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Sex, Love, and the Self

Sex, Love, and the Self
Author: Jaclyn Lanae
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Empowering ourselves to love our lives - MORE. If all of life and the associated experiences are a classroom, relationships are our tutors. Exploring relationships; what they look like, how they work, how we work in them, who we ARE in them... is a fascinating and often comical way to explore ourselves and our collective society. And subsequently make adjustments to better ourselves, our communities, and - of course - our relationships.
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We all know communication is key in relationships, particularly when we're facing conflict. But is there a key to communication? Coach Jaclyn Lanae and relationship counselor Terry Irvine discuss the ways that curiosity in communication can help to move us through the challenges romantic partnerships can bring to heal ourselves and our relationships. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
More dates does not necessarily equal a higher probability of creating a great connection. Nor a great relationship. Coach Ellyn and I discuss why we get burned out in dating, and how we can create great relationships by being more authentic. More intentional. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
How breaking the conventional "rules" in relationships can actually help us to have healthier, happier, relationships. Understanding why we believe relationships need to be a certain way to be successful. Creating better relationships by being more authentic versions of ourselves IN them. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
In this episode we discuss how loving and accepting ourselves for who and how we are in the world can help us to create or enhance romantic relationships. From body image issues to working through the idea that empowered people are "too independent" for relationships, we get into a variety of topics, exploring how empowering ourselves to love who we are more deeply can improve our relationships and our lives. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
In this episode we hear the story of a woman that is holding onto a relationship that isn't working and explore WHY. We also talk about how she could potentially release that pattern, and IF she should release that pattern. Additionally, we discuss two women's quest for a relationship and explore ideas around how they can adjust their energies and perspectives in relationships to manifest genuinely wonderful partners. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
This is a SHORTIE. I inadvertently had to take a brief hiatus from the Podcast, and I just want to catch everybody up on why... and talk about the new stuff coming! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
I believe that self love can change EVERYTHING. It can (and will) change you, your life, your circumstances, your relationships... but I believe it can also change the world. People who deeply love themselves don't need money and power over others to show their worth to the world. They don't need to demean or control others in order to feel like they're "right". I learned so much about self love as I healed through some BIG traumas. And I want to share it with the world. This is that story. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
We think we know who we are. And we do. But there are so many layers to the reality of who we are that we might not be aware of. Discover new depths of your understanding of yourself by un-labeling yourself. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Can there be connection with out understanding? What happens when we feel like the people that hold the most intimate places in our lives don't really understand us? What can we do when we feel like they just can't LOVE us right? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Nobody likes to be wrong. But there's a tremendous power in owning it when we are. And all kinds of ways we can empower ourselves in BEING wrong - particularly in relationships. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Yes, we need to be prepared for challenges that come up in our lives. But is it possible we're taking it too far? Is it possible we're not ENJOYING our lives because we're trying to avoid being hurt? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
When things go wrong in our lives, is that a sign that we're doing the wrong thing? Learning to trust our higher, divine energy selves can help us to actually receive what we want. What we're meant to have. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Envy is an inherently human emotion. But is it always bad? In this episode we explore how we can use envy to take a new perspective and help us grow. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
We KNOW things... our bodies, our intuition is constantly feeding us messages. But which ones are fear and which ones are encouragement forward? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Around here, we believe in magic. Or, more pointedly, energy. And our ability to adjust our energy in order to CHANGE. OUR. LIVES. In this episode, we talk about a few of the ways "magic" has come to pass for us personally. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
2024 is finally here! We're ECSTATIC to embrace whatever changes will come this year to chase our Squirrel Dreams. More than that, however, we're ecstatic to help YOU chase YOURS. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
2023 was a DOOZY. For many (most?) of us. But there's a lot of good in there too. And we can use it to make 2024 a better year. For real this time. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
Yes, we know the patriarchy needs to be fixed. Or, rather, destroyed - and then new systems rebuilt. But how can we do that if we aren't activists or community leaders? Is it possible to take down the broken patriarchal systems with LOVE? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com
We know that life is change, that ultimately, everything is temporary. In life, that can be a fun and wonderful perspective. In relationships however, it can mean that we will experience pain. If relationships are temporary, are they worth investing ourselves in? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jaclynlanae.substack.com