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Modern Homemaking I Mindset and Methods for Happier, Healthier Homes
Modern Homemaking I Mindset and Methods for Happier, Healthier Homes
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Welcome to Modern Homemaking, the podcast for those who care deeply about their homes, but sometimes feel overwhelmed by them. If you’re carrying the mental load, managing routines and clutter, navigating expectations, and trying to create calm in the middle of real life, this show is for you.
I’m Christy, from The Common Nest, and for over twenty years I’ve been researching, practicing, and supporting others to create happier, healthier homes through a holistic approach. Homemaking is more than cleaning or decorating. It’s about mindset, emotional wellbeing, routines, boundaries, and the invisible systems shaping your daily life.
Each week, we explore the mindset, motivation, and practical methods that help you overcome overwhelm and create a home you truly love. From decluttering and routines to seasonal living, decorating. Here we are redefining modern homemaking and looking at the whole picture, because the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
If you’re ready for home without hustle, calm, clarity, and a space that supports you as much as you support everyone else, you’re in the right place.
Your path to a happier, healthier home begins here. Welcome home!
I’m Christy, from The Common Nest, and for over twenty years I’ve been researching, practicing, and supporting others to create happier, healthier homes through a holistic approach. Homemaking is more than cleaning or decorating. It’s about mindset, emotional wellbeing, routines, boundaries, and the invisible systems shaping your daily life.
Each week, we explore the mindset, motivation, and practical methods that help you overcome overwhelm and create a home you truly love. From decluttering and routines to seasonal living, decorating. Here we are redefining modern homemaking and looking at the whole picture, because the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
If you’re ready for home without hustle, calm, clarity, and a space that supports you as much as you support everyone else, you’re in the right place.
Your path to a happier, healthier home begins here. Welcome home!
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In this episode, we’re opening a brand new chapter. After years of avoiding the word homemaking, I’m finally claiming it, and renaming this show Modern Homemaking.This isn’t just a new title. It’s a shift in clarity, courage, and calling.For a long time, I resisted using the words homemaking and homemaker in my messaging. I worried about stereotypes, misunderstandings, and being reduced to something smaller than the work I actually do. But over time, I realized something important: the very word I was avoiding was the one my audience was searching for.Today, I’m sharing why I changed the name of the podcast, what modern homemaking truly means, and why I believe homemaking matters now more than ever.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt conflicted about the title “homemaker”Wanted to care deeply about home without being boxed into outdated rolesStruggled with how homemaking is perceived in modern cultureFelt called to create a healthier, happier home, but wanted a more thoughtful approachWe’ll explore:Why I avoided the word homemaking for so longThe uncomfortable realization that people couldn’t find my workThe story of my old baking pans, and what they taught me about growth and letting goWhat modern homemaking really means in today’s worldHow the Holistic Home Method supports mindset, routines, decluttering, design, and cyclical livingModern homemaking is not about shrinking yourself. It’s not about perfection or silent sacrifice. It’s about leadership inside your home. It’s about understanding how your space shapes your mental health, your relationships, and your daily life.In a world that feels loud and divided, tending to home with intention is powerful, and more important than ever..Whether you’ve been here since the beginning or you found this podcast by searching for modern homemaking, I’m so glad you’re here.Together, let’s build happier and healthier homes. Welcome to Modern Homemaking. 💛Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
Today marks a milestone. Celebrating 100 episodes of The Common Nest Podcast.When I pressed record on episode one two years ago, I had no idea what this show would become. I didn’t know who would listen. I didn’t know if I would keep going. I didn’t know how these conversations would shape me.But here we are… 100 conversations about home.Not just cleaning and decluttering and decorating… But mindset. Invisible labor. Mental load. Cultural pressure. Marriage and motherhood. Rest and leadership. Grief, faith, politics and the seasons of life.In this episode, I’m reflecting on what 100 conversations about homemaking have taught me and sharing the ten lessons I’ve learned.I’m also sharing what I deeply wish every homemaker understood about home, their role, and the weight their carrying.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt behind in your homeWondered why homemaking feels heavier than it “should”Struggled with clutter that feels deeper than just stuffFelt exhausted and questioned your capacityCarried invisible labor that no one else seems to noticeWanted to create a peaceful home without burning yourself outNeeded reassurance that you’re not failingWe’ll explore:Why home truly starts withinThe difference between incompetence and overloadWhy clutter is often emotional, not just physicalThe real purpose of routines (hint: it’s not productivity)Why design and beauty are not superficialHow exhaustion distorts everything at homeHomemaking as leadership, not servitude or submissionThe hidden cultural forces shaping your expectationsWhy you cannot pour from an empty cupWhy alignment, and not perfection, is the true goalWhy you are not behindWhy home was never meant to be managed aloneWhy your worth is not measured by productivityWhy tending to yourself is part of tending your homeWhy your current season matters more than you thinkWhether you’ve been here since episode one or you’re just finding the show now, this episode is both a celebration and a closing of a chapter.Here’s to 100 conversations about home and to what’s coming next.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Plus:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re talking about love, but not the soft, sentimental kind that fills store windows in February. We are talking about the kind of love that holds up when the world feels heavy.Because if you’re honest, the world right now feels heavy, divided, activating and loud.There is injustice playing out publicly. There is anger in the air. There are communities, particularly people of color, women, and members of the LGBTQ community, who are feeling the weight of hatred in very real ways.And maybe you’ve felt it in your body too. The grief. The outrage. The exhaustion.So what do we do with all of it?After hearing the phrase, “The only thing more powerful than hate is love,” I found myself sitting with that question. What does powerful love actually look like in practice? And how do we live it out without becoming burned out or bitter?In this episode, I share a grounded framework for building rooted love, the kind that sustains you instead of draining you, and the specific order it has to move in to truly be strong.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt overwhelmed by the state of the world and unsure how to respondExperienced grief, anger, or activation that’s affecting your home lifeWanted to raise children who value dignity, justice, and compassionStruggled with resentment, burnout, or emotional overloadWondered how to stay grounded without becoming disengagedWe’ll explore:Why love must be rooted before it can be powerfulWhat it means to receive love before trying to give itHow tending to your nervous system strengthens your impactThe connection between a regulated home and a more just worldWhat “out-of-order love” looks like, and why it leads to burnoutHow to build a loving home in heavy times without shrinking your worldThis conversation is not about ignoring injustice. It’s not about bypassing anger. And it’s not about retreating from the world.It’s about building something stronger than hate, starting within you, strengthening your home, and then moving outward with courage and steadiness.If you’ve been carrying heaviness lately, this episode is here to help you move through it with clarity, compassion, and strength.Let’s talk about how to build love that lasts.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we continue the conversation, but this time, we move forward.After naming the cultural, political, and theological stories shaping our homes in Part 1, this episode asks the next, unavoidable question: If going backward isn’t the answer… then what is?This episode is an exploration of greatness, not as nostalgia, performance, or control, but as something living, responsive, and deeply human. It looks at why the pull of “again” is so strong in heavy times, and why homes don’t actually become stronger by recreating the past.Instead, we begin to imagine a different kind of greatness, one rooted in care, shared power, adaptability, and wellbeing.This isn’t about doing more, fixing everything, or getting it “right.” It’s about choosing a way forward that actually supports the people who live in our homes now.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt the pull of nostalgia and wondered why it’s so powerfulQuestioned whether “traditional” solutions actually serve real familiesWanted to move forward without rejecting home, family, or faithFelt tired of rigid roles, hidden conflict, or silent sacrificeLonged for a definition of home that feels supportive instead of constrictingIn this episode, we’ll explore:Why the idea of “again” feels comforting, and what it often leaves outHow nostalgia can become a coping mechanism in times of overwhelmWhy going backward preserves hierarchy rather than creating safetyWhat it really means to redefine greatness at homeHow holistic homemaking offers a forward-focused, life-giving pathWhy the work of home quietly shapes communities, culture, and the futureThis episode is an invitation, not to return to an idealized past, but to consciously create something better.Because we don’t make anything great again by going backward. We make home great by choosing a different kind of greatness, one that meets us right where we are.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re opening a tender and necessary conversation about what’s happening in the world, and how it quietly finds its way into our homes.What began as personal reflection turned into a deeper reckoning with the cultural, political, and theological stories shaping modern family life. From MAGA to Christian nationalism to the trad wife movement, this episode explores how these narratives don’t just live online or in headlines. They show up in our marriages, parenting, faith spaces, and everyday expectations of home.This isn’t a political rant. It’s a conversation about home, because home is where these stories are lived, embodied, and passed on.Through personal story, observation, and lived experience, we’ll look at how power, nostalgia, and faith can quietly reshape domestic life, and why it matters that we pay attention.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt unsettled by what’s happening in the world, but unsure how it connects to homeNoticed subtle shifts in conversations around marriage, motherhood, or faithFelt tension between your values and the cultural or religious messages around youWondered why “going back” is being framed as the solution and felt unsure about thatWanted language for what you’re sensing, but haven’t known how to name itIn this episode, we’ll explore:How political and cultural movements shape family life from the inside outWhat MAGA, Christian nationalism, and trad wife ideology have in commonWhy these stories resonate during times of fear, burnout, and instabilityHow faith language can be used to justify hierarchy and control, often quietlyWhy the home is where these ideas do their deepest, most lasting workThis is Part 1 of a two-part series.In this first episode, we focus on naming what’s happening and why it matters. In Part 2, we’ll move forward into what actually makes a home strong, supportive, and life-giving in the world we’re living in now.If you’ve been carrying questions, discomfort, or quiet concern about the intersection of politics, faith, and home, you’re not alone.This conversation is an invitation to slow down, notice the stories shaping us, and begin asking what kind of homes (and future) we truly want to create.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most common (and heavy) feelings many of us carry at home: the feeling of being behind.Behind on routines. Behind on projects. Behind on the life or home you thought you’d have by now.We’re unpacking why that feeling is so persistent, why it’s often rooted in productivity culture and unrealistic timelines, and why homemaking doesn’t actually move on a particular timeline. This conversation is about releasing the pressure to “catch up” and learning how to work within your own timeline, with more compassion, clarity, and support.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt like no matter how much you do, it’s never enoughCompared your home, pace, or progress to others and felt discouragedStruggled with the pressure to be productive, efficient, or “get it done” at homeFelt overwhelmed by clutter, unfinished projects, or long to-do listsWondered if you’re falling behind, or just living in a different lifeWe’ll explore:Why “being behind” is often a false narrative rooted in hustle and productivity cultureHow unrealistic expectations, including those shaped by neurodiversity, affect our relationship with timeWhy simplifying your home, goals, and focus can instantly create more spaciousnessHow routines and systems can support progress without pressureWhy cyclical thinking offers a gentler, more sustainable way to understand homemakingRather than seeing home as a race or a series of finish lines, this episode invites you to see it as something living, something that unfolds in seasons, cycles, and small steps forward.If you’ve been rushing, shaming yourself, or feeling like you’re constantly behind, this conversation is here to remind you of something important: You’re not failing.You don’t need to catch up. You’re on your own timeline.Let’s slow this down, soften the expectations, and come home to a pace that actually supports you and the life you’re creating.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingThe Holistic Home Plans & Routines SNAPSHOT - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/snapshotThe Holistic Home Plans & Routines GUIDE https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buyprguideThe Holistic Home Plans & Routines BUNDLE https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buyprbundleTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode of The Common Nest Podcast, we’re talking about something many of us are quietly carrying right now: the feeling that everything is heavy, uncertain, and just too much.When it feels like the world is falling apart, things are overwhelming and motivation is gone, it can be hard to know how to keep going, especially when life and home responsibilities don’t pause. Today’s conversation is a gentle reminder that nothing is wrong with you, and that the work of home can become a source of steadiness and support rather than another demand.We’ll explore why this season feels so exhausting, what’s really happening beneath the surface when you don’t feel like doing anything, and how home, when approached with compassion and intention, can help hold us through hard times.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt emotionally or physically drained and unsure how to keep goingStruggled to find motivation when life feels heavy or uncertainWondered why even simple home tasks feel harder than they used toLonged for your home to feel supportive instead of overwhelmingNeeded permission to do less and care for yourself more gentlyWe’ll explore:Why feeling unmotivated or shut down makes sense during stressful seasonsHow the work of home can support your nervous system instead of draining itFive gentle ways to let home care for you, rooted in the Five Foundations of HomeWhy simplicity, routines, beauty, and honoring your season matter more than productivityHow the way we tend our homes quietly shapes the emotional life of our familiesWhether you’re moving through a season of uncertainty, exhaustion, or quiet overwhelm, this episode is here to remind you that you don’t have to do everything, and you don’t have to do it perfectly.Home doesn’t need to be another place you perform or push through. It can be a place where you land, soften, and find enough support to keep going, one small act of care at a time.You matter. Your home matters. And even in heavy seasons, homemaking makes a difference.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingHome Starts Within Guide - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/withinMindset & Motivation Guide https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buymmguideTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re slowing down the January noise and having a different kind of conversation about fresh starts, overwhelm, and why home can feel so heavy this time of year.January is supposed to feel hopeful, a clean slate filled with motivation, goals, and new energy. But for so many people, it doesn’t feel that way at all. It feels heavy, exhausting, and quietly overwhelming.Today, we’re exploring why that heaviness makes sense, especially after a season of carrying so much, and why the answer isn’t reinventing yourself, fixing your home, or trying harder.This episode is an invitation to step out of pressure and into a softer, more intentional reset. One that begins within.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt heavy or unmotivated in January when you “should” feel hopefulWondered why home feels hard even when things are technically workingFelt overwhelmed by the pressure to reset, declutter, or reinvent yourselfManaged your home and life well, but still felt restless or dissatisfiedLonged for a gentler, more meaningful way to move forwardWe’ll explore:Why things might be feeling heavy instead of hopefulHow cultural pressure, invisible labor, and mental load impact how home feelsWhy overwhelm is a signal, not a personal failureThe difference between managing your home and leading it with intentionWhat a January reset can look like without reinvention or burnoutWhy home truly starts within, and where to begin if you want change that lastsIf January feels heavy instead of hopeful, you’re not broken and you’re not behind. This episode is here to remind you that you don’t need a new version of yourself. You need fewer expectations, clearer direction, and support that honors where you are right now.Take a deep breath. Start where you are. And remember. you don’t have to do this alone.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Love Your Home Coaching: https://www.thecommonnest.com/coachingHome Starts Within Guide - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/withinMindset & Motivation Guide https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buymmguideTake the Holistic Home QUIZ - Free https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re welcoming the New Year in a different way, slower, softer, and with far less pressure to rush into goals and resolutions.January often arrives with loud expectations: new year, new you, big plans, fresh starts. But for many of us, especially after a long and full holiday season, the truth is we’re tired. Still recovering. Still integrating what the past year held.Today’s episode is an honest reflection on post-holiday exhaustion, winter energy, and why the beginning of the year doesn’t have to be about hustle or doing more. Instead, we’re exploring what it might look like to rest, receive support, and finally stop doing it all alone.I’m sharing personal reflections on my own relationship with the holidays and how cyclical living has reshaped the way I approach the New Year. We’ll also talk about my Word of the Year and how learning to receive support has led me to more intentionally ask for help, community, and shared leadership.This episode is also an invitation to reimagine homemaking as meaningful leadership and to question the belief that women running households are meant to do everything by themselves.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt exhausted or relieved when the holidays were finally overStruggled with New Year goal-setting because you’re still tiredFelt pressure to “do more” when what you really need is restCarried the mental and emotional load of home mostly on your ownLonged for community, support, or shared understanding in homemakingWe’ll explore:Why January often isn’t the best time for big goals or bold actionHow winter energy invites rest, reflection, and mindset workWhat it really means to receive support and why it can feel vulnerableWhy learning to ask for help can be a powerful turning pointThe parallels between running a business and running a householdWhy homemakers deserve community, support, and shared wisdomA new vision for homemaking that centers wellbeing, leadership, and connectionIf you’re feeling overwhelmed by New Year pressure or quietly longing for more support at home, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to do it all alone.Maybe this is the year you take it slower. Maybe this is the year you ask for help. Maybe this is the year you let yourself be supported.And that might change everything.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Holistic Home Method https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeJoin the Email List https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re slowing things down and leaning into rest, especially in the quiet, blurry in-between week between Christmas and New Year’s. That strange stretch of time when routines are off, days blend together, and even though life feels slower… we don’t always feel rested.This episode is an invitation to gently question why rest can feel so hard, even when we finally stop, and to consider what rest actually looks like in winter, when energy is naturally lower and the world invites us to soften rather than hustle.We’re talking about rest through cyclical living, letting go of the pressure to rush into the new year, and exploring the different types of rest our bodies, minds, and hearts may be craving right now.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt tired even though you’ve been resting moreExpected this week to feel restorative… but it didn’tStruggled with the pressure to “start fresh” in the new yearFelt caught between slowing down and needing to keep goingLonged for permission to rest without guiltWe’ll explore:Why rest doesn’t always feel restful, especially this time of yearHow winter and cyclical living invite a slower, gentler rhythmWhy rest isn’t a reward, but a requirementThe seven different types of rest, and how to recognize which one you need mostSimple, compassionate ways to lean into real rest during the in-between week and beyondWhether you’re listening during the holidays or finding this episode later in the year, this conversation is here to remind you that you’re not doing rest wrong, you may just be needing a different kind of rest.There’s no rush to become someone new. No need to override the season you’re in. Rest is allowed.Let this episode be an invitation to slow down, listen inward, and enter this season, and the new year, feeling more supported, more grounded, and more at home within yourself.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Living in Rhythm: A Gentle Introduction to Cyclical Living) - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/rhythmJoin the Email List https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode of The Common Nest Podcast, we’re slowing things down to talk about a feeling so many of us experience after the holidays, but rarely talk about.You’ve done your best. You showed up, carried a lot, and made it through a full holiday season at home. And now, you’re left feeling exhausted, disappointed, or emotionally flat.Today’s conversation is about the expectation hangover, the quiet crash that can happen when our hopes for home and the holidays don’t match real life. We’ll explore why unmet expectations hit so hard, especially in our homes, and how to meet ourselves with compassion instead of criticism when the season doesn’t turn out the way we imagined.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt let down after the holidays, even when nothing “went wrong”Wondered why you feel so tired, irritable, or low once the season endsCarried the emotional and mental load of home and hoped it would feel differentStruggled with the pressure to be grateful when you’re actually exhaustedLonged for your home to feel supportive again instead of heavyIn this episode, we’ll explore:What an expectation hangover is and why it’s so common during the holidaysThe unspoken expectations many of us carry around home, family, and “doing it right”Why disappointment at home can feel so personal and painfulGentle reframes to support yourself before expectations turn into burnoutHow to care for yourself when you’re already in a post-holiday crashWays to let your home become a place of recovery , and not performanceWhether this season felt joyful, disappointing, or a mix of both, this episode is an invitation to soften, reflect, and release the pressure to hold it all together. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. And you’re not meant to carry this alone.Let’s tend to home from the inside out with honesty, compassion, and care.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Holistic Home Method https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeJoin the Email List https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re slowing down and stepping gently into one of the most supportive practices: holiday boundaries. These are the loving limits that help you protect your energy, reduce overwhelm, and create a calmer, more meaningful holiday season.The holidays can be beautiful… but they can also feel heavy. More expectations. More emotional labour. More decisions. More family dynamics. It’s a season that asks a lot of us, and often more than we have the capacity to give.So today, we’re talking about the kind of boundaries that don’t shut people out, but instead make room for you. Boundaries create space for more rest, more joy, more presence, and the kind of holiday you actually want to experience.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt stretched thin by all the planning, preparing, hosting, and holdingSaid “yes” when you were already overwhelmed or exhaustedCarried the invisible emotional load of “making the magic”Felt guilty for wanting less - less pressure, fewer events, a slower paceTried to protect your peace in the midst of family expectations and old patternsNeeded permission to choose what feels right for you (and your kids)We’ll explore:Why boundaries matter more during the holidays than any other time of yearThe cultural messages that make women feel responsible for everyone’s experienceHow guilt, conditioning, and emotional labour make boundaries harder to setPractical boundaries around time, energy, finances, responsibility, and emotional wellbeingHow to communicate boundaries with clarity and compassionThe mindset shift that turns boundaries into an act of love and giving for yourself and your familyWhether you’re feeling the weight of December already, or you’re longing for a slower, calmer holiday this year, this conversation is here to remind you that you get to choose the pace. You get to choose what you hold and what you gently set down. And you’re allowed to create a holiday that supports you, too.Let’s take a deep breath, ease the pressure, and step into a season that feels lighter, calmer, and far more aligned with what matters most.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Holistic Home Method https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeJoin the Email List https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re taking a gentle pause in the busiest, brightest, and most overwhelming time of the year, and talking about the real weight women carry in December. The invisible mental load, the emotional labour, the expectations, and the exhaustion that settles in deep. We’re looking underneath of the holiday season, not the picture-perfect version, but the honest experience of trying to create a meaningful month while holding everything and everyone together. And we’re talking about what it actually takes to make your home feel calmer, softer, and more supportive when life feels heavy.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt completely overwhelmed by the holiday mental loadWondered why December leaves you so drained and overstimulatedTried to make everything magical while silently carrying the emotional weightFelt responsible for the lists, the gifts, the meals, the schedules, and the memoriesCraved a calmer, gentler, simpler season, and one that supports you, not exhausts youWe’ll explore:What the “holiday mental load” really looks like and why you feel it so deeplyThe emotional labour women carry at this time of year (even when we don’t talk about it)Why you’re tired in your bones with the mix of social fatigue, sensory overload, and disrupted routinesSmall shifts that create a big difference in how your home feelsSimple steps to reduce visual noise and emotional clutterHow to protect your energy and honour your natural rhythms during a busy seasonWays to create a home that feels like a soft place to land, even in DecemberWhether you’re holding a lot right now, craving some breathing room, or dreading the chaos of the holiday season, this conversation is here to remind you:You can choose a gentler way. Let’s lighten the load, soften the season, and create a home that holds you with more calm, clarity, and care.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Holistic Home Method https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeJoin the Email List - Scroll to the bottom https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re stepping into a conversation that so many women feel deeply but rarely say out loud, the weight of home. Not the laundry, the dishes, or the checklist… but the invisible load beneath it all: the expectations, the emotional labor, the mental juggling, and the stories we’ve inherited about what it means to “keep a home.”Today, I’m exploring why so many of us feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or like we’re constantly trying to catch up, and why none of it means you’re failing.You’re not overwhelmed because you’re weak, lazy, or behind. You’re overwhelmed because you were never meant to do home alone.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt like home is heavier than it “should” beWondered why you can’t seem to do it all anymoreTried to carry the mental load without supportFelt guilty for needing helpStruggled with the stories you grew up believing about homemakingWished you had more guidance, community, or connection in your daily lifeLonged for a village, even if you don’t know where to find oneWe’ll explore:The invisible load almost every woman carriesWhy traditional homemaking systems were never designed for your wellbeingThe cultural stories and expectations shaping how we feel inside our homesWhy emotional, mental, and relational support matter just as much as physical helpThe truth that mentorship and community aren’t modern trends, they’re ancientWhat it actually means to build a village (it’s not doing everything together)Why you’re not meant to walk this journey aloneHow to reimagine support in a way that changes everything at homeWhether you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or simply craving more clarity and connection, this episode is both a deep exhale and a gentle reframe, reminding you that support is not a luxury… it’s part of being human.And because support is at the heart of everything we talk about today, I’m also sharing a overview of Black Friday Week, where you’ll find five days of offers designed to meet you exactly where you are, whether you need clarity, routines, mindset shifts, practical tools, or personalized 1:1 guidance.And I am extending all the deals for this weekend. All five offers are on sale until Cyber Monday, December 1st at midnight (MST).If you’ve been longing for support, structure, encouragement, or a mentor to walk with you, this is your moment. Many of these offers can even be used in January, so you can enjoy the holidays now and start the new year with a fresh foundation.Whether you’re navigating invisible load, rewriting old stories, or simply trying to breathe inside your own home, this episode is here to remind you:You’re not failing. You’re simply carrying too much alone. And you don’t have to anymore.Let’s step into this conversation together.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Black Friday Week - Five Days of Deals https://www.thecommonnest.com/blackfridayLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeJoin the Email List - Scroll to the bottomhttps://www.thecommonnest.com/You can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re diving into a tender truth that’s been coming up again and again, in conversations with clients, in messages from listeners, and even in my own inner dialogue.It’s that quiet ache of feeling behind at home… and the belief that the solution is simply to try harder.Today’s conversation is about what’s really beneath the mess, the overwhelm, and the nonstop cycle of “keeping up.” It’s about the stories we carry, the pressure we put on ourselves, and the deeper reasons why home can feel hard, even when we’re giving it everything we have.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Looked around your home and wondered, “Why can’t I just keep up?”Tried to push through with more effort, more discipline, or more motivationFelt discouraged that the mess keeps coming back, no matter how hard you workQuestioned whether you’re doing something wrongLonged for a home that feels like support, not pressureWe’ll explore:Why “trying harder” isn’t creating the change you want, and why it’s not supposed toHow clutter, inconsistency, and overwhelm are actually signals, not failuresThe hidden role your season, capacity, and emotional load play in your homeWhy traditional homemaking advice leaves so many women feeling defeatedThe power of alignment, and how your home shifts when your methods finally match your lifeWhat a holistic, inside-out approach to home can unlock for your wellbeingAnd because this conversation is at the heart of the work I do, I’m also sharing a little preview of something special coming next week: Black Friday Week - Five Days of Deals. Five days of gentle, supportive ways to help you create a home that feels calmer, clearer, and more aligned with your real life.If your home has felt heavy… If you’re tired of pushing… If you’re craving a kinder way forward…This episode is your permission slip to exhale, soften, and start seeing your home through a whole new lens.Let’s untangle the pressure, lift the guilt, and step into a more aligned way of creating home, one that doesn’t demand more effort, but offers more ease.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Black Friday Week - Five Days of Deals https://www.thecommonnest.com/blackfridayJoin the Email List - Scroll to the bottom https://www.thecommonnest.com/Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Don't know where to start? Take the Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizBook a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minFind out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re preparing for the holiday season, that busy time when life starts to feel fuller, faster, and a little more overwhelming than usual. Today, I’m sharing a gentle, holistic approach to decluttering before the holidays, rooted in the Release & Reset foundation of the Holistic Home Method.This isn’t an episode about cleaning your house top to bottom or organizing every drawer. It’s about creating breathing room, in your mind, your heart, and your home, so you can enter the season with more peace and presence, and less pressure and perfectionism.If you’ve been feeling the mental load rise, noticing the clutter creeping in, or sensing that holiday overwhelm is arriving a little too early this year… you’re not alone. And this episode is for you.This conversation is for you if you’ve ever: Felt mentally overloaded before the holidays even begin Carried guilt, pressure, or emotional weight into the season Looked around your home and thought, “It’s already too much…” Wanted a calmer, simpler, more intentional holiday experienceWondered how to prepare for the season without burning outWe’ll explore: Why mental clutter is often the first warning sign of holiday overwhelm How emotional clutter shows up during the holidays and how to release it with compassion A simple reset to declutter the spaces you’ll use mostHow to declutter toys and kids’ spaces before new things come in Ways to reduce clutter at the source through mindful consumption The small shifts that make the biggest difference in creating a peaceful holiday homeWhether you’re preparing to host loved ones, navigating full schedules, or trying to protect your energy through the holiday rush, this episode will help you make space for what truly matters — connection, presence, rest, and joy.If you’re ready to feel lighter and more grounded this season, take a deep breath, settle in, and let’s gently clear a little room together.Let’s release what’s weighing you down, reset what needs to shift, and make space for the holiday season you actually want.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:The Declutter QuickStart Guide & Checklists - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/quickstartJoin the Clutter Clearing Challenge A 3-part workshop to help you clear clutter mentally, emotionally, and physically https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/clutterclearingLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Find out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeDon't know where to start? Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re slowing down to talk about care practices. The small, intentional rhythms that help us stay grounded, nourished, and supported as we head into the holidays.While the to-do lists are getting longer, the days are actually getting shorter, and many of us are already running on empty, just trying to do more, give more, and be more for everyone around us.This season doesn’t have to end in exhaustion. By setting up simple, non-negotiable care practices now, we can move through the holidays with more peace, presence, and joy, and truly care for ourselves in the process.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt like the holidays always leave you drained or depletedWanted to be more present but didn’t know how to slow downPut everyone else’s needs before your own and felt guilty restingNeeded permission to make yourself a priority in your homeWe’ll explore:Why your energy naturally slows this time of year, and why that mattersWhat care practices really are (and what they’re not)How to choose two or three non-negotiable care practices for the seasonTiny, realistic ideas to support your emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeingPractical ways to make these practices actually happen, even when you are busyWhether you’re already feeling stretched thin or simply want this holiday season to feel calmer and more intentional, this episode will help you reconnect to yourself and create steadiness before the rush begins.Let’s prepare your head, heart and home for the holidays, not by doing more, but by caring more deeply for yourself.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Home Starts Within Guide - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/withinMindset & Motivation Guide https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buymmguideHolistic Home Holidays Guide Please rate & review the podcast on Apple Podcasts. I’m aiming for 100 reviews before Episode 100 and your words help others find the show. As a thank you, screenshot your review and send it to me via email or Instagram DMs, and I’ll gift you the Holistic Home Holidays Guide - a 30-day companion to prepare your head, heart, and home for a season filled with peace, presence, and joy.Let’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Find out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeDon't know where to start? Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re talking about something that comes up every single year - the holiday season.You know that feeling as the decorations hit the stores (earlier and earlier), and suddenly we’re all supposed to be ready for the season... but inside, we feel anything but ready?If you’ve ever felt like the holidays just happen to you, or like you’re so busy creating magic for everyone else that you forget to enjoy it yourself, this episode is for you. It is a conversation about doing things differently this year, with more calm, connection, and intention.We’re slowing down to explore how to prepare your head, heart, and home for the holidays, so you can move through the season feeling grounded, peaceful, and present.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt overwhelmed by the expectations of a “perfect” holidayWanted to simplify, slow down, and create space for peace and joyLonged to reconnect with the meaning behind the seasonWondered how to prepare early, so you can actually enjoy the holidays when they arriveWe’ll explore:Why holiday overwhelm isn’t your fault, it’s a cultural patternThe five foundations of a holistic holiday season: mindset, release, routines, decor, and cyclical livingSmall, practical ways to create calm right now, before the busyness beginsHow to shift from autopilot to alignment and rediscover joy in the season you work so hard to createWhether you’re already sipping something festive or still resisting the sight of early-store décor, this conversation will help you find clarity, calm, and connection before the season begins.Because peace isn’t something we find, it’s something we prepare for.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Overwhelmed to Organized this Holiday Season - FREE MASTERCLASS https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/joyHolistic Home Holidays https://www.thecommonnest.com/holidaysHolistic Hospitality: Create Home with All Five Senses - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/sensesLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Find out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeDon't know where to start? Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re going back to the beginning, to a lightbulb moment that shaped The Common Nest and inspired the framework behind The Holistic Home Method.I’m sharing the story of inspiration and how three simple words, Mindset, Motivation, and Methods helped me see home in a completely new way.At the time, I was trying to create a clear, simple roadmap to help women create happier, healthier homes, spaces that honor our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing in the cultivation of home. But I couldn’t quite find the structure that brought it all together. Then, those three words landed like truth: Mindset. Motivation. Methods.Everything clicked. And from that spark, The Holistic Home Method was born.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Tried to create change in your home but felt stuck or overwhelmedFocused on routines or organization but still felt something was missingWondered how your mindset affects the way your home feelsWanted your home to support your wellbeing, not drain itWe’ll explore:What Mindset really means in the context of home and how the stories you tell yourself shape what feels possibleHow Motivation becomes your why, and how to reconnect with it when your spark fadesWhy Methods matter and how to create systems and routines that actually fit your lifeHow these three elements weave through the Five Foundations of the Holistic Home Method to create more flow, peace, and joyWhether you’re decluttering, redesigning, or simply reimagining how home feels, this conversation will help you see that real transformation starts within.Because when your mindset, motivation, and methods align, your home becomes more than something to manage, it becomes a reflection of who you are and what you truly value.Let’s explore how to bring harmony to the what, why, and how of your home and rediscover the joy of creating home from the inside out.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Overwhelmed to Organized this Holiday Season - FREE MASTERCLASS https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/joyHolistic Home Holidays https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buyhhhThe Holistic Home QUIZ https://www.thecommonnest.com/quizLove Your Home Coaching https://thecommonnest.com/coachingLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Find out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeDon't know where to start? Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/
In this episode, we’re exploring a truth that often gets lost in our culture of constant improvement — that your home doesn’t need fixing; it needs you.Everywhere we turn, we’re surrounded by messages telling us to optimize, organize, and perfect — our routines, our spaces, even ourselves. But what if all this striving for “better” is actually keeping us from feeling at home right now?In today’s conversation, we’ll look at what happens when we shift our focus from fixing our homes to loving them — and how that shift begins with the relationship we have with ourselves. Because home isn’t a project to perfect. It’s a relationship to nurture.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt pressure to constantly improve your home or yourselfCompared your space (or your life) to someone else’s highlight reelAttached your worth to how your home looks or how productive you areWanted to feel more grounded, peaceful, and connected in your spaceWe’ll explore: How the culture of optimization creates disconnection — at home and within Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for your entire homeWhat it means to treat your home like a relationship instead of a projectHow small, mindful acts of care can become powerful expressions of self-loveHow compassion for yourself ripples outward to the people you live withWhy “Home Starts Within” — and how this truth changes everything about how we create homeWhether your house feels chaotic or your inner world feels cluttered, this episode is a gentle reminder that peace doesn’t come from perfection — it comes from connection.Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Home Starts Within Guide - Free Resource https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/withinMindset & Motivation Guide https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buymmguideOverwhelmed to Organized this Holiday Season - Free Masterclass https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/joyHolistic Home Holidays https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/buyhhhLet’s Connect!If you loved this episode, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @thecommonnest. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—it helps us reach more people who need support in creating a home that feels good. 💛Work with Christy:Please reach out if you’d like to explore how we can work together to create a happier, healthier home with a holistic approach.Find out more about The Holistic Home Method: https://www.thecommonnest.com/holistichomeLooking for personalized support? Check out:Love Your Home: https://www.thecommonnest.com/loveyourhomeDon't know where to start? Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/tcn-christy/30minWant to grow in a community?Join the Holistic Home Membership: https://www.thecommonnest.com/membershipYou can find more from The Common Nest here:Website: https://www.thecommonnest.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonnest/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecommonnest/





