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I love you, but let's be so forreal. Hosted by yours truly, the one and only India (yes that’s my real name), this is the podcast where pop culture meets the realist, and baddest b*#** you know, unapologetically speaking her mind.
We’re taking the most iconic, and sometimes disturbing, pop culture moments, and using them to ask the real questions: What is actually going on? Why do we even care? And what are we all thinking but not saying? Most importantly, what do these moments tell us about our own toxic habits that we try to deny? Ily, but bffr, xoxo.
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We’re taking the most iconic, and sometimes disturbing, pop culture moments, and using them to ask the real questions: What is actually going on? Why do we even care? And what are we all thinking but not saying? Most importantly, what do these moments tell us about our own toxic habits that we try to deny? Ily, but bffr, xoxo.
IG & Tik Tok: ilybutpodcast
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Nobody is above getting conned by a narcissist, and I had to learn the hard way.In this deeply personal episode, India shares the full story of her engagement, the red flags she explained away, and how love bombing, using therapy to manipulate perception, and quiet control escalated to a boiling point. A raw conversation about discernment, intuition, and leaving before it’s too late.Topics: narcissistic abuse • love bombing • emotional manipulation • engagement red flags • couples therapy abuse • healing after toxic relationshipsFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday
Is J. Cole still eligible for “greatest rapper” status after bowing out of the Kendrick Lamar beef, or does hip hop demand competition?India and LA-born artist Jerrelle unpack why rap was built on confrontation, why women are carrying today’s beef culture, and how streaming, industry plants, and virality changed the rules of success. A real conversation about artistry, ego, power, and what hip hop actually stands for.Topics: hip hop culture • rap beef • J. Cole • Kendrick Lamar • industry plants • streaming era • artists & relationshipsFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday Guest → Jerrelle | @callmejerrelle
Druski’s viral church skit sparked outrage, but not because God was being mocked.Why does satire of megachurch culture feel so threatening, and how does faith earned trust within oppressed communities become weaponized by charismatic leaders? Using psychology, history, and THE BIBLE, India breaks down the difference between mocking God and exposing manipulation.Topics: religious manipulation • megachurch culture • cult psychology • satire & power • faith & discernment • Druski skitFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday
Nobody is retiring off of life insurance, babe. It’s one of the most misunderstood and underexplained financial tools, and we’re here to break it down.India sits down with licensed life insurance broker, Hari, to break down life insurance in plain English. Do kids really need policies? Are the TikTok “cash value hacks” misleading? Is life insurance a scam? Find out here.Topics: life insurance explained • term vs whole life • financial literacy • Black wealth • generational wealth • money mythsFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday Guest → Hari, LACP | Call Her, Beep Her at 708-904-8585
There is no “get fit quick” formula - every generation thinks this diet trend is the one - and every generation pays for it later.India sits down with lifelong registered nurse and plant-based nutrition specialist, Adair, to break down why Ozempic, detox teas, starvation diets, and viral “what I eat in a day” content are not healthy. From GLP-1 drugs and rapid weight loss to emotional eating, burnout, and nutrient deprivation, we breakdown the real cost (both mental and physical) of chasing trendy bodies instead of sustainable health.Topics: diet culture • Ozempic & GLP-1 drugs • wellness misinformation • nutrition & mental health • ultra-processed foods • sustainable healthFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday Guest → Adair The Nurse, RN | Adair Health and Wellness PLLC Website
Jackie Suzanne stayed sober through addiction, a near-death fire, and the murder of her son, and then rebuilt her life from rock bottom. In this episode, Jackie shares what it took to survive alcoholism (and other addictions), maintain sobriety through grief, and find meaning after loss.We talk about addiction recovery, losing a child, near-death experiences, spiritual healing, and what it really means to reinvent yourself when life beats, drags, and breaks you.Topics: addiction recovery • grief & loss • staying sober • near-death experiences • spirituality after trauma • reinventionFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday Guest → Jackie Suzanne Resources | Order Her Book Here
Kim Kardashian is the queen of reinvention.. and whether you love her or hate her, you’ve watched her become a new woman every decade. In this episode, India breaks down the five eras of Kim’s evolution, from the Paris Hilton It-Girl days to today’s ultra-skinny high-fashion shift.This episode explores how Kim uses aesthetic discipline, narrative control, and strategic partnerships to position herself, and what her reinvention teaches the rest of us about identity and growth.Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday
If you keep choosing the same partner in a different body… your childhood attachment wounds are still dictating your love life.In this episode, India and relationship educator Bryan break down why we repeat painful relationship patterns, how childhood wounds shape our love lives, and what it actually takes to create a secure, healthy partnership.From emotional unavailability and abandonment trauma to reconciliation after his own breakup and restraining order, they leave no stone unturned. Let’s break generational patterns bb!Topics: Attachment Styles • Healing • Breakups • Emotional Patterns • Relationship ToolsFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday Guest → Bryan Power @myrelationshipfail | Book a Free Consultation Here
You’re not as far from a cult as you think.. and this season proved it. From purity culture to YouTube pastors, Straitway Truth Ministries to autism-mom support groups, I’m breaking down the who, what, when, where, why, and how behind cult-like communities. A quick chat on vulnerability, intuition, financial control, and how everyday people get pulled into high-control systems.Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for moreWatch on YouTube every Thursday!
Can you be Jewish and anti-Zionist at the same time? India and Jewish activist Annie Kaufman unpack what it means to be anti-Zionist, faithful, and still love your community. A raw take on identity, guilt, and the courage to question power.Topics: Jewish community • anti-Zionism • Zionism debate • Jewish activism • social justice podcastFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more.
So many moms of neurodivergent and/or disabled kids are told “community will save you”... but what if the same spaces meant to help actually hurt?India sits down with Milan Myers, behavioral analyst-in-training, to talk about how ABA therapy, mom support groups, and “healing” spaces can become breeding grounds for manipulation. Caregivers’ exhaustion, faith, and desperation can make them even more vulnerable to exploitation. Topics: Cults and Community • Special Needs Parenting • Behavioral Therapy • Neurodivergent Families💋Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more
Why do so many “healing spaces” feel more like cults? We love a good guru, a fearless leader, a savior… until you forget how to make your own decisions. In this episode, movement therapist Cathy (author of Body Wisdom) gets real about why so many of us outsource our intuition and how it can make us vulnerable to manipulation, toxic “healers,” and cult-like communities. Topics: Soft girl life, ego-driven spirituality, women’s rights, manipulation, the patriarchy.Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more.Guest → Cathy Williams www.intuitiveself.com.au
Preacher's kid turned sexually liberated yoga founder, Sarah Ford, opens up about growing up as an evangelist preacher’s child in Alabama, purity culture, navigating shame, and redefining faith after religious trauma. Topics: purity culture • cult survival • faith deconstruction • ADHD in women • healing through yogaFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more | Follow Sarah @theSarahFord_
India sits down with cult survivor turned life coach, AngieBe, to unpack what it’s really like to escape a high-control religion. From believing God caused 9/11 as a punishment to rebuilding intuition and community, this episode explores how faith can be turned to fear and control. Topics: Religious trauma • Control vs Community • Reconnecting with intuitionSeason 2 theme: Cults & CommunityFollow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more.
In today’s episode, podcast hosts India and Gwen explore how being objectively pretty can change the entire trajectory of your life. The girls discuss how attractiveness impacts everything from your social life to your career, and debate on if not using it is a waste of God given favoritism.
Whether it's Fox Sports Analyst Joy Taylor allegedly using her looks to become a prominent sports commentator, or WNBA star Liz Cambage making more on OnlyFans in one week than she did during her ENTIRE six years playing professional basketball, being a pretty woman clearly counts for a lot. *Plus five* if your pretty privilege intersects with other forms of privilege. But like all things in life, using it doesn’t come without a cost. Tune in to find out how.
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New year, new body? Don’t worry, you can skip the gym and get a BBL on credit! On today’s episode, India and Gwen talk about layaway BBLs, celebrity plastic surgeries, and what drives lower income folk to put it all on the line for a new body.
As the controversial queen Nicki Minaj once said, “Can’t wait to see your new body / let the lord of love be your new body / you've been born again in your new body“. But can you really go from working in fast food to a luxurious life with this new body? Is this really the path to happiness, or were we deceived to believe in the promise of a better life by the people who really profit from the ever-changing beauty standards? Tune in to decide for yourself, babe.
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India finally did it, she left her corporate job in 2024. In this episode, India and Gwen are joined by fellow job-quitter Tiffany who identifies as forever “spiritually unemployed”. Together, the girls reminisce on how they knew it was time to let it go, preparing (or not) for the finale, and what their final tipping point was.
Have you been thinking about quitting your job? Are you, too, just a girl? Tune in to find out if the unconventional lifestyle is for you.
*Disclaimer* Do not use this episode to defend your questionable life choices and/or financial irresponsibility. You’ve been warned, babe.
Reality TV Star Donald Trump is going to be our next president (again) but what does that have to do with Project 2025, and what even is it in the first place? If you have better things to do than read a 900-page conservative manifesto, don’t you worry your pretty little head, we’ve done it for you. While we think that we know everything, we will ultimately let you decide if we should actually care or go on about our lives. Bonus - hear the latest updates on UHC CEO Killer Luigi Mangione. Is he a hero for the people or just a good looking 26 year-old who had to pay his own insurance for the first time? Find out on this episode of Another Girls Podcast, baby!
Putting the fact that he’s a killer aside, were we the only ones who thought the UHC CEO assassin was kinda cute? All jokes aside, on today’s episode, India and Gwen give you the facts as we know them on the CEO shooting, explore India’s conspiracy theories that nobody asked for but she’s giving anyway, and get into the now sold-out book Deny, Delay, Defend book on insurance scams. Are CEO shootings what’s hot with the people these days? Are we entering a dystopian “eat the rich” era, or is the assassin no more than a puppet, part of a bigger scheme to keep the money of the billionaires in their pockets? Find out here, baby!
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Like millions of Americans, we too, were engrossed in the Mike Tyson fight. But what about a 58 year-old, retired fighter up against a YouTuber half his age had the country in such a chokehold? It may have been the fact that it was a live entertainment version of a Trump rally, salt to the wound for Americans healing, and fuel to the fire of those still reeling with excitement from Trump’s win.
Tune in to hear our take on the Trump rally, if India would do the “monkey dance” as she calls it for $20M, and most importantly, what we learned from going to the Jeremy Allen White look-alike contest in Chicago. We love you, the most babes xoxo
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