Claim OwnershipDecluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic
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In this podcast, Heather will teach you what really works, and what doesn't, to successfully declutter your home - as when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic, it isn't just a case of hiring a skip and having a big sort out - it's not that easy!
Heather is an expert in working with families that live in chaos, and all the challenges that brings. She is Autistic and has ADHD so knows all about how neurodiversity links to clutter. As a naturally messy person herself, she can show you how to live in a clean, clutter free and organised home regardless of the issues you face. She thrives on creating strategies and systems that work for real families. Transforming your cluttered homes to calm, safe spaces can also improve your mental, physical and financial health, learn all about it in this podcast.
Heather Tingle has been a member of The Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers since 2016. She and her family have had hoarding tendencies, living in messy homes, stuck in that never ending, exhausting cycle of chores and tidying. She decluttered her home and found a new, calmer and more content way to live. She now supports clients in person and online to achieve the same outcome in their own homes - and now you can learn how she does it through this podcast too!
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Send me a text message about this podcast Introduction:In this episode of "Decluttering Untangled," host Heather Tingle explores the common tendency to save things for special occasions and the impact it has on our lives and homes. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, Heather shares insights into why it's essential to break free from this habit and embrace using the special every day.Key Points:The "Saving for Best" Syndrome: Heather reflects on her own past habit of saving the...
1Send me a text message about this podcast Episode Title: Making Moving House Less Stressful with Guest Expert Jonathan BramwellIntroduction:Heather Tingle welcomes Jonathan Bramwell, founder of Bramwell Relocation, to Decluttering Untangled. Jonathan has 40 years of experience in the moving industry and shares valuable insights into making moving less stressful.Background of Bramwell Relocation:Jonathan founded Bramwell Relocation 40 years ago, which has transitioned from a large-scale operat...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the habit of keeping boxes and the impact it has on clutter in our homes. She explores the reasons why people keep boxes, such as the sentimental value or the belief that they may need them in the future. Heather encourages listeners to evaluate the cost of keeping boxes and the benefits of decluttering. She also provides tips on how to determine whether to keep a box or let it go.TakeawaysKeeping boxes...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle challenges the idea of having separate summer and winter wardrobes. She argues that it is unnecessary and causes more difficulties in terms of storage, decision-making, and accessing clothes. Heather suggests minimising the wardrobe to the available space and being able to mix and match outfits for different seasons. This allows for easier decision-making, frees up valuable space, and makes getting dressed and de...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle interviews Maddie Alexander-Grout, an ADHD money specialist, about shopping addiction and impulsive spending. Maddie shares her personal experience of getting into £40,000 of debt and how she managed to get herself out of it. They discuss the challenges of impulse spending and provide tips on how to counteract it, such as keeping a spending log, separating emotions from purchases, and making it harder to spend by...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the concept of a 'floordrobe' and the reasons why clothes end up on the floor instead of being put away. She shares her personal experience of struggling with keeping her clothes organised and the emotional toll it took on her. Heather explains that the main reason everyone thinks for having a floordrobe is having too many clothes and not enough storage space, however this is not the case. She also addr...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges of dealing with gifts and the guilt associated with letting go of them. She emphasises the importance of removing the guilt and shame and focusing on the act of love behind the gift. Heather also provides tips on how to handle unwanted gifts, set boundaries, and ask for specific items. She encourages decluttering and enjoying gifts immediately, rather than saving them for a special occasi...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather reflects on the concept of keeping souvenirs and mementos as a way to preserve memories. She shares a personal experience of her daughter's operation and how it made her realise the importance of letting go of negative memories. Heather encourages listeners to think about the significance of the items they choose to keep and suggests creating a 'Blow My Own Trumpet' folder for important achievements. She also ...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges faced by people suffering with hoarding disorder, including the issue with the term 'hoarders'. She discusses the importance of understanding hoarding disorder as a mental health condition. She emphasises the need for empathy and respect when working with HD clients, debunking misconceptions and stereotypes. Heather also highlights the trauma caused by forced clearance and the negative im...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses what to do with items that are not good enough for charity. She emphasises the importance of having a plan for each item and avoiding analysis paralysis. Heather provides practical tips for addressing issues with items, such as washing stained clothes and de-bobbling worn-out clothing. She also suggests finding alternative uses for items, repurposing them, and recycling them. H...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the common belief that holding onto items because they cost money is a valid reason. She introduces the concept of the sunk cost fallacy and explains that the money spent on an item is gone once it is purchased. Heather emphasises the importance of detaching emotional value from an item and recognising that its worth may have changed over time. She advises listeners to research the actual selling prices...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the mindset of keeping items because they might come in handy one day. She explores the origins of this mindset and how it clashes with the reality of living in a disposable society. Heather provides practical tips for evaluating the usefulness of items and encourages listeners to live in the present rather than holding onto future plans. She emphasises the importance of findin...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses what happens when declutterers are brought into a home as an intervention, particularly in cases involving hoarding disorder. She aims to demystify the process and alleviate fears by explaining how declutterers work and what to expect. Heather emphasises the importance of prioritising safety and basic needs, such as ensuring easy access and functionality in the home. She also discusses the process of zo...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges of object permanence and the tendency to forget about things that are out of sight. She explores the issue of having things out as a reminder, but how they often get piled up or blend into the background. Heather shares strategies for staying organised, such as using a diary to track tasks and keeping items in designated homes. She also suggests using visual aids like Post-it Notes, label...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the pros and cons of using a skip for decluttering purposes. She shares alternatives to skips, such as organised curbside pickups and hiring a man with a van. Heather highlights the downsides of skips, including limited access, skip divers, and the risk of others putting their rubbish in your skip. She emphasises the impact of decision fatigue and explains why skips may not be effective for most clients...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses the positives and negatives of the KonMari method of decluttering and organising. She shares her personal experience with the method and highlights the aspects that were life-changing for her. Heather emphasises the importance of having a system to follow and using emotions, rather than logic, to decide what to keep. She also explores the concept of finding gratitude when letting go of items and the ben...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, the host explores the question of whether decluttering can make one happy. While acknowledging that decluttering is not a magic solution to all problems, the host shares personal experiences and insights on the positive impact of decluttering. The conversation covers various themes, including the transformational power of decluttering, shifting embarrassment and perfectionism, uncovering problems and taking action, easier home ...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle discusses how to declutter when dealing with chronic depression. She emphasises that motivation doesn't magically appear and suggests accepting that starting will be difficult. She recommends starting with throwaway tasks and using rest periods between structured decluttering sessions. Heather advises taking time and acclimatising to decluttering, turning rooms into micro categories, and rewarding small declutter...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, the host discusses strategies for decluttering while dealing with depression. She shares her personal experience with depression and how decluttering has improved her mental health. The different types of depression, including situational and chemical depression, are explored. The impact of decluttering on mental health is emphasised, highlighting the importance of creating a calming and safe space. The host also provides tips ...
Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle provides a simple yet effective tip for dealing with post-Christmas clutter. She emphasises the importance of removing packaging as soon as possible to change the way we think about our belongings and make it easier to declutter. By removing packaging and tags, we remove the barriers that prevent us from using and enjoying our items. Heather also highlights the tendency to see items as collections and the importa...
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