The Soul Care Podcast

Episode #11 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest Host: Connie Lamb Guest: Alisa Keeton   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren and special Guest Host Connie Lamb welcome Alisa Keeton, founder of Revelation Wellness, to discuss the transformative power of viewing our bodies as gifts rather than problems. Alisa shares her personal journey from a life entrenched in diet culture to one that embraces faith and wellness. The conversation delves into the harmful effects of body shame, the importance of community in healing, and the distinction between valuing our bodies for their abilities rather than vanity. Alisa emphasizes the need for compassion and curiosity in our relationship with our bodies, encouraging listeners to embrace their identity as God's creations.   Takeaways Alisa Keeton emphasizes that our bodies are gifts to be stewarded, not problems to be solved. The journey to wellness involves breaking free from toxic shame and diet culture. Community plays a crucial role in healing and self-acceptance. Curiosity about our bodies can lead to compassion and understanding. Fitness should focus on the ability of the body rather than vanity. The church has a responsibility to address body image issues and promote healthy perspectives. Perfect love from God casts out fear and shame associated with body image. Healing cannot occur in isolation; we need each other. Understanding the nervous system is one key to achieving wellness. Our identity in Christ is foundational to how we view our bodies.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources The Body Revelation: Physical and Spiritual Practices to Metabolize Pain, Banish Shame, and Connect to God with Your Whole Self (Alisa Keeton) Revelation Wellness (Alisa Keeton’s website) Revelation Wellness (YouTube Channel) Healthy & Whole Podcast (Apple Podcast link, but found on most podcast platforms) Heir to the Crown: A Mind-Body Devotional for the Daughters of God (Alisa Keeton) What Do You Think of Me? Why Do I Care?: Answers to the Big Questions of Life (Ed Welch)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “You can’t heal what you hate. Hatred closes the door to transformation and leaves us in a pool of toxic shame.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb Guest: Melissa Daugherty   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren talk with Melissa Dougherty, an author and apologist, about her book 'Happy Lies' and the New Thought movement. Melissa shares her spiritual journey from New Thought to Christianity, exploring how seductive New Thought beliefs can be and how they appear in modern Christianity. The conversation explores the meaning of suffering, the importance of surrender in the Gospel, and the false idea of human goodness. They also examine how consumerism affects spirituality and why true healing comes through Christ. Melissa mentions her future research plans, including a detailed examination of influential figures in the New Thought movement and their impact on Christianity.   Takeaways Melissa Dougherty's book 'Happy Lies' explores the New Thought movement. She shares her journey from New Thought to Christianity. New Thought beliefs are often mistaken for Christian teachings. The seductive nature of New Thought makes it difficult to identify. Suffering is viewed differently in New Thought compared to Christianity. The need for surrender to God's will is emphasized in the Gospel. Human goodness is an illusion in the context of sin. Consumerism influences modern spirituality and instant gratification. True healing comes through a relationship with Christ. Melissa plans to research influential figures in the New Thought movement.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources Happy Lies: How a Movement You (Probably) Never Heard Of Shaped Our Self-Obsessed World (Melissa Daugherty) Melissa Daugherty YouTube Channel Blessed: A History of the American Prosperity Gospel (Kate Bowler) The Story of Reality: How the World Began, How It Ends, and Everything Important that Happens in Between (Greg Koukl) The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self: Cultural Amnesia, Expressive Individualism, and the Road to Sexual Revolution (Carl R. Trueman) Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis (Jenn Chen) Science Fictions: How Fraud, Bias, Negligence, and Hype Undermine the Search for Truth (Stewart Ritchie) Brainwashed: The Seductive Appeal of Mindless Neuroscience (Sally Satel and Scott O. Linienfeld) The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Michael Scheeringa)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Surrender isn't giving up; it's finally letting the right Person be in charge.”

Episode #9 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Pastor Trey Richardson   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren interviews Pastor Trey Richardson, who shares his journey in pastoral ministry, emphasizing the importance of trusting in the sufficiency of Scripture for biblical counseling and soul-care, especially for those with a serious mental health diagnosis. He discusses the challenges faced by individuals with mental health issues and how God's Word can bring healing and transformation. The conversation highlights the significance of community support, the power of prayer, and the role of family life in shaping one's ministry. Pastor Trey encourages ordinary believers and pastors alike to trust in the sufficiency of Scripture and to approach mental health care with confidence and compassion.   Takeaways God's Word is sufficient for healing and transformation. Prayer is a powerful tool in soul care. Church community support is essential for those with “mental health” struggles. Pastoral care ought to focus on applying Scripture to real-life situations. Family life often shapes one's approach to ministry and counseling. Confidence in God's Word can empower pastors to help others. Diagnosed mental illness does not limit God's ability to bring change. Ordinary believers can play a role in soul-care without formal training. Taking thoughts captive is crucial for those with mental health challenges. The journey of healing often requires patience and consistent care.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources Christian Counseling & Education Fellowship (CCEF) Descriptions and Prescriptions: A Biblical Perspective on Psychiatric Diagnoses and Medications (Michael R. Emlet)   Other Links Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Transformation in Christ is a process, not an event. We didn’t get ‘messed up’ overnight, and we don’t experience healing and growth overnight. Neither do the people we help.”

Episode #8 Show Notes Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb Guest: Kelli Russell   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren interview Kelli Russell, a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. They discuss Kelli's journey into this field, the importance of understanding trauma in conflict resolution, and the role of forgiveness in reconciliation. The conversation emphasizes the need for safety, building rapport, and training believers in biblical peacemaking. Kelli shares her vision for Grace Matters, the ministry she leads, and the impact of community education on conflict resolution.   Takeaways Kelli Russell is a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. Understanding trauma is crucial in conflict resolution. Building rapport takes time and is essential for effective reconciliation. Safety is paramount when dealing with abuse in reconciliation processes. Christian conciliation aims to restore relationships, not just resolve conflicts. Training believers in biblical peacemaking is vital for community health. Forgiveness does not mean enabling harmful behavior. Every reconciliation case is unique and requires a tailored approach. The goal of reconciliation is to achieve peace and understanding. Love and compassion are key components in resolving conflicts.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict (Ken Sande) Help! I'm in a Conflict (Life-Line Mini-Book) (Ernie Baker) Grace Matters (Kelli’s ministry organization) RW360: Relational Wisdom 360 Institute for Christian Conciliation Ambassadors of Reconciliation Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum) Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think It Does (Warren Lamb)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Peacemaking is an ending of hostilities; pacifying is a pausing of hostilities.”

Episode #7 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Steve Swartz   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren is joined by Dr. Steve Swartz who presents his carefully researched biblical case that verbal/emotional abuse (reviling) can constitute abandonment under 1 Corinthians 7, potentially providing biblical grounds for divorce. Drawing from 25+ years of pastoral ministry and rigorous hermeneutical study, Dr. Swartz challenges the church to recognize that protecting the vulnerable takes precedence over preserving marriages at all costs. His work represents a significant development within Reformed theology, maintaining fidelity to Scripture while expanding the understanding of how God's Word addresses domestic oppression. This conversation challenges pastors, counselors, and church leaders to examine whether their theology truly protects the oppressed or inadvertently enables oppressors. Dr. Swartz's work represents courageous scholarship that maintains biblical authority while advocating for those trapped in covenant betrayal.   Takeaways Biblical fidelity doesn't require rigidity - Careful hermeneutics can expand our understanding without abandoning core principles The vulnerable matter more than institutions - Jesus came to set captives free, not preserve marriages at any cost Abuse is a gospel issue - Persistent, unrepentant abuse reveals an unregenerate heart Churches need reformation - Many inadvertently protect abusers while further traumatizing victims Courage is required - Confronting influential abusers may cost churches financially, but purifies them spiritually. Churches often commit "secondary abuse" by mishandling initial disclosures Women often fear disclosure because of widespread church failures in handling abuse Successful, influential men who are revilers often receive protection rather than discipline One hour of counseling barely scratches the surface - pastoral humility is essential   Relevant Links Dr. Swartz Resources Abuse, Abandonment, and Divorce: Confronting the Reality of Marital Abuse with Foundational Issues, Biblical Compassion, and Exegetical Objectivity (Steve Swartz) Shattered Shepherds: Finding Hope in the Midst of Ministry Disaster (Steve Swartz) Sermon Series “Steadfast in the Faith” (Listen in reverse order)   Other Books Mentioned Narcissism (Volume 1): Unmasking the Avatar (Biblically) (Warren Lamb) Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Warren Lamb) Not Under Bondage: Biblical Divorce for Abuse, Adultery and Desertion (Barbra Roberts) Called to Be Holy: The Discipline of the Church (Jeremy Walker)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum)   Warrenism of the Week: “All abuse is evil; all abuse is destructive; NO abuse is permissible by God.”

Episode #6 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Guest: Connie Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda interviews her mom, Connie Lamb, as she shares her profound journey living with a degenerative disease (Charcot-Marie-Tooth) and chronic pain. She discusses the challenges of maintaining faith in the midst of suffering, the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ, and how understanding God's sovereignty plays a role in her life. Connie emphasizes the significance of community support, the impact of scripture, and the necessity of grieving the loss of life that has been lived. Her insights offer hope and encouragement to those facing similar struggles, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their pain.   Takeaways Connie shares her journey with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease. Understanding one's identity in Christ is crucial during suffering. God's sovereignty means He is aware of our struggles. God’s sovereignty means He has a plan for our struggles. Scripture can provide strength and comfort in the battle with pain. Sowing and reaping is a continuous process in life. It's important to seek joy for strength in difficult times. Community support is vital for those with chronic illness. Labels do not define our identity in Christ. False theology can harm those suffering from illness. Grieving the loss of a former life is a necessary process.   Relevant Links Resources Mentioned Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions (Greg Koukl) Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God’s Eyes (Conrod Hilario) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love) Shackles (Mary Mary)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Being content in our circumstances does not equal being content with our circumstances. Knowing that God has brought us through other circumstances and He will bring us through these helps us focus on God more than on our circumstances.”

Episode #5 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb Guest: Julie Lowe   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, our hosts interview Julie Lowe, a biblical counselor, parenting expert, and author, as they discuss her journey into biblical counseling, the importance of play therapy, and the need for individualized parenting approaches. They explore the impact of technology on children, the necessity of involving parents in the counseling process, and the significance of understanding children's behavior. Julie emphasizes the importance of community support and biblical principles in parenting, while also addressing the challenges of structured parenting and the need for flexibility. The conversation concludes with encouragement for parents to seek wisdom and remain steadfast in their parenting journey.   Takeaways Julie Lowe's journey into biblical counseling was driven by a desire to help children and families. The importance of play therapy in making counseling a comfortable experience for children. Blending licensed counseling with biblical counseling can enhance the effectiveness of therapy. Personal experiences as a parent shape counseling practices and understanding of family dynamics. Understanding children's behavior requires looking beyond surface actions to underlying motivations. Changes in parenting approaches have been influenced by technology and cultural shifts. Involving parents in the counseling process is crucial for effective outcomes. Empowering parents to feel equipped in their parenting roles is essential. The concept of fairness in parenting should be replaced with a focus on individual needs. Biblical principles ought to guide parenting practices, emphasizing love and understanding   Relevant Links Books by Julie Lowe Child Proof: Parenting By Faith, Not Formula Safeguards: Shielding Our Homes and Equipping Our Kids Building Bridges: Biblical Counseling Activities for Children and Teens (Helping the Helper Series)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “The goal isn't to raise perfect kids; it's to point our kids to a perfect Savior.”

Episode #4 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the hosts discuss Warren's new book on narcissism, exploring its definitions, cultural influences, and the impact on relationships and the church. They delve into the roots of narcissism, the importance of biblical counseling, and how to recognize and respond to narcissistic behavior. The discussion emphasizes the need for healing and hope for victims of narcissism, highlighting the role of the church in addressing this issue.   Takeaways Narcissism is often misunderstood and misdiagnosed. Cultural influences contribute to the rise of narcissism. Healthy parenting is crucial in preventing narcissistic traits. Narcissism can manifest in various relationships, including within the church. Biblical counseling provides a framework for healing from narcissistic abuse. Victims of narcissism often feel responsible for the abuser's behavior. Narcissists lack empathy and self-awareness. Recognizing manipulation is key to protecting oneself from narcissists. The church must address narcissism as a spiritual issue. There is hope for recovery and healing from narcissistic relationships.   Relevant Links Book Mentioned Narcissism (Volume 1): Unmasking the Avatar (Biblically) (Warren Lamb) Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Narcissism is a spiritual issue, not a personality disorder.”

Season 3, Episode #1 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Jenn Chen   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Jenn Chen shares her journey from a clinical psychologist to a biblical counselor, discussing the challenges and insights she gained along the way. The conversation explores the limitations of secular psychology, particularly the DSM, and emphasizes the importance of a biblical perspective in understanding mental health and highlights the importance of relationships in counseling, the reality of suffering, and the necessity for the church to be equipped to address mental health issues. Dr. Chen encourages listeners to critically evaluate psychological practices while relying on Scripture for guidance in soul-care. The episode concludes with a call for discernment in integrating psychological insights with biblical truths.   Takeaways Dr. Jenn Chen transitioned from clinical psychology to biblical counseling. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) lacks a focus on God. The DSM is a tool with limitations in diagnosing mental health. Biblical counseling emphasizes the relationship with God. Suffering is a reality that the Bible addresses profoundly. The church has a role in addressing mental health issues. Building relationships is crucial in counseling. Understanding cultural perspectives can enhance counseling effectiveness. Biblical hope is rooted in God's ability to redeem all things. The Bible provides sufficient guidance for life and godliness.   Relevant Links Books Mentioned Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis (Dr. Jenn Chen) The Body Does Not Keep the Score: How Popular Beliefs About Trauma Are Wrong (Michael Scheeringa) How Do You Help a “Psychologized” Counselee? (David Powlison) How to Help Psychologized Counselees (Tim Pasma interview by Dale Johnson, ACBC) Counseling the Hard Cases: True Stories Illustrating the Sufficiency of God's Resources in Scripture (Stuart Scott and Heath Lambert, editors)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “’Good’ things can easily become ‘god’ things when honoring God isn't our primary motive."

Episode #13 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Conrad Hilario   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, pastor and author Conrad Hilario shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a senior pastor, emphasizing the importance of identity in Christ. He discusses the challenges younger generations face in understanding their identity amidst cultural crises and the church's role in providing guidance. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship and mentorship in spiritual growth and the impact of his book, 'Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes,' as a resource for believers seeking to understand their identity in Christ.   Takeaways Conrad's journey illustrates the transformative power of faith. Identity in Christ is foundational for spiritual growth. Younger generations face unique challenges in understanding identity. Cultural identity crises impact individuals and communities. Discipleship is essential for nurturing faith in new believers. Mentorship plays a crucial role in spiritual development. The church must address issues of diversity and unity. Understanding one's identity can prevent destructive choices. Conrad's book serves as a primer for understanding identity in Christ. Real change in life comes from understanding one's identity in Christ.   Relevant Links Books Mentioned Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes (Conrad Hilario) Christianity: The Faith That Makes Sense (Dennis McCallum) Discovering God: Exploring the Possibilities of Faith (Dennis McCallum) Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ (Warren Lamb and Truth in Love) The Master Plan of Evangelism: With Study Guide (Robert E. Coleman) The Pursuit of God: Updated Edition (A.W. Tozer) The Attributes of God Volume 1 with Study Guide: A Journey Into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer) The Attributes of God Volume 2: Deeper into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)   Other Links Dwell Community Church (Columbus, OH) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Our ‘I am’ statements are identity statements. When we proclaim ‘I am such-and-such…,’ we lock ourselves in a view of ourselves  that may be in conflict with what God proclaims to be true about us.”

Episode #13 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary In this special Christmas episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren shares a personal reflection on the theme of repurposing in life and ministry. Drawing from his own transformative experience following a car accident, he explores how God reshapes our lives and calls us to embrace new purposes. Through biblical passages and personal anecdotes, Warren emphasizes the importance of recognizing interruptions as divine invitations and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys of repurposing.   Takeaways God often works by repurposing our lives for His glory. Don't let your past become your prison; God is doing something new. Transformation is not just improvement; it's a complete change. God uses our painful disruptions for His purposes. Recognizing interruptions can lead to new opportunities. Our experiences can become sources of comfort for others. God's repurposing work can be seen in the Christmas story. We are called to be instruments in the Redeemer's hands. Embrace the journey of repurposing, even when it's difficult. God is with us through every transformation we face.     Relevant Links Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change (by Paul David Tripp) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: “Don’t let your past be your prison.”

Episode #12 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Curtis Solomon   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Curtis Solomon shares his journey into biblical counseling, influenced by his military background and personal experiences. He discusses the importance of integrating faith with trauma healing, the role of the Biblical Counseling Coalition in fostering unity among counselors, and the challenges faced in the field today. Dr. Solomon also addresses the sensitive topic of pornography in marriage, emphasizing the need for resources that guide couples through healing and restoration. He highlights the significance of practical training for the next generation of counselors and reflects on the balance of life and responsibilities.   Takeaways Dr. Solomon's passion for biblical counseling began in 1999. Military experience shaped his understanding of trauma and counseling. Biblical counseling offers hope and healing through Christ. The Biblical Counseling Coalition aims to foster unity among counselors. Challenges in biblical counseling include questions about integrating secular and biblical methods. Addressing pornography in marriage requires sensitive and practical resources. Investing in the next generation of counselors is crucial for the field. Balancing life responsibilities is a continuous challenge for counselors. Surprises in the counseling journey include the infighting among counselors. Biblical counseling is superior to secular methods in addressing trauma.   Relevant Links Books by Dr. Solomon Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography (by Jenny Solomon) Redeem Your Marriage: Hope for Husbands Who Have Hurt through Pornography I Have PTSD: Reorienting after Trauma   Related Link Biblical Counseling Coalition   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: “We get to choose whether we speak graciously out of understanding or harshly out of ignorance.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary This episode of The Soul Care Podcast delves into the complexities of forgiveness within the Christian faith, addressing common misconceptions and providing a clearer understanding of its biblical foundations. The discussion covers three forms of forgiveness: judicial, internal, and relational, emphasizing the importance of confession and repentance. The episode also explores the controversial topic of self-forgiveness and distinguishes between true peacemaking and mere placating. Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace God's forgiveness and extend it to others, fostering emotional healing and spiritual growth.   Takeaways Forgiveness is often misunderstood in Christian circles. Judicial forgiveness is granted by God alone. Internal forgiveness requires us to forsake revenge. Relational forgiveness depends on the offender's repentance. Self-forgiveness is about applying God's principles to ourselves. Peacemaking is grounded in truth, not denial. Confession involves accepting full responsibility for one's actions. Forgiveness is a gift that should not be demanded. True repentance involves a change of heart and behavior. Walking in forgiveness allows us to focus on God's grace.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think it Does Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ Warrenism of the Week: "Apology-making is not forgiveness-seeking.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the conversation explores the origins and development of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling, highlighting its focus on equipping everyday believers for discipleship and soul-care. Warren shares insights into the program's evolution, accessibility, and the philosophy of community and fellowship that underpins their approach. The discussion also touches on the importance of ongoing learning and accountability within the organization, as well as the significance of the name 'Truth in Love.'   Takeaways The organization began as a home fellowship in 2004. Focus on one-another ministry is central to their mission. Training programs are designed for everyday believers, not just professionals. Accessibility of the program is a priority for the organization. The name 'Truth in Love' reflects the balance of truth and compassion. Credentialing is available for those who want to be recognized for their training. Ongoing community and accountability are emphasized through monthly meetings. The program has evolved to meet the needs of its participants. Participants can audit classes after graduation for continued learning. The organization values feedback and ideas from its audience.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Speak the truth; do it in love; surrender the outcomes.”

Episode #9 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary In this Thanksgiving episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren Lamb explores the profound theme of finding one's place at God's Table. He reflects on the contrasting experiences of individuals during the holiday season, emphasizing the weight of expectations and the complexities of family dynamics. Through the story of a woman named Sarah, he illustrates the transformative power of understanding one's blood-bought identity in Christ. Warren shares his personal journey of healing from past trauma and how it has shaped his approach to soul-care. The episode concludes with a call to recognize the unearned belonging in God's family and to extend that hope to others during the holiday season.   Takeaways Thanksgiving can evoke a range of emotions, from joy to grief. The blood of Jesus creates a place of honor for all. Soul-care conversations can help individuals find belonging. Understanding our identity in Christ is transformative. Family dynamics can complicate holiday experiences. Healing is possible through recognizing our worth in Christ. New traditions can be built on God's faithfulness. The holidays can be a time of redemption and gratitude. We can offer hope to those struggling during the holidays. Every soul-care conversation can reflect God's eternal Thanksgiving table.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Focusing on “have” instead of “lack” gives us access to a heart of gratitude, and it is gratitude that creates contentment.”

Episode #8 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.   Takeaways Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances. Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder. Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3. The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma. Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery. God is present in our suffering and offers hope. Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care. The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires. Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future. Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren's Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode #7 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.   Takeaways The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God. Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith. Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges. The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling. Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides. The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life. Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing. The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies. Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Episode #6 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love. Takeaways Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession. Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment. Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples. Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage. Communication ought to be gentle and understanding. God must be at the center of every marriage. The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters. Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically. It's important to change our language about expectations. Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.   Relevant Links Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."  

Episode #5 Show Notes Host:  Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb Guest: Dave Peterson   Summary In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.   Takeaways Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy. Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing. The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak. Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support. There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community. Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health. The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence. Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.   Additional Resources Contact Dave Peterson Dave@biblicalcc.org, Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/) Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Episode #4 Show Notes Host:  Jinda Reinig, Dr. Warren Lamb Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho   Summary In this conversation, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses the importance of hermeneutics in biblical counseling and soul-care. He shares his journey from traditional psychological counseling to a reliance on Scripture, emphasizing the sufficiency and clarity of the Bible in addressing mental health issues. The discussion highlights the challenges contemporary churches face in applying biblical principles effectively and the need to properly interpret Scripture to avoid poor hermeneutics that can lead to misunderstanding and spiritual harm. The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding understanding and application of Scripture is also emphasized, along with the importance of equipping church members for effective soul-care.   Takeaways Proper hermeneutics is essential for understanding Scripture correctly. The sufficiency of Scripture is often questioned in modern counseling. Clarity of Scripture allows everyone to understand God's Word. Poor hermeneutics often leads to spiritual and emotional issues. The Holy Spirit aids in interpreting and applying Scripture. Understanding context is crucial for proper interpretation. Churches need to reclaim the role of Scripture in counseling. Training in hermeneutics boosts confidence in interpreting and applying Scripture. Pastors must be equipped to address mental health issues biblically.   Additional Resources Faith Bible Church  Truth in Love Biblical Counseling  Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ  Words Matter: Refining the Conversation