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Divorce Mediation, Virtual Breakups & Real Boundaries — with Joe Dillon On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to dive deep into the world of divorce mediation, emotional intelligence, and how money and emotion often collide during the end of a marriage. Joe combines his MBA in Finance with extensive training from Harvard, MIT, and Northwestern, and has been a virtual mediation pioneer since 2011—long before it became the norm. But what really stands out is Joe’s personal story as a child of a highly litigated divorce, which fuels his compassionate, process-driven approach to helping couples separate without destroying their families. 🎙 What’s Inside: 💼 Why most divorce mediators are lawyers—and why Joe isn’t 🔍 How deceit, ego, and entitlement derail divorce 🧠 Using coaching and emotional preparation to mediate better ⚖️ What Joe learned from growing up in a courtroom (literally) 👥 How he and his wife, Cheryl, balance working together and staying connected 📍 Which states are actually mediation-friendly—and why that matters This episode is full of real-life insight, warmth, and practical advice for couples thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or supporting others through it. 🖥️ Learn more about Joe's work: 🌐 https://www.equitablemediation.com 🔗 Free resources, videos, blog posts, and eBooks available 📞 Free intro calls available directly on the site — 💬 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt: 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this milestone episode, Julie and David Bullitt reflect on their journey through 50 episodes of Conversations for Couples. From matchmakers to marriage therapists, Golden Bachelor celebrities to international couples, they’ve welcomed 41 guests from around the world to share insights on love, sex, grief, parenting, etiquette, fashion, and everything in between. You’ll hear them revisit some of the most memorable moments—from arranged marriages and Appalachian Trail love stories to etiquette lessons and yoni massages. They also highlight guests like Joan Vassos, Sydnée Sadick, Andrea McGinty, and Susan Bratton, and share what they’ve learned from each. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the show, this episode offers a heartfelt recap, meaningful takeaways, and a few laughs (and barks from Archie the dog) along the way. 👇 Watch, listen, follow, and share. Help us get to episode 100! 🎧 Featured Guests Mentioned 🔹 Andrea McGinty (Founder, It's Just Lunch) https://www.33000dates.com/ 📧 33kdates@gmail.com 📢 PR: Kat at ceo@do-tellpr.com 🔹 Alison M. Cheperdak (Founder, Elevate Etiquette, LLC) 🌐 https://elevateetiquette.com/ 📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com 📱 c. 774.278.0649 🔹 Sydney Sadick (Fashion & Lifestyle Expert) 📺 sydneysadick.com 🔹 Susan Bratton (Sex & Intimacy Expert) 🌐 https://susanbratton.com 📲 Follow the Bullitts 🔗 Instagram 🔗 YouTube

In this special episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with real-life adventurers Annie Kane and Jake Lebert—a couple who met while hiking the Appalachian Trail solo... and ended up hiking all 2,200 miles together. 💍 They now live in Virginia, are planning a wedding at the exact spot where they met (Fontana Dam), and have an incredible love story built around mud, sweat, blisters, and heart. 🎙 Inside this episode:  🥾 What it’s like to hike for 6 months straight with someone you just met  💬 How deep conversations (and zero distractions) built their relationship  ⚠️ Falling, rattlesnakes, weather—and how they supported each other through it  🚐 Living together in a converted school bus post-trail  🐾 Life now with two dachshunds, a pottery class, and a new puppy  ❤️ Lessons about love, patience, independence, and adventure If you’ve ever dreamed of hiking the Appalachian Trail, or wondered how connection can grow in the most unexpected places—this episode will inspire you. 📍Their advice? Go for it. And never quit on a bad day. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return from their summer hiatus with an inspiring, stylish, and high-energy guest—Sydney Sadick, national fashion/media commentator, editor, and founder of Spotlight Magazine. You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Access Hollywood, and Fox 5 DC—and today, she sits down with the Bulitts to talk about how fashion can impact confidence, relationships, and identity, as well as the behind-the-scenes world of entrepreneurship and publishing. 🎙 What’s inside:  👠 How clothing choices influence self-esteem and connection  🧥 Why couples should still dress up for each other (yes, even after 10+ years!) 👜 Starting a luxury magazine from scratch—Spotlight’s rise in NYC, the Hamptons, Palm Beach & Miami 💬 What makes a strong personal brand—and how to stay authentic 💼 How she navigates marriage, business, beauty, and ambition (with support from her husband and mom!) Sydney also shares stories about shopping smart, reusing pieces, trusting your team, and that hilarious moment when her husband raised an eyebrow at a very glamorous photo shoot. 📘 Check out her book: Aim High: How to Style Your Life and Achieve Your Goals 📰 Follow her magazine: Spotlight Magazine 📲 Follow Sydney on Instagram: @sydneysadick — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

On this date-night edition of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt grab a cocktail and dive into a conversation that started on their recent Fox 5 “Lion Lunch” appearance—celebrity marriages and whether public relationships can actually survive. From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement to Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley’s struggles, the Bulitts explore what makes high-profile relationships so difficult—and what lessons we all can take from them. With honesty, humor, and a few personal stories (including a proposal with a hotdog 🐶💍), they break down: 💔 Why 80% of celebrity marriages end in divorce  🔐 The power of privacy and boundaries in a relationship  🧠 Ego, attention, and the human brain’s need for more  📱 How social media has changed every relationship—celebrity or not  💬 The importance of curiosity, mutual respect, and open communication  🥂 And of course… what Travis and Taylor can do to beat the odds This is an honest, fun, and insightful episode you won’t want to miss—especially if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to balance love and limelight. 🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for real talk about love, marriage, conflict, dating, and everything in between. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Andrea McGinty, a leading national dating expert and founder of both It’s Just Lunch and 33,000 Dates. With decades of experience helping people navigate the often confusing (and sometimes comical) world of modern dating, Andrea offers a fresh and empowering take on finding love—especially over 40, 50, or beyond. In this candid and energetic conversation, Andrea breaks down:  💬 How dating apps have changed everything (for better or worse)  📸 Why your photos matter—and what not to do 💔 Rejection and confidence: How to bounce back 💡 What makes a great first date 🧠 How to emotionally prepare for dating again 🔥 Yes, they talk about sex, too. Whether you’re single, divorced, widowed, or just curious about the state of dating today, this episode offers real insight, expert advice, and a little tough love. 📘 Andrea’s Book: Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50 🌐 Website: https://www.33000dates.com 📧 Email: 33kdates@gmail.com 📣 PR Contact: Kat – ceo@do-tellpr.com 🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for honest talk about love, marriage, connection—and finding it again. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by artist, author, and mental health advocate Tracy Yoka Kos, whose memoir Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing explores her family’s painful but inspiring journey through mental illness, eating disorders, and the complicated healing process that followed. Tracy shares the story of her daughter’s sudden descent into severe anorexia, depression, and anxiety following the unexpected death of Tracy’s mother—and how it impacted not only their daughter’s life, but their marriage and personal histories. Tracy opens up about her own background with trauma, her late diagnosis of chronic PTSD, and the emotional hurdles she and her husband faced in learning to support their daughter and themselves. The conversation dives deep into parenting under pressure, the dynamics between partners during a crisis, the generational impact of trauma, and the role of creativity in healing. Tracy also discusses how mixed media art became a tool for emotional regulation and self-care—and how she now helps others reconnect with themselves through creative practices. 📖 Learn more about Tracy & her book: 🌐 https://www.tracyyokacreates.com 📘 Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing — Available wherever books are sold 🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, parenting, and the complexities of real relationships. — Connect with Julie & David Bulitt 🌐 Website: https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts 📺 YouTube: @TheBulitts

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return to their roots with a guest-free conversation about emotional regulation, communication, and how to respond instead of react in your relationship. Inspired by a clip they came across on social media, the Bulitts unpack the powerful concept of being a thermostat—someone who sets the emotional tone—instead of a thermometer that merely reflects the mood of others or the environment. Through real-life examples (like spilled water on a laptop and the chaos of moving into a new house), they share how they’ve each succeeded and struggled with staying grounded during life’s curveballs. They also dive into how this concept plays out between partners and explore the role of clarity, co-regulation, respect, and gratitude in building a stable, healthy connection. Whether you're in a new relationship or married for decades, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice for being more intentional in your day-to-day life and relationship dynamics. 🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between. Follow the Bulitts:  📱 Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Pinterest | YouTube  🌐 https://www.thebulitts.com

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., Founder of Elevate Etiquette, to explore the role of etiquette in modern relationships. From wedding invitations to everyday communication with your partner, Alison shares how etiquette isn’t just about which fork to use—it’s about kindness, respect, and emotional intelligence. They discuss the importance of dressing with intention, praising in public, communicating clearly, and handling conflict thoughtfully. Whether you're newly dating or decades into a marriage, this episode offers insightful, practical tips for navigating relationships with grace. 🔗 Learn more about Alison and Elevate Etiquette:  🌐 elevateetiquette.com  📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com  📱 774-278-0649  💬 Instagram | YouTube | TikTok | Threads → @elevateetiquette 🎧 Subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.

In this emotional and powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with author, speaker, and advocate Jessica Fein to talk about love, loss, and resilience in the face of unimaginable challenges. Jessica opens up about her marriage, infertility journey, the international adoption of her three children, and the heartbreaking experience of losing her daughter Dahlia to a rare mitochondrial disease. Together, they explore the strength of partnership through adversity, how grief reshapes relationships, and what it means to truly “lean in” as a couple. Jessica also shares how she honors Dahlia’s memory and continues to advocate for families navigating rare diseases and grief. 📖 Learn more about Jessica’s book Breathtaking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes 🌐 Visit Jessica at https://jessicafeinstories.com 📧 Subscribe to her Substack: Fine By Me 🐾 Plus, the heartwarming story of Dahlia’s dog, Blacko 🐶 🎧 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dr. Elliott Justin, a physician, entrepreneur, and the founder of FirmTech—a company pioneering sexual wellness and performance through smart ring technology. Together, they discuss men’s health, intimacy, the stigma around erectile dysfunction, and how Dr. Justin’s innovation is changing the conversation around relationships and sexual connection. Tune in as we explore: Why male sexual health is so often overlooked in relationships How technology like FirmTech’s ring is giving couples insights into their physical connection The emotional and relational impacts of ED Ways to open communication around intimacy and performance in your relationship Dr. Justin brings warmth, honesty, and groundbreaking knowledge to a conversation that so many couples shy away from—but desperately need to have. ✨ More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 💍 Visit FirmTech: www.myfirmtech.com — 🎧 Hosted by: Julie Bulitt – Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist David Bulitt – Divorce & Family Lawyer

Welcome to Conversations for Couples — the podcast where Julie and David Bulitt dive into the real conversations that every relationship needs to have. With over 30 years of experience in family therapy and over 35 years in divorce and family law, Julie and David bring their insights into navigating life’s toughest challenges. In today’s episode, we sit down with Kyle and Vashonda Arrington, a powerhouse couple who’ve been married for 13 years and share their journey from high school sweethearts to building their own successful careers. Kyle, a former New England Patriots Super Bowl champion, and Vashonda, a business executive and entrepreneur, reveal how they balance family, careers, and philanthropy. Together, they discuss the challenges they’ve faced, the personal growth they’ve experienced, and the transition from Kyle’s football career to life after sports. Kyle shares the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a career-ending concussion and how his relationship with Vashonda helped him through it. Vashonda also talks about the powerful work they’re doing with the Evolve Foundation, which is committed to helping marginalized communities through educational initiatives and support programs for children and families. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, love, and finding your way through life’s toughest seasons. 🔹 Follow the Evolve Foundation: Website: www.theevolvefoundation.org Instagram: @TheEvolveFoundation

Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love. In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss: Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation The problem with over-focusing on "triggers" Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful How to shift focus from problems to possibilities The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day. 🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen 🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts 🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce. Together, they explore: What coercive control looks like and how to recognize it How to negotiate vs. compromise in a relationship Setting personal and relationship boundaries Speaking from your “authentic voice” How unresolved childhood wounds affect adult dynamics How to shift from conflict to connection in healthy ways Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience. 📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass 🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com 🎙️ More episodes: www.thebulitts.com 📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt dive into The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt—a powerful and eye-opening look at how the rise of smartphones, social media, and a decline in real-world play are fueling an epidemic of anxiety and depression in kids. As a family therapist and a divorce lawyer with decades of experience—and as parents and grandparents—Julie and David bring personal stories, professional insight, and practical takeaways to help families navigate modern parenting. They explore: The importance of free play for healthy brain development How overprotection in the real world and underprotection online is hurting kids Concrete steps to reduce anxiety and build resilience Why schools and parents should rethink kids and smartphones If you're raising children, working with kids, or simply wondering what’s changed in the past decade, this is a must-listen. 🎧 Learn more at: www.afloodoflove.com 📲 Follow us on all platforms: @TheBullitts 📖 Book discussed: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Kyle and Ariel from Couple Entrepreneurs—a married couple in South Florida who not only run a successful business together but also coach other entrepreneurial couples on how to grow their business without growing apart. They share their personal journey of moving from the “anti-honeymoon” phase to becoming business partners and co-founders. Together, we explore: The early struggles of working with your spouse Boundaries that protect both the relationship and the business Communication tactics that build respect and clarity The "four-part framework" every couple in business should know: Vision, Goals, Strategy, and Roles How to reignite romance after work mode Why building couple confidence is essential for long-term success 💡 Whether you're in business with your partner or just want to communicate better, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt moments, and real talk. Links & Resources: 🔗 Learn more about Kyle & Ariel's work:  https://kyleandariel.com/cplive 📲 Follow them on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/couplepreneurs DM the word “VISION” for their free Vision Date guide! — Subscribe for more episodes and follow us on all platforms:  🌐 https://www.thebulitts.com 📸 @thebulitts on Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest & LinkedIn 🎧 Conversations for Couples is available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you listen! #ConversationsForCouples #CouplesInBusiness #MarriageAndBusiness #RelationshipGoals #EntrepreneurCouple

Why is it so hard for couples to talk about sex and intimacy—even after years together? In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt sit down with licensed therapist and intimacy expert Steph Flood to talk all things sex, shame, vulnerability, and communication in long-term relationships. Steph has worked with over 1,000 couples, helping them reignite their intimacy and navigate issues like mismatched libidos, infidelity, low sex drive, and that all-too-common post-kid disconnect. She brings honesty, humor, and professional insight into one of the most vulnerable topics couples face. 💬 What We Cover in This Episode: Why we’re never taught how to talk about sex The shame and silence around intimacy in relationships Why parenting and menopause are intimacy killers—and how to reconnect What really happens with mismatched sex drives The truth about porn, performance anxiety, and unrealistic expectations How to rekindle desire when your bodies—and routines—have changed The “daily affection” tip that helps couples stay close Why honest check-ins and communication may save your marriage Steph’s 3 go-to tips for couples struggling with sex 📌 Steph’s Top 3 Tips: Have regular intimacy check-ins: "How’s this going for you?" goes a long way. Practice daily affection: Hugs, touch, and physical closeness—not just sex—keep your bond strong. Be honest about your needs before they turn into resentments. Vulnerability builds connection. 👩‍💻 More About Steph Flood: Steph is a Nashville-based marriage and family therapist who offers virtual therapy, courses, and coaching for couples across the country. 📲 Find her at:  🔗 Website: www.afloodoflove.com 📸 Instagram: @stephfloodoflove 💑 Hosted by Julie & David Bullitt Julie is a licensed family therapist. David is a divorce and family lawyer. Married for 38 years, they've worked with couples through the toughest of times—and come out stronger. 📍 Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to the Podcast 02:00 Why Is Sex So Hard to Talk About? 06:40 Shame, Religion, and the Messages We Inherit 09:50 Common Points Where Couples Drift 12:20 How to Talk About Intimacy Without Blame 15:15 Post-Kids, Menopause, and Low Libido 20:00 When Porn Becomes a Problem 23:30 Communication Tools: Check-Ins, Affection & Honesty 28:10 Daily Touch & the “Are You Needing More?” Conversation 31:00 Safe Communication for When You Feel Disconnected 34:00 Steph’s Online Course & How to Work With Her 36:00 Final Takeaways 🔔 Subscribe to our podcast for honest conversations, helpful advice, and real-life stories about what it takes to make love last. 🎧 Listen to Conversations for Couples on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. 🌐 Learn more at www.thebullitts.com

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛 It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic. 🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss: How Joan & Chock built a relationship after The Golden Bachelor Why communication is at the heart of their connection Navigating intimacy and connection later in life Merging adult families and celebrating the holidays together Managing long-distance love with intention Dealing with public pressure, fans, and the doubters Their honest take on what it’s really like dating on TV Chock’s sock situation (yes, you read that right 😂) 💬 Favorite Quotes: ➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?" ➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married." ➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day." 🔗 Follow Joan & Chock 📸 Joan: @joan_vassos 📸 Chock: @chockchapple 💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC 📍 Chapters 00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples 01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor 05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun 09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays 13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise 17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy 23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements 28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation 34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned 40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate 46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy 51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts 💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt 🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo 🔹 Follow us @TheBulitts 🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com 🎙️ Podcast: Conversations for Couples 📣 Subscribe for more honest, heartfelt, and humorous conversations about love, marriage, and relationships at every stage of life!

Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔 Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore: 💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964 The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together What made their love so strong despite their differences ✨ Resources & Links Mentioned: 🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com 📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business” 💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource 🎧 Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples 01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat 04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman 07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years 10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust 14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships 19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free 22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness 27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean 30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection? 💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments! Follow Conversations for Couples 🔹 Instagram: @TheBulitts 🔹 Facebook: The Bulitts 🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com 📩 Subscribe for More Relationship Advice & Love Stories!

Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you! Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person. 💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How elite matchmaking works (and why high-net-worth individuals use it) Why checklist dating doesn’t work (and what to focus on instead) The top relationship challenges & how to overcome them Understanding attachment styles & personality types in dating How to flirt naturally and build genuine attraction Dealing with fear of rejection & past relationship baggage Finding love after divorce or loss Kate’s personal love story & what she learned along the way ✨ Resources & Links Mentioned: 🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match 🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn 🎧 Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples 01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker 04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do? 07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types 12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers 16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma 22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists” 26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection 30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss 36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned 42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society 45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice 💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below! Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society: 🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com 🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker 🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety Follow Conversations for Couples Instagram: @TheBulitts Facebook: The Bulitts Website: www.thebulitts.com 📩 Subscribe for More Relationship Advice & Expert Interviews! YouTube Tags: Matchmaking, high-net-worth dating, finding love, dating tips, elite matchmaking, attachment styles, personality types, flirting tips, dating after divorce, overcoming dating fears, relationship coaching, dating advice, Conversations for Couples, Kate O’Connor, Select Date Society, relationship success, dating after loss.