: PLEASEPINCHMEHARD. Link here or https://beducate.me/pd2539-ppmh | 24 hour free trialMore of Lisa Opel on: Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard): https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/Webpage: www.pleasepinchmehard.comLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#66 (ENG): Taboo Porn You’d Never Confess To (and Why It Turns You On Anyway).MORE INFO: Read the article with full resources and freebie list of over 100+ fantasies here: https://pleasepinchmehard.com/filthy-fantasies-the-taboo-porn-no-one-talks-about/More of Lisa Opel on:Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard): https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/Webpage: www.pleasepinchmehard.comLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#65 (ENG): NCII: Fighting Non-Consensual Image Abuse with Madelaine Thomas @thecountessdia2.WATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HERE: https://youtu.be/NhL_BPJtz_kMORE ABOUT MADELAINE: Image Angel → imageangel.co.uk | Countess Diamond → countessdiamond.co.uk | Instagram/TikTok: @thecountessdia2If you’ve experienced non-consensual intimate image abuse (NCII), know that you’re not alone and support is available. In the UK, you can reach out to the Revenge Porn Helpline for immediate guidance. For resources worldwide, visit the Image Angel resources page at imageangel.co.uk, where you’ll find local organisations ready to help. Taking the first step to reach out can make all the difference.More of Lisa Opel on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and webpageLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#64 (ENG): Pole, Power & Pleasure: Turning Sport into Sensual Strength with Tara Margulies @movewithtara.BEDUCATED: 14 Day Trial | Code: pleasepinchmehard // Link here or here: https://beducate.me/pd2535-ppmhWATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HERE: https://youtu.be/fqWGwLnCEeQMORE ABOUT TARA: ✨Sensuali – https://www.sensuali.com | 🌞Ibiza Pole Retreats – https://www.ibizapoleretreats.com | 🔮Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/movewithtaraMore of Lisa Opel on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and webpageLisa's NEW BOOK is out! SEX SEX SEX: your workbook for solo and partner use. Check it out here.The book "GIVE IT TO ME!" on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and as an Audiobook.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play, practices and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe