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With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.
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EP 116- If you keep excusing bad behavior, walking on eggshells, or feeling drained instead of supported, this video is for you. I break down 10 clear signs you’re in a toxic relationship—from control and manipulation to emotional neglect—so you can stop second-guessing your reality. Recognizing the pattern is the first step to protecting your peace and choosing better. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #relationships #moderndating #emotionalhealth #datingapps #ghosting #situationships, #compatibility #toxic #toxicrelationships
EP 115 - In this video, I break down 10 real reasons your ex keeps checking your social media. If you’re stuck wondering “Why won’t they leave me alone?” or “Does this mean they want me back?”—this video will give you clarity without feeding false hope.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#exkeepswatchingmystories #getoveryourex #breakupcoach #breakupadvice #getoveryourex #nocontactrule
EP 114 - In this episode of the Rood Advice Podcast, Rudy A discusses the complexities of marriage, particularly focusing on the disconnect that can occur when individuals marry young. He emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and personal growth before committing to a lifelong partnership. Through analyzing a woman's perspective on her marriage, Rudy highlights the feelings of resentment and the impact of evolving life paths on relationships. He advocates for taking time to understand oneself and the potential consequences of marrying too early, ultimately encouraging listeners to learn from the experiences of others.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#relationships #personalgrowth #young #marriage #resentment #divorce #selfdiscovery #commitment #lifeexperiences #communication #marriage
EP 113 - This video breaks down the 10 most important conversations every couple must have before getting married, the ones most people avoid until it’s too late. We cover expectations around money, boundaries, conflict, kids, and emotional needs, so there are no surprises after the wedding. If you want to protect your future marriage and avoid preventable heartbreak, this is a conversation you can’t afford to skip.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#marriageadvice #divorce #beforeyougetmarried #rudeadvice #avoiddivorce
Ep 112 - TikTok star Tatiana from tatiscreepystories joins me for an unforgettable Halloween episode. With over 1.6 million followers, Tatiana has built a following by sharing her personal paranormal experiences. And today, Tatiana and I dive into ghosts, relationships, breakups, getting back with your EX and personal growth while exploring the influence of social media. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#ex #relationships #sociamedia #paranormal #experiences #spiritualguidance #attractingspirits #darktopics #drama, #relationships #breakups #marriage #divorce #self-worth
Ep 111- Rudy, who has no party affiliation (Center), and his friend Shannon Lewis, a MAGA conservative, discuss the division and tension in the United States from two different perspectives. They share personal stories and insights, highlighting the importance of understanding and human decency when addressing these critical issues.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#relationships #politics #Charlie Kirk #social media #genderroles #feminism #financialindependence #publicfigures #societalviolence #personalbeliefs #feminism #immigration #socialmedia #COVID-19 #communication #relationships #publicopinion #humaninteraction #politics #societalissues
Ep 110- In this episode, Rudy, Cody, and Charles dive into community, friendship, and how sexuality and free speech are evolving in today’s digital age. With humor and honesty, they tackle racism, cancel culture, and shifting cultural norms. We also explore modern dating—hygiene, apps, incels, height expectations, sex dolls, and the economics of sex work—while unpacking double standards, cultural differences, and the importance of open communication in relationships and fantasies.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#podcast, #community, #friendship #popculture #sexuality #media #freedomofspeech #socialmedia #racism #cancelculture #hygiene #datingapps #incels #height #masturbation #sexdolls #sexwork #sexuality #relationships #communication #codyleach #joeyswoll
Ep109 - In this episode, Heather Nielsen from Fight the Beast dives deep into helping men break free from porn addiction and heal sexual intimacy struggles. We unpack the “intimacy deadlock” couples get stuck in—where emotional walls and past resentments kill connection. Heather breaks down why honest conversations about sex and porn are crucial for real intimacy. Plus, we tackle the messy reality of modern dating and how technology is reshaping how we connect — for better or worse. If you’re ready to get real about love, sex, and healing, this one’s for you.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#pornaddiction #porn #relationship #advice #heathernielsen
Ep108- Still stuck on your ex and wondering why you can’t move on? In this video, I break down the 5 real reasons you're emotionally stuck—and spoiler alert, it's not just because you "miss them." From unhealthy patterns to false hope, we’re cutting through the BS. Hit play if you’re ready to stop checking their page and start getting your life back.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#getoveryourex #breakupadvice #howtomoveon #whydoigobacktomyex #BreakupAdvice #CantGetOverMyEx #HealingAfterHeartbreak #LetThemGo #ToxicLove #MoveOnTips #BreakupTruths #ExDetox #NoContactNoClosure #RealTalkRelationships #RudeAdvice #RelationshipRecovery #HeartbreakHelp #WhyYoureStuck #KnowYourWorth
Ep107— After a breakup or divorce, it’s important to heal before jumping back into the dating scene. This episode explores 10 key signs that indicate you’re emotionally, mentally, and practically ready to start dating again, from self-confidence to letting go of past baggage. Whether you’re unsure or just need reassurance, this guide will help you navigate the transition with clarity and confidence.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram
Ep106— Kayle The Dating CollectiveKayle is a dating coach on TikTok that I have been following for some time and we discuss common dating struggles for men and women. Practical tips on confidence, body language, and conversation starters to help men approach women effectively.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram
Ep105— Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling DivisionSince 2015, I have noticed a shift in how people communicate and behave. Meaningful conversations seem to be fading, and genuine listening has become rare. We are more divided than ever.Social media plays a significant role in spreading hate and division. From toxic comment sections to algorithm-driven outrage, digital platforms amplify hostility, polarize communities, and fuel misinformation. But is social media truly designed to bring us together, or is it pushing us further apart?COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#DigitalDivide #SocialMediaCrisis #HateGoesViral #BreakTheEchoChamber #ListenMoreSpeakLess #UnplugTheHate #ReclaimConversation #BeyondTheAlgorithm #DividedByDesign #FixSocialMedia
Ep104— Daniella Asher
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dani Laeasher, a courageous woman who escaped the grip of an abusive and violent relationship. She shares her harrowing journey—from the subtle red flags in the beginning to the escalating danger that made her realize she had to leave. 🔊 Listen now and be inspired by a story of strength, courage, and survival.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
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#SurvivorStory #BreakTheSilence #EndDomesticViolence #AbuseSurvivor #SpeakUpSpeakOut #HerStoryMatters#FromVictimToVictor #SheSurvived #BraveNotBroken#HealingJourney
Ep103— Clifton Simmons
Dating on the road as a comedian, looking to settle down, and almost getting robbed at gunpoint. Clifton Simmons. A true Jack of all trades in the entertainment industry, Clifton has wowed audiences with his poetry, left them holding their sides with his comedy, and enlightened people with his intelligence. The unapologetically original Clifton was even nominated “Best Comic in San Antonio” by the San Antonio Current Magazine.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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Ep102— K-Ann The Travel Chick
Kristiann, a 36-year-old model and self-employed designer, recently shared a viral TikTok video expressing her frustration with the dating world. In today’s episode, she reveals how an online dating scam cost her $90,000. She also talks about the qualities she believes men lack, her vision of the perfect first date, and the reasons she has decided to give up on dating.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here
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#DatingDiaries #ModernDating #DatingChronicles #RelationshipGoals #LoveInTheAir #DateNightVibes #DatingFails #RomanticMoments #rudeadvice #kristiannthetravelchick
Ep101— Divorce Attorney Dennis Vetrano
In this episode, divorce attorney Dennis Vetrano shares insights on common questions surrounding the divorce process. With a focus on clarity and compassion, Vetrano provides practical advice for navigating the emotional and legal complexities of ending a marriage.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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#DivorceMadeSimple #FreshStartAfterDivorce #CoParentingTip #ProtectYourAssets #DivorceReality
#BreakingUpSmart #DivorceJourney #dennisvetrano
Ep100— 10 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Contacting You
In this episode, I dive into the surprising and often confusing reasons why your ex keeps reaching out. From unresolved emotions and lingering guilt to seeking validation or even boredom, we uncover the psychology behind their behavior. Tune in to explore ten common motives, how to interpret their actions, and what it means for your journey to closure.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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Ep99— Why Your Ex Moved On So Fast
Why did your ex move on so quickly? In this video, we explore the psychology behind fast rebounds, what it really means, and how it’s not a reflection of your worth. Stick around for actionable tips to heal, rebuild your confidence, and thrive after heartbreak.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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#BreakupAdvice #HealingAfterHeartbreak #MoveOnWithConfidence #ExMovedOn #SelfLoveJourney #RelationshipHealing #BreakupRecovery #EmotionalGrowth #ReboundRelationships #SelfWorthMatters #HeartbreakToHealing #LettingGo #NewBeginnings #HealingTips #emotionalstrength
Ep98— Four San Antonio women spill the tea on what men are getting *so* wrong in dating. From first-date disasters, deal-breakers, and social media, they’re dishing out unfiltered truths. If your dating life’s a mess, their brutal insights might be the wake-up call you need!
Analysa- https://www.instagram.com/_analysaaa
Daisy- https://www.instagram.com/ohhhdaisypetals
Alejandra- https://www.instagram.com/aly_berry.24
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1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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#DatingStruggles #ModernRomance #SwipeFatigue #DatingRedFlags #SingleAndThriving #podcast #moderndating #datingadvice #datingapptips
Ep97—In this provocative episode, we delve into the unspoken truths about what men truly crave. You will be shocked. My guest, Sweet Mystery, a spicy content creator for over 12 years, shares what she has seen firsthand. We explore relationships, intimacy, and the deeper psychology behind male desires. Again, you think you know, but you will be shocked.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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