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Communication Queen | entrepreneurship, marketing, storytelling, public speaking, and podcasting
Author: Kimberly Spencer | Master NLP Performance Coach for Entrepreneurs, CEO of Communication Queens, TEDx Speaker, Author, and Entrepreneur for 17+ years
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Welcome to Communication Queens, the podcast for service-based entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, and consultants who want to hone their storytelling craft and oratory skillset and leverage podcasting as a form of lead generation.
Our mission is to help you get booked on podcast interviews as a guest, share your story in a way that connects, serves, and sells, and ultimately grow your business through the power of podcasting.
Each episode, your host Kimberly Spencer, and her guests will share actionable tips and strategies for optimizing your communication skills, crafting compelling stories, and networking with podcast hosts to secure high-value interview opportunities.
From live coaching to eliminate any subconscious blocks to your voice or just create more cohesiveness and impact with your story, to interviews with Global Top 100 Podcasters, and 7-figure CEOs, we bring on expert guests from a variety of industries to share their insights and experiences, and to inspire you to take your podcasting game to the next level.
Whether you're a seasoned podcast guest or just getting started, Communication Queens is the go-to resource for mastering the art of communication and leveraging podcasting as a lead generation tool. Join us each week as we share our knowledge, expertise, and passion for helping service-based entrepreneurs succeed in the world of podcasting. Subscribe now and let's dive in!
Follow us on Youtube @communicationqueens and on Instagram at @communicationqueensagency
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What if joy wasn’t the reward—but the strategy?
In this powerful episode, Kimberly Spencer and Jan Hoath break down how to build your business, visibility, and marketing from alignment instead of pressure. From writing a book in 100 days to redefining marketing as connection, this conversation will shift how you show up, sell, and succeed—without sacrificing yourself.
📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur
😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts
Jan Hoath—The JOY Alchemist—is a speaker, author, and leadership coach helping women leaders stop postponing their joy and start living, leading, and succeeding from it.
Through her signature framework, The JOY Prism™, Jan guides spiritually awake women who are done with pressure, performance, and self-abandonment—supporting them to reconnect to their truth, align with what matters most, and create a life and leadership that actually feels fulfilling.
Blending leadership coaching, mindfulness, and embodied transformation, Jan brings a grounded yet powerful approach shaped by nearly two decades of experience—as well as her personal journey through adversity, resilience, and growth.
Her core message is simple yet transformative:
Success without joy isn’t true success.
From stages and retreats to her coaching containers, Jan’s work invites women to release outdated definitions of success and step into a way of living and leading that is rooted in presence, authenticity, and JOY—anyway.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
Why joy isn’t the reward of success—but the strategy that creates it (and how to start leading from it now)
How to break free from pressure-driven visibility and marketing that feels forced, fake, or exhausting
The real reason you feel resistance to showing up—and how to shift from performance to authentic expression
How Jan Hoath used the Joy Anyway Strategy to write and publish her book in just 100 days—without burnout
Simple, powerful practices (movement, play, mindfulness) to unlock creativity, flow, and consistency
How to reframe marketing as connection and relationship-building, not manipulation or perfection
Why presence—not performance—is what builds trust, magnetism, and impact
How to trust your intuition in content creation while still honoring structure and strategy
The mindset shift that allows you to stop waiting for “one day” and start living and leading fully now
What it really means to “Just Own You”—and how that becomes your most powerful visibility strategy
Quotes:
“When you feel stuck or stagnant, that’s your cue to step back and go get into your joy.” ~ Jan Hoath
“You may work hard—but when you’re in joy, it feels like you’re hardly working.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Joy is an acronym: Just Own You.” ~ Jan Hoath
Links & Additional Resources:
Connect with Jan Hoath.
Website: https://www.janjoymentor.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janhoath
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janhoath/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janhoath/
Moments of Note:
00:00 – What If Joy Is the Strategy for Success? (Mindset Shift for Entrepreneurs)
00:29 – Meet Jan Hoath & the Joy Anyway Movement (Spiritual Leadership + Business Growth)
01:40 – Writing a Book in 100 Days: Strategy, Structure & Creative Flow
03:21 – How to Turn Your Program or Offer into a Book (Content Strategy for Entrepreneurs)
04:51 – Building a Book That Supports Your Business & Brand
06:00 – Overcoming Writer’s Block: How to Stay Creative & Consistent
07:00 – Daily Joy Habits That Unlock Creativity & Productivity
08:11 – Mindset vs Mind Flow: Why Entrepreneurs Stay Stuck
09:12 – The Creative Process: Falling in Love with Your Work
11:11 – Why Joy Creates Magnetic Energy in Business & Marketing
11:53 – Feeling Stuck? How to Shift Your Energy & Get Back into Flow
12:24 – Simple Joy Practices to Boost Creativity (Movement, Play, Nature)
14:20 – Why Play Is a Powerful Strategy for Business Growth
15:21 – How to Fall in Love with Marketing (Even If You Hate It)
16:38 – Healing Visibility Fear & Showing Up Authentically
18:23 – The Fear of Posting: Why Visibility Feels So Hard
19:36 – Letting Go of Perfectionism in Content & Branding
20:30 – Presence vs Performance in Marketing (Authenticity Wins)
22:00 – You Can Promote Your Book Anytime (Visibility Strategy for Authors)
24:05 – Creating Content That Feels Good AND Converts
26:11 – Intuition vs Strategy in Marketing: Finding the Balance
27:20 – Real-Life Content Creation: How to Share Authentically
28:25 – Why Your Message Matters (And Who Needs to Hear It)
29:46 – Stop Overthinking: Trusting Your Content & Audience
31:00 – Marketing as Relationship Building (Not Manipulation)
32:31 – Where to Get the Book & Join the Joy Anyway Movement
Transcript:
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
Sharables:
For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
💕 Say “hi” on social:
Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens
Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency
Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens
Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/
Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8
What if the reason your visibility isn’t working… isn’t your strategy—but your alignment?
Visibility isn’t about being seen—it’s about being felt. In this episode, Kimberly Spencer and Camille Miller break down why your strategy might not be the problem—your alignment is. Learn how to blend soul + structure, build authentic visibility, and create a business that actually feels good and converts.
📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur
😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts
Camille L. Miller is a globally recognized authority in soul-aligned entrepreneurship, known for helping visionary leaders build scalable, purpose-driven businesses rooted in authenticity. As a transformational leader, speaker, and three-time Amazon bestselling author, she blends strategic business expertise with intuitive insight to redefine success beyond hustle. Camille is the founder of the Soul Professional Movement and Soul Professional Business School, empowering entrepreneurs worldwide to align their soul with structure—and create lasting impact and wealth.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
✨ Why your visibility isn’t landing
(and why it’s not your strategy—it’s your alignment)
✨ The real meaning of authentic visibility
→ How to shift from “being seen” to being felt
✨ How to balance feminine flow with masculine structure
→ So your business feels good and actually makes money
✨ The hidden fears behind visibility
→ Including fear of success, responsibility, and growth
✨ How to grow your business without burnout
→ Using small, intentional steps that compound over time
✨ Why one strategy won’t build your business
→ And how to create an ecosystem that attracts clients naturally
✨ How to use podcasting for relationship-driven visibility
→ Not just exposure—but real connections and opportunities
✨ Why your business must evolve as you grow
→ And how to let go of what no longer aligns
✨ The power of trust, surrender, and divine timing in business
→ So you stop forcing and start allowing aligned success
Quotes:
“Visibility isn’t about being seen. It’s about being felt.” ~ Camille Miller
“Just take a baby step in that direction… the pace doesn’t matter.” ~ Camille Miller
“Revenue doesn’t come from strategies—revenue comes from people.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
Connect with Camille Miller.
Website: https://www.soulprofessional.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/camillelmiller/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@camillelmiller/featured Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenaturallifeorganization
Moments of Note:
00:00 – Why Your Visibility Isn’t Working (It’s Not Your Strategy)
Hook: The real reason your content isn’t landing—and why visibility is about being felt, not just seen.
02:25 – From “I’m Not a Writer” to 3 Books: Camille’s Business Journey
How Camille Miller built authority through books—and why structure (deadlines) matters more than motivation.
04:47 – Feminine Flow vs Masculine Structure in Business
Why “just being in flow” isn’t enough—and how to balance intuition with strategy for sustainable growth.
06:44 – Why Soul-Led Entrepreneurs Get Stuck in Business
The hidden traps of purpose-driven entrepreneurs—and how to actually express your purpose in business.
08:05 – The REAL Reason Visibility Feels So Uncomfortable
Fear of visibility isn’t what you think—it’s deeper (fear of success, money, and responsibility).
10:54 – How to Grow Your Business with Small, Consistent Steps
Why “baby steps” beat burnout—and how 1% growth compounds into massive results.
11:04 – Designing a Business That Aligns With Your Life
The powerful exercise: defining what you want vs. what you don’t want in your business.
13:48 – Why Your Business MUST Evolve as You Grow
Letting go of offers, clients, and models that no longer align—and why that’s a sign of success.
14:40 – Writing a Book While Running a Business (The Reality)
The truth about writing, time, energy, and building a long-term authority asset.
16:31 – Blending Logic + Intuition: The Soul-Aligned Business Model
How to integrate strategy with spirituality to build a business that feels authentic AND works.
21:34 – The Rise of Partnerships: The Future of Business Growth
Why collaboration, ecosystems, and community-based models are the next evolution of business.
23:04 – Podcast Guesting Strategy: How to Build Visibility + Relationships
How Camille leveraged 50+ podcast appearances to grow her brand—and why relationships matter more than reach.
25:23 – How to Use Podcasting to Launch and Scale Your Brand
Stacking visibility strategically before launches, books, and major business moves.
26:10 – Why Selling Isn’t the Goal (And What Actually Works)
The power of authenticity over scripted selling—and how trust drives conversions.
28:23 – Why One Strategy Won’t Build Your Business
“There’s no one thing that will make you rich or famous.” The importance of building a full ecosystem.
31:43 – The Biggest Mistake Entrepreneurs Make in Growth
Focusing on money over relationships—and why people are the real revenue drivers.
33:40 – When Is the Right Time? Trusting Divine Timing in Business
Why your next move (and even your book) will land exactly when it’s meant to.
35:00 – Rapid Fire: Communication Style, Business Lessons & Life Vision
Fun insights into Camille’s personality, communication preferences, and future vision.
36:30 – The Power of Surrender, Wisdom & Long-Term Vision
Leaning into trust, growth, and the next decade of impact.
37:50 – Final Message: Your Story Has the Power to Change Lives
Closing reminder: your voice matters—and your story is meant to be heard.
Transcript:
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here.
Sharables:
For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
💕 Say “hi” on social:
Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens
Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency
Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens
Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/
Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens/podcasts
You’ve got the idea. The story. The mission.
So why haven’t you finished the damn book?
In this episode, publishing strategist Susie Schaefer reveals why so many entrepreneurs stall on writing their book—and how to finally turn your story into a powerful authority asset for your brand, business, and impact.
If a book has been living in your head for years… this might be your sign.
📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur
😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts
Susie Schaefer is the Founder and CEO of Finish the Book Publishing, where she helps entrepreneurs and thought leaders turn powerful ideas into professionally published books. A lifelong lover of storytelling, Susie believes books are more than stories—they’re catalysts for healing, community, and movement. Through her work, she empowers authors to bring their message to life and use their book as a platform for what she calls “Business Ascension.”
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
Why most entrepreneurs never finish their book—and how to finally get it done
Susie’s “Author Trifecta” framework: Story, Brand, and Community
Why marketing your book should start before you even finish writing it
How to turn your book into a powerful authority and business growth tool
The truth about imposter syndrome and the question every author asks: “Who am I to write this?”
How authentic storytelling builds deeper connection than polished “expert” advice
Why AI can help structure your book—but should never replace your voice
The mindset shift that helps authors move past resistance and finish the damn book
Quotes:
“Your book isn’t the finish line — it’s the beginning of the movement.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
“Your book should align three things: your story, your brand, and your community.” ~ Susie Schaefer
“Finishing your book isn’t about selling thousands of copies — it’s about using your message to change someone’s life.” ~ Susie Schaefer
Moments of Note:
00:00 — Why So Many Entrepreneurs Never Finish Their Book
Kimberly Spencer introduces the episode and asks the big question: why do brilliant leaders with powerful stories struggle to finish writing their book?
01:32 — How Susie Schaefer Became the “Book Doula” for Authors
Susie shares her journey from corporate life to helping entrepreneurs and thought leaders publish meaningful nonfiction books.
02:26 — Why Writing a Book Is Like Birthing a Baby
Susie explains the “book doula” metaphor and how guiding authors through the publishing process mirrors the emotional journey of birth.
03:02 — The Biggest Book Marketing Mistake Authors Make
Why most authors wait too long to start marketing their book—and what to do instead.
04:29 — When Should Authors Start Promoting Their Book?
Susie breaks down the ideal timeline for launching a nonfiction book and building anticipation before publication.
05:13 — Why Book Marketing Starts Before Your Book Is Finished
How building engagement and community early helps your book succeed once it launches.
06:08 — How Entrepreneurs Should Use a Book as a Business Asset
Kimberly explains why a book should support your authority, speaking opportunities, and client pipeline.
08:33 — The Author Trifecta: Story, Brand, and Community
Susie introduces her framework for aligning your book with your business mission.
09:52 — Why Selling Books Isn’t the Real ROI for Authors
The surprising truth about book sales and why many authors profit from just a few clients.
11:55 — Why Personal Storytelling Makes Books Powerful
Kimberly shares why vulnerability and storytelling build stronger connections with readers.
13:49 — Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an Author
Susie discusses the common fears that stop entrepreneurs from sharing their stories.
14:58 — Authenticity in the Age of AI Writing
Why authentic human storytelling matters more than ever as AI-generated content grows.
18:49 — How Authors Should (and Shouldn’t) Use AI in Writing
Susie explains where AI can support the writing process—and where it shouldn’t replace human voice.
22:32 — The Emotional Resistance That Stops Authors From Finishing Their Book
Why writing and editing are the hardest stages of the publishing process.
24:00 — The #1 Thing Authors Need to Finish Their Book
Susie shares the powerful truth: most authors simply need permission to finish the damn book.
27:45 — Is Writing a Book an Ego Play or a Mission?
A deeper conversation about purpose, ego, and impact when sharing your story publicly.
29:00 — Writing a Book as Personal Growth and Transformation
Why writing a book is like running a marathon—it changes who you become in the process.
31:15 — Why Authors Often Write Multiple Books
Susie explains why publishing one book often unlocks more stories and ideas.
32:17 — Why Authors Should Invest in a Book Marketing Team
The role of PR, marketing, and support teams in successfully launching a book.
35:33 — Final Advice: How to Finally Finish Your Book
Susie shares her best advice for entrepreneurs who have a book idea but haven’t started yet.
Transcript:
For a full episode transcript,you can find it here
Sharables:
For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
💕 Say “hi” on social:
Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens
Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency
Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens
Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/
Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer
Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself
AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!
🥰 Loved learning about how to improve your communication skills and get booked on podcast interviews? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCE-I1nu3qA&list=PLm4BjuAmP6DvwRPEBpVMJT5UrQoaD_5J8
What if the apology you’re waiting for never comes?
Relationship mentor Stacy Rocklein joins Kimberly Spencer to reveal why forgiveness—especially without closure—may be the most powerful leadership skill you’ll ever develop. From unexpected publishing chaos to redefining emotional intimacy, this episode explores how vulnerability, boundaries, and radical self-honesty create deeper relationships and lasting impact.
📚Grab the “Top Books of 2024 to Change Your Life,” the bestseller, multi-gold-medal award-winner, “Make Every Podcast Want You” by Kimberly Spencer. Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/42kllur
😎Discover how to get booked on the TOP 5% of podcasts to leverage podcast interviews for lead generation for your business owners, founders, podcasters, and authors. Book your $100K Profit from Guest Podcasting Planning Call here: https://www.communicationqueens.com/get-booked-on-the-top-podcasts
Stacy Rocklein is a relationship mentor and author of Forgive Without an Apology: How to Heal, Set Boundaries, and Create Deeper Connections. She has helped hundreds of women heal relationship wounds—many of which develop quietly inside “good enough” marriages that drift into emotional disconnection over time.
Married for nearly 30 years and raising three active boys, Stacy understands firsthand how easy it is for ambition, parenting, and busy seasons of life to push relationships to the back burner. Through her work, she helps women repair emotional distance, rebuild intimacy, and create relationships that are not just stable—but deeply connected, joyful, and fulfilling.
Her mission is simple: to help people transform “good enough” relationships into exceptional ones—so when the busy seasons of life pass, couples find themselves not as strangers, but as partners excited for the adventures still ahead.
Enjoy, sovereigns!
Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your other favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.
What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
How to forgive someone who never apologized—and why waiting for closure can keep you emotionally stuck.
Why high-achieving women often struggle with emotional intimacy, especially during busy seasons of career-building and parenting.
The difference between a “good enough” marriage and an exceptional relationship, and how emotional disconnection can quietly build over time.
How vulnerability strengthens relationships and creates deeper connection, trust, and intimacy.
Why forgiveness often begins with self-forgiveness, and how owning your story can unlock powerful personal growth.
The truth about writing and marketing a book, including the lessons Stacy learned when her book launched unexpectedly.
How authors and entrepreneurs can use storytelling and podcast guesting to grow their audience and impact.
Why building strong relationships—personally and professionally—is the real long-term strategy for success.
Quotes:
“You deserve an apology—hands down. But we can get very stuck waiting for it, and that only harms us.” ~ Stacy Rocklein
“Forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of what hurt you—it’s about repurposing what happened so you can move forward stronger.” ~ Stacy Rocklein
“Your story has the power to save one life. Let your voice be heard.” ~ Kimberly Spencer
Moments of Note:
00:00 — What Would You Do If Your Book Launched Without Your Permission? The shocking story behind Stacy Rocklein’s unexpected book launch and the leadership mindset required to handle chaos.
01:55 — Why Write a Book? Turning Failure Into Purpose Stacy shares how a devastating business failure led to the creation of Forgive Without an Apology.
04:45 — The Hidden Pressure High-Achieving Women Face in Business The toxic cycle of achievement, comparison, and worthiness many entrepreneurs struggle with.
06:18 — Starting a Third Career & Rebuilding Confidence The challenge of launching a business after motherhood and leaving the traditional workforce.
07:47 — Author Expectations vs Reality: What Writing a Book Is Really Like
09:34 — Why Most Authors Don’t Make Money From Their Books How books actually work as authority positioning tools for business growth.
11:03 — Redefining Forgiveness: Healing Without an Apology Stacy explains why forgiveness is about personal freedom, not waiting for closure.
13:12 — How Books Build Communities and Grow Your Business Why authors should focus on building communities around their ideas.
15:18 — The Power of Community Building for Authors and Entrepreneurs
16:54 — The Biggest Marketing Challenge Authors Face
18:36 — Podcast Guesting Strategy to Grow Your Book Audience
20:47 — Why Your Personal Story Is Your Biggest Marketing Advantage
22:07 — The Power of Owning Your Story (Even the Hard Parts) Stacy opens up about writing vulnerable stories—including admitting she was once a “mean girl.”
24:34 — How Radical Ownership Can Change the World
25:01 — Parenting, Self-Forgiveness, and Emotional Growth
26:51 — What Stacy Would Do Differently Marketing Her Next Book
29:56 — Why Relationship Building Is the Real Marketing Strategy
32:22 — The Truth About Marketing a Book
33:49 — Why Writing a Book Changes You Personally
34:48 — What’s Next: Emotional Intimacy & Stacy’s Next Book
35:24 — How Vulnerability Creates Deeper Relationships
36:22 — Your Story Has the Power to Change Lives
Transcript:
For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. [LINK TO BLOG PAGE]
Sharables:
For shareable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.
💕 Say “hi” on social:
Communication Queen Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/communicationqueens
Communication Queen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/communicationqueensagency
Communication QueenTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@communicationqueens
Communication Queen Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/communicationqueens/
Communication Queen Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
🎙Subscribe + Listen to the Communication Queens Podcast here:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling/id1718540459
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ROeliYZG9thhNSMEo8SDx?si=abc7b72eb6274d3b&nd=1&dlsi=fb6df192dfbb4505
Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/8d87938f-bfbc-4dac-a60e-b77b652b344c/communication-queen-entrepreneurship-marketing-storytelling-public-speaking-and-podcasting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@communicationqueens
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer
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What if the reason your book hasn’t been written yet isn’t procrastination—but protection?
That quiet nudge that keeps whispering write the book isn’t random. It’s an initiation.
In this episode of the Communication Queens Podcast, Kimberly Spencer sits down with author, storyteller, and book doula Amy Vogel to explore what really happens when women stop waiting for permission and start telling the truth of their lives.
Amy shares her nonlinear journey—from tech sales to ministry, from certainty to collapse, from faith systems to self-trust—and reveals why writing a book isn’t about having the answers. It’s about being brave enough to live inside the questions.
Together, Kimberly and Amy unpack the duality every woman faces when she dares to be seen: too much vs. not enough, creator vs. critic, artist vs. entrepreneur. They explore why books are both sacred art and business assets, why imposter syndrome simply means you’ve entered a bigger room, and why the feeling you’re chasing matters more than bestseller status.
This is a conversation about sovereignty, pleasure, power, and storytelling as reclamation. About why your story doesn’t need to be perfect—it needs to be alive. And why the act of writing doesn’t just change readers…it changes you.
If you’ve ever felt the pull to write, speak, or share—but hesitated—this episode is your permission slip.
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Amy Vogel is an author, speaker, podcaster, and women’s book coach passionate about helping women reclaim their voices and share their stories with the world.
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Enjoy, sovereigns!
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What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
Why you don’t need clarity or confidence before writing your book—and how the act of writing creates both
How to reframe imposter syndrome as proof that you’re stepping into a bigger room, not a sign you don’t belong
Why women’s stories are inherently powerful and how storytelling becomes an act of sovereignty and leadership
The real reason most women get stuck before publishing (hint: it’s not writer’s block—it’s protection)
How to balance creativity and business so your book can be both sacred art and a strategic asset
Why focusing on how you want to feel matters more than chasing metrics like bestseller status
How pleasure, embodiment, and duality fuel creativity—and why reclaiming them is revolutionary for women
What it actually takes to market a book authentically without selling your soul or shrinking your voice
Why you don’t “have” the story before you start—and how you become the woman who can tell it through the process
This episode isn’t just about writing a book.It’s about becoming the woman who no longer waits for permission to be seen.
Quotes:
“You don’t have enough when you start writing your story. You get the enough as you write it.” - Amy Vogel
“Imposter syndrome just means you’re choosing to play in a bigger room.” - Amy Vogel
“Our stories are what set us free—but we have to know them first.” - Amy Vogel
Moments of Note:
00:00 – Write the Book That’s Been Calling You Why that persistent nudge to write your story won’t go away—and what it’s really asking of you.
02:37 – Meet Amy Vogel: Champion of Women’s Stories Amy’s journey from tech sales to ministry to authorship—and why women’s voices are revolutionary.
05:30 – When Life Implodes and Purpose Emerges How collapse, questioning faith, and losing certainty can become the birthplace of your true work.
07:45 – Living in the Question vs. Chasing the Answer Why clarity doesn’t come first—and how curiosity fuels creative leadership.
09:40 – Why Women Live Many Lives in One Lifetime The feminine cycle of death, rebirth, and reinvention—and how it shapes storytelling.
12:55 – You Don’t Have Enough Yet (And That’s the Point) Why you don’t start writing with confidence—you gain it through the process.
14:20 – Imposter Syndrome Means You’re Playing Bigger Reframing self-doubt as expansion, not inadequacy.
15:45 – The Creative Block That Isn’t Writer’s Block What’s really happening when authors feel “stuck” and how to move through it.
17:30 – The Role of the Guide in Storytelling and Success Why no powerful narrative—or business—happens without support.
19:45 – Books Are Art AND Business The truth about publishing, self-publishing, and why authors must own the business side.
22:10 – Why Sales Numbers Don’t Create Fulfillment Shifting from outcome obsession to impact-driven success.
24:05 – Manifestation, Feeling, and Feminine Metrics Why how you want to feel matters more than bestseller status.
25:55 – Writing One Book a Year: Is It Possible? How diversification, devotion, and process make sustainable publishing achievable.
28:40 – Self-Publishing, Autonomy, and Reclaiming Power Why owning your work is an act of sovereignty.
30:10 – Pleasure as a Creative and Cultural Revolution How enjoyment, desire, and embodiment fuel powerful storytelling.
32:00 – Being Seen Without Shrinking What it really means to let your work—and yourself—be visible.
33:45 – The Book Doula & Birthing Bold Stories Why writing a book is a rite of passage, not a productivity task.
35:20 – Where to Find Amy & Write in Community How to connect with Amy Vogel, her coaching, and the Look for the Yes anthology.
37:15 – Final Reflection: Your Story Saves Lives Why sharing your story creates ripples far beyond you.
Transcript:
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