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Solo & So Well - Self-care, Daily Habits, Wellness, Time Management, Solo Parenting, Single Parenting Help, Military Spouse, Find Your Purpose
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Solo & So Well - Self-care, Daily Habits, Wellness, Time Management, Solo Parenting, Single Parenting Help, Military Spouse, Find Your Purpose

Author: Heidi Chirkoff - Mindset Coach, Wellness Coach, Life Coach for Women, Stressed Out Mom, Overwhelmed Mom

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Are you a mama that often solo parents while your partner works away?  Are you struggling to keep it together, and balancing all the things on your own? Do you have a hard time setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care? Do you wonder if more joy, peace, and fulfillment is possible for you in this season of life?

 

The Solo & So Well podcast is a landing spot for all the mamas out there struggling in their solo parenting roles. If that’s you, I want you to know you are safe, seen, and supported here. This is a judgement-free, real talk, value packed, and encouraging community. You are not alone in this season of hardship, and you will come out the other side, brighter and stronger than ever!

 

I’m your host Heidi Chirkoff, I know what you need, because I needed it too. It wasn’t that long ago that I was having an extremely hard time in the day-to-day - with two small boys, one on the way, a strained marriage, and loss of identity/purpose. I felt alone, I felt overwhelmed, I felt resentful, I felt like I was failing as a mother, and I felt guilty for feeling the way I felt. At the time, I didn’t know how to get “unstuck”, but I knew I needed to start making some changes, for myself, my kids, and my marriage – and that it was up to me, and only me, to start making them.

 

In my desperate search for solutions, I found some things that worked, and some that didn’t. And now that I’ve come out on the other side, I want to share everything I’ve learned. Here at Solo & So Well, we focus on you, the Mom. Even though it may not feel like it right now, you are the anchoring presence in your home, you are the glue, the tone setter, the gatekeeper, the one who knows all, and has actual superpowers. Don’t let that pressure you, let it empower you. A better life starts with you! When you start to rise – the whole family will rise with you.

 

My mission with this podcast is to be a guiding light, that shows other mamas the way to more joy, peace, and fulfillment - TODAY.  It’s time to stop living in auto pilot, in struggle and survival mode – and start taking ownership of your life, one that is full of vibrancy and purpose. You were made for more! I know it, and you know it! We are going to shift you from always having life happen to you – to life starting to happen for you.  

Big change starts with itty bitty, consistent, daily action.

Every time you press play on this podcast, the weight of it all gets lighter.

 So let’s get started!  

 

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Send us a text Hey Mama! Still feeling like you're in holiday mode? Haven’t quite stepped into the new year groove yet? That’s okay! In this episode, we’re taking a gentle and grounded approach to help you move forward with clarity and purpose. I’ll guide you through anchoring yourself in the intention you set for the year (and if you haven’t done that yet, I encourage you to go back and listen to last week’s episode!). Then, we’ll break down those big goals and visions for the year into bit...
Send us a text Hey Mamas! The holidays are behind us, and it’s time to take a deep breath and check in. How are you feeling, Mama? In this episode, I’m sharing a little about my Christmas—why it felt calmer and more joyful this year, even with sickness, messed up sleep schedules, derailed plans, my husband not getting home until Christmas Eve. I’m also inviting you to shift your mindset as we head into the new year. Instead of setting lofty New Year’s resolutions that often fizzl...
Send us a text Hey mama! It's mid-December, and holiday prep is in full swing! How are we doing out there? The holidays can feel overwhelming, but what if you could carve out just 30 minutes to shift from chaos to calm? From overwhelmed to in control? In this episode, I walk you through a simple yet powerful process to reset, refocus, and recharge during the busiest season of the year. Whether you're navigating holiday to-dos, family dynamics, or just the everyday hustle and bustle, ...
Send us a text Hey mama! The holiday season is here, and with it comes an abundance of joy, connection—and sometimes stress, overwhelm, and burnout... In this episode, Setting Healthy Boundaries to Protect Your Energy and Peace Over the Holidays, we’re diving into practical strategies to help you safeguard your well-being during this busy time. We’ll explore how to get clear on your core values and non-negotiables, and use them as a guide to set intentional, healthy boundaries. You’ll also ...
Send us a text Hey Mama! The holiday season is here, and while it’s often filled with joy and celebration, it can also be a time of stress, overwhelm, and burnout. In today’s episode, I’m sharing three simple yet powerful wellness tips to help you prioritize yourself during this busy season. From staying well-hydrated to the importance of quality sleep, and carving out just 5-10 minutes a day for you—these small, intentional practices can make a world of difference in how you feel physically...
Send us a text Hey mama! As we wrap up 2024, I’m taking a moment to reflect on some of the most meaningful wins from this year- both personal and professional. In this episode, I’m sharing my top 10 wins, from launching my coaching practice, to making over our bedroom, crossing the finish line of a Spartan Race alongside my family, buying our first travel trailer, and creating this podcast to connect with all of you each week! Listen in as I dive into everything that made this year memorable:...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Are you and your partner often missing the mark on each other’s needs and expectations? And one or both of you is left feeling frustrated or resentful when things don't go accordingly? In today’s episode, we dive into a game-changer for getting on the same page with your partner during his time home—“Toolbox Meetings.” This simple morning check-in practice has helped us prioritize each other’s needs and align our day so that we’re working as a team. Toolb...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Want to get into better shape, live a healthier lifestyle, or become a more calm, patient, and loving mom? In this episode of Solo & So Well, we’re exploring the transformative power of spending just five minutes a day imagining your ideal self. This simple daily visualization technique is like setting your inner compass—it helps bring clarity to your goals, reduce anxiety, and align your daily actions with the person you truly want to be. Imagine yourself embody...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Welcome back to another insightful episode of the Solo & So Well podcast! I’m your host, Master Life & Wellness Coach for Moms, Heidi Chirkoff. Today, we’re tackling a common struggle that many of us face: anxiety. If you have an on-going, nagging feeling of anxiousness, and you're not really sure where it's coming from... this episode is for you. In this episode, we’ll explore how the distance between your current self and your ideal self can con...
Send us a text Hey mamas! Welcome back to another episode of Solo & So Well. I'm your host and Master Life & Wellness Coach Heidi Chirkoff. Thanks for being here today! I'm really looking forward to diving into todays topic because I know its something a lot of moms struggle with—making real, meaningful connections. As adults, and especially as moms, building friendships can feel awkward and challenging, but I truly believe that having a couple of solid mom friends can be life-changin...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Welcome back to the Solo & So Well podcast with your host, Heidi Chirkoff, Master Life & Wellness Coach for Moms. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a thought-provoking topic: "3 Reasons Why Parenting Support Might Not Actually Be What You Need Right Now." Parenting is tough, no question about it. But sometimes, the real breakthrough doesn’t come from more parenting tools or strategies. Instead, it comes from focusing on YOU—your well-being, your energy, a...
Send us a text Hey mama! I’m so grateful you're here today! In this episode of The Solo & So Well Podcast, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many moms: burnout and the challenges of asking for help. If you're feeling overwhelmed, overworked, and totally run down, it’s natural to wonder why asking for help feels so hard. Today, I’m breaking down 5 common reasons why a mom in burnout might hesitate to reach out for support—from perfectionism to past negative experiences—and ho...
Send us a text Hey Mama! I know you have a lot going on, and I’m so grateful you chose to tune in today. If you pressed play on this episode, I truly believe there’s something here meant just for you. Whether it’s a small nugget of wisdom, actional step, or a new perspective, I hope you find comfort and clarity as we explore a topic that so many of us face as moms: burnout. Burnout in motherhood goes beyond physical exhaustion—it touches every aspect of our lives. In today’s episode, we’ll di...
Send us a text Hey Mama! In today’s episode, we’re focusing on something that can truly shift your mood, energy, and overall state—daily self-check-ins. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re running on empty, this episode is for you. I’ll be walking you through a simple, three-question check-in practice that takes just a few minutes but can have a huge impact on how you feel throughout the day. We’ll dive into why it’s important to pause, reflect, and acknowledge h...
Send us a text Hey Mamas! Feeling a bit tense as we step into the fall season? But also feeling so ready for change? In this episode of the Solo & So Well Podcast, I share three practical tips to help you create a restorative seasonal self-care plan that aligns with the natural rhythm of fall. Fall is the perfect time to reset, recharge, and refocus on what truly matters as we head into the holidays and wrap up 2024. We'll explore how to: Let Go & Invite In: A guided journaling exerci...
Send us a text Hey Mama! In this episode of the Solo & So Well podcast, I'm diving deep into the topic of self-confidence and why it’s something you build, not something you simply "get." If you're a mom feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in survival mode—especially if you’re holding down the fort while your partner is away for work—this episode is for you. Today, we explore why confidence is built through action, self-trust, and self-worth, and how these elements are essential for...
Send us a text Hey Mama! How is the back to school transition going? How are you feeling heading into the last quarter of this year? It's mind blowing to me that summer is already over and 2024 is soon coming to an end! Like, HOW?! Last year, our oldest started kindergarten so it was the first time we were sending our kid "back to school". Needless to say, I was a MESS. I was excited, I was nervous, I had a lot of questions, concerns, doubts. I put an insane amount of pressure on myself to...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Are you ready to step into your thrive era? Well, you absolutely can! And it starts with you - ALL of you. Join me today for a beautiful conversation with the "hormone queen" Amy Lenius! We chat all about women's health, self-advocacy, loving your body, finding your purpose, and building self-worth. Amy has a truly holistic approach to serving the women and Moms in her community. I know you are going to walk away from this conversation feeling empowered and equip...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Are bedtimes a struggle for you? Are you finding that you are filled with dread when that time of day is nearing? Are the daily bedtime battles leaving you feeling totally wiped and defeated by the end of the day? Ya, they were for me too. I feel you, Mama! Bedtimes were becoming such a cause of stress and angst for me, and knew I needed to make some changes! I needed more calm, joy, and peace to this part of our day- so I made some adjustments that gave us more of ...
Send us a text Hey Mama! Do I have a treat for you today! Have you been a little tense? Are you having a hard time finding yourself and your way in motherhood? Do you feel like you are alone in your struggle? Do you wish you had more tools in your toolbox to help center you, bring your shine back, and bring more calm to your day? Well, I think you are really going to enjoy this episode/ conversation. Joining us on the show today, is Embodiment Coach and a fellow mama of three, Gloria M...
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