Burqah & Bikini

Is every woman supposed to enjoy G-Spot stimulation? What even is the G-Spot, and why do so many women feel disconnected from their sensual selves? In this episode of Burqah & Bikini, we sit down with Henika Patel, founder of the School of Sensual Arts, to explore what sensuality really means, and how women can experience deeper pleasure, confidence, and connection with their bodies. We discuss: ✨ What sensuality is (and how it differs from sexuality) ✨ Why reconnecting with your sensual body matters for emotional and physical wellbeing ✨ The link between sensuality, pleasure, and orgasm ✨ Erogenous zones and the truth about the G-Spot ✨ Whether every woman can, or should, enjoy G-Spot stimulation This conversation is an invitation for every woman to reclaim her body, her pleasure, and her power. KEEP IN TOUCH: 🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts 📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman 📸 Guest Instagram - /henika.x ♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

Ever heard the endless rhetoric about women being disconnected from their bodies? What does that actually mean, and how do you know you’re disconnected from yourself? In this episode with Kiren Bhardwa, a Kundalini Activation coach, we explore the truth behind Kundalini energy: what it is, why we need it, and how it helps women reconnect to pleasure, power, and presence. In a world obsessed with “healing culture,” Kiren brings both science and spirituality into the conversation, breaking down the neuroscience of Kundalini activation, the role of the pineal gland (as explained by expert Joe Dispenza), and how energy healing actually transforms the body and brain. We also talk about the shadow side: the red flags in yoga, bodywork, and healing spaces, and why discernment is so key when it comes to energy work. In This Episode We Unpack: What Kundalini energy really is Signs you’re ready for Kundalini activation Why so many women struggle to feel they deserve pleasure How energetic blocks form (and how to release them) Understanding chakras and the body’s stored emotions The integration period after Kundalini awakening Grounding practices for energy healing and embodimentIs the Hookup Culture Empowering for women?

In this deeply personal and eye-opening conversation, we sit down with Ishta Bhatia, a French woman of Indian origin, as she shares her journey with vaginismus and vulvodynia, two often misunderstood and stigmatized pelvic pain conditions. We explore not only the physical and emotional toll of these conditions but also what it means to navigate them within the South Asian cultural context, where silence around sexual and reproductive health is common. From misdiagnoses and medical gaslighting to societal pressure and family expectations, Ishta opens up about her path to healing and reconnection with her body. In this episode, we explore: -What vaginismus and vulvodynia actually are, and how they impact daily life -Ishta’s personal journey from misdiagnosis to treatment -The trauma of seeking medical help when doctors don’t listen -How South Asian cultural expectations around marriage and sexuality shape women’s experiences with pain -The emotional weight of living with a condition that’s invisible to others -How partners and relationships can either hinder or help the healing process -Differences between Eastern and Western narratives around women, pain, and shame -The kinds of questions South Asian parents ask their daughters, and what gets left unsaid This episode is for anyone looking to understand the intersection of chronic pain, womanhood, relationships, and culture, and how vulnerability can lead to empowerment. 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more untold stories that matter.

“Why are you eating so much?” “Eat fewer calories.” “Cut the gluten.” In South Asian communities, comments like these aren’t rare, they’re routine. Often masked as concern, they echo a culture deeply entrenched in body shaming, food policing, and impossible beauty standards. In this episode, I sit down with Sarosh Ibrahim, a fearless voice dismantling toxic narratives around body image, self-worth, and control. We unpack the often unspoken but deeply felt shame so many South Asian women carry, the shame of eating, of taking up space, of not fitting the mold. Sarosh shares her raw, personal journey through disordered eating, being hypersexualized and shamed for her body from a young age, and her fight to reclaim autonomy in a culture that polices women’s bodies at every turn. We confront the oppressive “lambi-gori-patli” (tall, fair, thin) beauty ideal and its insidious grip on generations of Desi households. Together, we talk about healing, resisting, and redefining what it means to live in a body that’s been constantly judged, and finally finding comfort in your own skin. If you’ve ever been told you’re too much, too big, or not enough, this conversation is for you.

Weddings may look like a celebration of love, but behind the glitz and glamour lies a web of emotions, expectations, and cultural pressures, and no one sees this more clearly than a wedding planner.In this episode, I sit down with Zoya Altaf, a seasoned wedding planner from Pakistan now based in Dubai, to unpack what really goes on behind the scenes of Desi weddings. From navigating outrageous budgets to managing family drama and power struggles, Zoya shares raw, real insights that only someone in her role can see.We talk about:Why people still get married because of societal pressureThe most over-the-top weddings she’s plannedHow families often spend beyond their means, and why that needs to changeThe unspoken expectations placed on brides and their familiesSocial media aesthetics, Mahira Khan’s wedding, and real-time posting etiquetteShia-Sunni wedding complexities, mother-in-law dynamics, and moreWhether rich people are actually happier, and what a wedding really reveals about a societyWhether you're getting married, have been to a Desi wedding, or are just curious about the business and emotion behind the big day, this conversation is packed with insights and laughter.#DesiWeddings #ZoyaAltaf #WeddingPlanner #PakistaniWeddings #DubaiWeddings #MarriagePressure #BehindTheScenes #Podcast #CulturalConversations #SouthAsianWeddings

What does privilege really offer women in Pakistan—and what does it still withhold? Of Pakistan’s 125 million women, less than 50 million live in urban centers. Only 28% participate in the labor force, and fewer than 6% ever make it to managerial roles. Education and employment are available to a tiny fraction, and even then, autonomy is far from guaranteed. In this episode, I speak with Naima Ahmed, a corporate commercial lawyer raised in a privileged household in Pakistan, now working in Dubai. With access to higher education, career growth, and financial independence, Naima has, by all definitions, made it. But her story reveals that privilege doesn’t guarantee ease, it just comes with a different kind of pressure. In this episode, we explore: - The high-performance pressure on educated, privileged women - How “liberal” upbringings still come with unspoken limits - Naima’s relationship with her mother, both role model and fiercest critic - Progressive upbringing in traditional culture - Why she values the pressure to succeed, and what it’s cost her - The invisible rules for daughters in male-dominated desi households - Gendered bias in corporate life: assertive man = leader, assertive woman = aggressive Naima’s journey shows that even within privilege, the struggle for freedom, respect, and self-definition remains. 🔔 Subscribe to Burqah & Bikini for more raw, feminist conversations about sex, identity, and power, told through a South Asian lens. KEEP IN TOUCH: 🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts 📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini 📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman 📸 Guest Instagram - /@naimaahmed.official ♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

What happens when a “good Desi girl” decides she’s done pleasing everyone but herself? Author, life coach, and internet personality Mahvish Ahmad blew up her old life to finally claim her power — sexually, emotionally, and spiritually.In this episode, I sit down with Mahvish — who has completely redefined what it means to be a fulfilled Desi woman.From growing up under the weight of "good girl" expectations to experiencing a profound sexual and spiritual awakening, Mahvish shares how she broke free from cultural conditioning, healed past trauma, and reclaimed her voice, her body, and her life.We talk about everything from parenting teens and navigating Desi marriages, to building boundaries, owning your sensuality, and what it truly means to live unapologetically as a South Asian woman in her 40s.If you're a high-achieving woman, a CEO, or someone on a personal growth journey — this episode will challenge, inspire, and empower you to live on your terms.Topics We Cover:What triggered Mahvish’s awakeningParenting teens with openness and honestyLetting go of appearance-based pressure (yes, even waxing)Desi marriage dynamics & controlThe myth of the obedient “good girl”Creating boundaries and dealing with backlashUnderstanding how abusers operate - and how to spot an abuserBeing vulnerable and vocal in long-term relationshipsRapid fire round — from a woman who's done the workKEEP IN TOUCH:🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman📸 Guest Instagram - /mahvish.ahmad♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

In this transformative episode, I sit down with Nimisha Verma, a life coach from India who helps people heal from deep-rooted mother and father wounds. This conversation is essential for anyone who wants to understand why they behave the way they do — and how parental dynamics, gender roles, and culture deeply influence our emotional patterns.Together, we unpack powerful truths about growing up in Desi households and how that experience continues to shape our relationships, identities, and desires today.We explore:•⁠ ⁠Were we ever meant to stick to traditional gender roles?•⁠ ⁠How emotional pain influences the partners we choose•⁠ ⁠The rise of the feminine man — and why this can be confusing or even harmful in dating•⁠ ⁠How unresolved mother and father wounds echo through our adult lives•⁠ ⁠Tools for becoming self-aware and breaking intergenerational cycles•⁠ ⁠Why so many Desi women are settling for the bare minimum•⁠ ⁠What a non-toxic, emotionally healed man actually looks like•⁠ ⁠How true sexual pleasure and deep love become possible only after healing If you've ever asked, “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?” or “Why do I feel emotionally starved in relationships?” this episode is your mirror and your roadmap.KEEP IN TOUCH: 🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts 📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman📸 Guest Instagram - /@nimishavermaa ♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

Who is an outcast? Are strong desi women outcasts? What makes someone an outcast? And does the definition of “outcast” shift depending on the society we’re in? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Talia, a hypnotherapist from Lahore, Pakistan now based in Canada, who works specifically with one group: outcasts. We unpack what it means to be an outcast—particularly as a Desi, South Asian woman—and how cultural, societal, and internalized expectations shape that experience. In this episode, we discuss: Who is considered an outcast?How to know if you are oneThe Jungian approach to identity and the shadow selfBreaking barriers and doing what you actually wantBeing a woman and being “too much” in Desi cultureAre strong women in South Asian society seen as rebels? If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t belong, like you were too different, or like the rules of your culture don’t fit the shape of your life, this conversation is for you. Talia breaks down the deep, layered complexities of being an outcast, and how to find power in that identity.

What does it mean to live with anxiety in a culture where mental health is rarely spoken about — and often dismissed?In this deeply personal and powerful episode, I sit down with Masomah Alam Chohan, author of "Take Your Lunch Break Now", an American of Pakistani descent who has lived with anxiety disorder for much of her life.We dive into what it's really like to carry anxiety through life’s most intimate and defining moments — from pregnancyand motherhood, to navigating love and dating, to setting boundaries in a culture that resists them.Masomah shares: The internal war between cultural expectations and emotional needs The unspoken pressure on South Asian women to be “strong” and “resilient” at the cost of their mental well-being How anxiety impacted her sense of self — and how she found the language to heal Why talking about mental health in South Asian communities is no longer optional — it’s essentialThis is more than a conversation about anxiety — it’s about reclaiming power, normalizing vulnerability, and giving voice to what too many are told to stay silent about.If you’ve ever felt alone in your struggle, or unsure how to talk about mental health with your community, this episode is for you.Hit play. Share it with someone who needs to hear this. Let’s break the silence together.

In this episode, I sit down with Jabeen Yusra — a Karachi-based journalist who has lived alone in multiple cities across Pakistan, long before it became "cool" or socially acceptable for women to do so.From Karachi to Islamabad to Peshawar, Jabeen shares how each city offered a different version of freedom, challenge, and identity. We dive deep into what it truly means to be a woman living alone in Pakistan — the safety concerns, the dating dynamics, and how societal mindsets shift across cities.Jabeen also talks about the rare and bold experience of taking a Careem bike in Karachi — sitting behind a male rider with legs on either side, a move that still raises eyebrows in a society where such acts are considered taboo.Whether you're currently living solo or dreaming of it, Jabeen’s story is a reminder that courage often looks like everyday choices. If you're looking for real talk, raw insights, and a little inspiration — this one’s for you.Hit play and tune in.

In this episode of Burqah & Bikini, we sit down with Shabana, a woman born and raised in California, whose immigrant South Asian & Muslim upbringing shaped her experience as a mother, a survivor, and a surrogate.Shabana had a child outside of marriage — a decision that challenged cultural and religious expectations. She later survived domestic abuse at the hands of her brother, stood up for herself by calling the police, and eventually chose to become a surrogate, carrying a baby for another family.We explore:What it's like to have a child outside of wedlock in a South Asian Muslim communityWhy Shabana chose to become a surrogate and how it changed her view on motherhoodWhether motherhood is truly the ultimate role for women — or just a cultural expectationHow she talked to her son about her surrogacy journeyThe emotional, physical, and cultural complexities of surrogacyHow families choose surrogates — and what surrogates look for in returnDealing with judgment, shame, and silence from her communityThe emotional toll of domestic abuse and her family’s reaction when she called the copsIf you're from a South Asian, Muslim, or immigrant background and are navigating decisions that break with tradition, this episode is for you. Shabana’s story is bold, raw, and deeply inspiring. Subscribe for more stories of women breaking barriers.

In this deeply transformative episode of Burqah & Bikini, I sit down with Mohini from @evolvebeings to unravel the truth about female pleasure, body shame, sexuality, and spiritual awakening—especially in South Asian cultures where these conversations are often taboo.Whether you've never explored your body or are curious about deepening your pleasure practice, this is a safe space to begin. We dive into everything from overcoming shame, the difference between religion and spirituality, and how to have intense orgasms—including non-genital ones.Topics Covered: How to start a "pleasure practice", if you’ve never explored your bodyWhy women feel disconnected and awkward with their own bodiesCommon sex myths in South Asian culture (and how to unlearn them)The power of "sacred sexuality" and redefining pleasureNon-genital orgasms: "Are they real? How do they work?"Can monogamy still work in today's world?How body shame disconnects us from our pleasureWhy "touch is the first step to healing and empowerment"If you've ever felt curious, conflicted, or confused about sex, intimacy, and what pleasure really means, this episode is a must-watch.Listen in and let's normalize these powerful conversations.

In this episode of Burqah & Bikini, I’m joined by sex therapist Aashita Khanna to explore the complicated relationship South Asians have with sex. Why is so much sex... bad? And how do you even know if it is?We unpack how South Asian women are taught (or not taught) about sex, pleasure, and their own bodies, and how these messages go wrong. We also talk about global misconceptions, the flawed sex education models that extend far beyond South Asia, and why they fail so many.We dive into vaginismus, losing your virginity after marriage, and the crucial but missing step of sexual preparation. Most importantly, this episode teaches women not just that they can ask for better sex, but how to ask for it.From understanding what pleasure and orgasm actually are, to breaking the silence around desire, this is a practical and empowering guide for women who’ve been told not to say no—but also never taught how to say yes.

In the very first episode of Burqah and Bikini focused on trans rights, Koko sits down with Dr. Mehrub Moiz Awan — a renowned transgender activist, educator, and healer — to explore what it really means to exist as a trans person in Pakistan today. This is an unfiltered conversation about identity, sexuality, survival, and the crushing weight of class on human rights. In Pakistan, trans people live with remarkable resilience and ingenuity, navigating a society that insists on a rigid gender binary. Within this binary system, identity becomes both a site of resistance and reinvention. Class plays a defining role — not just in who gets access to healthcare or housing, but in how sexuality itself is policed and pathologized. Yet amid these constraints, trans communities have cultivated powerful, alternative ways of living and loving. Polyamory, often stigmatized by mainstream society, emerges not as deviance but as an intentional and communal structure — a bold form of care, intimacy, and survival. In the absence of institutional support like sex education or accessible healthcare, many trans individuals are pushed into sex work — not as victims, but as economic agents negotiating their survival. When they assert their right to live in urban or “respectable” areas, they often face backlash — not because they don’t belong, but because their existence challenges deeply held social norms. Still, trans communities continue to heal, organize, and build spaces of care that the state fails to offer. Their story is not just one of struggle — it is also one of brilliance, collective strength, and reimagined futures.From family rejection to small victories of community-led success, Dr. Mehrub also shares deeply personal reflections on allyship, success stories from their work, and why the LGBTQ+ community itself is not immune to internal biases.This episode is a raw and honest look at trans life in a deeply unequal society.

In this deeply insightful and powerful episode, I sit down with transformational coach Navjot Dhaliwal to explore the layered and often conflicting dimensions of modern feminism. Together, we unpack the nuanced shifts that have taken place over the years—where women, in their fight for equality and independence, have sometimes found themselves leaning heavily into hyper-masculine energy. Many have taken on financial responsibilities, been praised for their independence, and evaluated based on their tangible contributions in relationships. But now, there’s a collective softening, a return to the feminine essence—where women are beginning to remember that being strong doesn’t mean abandoning their nurturing, receiving, intuitive nature. Navjot and I dive into the idea that reclaiming our feminine energy is not about stepping backward, but about stepping deeper into wholeness. We talk about what it means to allow ourselves to receive—emotionally, spiritually, and financially—without guilt. To be held, to be supported, to let go of the idea that value comes only from what we give or do. This episode is a reflection on how feminism doesn’t have to mean rejection of support or softness. It’s about balance, and about writing new stories for ourselves where we can be both independent and deeply cared for. We also reflect on growing up around patriarchal figures within South Asian culture—men we love like our fathers and brothers, but whose presence often came with authority, control, and emotional distance. Many women today are consciously choosing a different kind of partnership, one that invites vulnerability, emotional depth, softness, and collaboration. We discuss this powerful shift and how it’s not just about choosing different partners, but about healing our perception of men and of ourselves in relation to them. For anyone who has ever felt torn between being the fierce, independent woman and the one who longs to be emotionally and financially supported, this conversation is for you. Freedom and independence do not have to cancel out the desire to be provided for—they’re not mutually exclusive. We also touch on the often-triggering phrase “#NotAllMen” and explore how to begin healing the trauma that has made it difficult for so many women to trust men again. If you’re on a journey of embracing your feminine energy, healing old patterns, and redefining what it means to be a free, whole woman in today’s world, this episode will speak straight to your heart. KEEP IN TOUCH: 🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts 📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini 📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman 📸 Guest Instagram - /metaphysical_goddess ♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

In this episode, I sit down with Pallavi Barnwal, a bold and empowering sex and intimacy coach from India. Pallavi has made a name for herself by shattering taboos around sex, embracing pleasure unapologetically, and helping individuals and couples experience deeper connection and satisfaction. Her powerful journey of transformation has led her to redefine what sex means, especially in conservative societies like South Asia, where conversations around intimacy are often stifled.We dive into the complex issue of sexless marriages—why they occur, how they develop, and why they’re so common. Pallavi offers valuable insights into the differences between male and female sexuality, focusing on where communication often breaks down between partners. We also explore how couples can bridge the gap, particularly when there's a libido mismatch, improve communication about desires and boundaries, and reignite intimacy in their relationships.After speaking with Pallavi, I learned the concept of a "sex personality", helping individuals understand their unique sexual needs and preferences. Whether you're in a relationship or single, this episode offers practical advice on how to unlock your orgasmic potential, enjoy self-pleasure without shame, and shift your mindset toward guilt-free, passionate sex.If you're ready to break free from societal taboos, enhance your sexual satisfaction, and leave shame behind, this episode is for you. While it's designed for both men and women, it's especially insightful for women in South Asia. We dive deep into the nuances of good sex, hot sex, and slow sex, while also addressing how South Asian society often shames women for seeking and enjoying pleasure.Tune in to learn how to embrace your sexuality with confidence, explore your desires without judgment, and experience the pleasure you deserve.

In this episode, I sit down with Dinara Mukh, a Hormone Health & Nutrition Specialist and TEDx speaker. She says that our menstrual cycle is our SUPERPOWER. She brings groundbreaking research to the field of menstruation and period pain—specifically dysmenorrhea, which is something almost every woman experiences. Dinara has discovered the key to solving painful periods, and she’s here to share it with us.Contrary to what many of us believe, your periods aren’t actually meant to be painful, and Dinara advocates for this truth. She’s uncovered how nature designed our bodies perfectly to protect, provide, and nurture us.After struggling with excruciatingly painful periods that often left her curled up in a fetal position, Dinara found the solution through diet, and now she’s helping women worldwide do the same. Whether you're struggling with period pain, irregular cycles, or just curious about how to live pain-free, this episode is a uniting force for women everywhere. Periods connect us, and every woman can relate to the experience.In this conversation, Dinara shares a definitive recipe for relief from period pain, breaking down what food your body actually needs and why you crave certain things. These cravings are a sign your body is communicating with you, and Dinara explains how to understand and address them. We also dive into how to regulate your cycle, improve iron absorption, and how diet can be the key to pain-free periods.Don’t miss this enlightening episode with expert tips that can truly change your cycle, and your life!

In this unfiltered, hard-hitting episode, we sit down with one of the organizers of Aurat March Karachi to trace the journey of Pakistan’s most significant feminist movement. Why did it start? What resistance has it faced? And where is it headed next? With Women’s Day 2025 approaching, this conversation unpacks the history, evolution, and impact of Aurat March. From its inception to the backlash it continues to face, this episode takes a deep dive into gender, patriarchy, and resistance in Pakistan. We begin by asking why Aurat March was created in the first place. What pushed the organizers to take to the streets, and how did they navigate the challenges of building such a bold and visible movement in a society that often resists change? As we explore the backlash against Aurat March, we tackle the men who protect other men’s bad behavior — a deeply ingrained societal issue that allows injustice to continue unchecked. We discuss, why does the mere sight of women marching threaten so many? What is it about women demanding their rights that triggers such an aggressive response from those who benefit from the status quo? We discuss women's unpaid labor — the invisible yet exhausting work that women in our society carry out every day. From household chores to emotional labor, this unpaid, unrecognized effort props up families, economies, and entire social structures. Yet, it remains undervalued, dismissed, or outright ignored. Women in South Asia grow up in a system where they constantly need permission for everything — to study, to work, to go out, to exist on their own terms. We ask the big question: How can women take back control of their autonomy and freedom? What does it take for a society to see women as independent human beings, not as extensions of men? We tackle the concept of honor and how it is disproportionately placed on women. Women are expected to uphold the family's dignity, while men move through the world without the same burden. This discussion ties into the real-life consequences women face — honor-based violence, forced marriages, and societal restrictions on their freedom. Finally, we look ahead to Aurat March 2025 — what is the agenda for this year’s march? What are the demands, and how does the movement plan to push forward in an increasingly difficult landscape? Tune in to hear the plans, the struggles, and the vision for the future. The fight isn’t over.KEEP IN TOUCH: 🎙️ Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts 📸 Podcast Instagram - /burqahandbikini 📸 Host Instagram - /ithebrownwoman 📸 Guest Instagram - /auratmarch ♪ Podcast Tiktok - /burqahandbikini

In this episode, I sit down with Sana Akhand — a spiritual mentor, coach, writer, trendsetter and boundary-pusher who challenges societal norms and redefines modern relationships. A few years ago, as a 32-year-old Pakistani-American woman living in New York, Sana made a bold and unconventional choice: she got her own apartment after marriage and started dating her husband again. Her goal? To keep the magic alive, to nurture excitement beyond routine, and to avoid falling into the trap of coexisting as mere roommates. By redefining traditional norms, she created the life she truly desired — one where she could embrace independence while still honoring her relationship. Together, we explore what it means to be a modern woman today — one who is independent, takes radical accountability for her life, yet holds space for a partner and supports him in his ambitions. We discuss the delicate balance between self-sufficiency and allowing a man to provide, the importance of receiving and reciprocating, and how modern women can challenge gender roles while still being nurturers and caregivers. But women like Sana don’t thrive alone — we need healed, secure masculine counterparts. We dive into how to choose partners who empower us, who allow us to grow, explore, and step into our full potential. Too often, South Asian women are stripped of agency, identity, and choice. In this conversation, we flip that narrative — embracing our power to exercise choice and own our decisions in relationships. If you come from a traditional or orthodox background but dream of a life beyond conventional expectations, this episode is for you. Sana and I share how we’ve built partnerships that align with our values—relationships where gratitude coexists with standards, where we refuse to settle for men who aren’t secure, and where we thrive in our feminine energy because our partners have done the work to heal their masculinity. This episode is deeply personal, as Sana and I shared an intimate flow of energy. I learned so much from her and, for the first time, opened up about my own life — my background, healing journey, my partner, our relationship, and the choices that have shaped us.Listen in for an inspiring conversation on love, independence, and redefining what it means to be a modern woman.