From Foster to Forever

Dyslexia isn’t just a reading problem—it’s a whole brain vibe! In our chat today, we dive into some eye-opening insights with Russell Van Broecklin, a dyslexia researcher who's got the lowdown on how dyslexia works and why it’s not as straightforward as folks think. He lays down the truth that while dyslexics might read and write slower, their brains are firing on all cylinders when it comes to thinking. So, if you’ve got a kiddo who’s struggling, don’t sweat it! Russell shares some killer strategies for helping them thrive academically, even if traditional methods have made them feel like they’re swimming upstream. Join us as we unravel the myths and equip ourselves with some solid tools to help our little learners soar! Dyslexia is often misunderstood as a simple reading issue, but let me tell you, it’s way more complex than that. Russell Van Broecklin, our guest on the podcast, dives deep into the nuances of dyslexia, sharing his own journey and expertise as a New York State funded dyslexia researcher. He reveals that while dyslexics might read and write slower than their peers, they often think and process information faster, which flips the script on how we perceive learning difficulties. Throughout our conversation, Russell emphasizes the importance of recognizing the unique cognitive strengths dyslexics possess, which can lead to incredible academic and personal success when properly supported. He recounts his own experiences in law school, where he not only navigated the challenges of dyslexia but thrived, showcasing that with the right strategies, dyslexics can outperform even the best and brightest at institutions like Harvard. A standout moment from the episode is when he shares his research findings, revealing that he helped students go from struggling to thriving, often at a fraction of the cost of traditional approaches. It’s a game-changer for parents and educators alike, showing that understanding and tailored interventions can lead to phenomenal outcomes for dyslexic children.Takeaways:Dyslexia isn't just about reading; it's a whole brain organization thing that can affect writing too.Contrary to popular belief, dyslexics can learn to read better than many traditionally 'smart' kids.With the right strategies, dyslexics can think faster than their peers, especially in higher education settings.Identifying dyslexia early is crucial; if you suspect your child has it, get them tested by professionals as soon as possible.Links referenced in this episode:FromFosterToForever.comFosterToForeverpodcastdyslexiaclasses.comdyslexiaclasses.comMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rachel sits down with functional medicine physician and adoptive father Dr. Aaron Hartman to explore how early trauma, environmental factors, and holistic healthcare can shape the lives of foster and adopted children.Dr. Hartman shares the story of adopting his daughters through foster care and how his journey parenting a child with complex medical needs transformed his medical practice. Together, Rachel and Dr. Hartman discuss navigating the healthcare system, advocating for special-needs children, and practical ways families can support neurodivergent kids—emotionally, nutritionally, and medically.This conversation offers hope, validation, and actionable guidance for foster, adoptive, and kinship parents navigating complex challenges.🌱 In This Episode, We Discuss:Dr. Hartman’s journey adopting and his challenges with the system - being wrongful accused and having to defend himself without being defensive and taking it personally.Parenting children with medical and developmental challengesNavigating Child Protective Services and medical advocacyWhy early intervention can change a child’s life trajectoryFunctional and integrative medicine approaches for kidsGut health, nutrition, and brain developmentSupporting children with autism, ADHD, and trauma historiesHypermobility, low tone, and nutritional needsPractical strategies for families with limited resourcesFood sensitivities, picky eating, and reducing sugar dependencyAttachment struggles and building emotional safetyEnvironmental health, mold, and chemical exposureThe connection between soil, food quality, and human healthThoughtful, individualized approaches to vaccinesWhy parents must become strong advocates for their children💡 Key Takeaways✨ Handling the system with grace and ease. ✨ Early support and personalized care can dramatically improve long-term outcomes for children with special needs. ✨ Nutrition, gut health, and environment play a major role in brain and behavioral health. ✨ Attachment and emotional safety are essential for healing trauma. ✨ Parents don’t need perfection—but education, curiosity, and persistence matter. ✨ Hope is always possible, even with “hopeless” diagnoses.❤️ About Our GuestDr. Aaron Hartman is a functional and integrative medicine physician, researcher, and father of three, two of whom were adopted through foster care. His personal parenting journey led him to specialize in helping children and adults with complex, chronic, and neurodevelopmental conditions through holistic, individualized care.📚 Resources MentionedUncurable: From Hopeless Diagnosis to Defying All Odds by Dr. Aaron HartmanGAPS Diet (Gut and Psychology Syndrome)Low-Dose Naltrexone (LDN)Leucovorin Environmental Working Group’s Clean 15 & Dirty DozenDr. Hartman’s website, blogs, and podcast (for free education)📣 Connect With Us✨ Subscribe & Review: ✨ Website: ✨ Instagram ✨ FacebookMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Recognizing our superpower as parents is the name of the game today, and it’s not about having all the answers. Our presence alone can be a game-changer for our kids, especially those who come from foster care and carry their own unique traumas. We’re diving deep with Jenny Hornby, a licensed counselor and trauma expert, who’s got some serious insights on how to help kids process their feelings in a safe way. We chat about EMDR therapy, which Jenny describes like taking a train ride through their experiences without reliving the trauma. So, whether you’re a seasoned foster parent or just curious about the journey, tune in for stories and tips that’ll resonate with anyone navigating the wild world of parenting! Join us as we embark on a heartfelt conversation about the power of presence in parenting, especially for those navigating the choppy waters of foster care and adoption. This episode features Jenny Hornby, a licensed counselor whose expertise in trauma therapy shines a light on the complexities of emotional healing for children. We kick things off with a discussion about EMDR therapy—an innovative approach that helps children process their trauma in a safe and structured way. Jenny explains how this technique allows kids to revisit painful memories without the overwhelming emotions that typically accompany them. By using relatable analogies, she makes the therapy sound not only effective but also approachable, inviting listeners to consider how vital it is for kids to know they aren’t alone in their struggles. The conversation shifts to Jenny's own experiences as an adoptive parent, where she shares poignant moments from her journey that resonate deeply. From the emotional intricacies of meeting her child’s birth mother to the joys and challenges of raising kids who have experienced trauma, Jenny’s stories paint a vivid picture of love and resilience. She also discusses the importance of open lines of communication and how to gently guide children through their feelings about their pasts. This relatability adds a layer of warmth and authenticity to the episode, making it a must-listen for anyone involved in or considering adoption. As we wind down, Jenny offers practical advice for parents on how to handle their children’s big emotions. She emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness for parents, reminding us that we need to check in with ourselves before we can effectively support our kids. The episode closes with a reminder that being present and allowing children to feel their emotions is one of the greatest gifts we can give them. With humor and heart, this episode serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that love, understanding, and patience can have on healing and growth for both parents and children.Takeaways:As parents, our greatest superpower is simply being there for our kids, no cap!When it comes to kids from foster care, trauma is almost a given, so we need to be prepared.EMDR therapy helps kids process trauma without reliving it, making it a game changer.Building trust with kids is crucial; it’s about showing up and letting them lead the way.Using creative methods like art and storytelling can help children express their fears and emotions.Being present is key—sometimes, just hanging out with your kid in silence can do wonders.Links referenced in this episode:fromFoster2forever.com@foster2foreverpodcastmsJennybooks.comFostering Families Today Magazine (10% off subscription)Mentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Today, we hear the heartfelt journey of David and Jill, who took the leap from being childless to adopting two beautiful siblings through the Foster to Adopt process. They share openly about how infertility led them to this path and speak about how this experience has transformed them into better people and deepened their love in ways they never imagined. From navigating the emotional rollercoaster of uncertainty, to the joys and challenges of raising toddlers who came from a tough background, their happy story is a testament to resilience and unconditional love. We chat about the importance of support systems, how to handle the unique dynamics of blended families, and the sheer joy of watching their kids thrive. So, tune in as we celebrate these non-traditional family stories that remind us that love knows no bounds! In this episode, we cover the inspiring journey of David and Jill, a couple who always wanted to be parents. When faced with infertility, they took the leap into the world of foster care and adoption. Their story isn't just about becoming parents; it's about overcoming challenges, embracing love, and the unexpected twists life throws your way. From their struggles with infertility to the joyful surprise of welcoming two sisters into their home, their candid conversation is filled with heartfelt reflections and light-hearted moments that keep the listeners engaged. They discuss how the foster-to-adopt process has transformed their lives, making them better individuals and parents, and how their love for their children runs deeper than they ever thought possible. David and Jill's experiences illustrate the highs and lows of fostering, including the emotional turmoil of potentially losing their girls when they first entered their lives. With a mix of humor and vulnerability, they recount the uncertainty of not knowing how long they would have the girls and the challenges of navigating the court system. Their honesty about the rollercoaster of emotions resonates with many, as they share the lessons learned through love, patience, and support from their community. The couple emphasizes the importance of connecting with others who understand the unique challenges of fostering, echoing the sentiment that it truly takes a village to raise a child. By sharing their journey, David and Jill not only highlight the beauty of foster care but also inspire others who may be considering this path. As they reflect on their family's growth and the love they have cultivated, listeners are left with a powerful message: the journey of parenting—whether through fostering or adopting—is filled with uncertainties, but the love that emerges from it is both profound and life-changing. This episode is a testament to the transformative power of family, no matter how it comes together.Takeaways:Becoming parents through fostering transformed us into better individuals, deepening our love.The journey from fostering to adoption can be long and emotionally challenging, but it's worth it.Having support from others who understand the challenges of fostering is absolutely priceless.Our kids, despite their tough beginnings, are full of love and joy, reminding us daily.Navigating the foster care system requires patience, faith, and a lot of love for the kids.The importance of being kind and building relationships with social workers and attorneys cannot be overstated.Companies mentioned in this episode:Foster2Forever.comThe VillageMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

This episode is a deep dive into the world of foster care - specifically, fostering a teen as a single woman. Our guest, Emily Ellett, shares her personal journey as a foster parent with candor and insight, shedding light on the realities, challenges, and heartfelt moments that come with it. We tackle the common misconceptions surrounding these kids and how the truth often varies from what’s painted for potential foster parents. Emily's experiences reveal the rollercoaster of emotions that come with fostering teens, the unexpected hurdles, and the moments that make it all worth it. We chat about the importance of having a solid support system and the need to be open about what help you might need, all while keeping it real and relatable. Listen to hear all about love, resilience, and the complexities of foster care!From Foster to Forever takes a deep dive into the heartfelt and often unpredictable world of foster parenting in its latest episode featuring audiobook narrator and singer Emily Ellet. Listeners are treated to Emily's personal journey into fostering, which began from a place of genuine desire to help children who need a stable and loving home. The episode sheds light on the rigorous certification process she underwent, which served as her introduction to the realities of foster care, while also highlighting her personal experiences with trauma and the impact it had on her journey. Throughout the episode, Emily shares candid anecdotes about her first placements, illustrating the joys and difficulties that come with fostering teens who have faced significant challenges. Her reflections reveal the complexities of navigating relationships with not just the children but also with her own family, who were unsupportive of her decision to foster. This narrative not only underscores the emotional rollercoaster of fostering but also emphasizes the importance of having a solid support system in place. Emily’s transparency about her struggles, including the miscommunication with caseworkers and the emotional toll of her experiences, offers a realistic perspective that is often overlooked. The overarching message of the episode is clear: fostering is a journey filled with challenges, but the love and connection foster parents bring to the lives of children make it a deeply rewarding endeavor. Emily's story serves as both a cautionary tale and an inspiring guide for those considering fostering, reminding listeners that while the path is not easy, it is undeniably worthwhile. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone looking to understand the realities of foster care, especially when fostering an older child.Takeaways:Fostering can be a wild ride, and it's crucial to go in with your eyes wide open about the potential challenges ahead.Getting into fostering isn't just about helping kids; it's about knowing your own limits and having a solid support system in place.The reality of foster care often differs from the rosy picture painted by agencies; transparency is key for success.Foster parents need to be aware that the kids they take in may have complicated histories that could trigger their own past traumas, especially older children and teens.Links referenced in this episode:fromfoster2forever.com@foster2foreverpodcastMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Flexibility and openness are the name of the game when it comes to fostering and adopting, and our guest, Nikki, really drives that point home today. She’s got a heartwarming story about her journey through foster care, navigating the ups and downs with grace and humor. From dealing with unexpected placements straight out of the hospital to fostering a medically fragile baby, Nikki shares the real scoop on what it’s like to open your home and heart to kids in need. We also dive into how her family adapted, the community support that came through in spades, and the bittersweet moments of attachment and letting go. So, grab your headphones and settle in for a chat that’s not just insightful but also sprinkled with wit and wisdom—perfect for anyone curious about the foster care world!Diving into the heart of foster care and adoption, we chat with Nikki Zakocs, an audiobook narrator and former foster mom who shares her journey through the often chaotic but incredibly rewarding world of fostering. From the moment she and her husband decided to open their home to children in need, Nikki emphasizes the importance of flexibility and an open mind. With three biological kids already in tow, they embarked on a deeply personal journey that began with a lot of research and conversations about what it means to be a foster family. She candidly recounts her initial hopes of adopting internationally, only to discover that the path to foster-to-adopt was not just feasible, but also filled with unexpected joys and challenges. Nikki paints a vivid picture of her first placement, a newborn baby girl who arrived just days after they were licensed, and the whirlwind of emotions that came with it, including the overwhelming feeling of court appearances and the reality of potentially having to let go of the children she grew to love. The conversation flows effortlessly as Nikki shares the ups and downs of fostering, from the excitement of welcoming new children into her home to the heart-wrenching moments of saying goodbye. She reflects on the bonds formed and the lessons learned along the way, highlighting how her experiences have shaped her family's view of love and compassion. The episode is sprinkled with humor and warmth, as Nikki recounts the hilarious and chaotic moments of having multiple kids in the house, including the supportive network of friends and community members who rallied around her family with clothes, baby supplies, and a whole lot of encouragement. We also discuss the emotional toll fostering can take on both parents and biological children, yet how it ultimately opens their hearts and minds to the realities of life for many children in the system. As we wrap up, Nikki shares her insights on keeping the connection with biological families and how her views have shifted over the years. She champions the idea that fostering is not just about providing a temporary home, but about being part of a larger family narrative that includes birth families, reinforcing the importance of understanding and compassion in a child’s life. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone considering fostering or simply wanting to understand the complexities of foster care better.Takeaways:Flexibility and an open mindset are essential when entering the world of foster care.The experience of fostering can profoundly change your perspective on life and parenting.Involving your biological children in the foster care process can provide valuable lessons about empathy and community.The emotional attachment formed during fostering is real and can lead to heart-wrenching goodbyes when children are reunified with their families.Links referenced in this episode:FromFosterToForever.comFosterToForeverPodcast (Instagram)Save 10% of Fostering Families Today MagazineMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Kanika Vasudeva joins us today to dive into the mystical realm of the Akashic Records and the art of energy expansion. We kick things off by exploring what the Akashic Records really are—think of them as a cosmic library filled with everything about your life and soul's journey. Kanika encourages us to embrace our curiosity and even our skepticism, reminding us that accessing this wealth of knowledge is not just for the “gifted” but is open to anyone willing to explore. We chat about how tapping into these records can help folks navigate their paths to building non-traditional families, especially when it comes to fostering and adoption. Plus, we dish out some real talk on how to handle the emotional rollercoaster that comes with these journeys, showing how understanding our soul contracts can provide clarity and closure amidst the chaos. So, whether you’re a seasoned spiritual seeker or just a curious newbie, this episode is packed with insights to help you on your journey! Kanika Vasudeva joins us to unravel the fascinating concept of the Akashic Records, a mystical library that holds all the secrets of our lives. If you're curious about how this cosmic database can guide you in your foster-to-adopt journey, you're in for a treat! Kanika likens the Akashic Records to a Google Drive for your soul, where you can access everything from past life experiences to insights about your current relationships. She passionately explains that anyone can tap into their records, no special training required—just a willingness to ask for help and an open heart. Rachel shares her own emotional rollercoaster concerning infertility and the profound belief that certain souls are destined to join our families. This leads us to discuss how the Akashic Records can provide clarity and healing for those experiencing the loss of a child or the challenges that come with fostering. Kanika reassures us that we can connect with the souls of children who are meant to be part of our lives, offering a sense of closure and understanding during tough times. The conversation takes a practical turn as Kanika shares actionable insights about using the Akashic Records to navigate parenting challenges, particularly in fostering scenarios where trauma and uncertainty often lurk. The episode wraps up with an emphasis on intention and the power of energy work to create safe spaces for our kids. If you’re looking to deepen your connection with your children and understand the bigger picture of your family's journey, this episode is packed with wisdom and warmth. Get ready to explore the realms of energy healing and the Akashic Records with Kanika Vasudeva!Takeaways:The Akashic Records are like a mystical library storing all the juicy details of your life, including past lives and soul contracts, so anyone can access them to understand their story better.Kanika encourages everyone to give energy work a shot, even if it feels a bit out there—there's zero harm in asking the universe for help when you're feeling stuck or confused.Understanding your soul contracts, especially in the context of fostering and adopting, can provide closure and clarity on your journey—it's all about learning and evolving together.It's crucial to recognize that while life can seem unfair at times, there's often a bigger lesson at play, helping us grow and understand our purpose more deeply.The importance of receiving help can't be overstated; sometimes, you just gotta let go and trust the universe to guide you through tough times.Even kids can benefit from energy work, as it helps them process trauma and feel safer in their environment—it's all about creating that loving, supportive space.Links referenced in this episode:artoflifecenter.comfromfoster2forever.comfoster2foreverpodcast (Instagram)Fostering Families Today Magazine (save 10%)Mentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Martha Chaput drops some real talk with us today about the rollercoaster of fostering and adopting children. She shares her heart-wrenching experiences of loving and letting go, highlighting how important it is to make decisions centered on the child's well-being, even when it’s tough. We dive into the nitty-gritty of navigating the foster system, the moments of joy, the heartbreak, and the blessings that come from opening your heart to these kids. Martha’s candid reflections will make you laugh, cry, and rethink what family truly means. So grab your favorite snack, kick back, and join us for this heartfelt convo that’s all about love, resilience, and the beautiful messiness of family life!Takeaways:Martha Chaput shares her emotional journey through fostering and adoption, highlighting the challenges and joys, especially that come along with reunification.The conversation touches on the complexities of the foster care system and how it impacts both children and foster parents.Martha emphasizes the importance of being educated about the foster system before diving in, urging others to attend informational meetings.They discuss the heart-wrenching experiences of loving a child and then having to let them go, illustrating the emotional toll of fostering.Martha's story reveals how connections with biological families can shape the future for adopted children, stressing the value of maintaining those ties.The podcast dives into the idea of fostering older children and how that could be a different, yet rewarding experience for families.Fostering can be a wild ride, and Martha Chaput’s journey is no exception! In this laid-back yet deeply engaging episode, host Rachel Fulginiti and Martha dive into the nitty-gritty of foster parenting, sharing laughter, tears, and plenty of heartwarming stories. Martha kicks things off by sharing her initial motivations for fostering, which stem from a lifelong dream of having a big family. The chat quickly shifts to the bumps along the way, including the emotional rollercoaster of her first placements—experiences that left her with more questions than answers and a deeper understanding of the complexities of the foster care system. As the conversation flows, Martha opens up about the challenges of navigating visits with biological parents and the heartbreak of letting go of children she had grown to love. It’s not all sad, though; she also shares uplifting moments, too. Martha’s stories are filled with wit and warmth, making them relatable while shedding light on the real struggles foster parents face. She emphasizes the value of having a support system—mentors who get it and are there to guide you through the ups and downs. Towards the end, Martha offers some solid advice for those considering fostering. She encourages folks to take that first step, attend an orientation, and keep an open mind. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt reminder that, whether for a brief moment or a lifetime, fostering is all about making a difference in a child’s life. Martha’s journey is a testament to the love and resilience that foster families embody, and this episode is a must-listen for anyone intrigued by the foster care experience.Links referenced in this episode:fromfoster2forever.com@foster2foreverpodcast (Instagram)Fostering Families Today Magazine (10% off)Mentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

This week, we’re diving deep into the whirlwind journey of foster care and adoption with our guest, Bonnie Butler. She shares her story of going from contemplating stepping back from the foster system to unexpectedly adopting a sibling set of six kids—yeah, you heard that right, six! We talk about the real struggles and triumphs of blending families, navigating trauma, and finding emotional balance in the chaos. Bonnie’s insights on emotional intelligence for foster parents are gold, especially when dealing with the unique challenges that come with fostering traumatized children. So get ready for a heartfelt chat packed with wisdom, humor, and insight.Ever thought about adopting a whole sibling set? Bonnie Butler did, and she’s here to tell us all about it. In this episode, she shares her journey from a family of four to suddenly embracing six new faces—five girls and one boy. Talk about a plot twist! Bonnie’s storytelling is both humorous and heartfelt as she recounts the initial shock and the whirlwind of emotions that followed the unexpected call to adopt. The episode unpacks not just the logistical challenges of accommodating six kids, but also the emotional hurdles that come with fostering children from tumultuous backgrounds. Bonnie reflects on how her family navigated the chaos, learned to set boundaries, and ultimately transformed their lives into one big, messy, loving family. With a blend of laughter and empathy, she discusses the invaluable lessons learned along the way, emphasizing the importance of patience, understanding, and the magic of everyday moments that make the journey worthwhile. It’s a beautiful reminder that every family is unique, and sometimes, the most unconventional paths lead to the most incredible stories.Takeaways:The Universe truly has impeccable timing, as demonstrated by the unexpected call to adopt six kids.Navigating foster care and adoption can be a wild ride, filled with emotional highs and lows.Creating a loving and structured environment is essential for helping traumatized children heal.It's crucial for foster parents to focus on self-care and stress management while fostering.Links referenced in this episode:bonniebutlercoaching.combonnieanniebutlercoaching.comfromfostertoforever.comfoster2foreverpodcast.com

Mary Fields shares her deeply personal journey of resilience and healing on the podcast, emphasizing that kindness can be a powerful tool for change. Growing up in the foster care system, she faced immense challenges that could have turned her bitter, but instead, she found strength in the support of kind individuals along the way. As an author of the memoir "Forever and a Day," Mary opens up about her experiences, including the struggle of reconciling her past trauma with her present as a mother of four. In a candid conversation with host Rachel, they dive into how humor became a coping mechanism and the importance of recognizing the inner child's voice. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of survival, compassion, and the transformative power of kindness, reminding us all to seek and spread love wherever we can.Mary Fields shines a light on the often-overlooked realities of growing up in the foster care system in this heartfelt episode of Foster to Forever. Her conversation with host Rachel delves into her personal experiences, offering listeners a raw and unfiltered look at the challenges she faced while navigating a childhood filled with instability and trauma. Mary’s story is one of resilience, as she reflects on how kindness from others helped her survive a turbulent upbringing. From her early memories in foster homes to the complexities of her relationships with her biological parents, Mary’s narrative is both poignant and relatable. She emphasizes that while she could have become a bitter person, the compassion she received sparked a fire of hope within her, leading to her current role as a loving mother and author.Mary’s memoir, 'Forever and a Day', is not just a recounting of her past; it’s an invitation to understand the intricacies of trauma, healing, and the power of kindness in transforming lives. Throughout the episode, she discusses the misconceptions surrounding foster children, urging listeners to recognize that these kids are often victims of unfortunate circumstances rather than delinquents or bad kids. Mary’s reflections inspire a call to action, reminding us all that kindness can break cycles of negativity and foster a sense of belonging in those who need it most. As she navigates the challenges of motherhood, Mary shares how she strives to provide her children with the love and security she was denied, showing that healing is possible and that every child deserves a chance to thrive.In this episode, Mary Fields recounts her transformative journey from a troubled childhood in the foster care system to becoming a nurturing mother and an inspiring author. The conversation with Rachel is a powerful exploration of resilience, hope, and the profound impact of kindness. Mary's experiences highlight the harsh realities many children face while in foster care, yet her narrative is not solely about hardship; it’s about the healing power of compassion and connection. She reflects on her time in various foster homes, sharing both the struggles she endured and the moments of kindness that kept her spirit alive.As Mary discusses her memoir, 'Forever and a Day', she reveals the irony behind its title—a phrase her mother used in letters despite her failures as a parent. This duality underscores the themes of love, loss, and the journey toward self-acceptance that permeate her writing. The episode emphasizes the importance of advocating for foster children, challenging listeners to confront their biases and support the vulnerable. Mary’s insights on motherhood reveal her commitment to breaking the cycle of trauma by fostering an environment filled with love and understanding for her own children. This engaging conversation serves as a reminder that while the past can shape us, it does not define our future, and that kindness is a powerful tool for change.Takeaways: Mary shares her incredible journey from a challenging childhood in foster care to becoming a loving mother, highlighting the importance of kindness in healing. The episode emphasizes that not all foster care experiences are positive, and Mary candidly discusses her traumatic memories and the impact they had on her life. Mary reflects on her relationship with her inner child, recognizing the need to honor and nurture her past self as a way to heal and grow. Humor plays a vital role in coping with life's hardships, as Mary uses wit to navigate her experiences and find the lighter side of dark moments. Listeners are encouraged to recognize the power of kindness in their interactions, as Mary believes it can change lives and provide hope for those struggling. Mary's memoir, 'Forever and a Day', serves as a testament to resilience, showcasing how she reclaimed her narrative and found strength through her experiences.

In this powerful and heart-opening conversation, I sit down with Hilary Crowley — foster-to-adopt mom, holistic health practitioner, energy healer, TEDx speaker, and author of The Power of Energy Medicine. Hilary shares the extraordinary story of how she followed intuition, courage, and connection all the way to her son — and the unexpected lessons she learned along the way.From discovering the importance of foster-care support groups before certification, to navigating shutdowns, attachment, sibling dynamics, and biological family relationships, Hilary offers deep insight into what it really means to love, advocate, and parent a child who has survived instability and trauma.We also explore the intersection of intuition and fostering, how to recognize an intuitive “yes,” and why older-child adoption is a powerful — and often overlooked — pathway to building a family.This episode is full of wisdom, warmth, and practical guidance for anyone considering fostering or adoption, anyone parenting a child with trauma, or anyone wanting to better understand the emotional landscape of the foster-to-adopt journey.In This Episode, We Discuss:✨ The Power of Support Groups: Why attending a foster-care support group before certification can completely shift your journey.How Hilary built trust with resource workers just by showing up.✨ The Foster-to-Adopt Origin StoryHilary’s longing for a second child and the friend who unexpectedly opened the door to fostering.Her first experiences learning the “lingo” and navigating parenting classes.✨ A Moment of Raw Honesty in Training Hilary’s emotional fear response during training — and the life-changing validation she received from a social worker.✨ Navigating the Needs of Two ChildrenHow fostering disrupted her biological son’s world — and how it ultimately expanded his compassion and resilience.✨ Understanding Shutdowns / Rock BrainWhat shutdowns looked like in real life, what triggered them, and the remarkable strategy Hilary used to help her son feel safe and reconnected. Why “parent as if this may never change” became essential guidance.✨ Biological Family RelationshipsNavigating shifting dynamics and relationships at home.How her sons are now building connections as a young adults.✨ Intuition, Energy, and AdoptionHow Hilary’s work as an energy healer informed her parenting and decision-making.What an intuitive “yes” really feels like — and how to differentiate intuition from fear.Why fostering aligns deeply with the true meaning of the word foster: to encourage, nourish, and support.✨ A Powerful Message for Prospective Foster ParentsWhy older-child adoption (6–10+) is filled with beauty, growth, and meaning — and why these children deserve more visibility and love. Key TakeawaysShowing up and becoming known in your foster community can change everything.Children with trauma need connection and safety more than perfection.Saying no to a placement can be an act of love and alignment.Intuition is a real, accessible tool for navigating uncertainty.Adoption is deeply transformative for the entire family.

Life's a wild ride, isn't it? Kind of like fostering and adopting, which is the heart and soul of our podcast, From Foster to Forever. We dive into the ups and downs of non-traditional families, sharing heartfelt stories that are anything but ordinary. In this latest episode, I pop in to give a shout-out after a little break from the mic. I know, I know, it’s been a minute, but hey, life (and surgery!) happens. Whether you’re a new listener or a seasoned vet, I’m stoked to have you here with me. I also take a moment to thank all you lovely folks who’ve been tuning in and leaving those golden five-star reviews. Seriously, they help get our stories out there for others who might need a little hope or support. Plus, I’m super excited to announce that I’ve joined the ranks of columnists at Fostering Families Today, a sweet publication all about foster care. My first piece drops online soon, where I discuss how my CrossFit journey helped me tackle the tough times during fostering. It’s all about that mental toughness, and trust me, it’s a game changer. So, stay tuned, because I’m gearing up for season three and I want to hear from you! Got a story to share or know someone who does? Hit me up. Let’s keep this conversation rolling and make some magic happen!Takeaways: This episode welcomes newcomers and reminds longtime listeners about the journey so far. Rachel expresses gratitude for every review, emphasizing their importance in spreading awareness. The podcast announces a new column by Rachel in Fostering Families Today Magazine, a must-read for foster care enthusiasts. Rachel discusses her first article, which ties her personal story of fostering-to-adopt, with her passion for CrossFit and mental toughness. Listeners are encouraged to share their own foster to adopt stories for potential podcast features. The episode wraps up with Rachel's summer wishes for health, safety, and joy for all listeners.

Dennis DJ Quinn joins Rachel to share some seriously heartwarming wisdom from his years of mentoring through the Big Brother program. Right off the bat, he dives into the real deal about what it’s like to step into a kid’s life—not as a dad replacement, but as a big brother and a friend. He’s here to remind us that fostering connections can change not just a child’s life, but your own too. Dennis spills the beans on his journey, filled with laughter, challenges, and some unexpected life lessons that hit harder than a speeding train. So, if you're curious about how you can make a difference—whether it’s through fostering, mentoring, or just being there for someone in need—this chat is packed with all the feels and practical tips to get you started.Dennis DJ Quinn joins Rachel for a heartfelt journey into the world of mentorship and advocacy for youth. His experiences as a Big Brother have shaped not only the lives of the children he has mentored but also his own. Initially stepping into the role with the desire to 'fix' the kids, Dennis quickly learned that his purpose was to be a friend and a supportive figure rather than a parental replacement. Throughout the discussion, he reflects on the profound bond he formed with his first Little Brother, who remained an important part of his life for over four decades. Dennis shares the ups and downs of his mentorship adventures, including the unique challenges faced by kids in the foster system and the emotional weight of navigating their lives amidst uncertainty. He emphasizes the power of consistency and patience in building trust with these children, illustrating how simple activities, like ordering food at a restaurant, can be monumental steps towards personal growth for them. The conversation also touches on the practicalities of becoming a Big Brother, including the application process, background checks, and the importance of finding the right match between mentor and mentee. Dennis highlights the increasing demand for volunteers in mentorship programs and encourages listeners to consider how they can contribute, even if they feel hesitant about making a long-term commitment. The episode wraps up with some light-hearted anecdotes and reinforces the message that helping others can be as rewarding for the mentor as it is for the mentee, creating lasting memories and lessons along the way.Takeaways: Dennis shared that becoming a Big Brother is less about fixing kids' lives and more about being a supportive friend and mentor. The journey of mentorship can be a two-way street where both the mentor and the child learn valuable life lessons from each other. It's crucial to understand that you don't replace a child's parent, but you can be a positive influence in their life. Volunteering as a Big Brother or in similar programs can offer a fulfilling experience that enriches both the volunteer and the child in need. Links:Dennis' WebsiteStick Figures (Dennis' book about being a Big Brother)Big Brothers/Sisters Website

In continuation of our celebration of Autistic voices, we're diving deep into the world of dance and neurodiversity with Amanda Trisdale and Leta Rundell, the dynamic duo behind the Autistic Wings Dance Company. Right off the bat, they tackle how traditional dance environments often fall short for autistic kids, leaving them feeling sidelined and misunderstood. Amanda shares her personal journey, revealing how her own experiences with autism shaped the way they run their dance studio—where inclusivity is not just a buzzword, but the very foundation. With a maximum of four students per class, they’re flipping the script on what dance can be, ensuring each child gets the personalized attention they deserve. So, whether you're a dance enthusiast or just curious about fostering an inclusive space, this episode is packed with insights, stories, and a sprinkle of inspiration that you won't want to miss!As I chat with Amanda Trisdale and Leta Rundell, the founders of Autistic Wings Dance Company, I’m struck by the sheer determination that went into making their dream a reality. Their journey began with the simple act of dance—specifically, tap dancing—when Amanda's daughter Leta found her groove. Initially, it was a joyous discovery, but soon Amanda faced the harsh reality of a dance world that often overlooks the needs of autistic children. With teachers who didn’t quite understand Leta's behaviors and struggles, it became clear that the traditional studios weren’t cutting it. This led to a pivotal moment that drove them to create an entirely new space dedicated to nurturing autistic talent.In our conversation, we delve into the philosophy behind Autistic Wings. The focus here is not just on dance, but on creating a community where autistic dancers can express themselves freely. By limiting class sizes to four students, they ensure that every child receives the attention and support they need to flourish. It’s fascinating how Amanda explains that many existing dance classes, even those labeled as “autistic,” often fail to accommodate the full spectrum of needs within the community. Their approach is refreshingly unique, rooted in understanding and compassion, which is the backbone of their teaching methods. We share a few laughs as they recount some of the more humorous challenges of teaching dance to kids who might interpret rules a little differently—like turning a dance move into a personal expression of joy!Wrapping up, we discuss the future goals of the company, which include expanding their reach and encouraging other dance studios to adopt similar inclusive practices. The conversation leaves listeners feeling inspired and motivated to support such necessary changes in the arts community. I walk away with a heart full of hope, knowing that with leaders like Amanda and Leta, the dance world is slowly becoming a place where every child can find their rhythm and shine.Takeaways: Creating a dance studio specifically for autistic kids allows for a tailored approach that traditional studios often overlook, making dance accessible and enjoyable. The journey of building Autistic Wings Dance Company highlights the importance of understanding neurodiversity through a community-driven lens, rather than a 'one-size-fits-all' method. Having classes with a maximum of four students ensures that each child receives individualized attention, promoting a supportive environment that nurtures their unique talents. The founders' determination to create a safe space for autistic dancers stems from personal experiences, demonstrating how advocacy can transform lives and foster community. It's vital to eliminate misconceptions about autism in dance education; understanding that each autistic individual has different needs can create a more inclusive atmosphere. The response from the community has been overwhelmingly positive, proving that there's a significant demand for specialized programs that celebrate neurodiversity in the arts. Links referenced in this episode:fostertoforever.comfoster2forever.comautisticwingsdancecompany.orghttps://www.letatapstyles.com/https://www.youtube.com/@letatapstylesCompanies mentioned in this episode: Autistic Wings Dance Company Chloe Arnold Foster to Forever Aquarius Rising Joe Fulginiti

Today’s chat dives deep into the nitty-gritty of parenting while navigating the complexities of autism and ADHD. Our guest, Christopher Wyatt, shares his personal journey of becoming a foster parent, which took a serious turn when his wife was diagnosed with cancer shortly after they welcomed their daughters into their lives. Instead of throwing in the towel, he emphasizes the importance of commitment, stating, “We signed up to be the best parents we could be, whether it was for a year or for a lifetime.” We get real about the emotional toll of foster care, the challenges of navigating medical decisions, and the struggle to advocate for kids who often come with a suitcase full of trauma. It's a heartfelt conversation about how neurodiversity can actually bring unique strengths to parenting, proving that love and support can thrive even amidst chaos. Takeaways: Navigating the foster care system is not just paperwork; it's an emotional rollercoaster that demands a solid support network. Autism and ADHD can actually complement parenting styles, especially in structured environments where routines are key. The impact of trauma on children in foster care is profound, often leading to complex emotional and developmental challenges. Awareness of autism has dramatically increased, yet many still underestimate the importance of tailored support for children with special needs.

Sharon Dunleavy joins Rachel in this enlightening episode to shed some serious light on the critical role of educational advocacy for kids in foster care. With around 20,000 youth aging out of the system each year, Sharon dives deep into the staggering statistics that reveal a troubling reality—many of these kids face challenges like homelessness and incarceration. We chat about the importance of understanding trauma and how it affects learning, plus the laws that can help foster kids get the educational support they need. Sharon’s insights not only highlight the dire need for advocacy but also serve up some practical advice for foster parents navigating the educational landscape. So, whether you’re a seasoned foster parent or just curious about the system, you won’t want to miss this conversation packed with valuable info and a few laughs along the way!Sharon Dunleavy, a passionate advocate for foster care education, brings her wealth of experience to the conversation, diving deep into the often-overlooked needs of children in foster care. With a background in special education and over two decades in ministry, Sharon's journey into foster care advocacy stemmed from a desire to serve vulnerable kids. She shares how she transitioned to training foster parents on educational advocacy, emphasizing the critical role that education plays in the lives of foster children. The statistics she presents are staggering: 20,000 youth age out of foster care annually, yet 25% fail to graduate high school. These numbers highlight the urgent need for informed advocates like Sharon, who work tirelessly to ensure that every child in the foster system receives the educational support they deserve. The conversation touches on systemic issues within the foster care system and the importance of trauma-informed practices in schools, shedding light on how teachers can better understand and support their students. Sharon's insights serve as a wake-up call for all of us to step up and be advocates for these children, whose futures depend on the support and resources we provide today.Takeaways: Foster kids need strong advocates; their voices often get lost in the shuffle. Educational rights for foster kids can be confusing, so it's crucial for foster parents to understand them. Trauma significantly affects the brain's development; early intervention can help improve outcomes for foster kids. Discipline is about teaching, not punishment; it's essential to focus on the positives in behavior management. Many foster kids face mental health challenges; being trauma-informed is key to supporting their needs. Statistics reveal that a large percentage of youth aging out of foster care face dire challenges; awareness is the first step to change. Companies mentioned in this episode: sharondunlevy.com Every Student Succeeds Act Individuals with Disabilities Act Family First Prevention Services Act Annie Casey Foundation Aquarius Rising Split Rock Studios Joe Fulginiti

Terria Roushun joins me today to dive into the heart of hair care and its cultural significance, especially for transracial adoptive parents of Black children. She emphasizes that caring for a child's hair is not just about styling—it's about recognizing and affirming their identity and heritage. Terria, a licensed cosmetologist and trauma-informed care expert, shares her journey from a corporate career to empowering families with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate cultural nuances in hair care. We chat about the importance of understanding the history behind Black hair and how it intertwines with self-esteem and pride. Plus, Terria offers practical advice for parents feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of caring for their child's hair, reminding us all that it's totally okay to learn and grow together in this journey.Terria Roushun, the founder of Hair Essentials and a certified trauma-informed care expert, joins Rachel for a rich discussion that goes beyond hair care – it’s about understanding identity, culture, and love. As we kick things off, Terria passionately explains how learning about the cultural significance of hair is a vital part of parenting black children. She emphasizes that it’s not just about keeping hair neat and styled; it’s about making a profound statement to your child: “I see you, I value you.” With humor and insight, Rachel and Terria dissect the common fears and anxieties that adoptive parents face when caring for a black child’s hair. It’s like diving into a treasure chest of wisdom, where you realize that every coil and curl carries a story and a history.Throughout the conversation, they tackle the misconceptions surrounding black hair, dispelling the idea that it’s a daunting task that requires some magical product. Instead, Terria encourages parents to view hair care as an opportunity for connection – a bonding time that can lead to deeper discussions about identity and self-worth. With relatable stories and practical tips, Terria inspires parents to embrace this journey with love and confidence, reminding them that learning how to care for their child’s hair is not a chore but a beautiful act of love. The episode is not just educational; it’s also heartwarming and empowering. It serves as a reminder that the journey of transracial adoption is filled with both challenges and immense joy. Listeners will leave feeling motivated to not only take care of hair but to also celebrate the unique identities of their children. If you’re looking to enrich your understanding of hair care in the context of cultural identity, this episode is your golden ticket!Takeaways: Understanding the cultural significance of hair in black children fosters self-esteem and identity. Hair care for black children is deeply intertwined with history and personal pride, beyond mere maintenance. Transracial adoptive parents must actively engage in learning about hair care to empower their children. Creating a positive hair care routine can transform it into a bonding experience between parent and child. Parents often underestimate the emotional weight of hair care for their black children, leading to anxiety. Terria emphasizes that learning about black hair is a continuous journey, not just a one-time task. LINKS:Terria's websiteTerria's Facebook Group

Rachel Fulginiti sits down with Dr. John DeGarmo, a powerhouse in the world of foster care and adoption, to dig into the importance of providing every child with a forever family. Dr. DeGarmo shares his heartfelt journey into fostering, sparked by personal loss and a desire to help kids who have faced unimaginable challenges. With over 60 children welcomed into his home, he’s not just talking the talk; he’s living it. We dive into the nitty-gritty of what it means to foster, the misconceptions that often cloud the process, and the critical need for compassionate support within the foster care system. Trust me, this episode is packed with insight, inspiration, and a few laughs along the way!Dr. John DeGarmo, a passionate advocate for foster care, shares his deeply personal journey in the world of fostering and adoption. As he opens up about his initial reluctance to become a foster parent, he recounts the tragic loss of his first child and how this experience ignited a desire within him and his wife to help other children in need. With a heartwarming candor, John elaborates on how his family has fostered over 60 children and adopted three, emphasizing the profound impact this journey has had on his biological children, instilling in them a spirit of compassion and service to others. The discussion also dives into the challenges faced by foster parents, particularly in light of the mental health crisis exacerbated by the pandemic and the alarming rise in human trafficking cases linked to vulnerable children in foster care. John highlights the urgent need for more foster families and the critical role that support services play in the lives of both foster parents and the children they care for. He candidly shares anecdotes that illustrate the chaos and joy of raising a large family, including humorous moments that arise from the unique experiences of fostering. In a heartfelt conclusion, John reminds listeners that while they may not be able to change the world, they have the power to change the world for a child in their home. His story is a powerful testament to love, resilience, and the transformative power of family, encouraging everyone to consider how they might help children in crisis, even if foster parenting isn’t an option for them.Takeaways: Dr. John DeGarmo emphasizes that every child deserves a loving, forever family, which is a fundamental belief driving his work in foster care and adoption. The podcast highlights the significant challenges in foster parenting, including grief and loss when children are reunified or leave the home for any reason. Foster parents must be well-prepared and supported, as the experiences can vary drastically with each child's unique background and needs. Dr. DeGarmo shares personal anecdotes illustrating the joys and challenges of fostering, including humorous moments that come with raising kids in a chaotic environment. The need for foster families has grown, especially post-pandemic, with rising mental health issues and a lack of resources for both children and foster parents. Awareness and advocacy are crucial; even if one can't foster, there are many ways to support children in crisis within the community. Links referenced in this episode:fromfoster2forever.comfoster2foreverpodcast (Instagram)The FosterCare Institute (Dr. John's organization)

Actress and cancer survivor Heather Keller joins us today, sharing her inspiring journey as a foster-to-adopt mom in a transracial family. Heather shares what led her to fostering and how she managed to begin the journey while also performing a one-woman show overseas. As the episode progresses, we discuss the unique challenges and joys that come with raising a child of a different race and how it has opened her eyes to the realities of the world around her. Heather opens up about her experience navigating the foster system, the emotional rollercoaster of adoption, and the bittersweet nature of fostering, where joy is tinged with the complexity of loss. We also touch on the importance of representation, and how Heather’s daughter has made her aware of the need for diversity in their community. Get ready for some heartfelt stories, relatable struggles, and a few laughs as we explore the ups and downs of creating a family through foster care and adoption!Navigating the world of fostering and adoption can be an intricate dance, and Heather Keller's insights on this journey are nuanced and heartfelt. After her battle with breast cancer, Heather and her husband felt a strong calling to foster a child, leading them to a beautiful yet challenging path. They welcomed their daughter into their lives, a journey marked by uncertainty and hope. Heather shares the emotional weight of the foster-to-adopt process, from initial meetings with social workers to the joy of finally bringing their daughter home. Her candid recounting of their experiences provides listeners with a glimpse into the realities of fostering, including the bureaucracy and emotional intricacies involved. In this episode, the conversation takes a deeper plunge into the complexities of transracial adoption. Heather reflects on her own journey of understanding as a white mother raising a Black child, revealing the eye-opening experiences that made her more aware of racial dynamics in their community. She discusses the significance of representation, the importance of seeking out diverse environments for her daughter, and how her parenting approach has evolved. Heather's journey is not just about providing a loving home; it's about actively challenging societal norms and ensuring her daughter feels a sense of belonging in a world that can sometimes be unwelcoming. Listeners will find themselves moved by Heather's story as she emphasizes the need for open conversations about race and identity within families. The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the love and dedication required in the fostering process and the commitment to nurturing a child's cultural identity. For anyone considering fostering or adoption, Heather's journey offers hope, encouragement, and the understanding that while the path may be fraught with challenges, the rewards are immeasurable.Takeaways: Heather shares her journey of fostering and adopting, highlighting the emotional rollercoaster involved. The conversation dives deep into the challenges and joys of being a transracial family in today's society. Heather emphasizes the importance of being adaptable and open-minded when raising adopted children from different backgrounds. Both hosts discuss the bittersweet reality of fostering, where joy often intersects with past traumas of the child. They stress the significance of community support, especially from those who have navigated similar paths in fostering or adoption. Heather reflects on how fostering can break generational cycles of hardship, providing a brighter future for children in need. Links referenced in this episode:https://www.fromfoster2forever.com/https://heatherkeller.net/https://fosterall.org/https://iloveluluhairspa.com/https://jasonsarubbi.com/ (Split Rock Studios)Companies mentioned in this episode: Foster all Children's Bureau Lulu Hair Cafe Aquarius Rising Splitrock Studios

Jeanette Yoffe dives deep into the complexities of foster care and adoption in this enlightening chat. As an adult adoptee, she shares her personal experiences, revealing how her journey through the foster system shaped her career as a psychotherapist advocating for children in similar situations. We discuss the crucial role of emotional support for kids grappling with grief and loss, emphasizing that they can't always piece together their stories alone—sometimes, they need a little help from the adults around them. Jeannette stresses the importance of finding an adoption-competent therapist and also introduces some unique interventions for parents, like creating a question box to encourage open dialogue about adoption. She recommends many free resources on her youtube page, as well. Takeaways: Jeanette Yoffe shares her own personal journey through foster care and adoption, highlighting the importance of understanding a child's emotional experiences. She emphasizes the need for open conversations about adoption to help children process their feelings of loss and identity. The concept of genetic mirroring is crucial for adoptees as it helps them understand their identity and where they come from. Jeanette discusses the significance of therapeutic parenting, encouraging parents to validate their child's feelings and foster open communication about their past. She introduces the idea of a question box for adopted children, allowing them to express their curiosities and concerns in a safe space. The episode stresses the need for foster and adoptive families to embrace cultural differences, promoting a sense of belonging and identity within the family. Companies mentioned in this episode: Celia Center Yoffe Therapy Pesi Jeanette-ically Speaking (Jeanette's Youtube)