We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Ever wondered what truly drives your decisions and actions? What if understanding your core values could unlock a more fulfilling life? In today’s final episode of the Personal Growth Series, we delve into the transformative power of core values and how they can guide you towards purpose and self-discovery.  DeAnza Jarrett and I explore the journey of identifying, applying, and reevaluating your core values for personal growth and stronger relationships. Core values are the fundamental beliefs that shape who we are and how we live. Understanding your core values is crucial, not just for personal fulfillment, but also for building strong relationships and achieving professional success. Don’t forget: Understanding your core values is a lifelong journey of self-discovery Living in alignment with your values leads to greater authenticity and fulfillment Core values impact all areas of your life, from personal relationships to professional success Regularly re-evaluating your values is essential for growth and adaptation Your values can serve as a powerful compass for decision-making Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. What are YOUR core values? Take some time this week to reflect on what truly matters to you. Share your insights by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways Core values are essential for guiding decisions and actions. Identifying core values can lead to greater self-awareness. Core values inform priorities, not the other way around. Having a clear vision for the future is crucial for personal growth. Core values can help establish necessary boundaries in relationships. It's important to honor and respect each other's core values. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you running on empty? Like you're giving so much but have nothing left for yourself? What if there was a way to truly refuel and find balance in life? Join my friend DeAnza Jarrett and I for Day 2 of the Personal Growth series as we discuss the essential concept of replenishment – what it is, why it matters, and how to make it a regular part of your life. What I want is for you to walk away understanding the vital concept of replenishment and its profound impact on our overall well-being. Guess what friend… replenishment is not a luxury, it is a necessity for thriving.  This episode is jam packed with actionable steps and practical handles to help you: Understand the replenishment cycle and its relevance to different life stages Identify and prioritize replenishment activities across all areas of well-being (physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual) Acquire Biblical insights on the importance of rest, restoration, and balance Gain strategies for integrating replenishment into daily routines and overcoming common obstacles Recognize the difference between superficial self-care and deep, meaningful replenishment Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. Join the conversation! Share your own replenishment strategies and experiences by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. What are your go-to activities for recharging your mind, body, and spirit? Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Free Harvard Courses https://pll.harvard.edu/catalog/free?page=5  Takeaways Identify where you're at before trying to fix it. Replenishment is not just about self-care; it's about refueling all areas of life. Disciplines are different from replenishment; both are necessary. Replenishment can take on different cadences: daily, weekly, quarterly, and annually. Integrate replenishment into your life, even in busy stages. Invite others into your replenishment activities when possible. Make replenishment a priority to avoid burnout. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're wandering aimlessly, unsure of your next step? Feeling stuck in neutral, with no idea how to shift gears? Do you get that sense of being on a path, but not knowing where it leads? I invite you to tune in to this 3-day series on Personal Growth to help you navigate life's pivots and gain clarity through life planning.  I am joined by my friend DeAnza Jarrett from the Paterson Group to discuss the challenges faced during pivotal moments in life. Our conversation emphasizes the powerful concepts of personal restoration, rediscovering your identity, and the transformative potential of structured life planning. We explore how pivotal life moments can often leave us feeling lost and adrift, and how the right framework can provide the clarity and direction we crave.  One powerful tool that DeAnza shares with us is the Four Helpful Lists: What is Right What is Wrong What is Confused What is Missing Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group.  We hope this episode empowers you to take control of your journey and create a life filled with purpose and intention. What pivotal moment in your life has shaped who you are today? Share your thoughts by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  Don’t forget to subscribe to We’re Going There podcast on your favorite platform for more insightful conversations on personal growth and development! Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways You don't have to navigate life's challenges alone. Restoration requires intentional planning and support. Understanding your identity is crucial during pivot points. Perspective is essential before making any plans. The four helpful lists can clarify your current situation. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like your leadership journey was more about enduring pain than achieving success? In this sneak peek of a leadership development session held at Revere Church, I explore the challenges and pain often associated with leadership. It emphasizes that pain can be a catalyst for growth and the importance of developing healthy coping mechanisms. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like David, the session highlights finding strength in faith and building a supportive community. My focus is to encourage everyone to embrace their leadership journey, acknowledging pain, and seeking growth through faith and connection with others. Some key topics include: The role of community during crises Pursuing purpose amidst pain Addressing personal pain The value of trust Balancing discipleship with individual beliefs The impact of presence Finding God's guidance during difficult times can bring peace and help overcome the fear of pain and of having to prove yourself to others. Carefully consider the cost of discipleship, but also know that the rewards of faithfulness are always worth the challenges.  Share your challenges and also your victories by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth by Samuel Chand https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Pain-Classroom-Samuel-Chand/dp/0718031598  Leading Through Pain | Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast Quote Your vision must push you past your pain. Takeaways Leading through pain is possible and necessary. You are qualified to lead if you show up. Pain is an integral part of growth and leadership. Sacrifice is essential for effective leadership. Your threshold of pain determines your growth potential. Strengthening oneself in the Lord is crucial during tough times. Coping mechanisms can be healthy or unhealthy; identify yours. Building a supportive community is vital for leadership. Vision must be strong enough to push through pain. Change occurs when desire outweighs fear.   The people of God are essential during crises. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/RL0c1i1ZHwM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can silence be a source of healing? Are you ready to embrace the power of silence in your life? Friends, I’m excited to introduce the profound concept of a "theology of silence". I have discovered the transformative power of finding strength in the face of betrayal through stillness and silence. It is so important to learn to share our stories from a place of healing and wholeness, rather than from a position of woundedness. Using the life of King David as a powerful example, I discuss the vital lessons of: Integrity: Maintaining moral and ethical standards even amidst trials. Honor: Honor up, honor down, and honor all around. Surrender: The profound power of yielding to God's will, even in the face of betrayal and challenges. I want to encourage you to reflect on your own journey of healing and consider the role of silence in your lives.  Share your story of how you are overcoming challenges and finding healing and tag and me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Revere Church Honor Anyways // Cesar Delgado // Mark 6:1-6 Quote We honor up, we honor down, we honor all around. Takeaways Sharing stories from a healed place is crucial. Honor others regardless of their behavior. The Lord will fight for you; you only need to be still. Betrayal can come from both authority figures and peers. Integrity is essential in leadership. Silence can be a powerful response to injustice. Love covers a multitude of sins. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself dreading a difficult conversation, unsure of how to approach it without causing more harm than good? This is our last episode of 2024, friends! Join Lauren and I as we dive deep into the art and science of conflict resolution. We explore why conflicts are inevitable and how we can handle them with confidence and grace. Key Highlights: Roots of Conflict Facing Fears Conflict Styles Gender Dynamics The BRAVE Framework Key Takeaways: The importance of understanding and affirming needs during conflicts. Practical tips for voicing your needs effectively without escalating the situation. Embracing discomfort as a part of the conflict resolution process. Ending conversations with clarity to ensure mutual understanding. Join us for an enlightening conversation packed with practical tools and insights that will help you navigate difficult conversations, foster healthier relationships, and promote personal growth. Show your appreciation to my co-host Lauren by tagging us @laurenbronsonpetrous and me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/about  Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast: Mastering Hard Conversations https://youtu.be/kpRd_NseuDM?si=65R2iNdwLUhMScnt Takeaways Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Understanding your values is crucial for effective conflict resolution. Many people avoid conflict due to fear of rejection or misunderstanding. Identifying whether you are a 'turtle' or 'porcupine' can help you understand your conflict style. Conflict is a healthy part of relationships and should be approached with intention. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/yQMa-g_HZCk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling lost or overwhelmed as the new year approaches? Discover how choosing a "Word for the Year" can provide clarity, direction, and intention for your life. Friends, I’m back with our annual word for the year episode. My heart is to guide you through the process so that you can discover your own word, which I believe will benefit your personal and spiritual growth.  The 5 Steps to discovering your word are: Evaluate: Reflect on the past year, identify areas for growth, and cultivate gratitude. Think: Connect with your feelings and emotions through meditation, prayer, or silence. Create a List: Write down 10 words, images, or feelings that resonate with your vision for the year. Refine: Highlight the words that stand out and evoke strong emotions. Decide: Commit to your chosen word and use it as an anchor throughout the year. I believe that if you invest time in this transformative exercise, your word will be a tool for setting intentions, finding direction, and aligning your life with your deepest values and aspirations.  This is a personal journey. Take the time to reflect, feel, and choose a word that will empower and inspire you in the coming year. And don’t forget to share your word with me on social media by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. I’m grateful for you and wish you a blessed new year! B RESOURCES/LINKS FREE PDF: 5 Steps To Choosing Your Word https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/p2taw61kbogbo47bfst69/5-STEPS-TO-CHOOSING-YOUR-WORD.png?rlkey=grxejkcaf0sxnm5ibvdnp83g6&st=otajvsbo&dl=0 Quote If we don't reflect on where we've been, it'll be hard to determine where we're going. Takeaways Reflection on the past year is crucial for future planning. Evaluating feelings helps in identifying what truly matters. Creating a list of intentions can clarify goals for the year. Being committed to the process is essential for success. It's important to celebrate blessings from the past year. The word for the year can serve as an anchor during challenges. Engaging in this practice can foster a deeper connection with faith. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered what your favorite podcast host can't-live-without items are? Yes, I finally agreed to the episode that I’ve been dreading to do - the favorite things episode. In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Lauren and I got to ditch the gatekeeping and spill the tea on our absolute favorite things. From morning rituals and must-have beauty products to go-to recipes and inspiring books, this episode is a peek into the life of your favorite podcast host and my co-host/BFF Lauren. Join the Conversation! We want to hear from you! Share your favorite things, morning rituals, or dream dinner guests on social media using the hashtag #FriendsDontGatekeep. Don’t forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous and you will be entered to win some of our favorite things! Details below.  Share the love and subscribe, rate, and review the podcast!  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Favorite Things List: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/dv5ds7sqwxf0wqvttksbj/WGT-Ep-177-Favorite-Things-List.pdf?rlkey=pewgctmobkmxvh0vz9mhf9scr&st=u9s3h5mu&dl=0  Giveaway rules: 1. Eligibility: Open to ​​everyone. Must be ​1​2 years or older. 2. How to Enter: Follow: Follow ​Bianca @biancaolthoff and Lauren @laurenbronsonpetrous on ​Instagram account. Like: Like the post associated with this episode. 3. Prize: ​5 lucky winners will receive:  1 Travel-size Grande Lash MD Lash Serum 1 Travel-size Caudalie Face Spray, and 1 "Grit Don't Quit" book. The prize is non-transferable and has no cash value. 4. Winner Selection: The winner will be selected at random. The winner will be notified via ​Instagram direct message. 5. Deadline: The giveaway​ starts on Monday, ​December 2nd​ at 1am PST through ​Monday, December ​9th ​at 1pm PST 6. Additional Terms: By entering the giveaway, you agree to ​I​TNOL's rules. ​I​TNOL reserves the right to modify or cancel the giveaway at any time. ​I​TNOL is not responsible for lost, late, or misdirected entries. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/ESrHfNI14ww Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of the holiday season? Let's take a moment to pause, reflect, and focus on the simple joys of life. Gratitude matters and it is more than just a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a powerful practice that can transform your life. By cultivating gratitude, you can: Reduce stress and anxiety: Focusing on the positive aspects of your life can help ease stress and anxiety. Improve your physical health: Studies have shown that gratitude can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and improve sleep quality. Enhance your relationships: Expressing gratitude to loved ones can strengthen your bonds and deepen your connections. Increase your overall happiness: By focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, you can cultivate a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment. Practical Tips to Practice Gratitude Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you're grateful for each day. Meditate on gratitude: Spend a few minutes each day focusing on the things you're grateful for. Express gratitude to others: Let people know how much you appreciate them. Volunteer your time: Giving back to your community can boost your sense of gratitude. Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to the present moment and appreciate the small things. I invite you to join us in a gratitude challenge. For the next week, commit to practicing gratitude daily. Share your experiences and reflections with us on social media using the hashtag #Gr8ful. Let's inspire each other to live a life of gratitude and joy. Don’t forget to tag me @biancaolthoff. Wishing you a blessed and grateful holiday season! B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Thanksgiving is a time to embrace gratitude. Desiring more can lead to emptiness and dissatisfaction. Gratitude is a powerful tool for joy and fulfillment. Practicing gratitude can transform our lives. Contentment is not wanting more, but appreciating what we have. Complaining can destroy our sense of gratitude. Gratitude should be a daily practice, not just a holiday sentiment. We are responsible for cultivating our own gratitude. Sharing our gratitude with others enhances its impact. The holiday season is an opportunity to reflect on our blessings. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=1df497a2742c4ea9  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/q94QT3u_KyE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship? Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.  We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.  Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4 Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes? Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce.  We talk about important topics like: Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period. The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss. Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles. Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one’s identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth. Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development. Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community. Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times.  Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/ Watch the video on Youtube https://youtu.be/hg4QEoHYJyw Takeaways Community support is crucial during challenging times. Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness. Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing. Loss can transform you into a stronger individual. It's important to have accountability in leadership. Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity. Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed. New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss. Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty. Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.  I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going. Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com Takeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wrestled with being alone? How can a season of solitude be a catalyst for personal growth?  I am in a very difficult season of forced aloneness and I wanted to share my story with you. Thankfully my good friend Lauren Bronson Petrous is joining me as my co-host and we delve into the importance of changing our perspectives on aloneness. We emphasize that being alone does not equate to being lonely and explore the power of solitude for self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional health, while addressing societal perceptions of being alone.  Our goal is to underscore the significance of self-awareness and the journey of understanding one's identity, particularly in a culture that often prioritizes community and partnership. Some key topics are: Redefining aloneness and its importance The power of solitude for self-discovery and personal growth Societal perceptions of being alone versus being lonely The role of self-awareness in personal and professional success Intentional solitude as a catalyst for growth and resilience Insights from the Bible on the value of aloneness Scientific support for the benefits of solitude Empowerment and liberation through being alone Balancing community and self-understanding Profound personal insights gained from forced aloneness We want to encourage you to embrace the transformative power of aloneness, using it as a tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. Let us know how you are embracing aloneness by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous &  @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/tnJVOdDVLS8  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do experiences from different generations influence leadership styles in the church? Friends, in this bonus interview by Amy Ayala, I get the privilege to have a conversation with someone who is not only a wonderful teacher and preacher, but also my father, Pastor Pancho Juarez. My dad has had a very unique journey as an immigrant and a pastor in the United States. He has gone through many challenges and triumphs while leading a church in East Los Angeles, The Ark Montebello.  We discuss the importance of cultural identity, and also reflect on the sacrifices made in ministry. One of the highlights of our conversation is when we get to discuss the generational legacy of faith and resilience that my dad has modeled as the leader in our family. We also touch on the impact that our shared experiences have had on our leadership styles and community-building efforts.  Our goal is to encourage future generations of leaders, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, to embrace their unique stories and continue their calling with tenacity and faith. Key Topics: The unique journey of immigrant pastors in the U.S. Challenges and triumphs of church leadership The importance of cultural identity in ministry Generational legacy of faith and resilience Impact of experiences on leadership styles Encouragement for future generations of leaders Friends, we want you to embrace your unique story and continue your calling with unwavering faith and resilience. Let us know where you’re at on your remarkable journey of faith by tagging Pastor Pancho @thearkmontebello and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Pancho Juarez The Ark Montebello  Quote Embracing cultural identity to build stronger communities. Takeaways Pastor Bianca attributes her leadership qualities to her father's sacrifices. The journey of immigrant pastors is filled with challenges but also immense rewards. Cultural identity plays a significant role in their ministry approach. The importance of resilience and grit in church planting is emphasized. Ministry is a privilege that comes with both joy and pain. The cost of ministry includes personal sacrifices and emotional challenges. Encouragement for future leaders to embrace their unique backgrounds. The significance of community building in a thriving church environment. The conversation highlights the importance of mentorship and legacy. Faith and the Holy Spirit empower them to overcome obstacles. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ We are so grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like a leader but didn't know it? Bianca sits down with Jordan Montgomery, the host of the Growth Over Goals podcast. Together, they explore Bianca’s remarkable journey as a leader, delving into the challenges she faced growing up as a first-generation American and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way. Key Discussion Points: Bianca’s Leadership Journey: Bianca shares her personal story, highlighting the obstacles she overcame and the pivotal moments that shaped her path to becoming a recognized leader. Challenges of a First-Generation American: Insights into the unique challenges Bianca faced and how these experiences influenced her leadership style. Leadership Insights: Bianca emphasizes the importance of time and patience in developing leadership skills, encouraging young leaders to serve others and prioritize personal growth. Health and Boundaries: The significance of maintaining personal health and setting boundaries to ensure effective leadership and overall well-being. Hope and Redemption: Bianca discusses the role of hope and redemption in leadership, sharing her perspective on overcoming adversity and inspiring others. Upcoming Projects: Bianca gives a sneak peek into her upcoming projects, offering listeners a glimpse of what’s on the horizon for her. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for aspiring leaders. This is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and the importance of serving others in the journey of leadership. Friends, listen now to gain inspiration and actionable tips for your own leadership journey. Follow @jordanmmontgomery and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jordan Montgomery  The Growth Over Goals Podcast Takeaways Bianca identifies as a leader only in the last five years. She faced significant challenges growing up in East LA. Time is essential for developing leadership skills. Young leaders often overlook the importance of patience. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining health. Soul health is a game changer for leaders. Rest and recovery are vital for productivity. Serving others can lead to personal growth. Redemption and healing are always possible. The health of a leader reflects the health of their organization. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has pride ever impacted your life? Ready to recognize and address hidden pride in your heart? Bible teacher, theologian, author, podcaster, book coach, husband and father of four, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and I discuss the profound topics of humility and pride. Dr. Joel shares his personal journey, revealing how a humiliating childhood experience shaped his understanding of humility and its significance. He explains that biblical humility is rooted in recognizing God and our true identity as His royal children. Pride, on the other hand, is the elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Dr. Joel emphasizes that humility acts as a protection, prevention, and preservation, and that curiosity without limits can be destructive. The conversation shifts to the crucial role of boundaries and limits in the context of curiosity and desire. Dr. Joel explains how God established boundaries in the pre-fallen world to safeguard Adam and Eve from self-destruction. He clarifies that limits are not punitive but rather a means to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Dr. Muddamalle also explores the concept of hidden pride, which can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit and lead to destructive behavior. He highlights the importance of humility in overcoming pride and accepting our limits and weaknesses. Key Points: Humility: A foundational understanding rooted in recognizing God and our identity as His children. Pride: The elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Boundaries and Limits: Essential for protecting us from self-destruction and enslavement to unholy desires. Hidden Pride: A subtle form of pride that can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit. The Power of Humility: Overcoming pride, accepting limits, and embracing our weaknesses. Tag Joel @muddamalle and I @biancaolthoff to let us know what practical handles you are applying in your daily life. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Dr. Joel Muddamalle muddamalle.com  Book: The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility Quote Hidden pride is so deceptive because the conversation is happening in the chambers of the human heart. Takeaways Biblical humility starts with an awareness of God and our identity as royal children of God. Pride is the elevation of self and leads to chaos and confusion. Humility is a protection, prevention, and preservation. Curiosity without limits is chaotic. Boundaries and limits were established by God in the pre-fall world to protect us from self-destruction. Limits are not a punishment, but a way to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Hidden pride corrupts the fruit of the Spirit and leads to destructive behavior. Humility is the antidote to pride and helps us accept our limits and weaknesses. Anxiety and shame can be addressed through humility and accepting our weaknesses. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to create a life that you love? Are you ready to take small steps to make it happen? My friend Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, and I talk about the unique challenges and pressures women face in their 20s and 30s, a time Stephanie calls the "everything era." This is a period marked by significant life decisions, societal expectations, and a whole lot of figuring it out. Stephanie shares her own experiences navigating this tricky terrain and offers some valuable takeaways: Embrace the Power of Choice: The 'everything era' is YOUR time to take the reins and create the life YOU want. It's about aligning your decisions with your values, even when those values don't always align with traditional expectations. Transition to the "I Get to Create It Now Era": Life throws curveballs. Embrace those detours as opportunities for personal growth and course correction. Each challenge is a chance to refine your vision and build the life you love. Don't Be Afraid of Disagreements: Navigating this phase can lead to conflicts with loved ones, especially when it comes to life choices. Use these disagreements as opportunities for open communication and mutual understanding. Listen in as Stephanie shares her personal journey of embracing the "I get to create it now era" and how a move to Spain opened up a whole new chapter of her life.  Follow us on social media at @biancaolthoff and @smaywilson. Stay connected with Stephanie through her adventures.   XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Stephanie May Wilson stephaniemaywilson.com Book: Create a Life You Love: How to Quiet Outside Voices So You Can Finally Hear Your Own Quote The 'everything era' is a time of uncertainty and pressure to figure out life. Takeaways The 'everything era' refers to the period in a woman's life, typically in her 20s and 30s, when she is making significant life decisions and facing societal pressures. It's important to define what success and happiness mean to you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations. The transition from the 'everything era' to the 'I get to create it now era' is a defining moment for personal growth and decision-making. You have the power to decide how you want to live your life and make choices that align with your values and desires. When life doesn't go as expected, you have options: you can quit, keep moving forward, change tactics, or ask for help. Surround yourself with a supportive inner circle who can provide guidance and advice, but ultimately trust yourself to make the best decisions for your life. Creating a life you love may involve making intentional decisions that fit for a season but may not be permanent. Taking control of your own life and making decisions that align with your values and desires can lead to personal fulfillment and happiness. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion? Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it. Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships. Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Sharon Hodde Miller Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises Quote The most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them. Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions? Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore: The true meaning of holiness The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him. Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/  Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Quote We don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority. Takeaways Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures. Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him. The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/mVL6emS3mF4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had feelings of insecurity and inadequacy? Ever felt like an imposter when surrounded by big names? Friends, today I get real about feeling like a fraud. That’s why I delve into the concept of imposter syndrome and that nagging inner voice that questions our abilities and worthiness. Some of the insights that I want you to walk away with are how to: Overcome insecurity and use it as a tool for growth Recognize your inner saboteur and challenge its negativity Use feelings of insecurity as a springboard for action, not self-deprecation I’ve had to battle with self-doubt and the voices in my head that whisper I’m not good enough. I want us to use self-doubt as a tool for growth, not a weapon of self-destruction. Ask yourself ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?’ Unleash your Godfidence to find your voice; The world needs your message! Let us know how you are taming your inner saboteur by tagging me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote The beauty of that voice of insecurity is an earnest recognition that I'm not everything. But the dark side of that voice is when we let that voice convince us that we're nothing. Takeaways Imposter syndrome is common and can make us doubt our abilities and feel like frauds. The voice of insecurity can be used as a tool for self-reflection and growth. Humility is a choice and allows us to recognize our limitations while still using our gifts. We should remind ourselves that we are called to fulfill a purpose and use our voices. Asking 'If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' can help overcome self-doubt and take action. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/mD3Nlb5YZ5s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices