Out The Gayte

Did you miss us?! We are BACK!It’s been a hot minute and there is so much to catch up on, including, but not limited to: Chris' European adventures, which involved him having to come out all over again  Matty's bad boy reputation now that he's got a tattoo Brad's new TV show obsession, which includes a peen count that you'll be very impressed by Plus Matty has a proposition for the boys as he puts a list together of 40 things to do before he turns 40.And we discuss the top who's set to take on ONE THOUSAND bottoms.  Follow the podcast on InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Once again Pockets and Brad have knocked one out of the park and come together for a record without fearless leader Chris on board to handle logistics this week. Straight out the gate (no pun intended) Brad needs to confront Matty about something his partner Karl witnessed this weekend - it involves a stop sign and a sprinkling of road rage. There's a couple of Hotties to discuss - first up are we about to see ALL of Kiwi actor KJ Apa in his upcoming movie? And are there nude photos of a former Glee star on the internet anywhere? AFL player Mitch Brown made history as the first openly LGBT+ player when he came out as bisexual recently - and you won't believe the powerful move he's now made. Matty went to a rural pub over the weekend and somehow ended up pouring pints behind the bar. Plus why did Pedro Pascal comment "yay gay" on his most recent Instagram post? The boys need your help.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys had to start this week's episode with a gentle ribbing of Pockets who found himself the lead story on two major news publications after his disastrous weekend! One of us is about to go to Disneyland for the first time, one of us has been EIGHT times, and one swears he’ll never ever go - can you guess who’s who?! We discuss the news of Charlie Kirk's death, and the complicated feelings surrounding the whole event. There was a deep dive into the gay and inclusive rugby tournament - the Purchas Cup - and just how beautiful and successful it was. Plus why is there a straight man on TikTok rating famous men's "members"?! We're not mad, just curious. Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There's a lot in the doc this week for the boys to get through - and first thing's first, did Chris follow through with the challenge set for him to talk to his gym crush? You know we can't resist talking about The White Lotus - and with the news that the next season will be filmed in France, we start building our dream cast. We also have a few TV recommendations for you this week, including something for both the lesbians and the gays. Matty has a big dilemma involving an invite to a 30th birthday dinner, and we need your help! Plus former Deputy Prime Minister Grant Robertson has written a new book, and has posed a very interesting question: are we ready for a gay Prime Minsiter? Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Move over Sticky Bishops - there's a new fast food item taking the boys by the horns, so to speak. None of us are immune to a cheeky perv from time to time, but it turns Chris has been checking out someone he actually knows! So the boys have set him a challenge. There's not one, not two, but THREE hotties of the week - including the son of a very famous couple. Brad's been investigating elephants in Sri Lanka, and it turns out they're not opposed to a bit of man on man action in the animal kingdom. Plus was this Australian pop star flirting with Pockets?! We'll provide the evidence and let you be the judge. Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You know it’s a good week on Out The Gayte when there’s not one, but two, Hotties of the Week, and we likey. We run through a list of things that just feel gay - like lying on your stomach on the phone. We toss around a few ideas for the title of ep, and of course one of them is Jonathan Bailey related. We’ve got two new words to add to your vocabulary - get ready to use dwerking and jelging in everyday conversations. Plus we reminisce about the early days of our relationships after one of Matty's colleagues went on their first ever date, and wondered if you need to immediately feel a spark. Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There is a LOT to catch up on this week - our Papi Chris is back from Mexico with everything that went down with his surrogacy journey. Firstly, how was the clinic's cuck chair, and what visual aids were available? But secondly, why a sea turtle felt like a message from on high. Brad, the master of words, teaches the boys about the phrase "crutch cruise", after he swung past the local skate park for a perv. There might be Swandris and Red Bands in Matty's future, but he needs advice from our rural Gaytors. We've got a fresh Hottie of the Week and let's just say thick thighs get the guys. Plus is an Out The Gayte on the cards for us?! Wait, no, we can't go making promises we can't keep...or can we?! Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A very proud moment this week, as the pairing most likely to pull pin on a podcast record manage to get together! Chris is away in Mexico kickstarting his journey to daddyhood, and we were excited to get a voice message from him! It was a stressful morning for Pockets, with his dog Otis going missing - find out where he ended up! Plus is Brad a lifesaver?! He was a first responder to an incident over the weekend, and it’s a pretty crazy story. We're obsessed with the very clever way a drag queen has called out JK Rowling. Plus, a new hottie of the week has us obsessed with luscious locks!  Follow us on Instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There is big news on the pod this week - Chris has his bags packed ready to jet off to Mexico for the start of his journey to fatherhood! We get the full low down on what's involved, and the part that's already making him emotional. Matty had a big mix-up with his Uber Eats delivery while hungover on the couch - but if there's a silver lining, at least it didn't involve a Sticky Bishop. There's a new Hottie of the Week courtesy of Brad - all thanks to the new Happy Gilmore movie. Please welcome our favourite new crush Bad Bunny! One of our regular Gaytors is engaged, and it's got us all in the feels about this wee community.Plus you won't believe which celeb has released a new sex toy - and it's DOUBLE SIDED! Follow us on instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are strapped in, but it turns out Brad and Matty have been seeing a lot of each other recently. First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered. Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something. Chris brings a brand-new term to the table - soft swapping - but we think it might be more intimate than straight sex. Plus, apparently there's a hot new city for the gays, and it's right here in Aotearoa - but you'll never guess where! Follow us on instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys, perhaps for the first time in Out The Gayte history, have followed through with something! The plans made it out of the group chat and the fellas headed along to the Falcons strip show fundraiser. But before that, there were pre-drinks at Brad's, and Chris found something in his bathroom that he's never mentioned to us before now. Speaking of bathrooms, you will not believe what was found in the locker rooms after swim club last week - it is shocking, and Brad SWEARS it's not his. Plus Matty's become an accidental auctioneer, but maybe he should've had a couple less beers before he picked up the gavel.  Follow us on instagram @outthegayteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Never heard the phrase “sticky bishop” before?! Don't stress - by the end of this episode, you'll have heard it 100 times. Matt y watched the rugby on the weekend as was suddenly very interested in the commentary after some wildly sexual innuendo. Speaking of rugby, we were very invested in Brad's story about the straight team mates who got a little...umm...gay in the locker rooms. The baby journey is continuing at light speed for Chris - so much so that he's off to Mexico in a matter of weeks to get up close and personal with a cup. Plus you won't believe who knocked on Pockets' door the other morning while he *ahem* enjoyed his own company.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a raspy start to the pod with Pockets losing his voice over the weekend at a queer party - but wait til you hear about the despicable behaviour by new podcast villain "Shitty Little Twink". We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY. Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they can't party, and you'd best believe they're putting up a fight. Our Brad continues on from last week's Brad Pitt chat with a discussion about whether A Lister Brad would ever give men a go. Plus this week's Hottie of the Week is a hurdler who showed us a lot more than he bargained for at a recent event.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We've got a full house this week with the boys back together and the internal flirting is at an all-time high. Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?! Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge. Matariki has us all reflecting on our highs and lows of the year so far, and it's given Brad a push to be really open and honest about what's been going on in his life lately - we're so proud of him for opening up. Plus there's a simple question about dinosaurs that could make or break your relationship!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Brad's back! And the boys are begging him to show off his Speedo tan line. There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes! Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *ahem* delivering samples to the clinic. The real world MAFS experiment across the ditch has officially come to an end - so are Josh and Stefano still together? Plus Matty and Brad Pitt shared a bed?! We're not even kidding - you won't want to miss this.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Brad's back on Naked Attraction: All Stars but Chris and Matty have SO much to discuss. First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive?  There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this. We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment, but we're nervous about where it's heading. We discuss the idea that you're either a girl's gay or a guy's gay and where we fall on the spectrum.Plus, it wouldn't be Out The Gayte without butt chat - so bare with us as we count down the list of the hottest asses on TV.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are pumped to welcome a special guest to the pod this week - and it's someone they've been talking about for the past few weeks! Josh Fox is a gay British man living in Australia who has been deeply invested in Married at First Sight - even hosting his own podcast on the topic, slagging off the so-called "experts" and questioning whether the experiment actually works. So Josh decided to put his money where his mouth is, and recently married a stranger himself, documenting the process in real time on social media. So what would happen if you stripped away all the wild reality tv dinner parties and crazy challenges, and just worked at a relationship with a stranger? Matty and Chris have been following the journey keenly, and this week are joined by Josh to find out how the experiment is going - and it is FASCINATING.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are back, but this time they've added a fourth - and my god does it feel good.Sexologist Morgan Penn, the host of the hit iHeart Radio podcast Sex.Life joins the boys to answer their - and your - questions about sex and relationships. Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom? This episode, more than any other, is testament to the Out The Gayte mantra that we never yuck someone's yum. Sex.Life season 3 is out May 28th.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are all back together with the return of prodigal son Brad, and you will not BELIEVE what treats he has brought in for the team. Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets. We do  a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our research department about it. Matty had a very interesting interaction with a well-known New Zealand celebrity involving a locked toilet cubicle - you won't want to miss this story. Plus a selection of suggestions from our Gaytors about what should be included on a 40 before 40 list.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s been a big week as Chris hit the big 4-0. So what’s he learnt, and why has he all of a sudden started crying?! It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone. We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game. There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are hooked on at the moment, and we cannot wait to see how it ends. Plus what on earth is Matty’s husband Ryan hiding from him?!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.