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The podcast where we get #RealPersonalRealQuick featuring stories from real people. Hosted by Saoimanu Sope.
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04. I Chose My Kids

04. I Chose My Kids

2025-07-2847:34

Gaby answers the question many of you have, "why did you stay?" She talks about keeping hope alive until she couldn't, the impact Lance's addiction had on her, the rollercoaster of emotions she experienced, and how Google played a role in her realization that her husband was not the man she knew.
03. Back-to-Back Rehab

03. Back-to-Back Rehab

2025-05-1929:18

Lance explains the final straw that made Gaby file for a restraining order and how his family's involvement in the matter made him feel some type of way. He also gets into his experience with rehab and how his last arrest was a major wake-up call.
Lance explains what happened when he returned home after finding shelter in an abandoned house. You'll meet a few family members and homies in this episode, including our older sister, Lani, who did everything in her power to love our brother back to life. Lance also explains how he and Gaby met, and how he was tricked into moving to Oceanside, CA -- where he's lived for the last 10+ years.
01. Carson, CA

01. Carson, CA

2025-05-0427:38

Lance takes a trip down memory lane and talks about the good ol' days growing up in Carson, CA. You'll hear about the death of our dad, Lance's very short-lived football career, and the homies that kept school worthwhile. You'll also begin to understand just how different my brother and I are.
16. Motherland

16. Motherland

2024-02-2719:04

Saoi returns to the motherland after 26 years, gets her first tattoo & does some self-discovery along the way.
15. Re-introduction

15. Re-introduction

2024-02-1902:29

Michelle is focusing on other things so you're stuck with me, Saoi! What can you expect from episodes to come? Lots of one-on-one with Saoi & convos ft. special guests. Get ready!
Goodbyes are never easy. We're definitely no experts, but we'd love to share our experiences with goodbyes. Tune in to hear more!
In this week’s episode, Saoi and Michelle talk about the cities that have influenced them the most. We go from Santa Cruz to Richmond to (surprise surprise) New York while Saoi recounts the experiences in those cities that have shaped who she is today. Michelle draws parallels between New York and Shanghai while also calling to attention a place you wouldn’t expect, Eugene, Oregon. Tune in to hear more about why these places are so near and dear to them!
In this week’s episode, Michelle and Saoi talk about things they learned the hard way. Just to name a few:  (1) talk to people  (2) hard work can only get you so far  (3) use Google (4) keep your passport with you at all times while traveling Listen in to hear more!
Saoi asks Michelle about her rave days and we walk down memory lane of all the good, bad, and in between. Tune in to hear more about it!
Michelle asks Saoi about her relationship with the big man himself, Jesus. Saoi talks about her journey of self-discovery that took walking away from God to understand the value he had in her life. We touch on her almost-baptism and the tough times that have strengthened her belief in Him. This episode is not only personal, but emotional, so tune in to hear more!
In today’s episode, Saoi asks Michelle about her experience with friends, specifically if she’s ever lost any. Michelle quickly corrects that she doesn’t feel like she’s ‘lost’ friends, but rather, grown apart from them because of emotional maturity and distance. When asked the question back, Saoi speaks about a few instances where she thought they were her ‘friend’ but were actually posers. Tune in to hear all the tea!
Michelle ask Saoi what her ideal life looks like and...surprise suprise, the answer has changed between this year and last year. It's based on life situation and perspective. Tune in to hear more!
Saoi asks Michelle what she is most insecure about and the answer is unexpected. At the end of it all, both are in agreement that comparison is the thief of joy and what each person is insecure about the other would have never expected. We won’t spoil the fun so tune in to hear the details!
Michelle asks Saoi about where her love for film came from. We start at the very beginning, with the gift of a Panasonic, to the future that has yet to come. Listen to the episode to hear about Saoi’s journey with storytelling!
Saoi asks Michelle about her culture and identity, specifically what she doesn't like about it. They touch on food, communication, the we vs me mentality, community, and overall change. Tune in to find out more!
Saoi asks Michelle how she knew Eric was the one for her. Although Michelle believes there are multiple people you can be compatible with, it's through dating that both people decide if they want to put in the work to stay together. Listen in to hear more about how Eric made the cut!
Michelle asks Saoi about the death of her dad. Saoi doesn't remember much, but she shares the little she does in this episode. Tune in and learn about how she responded to her dad's absence over the last twenty years.
Michelle asks Saoi about friendship. What makes someone worthy of being Saoi's friend? Tune in and find out if you meet her criteria.
Saoi asks Michelle about her experience growing up in a single parent household, particularly regarding the absence of her biological mother. This episode is an emotional one, especially for Michelle. Tune in and hear how raw she gets about her childhood and family dynamic.
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