Conversations for Couples

Join marriage therapist Julie Bulitt and divorce attorney David Bulitt as they launch their exciting "26 for 26" campaign - 26 creative dates throughout 2026 to keep relationships fresh and fun! In this candid conversation, the Bulitts share why consistent, intentional dating is crucial for long-term relationships and reveal their upcoming date plans including dance lessons, cooking challenges, speakeasies, and more. They discuss the neuroscience behind new experiences with your partner, offer budget-friendly date ideas, and invite listeners to join them on this year-long journey of rediscovering romance. Whether you've been together for 4 months or 40 years, this episode will inspire you to prioritize fun and connection in your relationship.Follow Julie & David Bulitt:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebulitts/Website: https://thebulitts.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebulitts

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David sit down with Rick Cognata, founder of Legacy of a Grandpa and author of "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time." Rick shares invaluable insights on intentional grandparenting, creating core memories, and building lasting relationships with grandchildren. From navigating boundaries to understanding the importance of presence over perfection, this conversation explores how to be the grandparent your grandchildren will cherish for a lifetime.Rick discusses his journey from leadership developer to grandparenting advocate, the importance of starting early to build strong foundations, and practical strategies for long-distance grandparenting. Whether you're already a grandparent, soon to be one, or simply interested in multi-generational relationships, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and actionable advice.Connect with Rick Cognata:Instagram: @legacyofagrandpaWebsite: https://legacyofagrandpa.comEmail: legacyofagrandpa@gmail.comBook: "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time" (available on Amazon)Connect with The Bulitts:Website: https://thebulitts.com/Subscribe to Conversations for Couples on YouTube and all major podcast platforms

Join Julie and David Bulitt in this insightful episode as they welcome relationship therapist Jamie Bronstein, LCSW, to discuss the keys to finding and maintaining healthy relationships. Jamie shares her expertise on healing unresolved issues, trusting your intuition, and knowing when you've found "the one." They explore common relationship challenges including infidelity and financial issues, the importance of empathy and communication, and how to differentiate between past trauma triggers and genuine red flags. Jamie also reveals her unique approach to helping couples reconnect and discusses her book "Manifesting" and upcoming Ready for Love Summit. Plus, hear candid insights about how relationship professionals navigate their own partnerships.Guest: Jamie Bronstein, LCSWWebsite: https://therelationshipexpert.comInstagram: @therelationshipxpertBook: Manifesting (available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble)Ready for Love Summit: https://readyforlovesummit.comPodcast: Love Talk LiveThe Bulitts Website: https://thebulitts.com/

In this special New Year’s episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt take a break from interviews and deep conversations to reflect on their favorite memories, moments, products, and experiences from 2025 — and what they’re looking forward to in 2026. From wedding memories and Western bars to binge-worthy TV, eye drops that work like magic, and matching tattoos inspired by a streaming show — this episode is a mix of fun, laughs, nostalgia, and recommendations for anyone looking to close out the year on a high note. 📦 Favorite Things Include: 👰 Best moment: Officiating their daughter’s wedding 💃 Best date night: Salt + Vine & cowboy dance lessons in Wyoming 🧴 Favorite products: Lumify eye drops, RevitaLash, La Roche-Posay B5 serum 🎵 Music finds: The Dip, Red Clay Strays, and Ashley McBryde 🎥 Best shows: The Beast in Me, Landman, Shrinking, Nobody Wants This 🍔 Best food: Cheeseburger at No Name Saloon & Costco’s croissant pastry 📚 Best book: The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin 🏔️ Best view: Snake River and Tetons on horseback in Jackson Hole Join us as we toast to all the good stuff, and maybe inspire you to reflect on what you’re most grateful for too. 🥂 Cheers to love, laughter, and connection in 2026! — 💬 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com  📸 Instagram: @thebulitts  📘 Facebook: The Bulitts  📺 YouTube Channel: @TheBulitts

This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt talk with nationally recognized marriage and family therapist Dr. Becky Whetstone, also known as the Marriage Crisis Manager. Becky is the author of I Think I Want Out and brings her decades of experience helping couples navigate the brink of divorce with honesty, strategy, and heart. In this episode, the three dive deep into what really happens when one partner quietly checks out, the surprising traits that predict a happy marriage (hint: flexibility matters more than romance), and why so many people never say they’re unhappy—until it’s too late. 📘 Dr. Becky shares: ✅ The Gottman-backed traits that predict marital success ⚠️ What a “decider” is and how to catch unhappiness before it blows up 🧠 Why trauma, shame, and grandiosity destroy communication 🔄 The power of “repair conversations” and how to do them the right way 💬 Real-life examples from couples in crisis (and how they pulled back from the edge) 🛑 How to use separation therapeutically instead of rushing into divorce Plus, hear Julie & David’s own take on decades of marriage, how they resolve conflict using “Safe Talk,” and why they never want to go back into the dating pool again. 🔗 Learn More About Dr. Becky Whetstone 📚 Author: I Think I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage 🌐 Website: www.marriagecrisismanager.com 📝 Blog: Becky Whetstone on Medium 💌 Email: (if you'd like to include it—optional) 🔹 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: thebulitts.com  📸 Instagram: @thebulitts  📘 Facebook: The Bulitts  📺 YouTube Channel: @TheBulitts

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Tisha and Phil Jordan — a Baltimore couple whose love story started on Bumble and grew into a six‑kid blended family, a thriving home renovation business, and soon—a podcast of their own. Tisha is a social worker turned powerhouse contractor and founder of ContractHER, a mission‑driven business teaching women how to take control of home projects and empower themselves through skilled trades. Phil, her husband, biggest supporter and partner in both love and life, shares their story of fast love, deep respect, co‑parenting, career changes, and doing the work of building everything together. 🎙 What’s Inside: 💖 Falling in love in just a few days and marrying within 10 months 👷🏽‍♀️ Why Tisha left her social work career to start ContractHER 🧰 How ContractHER empowers women with real skills — from power tools to confidence 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Blending a family of 6 kids and navigating co‑parenting across households 😂 How laughter (and dressing up!) became their love language 💬 Honest talk about finances, working together, and carving out healthy space 🎧 A sneak peek at their upcoming podcast: The Love Build Podcast This episode is packed with love, grit, inspiration, and plenty of laughs. Whether you’re building a relationship, a business — or both — Tisha & Phil show that it’s never too late to start over and build something beautiful. 🔗 Get to Know Tisha & Phil ContractHER — Home improvement & empowerment for women ✉️ Email: info@thecontracther.com 🌐 Website: www.thecontracther.com 📸 Instagram (business): @contract_her — share, follow & learn: https://www.instagram.com/contract_her 🎙 Podcast: The Love Build Podcast — YT & IG: @thelovebuild 🔹 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: thebulitts.com  📸 Instagram: @thebulitts — https://www.instagram.com/thebulitts  📘 Facebook: The Bulitts — https://www.facebook.com/thebulitts  📺 YouTube Channel: @TheBulitts — https://www.youtube.com/@thebulitts

Divorce Mediation, Virtual Breakups & Real Boundaries — with Joe Dillon On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to dive deep into the world of divorce mediation, emotional intelligence, and how money and emotion often collide during the end of a marriage. Joe combines his MBA in Finance with extensive training from Harvard, MIT, and Northwestern, and has been a virtual mediation pioneer since 2011—long before it became the norm. But what really stands out is Joe’s personal story as a child of a highly litigated divorce, which fuels his compassionate, process-driven approach to helping couples separate without destroying their families. 🎙 What’s Inside: 💼 Why most divorce mediators are lawyers—and why Joe isn’t 🔍 How deceit, ego, and entitlement derail divorce 🧠 Using coaching and emotional preparation to mediate better ⚖️ What Joe learned from growing up in a courtroom (literally) 👥 How he and his wife, Cheryl, balance working together and staying connected 📍 Which states are actually mediation-friendly—and why that matters This episode is full of real-life insight, warmth, and practical advice for couples thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or supporting others through it. 🖥️ Learn more about Joe's work: 🌐 https://www.equitablemediation.com 🔗 Free resources, videos, blog posts, and eBooks available 📞 Free intro calls available directly on the site — 💬 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt: 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this milestone episode, Julie and David Bullitt reflect on their journey through 50 episodes of Conversations for Couples. From matchmakers to marriage therapists, Golden Bachelor celebrities to international couples, they’ve welcomed 41 guests from around the world to share insights on love, sex, grief, parenting, etiquette, fashion, and everything in between. You’ll hear them revisit some of the most memorable moments—from arranged marriages and Appalachian Trail love stories to etiquette lessons and yoni massages. They also highlight guests like Joan Vassos, Sydnée Sadick, Andrea McGinty, and Susan Bratton, and share what they’ve learned from each. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the show, this episode offers a heartfelt recap, meaningful takeaways, and a few laughs (and barks from Archie the dog) along the way. 👇 Watch, listen, follow, and share. Help us get to episode 100! 🎧 Featured Guests Mentioned 🔹 Andrea McGinty (Founder, It's Just Lunch) https://www.33000dates.com/ 📧 33kdates@gmail.com 📢 PR: Kat at ceo@do-tellpr.com 🔹 Alison M. Cheperdak (Founder, Elevate Etiquette, LLC) 🌐 https://elevateetiquette.com/ 📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com 📱 c. 774.278.0649 🔹 Sydney Sadick (Fashion & Lifestyle Expert) 📺 sydneysadick.com 🔹 Susan Bratton (Sex & Intimacy Expert) 🌐 https://susanbratton.com 📲 Follow the Bullitts 🔗 Instagram 🔗 YouTube

In this special episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with real-life adventurers Annie Kane and Jake Lebert—a couple who met while hiking the Appalachian Trail solo... and ended up hiking all 2,200 miles together. 💍 They now live in Virginia, are planning a wedding at the exact spot where they met (Fontana Dam), and have an incredible love story built around mud, sweat, blisters, and heart. 🎙 Inside this episode:  🥾 What it’s like to hike for 6 months straight with someone you just met  💬 How deep conversations (and zero distractions) built their relationship  ⚠️ Falling, rattlesnakes, weather—and how they supported each other through it  🚐 Living together in a converted school bus post-trail  🐾 Life now with two dachshunds, a pottery class, and a new puppy  ❤️ Lessons about love, patience, independence, and adventure If you’ve ever dreamed of hiking the Appalachian Trail, or wondered how connection can grow in the most unexpected places—this episode will inspire you. 📍Their advice? Go for it. And never quit on a bad day. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return from their summer hiatus with an inspiring, stylish, and high-energy guest—Sydney Sadick, national fashion/media commentator, editor, and founder of Spotlight Magazine. You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Access Hollywood, and Fox 5 DC—and today, she sits down with the Bulitts to talk about how fashion can impact confidence, relationships, and identity, as well as the behind-the-scenes world of entrepreneurship and publishing. 🎙 What’s inside:  👠 How clothing choices influence self-esteem and connection  🧥 Why couples should still dress up for each other (yes, even after 10+ years!) 👜 Starting a luxury magazine from scratch—Spotlight’s rise in NYC, the Hamptons, Palm Beach & Miami 💬 What makes a strong personal brand—and how to stay authentic 💼 How she navigates marriage, business, beauty, and ambition (with support from her husband and mom!) Sydney also shares stories about shopping smart, reusing pieces, trusting your team, and that hilarious moment when her husband raised an eyebrow at a very glamorous photo shoot. 📘 Check out her book: Aim High: How to Style Your Life and Achieve Your Goals 📰 Follow her magazine: Spotlight Magazine 📲 Follow Sydney on Instagram: @sydneysadick — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

On this date-night edition of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt grab a cocktail and dive into a conversation that started on their recent Fox 5 “Lion Lunch” appearance—celebrity marriages and whether public relationships can actually survive. From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement to Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley’s struggles, the Bulitts explore what makes high-profile relationships so difficult—and what lessons we all can take from them. With honesty, humor, and a few personal stories (including a proposal with a hotdog 🐶💍), they break down: 💔 Why 80% of celebrity marriages end in divorce  🔐 The power of privacy and boundaries in a relationship  🧠 Ego, attention, and the human brain’s need for more  📱 How social media has changed every relationship—celebrity or not  💬 The importance of curiosity, mutual respect, and open communication  🥂 And of course… what Travis and Taylor can do to beat the odds This is an honest, fun, and insightful episode you won’t want to miss—especially if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to balance love and limelight. 🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for real talk about love, marriage, conflict, dating, and everything in between. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Andrea McGinty, a leading national dating expert and founder of both It’s Just Lunch and 33,000 Dates. With decades of experience helping people navigate the often confusing (and sometimes comical) world of modern dating, Andrea offers a fresh and empowering take on finding love—especially over 40, 50, or beyond. In this candid and energetic conversation, Andrea breaks down:  💬 How dating apps have changed everything (for better or worse)  📸 Why your photos matter—and what not to do 💔 Rejection and confidence: How to bounce back 💡 What makes a great first date 🧠 How to emotionally prepare for dating again 🔥 Yes, they talk about sex, too. Whether you’re single, divorced, widowed, or just curious about the state of dating today, this episode offers real insight, expert advice, and a little tough love. 📘 Andrea’s Book: Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50 🌐 Website: https://www.33000dates.com 📧 Email: 33kdates@gmail.com 📣 PR Contact: Kat – ceo@do-tellpr.com 🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for honest talk about love, marriage, connection—and finding it again. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by artist, author, and mental health advocate Tracy Yoka Kos, whose memoir Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing explores her family’s painful but inspiring journey through mental illness, eating disorders, and the complicated healing process that followed. Tracy shares the story of her daughter’s sudden descent into severe anorexia, depression, and anxiety following the unexpected death of Tracy’s mother—and how it impacted not only their daughter’s life, but their marriage and personal histories. Tracy opens up about her own background with trauma, her late diagnosis of chronic PTSD, and the emotional hurdles she and her husband faced in learning to support their daughter and themselves. The conversation dives deep into parenting under pressure, the dynamics between partners during a crisis, the generational impact of trauma, and the role of creativity in healing. Tracy also discusses how mixed media art became a tool for emotional regulation and self-care—and how she now helps others reconnect with themselves through creative practices. 📖 Learn more about Tracy & her book: 🌐 https://www.tracyyokacreates.com 📘 Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing — Available wherever books are sold 🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, parenting, and the complexities of real relationships. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return to their roots with a guest-free conversation about emotional regulation, communication, and how to respond instead of react in your relationship. Inspired by a clip they came across on social media, the Bulitts unpack the powerful concept of being a thermostat—someone who sets the emotional tone—instead of a thermometer that merely reflects the mood of others or the environment. Through real-life examples (like spilled water on a laptop and the chaos of moving into a new house), they share how they’ve each succeeded and struggled with staying grounded during life’s curveballs. They also dive into how this concept plays out between partners and explore the role of clarity, co-regulation, respect, and gratitude in building a stable, healthy connection. Whether you're in a new relationship or married for decades, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice for being more intentional in your day-to-day life and relationship dynamics. 🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between. Follow the Bulitts:  📱 Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Pinterest | YouTube  🌐 https://www.thebulitts.com

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., Founder of Elevate Etiquette, to explore the role of etiquette in modern relationships. From wedding invitations to everyday communication with your partner, Alison shares how etiquette isn’t just about which fork to use—it’s about kindness, respect, and emotional intelligence. They discuss the importance of dressing with intention, praising in public, communicating clearly, and handling conflict thoughtfully. Whether you're newly dating or decades into a marriage, this episode offers insightful, practical tips for navigating relationships with grace. 🔗 Learn more about Alison and Elevate Etiquette:  🌐 elevateetiquette.com  📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com  📱 774-278-0649  💬 Instagram | YouTube | TikTok | Threads → @elevateetiquette 🎧 Subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.

In this emotional and powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with author, speaker, and advocate Jessica Fein to talk about love, loss, and resilience in the face of unimaginable challenges. Jessica opens up about her marriage, infertility journey, the international adoption of her three children, and the heartbreaking experience of losing her daughter Dahlia to a rare mitochondrial disease. Together, they explore the strength of partnership through adversity, how grief reshapes relationships, and what it means to truly “lean in” as a couple. Jessica also shares how she honors Dahlia’s memory and continues to advocate for families navigating rare diseases and grief. 📖 Learn more about Jessica’s book Breathtaking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes 🌐 Visit Jessica at https://jessicafeinstories.com 📧 Subscribe to her Substack: Fine By Me 🐾 Plus, the heartwarming story of Dahlia’s dog, Blacko 🐶 🎧 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dr. Elliott Justin, a physician, entrepreneur, and the founder of FirmTech—a company pioneering sexual wellness and performance through smart ring technology. Together, they discuss men’s health, intimacy, the stigma around erectile dysfunction, and how Dr. Justin’s innovation is changing the conversation around relationships and sexual connection. Tune in as we explore: Why male sexual health is so often overlooked in relationships How technology like FirmTech’s ring is giving couples insights into their physical connection The emotional and relational impacts of ED Ways to open communication around intimacy and performance in your relationship Dr. Justin brings warmth, honesty, and groundbreaking knowledge to a conversation that so many couples shy away from—but desperately need to have. ✨ More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 💍 Visit FirmTech: www.myfirmtech.com — 🎧 Hosted by: Julie Bulitt – Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist David Bulitt – Divorce & Family Lawyer

Welcome to Conversations for Couples — the podcast where Julie and David Bulitt dive into the real conversations that every relationship needs to have. With over 30 years of experience in family therapy and over 35 years in divorce and family law, Julie and David bring their insights into navigating life’s toughest challenges. In today’s episode, we sit down with Kyle and Vashonda Arrington, a powerhouse couple who’ve been married for 13 years and share their journey from high school sweethearts to building their own successful careers. Kyle, a former New England Patriots Super Bowl champion, and Vashonda, a business executive and entrepreneur, reveal how they balance family, careers, and philanthropy. Together, they discuss the challenges they’ve faced, the personal growth they’ve experienced, and the transition from Kyle’s football career to life after sports. Kyle shares the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a career-ending concussion and how his relationship with Vashonda helped him through it. Vashonda also talks about the powerful work they’re doing with the Evolve Foundation, which is committed to helping marginalized communities through educational initiatives and support programs for children and families. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, love, and finding your way through life’s toughest seasons. 🔹 Follow the Evolve Foundation: Website: www.theevolvefoundation.org Instagram: @TheEvolveFoundation

Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love. In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss: Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation The problem with over-focusing on "triggers" Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful How to shift focus from problems to possibilities The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day. 🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen 🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts 🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce. Together, they explore: What coercive control looks like and how to recognize it How to negotiate vs. compromise in a relationship Setting personal and relationship boundaries Speaking from your “authentic voice” How unresolved childhood wounds affect adult dynamics How to shift from conflict to connection in healthy ways Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience. 📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass 🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com 🎙️ More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts