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Rude Advice Podcast
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With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.
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EP- 121 Realizing your marriage is over is one of the heaviest moments a person can face. You haven’t said anything yet. No one knows. But deep down, you know the truth.What you do in this silent moment will determine whether you walk away prepared… or devastated.In this video, I break down 5 critical steps to take BEFORE telling your spouse — so you can protect your finances, your mental health, and your future.If you’re facing separation or divorce, this guidance can help you move forward with clarity instead of chaos.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #startingover #movingon #lifeafterdivorce #datingafterdivorce
EP- 120 In this engaging podcast episode, the host along with @AdamDoesMovies and @CodyLeachYT discuss various themes surrounding relationships, video game adaptations, and personal growth. They delve into the complexities of marriage, the impact of social media on perceptions of happiness, and the importance of communication. The conversation also touches on the challenges of adapting video games into films, highlighting the frequent failures in execution. Throughout the episode, the hosts share personal anecdotes and insights, providing valuable advice for young couples and those navigating marital challenges. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into various themes surrounding identity, relationships, self-discovery, and the impact of technology on modern life. They explore the complexities of personal connections, the challenges of parenting in a digital age, and the evolving role of AI in creativity and filmmaking. The discussion is both humorous and insightful, touching on personal experiences and societal observations.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #startingover #movingon #lifeafterdivorce #datingafterdivorce
EP- 119 In this conversation, Racquel shares her unexpected journey to viral fame, reflecting on her marriage, divorce, and the lessons learned along the way. She discusses the importance of accountability in relationships, the impact of social media on perceptions of love, and the challenges of navigating the dating world post-divorce. Racquel emphasizes the significance of self-reflection and personal growth, offering valuable advice for young couples and those considering marriage. The conversation highlights the complexities of modern relationships and the importance of finding happiness within oneself before seeking it in others.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #startingover #movingon #lifeafterdivorce #datingafterdivorce
EP 118 - In this episode, Rudy discusses the challenges of modern dating, especially for those re-entering the dating scene after a divorce or long-term relationship.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #startingover #movingon #lifeafterdivorce #datingafterdivorce #
EP 116- If you keep excusing bad behavior, walking on eggshells, or feeling drained instead of supported, this video is for you. I break down 10 clear signs you’re in a toxic relationship—from control and manipulation to emotional neglect—so you can stop second-guessing your reality. Recognizing the pattern is the first step to protecting your peace and choosing better. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#dating #divorce #relationships #moderndating #emotionalhealth #datingapps #ghosting #situationships, #compatibility #toxic #toxicrelationships
EP 115 - In this video, I break down 10 real reasons your ex keeps checking your social media. If you’re stuck wondering “Why won’t they leave me alone?” or “Does this mean they want me back?”—this video will give you clarity without feeding false hope.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#exkeepswatchingmystories #getoveryourex #breakupcoach #breakupadvice #getoveryourex #nocontactrule
EP 114 - In this episode of the Rood Advice Podcast, Rudy A discusses the complexities of marriage, particularly focusing on the disconnect that can occur when individuals marry young. He emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and personal growth before committing to a lifelong partnership. Through analyzing a woman's perspective on her marriage, Rudy highlights the feelings of resentment and the impact of evolving life paths on relationships. He advocates for taking time to understand oneself and the potential consequences of marrying too early, ultimately encouraging listeners to learn from the experiences of others.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#relationships #personalgrowth #young #marriage #resentment #divorce #selfdiscovery #commitment #lifeexperiences #communication #marriage
EP 113 - This video breaks down the 10 most important conversations every couple must have before getting married, the ones most people avoid until it’s too late. We cover expectations around money, boundaries, conflict, kids, and emotional needs, so there are no surprises after the wedding. If you want to protect your future marriage and avoid preventable heartbreak, this is a conversation you can’t afford to skip.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#marriageadvice #divorce #beforeyougetmarried #rudeadvice #avoiddivorce
Ep 112 - TikTok star Tatiana from tatiscreepystories joins me for an unforgettable Halloween episode. With over 1.6 million followers, Tatiana has built a following by sharing her personal paranormal experiences. And today, Tatiana and I dive into ghosts, relationships, breakups, getting back with your EX and personal growth while exploring the influence of social media. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagramKeywords#ex #relationships #sociamedia #paranormal #experiences #spiritualguidance #attractingspirits #darktopics #drama, #relationships #breakups #marriage #divorce #self-worth
Ep 110- In this episode, Rudy, Cody, and Charles dive into community, friendship, and how sexuality and free speech are evolving in today’s digital age. With humor and honesty, they tackle racism, cancel culture, and shifting cultural norms. We also explore modern dating—hygiene, apps, incels, height expectations, sex dolls, and the economics of sex work—while unpacking double standards, cultural differences, and the importance of open communication in relationships and fantasies.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#podcast, #community, #friendship #popculture #sexuality #media #freedomofspeech #socialmedia #racism #cancelculture #hygiene #datingapps #incels #height #masturbation #sexdolls #sexwork #sexuality #relationships #communication #codyleach #joeyswoll
Ep109 - In this episode, Heather Nielsen from Fight the Beast dives deep into helping men break free from porn addiction and heal sexual intimacy struggles. We unpack the “intimacy deadlock” couples get stuck in—where emotional walls and past resentments kill connection. Heather breaks down why honest conversations about sex and porn are crucial for real intimacy. Plus, we tackle the messy reality of modern dating and how technology is reshaping how we connect — for better or worse. If you’re ready to get real about love, sex, and healing, this one’s for you.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#pornaddiction #porn #relationship #advice #heathernielsen
Ep108- Still stuck on your ex and wondering why you can’t move on? In this video, I break down the 5 real reasons you're emotionally stuck—and spoiler alert, it's not just because you "miss them." From unhealthy patterns to false hope, we’re cutting through the BS. Hit play if you’re ready to stop checking their page and start getting your life back.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1-Hour Session HereFree Guide- 5 Reasons Why You Can't Get Over Your EXSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#getoveryourex #breakupadvice #howtomoveon #whydoigobacktomyex #BreakupAdvice #CantGetOverMyEx #HealingAfterHeartbreak #LetThemGo #ToxicLove #MoveOnTips #BreakupTruths #ExDetox #NoContactNoClosure #RealTalkRelationships #RudeAdvice #RelationshipRecovery #HeartbreakHelp #WhyYoureStuck #KnowYourWorth
Ep107— After a breakup or divorce, it’s important to heal before jumping back into the dating scene. This episode explores 10 key signs that indicate you’re emotionally, mentally, and practically ready to start dating again, from self-confidence to letting go of past baggage. Whether you’re unsure or just need reassurance, this guide will help you navigate the transition with clarity and confidence.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram
Ep106— Kayle The Dating CollectiveKayle is a dating coach on TikTok that I have been following for some time and we discuss common dating struggles for men and women. Practical tips on confidence, body language, and conversation starters to help men approach women effectively.COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram
Ep105— Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling DivisionSince 2015, I have noticed a shift in how people communicate and behave. Meaningful conversations seem to be fading, and genuine listening has become rare. We are more divided than ever.Social media plays a significant role in spreading hate and division. From toxic comment sections to algorithm-driven outrage, digital platforms amplify hostility, polarize communities, and fuel misinformation. But is social media truly designed to bring us together, or is it pushing us further apart?COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCESGet specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session HereSEE WHAT I AM UP TOYoutubeTiktokFacebookInstagram#DigitalDivide #SocialMediaCrisis #HateGoesViral #BreakTheEchoChamber #ListenMoreSpeakLess #UnplugTheHate #ReclaimConversation #BeyondTheAlgorithm #DividedByDesign #FixSocialMedia
Ep102— K-Ann The Travel Chick
Kristiann, a 36-year-old model and self-employed designer, recently shared a viral TikTok video expressing her frustration with the dating world. In today’s episode, she reveals how an online dating scam cost her $90,000. She also talks about the qualities she believes men lack, her vision of the perfect first date, and the reasons she has decided to give up on dating.
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Ep100— 10 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Contacting You
In this episode, I dive into the surprising and often confusing reasons why your ex keeps reaching out. From unresolved emotions and lingering guilt to seeking validation or even boredom, we uncover the psychology behind their behavior. Tune in to explore ten common motives, how to interpret their actions, and what it means for your journey to closure.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
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Ep99— Why Your Ex Moved On So Fast
Why did your ex move on so quickly? In this video, we explore the psychology behind fast rebounds, what it really means, and how it’s not a reflection of your worth. Stick around for actionable tips to heal, rebuild your confidence, and thrive after heartbreak.
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 1 Hour Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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Ep96—Breakups are tough, but handling them the right way can lead to growth and healing. In this video, we share 5 essential tips for men to navigate the heartbreak, rebuild confidence, and come out stronger on the other side. Whether you're struggling with emotions, looking for ways to move on, or trying to rediscover yourself, this video is here to help. 💪
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce
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Ep95—Three local women from San Antonio share their honest and unfiltered takes on what men are getting wrong in the dating world. From cringe-worthy first dates to deal breakers, they dive deep into the most common mistakes and missed opportunities. If you’ve ever wondered why your love life isn’t going as planned, these insights might just hold the answers. Tune in for real talk, and rude advice.
Kara- https://www.instagram.com/karaspence
Samantha- https://www.instagram.com/daaamnsaaam
https://www.instagram.com/em.ilykaye
COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES
Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!
6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce
1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here- https://stan.store/Rudy_A
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