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Raising Godly Girls
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For nearly 30 years, American Heritage Girls® has come alongside families and youth ministry leaders in offering Christ-centered, girl-focused character development. Through the Raising Godly Girls® Podcast, presented by American Heritage Girls, listeners get to tap into the advice that seasoned AHG leaders have gleaned over three decades of ministering to girls. Plus, hear from industry experts with solutions to a broad range of issues impacting today's girls. Get Biblically-sound and actionable tips from fellow parents, volunteers, and thought leaders on how to raise up a girl after God's own heart.
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It's Thanksgiving Day—and between the turkey, the pie, and the endless sink of dishes, it's easy for even the most grateful heart to slip into grumbling. But what if this Thanksgiving, instead of focusing on what's missing, we helped our daughters rediscover the beauty of selflessness? In this warm and faith-filled Thanksgiving episode, Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, and Melissa Bearden unpack how gratitude can transform a selfish heart into a selfless one. Drawing on Proverbs 11:25, they remind us that "whoever refreshes others will be refreshed," and that true thankfulness doesn't stop at words—it's lived out in acts of generosity, humility, and service. You'll also hear from Patti Garibay, AHG Founder and Executive Director Emeritus, in a Raising Godly Girls Minute. This powerful one-minute serves as a reminder that selflessness isn't just good manners—it's a mark of spiritual maturity. Through practical ideas like encouraging your daughter to serve someone quietly or offering gratitude to others at the Thanksgiving table, Rachael and Melissa show how even small acts of service can cultivate joy and reshape a heart toward Christlike giving. As moms, it's tempting to chase perfection during the holidays—but this episode will remind you that the most meaningful memories are made when we slow down, serve, and model the selfless love of Jesus. Whether you're tuning in from the kitchen or the car ride to Grandma's, this Thanksgiving conversation will help you center your heart (and your daughter's!) on what really matters: a spirit of gratitude that overflows into generous love. Three Things to Remember: Selflessness is the antidote to selfishness. A life focused on others brings the refreshment God promises in Proverbs 11:25. Gratitude grows through service. Serving shifts our daughters' eyes from what they lack to how much they have to give. Thanksgiving is more than a holiday. Daily selflessness and intentional gratitude build a rhythm of generosity that honors God year-round. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: Proverbs 11:25 – "A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed." Philippians 2:3–4 – "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves." John 13:14–15 – Jesus' example of humble service in washing His disciples' feet. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – "Give thanks in all circumstances." Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools. Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.
The turkey might still be thawing, the pies may or may not be homemade, and your kids might not be feeling especially thankful—but this Thanksgiving, the Raising Godly Girls Podcast invites you to look beyond the checklist and rediscover the heart of gratitude. Join Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, and Melissa Bearden for a thoughtful and faith-filled conversation about what it means to raise daughters who choose gratitude even when it doesn't come naturally. With honest reflections, Biblical insight, and a few laughs along the way, Rachael and Melissa unpack how gratitude is not just a seasonal feeling—it's a spiritual discipline rooted in nearness to God. Drawing from James 4:8 and Luke 14, they remind moms that gratitude grows when we draw near to the Lord and accept His invitation to the table of thanksgiving. From small car-ride conversations to setting the Thanksgiving table together, you'll learn simple, tangible ways to help your daughter practice gratitude that lasts longer than the leftovers. Plus, hear from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a special Raising Godly Girls Minute—a timely reminder to turn expectations into invitations, and holiday stress into holy celebration. Whether you're hosting family or sneaking an extra slice of pie in peace, this episode will encourage you to keep "the first things first" and model what it means to live thankful, even when you don't feel like it. Three Things to Remember: Gratitude is a choice, not a feeling. Choosing thankfulness (even in difficult seasons!) draws your heart closer to God. Extend intentional invitations. Invite your daughter into moments of gratitude through small acts of connection and love. Model resilient thanksgiving. Let your own steady gratitude remind her that joy isn't dependent on circumstances, but on Christ's unchanging goodness. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: James 4:8 – "Come near to God and He will come near to you." Luke 14:15–24 – The Parable of the Great Banquet: God's open invitation to come and celebrate at His table. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – "Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." Psalm 100:4 – "Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise." Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
In a culture that often questions Biblical truth, diminishes family values, and redefines freedom, parents face a critical calling—to raise daughters who love God wholeheartedly, cherish their families, and honor the freedoms that flow from faith. How do we help our girls hold fast to timeless truth when the world is constantly shifting? In this inspiring episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, sits down with Debbie Kraulidis, Vice President of Moms for America and host of the Moms for America Podcast. Together, they explore how faith, family, and freedom work hand in hand to shape girls who live with conviction and courage. Debbie shares how her work empowers mothers across the nation to raise daughters with strong moral compasses—girls who are grounded in Scripture, devoted to their families, and confident in their role as Christ-centered leaders in their homes, communities, and country. Rachael and Debbie discuss the vital role moms play in cultivating resilience, discernment, and love of liberty in their daughters, helping them navigate cultural pressures with grace and truth. This conversation will remind you that freedom isn't merely an American understanding of a political concept—it's a spiritual one. As 2 Corinthians 3:17 declares, "Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." Our daughters can walk boldly in that truth, reflecting Christ's light in a world that desperately needs it. Learn more about Debbie Kraulidis and Moms for America at momsforamerica.us. Explore more faith-based parenting tools at raisinggodlygirls.com Discover how to find or start an AHG Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.
Military life isn't just about the soldier who serves—it's about the family who serves alongside them. From surprise deployments to frequent moves and long separations, military families carry unique burdens that most civilians may never fully understand. In this week's heartfelt episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Melissa Bearden and Natalie Ambrose invite listeners to pause and consider what it really means to live out the Gospel by serving the "homefront heroes" in our communities. With Veterans Day fresh in our hearts, Melissa and Natalie open an honest conversation about how to support military families in both spiritual and practical ways. Drawing from John 15:13, they explore how Christ modeled the greatest act of love—laying down His life for His friends—and how believers can reflect that same sacrificial love toward those who sacrifice for our nation's freedom every day. You'll hear personal reflections, stories from AHG Members connected to the military, and wisdom from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay's Raising Godly Girls Minute. Together, these voices remind us that supporting military families isn't just patriotic—it's profoundly Biblical. Whether through prayer, friendship, or hands-on service, this episode will inspire you and your daughter to become the hands and feet of Jesus to families who serve and sacrifice. Three Things to Remember This Week Extend Gospel compassion: Look for ways to connect with and encourage military families in your church or community—especially during seasons of deployment or transition. Serve practically and prayerfully: Simple acts like helping with a household repair or offering childcare can lighten heavy burdens and reflect Christ's love in action. Teach your daughter to honor sacrifice: Help her understand that service and freedom are gifts—reminding her that true freedom is found in Christ alone. Scripture References in This Episode John 15:13 – "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." Galatians 6:10 – "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers." Romans 12:10 – "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." Philippians 2:4 – "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Learn more about how American Heritage Girls honors our nation's heroes through programs like the U.S. Military Heroes Badge at americanheritagegirls.org. Explore more Gospel-centered parenting resources at raisinggodlygirls.com.
Freedom is one of the most beautiful blessings we enjoy—but it's also one of the most misunderstood. In this Raising Godly Girls Podcast episode, hosts Melissa Bearden and Natalie Ambrose unpack the true meaning of freedom from a Biblical Worldview perspective and explore how to help your daughter see both the cost and the calling behind it. As our nation pauses to honor Veterans Day, Melissa and Natalie remind listeners that freedom is not just a national treasure—it's a Gospel truth. Drawing from Galatians 5:1 and John 15:13, they invite parents to teach their daughters that the liberty we celebrate as Americans mirrors an even greater liberty purchased for us in Christ. Through faith-filled storytelling, discussion about military chaplains, and reflection on American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay's Raising Godly Girls Minute, this episode points families toward gratitude, humility, and spiritual clarity in an age of confusion about what "freedom" truly means. From honoring veterans in your community to helping your daughter understand the weight of sacrifice and the joy of service, this episode equips parents to cultivate both patriotism and discipleship—reminding us that true freedom is found not in doing what we want, but in living for the One who set us free. Three Things to Remember This Week Freedom isn't free. Use everyday moments—like Veterans Day ceremonies—to remind your girl of the sacrifices made for her freedom, both earthly and eternal. Anchor her view of liberty in Scripture. Teach her that freedom without Christ leads to confusion, but freedom in Christ leads to love and service. Model a heart of gratitude and honor. Let your family's actions toward veterans, leaders, and neighbors reflect a deep respect for God's gift of freedom. Scripture References in This Episode Galatians 5:1 – "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free." Galatians 5:13 – "Do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love." John 15:13 – "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." Philippians 2:3–4 – "In humility value others above yourselves… look to the interests of others." Exodus 32:32 – Moses' intercession as a model of sacrificial leadership. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
In a world overflowing with headlines, hashtags, and hot takes, truth can be hard to find. Every day, parents face the challenge of sorting through conflicting narratives while helping their daughters make sense of it all. When everyone claims to have "the facts," how do we stay grounded in what's actually true—and teach our girls to do the same? In this insightful episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, sits down with veteran broadcaster, ordained minister, and My Family Talk co-host Roger Marsh for a candid conversation about raising discerning daughters in a media-saturated world. Drawing from decades of experience in Christian broadcasting, Roger introduces his "ABC's of Media Engagement"—Analysis, Balance, and Clarity—a practical framework that helps families filter information through a Biblical lens. Together, Rachael and Roger unpack how to help girls develop a critical eye toward what they see and hear, how to spot deception in the digital age, and how to rely on God's Word as the ultimate standard for truth. They remind parents that discernment isn't just about identifying what's false—it's about cultivating a heart that seeks wisdom, integrity, and the mind of Christ. Whether your daughter is scrolling social media, researching for school, or just trying to understand the world around her, this episode will equip you to guide her toward the kind of truth that never changes—God's truth. Learn more about Roger Marsh and My Family Talk Radio at familytalk.org. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
Ep. 291 — Holding Fast to Biblical Truth in an Age of Relativism When your girl starts asking hard questions—about right and wrong, fairness, love, or truth—how do you help her find her footing in a world that says truth is whatever she wants it to be? In this powerful episode, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dig deep into the cultural currents shaping our daughters' minds today. Together, they unpack what moral relativism looks like in everyday life and explore how parents can anchor their girls in the absolute truth of God's Word. From understanding the roots of modern relativism to recognizing how it creeps into conversations about identity, justice, and love, this episode offers practical, biblical strategies to help families stand firm in faith. You'll also hear from Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, in a Raising Godly Girls Minute. Patti sheds light on how this subtle cultural force erodes Biblical conviction—and how Scripture gives parents and girls the solid ground they need to live out God's truth with confidence and grace. Rachael and Natalie remind us that God's character is not shifting sand; it's the foundation of all truth. Through His Word, He reveals what is right, just, and good—and invites us to reflect that truth in our daily lives, even when it costs us comfort or popularity. For every mom raising girls in this post-truth age, this episode will renew your confidence that God's truth still stands—and so can your family. Three Things to Remember Absolute truth exists—and its Author is God. The Ten Commandments still stand as a foundational guide for morality and right living. Knowing God's character clarifies truth. Understanding His justice, love, and holiness keeps us grounded when culture distorts what's right. Build courage in your girl. Teach her that following Jesus may not always be popular—but it will always be worth it. Scripture References in This Episode Exodus 20:1–17 – The Ten Commandments, God's moral law for His people. John 16:33 – "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." Philippians 4:8 – "Whatever is true, whatever is noble…think about such things." Romans 12:2 – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." Psalm 119:160 – "The sum of your word is truth, and every one of your righteous rules endures forever." John 14:6 – Jesus said, "I am the way and the truth and the life." Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
In a world that tells our girls to "trust their feelings" above all else, how can we teach them to discern truth from deception? Join hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose for a rich, Spirit-led conversation on growing discernment—the ability to recognize God's truth, resist deception, and make wise decisions rooted in faith. Rachael and Natalie explore the difference between simply following our instincts and tuning our hearts to the voice of the Holy Spirit. Drawing from both Scripture and real-life parenting moments, they unpack how discernment is more than a gut feeling—it's a trained skill that develops over time through prayer, Scripture study, and a deep relationship with Christ. You'll also hear from Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, as she shares a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute, reminding parents to equip their daughters to spot Satan's subtle lies before they strike. Together, the hosts offer practical tools to help parents nurture girls who are both aware and anchored—unafraid of the world's deception because they are grounded in the Word. By the end of this episode, you'll be encouraged to create intentional rhythms of prayer and conversation at home that help your daughter discern what's true, what's eternal, and what's simply noise. When she learns to slow down, listen, and seek God's wisdom first, she'll become a young woman confident in her calling and courageous in her convictions. Three Key Points to Remember Identity forms discernment. A girl who knows who and Whose she is becomes less vulnerable to the world's deception. Discernment takes practice. Like a muscle, it grows stronger through consistency, clarity, and Scripture-guided reflection. Prayer anchors discernment. Prayer is not passive—it's a weapon. Teach your girl to pray for wisdom and spiritual alertness daily. Scripture References in This Episode 1 Corinthians 16:13 – "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong." Philippians 1:9–11 – "That your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment…" Ephesians 6:10–18 – The armor of God and the call to pray in the Spirit at all times. Psalm 119:66 – "Teach me good judgment and knowledge, for I believe in your commandments." 2 Corinthians 11:14 – "Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light." Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – Parents are called to teach God's commands diligently to their children. For more from Natalie Ambrose, visit natalieatwell.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
What does it look like to raise girls who see marriage and family not as cultural constructs—but as part of God's unchanging design? In this powerful conversation, host and American Heritage Girls Executive Director Rachael Culpepper welcomes Katy Faust, Founder and President of Them Before Us, a global movement advocating for children's rights to be raised by both their mother and father. Together, they explore why a Biblical understanding of family is not only foundational for our daughters' emotional and spiritual growth but essential for preserving truth in a world that's constantly rewriting the rules. Katy's passion for God's design is contagious. With wisdom, courage, and years of advocacy experience, she unpacks how cultural trends have shifted family decisions away from the wellbeing of children—and how Christian parents can help restore that focus. Through Scripture and real-world insight, this episode encourages moms and dads to lead with conviction and grace, modeling for their girls what it means to live according to the Creator's beautiful blueprint for family. Listeners will be challenged to see marriage and family not as outdated ideals, but as divine gifts designed to reflect the heart of God—where love, sacrifice, and identity all find their source. Whether your daughter is growing up in a culture of confusion or curiosity, this episode will help you equip her to discern truth, celebrate God's design, and walk confidently in faith. Scripture References in This Episode: Genesis 1:27–28 – God created man and woman in His image and blessed them to be fruitful and multiply. Genesis 2:18–24 – The divine creation of marriage as a union between man and woman. Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – Parents are called to teach God's commands diligently to their children. Psalm 127:3–5 – "Children are a heritage from the Lord." Ephesians 5:21–33 – God's design for marriage as a reflection of Christ's relationship with the Church. Malachi 2:15 – God desires godly offspring through faithfulness in marriage. For more from Katy Faust, visit thembeforeus.com. Explore resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. And to find or start an AHG Troop in your community, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
What does it really mean to engage in legislative advocacy as a Christian family—and why should it matter to you as a parent? In this thought-provoking episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack the often-intimidating topic of civic engagement through a Biblical lens. Rather than approaching government with fear or frustration, this conversation invites Christian parents to view advocacy as an act of stewardship—one more way to faithfully shepherd the children God has entrusted to our care. Drawing from the Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, Rachael and Natalie discuss how moms and dads can prayerfully participate in shaping laws and policies that align with God's design for family, freedom, and responsibility. Whether you're already active in your local government or just learning how to get started, you'll find practical encouragement to stand firm in faith, filter your convictions through a Biblical Worldview, and remember that your influence as a "parent citizen" carries Kingdom significance. Through relatable stories and Scriptural grounding, this episode reminds listeners that while the political sphere can often feel divisive or daunting, God calls His people to bring light wherever decisions are made. From city council meetings to state legislation, Christian parents have the opportunity to model integrity, humility, and courage—not only for the sake of their children, but for the generations to come. Scripture References in This Episode: Deuteronomy 6:4–9 – "Love the Lord your God with all your heart… impress these commands on your children." Matthew 22:37–39 – Jesus reaffirms the call to love God wholly and love others as ourselves. Micah 6:8 – "What does the Lord require of you? To act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with your God." Romans 13:1–2 – "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established." Ephesians 6:10–13 – "Be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power… put on the full armor of God." Discover more resources to raise confident girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. Find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.
Who really has the final say in raising your kids—parents, the government, or the culture around us? In this week's episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the vital topic of parental rights—not just as a political issue, but as a spiritual calling. God has entrusted each parent with the divine responsibility of raising their children in the "training and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). But in a world where systems often blur the lines of authority and redefine what's best for children, it's easy to feel confused or powerless. Rachael and Natalie remind us that stewardship of our families begins with understanding that our children are not society's project—they are God's gift. Drawing from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay's Raising Godly Girls Minute, this episode contrasts the Biblical Worldview of parenthood with the secular narrative that views children as communal assets. Listeners will gain practical ways to reclaim confidence in their God-given role—learning to stand firm in truth while engaging the culture with wisdom and grace. Through Scripture, encouragement, and relatable conversation, Rachael and Natalie unpack how Christian parents can faithfully lead their homes, advocate effectively, and model Gospel-shaped leadership in a world that often pushes against Biblical authority. Whether you're wrestling with school choices, navigating tough cultural conversations, or simply wondering how to stand firm as a parent today, this episode offers both conviction and calm for your soul. Scripture References in This Episode: Ephesians 6:4 – "Bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 4:1 – "Live a life worthy of the calling you have received." James 1:27 – "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress…" Colossians 4:5–6 – "Walk in wisdom toward outsiders… let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt." Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
As Halloween approaches, culture puts darkness on display in costumes, decorations, and entertainment. But the truth is, not all darkness wears a costume. Beneath the surface of our daughters' social media feeds, school hallways, and friend groups, there are subtle yet powerful influences shaping their view of truth, beauty, and even God Himself. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Natalie Atwell—a licensed clinical mental health counselor, professor, and creator of the Mental Warrior course—for an eye-opening conversation about what's really messing with our girls' minds. With over 20 years of experience in mental health and ministry, Dr. Atwell helps us untangle the "weird influences" girls are facing today, from spiritual confusion online to the glamorization of occult practices in mainstream culture. Together, Patti and Dr. Atwell explore the reality of spiritual warfare, the importance of recognizing when struggles are more than "just mental," and how Christian moms can discern the unseen battle for their daughters' hearts and minds. They discuss the power of identity in Christ, the Armor of God, and practical steps moms can take this very weekend to reclaim spiritual ground in their homes. Whether your daughter is scrolling TikTok, questioning spiritual practices, or simply navigating life in a confusing world, this conversation will help you see the hidden battle—and equip you to guide her into the lasting peace of God's truth. Scripture References in this Episode: Ephesians 6:10–18 – The Armor of God John 8:32 – "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." 1 Peter 5:8 – "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." Learn more about Dr. Natalie Atwell's work at mentalwarriorconsulting.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
Every day, our daughters are surrounded by cultural messages that claim to be empowering, positive, or even "spiritual." From TikTok reels to Pinterest mantras to influencer hashtags, the slogans sound harmless—"Good vibes only," "She believed she could, so she did," "Trust the universe." But as Christian parents, we have to ask: what's really behind those words? Are they pointing our girls toward God's truth—or leading them into deception? In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden expose the subtle lies hidden in today's social media trends. With insight from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, they discuss how the enemy uses the same old playbook he's used since the Garden of Eden—just packaged now in hashtags, aesthetics, and trending content. From horoscopes and crystals to "manifesting" dreams, what looks trendy and harmless can actually distort a girl's view of God when left unchecked. Rather than responding with fear or panic, Rachael and Melissa share practical ways moms can disciple their daughters through these cultural messages. You'll hear tools to help your girl ask the right questions, test cultural claims against Scripture, and gain confidence in her identity as a child of God. The goal isn't to raise daughters who hide from culture—but to raise daughters so rooted in truth that they can spot the counterfeit before it takes root. Scripture References: 1 John 4:1 — "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God." 2 Corinthians 10:5 — "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." Ephesians 6:11 — "Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes." John 8:32 — "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." 3 Key Truths to Remember: Trendy ≠ Truth — Just because a message is popular online doesn't mean it aligns with God's Word. Spot the Counterfeit — Teach your daughter to ask: "Where's the lie? How does this oppose God's design?" Truth Sets Her Free — When she anchors in Scripture, she can confidently declare: "I am a child of God; the enemy has no power over me." At American Heritage Girls, programs like the Faith Awards and Troop life give girls exactly this kind of grounding. Whether through structured studies, Godly mentorship, or simply time spent unplugged and away from cultural noise, American Heritage Girls equips girls to recognize lies and replace them with the light of Christ. Moms, this episode will help you step into those daily discipleship conversations with confidence. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
As Halloween approaches, culture bombards our daughters with images of fear, darkness, and death—often disguised as harmless fun. But behind the costumes, creepy décor, and "fear-as-fun" mentality lies a much deeper reality: the unseen spiritual battle for our girls' hearts and minds. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden unpack what it looks like to discern the subtle and not-so-subtle spiritual influences shaping our daughters. Drawing from Scripture—including Ephesians 6:12, which reminds us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood—they help moms recognize that insecurity, rebellion, and even negative self-talk can often be rooted in spiritual lies rather than just "phases." You'll hear a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, reflections on why truth—not fear—anchors our daughters, and personal stories that highlight how easily the enemy twists what looks innocent into something deceptive. Most importantly, Rachael and Melissa offer practical tools for parents: spotting patterns of repeated lies, equipping girls with Scripture, and covering them in prayer with confidence, not anxiety. At American Heritage Girls, we believe light always defeats darkness. That's why AHG's Identity and Daughter of the King badges, alongside Troop life, give girls the space to declare who they are in Christ—compassionate, perseverant, pure—and to stand firm when the enemy tries to distort their identity. Scripture References: Ephesians 6:12 — "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against… the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." 2 Corinthians 10:5 — "We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." 2 Timothy 1:7 — "For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control." 1 Thessalonians 5:5 — "You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness." 3 Key Truths to Remember: The Battle Is Real — Your daughter's struggles may be spiritual as well as emotional or behavioral. Stay prayerful and discerning. Light Defeats Darkness — Equip your girl with Scripture and confidence in Christ. Fear cannot stand against His truth. Model Spiritual Strength — Your calm trust in God shows your daughter how to stand firm in faith without anxiety. This episode will encourage you to pause, pray, and have intentional conversations with your daughter about the lies she faces and the truth God has spoken over her life. Moms, you are not alone in this battle. With faith, Scripture, and the support of Christ-centered community, your daughter can shine His light even in the darkest cultural moments. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
Courage is not the absence of fear—it's choosing faith in the midst of fear. In this week's episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Executive Director and host Rachael Culpepper sits down with award-winning children's author and content creator Kirthana Fanning to talk about raising daughters who have the courage to overcome life's obstacles. Kirthana brings years of experience as a writer, producer, and the creator of Read Believe Grow TV, a YouTube channel dedicated to helping children encounter God's truth in engaging ways. In this conversation, she shares her passion for crafting faith-filled stories that equip the next generation with courage and resilience—qualities that girls desperately need in a culture that often tells them to shrink back or compromise their faith. Through her beloved children's book The Girl and Her Noble Steed, Kirthana paints a picture of bravery rooted in God's promises. She and Rachael explore why courage must be understood through a Biblical lens, the unique challenges girls face today in standing boldly for their faith, and how parents can guide their daughters toward resilience by leaning on the truth of Scripture rather than cultural trends. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: Joshua 1:9 — "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Isaiah 41:10 — God strengthens and upholds His people. 2 Timothy 1:7 — "For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control." Esther 4:14 — Courage to stand boldly "for such a time as this." Psalm 27:1 — "The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?" This episode will encourage you, as a mom, to see the everyday moments of parenting as opportunities to nurture bravery in your daughter's heart. You'll walk away inspired to help her embrace a faith that stands firm in the face of fear—trusting that with God's help, she can overcome every obstacle in her path. To learn more about Kirthana Fanning and her books, visit kirthanajfanning.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
What makes an everyday hero? It's not fame, recognition, or a grand stage—it's a willingness to step into hard moments with faith and courage, even when fear is present. This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into what it looks like for Christian families to raise daughters who are ready and willing to answer God's call in both ordinary and extraordinary circumstances. Drawing inspiration from the life of missionary Elisabeth Elliot, they unpack her powerful reminder: "The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances." Through this lens, Rachael and Natalie explore how courage is cultivated bit by bit in everyday life—whether that's a girl finding the bravery to stand up for a classmate, conquer stage fright, or speak out in the face of injustice. You'll also hear the Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder Patti Garibay, reminding parents that courage is internal and often unseen until a moment of decision comes. The hosts then reflect on real-life examples, including the inspiring story of an AHG Girl Member who risked her own safety to rescue sailors in danger—earning the prestigious AHG Lifesaving Award. These stories illustrate how small steps of obedience and trust in God prepare girls for moments when extraordinary courage is required. Rachael and Natalie offer three practical ways to equip your daughter for courageous living: letting courage build through small challenges, doing a post-game recap exercise to reinforce victories over fear, and modeling humble prayers that show reliance on God's strength. Together, these practices shape a girl's heart and prepare her to become one of the everyday heroes God is raising up for His Kingdom. As you listen, you'll be encouraged to see courage not as a rare trait, but as a spiritual discipline—something that grows in your family's life as you lean on God's power, trust His timing, and walk in faith. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: 1 Samuel 17 Judges 6–7 Exodus Esther 1–4 (esp. Esther 4:14) Acts 18 John 16:33 1 Samuel 17:45–50 This Week's Reminders: Courage builds bit by bit—every small victory matters. A "post-game recap" helps your daughter recognize God's faithfulness in action. Humble, open-handed prayers prepare her to trust God with the unknown. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
Every girl will face fear—whether it's speaking up in class, standing up to a bully, trying something new, or stepping into leadership. But the true measure of courage isn't the absence of fear—it's learning how to move forward with fear, leaning on God's strength instead of shrinking back in doubt. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose tackle the topic of courage head-on, exploring how parents can help their daughters face giants with faith. Drawing from Scripture, personal stories, and AHG's own legacy of raising strong, Godly women, they remind us that God doesn't call our girls to avoid fear—He calls them to trust Him in the midst of it. Rachael and Natalie reflect on what cowardice looks like in today's culture, how trauma requires a gentle approach, and why resilience is best cultivated at home before our daughters step into the wider world. You'll also hear how the AHG Program develops courage in girls through meaningful service, leadership, and discipleship opportunities—including the Stars & Stripes Award and sharing insight on the For Girls Like You program alliance. Whether your daughter's giant is stage fright, peer pressure, or self-doubt, this conversation will equip you to inspire her toward bravery, remind her that God has called her to hard and holy things, and show her that real courage means stepping forward—even when fear tags along. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: Deuteronomy 1:19–33 James 1:2–4 This Week's Reminders: Fear will always be present—but it doesn't have to be in charge. Resilience in your daughter grows when you model courage in your own life. God equips girls not to avoid fear, but to lean into His strength when it comes. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
Shame is one of the enemy's most powerful tools—it twists mistakes into identity, leaving our daughters believing lies like "I'm not enough, I'll never measure up, I'll always be a failure." Left unaddressed, those inner whispers can grow into heavy chains that shape how a girl views herself, others, and even God. In this powerful conversation, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director and podcast host Patti Garibay is joined by Brittany Sawrey-Coulson, Licensed Professional Counselor and Director of Content at Trueface. With wisdom and compassion, Brittany unpacks the difference between guilt and shame, why negative self-talk begins earlier than we think, and how moms can model grace-filled authenticity that frees their daughters from shame's grip. Together, Patti and Brittany discuss practical ways parents can help girls replace lies with God's truth, cultivate safe spaces for honest conversation, and anchor their worth in Christ—not in performance, appearance, or comparison. And if you're a mom who wrestles with shame yourself, this episode offers hope for your own healing as well as guidance for breaking the generational cycle. Shame doesn't get the last word—Jesus does. Tune in and discover how to lead your daughter toward freedom, confidence, and a lasting identity rooted in Him. Referenced Scriptures in this episode: Romans 12:2 Proverbs 18:21 John 8:36 Learn more about Brittany and the ministry of Trueface at trueface.org. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
We've all heard it—those quiet but crushing words our daughters whisper to themselves: "I'm not good enough." "I always mess up." "I'll never get this right." This negative self-talk may sound small, but it carries weight, planting seeds of shame, doubt, and insecurity that can shape how a girl sees herself, her choices, and even her faith. The enemy uses these whispers to keep our girls bound in fear—but God has already spoken a louder, truer word over them. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden dive deep into the power of self-talk and how parents can help their daughters combat lies with the truth of Scripture. With honesty and humor, Melissa shares how her own inner critic can sometimes feel like it has a megaphone, while Rachael unpacks how shame twists identity and why parents must first model speaking life over themselves if they want to teach their daughters to do the same. Together, they explore how negative self-talk isn't just about careless words—it's about the heart. Drawing from Proverbs and Romans, they remind us that the tongue has the power of life and death, even when it's turned inward. And they offer practical, grace-filled ways to help your daughter silence her inner critic, from role-playing the lies as silly "characters" to journaling God's truth, leaving hidden Scripture notes, and creating "Faith Snapshot" albums that capture moments of God's goodness in everyday life. This Week's Reminders: Catch the Lies Early: Teach your daughter to notice when her inner critic speaks and name the lies for what they are. Replace Criticism with God's Word: Equip her with truth-filled tools like Scripture, playlists, and affirmations that reflect her identity in Christ. Empower Independent Truth-Telling: Encourage her to practice speaking God's truth over herself, even when you're not there. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: James 1:19 Proverbs 15:4 Proverbs 18:21 Romans 12:2 This episode will encourage you to see negative self-talk not as an impossible battle, but as an opportunity to guide your girl toward resilience and confidence rooted in Christ. By catching lies early, replacing them with God's Word, and empowering her to practice truth-telling on her own, you can help her build a faith that isn't shaken by whispers of doubt. Discover more resources to raise confident girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. Find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.
Shame has a way of whispering lies that drown out truth. For today's girls, those lies are amplified by comparison, perfectionism, and a culture that magnifies flaws instead of celebrating God's design. Left unchecked, shame doesn't just shape how our daughters see themselves—it can entangle whole families in cycles of silence, generational sin, and negative self-talk. But as followers of Christ, we know shame doesn't get the last word. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden step into one of the hardest yet most necessary conversations for parents: how to help our daughters battle shame with grace and truth. With vulnerability, Melissa shares how childhood trauma left her searching for comfort in all the wrong places—and how God's faithful love brought freedom where shame once ruled. Rachael opens up about the weight of generational patterns and the importance of showing our girls that Christ's redemption runs deeper than family history. Together, they explore why negative self-talk is so powerful, how inherited shame can quietly shape a girl's identity, and what it means for parents to model speaking God's truth over their own lives. This episode also offers practical tools—from "lie detector" check-ins to truth journals and worship playlists—that help girls replace the "not enough" lies with the promises of Scripture. And woven throughout is the unshakable hope that God rebuilds what shame has broken, turning burdens into blessings for generations to come. This Week's Reminders: Truth is the Antidote to Shame — Help your daughter identify lies and replace them with God's Word. You're Her Coach, Not Her Constant Companion — Equip her with tools, but let her practice walking in truth on her own. God Redeems Family Stories — Generational shame doesn't define her future—Christ does. Scripture Referenced in This Episode: 2 Timothy 1:7 Daniel 3 Romans 8:1 Isaiah 61:3 (beauty for ashes) Ecclesiastes 1:9 ("nothing new under the sun") Moms, you'll walk away from this episode encouraged not to fear these conversations, but to step into them with honesty, authenticity, and faith. Because when we teach our daughters to name shame and answer it with truth, we give them the confidence to live free in Christ. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
























please give examples! of testing and "poking"