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Reid Miles Podcasts
Two shows. One curiosity-driven mission: telling human stories that matter.
Hosted by Reid Miles, this podcast feed is home to two distinct but connected conversations.


The Neurodivergent Connection centers neurodivergent voices lived experience, late diagnosis, advocacy, creativity, and the realities of navigating a world not built for autistic minds. These episodes focus on understanding, accessibility, and belonging, grounded in honesty and real conversation rather than clinical distance.


The Curious Storyteller began as a celebration of remarkable people and the stories that shaped them. It has since evolved into deeper, reflective conversations about identity, resilience, reinvention, and the quiet moments that change us. Guests include creators, athletes, leaders, and thinkers not to be interviewed, but to be heard.
Both shows share the same foundation: unscripted conversations, emotional intelligence, and curiosity over performance. This isn’t about polished success stories or neat conclusions — it’s about connection, reflection, and telling the truth while the story is still being written.

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Writing as a Lifeline: AuDHD, Burnout, and Building Soul Scribe with Kristy Lee RackhamWhat if the story you’re scared to share is the one that helps someone heal?In this candid conversation, I sit down with Kristy Lee Rackham AuDHD mom, former nurse, boutique publisher, and creator of the Wisdom Keepers series. You’ll hear how she went from full burnout to building Soul Scribe Publishing, why writing became a practical path to wellness, and the quiet moment that changed everything. We get into fear of visibility, why highly sensitive people hesitate to be seen, and how multi-author books create ripple effects inside hospitals, families, and communities.I reveal the simple shift Kristy uses to help writers move past imposter syndrome, you’ll discover how she blends science and spirituality without losing the plot, and we touch on her Mee Map an accessible way to come back to who you’ve always been. Want to know the unexpected first win most new authors feel? You’ll have to listen.About the GuestKristy Lee Rackham is an AuDHD publisher, holistic counselor, and former nurse who founded http://www.soulscribegroup.com/. She mentors highly sensitive and neurodivergent writers and curates the multi-author Wisdom Keepers series.Key Timestamps0:20 – Kristy’s AuDHD story and raising autistic teens4:04 – The moment writing shifted from hobby to healing12:52 – Blending science, spirituality, and storytelling16:49 – Burnout, stillness, and a clarinet at night27:37 – Visibility, worth, and the fear beneath publishing40:06 – A nonverbal writer steps into leadership45:22 – The Mee Map explained in plain language47:58 – Energy awareness you can use todayExplore Kristy’s work at solscribegroup.com.or to learn more about you can go to her link tree: www.linktr.ee/kristyleerackham Subscribe for more practical conversations on autism, ADHD, and real-world support. Share this with someone who’s sitting on a story. #Neurodiversity #AuDHD #WritingForHealing #ParentingAutismHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Dani Donovan is an ADHD advocate, educator, and creator of The Anti-Planner, a revolutionary tool designed to help neurodivergent minds work with their brains instead of against them. Through her art, resources, and lived experience, Dani helps adults better understand executive dysfunction, self-compassion, and how to build systems that actually fit the way they’re wired.Growing up, Dani always felt out of place—curious, quick to finish tasks, and constantly getting in trouble for asking too many questions or working ahead of the lesson. Instead of praise, she got more work or was told to sit down and be quiet, which left her feeling isolated and misunderstood. It wasn’t until college, when life became overwhelming and adult responsibilities piled up, that she finally heard the word “ADHD” attached to her struggles. Suddenly, the confusing mess of missed laundry, forgotten deadlines, and emotional meltdowns had a name, and that changed everything. Dani realized she wasn’t lazy or broken—she just hadn’t been given the right tools or language to understand herself. Finding that label, and later discovering others like “anticipatory anxiety” and “rejection sensitivity,” felt like a lifeline. It meant she could finally talk about her challenges without shame and start searching for real solutions, not just blame.,Dani’s journey with ADHD started long before she even knew what it was. As a kid, she was always outpacing her classmates, asking questions, and getting in trouble for not fitting the mold. Teachers didn’t know what to do with her, and instead of support, she got more work or was told to stop disrupting. This left Dani feeling like she was always the problem, never quite understanding why everyday things felt so hard. It wasn’t until college, when life threw her into the deep end of “adulting,” that she finally got her ADHD diagnosis. That moment was a revelation—suddenly, all the things that made her feel different started to make sense. For the first time, she could let go of some of the self-blame and see her challenges as part of a bigger picture, not a personal failing. Discovering the right words and connecting with others who shared her experiences helped her turn confusion into clarity and isolation into community.Visit Dani Donovan's website with her ADHD comics at adhdd.com (ADHD with DD, her initials, after it).Visit AntiPlanner.com to see the Anti Planner book and access digital PDF bundles that are currently on sale.Follow Dani Donovan on social media platforms at @DaniDonovan (D A N I D O N O V A N) for more content.Watch Jessica McCabe’s YouTube channel, especially her video about why showering is hard, for ADHD-related insights.Try the Kanban board method using Post-it notes on your computer monitor as described by Dani Donovan for task management.Contact Me:https://www.facebook.com/TheNeurodivergentConnectionhttps://aspergersstudio.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/reidmiles/https://www.youtube.com/@AspergersStudiohttps://www.twitter.com/AspergersStudioHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
When Schools Don’t Fit: How to Advocate for Neurodivergent Kids with Janet KrebsI sit down with Janet Krebs to talk about raising neurodivergent kids in unkind education systems—and what actually helps.In this episode I ask the tough questions parents avoid: why schools still treat difference like a problem, how to push back when meetings feel hostile, and what parenting leadership actually looks like when the stakes are your child’s future. Janet shares real stories from decades in classrooms and with families, and I reveal the mindset shifts and practical frameworks that help parents move from fear to focused action.You’ll discover why consistency often fails, when “resets” actually make things worse, and one powerful way to reframe labels so children get support without being boxed in. We tease specific strategies and systems I use with clients so you can advocate more confidently—but I save the step-by-step for the episode. Who should be in the room? When is accountability necessary? How do you keep your cool so solutions can happen? Listen to find out.About the GuestJanet Krebs – Educator, consultant, and strategic partner to families. With over 30 years in classrooms and working alongside parents of neurodivergent kids, Janet focuses on practical advocacy, vision-driven planning, and helping families build confidence to raise capable adults.Key Timestamps0:21 - Janet’s background: why she centers teaching and learning1:10 - How education can be unkind to kids who don’t fit the mold6:49 - Visual learning and why some kids need different ways to process15:52 - When school discipline misses the mark: the “reset” example31:45 - How to show up and advocate in IEP and school meetings48:46 - Leadership for parents: L.E.A.D. framework62:07 - How parents find support and stay grounded during slow progress65:46 - Where to find Janet online: janetkrebs.comWant more episodes like this? Subscribe and share with a parent, teacher, or caregiver who needs a better way into these rooms. Visit janetkrebs.com to connect with Janet.#Neurodiversity #Parenting #InclusiveEducation #ADHDHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
I Threw My Mask Away: Living AuDHD Out Loud with Nick PaganoMasking nearly cost my guest his life — and his honesty about it changed everything. In this episode I talk with Nick Pagano about what happens when you stop pretending and start living as AuDHD.I’ll share why this conversation matters: you’ll hear how chronic masking, suicidal thoughts, and unmasking intersect with work, relationships, and identity. Nick reveals the personal rules and small practices that helped him move from constant masking to steady growth — and I ask the hard questions that most people avoid.You’ll discover one surprising habit that helped Nick survive the worst moments, one place masking shows up most in daily life, and how reclaiming authenticity affected his job and relationships. I tease the frameworks and strategies we discuss, but I leave the “how” for the episode — because you need to hear Nick’s voice to feel it.About the GuestNick Pagano (Real Conversations with Neurodivergent Nick) is a creator and host who speaks openly about living AuDHD, masking, and mental health. He uses candid storytelling and practical rules to help others recognize and grow from their neurodivergent traits.Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and intro to Nick0:55 – Nick’s turning point: depression and unmasking3:39 – Realization at a basketball game: how his mind works7:01 – Music, masking, and emotional expression12:48 – Masking at work and being fired for honesty21:02 – Self-diagnosis and responding to pushback35:29 – Growth rule: “grow every day” and neuroplasticity47:06 – Nick reads the poem that changed everything52:50 – What Nick refuses to apologize for: existing53:09 – Where to find Nick’s podcast and channelsListen to the full episode to hear Nick’s poem, the strategies he used to ask for help, and how he balances masking with being true to himself. If this resonated, subscribe and share — someone in your life might need to hear it.Find Nick: YouTube & Spotify — Real Conversations with Neurodivergent Nick (@therealconvoswithNDNick)Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Training for a World That Doesn’t Slow Down: Neurodivergent Tools, Food Rescue, and Real Vocational PathwaysWhat if the world didn’t have to slow down for us — we just needed better tools to meet it on our terms?In this episode I talk with Shannon Dobbs about three decades of navigating disability, designing assistive tech, and building practical community systems that actually work. You’ll hear why Shannon built an AI-driven “just-in-time” training scaffold (think wearable or tablet-based guidance tuned for ADHD and autism), how a hotel chain used blast chillers to rescue millions of meals, and why community-scale grocery and vocational models matter more than traditional degrees right now.I reveal parts of Shannon’s blueprint for vocational pathways that pay while teaching real skills, and we tease the systems, certifications, and community networks that make this possible. You’ll discover the outcomes — more dignified work, anti-fragile neighborhoods, and meaningful roles for neurodivergent people — and you’ll be left asking: What would a local blast-chiller node look like in my city? How could “living resumes” change hiring? Which tools could help me or my student show capability, not just compliance?About the GuestShannon Dobbs — retired military veteran, entrepreneur, and nonprofit founder focused on regenerative food systems and assistive tech. Shannon combines satellite/signal experience with decades in small business and community organizing to build vocational pathways and scalable food-rescue solutions. Contact: shannon@ria.earth | ria.earthTimestamps0:03 - Intro: why this conversation matters for neurodivergent communities2:12 - The AI "goggles" concept: just-in-time, personalized skill scaffolding12:53 - The spark: building community grocery solutions after confronting local barriers24:00 - MGM’s blast-chiller model: rescuing meals and why nonprofits resisted40:10 - Vocational pathways: earning while learning, HACCP, cold-chain skills, and living resumes52:46 - Resilience reframed: community wisdom over lone toughness61:27 - How to get involved: donate, volunteer, or help with tech at ria.earthKeywords: neurodivergent, ADHD, autism, vocational training, food rescue, regenerative, assistive tech, augmented reality, community resilience.I’d love for you to keep the conversation going — subscribe, share this episode with someone who cares about inclusive workforce design, or visit ria.earth to get involved.#Neurodiversity #FoodRescue #VocationalTraining #AssistiveTechHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
About the GuestGary Martinez Jr. — autism parent, Manitou Incline devotee, and fundraiser for Kishami Academy. He averages multiple laps per day, uses the trail to raise awareness, and shares practical sensory strategies learned parenting his daughter.Timestamps0:04 - Episode open and intro to Gary's climb1:19 - Gary explains the one-year Manitou Incline challenge3:53 - Elevation, lap counts, and sponsor match7:02 - Gary on discovering his own neurodivergent traits18:52 - Daily sensory supports that help his daughter succeed23:13 - Surprises from months of climbing27:04 - How sponsors and community stepped up36:40 - How listeners can help the school37:53 - Where to find Gary and donateWant to help? Visit Gary's profiles (Gary Martinez Jr. on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok) for the GoFundMe link and more. Please listen to the episode to hear the full story and consider donating or volunteering — every step counts.#AutismSupport #Neurodiversity #CommunityFundraising #ManitouIncline #ParentingTipsHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
When a Diagnosis Opens the Door: A Mother’s Story of Autism, School Battles, and Small WinsI sit down with Anita G., a retired teacher and podcast host, to hear how one diagnosis changed everything for her family—and why that could matter to you.In this episode I talk with Anita about recognizing subtle signs of autism, the relief and confusion that followed her son Tyler’s diagnosis at 10, and the ways schools and doctors sometimes miss children who don’t fit a stereotyped image. You’ll hear why she started a podcast called G Family Chronicles, how being a former educator shaped her advocacy, and the quiet strategies that helped Tyler move toward college and independence.We also cover the emotional toll of fighting for accommodations, when to bring in an advocate or attorney, and the simple supports—like pets and captioned TV—that changed daily life. I reveal a few of the systems and paperwork she relied on, but I save the step-by-step for the episode because the details matter.Key Timestamps0:02 – Episode intro1:30 – Who Tyler is and early signs4:06 – Receiving the diagnosis: relief and next steps6:46 – Hopes and fears before the word “autism”11:27 – How Anita’s view of autism changed24:53 – What led to reevaluation in school34:17 – The impact of “invisible” autism on treatment68:12 – Avoiding burnout: advocates, attorneys, and supports93:19 – Where to find Anita’s podcast and resourcesAbout the GuestAnita G. is a retired teacher, mother of Tyler (diagnosed with autism at 10), and host of the podcast G Family Chronicles. She shares candid stories from the classroom and home, focusing on practical advocacy for neurodivergent kids and their families.Want practical examples and real paperwork stories? Listen to the full episode to find out which strategies Anita used, when she brought in legal help, and what she wishes parents knew in year one after a diagnosis.Listen, subscribe, and join the conversation—links in the show notes. #Neurodiversity #AutismParenting #IEPAdvocacyHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
From Nightclubs to Food Justice: Shannon Dobbs on Neurodivergence, Disability, and Building Better Systems (Part 1)What happens when a former nightclub owner rethinks food access, work, and learning through a neurodivergent lens?In this conversation, I sit down with Shannon Dobbs—an Army vet turned nonprofit advocate—who shares how health scares, a late ADHD diagnosis, and hard-won lessons from the VA pushed him to redesign how communities get fed and how people learn. You’ll hear how he went from running a smoke-filled bar to installing a commercial kitchen that kept downtown Reno fed during COVID—and why that experience sparked a bigger mission.We get into the real reasons food deserts persist, why some organizations resist root-cause solutions, and the unexpected tech that can turn “waste” into meals. Shannon also teases a new path for sensory-friendly, on-the-job learning using assistive hardware and small language models—built for those of us who learn best hands-on.You’ll discover: - How Shannon reframed food insecurity with practical tools most people overlook - The pattern-seeing skill that helps him cut through red tape - A simple kitchen swap that changes meal prep for ADHD brains - Why vocational, self-directed learning could be a better fit than traditional classroomsWhat would shift if grocery models fit the community—not the other way around? And how close are we to offline AI that coaches you through a task in real time?About the GuestShannon Dobbs is a retired nightclub owner, Army veteran, and nonprofit founder focused on food systems, vocational pathways, and sensory-friendly tech. He works at the intersection of neurodivergence, disability, and community-led solutions.Timestamps0:03 – Meet Shannon: from nightclubs to nonprofit advocacy1:48 – The wake-up call that changed his health—and his work5:58 – The part of his story most people miss7:25 – Late ADHD diagnosis, head injury, and what actually changed10:27 – Building a bar community that won “Best Dance Club”12:56 – The HEPA hack that made a smoking bar breathable13:34 – Military life, creativity, and a sudden detour20:46 – Real-life kitchen challenges with ADHD22:17 – The one-pot tool that makes cooking simpler35:09 – Why grocery stores don’t reach food deserts—and a different model43:11 – “We rescued 5M meals”: what Vegas taught him about waste55:24 – Sensory overwhelm and a new assistive hardware concept63:30 – How on-device AI could guide real work, step by step70:14 – Wrap-up: Part 2 coming soonCall to action: If you’re neurodivergent, a parent, educator, or caregiver, this one’s for you. Listen now, share with someone who needs it, and subscribe so you don’t miss Part 2.#Neurodiversity #FoodInsecurity #ADHD #Disability #VeteransHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
From Near-Fatal TBI to Helping Men Heal: Daniel’s Story of Grit, Care, and PossibilityA teenage car crash changed everything. In this episode, I sit with Daniel, an LCSW who turned his traumatic brain injury into a calling to support men facing trauma, PTSD, and TBI.You’ll hear how he went from ICU and tinnitus-filled nights to guiding others through the fog—without losing himself in the process. I reveal the words that fueled his recovery, the quiet struggles most people never see, and why he chose to focus on men’s mental health. You’ll discover the core misunderstandings about men and trauma, what real nervous system regulation can look like, and the approaches Daniel uses that move healing from “talking about it” to actually feeling better in your body.We also get personal: the sounds that soothe, routines that keep the darkness from following you home, and the one message he’d give his 18-year-old self. If you’re a parent, educator, caregiver, or a man carrying a heavy load, this conversation opens a path forward—one you might not expect.Want to know the modalities Daniel recommends, where he sends men to start, and why this accident may have put him exactly where he’s needed most? Press play.Key Timestamps0:02 – The crash that changed his life4:06 – Hyper-sensitivity, tinnitus, and the early aftermath6:56 – A doctor’s prediction—and the moment that lit a fire8:30 – The hardest part of recovery no one talks about9:41 – What he lost—and what he gained14:33 – Why the helping professions called to him16:23 – Why he works with men: one word that says it all21:08 – What people get wrong about men and trauma30:32 – How he doesn’t carry clients’ pain home45:07 – Where men should start: the modalities that help46:59 – How to connect with DanielAbout the GuestDaniel is a licensed clinical social worker specializing in men’s trauma, PTSD, and traumatic brain injury. Through his private practice, he supports clients with approaches that include body-based and trauma-focused care.Resources: Learn more at RevitalizeMentalHealth.comIf this episode helped, subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your support helps our neurodivergent community feel seen, informed, and connected.#Neurodiversity #MensMentalHealth #TraumaHealing #TBI #PTSDHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
ADHD, Fear, and Finding Recovery: A Real Conversation with Chase ThayerIf school felt like quicksand and calm never lasted, this episode will feel like a breath you didn’t know you needed.I sit down with Chase Thayer to talk about ADHD, fear, grief, and recovery—without sugarcoating. You’ll hear how early shame shaped his choices, why baseball became a lifeline, and the moment he realized substances weren’t the core issue. We get into trauma, inner child work, and what actually helps in the first year of sobriety. I also ask him why healing the whole family matters and what most parents miss when they push for college before stability.In this episode, I reveal the questions I wish more educators and parents asked kids who struggle to “care,” and you’ll discover the simple shift that can make school and work more humane for ADHD brains. Chase shares the framework he uses with families today—and the misconception that keeps so many stuck.By the end, you’ll see recovery with clearer eyes, and you might rethink what support looks like at home, in the classroom, and in the workplace.About the GuestChase Thayer is a healthcare professional with nearly 20 years in substance use and mental health. He’s in long-term recovery, has ADHD, and founded Austin Integration Coaching to guide individuals and families through treatment planning, transition, and sustained change. He lives in Austin, Texas, with his partner and three kids.Key Timestamps0:02 – Why this conversation matters now3:06 – Growing up in fear and the cost of “keeping the peace”6:40 – ADHD and school: when effort looks like apathy11:31 – The “dumb jock” shield: what it hid and what it stole15:30 – Baseball as identity and confidence18:33 – Alcohol as “freedom” and a false self19:39 – Painkillers and the slide no one saw coming21:05 – Losing his brother and the grief that fueled risk26:31 – Realizing substances weren’t the main problem29:54 – Addiction, trauma, and inner child work31:44 – The first year: what most people get wrong33:21 – Why family healing can’t be optional37:48 – Austin Integration Coaching: filling the gap39:58 – The biggest rehab misconception41:40 – A message for anyone feeling stuck44:03 – Reclaiming life in everyday moments44:44 – Where to find ChaseIf this helped you, share it with someone who needs a steady voice today. Subscribe for more real, accessible conversations on neurodiversity, mental health, and community. Connect with Chase at austinintegrationcoaching.com.#ADHD #TraumaInformed #Recovery #Neurodiversity #FamilySystemsHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Robert’s story starts with a simple question that changed everything: why can’t people talk to someone right at the point of purchase online? Back in the late ‘90s, he was building websites and saw firsthand how disconnected people felt behind their screens. That spark led him to invent web chat, a tool now woven into the fabric of daily life, and eventually build a multibillion-dollar company centered around making human connections through technology. But after years of leading in the world of AI and customer service, his perspective shifted dramatically when he watched his own kids interact with technology. Instead of seeing creativity and community, he saw harm and addiction. Those personal, raw moments as a parent fueled a new mission—one focused on building tech experiences that empower kids to create and connect safely. Robert’s journey isn’t just about inventing cool tech; it’s about finding ways for technology to actually serve families, spark imagination, and build healthier communities.,Robert’s journey with technology began out of curiosity and a desire to solve problems he saw in everyday life. He invented web chat because he believed people deserved real, meaningful conversations—even online. As his company grew and shaped the future of AI, his focus gradually shifted from business success to something more personal. Becoming a dad opened his eyes to how technology affects kids, especially when he saw his own children drawn into unhealthy patterns with screens and apps. Those real-life experiences hit hard and inspired him to rethink everything he knew about tech. Now, Robert is passionate about creating tools that give kids a safe space to express themselves and explore their creativity. His story is a reminder that sometimes, it takes seeing the impact up close to realize what really matters and to use innovation for good.Robert Locasico has seen the digital world from just about every angle, starting as the inventor of web chat in 1997 and then leading LivePerson to the top of the conversational AI industry. But what really sets Robert apart is his drive to rethink how kids interact with technology, a passion sparked by watching his own three children navigate today’s digital landscape. He’s not just an industry veteran—he’s a parent who understands the challenges families face with screens, apps, and AI. Now, Robert is channeling his decades of experience into building tech that’s not only safe, but also genuinely sparks creativity and connection for all kids, including those who are neurodivergent. His down-to-earth style and focus on ethical AI make him a thoughtful voice in the often overwhelming world of kids’ technology.Visit Kidco.AI to learn more about the Kid device and company.Purchase the Kid device directly from Kidco.AI (available for sale now).Join the Kidco.AI Facebook group for parents to share experiences and support each other.Connect directly with the Kidco.AI team after joining to provide feedback and engage with the community.Explore COPPA certification standards for digital properties to understand the safety measures implemented for children.Contact Me:https://www.youtube.com/@AspergersStudiohttps://aspergersstudio.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/reidmiles/https://www.facebook.com/InsideTheAspergersStudiohttps://www.twitter.com/AspergersStudioSupport the show via my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AspergersStudioHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Neurodiverse Intimacy: Rethinking Sex, Consent, and Connection with CheriIntimacy isn’t “broken” when you’re neurodivergent—it just plays by different rules. In this episode, I sit down with Cheri, a couple sex therapist and relationship coach, to reframe sex, consent, and communication for neurodiverse couples.You’ll hear how sensory sensitivities, masking, burnout, and mixed communication styles can shape closeness—and why that doesn’t mean you’re a mismatch. Cheri shares how her new workbook helps partners feel safe, seen, and equipped to build connection that fits their brains and bodies. We talk about practical ways to communicate (that aren’t awkward), how to handle mismatched desire without blame, and what repair looks like when things go sideways.I reveal where I’ve struggled to find the right support, and you’ll discover why a small shift in language can change the whole experience in the bedroom. Curious how texting can be a strength? Why kissing can be a bigger sensory hurdle than handholding? And what to offer instead of a flat “no”? It’s all here—without shame, and without guesswork.Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and why finding the right support matters0:53 – Why Cheri created a sex workbook for neurodiverse couples3:19 – How intimacy shows up differently (and what “different” really means)5:29 – Sensory realities: kissing vs. handholding6:10 – Building a workbook that feels safe, not clinical7:07 – Communication that works: beyond talking it out11:16 – Reframing “something’s wrong with us”12:52 – Desire, arousal, and capacity: what changes and why15:23 – Talking about sex without shutdowns or defensiveness20:06 – Moving from unspoken rules to clear consent21:36 – Consent in long-term relationships when energy fluctuates22:55 – What makes this a workbook (and how to use it together)24:16 – The exercise that surprised Cheri most30:21 – Balancing structure with flexibility31:13 – Shame, trauma, and gentle repair32:50 – Handling mismatched desire without judgment33:56 – In-the-moment repair when things go sideways36:53 – The “we’re not broken” shift39:22 – Beyond sex: building a lasting sense of connection40:07 – Where to start if you’re nervousAbout the GuestCheri is a couple sex therapist and relationship coach with 20+ years of experience. Her dissertation focused on neurodiverse couples, and she specializes in practical tools that honor difference without shame. Learn more at couplescounselingcenter.online.If this episode helps, share it with someone who needs to hear they’re not alone. Subscribe for more accessible conversations on Autism, ADHD, relationships, and real-world support.#Neurodiversity #Autism #ADHD #Relationships #SexEducationHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
In this episode, you’ll hear Aisha open up about her journey with multiple mental health diagnoses and how she’s found ways to cope and thrive, even when things felt overwhelming. She shares real stories about what it’s like to juggle conditions like autism, anxiety, and depression, and how she learned to ask for help, set boundaries, and tune into her own needs instead of just powering through. Aisha’s experiences show you’re not alone in facing these kinds of challenges, and she offers tips you can actually use—whether that’s finding the right support system, practicing self-compassion, or just making space for the tough days. If you want honest advice and a reminder that progress doesn’t have to be perfect, this episode will give you the encouragement and practical ideas you need to feel a little more in control.,In this episode, Aisha shares her experiences living with multiple mental health diagnoses, including autism, anxiety, and depression, and discusses the ups and downs of managing them all at once. She talks about how she discovered effective coping strategies, from reaching out for support to learning the importance of boundaries and self-care. By opening up about her challenges and victories, Aisha reminds listeners that they’re not alone and that it’s okay to have hard days. The conversation is filled with practical tips and honest advice, making it a valuable listen for anyone looking to better understand how to navigate complex mental health journeys and find real-world ways to feel more balanced and supported.Discover how to navigate the complexities of multiple mental health diagnoses to regain control and balance in daily life.Celebrate real achievements that shine through despite facing ongoing mental health challenges.Embrace the power of self-acceptance and learn why owning your uniqueness transforms your emotional well-being.Master practical strategies tailored to managing ADHD as an adult and boost your focus and productivity.Unlock the benefits of building strong external support systems that can lift your mental health journey to new heights.Contact Me:https://www.twitter.com/AspergersStudiohttps://aspergersstudio.com/https://www.youtube.com/@AspergersStudiohttps://www.facebook.com/TheNeurodivergantConnectionhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/reidmiles/Support the show via my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AspergersStudioHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
From Plaster Masks to True Voice: Neurodivergence, Burnout, and Finding Your Worth with Nikki (Dominique) FavreauI thought helping others heal meant I was healed—until this conversation showed me what it costs to keep a mask on.In this episode of the Neurodivergent Connection, I sit down with Nikki (Dominique) Favreau—former psychiatry and addiction nurse turned entrepreneur—who shares how a single moment in art therapy cracked a plaster mask and gave her voice back. We talk about the quiet ways burnout sneaks in, the difference between performing survival and living truth, and how worthiness ties to dignity, not productivity.You’ll hear how Nikki shifted from caregiving to building a software company with a remote team in the Philippines, why she calls herself a “perfectionist in remission,” and the surprising way she spots emotional intelligence when hiring. We also unpack ADHD through a family lens, the relief (and fear) of being seen, and the first gentle question she invites you to ask if you feel stuck behind your own mask.What did that mask protect—and what did it cost? How did one professor become both a catalyst and a mirror? And what simple, everyday practices help you return to your core essence? I reveal what changed for me too.About the GuestNikki (Dominique) Favreau is a former mental health and rehab nurse with a master’s in mental health who now co-runs a software company. She supports entrepreneurs with hiring, training, and delegation, grounded in compassion, emotional intelligence, and lived neurodivergent experience.Key Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and why this story matters now1:10 – From psych nurse to entrepreneur: the unexpected pivot5:18 – Self-compassion in addiction work (and what came back to teach her)11:49 – ADHD, validation, and seeing patterns differently19:02 – Hyperfocus, structure, and burnout’s slow creep21:40 – Delegation, identity, and the “perfectionist in remission”23:40 – The plaster mask: what it hid and why it hurt to remove39:40 – Error management: why she asks her team to “make mistakes”64:21 – Burnout vs. soul loss: what she couldn’t see from the inside67:10 – The first gentle question if you feel stuck behind a maskIf this episode resonates, share it with a parent, educator, or anyone exploring Autism, ADHD, or burnout. Subscribe for more conversations that center neurodivergent voices and real-life strategies. #Neurodivergent #ADHD #ArtTherapy #Perfectionism #BurnoutHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
When Words Aren’t the Only Language: Parenting, AAC, and Advocacy with Jennifer McGeeWhat happens when a teen with profound autism joins your family—and words aren’t available? This conversation gets real.In this episode, I sit down with artist and adoptive parent Jennifer McGee to talk about raising her nephew Isaiah, who is non-speaking, and how their family learned to listen beyond words. You’ll hear how she built trust, safety, and connection at home, the moment a “speech pad” changed everything at a restaurant, and why a routine medical visit led to a setback they’re still navigating.We also get into big-picture questions: how to advocate in IEP meetings without burning out, what true accessibility can look like in public spaces, and why art can reach hearts when explanations fall short. Plus, Jennifer shares the story behind her children’s book series, starting with “Izzy Can’t Talk,” and the surprising audience it’s reaching.If you’ve wondered how to support non-speaking kids, build a real support circle, and show up in your community with empathy, this episode will help you rethink what communication and inclusion can be.Key Timestamps0:26 – Jennifer’s story and adopting Isaiah3:05 – Building safety at home during meltdowns4:00 – From signs and pictures to a speech device6:48 – The orange drink moment that changed everything8:18 – The future: caregiving, housing, and real fears10:38 – Why “building a village” is harder than it sounds14:49 – ABA today: what helped Isaiah engage and travel17:15 – Inside the Izzy book series and what’s next24:58 – The IEP wake-up call that sparked advocacy31:44 – What accessibility could look like in everyday places37:31 – Don’t give up: Jennifer’s message to families38:31 – Where to find Jennifer’s workAbout the GuestJennifer McGee is an artist, caregiver, and author of the children’s series beginning with “Izzy Can’t Talk.” She runs Inclusive Art House, creating art and resources that honor dignity, communication, and inclusion for disabled individuals.If this helped you, subscribe and share it with someone who needs a little encouragement today.Keywords: non-speaking autism, AAC, speech device, IEP advocacy, inclusive classrooms, profound autism, caregiver support, sensory-friendly#Neurodiversity #AutismAcceptance #AAC #CaregiverSupport #InclusiveEducationHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Real Talk for Special Needs Dads: Community, Communication, and Caring for YourselfIn this episode, I sat down with advocate and educator John Fella to talk candidly about fatherhood, support, and raising an autistic, nonverbal teen. This one’s practical, honest, and full of encouragement.Key Topics CoveredWhy dads often feel isolated—and how to build intentional community that actually helpsSupporting nonverbal communication: AAC, letter boards, and why there’s no one-size-fits-allABA today: what’s changed, what still depends on the therapist, and how to set boundariesHow to create better IEP relationships and reduce friction with school teamsSimple ways dads can bond with their kids when “traditional” activities don’t fitMain TakeawaysDon’t do this alone: Community isn’t optional—it’s protective. Start with one person who “gets it.” If groups feel like too much, go one-on-one first.Vulnerability is strength: You can’t get the right help if you won’t say you need it. Share as much as you’re ready for—then let people show up.Communication is multi-path: AAC (like TouchChat), signs, body language, and typing can work in combination. Follow your child, not the hype. Progress requires patience—and fit.ABA is about the person delivering it: A great therapist adapts and respects your child. If it’s rigid, repetitive, or stressful, speak up and adjust.Build IEP relationships early: Humanize your child with classroom talks, share what they love, and connect outside high-stress meetings. Collaboration beats confrontation.Redefine connection: If playing on a team isn’t realistic, watch games together, shoot hoops your way, or take short walks. Consistent moments matter.Find structured support: Organizations like the Special Fathers Network offer groups and one-on-one mentoring—local and virtual.“One person is a start. If you don’t have that person yet, reach out—today.”John’s resources and writing are at johnfella.com. He also has a memoir coming soon and a contribution to a book with Temple Grandin for educators and therapists.Listen to the full conversation for practical examples, how John mentors dads, and what’s worked with his son—so you can apply it in your own life today.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Shadow Work, Ego Death, and Finding Bliss: Facing the Dark to Find Your Light with AnnieWhat if the parts of you you’ve avoided are the ones holding your wisdom? In this episode, I sit down with Annie to explore the real work beneath “love and light” — and why the dark isn’t something to fear.You’ll hear how Annie created her approach, Awakening the Seeds, after more than 10,000 sessions, and why she calls herself an “ego death doula.” We talk about grief, liminal spaces, and how nervous system regulation and shadow work support creativity, leadership, and everyday life — especially for those of us who are neurodivergent or living in survival mode.I reveal the moments that stopped me in my tracks, and you’ll discover how Annie helps people move from masking and reactivity to calm, clear choice. Curious how to know if you’re bypassing? What integration actually looks like? Or why ideas often meet us in the dark? We get into all of it — without shying away from the hard parts.About the GuestAnnie is a healer and creator of Awakening the Seeds. She’s led over 10,000 sessions, trained across multiple modalities, and co-founded Seeds of Bliss, a space focused on bridging light and shadow, life and death, mind and emotion.Key Timestamps0:22 – Annie’s early intuition and the moment everything changed2:14 – Why therapy wasn’t her door and what opened instead5:07 – Hitting walls with clients and creating a new modality8:33 – Living in the liminal: life, death, grief, and growth10:39 – The shadow side of healing (and why light alone falls short)14:35 – Bypassing vs healing: simple signals to watch15:51 – Ego death: letting go of identities that keep you small19:01 – Seeds of Bliss: bridging opposites and cyclical living39:58 – Neurodivergence, intensity, and tools that actually help47:30 – Integration in real life: how you’ll know it’s workingIf this resonates, share the episode with someone who needs to hear it. Subscribe for more conversations that support neurodivergent folks, parents, educators, and caregivers. Check the show notes for Annie’s links and resources.#Neurodiversity #ShadowWork #EgoDeath #TraumaHealing #NervousSystemHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Support the show via my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AspergersStudioIn this episode, you’ll hear Whitney Price open up about her real-life journey as a mom to a child with autism and how facing those early challenges—like dealing with isolation, misdiagnoses, and financial stress—led her to create Unpuzzle Parents Connect, a thriving community for families just like yours. Whitney’s personal story is relatable and honest, from the confusion of her son’s diagnosis to discovering her own neurodiversity and learning to advocate fiercely for her family. She gets into what it’s really like to navigate therapies, insurance headaches, and the emotional highs and lows that come with raising a neurodiverse child. You’ll also find out how inclusion and community support can make a world of difference, not just for your kids but for you as a parent. If you’re searching for hope, practical advice, or simply want to feel less alone, this episode is packed with insights and encouragement you won’t want to miss.,In this episode, Whitney Price shares her personal journey as a mother to a child with autism, revealing the challenges her family faced with early diagnosis, limited resources, and feelings of isolation. Her experiences inspired her to start Unpuzzle Parents Connect, a supportive community offering guidance and connection to families navigating similar paths. Whitney discusses everything from the confusion and emotional toll of seeking answers for her son, to the practical struggles of accessing therapies and dealing with insurance issues. She also talks about discovering her own neurodiversity and how that shaped her approach to advocacy and support. Listeners gain a real sense of how inclusion and community can empower both children and parents, making the tough days a bit easier. The episode provides relatable stories, useful advice, and genuine encouragement for any family seeking understanding and connection on their autism journey.Whitney's Resources:Visit unpuzzledparentsconnect.com to learn more about the organization and access resources.Follow Unpuzzled Parents Connect on Facebook to join the community and stay updated on events and resources.Join virtual classes, therapy sessions, or activities offered by Unpuzzled Parents Connect, which are free to all members.Attend in-person or online Knowledge is Power monthly trainings and workshops provided by Unpuzzled Parents Connect.Participate in support groups, including the new DAD support group and Coffee and Connections events, by connecting through Unpuzzled Parents Connect’s platforms.Contact Me:https://www.linkedin.com/in/reidmiles/https://www.twitter.com/AspergersStudiohttps://www.youtube.com/@AspergersStudiohttps://www.instagram.com/TheNeurodivergantConnectionhttps://aspergersstudio.com/https://www.facebook.com/TheNeurodivergantConnectionHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
ADHD, Bipolar, and the 24-Hour Rule: Lessons From a Mental Hospital with Laura Greenberg SchilerShe went in scared and left with 10 life lessons—and a book. We unpack ADHD, bipolar, and the 24-hour rule.In this episode, I sit down with Laura Greenberg Schiller, a former attorney, mom of three, and now author of Finding Flawless. Laura was diagnosed with bipolar at 39 and later with inattentive ADHD. Her time in a mental hospital didn’t break her—it gave her clarity, steadiness, and a simple rule that changed her relationships.You’ll hear how Laura went from high-achieving lawyer to retired by choice, why inattentive ADHD shaped far more of her daily life than she realized, and the one boundary she uses to keep mood swings from running the show. We also talk about writing a deeply personal book without losing yourself in the process, and what people get wrong about psychiatric hospitals.If you or someone you love is juggling ADHD, bipolar, or both, this conversation offers relief, perspective, and a few practical anchors you can start using today.About the GuestLaura Greenberg Schiller is a New Jersey-based former attorney turned author. Living with bipolar disorder and inattentive ADHD, she distills hard-won insights from her hospitalization into accessible lessons in her upcoming book, Finding Flawless.Key Timestamps0:02 – Why Laura’s “worst moment” became a turning point2:20 – Bipolar at 39: the manic episode no one saw coming6:11 – Six hours a day of therapy—and the career truth it revealed10:41 – ADHD strengths: hyperfocus and writing a book in weeks13:59 – The writing plan that actually worked24:43 – Inattentive ADHD: the diagnosis that finally made sense28:15 – ADHD + bipolar meds: risks, limits, and what helped35:24 – The rule that saved her marriage (and daily peace)39:56 – Mental hospital myths vs. reality52:02 – Where to follow Laura and her bookCall to Action: If this episode helped you, share it with a parent, educator, or friend who needs a safe, honest conversation about neurodiversity. Subscribe for more real stories, practical strategies, and community.Find Laura: Instagram Finding Flawless • Facebook: Laura Greenberg Schiller. Book: Finding Flawless (coming to Amazon).Keywords: ADHD, bipolar disorder, inattentive ADHD, mental health, neurodiversity, coping strategies, writing process, psychiatric hospital, medication, parenting#ADHD #BipolarDisorder #Neurodiversity #MentalHealth #InsideTheAspergersStudiosHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
Win Charles on Grit, Grief, and Raising Disability AwarenessEducation changes everything—and Win Charles shows how it powers resilience, storytelling, and advocacy.In this conversation, I sit down with Win Charles—author, podcaster, and disability rights educator—who was born with cerebral palsy and has built a life that challenges assumptions at every turn. You’ll hear how she turned grief into purpose, why she said yes to a Kona triathlon in seconds, and what training taught her about doing hard things when the world isn’t built with access in mind.We also get into her two podcasts—one focused on disability awareness and another giving women (especially women with disabilities) space to talk about mental health. Win shares the message she wants every audience to take home, the stereotype she refuses to let slide, and the surprising theme songs that keep her moving.If you’re a parent, educator, caregiver, or someone newly diagnosed, this episode will leave you with questions worth exploring: What shifts when we center access? How do we hold both ambition and advocacy? And what does “not giving up on your dreams” look like in real life?About the GuestMy guest, Win Charles, is a podcaster, author of “I, Win,” and a disability rights educator. She’s competed in an Ironman event, speaks nationwide, and hosts shows on disability awareness and women’s mental health. Learn more at winningheart.weebly.com.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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