The No More Wasted Days Podcast

Thinking about starting the new year alcohol-free, but don’t want to do it alone? You can still join the Dry January Experience waiting list and be first in line when early enrollment opens on December 19th. Waiting list members receive early access and an exclusive discount. 👉 Join the waiting list here: nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist ***************************************   Episode Summary In today’s episode of the No More Wasted Days podcast, Sara sits down with Suzanne Warye, author of The Sober Shift, host of the Sober Mom Life podcast, and founder of the Sober Mom Life Café. This is an honest, grounded conversation about motherhood, identity, shame, and the moment many women quietly realize that alcohol is taking more than it’s giving. Suzanne shares her powerful story of becoming “spontaneously sober,” why moderation is a trap for so many women, and how alcohol culture has deliberately targeted exhausted, overwhelmed moms. If you’ve ever wondered whether you “qualify” for sobriety, or felt like you should be able to make drinking work even though it never really does, this episode will land deeply. In this episode, we talk about: Suzanne’s last night drinking and the moment she knew she was done What “spontaneous sobriety” really means and why relapse isn’t inevitable The hidden shame cycle so many women live in, even when they look “fine” on the outside Why moderation fails, and why the drink is the problem, not you How alcohol marketing targets women and moms under the guise of self-care and empowerment What abundance actually looks like in an alcohol-free life (hint: it’s quieter, steadier, and more joyful) Why community is essential for women in sobriety, especially mothers How quitting drinking allows women to come home to themselves and trust their inner voice again Suzanne also shares why she wrote The Sober Shift, and how it’s designed for women who don’t relate to rock-bottom stories but still know something feels off.   About Suzanne Warye Suzanne Warye is the author of The Sober Shift, host of the Sober Mom Life podcast, and creator of the Sober Mom Life Café, a supportive community for mothers exploring alcohol-free living. Her work focuses on dismantling shame, questioning drinking culture, and helping women reclaim their time, energy, and identity. You can find Suzanne on Instagram at @suzannewarye and learn more about her work at suzannewarye.com.   If this conversation sparked something in you and you’re craving a fresh start with real support, now is the perfect time to get on the Dry January Experience waiting list. Early enrollment opens December 19th, and waiting list members receive a special discounted rate. 👉 Join here: nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist   And if you haven’t already, please consider leaving a review or comment on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Sara reads every one, and your feedback helps this message reach the women who need it most.   ***************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Get on the Dry January 2026 waiting list if you know you’re ready for a reset. You’ll receive early enrollment access plus a discounted rate.Sign up at nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist. Episode Summary Most women who struggle with alcohol never fit the stereotype of the “daily drinker.” They function well, they hold everything together, and from the outside, everything looks fine. Yet inside, alcohol is shaping far more than they realize.   In this episode, Sara breaks down how to recognize when drinking is running your life, even if you don’t drink every day. She explores the subtle signs of low grade dependency, how mental energy becomes entangled with alcohol, and why frequency does not equal severity.   Whether you are still drinking or already alcohol free, this episode will help you see your relationship with alcohol with more honesty, clarity, and compassion. In This Episode You’ll Learn: 1. Why frequency isn’t the real issue Sara dismantles the old belief that “a real problem” only exists when someone drinks every day. She explains why modern drinking struggles show up through mental preoccupation, not just quantity. 2. The four signs alcohol may be running your life Sara walks through four categories where alcohol leaves fingerprints, even for gray area drinkers: Mental and emotional signs such as rule setting, constant planning, thinking about alcohol like clockwork, or needing it to regulate emotions. Physical and sleep signs like middle-of-the-night wakeups, sluggish mornings, anxiety spikes, cravings, and inflammation. Behavioral signs including, sneaking sips, avoiding events without alcohol, or planning commitments around hangovers. Identity signs such as struggling to imagine yourself without alcohol or leaning heavily on your “drinking persona.” 3. The brain chemistry behind “needing a drink” Sara breaks down dopamine spikes, cortisol crashes, and why anxiety lingers for days after drinking. She highlights why even inconsistent drinking still keeps the reinforcement loop alive. 4. What gray area drinking actually is Most women who feel stuck in the start-and-stop cycle aren’t “alcoholics.” They’re gray area drinkers living in quiet chaos, often rewarded by society for coping silently. 5. Why a meaningful break changes everything Taking 30 days off alcohol stabilizes the nervous system, exposes what alcohol has been costing you, and gives you a first glimpse of the peace and clarity you’ve been chasing. 6. The questions that matter more than ‘How much do I drink?’ Sara offers reflection questions to help you evaluate whether alcohol is supporting your life or slowing it down. Key Takeaways Alcohol doesn’t have to completely derail your life to be running it. If you’re thinking about it daily, planning around it, or dreading life without it, that is enough information. A meaningful break is often the turning point where everything becomes clear.  Alcohol is a socially accepted poison that disconnects you from your power, but stepping back reconnects you to who you really are. Get on the Dry January Waiting List If this episode hit home, consider joining Sara for Dry January 2026. You’ll receive early enrollment access and a discounted rate when doors open. → Sign up free at nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist. ******************************************** Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

In today’s episode, Sara sits down with author and advocate Celeste Yvonne, whose book It’s Not About the Wine cuts straight through the noise of mommy wine culture and exposes what’s really going on behind the scenes.   This conversation digs into the political and psychological systems that encourage women to drink, profit from their burnout, and quietly benefit when mothers are overwhelmed, numb, and too exhausted to challenge the status quo.   Sara and Celeste unpack how alcohol became the “acceptable” coping mechanism for modern motherhood, why women are drinking more than ever, and how targeted marketing turned female exhaustion into a trillion-dollar opportunity for Big Alcohol. If you’ve ever wondered why drinking feels so normalized for moms or why quitting sometimes feels rebellious, this episode will connect the dots.   They also explore what happens when women finally step out of that fog. Spoiler, clarity changes everything. From relationships to emotional patterns to political awareness, sobriety becomes a form of awakening, and that awakening has a ripple effect.   If you’ve felt the spark of something waking up inside you, this episode will fan that flame. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why mommy wine culture exploded on social media and who benefitted from it How Big Alcohol used burnout, overwhelm, and emotional labor as a marketing strategy Why numbing out keeps women small, quiet, and disconnected from their own power The cultural expectations that trap women into drinking more than they realize How marketing shifted from cigarettes to wine, and why women became the primary target The connection between sobriety and political clarity What real self care looks like when alcohol is no longer the default How sobriety gives women their voice back, and why that voice matters The emotional patterns alcohol keeps hidden and what rises to the surface when you stop Why women often feel angrier in early sobriety, and why anger is actually a sign of waking up About Celeste Celeste Yvonne is a writer, speaker, and author of It’s Not About the Wine: The Loaded Truth Behind Mommy Wine Culture. Her work has been featured in the Washington Post, Today Show, and Good Morning America. You can follow her  on social media @theultimatemomchallenge (on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok) or on Substack. Ready for a powerful reset? Dry January is coming, and I’m hosting my biggest 30-day alcohol-free experience starting January 1. You’ll get daily support, coaching, and a community that actually understands what you’re working toward. Join the waiting list for first access and an exclusive discount. Join the waitlist: nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist Books Mentioned Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke Referenced for understanding the pain, pleasure, and dopamine balance. Atomic Habits by James Clear Recommended for building new habits and rewiring routines in early alcohol-free life. This Naked Mind by Annie Grace A foundational book that helped Sara shift her beliefs about alcohol. The Addiction Inoculation by Jessica Lahey Recommended by Celeste for understanding how to raise kids in an alcohol-centric culture. Fawning by Dr. Ingrid Clayton Mentioned in your discussion about people-pleasing and emotional patterns. Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker Cited as one of the major books shaping the conversation around women and alcohol. Drink by Ann Dowsett Johnston Referenced for its research on how and why women became the primary target of alcohol marketing. It’s Not About the Wine by Celeste Yvonne Central to the episode and the conversation about mommy wine culture and political awakenings.   ****************************************************   Dry January Waiting List If something in this conversation stirred something in you, don’t ignore it. Dry January is right around the corner, and this is your chance to start the year clear, grounded, and fully back in your power. My 30 Day Alcohol Free Experience begins January 1, and the women who join this challenge always walk out with more confidence, more energy, and a level of clarity they didn’t know they were missing.   Get on the waiting list today so you’re the first to know when enrollment opens and you’ll unlock an exclusive discount only available to waitlist members. If you’re craving a reset or a real change, this is your moment to take it. Join the waitlist: nomorewasteddays.co/waitinglist   ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Time is running out to  join the Day Makers Community for two weeks for $1. Join today for coaching, connection, and support. www.nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers. ************************************************ Thanksgiving used to be one of my biggest drinking holidays. It was chaotic, wine-soaked, and every year followed the same pattern, exhaustion, resentment, chasing a buzz, and then waking up the next morning wishing I could take parts of it back. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on all of it, the wine-day traditions, the resentment of cooking, the Black Friday hangovers, my first sober Thanksgiving while pregnant with the twins, and the moment I finally learned what a peaceful, present holiday could feel like without alcohol. Today, I’m walking you through six powerful strategies to help you step into an alcohol-free Thanksgiving with clarity, confidence, and a sense of rebellion against the belief that alcohol is required to survive the holidays. These are the deeper strategies, not the basic “bring a mocktail” tips you’ve heard a million times. You’ll learn how to find the exact moment your cravings spike, how to pre-decide your identity before the day begins, how to use sensory anchors to stay grounded, and how to design micro escape routes that keep you steady and empowered. You’ll also get a grounded gratitude practice that avoids the toxic positivity trap and helps you stay connected to the moments you genuinely want to remember. This episode is your permission slip to reclaim the holiday as something peaceful, joyful, and fully yours. In This Episode You’ll Learn: The truth about why Thanksgiving may be one of your biggest “drinking holidays” How alcohol turns the day into chaos rather than connection What my first sober Thanksgiving really felt like Six deeper strategies to keep you steady, present, and proud How to create an identity that makes staying alcohol free easier than willpower A gratitude practice that supports your journey without feeling forced Why an alcohol-free Thanksgiving is not a downgrade, but a radical upgrade in presence and joy The Six Strategies I Walk You Through: Identify your breaking-point moment Pre-decide your identity Create a sensory anchor Build a micro escape route Give yourself a purposeful role Visualize tomorrow morning A Final Reminder - This is the last episode where you can join the Day Makers for just $1 for two weeks. If you feel that tug in your gut pulling you toward something more, don’t ignore it. Step in now and surround yourself with people who understand your journey. Join here: nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

If the darker months tend to stir up cravings, low motivation, or the urge to numb out, this is your sign to plug into real support. For November only, you can try the Day Makers Community for two weeks for just $1. Get coaching, connection, and stability during the hardest season of the year. Join at www.nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers. Episode Summary Winter can be one of the most challenging seasons to stay alcohol free. Shorter days, less sunlight, gray skies, and changes in routine can mess with your mood and energy. In the Pacific Northwest, Sara calls it the Big Dark for a reason. In this episode, she breaks down why the winter blues happen, why they hit harder when you are alcohol free, and the practical strategies that help you stay grounded instead of slipping backward. Sara shares the story of her first winter living in a camper trailer on the land while building her house. The lack of natural light, heavy rain, and isolation hit stronger than expected, and it became the first time she truly understood how intense the winter blues can feel, even deep into sobriety. She now approaches every winter with intention and has built a winter-specific sober toolkit to stay emotionally steady. Through personal experience and research, this episode teaches you how to recognize winter blues, how to distinguish them from seasonal affective disorder, and how to protect your alcohol free identity during the months when cravings or old coping mechanisms may begin whispering again. You will leave with five winter-proof strategies that help you stay energized, connected, and proud of your choices, even when the season feels heavy. What You Will Learn 1. Why the Winter Blues Happen How reduced sunlight lowers serotonin. How longer darkness disrupts circadian rhythm, leading to fatigue, fog, and increased melatonin. Why people in northern latitudes are more susceptible. How environmental factors like rain, darkness, and isolation intensify the emotional dip. 2. How Winter Impacts Your Alcohol Free Journey Lower mood plus lower energy can increase cravings and relapse risk. Lack of motivation can sabotage routines that usually protect your sobriety. Social withdrawal and loneliness can make old patterns feel nostalgic or tempting. Winter can become a unique season in your recovery, requiring specialized tools and preparation. 3. How to Know Whether It Is the Winter Blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder Winter blues tend to be mild and temporary. SAD is more persistent, more intense, and repeats each winter. Sara stresses the importance of not minimizing clinical depression and reaching out for professional support when needed. 4. Five Strategies to Protect Your Sobriety This Winter Light exposure and environment Use a light therapy lamp. Increase brightness in your indoor spaces or embrace warm lighting if it brings comfort. Explore vitamin D supplementation. Get your face outside for whatever sunlight exists that day. Routine and structure Keep consistent wake times. Resist the urge to retreat into isolation. Anchor habits that reinforce your non-drinker identity. Maintain community engagement even when motivation dips. Movement, connection, and purpose Move daily even when it is dark or rainy. Bundle up, put on the rain gear, and get outside. Plan intentional social touchpoints. Reaffirm your personal why and your identity as a non-drinker. Ask for support when things feel off Speak up early. Share your experience with a partner or community. Build a winter strategy before you are struggling. Seek professional care if symptoms feel intense or prolonged. Mindset reframing See winter as a season of reinvention rather than defeat. Lean into coziness, warmth, and slow living. Remember that you no longer use alcohol to numb through winter. Identify at least one win each day that happens because you did not drink. Key Takeaway The winter blues are real, and they are rooted in biology and environment. But with preparation and intentional practice, you can navigate this season with confidence instead of slipping into old patterns. Winter can become a powerful part of your alcohol free story, a season of inner strengthening, and a time to build the resilient version of yourself who will step boldly into spring. Resources Mentioned The Happy Light (light therapy lamp) - Verilux HappyLight - https://a.co/d/blonUVy The Little Book of Hygge (Day Makers November book club pick) - https://a.co/d/0w06tQx Join the Day Makers Community If you want support through the darker months, this is the perfect time. For November only, you can try the Day Makers for two weeks for just $1. Join the coaching calls, connect inside the community, and learn the tools that make winter feel lighter.  Start your trial at nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers. ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

This November, you can join the Day Makers Community for just $1 for your first two weeks. Connect with like-minded people, rebuild your confidence, and start creating a life you love alcohol-free. Join now at nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers   When you first quit drinking, your biggest goal might simply be to make it through each day alcohol-free and that’s huge. But what happens when you start to feel ready for more? In this inspiring episode, Sara explores the power of goal setting in sobriety and how it shifts your focus from just not drinking to thriving. She shares her own evolution from early sobriety to taking on life-changing goals like building a house, launching a business, and planning a 93-mile backpacking trip with her family around Mount Rainier. You’ll learn why alcohol keeps us stuck in short-term thinking, how sobriety rebuilds self-trust, and how to start dreaming again, one intentional goal at a time. Whether you’re just starting your alcohol-free journey or ready to push toward your next chapter, this episode will remind you what’s truly possible when you stop numbing and start creating.   In this episode, you’ll learn: Why goal setting is essential for long-term fulfillment in sobriety How breaking promises while drinking damages self-trust, and how to rebuild it The difference between surviving sobriety and thriving in it How to set aligned goals that reflect who you want to become, not who you “should” be Practical ways to start small, stay consistent, and build momentum The mindset shifts that make growth sustainable (progress over perfection) Key takeaways: Your first goal, staying alcohol-free, is not small; it’s foundational. Once you build trust in yourself, your confidence expands naturally. Sobriety opens space for new dreams, from creative projects to fitness goals. Big goals don’t have to be grand gestures, they just need to align with your values and your “why.” You didn’t quit drinking to live smaller; you quit so your life could get bigger. Sara’s Big Goals Example: Completing a 100-day fitness challenge Building her family’s dream home from the ground up Preparing for the Wonderland Trail hike in 2027 Each of these milestones began with the same foundation: daily commitment, self-trust, and a willingness to dream bigger without alcohol.   Join the Day Makers Community For the month of November only, you can try the Day Makers community for just $1 for your first two weeks. Inside, you’ll find: Weekly group coaching calls with Sara A book club and community discussions Goal-setting support and mindset tools Accountability and connection with others on the same path Join today at nomorewasteddays.co/daymakers   If this episode inspired you, please follow, rate, and review No More Wasted Days. Every share helps more people discover a life beyond alcohol—one that’s purposeful, grounded, and full of possibility. ************************************************ 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Sara sits down with her friend Chelsea Bohnstedt, a yoga instructor and certified sound healer, to talk about her powerful alcohol-free journey. At the time of recording, Chelsea is 562 days sober, but her path to get here was far from linear. Chelsea opens up about: Hitting rock bottom after repeated starts and stops, and how a medical crisis finally became her turning point. The kindling effect. A dangerous neurological response that makes withdrawal symptoms worse each time you quit and start drinking again. Finding recovery through SMART Recovery and Y12SR (Yoga for 12-Step Recovery) after struggling to connect with traditional AA. Healing anxiety, rediscovering peace, and embracing the beauty of a “boring life.” How yoga, meditation, and sound baths helped her reconnect with her body and spirit, and why spirituality doesn’t have to look “religious.” Sara and Chelsea also share stories from their time together at the Sober Tahoe Adventure Retreat and reflect on how sound healing and self-care practices can unlock powerful emotional healing. 🧘‍♀️ Key Takeaways Kindling is real. If you've started and stopped many times, it can make withdrawals more severe and even life-threatening. Always consult a doctor for support when quitting. Peace is the new thrill. Sobriety gives you back your time, energy, and clarity. Spirituality can be simple. Connection, mindfulness, and presence count just as much as prayer or religion. Self-care is rebellion. Taking care of yourself and living with intention isn’t boring, it’s revolutionary. 🔗 Resources Mentioned SMART Recovery Meetings Y12SR – Yoga for 12-Step Recovery Follow Chelsea on Instagram @yogini.chels CLICK HERE to Join Chelsea’s hybrid yoga classes online through her studio (link in show notes). 💖 Favorite Quote “Taking care of yourself is the most rebellious thing you can do. Especially as a woman.” – Chelsea Bohnstedt If you loved this episode, please rate and review the show! Your support helps the No More Wasted Days Podcast reach more people who are ready to live free, present, and fully alive.   ************************************************ 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Ready to finally break free from alcohol—and stop the cycle of numbing? Start your journey today with the Refresh & Reboot: 30 Day Alcohol-Free Challenge. This self-paced program gives you daily guidance, mindset tools, and video support from Sara to help you thrive through your first 30 days without alcohol. Podcast listeners get 20% off with code PODCAST20 at checkout. 👉 Join the Challenge Here https://nomorewasteddays.co/30-day-challenge/ Episode Summary When you quit drinking, you expect the hard part to be over, but sometimes, the brain finds a new outlet for the same addictive patterns. In this episode, Sara opens up about her personal experience with transfer addictions - how her addictive tendencies shifted from alcohol to food tracking, sugar, and weed, and what she learned about herself in the process. Through stories, science, and self-compassion, Sara breaks down: What transfer addiction (or cross-addiction) actually is Why our brains latch onto new sources of dopamine when we remove alcohol How dopamine depletion and reward substitution keep us chasing “the buzz” Why it’s normal to experience new compulsions in early sobriety and how to move through them 7 powerful ways to heal the void and rebuild balance in recovery You’ll also hear Sara share research-backed insights on dopamine regulation, neuroplasticity, and the incentive sensitization theory, explaining why we crave even when we no longer enjoy the thing we’re craving. Whether your new obsession is sugar, scrolling, or staying “in control,” this episode reminds you that awareness is the first step toward freedom. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 01:16 Understanding Transfer Addictions 03:36 Promoting the 30-Day Alcohol-Free Challenge 04:43 Realizing Transfer Addictions 07:40 Defining Transfer Addiction 10:40 The Science Behind Addiction 20:27 Recognizing and Managing Transfer Addictions 22:06 Practical Tools for Overcoming Addictions 26:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts   🎧 Mentioned in this episode: Refresh & Reboot: 30 Day Alcohol Free Challenge - CLICK HERE to start your self guided 30 day alcohol free challenge today. 📚 Resources & Further Reading: Transfer Addictions, Dopamine, and Recovery National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) — Drugs, Brains, and Behavior: The Science of Addiction Volkow, N.D. et al. (2019). The Neuroscience of Drug Reward and Addiction. Annual Review of Psychology, 70, 373–397. Martinez, D. et al. (2005). Dopamine D2 Receptors in Addiction: Imaging Findings. JAMA Neurology, 62(4), 444–452. Koob, G.F. & Volkow, N.D. (2016). Neurobiology of Addiction: A Neurocircuitry Analysis. The Lancet Psychiatry, 3(8), 760–773. National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) — The Brain, Addiction, and Recovery Pettinati, H.M. et al. (2021). A Systematic Review of Addiction Substitution in Recovery: Clinical Lore or Empirically-Based? Harm Reduction Journal (2024). Exploring Cannabis Substitution After Substance Recovery. Robinson, T.E. & Berridge, K.C. (2008). The Incentive Sensitization Theory of Addiction: Some Current Issues. Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B, 363(1507), 3137–3146. Avena, N.M. et al. (2008). Evidence for Sugar Addiction: Behavioral and Neurochemical Effects of Intermittent, Excessive Sugar Intake. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 32(1), 20–39. Blue Cross Blue Shield of Michigan. What Is Transfer Addiction? Psychology Today. From One Addiction to the Next PubMed Central (2018). Structural and Functional Brain Recovery After Abstinence from Substance Use.   🧘‍♀️Books to Read to Further Your Knowledge on this Topic Gabor Maté. In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction. Judson Brewer, MD, PhD. The Craving Mind. 💬 If this episode resonated with you: Leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It's one of the easiest ways to support the show! ******************************************* 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ********************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Sara discusses the mindset shift that helped her quit drinking effortlessly. She shares strategies from her personal journey, including writing daily affirmations, developing an unwavering commitment to sobriety, and adopting new identities.   00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:29 Early Days: Building Momentum 00:54 The Game Changer: 100 to 150 Days 01:09 Mindset Shift: Practical Steps 02:52 The Power of Affirmations 05:18 Deciding to Quit Forever 11:22 Identity and Willpower 12:52 Planning for Success 20:27 Creating a Support System 24:08 Final Thoughts and Encouragement   🎧 Mentioned in this episode: 10 Mantras for the Beginning of Your Alcohol Free Journey - CLICK HERE to download the 10 Mantras that Sara used at the beginning of her alcohol free journey. Refresh & Reboot: 30 Day Alcohol Free Challenge - CLICK HERE to start your self guided 30 day alcohol free challenge today. 🧠 Sources & Further Reading If you want to dig deeper into what’s really happening in your body during a hangover — from dehydration to acetaldehyde toxicity — here are the research-based resources referenced in this episode: Patrick, V. M., & Hagtvedt, H. “I Don’t vs. I Can’t: When Empowered Refusal Motivates Goal-Directed Behavior,” Journal of Consumer Research, 2012. Pignatiello, G. A., et al. “Decision Fatigue: A Conceptual Analysis,” Nursing Outlook, 2018. Evans, D. R., et al. “The nature of self-regulatory fatigue and ‘ego depletion’,” Personality and Social Psychology Review, 2016. Cooke, R., et al. “The effect of forming implementation intentions on alcohol consumption,” Health Psychology Review, 2022; see also 2023 update. Malaguti, A., et al. “Effectiveness of implementation intentions on substance use,” 2020 review. Milyavskaya, M., et al. “Saying No to Temptation: Want-to Motivation Improves Self-Regulation,” Journal of Personality, 2015. Larimer, M. E., & Marlatt, G. A. “Relapse Prevention and the Abstinence Violation Effect,” overview. 💬 If this episode resonated with you: Leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It's one of the easiest ways to support the show! ************************************************ 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Sara dives into one of the most unforgettable parts of drinking → hangovers. From her worst-ever hangover in Punta Cana to the subtle shame-filled Sundays that followed too many nights out, Sara breaks down how hangovers evolved throughout her drinking years and how they became one of the biggest motivators for her sobriety. She doesn’t stop at personal stories. Sara also explores the science of hangovers: what’s actually happening inside your body and brain when you’re feeling miserable the next day. You’ll learn why alcohol leads to dehydration, inflammation, anxiety, and that 3 a.m. wake-up, plus why “hair of the dog” only keeps the cycle going. If you’ve ever wondered why hangovers hit so hard or need a vivid reminder of what you’re leaving behind, this episode is your reality check and your motivation to keep choosing a hangover-free life. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Today's Topic 02:28 The Worst Hangover Experience 09:00 Evolution of Hangovers Over the Years 15:34 The Science Behind Hangovers 25:06 Conclusion 💡 What You’ll Learn Sara’s most vivid hangover story and why it keeps her sober today How her hangovers evolved from college through adulthood The emotional side of hangovers → anxiety, shame, and isolation The six science-backed reasons we experience hangovers Dehydration and electrolyte loss Acetaldehyde toxicity Inflammation and immune response Blood sugar drops Disrupted sleep and neurotransmitter imbalance The emotional fallout (“hangxiety”) Why hangovers are a warning sign, not the price of fun 🎧 Mentioned in this episode: Path to Power Quiz - CLICK HERE to take the Path to Power Quiz and get your personalized podcast playlist today. Refresh & Reboot: 30 Day Alcohol Free Challenge - CLICK HERE to start your self guided 30 day alcohol free challenge today. 🧠 Sources & Further Reading If you want to dig deeper into what’s really happening in your body during a hangover — from dehydration to acetaldehyde toxicity — here are the research-based resources referenced in this episode: Mayo Clinic: Hangovers: Symptoms and Causes Explains how dehydration, electrolyte imbalance, and poor sleep contribute to hangover symptoms. National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA): Hangovers Fact Sheet Overview of the biochemical and neurological effects of alcohol withdrawal and hangovers. Harvard Health Publishing (2022): Why hangovers hurt and how to help Discusses blood sugar drops, dehydration, and sleep disruption caused by alcohol. Wiese, J.G., Shlipak, M.G., & Browner, W.S. (2000): The Alcohol Hangover. Annals of Internal Medicine Foundational research describing the physiological mechanisms behind hangover symptoms. Penning, R., McKinney, A., & Verster, J.C. (2010): The Pathophysiology of Alcohol Hangover. Current Drug Abuse Reviews Details inflammatory and immune system responses linked to acetaldehyde toxicity. Stephens, R., Grange, J.A., Jones, K., & Heffernan, T.M. (2014): A Review of the Cognitive and Neurobiological Effects of Alcohol Hangover. Addiction Explores how alcohol affects neurotransmitters, sleep quality, and cognitive performance. Quertemont, E. (2004): Acetaldehyde: A Biochemical Marker for Alcohol Addiction? Addiction Biology Examines how acetaldehyde interacts with dopamine and reward pathways in the brain. International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) (1999): Re-evaluation of Some Organic Chemicals. IARC Monographs, Vol. 71 Classifies acetaldehyde as a Group 1 carcinogen. The same category as tobacco and asbestos. NIAAA: Alcohol Metabolism: An Update Explains how ethanol is converted into acetaldehyde and then into acetate in the liver. 💬 If this episode resonated with you: Leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It's one of the easiest ways to support the show! ************************************************ 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Sara is taking you behind the scenes of her brother-in-law’s wedding, and sharing the real, sometimes awkward, sometimes empowering moments that come with showing up alcohol-free at big social events. From facing the “no mocktail” disappointment at the bar to stepping onto the dance floor without liquid courage (and realizing nobody’s actually watching you), Sara unpacks three personal stories that each reveal a powerful strategy for navigating social gatherings with confidence and joy. You’ll also hear how observing drunk guests held up a mirror to her old self, and why that reflection left her feeling nothing but gratitude. If weddings, parties, or social events still make you nervous on your alcohol-free journey, this episode will leave you feeling grounded, prepared, and totally capable. ✨ You’ll learn: How to handle limited drink options (and why it’s worth bringing your own NA stash). What to do when the dance floor feels intimidating. How visualization can make socializing sober feel easier. The mindset shift that turns “missing out” into deep appreciation. Four big-picture strategies for every event: Have a plan for how you’ll respond when offered a drink. Stay connected with a sober buddy or accountability partner. Set time boundaries — you don’t need to stay till 2 a.m. Plan next-day self-care to reinforce your alcohol-free win. 💡 Whether you’re attending a wedding, a work party, or a weekend dinner with friends, Sara’s insights will help you walk in with confidence — and wake up the next morning proud, clear, and hangover-free. 🎧 Mentioned in this episode: Free Alcohol-Free Checklist - CLICK HERE to download your guide to the essential tools and strategies that make alcohol-free living easier. 💬 If this episode resonated with you: Leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It's one of the easiest ways to support the show! ************************************************ 🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

👉 Join the 30 Day Hype Human Reset Challenge (starting October 1st!) and get coaching, accountability, and community support. CLICK HERE to learn more and sign up. In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Bethany Judy, certified health coach, activist, and founder of The Hype Human. Bethany has been alcohol-free for over 7 years, and today she opens up about her sobriety story, the realities of quitting drinking, and how our relationship with food, body image, and self-worth can shift along the way. We dive into: Bethany’s journey to sobriety and the turning point that changed everything Why quitting alcohol doesn’t always equal weight loss (and what to focus on instead) The role of mindset, self-compassion, and community in building lasting change How to move past “the f-it’s” and reset when you fall off track The difference between health at every size vs. toxic diet culture — and how to find your personal definition of health Bethany also shares details about her upcoming program, the 30 Day Hype Human Reset Challenge, which is designed to help you set realistic goals, build habits that stick, and find a supportive community while doing it. 👉 Join the 30 Day Hype Human Reset Challenge (starting October 1st!) and get coaching, accountability, and community support. CLICK HERE to learn more and sign up. And be sure to follow Bethany on IG: @bethanyvibes_af and @thehypehuman If you’ve ever wondered what comes after quitting drinking, how to truly care for your body and mind without restriction or shame then  this episode will give you hope, tools, and inspiration.   ************************************************   🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

This week, I’m opening up about something I’ve kept close to the chest: my journey to becoming one year weed-free. 🍃🚫 For years, I celebrated living alcohol-free while still using weed as a way to “take the edge off.” At first, it felt like harm reduction. A softer landing after quitting drinking. But over time, I realized it was keeping me stuck, sneaking around, and not fully free. In this episode, I share: Why I decided “Cali sober” didn’t feel aligned for me. The messy truth of quitting weed (and how it was harder than quitting alcohol). The failed attempts, restarts, and what finally made it stick. How community, affirmations, and mindset shifts helped me reach one year. The identity shift that came with saying, “I’m sober! Alcohol and THC free.” The real benefits I’ve noticed, even when it didn’t feel easy. This is a vulnerable episode, but I know I’m not alone. Many people in alcohol-free spaces also wrestle with weed, and I hope my story gives you encouragement, clarity, and permission to keep going even if it takes multiple tries. ✨ Free Resource: Grab my 10 Mantras to Stay Alcohol-Free (they work for THC too!) → https://nomorewasteddays.co/10-mantras/ If you’ve been curious about what life looks like without THC, or you’re somewhere in the messy middle, I hope this episode meets you exactly where you are.   ************************************************   🌟 Want deeper support on your alcohol-free journey? Come join us inside the Day Makers Community — my private coaching space where you’ll find weekly group calls, book clubs, reflection prompts, and real connection with people who get it. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your sobriety, this is where you’ll find the tools, strategies, and support to keep moving forward. 👉 Learn more and join us here: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

This week’s episode is bittersweet. After two years of laughter, learning, and countless “aha” moments, Heather is saying goodbye as co-host of the No More Wasted Days podcast. In this heartfelt conversation, Heather opens up about: Why listening to your intuition becomes so much clearer when you’re alcohol-free The difference between intuition and anxiety—and how to know which voice you’re hearing What “the work” really looks like in sobriety (spoiler: it’s not a rigid manual, it’s simple next-right-thing choices) Her own journey through stress, burnout, and learning to simplify life without alcohol Memorable moments from past episodes—everything from deep values work to cracking up over “almond brothers” and making your bed You’ll also hear Sara and Heather reflect on their favorite podcast memories, what they’ve learned from each other, and why laughter has been such an important part of tackling tough topics together. Although Heather is stepping away as co-host, she’s still active in the Day Makers community, leading coaching calls and supporting people on their alcohol-free journeys. You’ll likely hear her voice again as a guest on future episodes, and she’s also working on an exciting new memoir project. 👉 If Heather has impacted you on this podcast, let her know! Follow her on social media (links below) and come connect with her inside the Day Makers. This isn’t goodbye. It’s just “see you later.” Resources Mentioned: * Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. CLICK HERE to learn more here. * Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life. CLICK HERE to learn more.     ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

✨ Enrollment for PUSH to 100 closes tonight at midnight! If you’ve been waiting, this is your moment. Join me and an incredible community for 100 days alcohol-free. The challenge starts tomorrow, September 12th, and enrollment closes tonight (9/11) at midnight. Don’t do this alone. Join the PUSH to 100 here → https://nomorewasteddays.co/push-to-100/ What really happens when you go 100 days without alcohol? In today’s shorty episode, I’m walking you through the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual changes that unfold during the first 100 days of alcohol-free living. This is more than just white-knuckling it through a few weeks. It’s about experiencing a full transformation in body, mind, and spirit. We’ll break it down in clear timelines: Days 1–10 → The shock and shift. Withdrawal, sleep disruption, cravings, and the importance of tools and mindset right from the start. Days 11–30 → New patterns emerge. Energy begins to stabilize, mood regulation improves, and skin clarity starts to show. Days 31–60 → Identity begins to shift. Confidence grows, relationships change, and new habits take root. Days 61–90 → True rewiring. Dopamine recalibrates, triggers become easier to manage, and emotional resilience builds. Days 91–100 → Transformation takes root. Sobriety feels natural, self-trust deepens, and life begins to expand in exciting new directions. 100 days is a milestone that changes everything. It’s not the finish line. It’s the launchpad for a whole new way of living. Resources & Links 👉 Enrollment for PUSH to 100 closes tonight, September 11th at midnight. Join here: [https://nomorewasteddays.co/push-to-100/] Listen to Episode 128 for more on what happens in the first 10 days.   ************************************************   Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community.  CLICK HERE for all the details    Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey?  Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach.  CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today. ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

💥 Enrollment for the PUSH to 100 closes Thursday, September 11th at midnight! If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it. Join me for 100 days alcohol free with coaching, community, and a clear plan so you can roll into the holidays feeling strong, steady, and proud of yourself. Doors close at midnight on Sept. 11th. Don’t miss it! Tap here to join now. Losing a beloved pet can feel like the ground has been pulled out from beneath you. Pets aren’t “just animals”, they are companions, anchors, and members of the family who walk with us through our best and worst moments. And when they’re gone, the silence is deafening. In this heartfelt episode, Sara and Heather open up about their own experiences with pet loss on the alcohol-free path. Together, they explore: 🐾 Why pet grief can feel so heavy, especially when you’re not numbing with alcohol. 🌙 The routines and memories that make loss so jarring—and why it always feels like a shock. 💔 How grief tests your sobriety tools and what helps (and doesn’t). ✨ The concept of somatic grief—how our bodies physically hold onto loss. 🎶 Creative and holistic ways to process emotions (sound baths, movement, writing). 🐶 Welcoming new pets without “replacing” the ones we’ve lost, and how animals can ground us in our sober routines. This is a soft, compassionate space for anyone who has lost a pet, whether recently or years ago, and is navigating that grief in sobriety. Healing isn’t about forgetting, it’s about remembering with love and continuing forward, even through the cracks. 🔗 Resources & Links Join the PUSH to 100 (enrollment closes Sept. 11 at midnight!) → CLICK HERE If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who might need this reminder: you are not alone in your grief, and you don’t have to numb the pain to move through it.   ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

✨ Enrollment for PUSH to 100 is officially open! This is my signature 100-day alcohol-free challenge designed to give you daily support, live coaching, and community so you never have to walk this path alone. Enrollment closes September 11th and space is limited so grab your spot today! www.nomorewasteddays.co/push-to-100/   In this shorty episode, I’m taking you all the way back to my very first day alcohol-free: May 13, 2019. I’ll share what life looked like the week before, how my husband and I went from heavy drinking to considering a break, and the exact details of how I got through Day 1. From writing “I do not drink” in my journal, to listening to This Naked Mind on my commute, to sipping LaCroix and kombucha at home. This was the day that quietly but powerfully changed everything. You’ll hear: The lead-up to my Day 1, including a cruise, milestone birthdays, and that inner knowing that I needed change. How I set myself up for success with gratitude journaling, affirmations, quit lit, and non-alcoholic drinks. The importance of having an after-work plan and identifying my “witching hour.” The one piece I wish I had embraced sooner: community. Whether you’re just thinking about quitting, preparing for your own Day 1, or already a few days in, my story will give you inspiration, practical tools, and the reassurance that you don’t have to figure it out alone. 👉 Ready to create your own Day 1? Apply now for PUSH to 100 and let’s do it together. If you enjoyed this episode, please take a minute to rate and review the podcast — it helps more people find encouragement for their alcohol-free journey.   Resources Mentioned: * Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. CLICK HERE to learn more here. * Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life. CLICK HERE to learn more.   ************************************************   Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community.  CLICK HERE for all the details    Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey?  Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach.  CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today. ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

Enrollment for PUSH to 100 is officially open! 🎉 If you’re ready to break out of the numbing cycle and discover what life feels like 100 days alcohol-free, this is your chance. Spots are limited to just 30 members, and once they’re gone, doors close. The challenge begins September 12th. Apply now at nomorewastedays.co/push-to-100. September is often a season of fresh starts—kids head back to school, routines shift, and life gets busy. But whether you’re a parent or not, this is the perfect time to take a look at your alcohol-free routines and set yourself up for success. In this episode, Sara and Heather share how routines reduce decision fatigue and make it easier to stay alcohol-free—even during the busiest seasons of life. From peaceful morning rituals to craving-time strategies, they’ll walk you through practical ways to create consistency without overwhelm. What you’ll hear in this episode: Why routines make your alcohol-free commitment easier to keep The power of morning routines to reduce stress and decision fatigue Midday “pick-me-ups” to keep cravings from sneaking in Evening rituals that comfort you without reaching for a drink The 3 Ds Method for cravings: Delay, Distract, Decide Why it’s okay when certain routines don’t work—and how to find what does By the end of this conversation, you’ll feel inspired to create simple, sustainable routines that make your alcohol-free journey lighter and easier. ✨ Reflection Prompt: What’s one small alcohol-free routine you want to start this week?   Resources Mentioned: * Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. CLICK HERE to learn more here. * Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life. CLICK HERE to learn more.   ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

✨ Before we dive in—don’t waste another weekend. Join me for No More Wasted Weekends, a free alcohol-free challenge happening August 29–September 1. For four days, you’ll get live coaching, practical tools, and the community support you need to see what’s possible when you don’t lose your weekends to hangovers or regret. Imagine waking up Monday proud, energized, and clearheaded. Sign up now at nomorewasteddays.co/weekend. Episode Overview Divorce is more than the end of a marriage. It’s the unraveling of routines, identities, and visions of the future. In this episode, Heather opens up about navigating divorce while staying sober, and what it means to rebuild self-trust when the ground feels shaky. Sobriety brings clarity, but that clarity can be overwhelming when you’re used to numbing or deferring decisions to others. Heather shares her raw experience of facing big life choices without alcohol, learning to sit in discomfort, and discovering strength in her own intuition. Sara and Heather also highlight the importance of community support, the challenge of breaking old relationship patterns, and the quiet resilience that comes from keeping promises to yourself—even in the smallest ways. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How sobriety changes the way you navigate major life transitions like divorce Why alcohol acts like a false compass, and what happens when you take it away The role of self-trust and intuition in making hard decisions without numbing How community support can provide a “soft place to land” during painful seasons Why resilience isn’t built in the absence of hardship, but through it   Resources Mentioned: * Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. CLICK HERE to learn more here. * Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life. CLICK HERE to learn more.   ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media: IG: @withheatherp TikTok: @withheatherp

Enrollment for PUSH to 100 is officially open for waiting list members! 🎉 This is your chance to be one of just 30 people walking through 100 days alcohol-free together. Get on the waiting list now at nomorewasteddays.co/100waitinglist to claim early access before spots fill up.   Today’s episode is extra special because I’m joined live and in-person by Laura Van Antwerp, also known as Your Sober Pal. Laura is the founder of YSP Adventures, where she leads sober women on life-changing retreats like Backpacking 101, whitewater rafting, and Tahoe adventure weekends. In this conversation, we dive into the importance of community in sobriety — how connection helps you go from just “not drinking” to actually thriving alcohol-free. You’ll hear two perspectives (Laura’s as an extrovert, mine as an introvert) on what it takes to find your people and why community is the missing piece for so many of us on this journey. 💡 What you’ll learn in this episode: 🌱 Why community is a key ingredient in long-term sobriety (and why going it alone is so tough). 🏔 How adventure, retreats, and shared experiences create accountability and excitement in sobriety. 💬 The healing power of shared stories from “me too” moments to celebrating sober wins together. 🤝 Practical tips for finding (or even creating) your own sober community, online and in real life. Laura and I also share our own journeys - from online groups and AA meetings to retreats and the Day Makers community,  and how each stage of connection shaped our growth. If you’ve been hesitant to step into community or you’ve been feeling stagnant in your sobriety, this conversation will remind you why connection changes everything. 👉 Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode: Join the PUSH to 100 waiting list: nomorewasteddays.co/100waitinglist Follow Laura on Instagram: @yoursoberpal + @ysp_adventures Explore Laura’s retreats: https://www.yoursoberpal.com/pages/ysp_adventures Learn more about the Day Makers community: https://nomorewasteddays.co/day-makers-community/ ✨ If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to hit subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who’s building their alcohol-free life! Resources Mentioned: * Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. CLICK HERE to learn more here. * Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life. CLICK HERE to learn more.   ************************************************   Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community.  CLICK HERE for all the details    Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey?  Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach.  CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today. ************************************************   Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media: IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Laura on Social Media: IG: @yoursoberpal TikTok: @yoursoberpal