Got It Podcast

We believe the hard truth, when it’s said with honesty and care, is what actually helps people grow. Not the sugar-coated version. Not the highlight reel. The real stuff.On this podcast, we talk about life, business, mental health, relationships, and the moments that test you because pretending everything’s fine doesn’t move anyone forward. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is say what needs to be said. If you’re looking for real talk, accountability, and conversations that actually mean something, you’re in the right place. You’ve got it.

In this episode of the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat sit down to unpack a topic that hits harder than most: abuse in relationships. We talk about the warning signs people miss, the patterns that slowly take over, and the emotional and physical toll it leaves behind.This isn’t a lecture it’s a real conversation about control, fear, manipulation, and the ways people lose themselves trying to hold a relationship together that’s breaking them down. We also dive into why it’s so hard to walk away, how childhood experiences play into adult relationships, and what healing actually looks like once you decide enough is enough.Episode 7 is about clarity, courage, and reclaiming yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or unseen in a relationship, this one’s going to hit home and hopefully remind you that you’re not alone, and you’re stronger than you think.

This Week on the Got It Podcast: Mario and Pat tackle the wild adventure of being in a relationship with someone like Mario who has ADHD also known as “loving a person who can lose their phone, their keys, and their train of thought… all before breakfast.”They break down the chaos, the comedy, the misunderstandings, and the moments where you wonder if you’re dating a partner or a tornado with a heartbeat. From emotional whiplash to hyperfocus superpowers, they unpack what really goes on behind the scenes and why it’s still worth every bit of the madness.If you’ve ever loved someone with ADHD (Mario), this episode will make you laugh, nod your head, and maybe rethink the hiding places for your car keys.

This week on the Got It Podcast, we’re talking Thanksgiving the food, the family chaos, the gratitude, and everything in between. Mario and Pat dive into what the holiday really means, the parts we love, the parts we tolerate, and the moments that actually stick with us. From chaotic kitchens to quiet reflections, we unpack the mix of humor, honesty, and heart that comes with this time of year. It’s Thanksgiving, Got It style: real conversations, real life, and a reminder to appreciate the people and the moments that matter most.

This week on the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat dive into the disaster that is the modern dating scene. From ghosting to swipe fatigue, nothing’s off-limits. Mario’s mind gets blown (and slightly broken) as he discovers how online dating apps actually work in 2025 algorithms, filters, and all the chaotic nonsense that passes for “connection.” Expect laughs, disbelief, and a few uncomfortable truths about love in the digital age.

In Part 2 of Never Had, the story takes a raw and emotional turn. Pat opens up like never before revealing how his heart was torn apart, the trust that was shattered, and the painful process of trying to piece himself back together again. What started as a conversation about love becomes something much deeper: a story about loss, resilience, and rediscovering self-worth after everything falls apart. Mario stands by his side through it all, helping unpack the heavy moments that most people never talk about out loud. Together, they dive into the stages of heartbreak the shock, the silence, the rebuilding and how those moments can either destroy you or force you to grow. Pat’s honesty is raw. His pain is real. And for anyone who’s ever had their heart broken, this one will hit home. It’s not just about what happened to Pat it’s about what happens after. The healing, the anger, the acceptance, and the moment you realize you’re still standing. This episode is a reminder that sometimes the hardest stories to tell are the ones that free you the most

Season 3 starting off!! This week gets real. Pat shares the story he’s kept close to the chest the relationship that shattered him more than any other. For the first time, he walks us through the heartbreak, the lessons, and the moment everything fell apart.Mario was there through it all, helping pick up the pieces one tough conversation at a time. Together, they unpack what happens when love breaks you, how to rebuild when you feel like there’s nothing left, and why having someone in your corner can change everything.If you’ve ever loved hard, lost deeply, or needed a friend to pull you through the darkest moment… this episode is going to hit home.

It’s spooky season at BossMan Studios, and Mario and Pat are diving deep into the haunted side of love. 🎃👻This Halloween special is all about “tricks or treats” in relationships the red flags, the sweet surprises, and everything in between. But as usual, Mario’s ADHD can’t handle the eerie decorations and jump scares around the studio, making it hard for him to stay focused on the show. From creepy confessions to relationship horror stories, the guys keep it raw, real, and hilarious.Expect laughter, chaos, and a few ghostly moments as the Got It Podcast wraps up the season with a bang (and maybe a few screams).

This week, Mario and Pat dive deep into one of life’s toughest calls timing. Whether it’s ending a relationship, having that big, uncomfortable talk, or taking a leap that could change everything, how do you know when it’s the right time?They explore the signs we ignore, the gut feelings we second-guess, and the moments that force us to move before we’re “ready.” Expect raw honesty, a few laughs, and plenty of real-world reflection on what it means to trust yourself when the clock feels louder than ever.

Haha, oh man this week’s Got It Podcast episode, “The Flex of Vulnerability,” might be one of the funniest and most unexpectedly deep ones yet.Pat came in ready to dig into the real stuff emotional transparency, letting your guard down, and how men especially struggle with showing softness without feeling weak. But Mario? He was gone. Every time Pat tried to make a serious point, Mario lost it laughing so hard he could barely breathe. The man was on another level of joy Turns out, before the recording, Mario apparently with a side of espresso (never a good combo before deep talk ). Between the caffeine and the heat, his energy was bouncing off the studio walls and the more serious Pat got, the funnier it all became.Still, through the laughter, they hit something real: vulnerability doesn’t have to be heavy or somber. Sometimes the bravest thing is to laugh when life tries to make you clench up.

On today’s episode, Mario and Pat tackle one of the most painful and complicated topics in relationships: cheating. We break down why people cheat, how betrayal impacts trust and self-worth, and what recovery looks like on both sides.We talk honestly about the emotions anger, guilt, shame, heartbreak and dig into whether forgiveness is possible, what closure looks like, and how to move forward when your relationship has been shaken at its core.This is a raw conversation about loyalty, temptation, healing, and ultimately, what it means to rebuild or to walk away.

This week, Mario and Pat dive into one of the hardest but most necessary parts of life closure. Whether it’s the end of a relationship, a friendship, or a chapter of life that once defined you, closure can feel messy, confusing, and sometimes impossible to find.We unpack what closure actually looks like, why we chase it, and how to move forward when answers aren’t clear or apologies never come. From breakups to broken friendships, we talk about the lessons hidden in endings, how to release what no longer serves you, and how to step into the next phase of life with clarity and self-respect.If you’ve ever struggled to let go or wondered how to close a door without leaving it cracked open this episode is for you.

Mario and Pat are getting raw and unfiltered in this one. We’re diving into the world of sex and intimacy breaking down what men really think about, what women actually want and need, and where those two collide (or totally miss each other). Expect laughs, awkward truths, and some down-and-dirty honesty about connection, desire, and the messy, real side of relationships that no one else wants to say out loud.If you’ve ever wondered why men and women can feel like they’re speaking different languages in the bedroom, this episode is your backstage pass to the conversation most people avoid but everyone’s having in their heads.

On today’s show, we dive into one of the toughest challenges couples face: being in a relationship where the family just doesn’t approve of you. Mario and Pat discuss what it feels like to be caught in the middle of love and family tension, the pressure it creates on both partners, and how to navigate the balance between loyalty to your significant other and keeping peace with their family.This episode is about those moments when acceptance isn’t guaranteed when one person is embraced while the other feels like an outsider. We’ll break down the emotional toll, strategies for coping, and ways couples can stay strong even when family dynamics get messy.

Welcome back to the Got It Podcast! In this week’s episode, Mario and Pat dive deep into the topic of healing alone what it really means to pause, reflect, and rebuild yourself before stepping into the next stage of life.Too often we rush into relationships, careers, or big decisions without taking the time to do the inner work. Mario and Pat explore the power of solitude, self-reflection, and emotional healing, and how it can be the key to creating a stronger, healthier version of you.It’s honest, real, and maybe a little uncomfortable exactly the kind of conversation you’ve come to expect from the Got It Podcast.So buckle up and ask yourself the question: Are you really ready?

This week on the Got It Podcast, Mario and Pat dive into a raw and thought-provoking conversation about whether men or women are truly prepared to step into the next chapter of life. Are we rushing forward without first doing the real work on ourselves? The guys unpack how self-reflection, healing, and growth are often overlooked when chasing new relationships, careers, or personal milestones. With honesty and humor, they challenge listeners to ask the hard question: Are you really ready or are you just moving on without moving forward?

Welcome back to the Got It Podcast, where real conversations meet real life. Today, we’re bringing you something truly special—live from South Africa.We’re joined by the amazing LeftSleeve, an incredible guest whose story and perspective will leave you thinking long after the episode ends. This is more than just a conversation it’s an open, honest dialogue between three men exploring what it means to step into a new journey of self-discovery.From vulnerability to breakthroughs, from laughter to raw truth, this episode dives into the powerful process of finding yourself and embracing the next chapter of life.Trust us you don’t want to miss this one.

This week on Got It Podcast, we’re answering a request from one of our followers who wanted to dig a little deeper into who we are beyond the microphones. Think of it as a no-holds-barred coffee chat where we share more about our lives, what makes us tick, and the random things we actually like (and some we can’t stand). We get into the realities of our day-to-day—what we do to navigate challenges, and how we cope when life throws its heavier punches. From the little joys that keep us sane to the personal strategies we use to get through pain—physical, emotional, and otherwise—it’s an honest, sometimes funny, sometimes raw conversation that pulls back the curtain on the people behind the voices. By the end, you might see us in a whole new light… or at least understand why we are the way we are.

Topic: What Losing Someone Teaches Us About LoveIn this emotionally raw and reflective episode, Mario and Pat dive into the heavy but necessary topic: love, loss, and the powerful lessons that come with it.What do we learn about ourselves when someone walks away—or when life takes them from us? How do heartbreak, grief, and change shape our capacity to love deeper, better, and more honestly?Through personal stories, heartfelt insights, and a few hard truths, this episode explores:Why love often teaches us the most after it's goneHow grief rewires what we thought we knew about connectionThe difference between attachment and genuine loveAnd how loss can crack you open... or close you offThis one’s for anyone who’s ever had to let go—and found themselves on the other side, wondering what it all meant.💔 Real talk. Real growth. Real men say it out loud. 🎧 Available now on all major platforms.

Is it real love… or are you just afraid to be alone?In this episode, Pat puts Mario in the hot seat with a no-holds-barred quiz on his past relationships. Things get deep (and hilarious) as they unpack whether those connections were built on real love or just emotional attachment.We talk:The signs it’s NOT love (even if it feels like it)Why men stay in toxic relationshipsTrauma bonding vs. genuine connectionAnd some wild personal stories 👀🔊 It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s what the Got It Pod does best — saying the quiet parts out loud.👇 Drop a comment: Love or attachment — which one are YOU really in?#GotItPodcast #LoveVsAttachment #MentalHealth #Relationships #MenTalk #Podcast #PatAndMario #EmotionalIntelligence