That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

Jason uses Bigfoot and other cryptids as a playful metaphor for couples everyone knows exist but rarely meets, and explores how visibility, images, and reputation act like marketing in the lifestyle community. With personal anecdotes, allergy-fueled honesty, and event notes, he explains how to craft a compelling personal brand, change perceptions through repeated evidence, and use presence to attract the right connections—always emphasizing consent and authenticity.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason shares a short story about Sam and Brenda, a married couple navigating jealousy, alcohol, and the local lifestyle meetup scene. The episode follows their tense night at a beachside bar where flirting, misunderstandings, and old wounds surface amid a crowded community gathering. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason marks the podcast's two-year anniversary with a candid episode about a recent lifestyle cruise, personal reflection, and reconnecting with what he truly wants from the lifestyle. He shares stories about community, consent, the realities of cruise culture, and the bittersweet moments of feeling both connected and alone. He also opens up about mental health, a recent OCD diagnosis, and the importance of communication, STI testing, and honest boundaries. The episode is a mix of gratitude, advice for newcomers, and a reminder that the lifestyle is a culture built on respect, curiosity, and human connection.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

This episode explores the often-overlooked practice of aftercare in the lifestyle—what it is, why it matters, and how to give and ask for it. Jason breaks down physical, emotional, and mental aftercare needs, offers practical check-ins (like simple "You good?" texts or water and hugs), and explains how aftercare differs from repair and accountability. Listeners will hear real examples—from cuddling and reclaimed sex to the dreaded "drop"—and get actionable tips: set boundaries ahead of time, schedule debriefs if needed, respect different needs for space or touch, and never use aftercare to erase bad behavior. A clear, adult-focused guide to staying compassionate and connected after play.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason explores how personal stories in the lifestyle—good, bad, and funny—shape community norms, communicate etiquette, and help people find compatible play styles. He reflects on the oral tradition of sharing origin stories, dating adventures, and the way narratives influence attraction and behavior. The episode also covers ethics around storytelling: avoid naming or shaming, understand the difference between gossip and warnings, practice "story consent," and respect privacy so stories build community instead of destroying reputations.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason explores the "witching hour": that late-night moment at lifestyle parties, cruises, and events when the vibe shifts and people look for last-chance encounters. He shares stories, types of people you’ll meet, and the emotional realities of endings, rejection, and desire. Jason gives practical advice: discuss boundaries with your partner before the event, be clear about intentions, practice consent and testing, and know when to be bold or walk away. The episode is candid, adult, and focused on real-world lifestyle etiquette.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

A fictional episode in which a newbie couple explores the lifestyle with a dinner date that escalates into boundary-crossing and confusion; highlights the importance of consent, communication, and respecting limits. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason uses the hotel mezzanine as a metaphor to explore social tiers in the ethical non‑monogamy community from the high‑visibility "shiny people" and secret side rooms to the lobby of newbies and burnouts. He reflects on inclusion, burnout, and how popularity often masks real connection. The episode validates different ways to engage, warns against chasing status, and encourages listeners to find their own tribe and experience the lifestyle on their own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening.  Jason connects Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol (via the Muppet version) to the lifestyle world, using the ghosts of past, present, and future as metaphors for memories, party energy, and long-term consequences. He shares personal holiday stories about raves, parties, shame, joy, boundaries, and community, urging listeners to come in, connect, and care for each other as the year turns.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality. Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd. He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events. This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship. The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks. Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike. www.instagram.com/TheFlirtyPineapples/   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery. The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle. This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety. This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder that the lifestyle can be a meaningful way to find community and connection. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures. Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community. He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com