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Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Gabi Conti, an author, producer, and TV host known for her candid discussions on dating and relationships.This episode explores the challenges of workplace romances, the impact of dating apps, and how to recognize and address emotional and physical abuse. Gabi, who previously shared her own toxic dating story in LoveLustFear Episode 4, "We Can’t Break Up," offers valuable insights on spotting red flags and empowering others through her work, including her book 20 Guys You Date in Your 20s and her podcast Bad Influencer. Michele reflects on her own hesitations about reentering the dating scene after two decades post-divorce, while Gabi provides practical advice for navigating modern relationships—emphasizing the importance of practice, staying open-minded, and prioritizing personal well-being. The discussion also features workplace anti-fraternization policies, celebrity relationship dynamics, and essential steps for identifying and escaping toxic situations.Gabi - Episode Link"We Can’t Break Up"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-gabi-we-cant-break-up/id1735876283?i=1000654153175https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GFc3ga6PgAKaAOGqySQFYlinksLive Event 12/6 Los Angeles, CASee Gabi in Holy Cannoli Comedy at the Hollywood Improv Lab on 12/16https://improv.com/hollywood/event/holy+cannoli+comedy+with+jaclyn+marfuggi+caprio+and+gabriella+maria+conti%21/13938693/Gabi Contipersonal website | https://www.gabiconti.com/instagram | https://www.instagram.com/itsgabiconti/tiktok | https://www.tiktok.com/@itsgabicontitwitter | https://twitter.com/itsgabicontibook | https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-contibad influencer | podcast | https://link.chtbl.com/LdLb8v6uMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Former judge and veteran divorce attorney Michele Locke pulls back the curtain on the world of family law. From messy divorces to high-stakes custody battles and domestic violence cases, Michele brings her courtroom experience to the mic—sharing personal stories, legal insights, and real-world advice. Whether you’re facing family court or just curious about how it all works, this episode delivers a powerful, no-nonsense introduction to the emotional and legal terrain of family law.lovelustlaw premieres July 1st!**DISCLAIMER** The information shared in this podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. It should not be considered as professional legal advice or a substitute for seeking professional legal advice. Subscribe Here:lovelustlaw - Apple Podcastslovelustlaw - Spotify Podcastslovelustlaw - Amazon MusicCreditslovelustlaw is hosted by Michele LockeJake Deptula is Executive ProducerHaley Gray is Producer, Writer, & ResearcherJared Landis is Sound Editor & Mixer LinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Jake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000lovelustfearhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWechttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/Strictly Stalkinghttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083https://open.spotify.com/show/5dw1NJIObaOsj0o7JdruVQhttps://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/topics | #FamilyLaw #DivorceAttorney #MicheleLocke #CourtroomInsights #LegalAdvice #FamilyCourt #LegalPodcast #TrueCourtStories #BehindTheBench #LawUnfiltered #NoNonsenseLaw #RealTalkLaw #DivorceSupport #CustodyBattles #MessyDivorces #ChildCustody #DivorceDrama #FamilyLawMatters #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SurvivingFamilyCourt #EmotionalJustice #CourtroomRealities #FamilyLawTruth

Jake, Michele, and Haley team up with Lauryn (lovelustfear) for an epic battle between Galentine’s Day and Valentine’s Day, sharing awkward dating experiences that have shaped their views on the holiday. They dive into the communication struggles between men and women, the decisions behind regifting, and how their understanding of love languages has changed over the years. Their conversation also touches on classic Valentine’s Day topics—proposals, gifts like chocolates and stuffed animals, and the pressure to make the day unforgettable. To wrap it up, they get playful with games like ‘Never Have I Ever’ and ‘Love it or Leave it.’Discussion Links https://rosetoyofficial-us.com/ (Tell them Michele sent you!)https://stlzoo.org/give/zoo-parents-program/valentine https://www.farmsanctuary.org/news-stories/2025-valentines-day/?utm_source=chatgpt.comhttps://www.walmart.com/ip/DesignPac-Jack-Links-Valentine-Meat-Fur-You-Heart-Box-0-625oz/2465067498https://manlymanco.com/products/meathearts?variant=31479920951379https://www.etsy.com/market/valentines_coupons Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/music | soundsOn Hold for You Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 Licensehttp://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #ValentinesDay #Relationships #RealityTV #Psychology #GalentinesDay #Love #SelfAcceptance #Pressures #Dating #Friendship #Intimacy #Vulnerability #ChildhoodExperiences #GenderDifferences #Communication #Expectations #Celebrations #Midwest #Chicago #Boston #LoveLanguages #GiftGiving #SelfLove #Design #Events #PersonalConnections #ThoughtfulGifts #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalConnections #CreativeIdeas #SelfReflection #Compatibility #Nostalgia #PopCulture #EmotionalBaggage

In this episode of lovelustfridays, host Jake Deptula and producer Haley Gray discuss the importance of National Stalking Awareness Month. They discuss the legacy of Peggy Klinke, whose tragic murder led to the establishment of National Stalking Awareness Month, and discuss the significant work done by advocates like her sister, Debbie Riddle, and organizations such as SPARC. They delve into the often-overlooked crime of stalking, its relationship with domestic violence, and the misconceptions surrounding it. Haley shares her personal experience with stalking, highlighting the realization and challenges faced by victims. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, better legal support, and community resources for stalking survivors. Resources and contact information for further support and advocacy are provided.Stalking Support | Links  https://www.stalkingawareness.org/   https://www.standupresources.com/  https://www.actionagainststalking.org/  https://victimsofcrime.org/ www.womenslaw.org  www.victimconnect.org  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.lenoraclairellc.com/ Additional LinksPeggy’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000556692586 Haley’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000683900247 Strictly Stalking Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpodMoms And Mysteries Podcasthttps://www.momsandmysteries.com/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/Case Source Linkshttps://web.archive.org/web/20230115111213/https://www.cdc.gov/injury/features/prevent-stalking/index.htmlhttps://spu.edu/-/media/administration/safety-and-security/documents/History-of-Stalking-Awareness-Month.ashx#:~:text=NSAM%20began%20in%20response%20to,to%20stalking%20and%20save%20lives linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #relationships #lawenforcement #dating #trauma #domesticviolence #trust #intimatepartnerviolence #caseanalysis #accountability #emotionalresponses #legalanalysis #officerbehavior #patternsofabuse #investigativestrategies #communication #casestudies #nsam2025 #nationalstlakingawarenessmonth #peggyklinke #debbieriddle

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke are joined by Debra, who shared her harrowing story in lovelustfear Episode 12, “I’ve Always Seemed To Attract The Crazy Type.”Debra talks about her journey to get sober after a tough first marriage and dealing with toxic relationships. They dive into the challenges of staying sober, how addiction can impact relationships, and how important it is to have self-worth and resilience in recovery. Michele and Jake also share their own experiences with alcohol and dating and the pressure to drink at social events. They also discuss online dating, dating age gaps, narcissism, and the rise of professional matchmaking services.guest links | debraThe Alternative Hair Alchemist | Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/alternative-hair-alchemist-a-podcast-about/id1627588998linksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com Additional Links Three Day Rule - Matchmaking Servicehttps://www.threedayrule.com/National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #sobriety #addiction #relationships #personalgrowth #alcohol #recovery #dating #selfdiscovery #support #empowerment #onlinedating #narcissism #relationships #matchmaking #selfdiscovery #datingprofiles #threedayrule #agedynamics #personalgrowth #empowerment #love

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke explore the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and personal transformation with guest Amber Rasmussen, host of Next Realm and Ex-Wives Undercover. Jake opens up about his intense connection with a karmic soulmate, while Michele shares her deep-seated fear of visiting a psychic. The conversation unpacks the role of psychics, spiritual mediums, and the often-misused concept of twin flames, exploring cosmic and karmic connections. Amber shares how the death of her nephew ignited her spiritual curiosity, leading her to uncover signs and experiences that shaped her beliefs. The discussion also highlights how spirituality and religion can influence relationships, helping individuals set boundaries and recognize toxic patterns. Amber details the real-life story behind Ex-Wives Undercover, revealing how she and her co-host exposed a serial manipulator, ultimately saving a woman’s life. The episode includes a thought-provoking discussion on the contrast between spirituality and organized religion and their impact on love, trust, and personal growth.Amber Rasmussen + Next Ream | LinksWebsite: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextrealmpod/Story Submissions: NextRealmPodcast@Gmail.comPlease Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Spiritual Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/what-is-spiritual-abuse/#:~:text=Regardless%20of%20either%20partner's%20religious,creating%20an%20emotional%20safety%20plan Ex-Wives Undercover: https://linktr.ee/Exwivesundercover  Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/ Jake’s Episode of Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/8-beyond-the-veil-a-grandmothers-last-goodbye-and-life-lessons/ Reach Amber at NextRealmPodcast@gmail.com“Extraordinary Measures” Movie https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1244659/ Crystal’s LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/CrystalJCorl The Visitation Podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-visitation-the-visitation-podcast-JDzQ82-hGKs/Jake’s Karmic Soulmate interview: (Jake is credited as “Charlie M.”)https://www.getmegiddy.com/dating-karmic-soulmateThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Book)https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748More about Twin Flames from Medical News Today: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/twin-flame-meaning#Summary Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! topics | #spirituality #personalgrowth #relationships #karma #energy #crystals #intuition #familylaw #podcasting #emotionalhealing #psychics #twinflames #soulmates #familyconnections #emotionalintelligence #spiritualawakening #cosmicsoulmate #karmicrelationships #spiritualconnections #toxicrelationships #storytelling #wisdom #lifeexperiences #love #personalstories #connection #meditation #celebrityencounters #sharingexperiences #signsfrombeyond

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke, along with Shaun and John from "Sins and Survivors: Las Vegas True Crime," to explore the heartbreaking case of Ashley and Dennis Prince, who were tragically killed by Ashley's ex-father-in-law, Joe Houston, during a deposition.The discussion reflects on Ashley and Dennis's lives, the legal proceedings, and the emotional and legal complexities that culminated in their deaths. They examine the intense divorce proceedings and custody battle, highlighting how Ashley's attempts to escape an abusive relationship were overlooked by a justice system that missed vital warning signs. Michele provides valuable insights into the motivations of those involved, pointing out the instability within the legal framework. The conversation also tackles systemic issues surrounding domestic violence and the emotional strain on families while advocating for greater community awareness and resources for survivors. Shaun and John reveal their mission to enlighten the Las Vegas community by shedding light on these devastating stories. topics | True Crime, Domestic Violence, Ashley Prince, Dennis Prince, Legal Perspectives, Advocacy, Community Awareness, red flags, relationships, divorce, Las Vegas, survivor stories, law, podcasting, courtroom, legal profession, community, instincts, lawyers, professionalism​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains graphic depictions of murder. Please listen with caution.*linksSins & Survivors: Las Vegas True CrimeApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sins-survivors-a-las-vegas-true-crime-podcast/id1712245894Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/1W2swCx9LP38sFY06294pBAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/18ce5b73-c8ec-4e38-827d-df4119e845ea/sins-survivors-a-las-vegas-true-crime-podcastInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/sinsandsurvivors/Websitehttp://sinsandsurvivors.comMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links (Topics Discussed)The Vegas Justice League (Cold Cases)https://www.vegasjusticeleague.com/Original Episode Linkhttps://sinspod.co/episode36National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula speaks with Danielle, a caregiver and spiritual healing advocate, who shares her traumatic experiences with domestic violence in high school. Danielle details the verbal, physical, and sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of her then-boyfriend, along with the stalking that ensued. Danielle highlights the critical support from her family, especially her mother, which helped her escape the abusive relationship and reveals the challenges of rebuilding her life in a new school, finding supportive friends, and learning to trust again. Inspired by her role as a caregiver for her mother, who is battling cancer, Danielle emphasizes the importance of spiritual wellness in her healing journey and aims to raise awareness about domestic abuse and spiritual paths to recovery.**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including the sexual assault of a minor. Please listen with caution.**topics | domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault, teen dating violence, stalking, healing, relationships, support systems, spiritual wellness, caregiving, mental health, awareness, cancer, cancer patient, domestic violence awareness monthlinksDanielle GrayNewsletter:https://daniellegray.substack.com/Awaken with Danielle Gray YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@awakenwithdaniellegray?si=HpHa_D653N7oAAOZLink To Danielle Gray's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/iamdanielleegray/profilecard/?igsh=MXJsYjRvbGl4ZDVodg==Additional Links (Topics Discussed)Strictly Stalking Episode 157 “Stalked At School: A Campus Confrontation”https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support!

Host Jake Deptula and former family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Terra Newell, a victim advocate, public figure, and survivor of multiple toxic relationships.They explore the complexities of toxic relationships and the expectations placed on survivors who become public figures. They also confront misconceptions stemming from media portrayals that often oversimplify these experiences, particularly beyond the sensational headlines of “Dirty John.” Additionally, they discuss the responsibilities of true crime content creators, focusing on the glorification of serial killer culture and the ethical considerations that come with storytelling. Also, how advocating for a victim-centered approach is essential for fostering safe spaces for survivors and recognizing that each individual's journey through trauma is uniquely their own.topics | terra newell, domestic violence, toxic relationships, true crime, survivor stories, ethics in media, accountability, red flags, healing, victim support, dirty john, survival, podcasting, serial killer culture, responsibility, survivor, domestic violence awareness monthTerra Newell - Episode Link"I Want You To Always Be Available To Me”https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-terra-i-want-you-to-always-be-available-to-me/id1735876283?i=1000663173031https://open.spotify.com/episode/2H7GJVeaVXV3cLvCsBTuC7?si=TlkZexWPT5WsIVcbm4I5NwlinksTerra Newellhttps://www.terranewellsurvival.comI'll Take The Stairs Merch 25% of Sale Proceeds go to Season of Justice!https://www.terranewellsurvival.com/shop/page/2/Book a 1 on 1 call! HTTPS://linktr.ee/terranewell Sign up for the podcasting course! https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.comTerra’s 30 Day Trauma Journalhttps://square.link/u/DvXXYN27 Exclusive Content on Patreon!http://patreon.com/TerrasbaddyclubTerra’s Baddy Club (Podcast)https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/terras-baddy-club/id1477935020Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links (Topics Discussed)https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/article/2024/jun/19/alex-murdaugh-son-sues-netflixNational Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lena, an abusive marriage survivor from episode nine of lovelustfear, “He’s Your Problem Now.”They discuss Lena's toxic marriage and the influence of cultural obligations in her Armenian community, the nuances of recognizing abuse, and how she found her voice and empowerment through her second husband's supportive and matrilineal Native American culture. The conversation also highlights the themes of coercive control, gaslighting, financial manipulation, and the emotional toll these experiences have on physical health, including the long-term effects of trauma. Also, they discuss the importance of support systems and reflect on the necessity of self-care in the healing process.topics | cultural obligations, empowerment, trauma recovery, self-care, mental health, women's rights, love, relationships, trauma, abuse, relationships, cultural expectations, toxic traits, vulnerability, healing, hashimoto's disease, independence, personal growth, podcasting, toxic relationshipsLena - Episode Link"He’s Your Problem Now"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lena-hes-your-problem-now/id1735876283?i=1000657913302https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VuTd9CszCR6CyVMNmddRW?si=zHN5QTHhRXGe-VK61UY9jglinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (Author) (Book Recommended By Michele)https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748More About Hashimoto's Diseasehttps://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hashimotos-disease/symptoms-causes/syc-20351855Music Playing During Lena’s Freedom Ride, aka “The Grapevine”Siouxsie and the Banshees (Spotify Playlist)https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DZ06evO0KJgF1?si=k68HOnZbQVSZRBxD9OSVuQNational Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Mira, a survivor and parent, from episode five of lovelustfear, “A F**king Broken Mess.”They discuss the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-partner, the complications substance abuse brings to custody battles, and how custody laws can prioritize parental rights over child welfare. The discussion also touches on why therapists might be reluctant to testify in custody cases. Strategies for handling high-conflict situations include documenting interactions, careful planning, and setting boundaries. Additionally, they examine the appeal of toxic relationship patterns and the warning signs to watch for. topics | custody, co-parenting, substance abuse, family law, child welfare, parental rights, therapy, legal advice, family dynamics, psychology, custody battles, personality disorders, toxic relationships, red flags, mental health, empathy, codependency, legal representation, domestic violence Mira - Episode Link"A F**king Broken Mess"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear-mira-a-f-king-broken-mess/id1735876283?i=1000654910765https://open.spotify.com/episode/1grB6rj9w4wYwYefeEXQIGlinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Narcissistic Trauma Healing (Recommended By Mira)https://carolinestrawson.com/Caroline Strawson is a multi-award winning Qualified & Accredited Trauma Therapist & Coach, Founder of The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology - a school with a mission to create a wave of change around trauma healing and education both personally and professionally.National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and Family Law Attorney Michele Locke sit down with Justine, a former military wife and domestic abuse survivor, from episode three of lovelustfear, "You're Never Allowed to Leave Me." They discuss the challenges military spouses face in abusive relationships, the complexities of navigating the court system, and the biases that can impact legal outcomes. They also explore the journey of finding love and healing after trauma, the power dynamics within abusive relationships, and the vital importance of sharing survivor stories.Topics: abusive relationships, power dynamics, military spouses, survivor stories, healing, love, toxic relationship, military, support, court system, biases, listening, comfortable environments, survivors, domestic violenceJustine - Episode Link"You’re Never Allowed To Leave Me"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear-justine-youre-never-allowed-to-leave-me/id1735876283?i=1000653439092https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bNWUWoj1deSI8kcANsGpo?si=7945e7c09356460elinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Military Spouse Support https://www.militaryonesource.mil/Talk: 1.800.342.9647Military OneSource is your 24/7 connection to information, answers, and support to help you reach your goals, overcome challenges, and thrive. As a member of our military family, you are eligible to use this Defense Department-funded program anytime, anywhere. Turn to Military OneSource for tax services, spouse employment help, webinars and online training, relocation, and deployment tools, and much more.National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/Justine - Episode Link"You’re Never Allowed To Leave Me"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bNWUWoj1deSI8kcANsGpo?si=7945e7c09356460eguest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Allyn Amerongen, a survivor, advocate, and podcaster, featured in lovelustfear episode sixteen, "It’s A Lot Worse Than We Thought."Allyn opens up about her traumatic experience in a long-distance relationship, the double-edged nature of vulnerability, and the challenges survivors face when navigating relationships after trauma. She also shares her personal journey while creating her podcast, “When Heaven Meets Hell”, and its global impact on listeners. The conversation emphasizes that survivors should never feel pressured to prove their trauma and be encouraged to embrace their truths. The episode highlights the importance of setting clear boundaries, fostering trust, and supporting survivors as they share their stories and continue their healing journeys toward recovery.​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including sexual abuse. Please listen with caution.**linksWhen Heaven Meets HellApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfEAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hellAllyn AmerongenInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links War Party Movementhttps://warpartymovement.com/National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke, alongside producer Haley Gray, are joined by Heather Ashley of Big Mad True Crime and Kyle Ashley from Critical Incidents to discuss the tragic story of Emma Compton. They explore the harsh realities of domestic violence, delving into the emotional and legal hurdles survivors face as well as the systemic obstacles that often block justice. The discussion highlights investigative issues in Emma’s case and emphasizes the need for improved communication between law enforcement and victims’ families. Heather shares her expertise in criminal intelligence and violent crime reduction, while Kyle brings insights from his military and law enforcement background. Together, they reflect on the importance of advocacy, mental health awareness, and sharing survivor stories. The conversation also touches on the personal challenges of working in true crime media, including managing criticism and maintaining balance.Heather Ashley / “Big Mad True Crime” – Linkshttps://www.instagram.com/theheatherashley/https://www.threads.com/@theheatherashleyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-mad-true-crime/id1477773466https://open.spotify.com/show/1EKq0vbB08ke1QdCsWwIwhhttps://www.instagram.com/bigmadtruecrime/https://www.facebook.com/BigMadTrueCrime/Kyle Ashley / “Critical Incidents” – Linkshttps://www.instagram.com/criticalincidentspod/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/critical-incidents/id1793167009https://open.spotify.com/show/1XheQUBCO4U9gAekwkgdYQDiscussion Links  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/  https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/impact-of-strangulation-crimes/important-facts/  https://www.timesvirginian.com/news/article_1686a486-580b-11e7-822b-0f6070bab2df.html https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/emma-compton-layne-still-missing-four-months-after-disappearing-n815781 https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/four-years-dateline-s-missing-america-90-still-missing-n826516 https://www.facebook.com/TomRodgers197/posts/missing-woman-in-halifax-county-vaemma-layne-age-52-was-last-seen-on-saturday-ev/260060507734080/ https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/remains-found-very-shallow-grave-identified-missing-virginia-woman-emma-n837286 https://www.chathamstartribune.com/news/article_f342c0f2-d52f-11e7-b4bc-cb5cabdfc22a.html https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/medical-examiner-neck-injury-caused-death-in-2017-homicide/article_2b07667a-9396-11e9-b9b5-37dda535c91f.html https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/New-billboard-in-Halifax-Co-to-help-solve-Emma-Compton-Layne-murder-561157591.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgqWAZ1cQdY&ab_channel=WSLS10 https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Vigil-to-be-held-for-Halifax-County-murder-victim-Emma-Compton-Layne-568552601.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0RPQ3cLtTwBFHE3aAISaGC2hhFOku8wH6jBQTdgJRygpxfes7UJDocxJo_aem_dDfHz6nR1coB6kCl-KWbOg https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Three-years-later-Who-murdered-Emma-Compton-Layne-571298181.html https://www.wsls.com/news/local/2023/11/22/emma-compton-layne-murder-still-unsolved-six-years-after-her-body-was-found/ https://www.wdbj7.com/2023/11/24/family-emma-compton-layne-still-seeking-justice-six-years-after-her-murder/  https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/justice-for-emma-rally-hosted-in-unsolved-death-of-nathalie-woman/article_f7b56cd2-2c0a-11ef-a6d6-bbbd81dc549b.html https://www.change.org/p/5-years-no-justice-for-emma-compton-layne https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Emma-Laynes-family-wants-justice-for-her-murder-469039723.html https://wset.com/news/local/one-year-later-emma-laynes-sister-still-seeking-justice https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/reward-offered-in-search-of-missing--year-old-cody/article_31787f4a-59e0-11e7-a45e-7f5dc8ffffb9.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Halifax-County-missing-woman-search-continues-two-weeks-later-431832353.html  https://www.wsls.com/news/2017/08/03/vigil-being-held-for-missing-halifax-county-woman/  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Human-remains-found-in-Halifax-Co-foul-play-expected-459605953.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Family-believes-human-remains-found-in-Halifax-County-belong-to-Emma-Layne-460626173.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/SHARE-Police-search-for-missing-woman-from-Halifax-county-429921923.html  https://www.evaporatethemissing.com/post/with-butterfly-kisses  https://www.facebook.com/HelpFindEmmaComptonLayne  https://www.yourgv.com/news/lightmare-says-sister-of-missing-cody/article_d96de88e-6d86-11e7-a1cd-d3a4270a79ed.html  https://www.yourgv.com/obituaries/sylvia-whitlow-mccurry/article_5d5effb4-b1e5-11e7-95a9-8bf90331c580.html  Interview with Shawna https://www.nbcnews.com/dateline/missing-in-america/husband-arrested-murder-emma-compton-layne-rcna182219 https://www.wdbj7.com/2024/11/29/emma-compton-laynes-sister-reacts-murder-arrest/ Moms and Mysteries podcast https://www.momsandmysteries.com/ Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon MusicSpotify MusicApple PodcastsRSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #EmmaCompton #HeatherAshley #KyleAshley #BigMadTrueCrime #CriticalIncidents #LovelessFridays #DomesticViolence #Podcasting #Crime #LawEnforcement #Military #LegalSystem #EmotionalAbuse #VictimSupport #SafetyPlans #Investigation #WomensRights #MentalHealth #Empowerment #CommunitySupport #ForensicEvidence #ProsecutionStrategies #JuryDynamics #VictimAdvocacy #TrueCrimePodcasting #StrangulationStatistics #CriminalJusticeSystem #PodcastCollaboration #SurvivorStories #Advocacy #TrueCrime #Storytelling #PersonalGrowth #CommunityEngagement 

Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transition from a career in architecture to podcasting, and the lessons she's learned along the way. The discussion dives into the complexities of dating in midlife—particularly for strong, independent women—touching on breakups, emotional boundaries, and the process of unintentionally emasculating men. Brit also reflects on how independence can sometimes hinder connection, and why taking small, intentional steps back into the dating world can be so valuable.Please Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Brittani Ard  – LinksWebsite: https://brittaniard.com/Podcast: “You Probably Think This Story’s About You”Apple PodcastsSpotify PodcastsAmazon MusicInstagram https://www.instagram.com/brittani.ard/Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon MusicSpotify MusicApple PodcastsRSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #LovelustFridays #Pleasure #Relationships #DatingInMidlife #EmotionalAvailability #Independence #Partnership #SelfDiscovery #Attraction #PersonalNeeds #HighDrama #StabilityInRelationships #Parenting #EmotionalAbuse #SurvivorStories #Podcasting #Kindness #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthAwareness #Healing #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #MidlifeJourney #RelationshipGrowth #SurvivorStrength #MentalHealthMatters #YouProbablyThinkThisStorysAboutYou #BrittaniArd

Jenna Brister is a comedian, actor, and screenwriter behind the feel-good Hallmark movies adored by millions. She bravely opened up about her harrowing experience of being trapped in an abusive marriage with a volatile chef in episode 6 of lovelustfear, titled “No One Gets Out This Early,” Now, she joins Jake Deptula to reflect on the red flags she faced, the healing power of comedy, and how her real-life romance with her new partner—who she’s traveled the world with—mirrors the kind of love she now brings to life in her scripts. Jenna shares her journey of surviving trauma, finding her own leading man, and how food, humor, and holiday movies helped her write her way to a true happy ending.Please Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Jenna Brister – LinksInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jenna.brister/Google Knowledge Panel https://g.co/kgs/9nrnGbmIMDB https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4488723/Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #LovelustFridays #JennaBrister #Comedy #HallmarkMovies #AbuseRecovery #relationships #lifetimovies#ImprovComedy #DatingLife #Storytelling #RomComs #FilmProduction #CulinaryArts #ChristmasMovies #WritingCommunity #Escapism #LoveAndHealing #EmotionalSafety #HealthyBoundaries #SelfRespect #Resilience #HealingJourney #Romance

In this episode, Jake and Michele are joined by Gina and Amber from the Weird True Crime podcast to discuss the tragic story of Judy Malinowski, a mother of two who was set on fire by her abuser, Michael Slager, and bravely fought for 696 days to survive—ultimately making legal history by testifying against him.The discussion delves into the devastating impact of domestic violence, the legal significance of Judy’s case, her brave testimony, and the historic role she played in speaking out against her abuser. The panel also explores the warning signs of abusive relationships, the difficulties victims face when trying to escape, and the lasting legacy of Judy’s Law. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness about domestic abuse and the vital work Weird True Crime is doing to highlight lesser-known cases and bring attention to critical issues in the true crime world.**PLEASE NOTE** The topics discussed in this episode are dark in nature and may be distressing to some listeners. We will be exploring sensitive subjects, including domestic violence, severe fire burns, and murder, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Support Links https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.thehotline.org/resources/get-help-50-obstacles-to-leaving/ https://www.facebook.com/Judysfoundation.org Weird True Crimehttps://www.weirdtruecrime.com/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weird-true-crime/id1642363009https://open.spotify.com/show/3BHNffWPPzW79m0s5phIWMhttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9d0c54e2-1ec0-4994-bc3c-33c8a0c3dcaf/weird-true-crimehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcAPlqQ1t9nzA9B6kAKifmACase Source Linkshttps://lawandcrime.com/crime/michael-slager-pleads-guilty-to-murder-after-dousing-girlfriend-with-gas-setting-judy-malinowski-on-fire/ https://www.judysfoundation.org/about/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-woman-set-fire-ex-testified-grave-behind-bars-life-7503471https://people.com/crime/the-fire-that-took-her-judy-malinowski-case/https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-fire-fiance-heroic-fight/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-last-moments-fire-that-took-her-exclusive-7503538https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/Details/A731261https://www.nbc4i.com/news/judy-malinowski-dies-nearly-two-years-after-being-set-on-fire/https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/gahanna-man-pleads-no-contest-charges-setting-woman-fire/530-bebe39bc-62ac-43a7-b42a-50e121da7965https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-on-fire-fiance-5-things/https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowski-attack-survivor-who-fought-change-ohio-law-dies-33/530-1fe7ee85-aa78-499e-bad3-f065fae1bbcfhttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702053044/https://www.10tv.com/article/find-help-run-woman-set-fire-shares-message-abused-womenhttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702083142/https://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-i-want-fight-livehttps://web.archive.org/web/20171002181027/http://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-attackers-punishment-doesnt-fit-crimehttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702051023/http://www.10tv.com/article/judge-woman-set-fire-allowed-record-testimony-potential-murder-trialhttps://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowskihttps://www.gofundme.com/f/hope-and-help-for-judyhttps://www.wdtn.com/news/u-s-world/slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/crime/2018/07/05/slager-pleads-avoids-death-penalty/987168007/https://web.archive.org/web/20190705225458/http://www.10tv.com/article/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-murderer-michael-slager-pleads-sentenced/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-fire-took-her-exclusive-dying-wish-daughters-7505022Judy’s deposition https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBapvOaUjj4 The Fire That Took Her (2022), https://www.imdb.com/title/tt21995004/ Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? 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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michelle Locke sit down with retired FBI agent and profiler Julia Cowley, who reflects on her 22-year career investigating serial killings, sex offenses, and other violent crimes. Julia discusses the realities of working as an FBI profiler, sharing her insights into high-profile cases, including those involving intimate partner violence. They cover the heartbreaking case of Vashti Forrest, a mother of two killed in 2011 after filing for divorce from her abusive husband, Brett Seacat, a police officer. Julia sheds light on the warning signs of domestic violence, the psychology of offenders, and the emotional toll of such investigations. As the host of highly rated The Consult: Real FBI Profilers podcast, Julia offers an honest, in-depth look at the complexities of FBI profiling, debunking myths often portrayed in TV and film, and providing a deeper understanding of criminal investigations.guest links | Julia Cowleyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-consult-real-fbi-profilers/id1586909557https://open.spotify.com/show/4BRyHb1KZjdGYrMfu2zMeMhttps://www.truecrimeconsult.com/ https://facebook.com/theconsultpodhttps://www.instagram.com/theconsultpod/https://www.twitter.com/theconsultpod linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com Additional LinksStrictly Stalking Podcast - Featuring Julia Cowley “Real FBI Profiler”https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/207-real-fbi-profiler-julia-cowley/id1494237083?i=1000640310287https://open.spotify.com/episode/2rHGTzMSo5J6FjEx0jvqvPFBI Retired Case File Review Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fbi-retired-case-file-review/id1082012464https://open.spotify.com/show/5gtvYJG343U7NBxcOfI2P4?si=eZD1ISmESmKoSIaJZYTKaw&nd=1&dlsi=e1969a41e5f54afahttps://jerriwilliams.com/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/Case Source Links https://www.thehotline.org/ Brett Seacat, Department of Corrections State of Kansas v. Brett T. Seacat, Supreme Court of Kansas, 15 January 2016 Brett T. Seacat v. State of Kansas, Court of Appeals of Kansas, 11 February 2022 Potter, Tim, “Vashti Seacat autopsy…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Truesdell, Jeff, “Kansas mom’s death…”, People, 10 June 2013 Potter, Tim, “In wake of Kingman…”, Wichita Eagle, 1 February 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Vashti Seacat was hopeful…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy Renee, “Oral arguments set…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2015 Hurst, Laviana, “Brett Seacat sentenced…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Potter, Tim, “Sister testifies in Kingman…”, Wichita Eagle, 5 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Jury hears Brett Seacat…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Friend of Seacat’s…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Brett Seacat prosecutors…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 N/A, “Ex-police instructor…”, Associated Press, 5 August 2013 Potter, Tim, “Questions linger after…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 May 2011 Potter, Tim, “Suspect in Kingman death…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Investigator says he…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Jury to resume…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Defense rests in…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #FBI #profiling #criminalbehavior #investigations #emotionaltoll #podcasting #relationships #lawenforcement #dating #trauma #domesticviolence #trust #roadrage #policeabuse #intimatepartnerviolence #caseanalysis #accountability #emotionalresponses #legalanalysis #officerbehavior #patternsofabuse #investigativestrategies #communication #casestudies #vashtiforrest #theconsult

Host Jake Deptula and family law attorney Michelle Locke are joined by Lauryn from Episode 17 of lovelustfear, titled “You Have to Learn to Trust Me.” Lauryn reflects on her first toxic relationship, sharing the emotional toll of repeated breakups and reconciliations that led her to question her self-worth. She describes how these painful cycles pushed her to emotional extremes and behaviors she didn’t recognize in herself. Lauryn also opens up about her struggles with body image, self-confidence, and how societal pressures influenced her perception of beauty. The conversation delves into the challenges women face today, the journey to self-acceptance, and the critical role of family and friends in overcoming adversity. Michelle offers valuable advice for parents on how to help their children navigate emotionally challenging breakups.linksLauryn LugoHere’s a link to my show Border’d on YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3XBICHsy7GjVKinY7RhZXh8gy67zOSNZ&si=sYPzspemX3P1e1EGHere’s a link to my show Little Things on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BowNWLggBzQ?si=mGcgCnGkVUrcNdmbMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com Additional Links NAMIhttps://www.nami.org/NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.The Gift of Fear Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin De Becker (Book)https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Gavin-Becker/dp/0316235776/One Tree Hillhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Tree_Hill_(TV_series)Sourceshttps://people.ucsc.edu/~sgrabe/Shellys_Home_page/Publications_files/Grabe%20&%20Ward,%20Hyde,%20Media%20Meta%20(PB,%202008).pdf https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2020/05/08/dating-and-relationships-in-the-digital-age/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #bodyimage #selfconfidence #toxicrelationships #mediainfluence #personalgrowth #selfworth #societalpressures #healing #friendship #parentingadvice #heartbreak #parenting #emotionalsupport #relationships #love #mentalhealth #copingstrategies #familydynamics #stalking #selfdiscovery #intuition #theater #empowerment

Host Jake Deptula speaks with Desiree, who shares her dating misadventures, including cringe-worthy encounters with older men who misrepresent themselves.Their conversation highlights issues like catfishing and the bait-and-switch phenomenon. Desiree reveals the aspects of old-school dating and the early days of AOL Online romances. She emphasizes critical criteria for partners, such as having a job, apartment, and car, and discusses the dangers she has faced, including awkward and potentially risky situations. She reflects on the importance of personal safety and learning from past mistakes while navigating the modern dating landscape. The episode also touches on sensitive topics like sexual assault and boundaries in relationships, encouraging listeners to be aware of red flags and the significance of trust and accountability in dating. ​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including sexual assault. Please listen with caution.**topics | bad dates, catfishing, true crime, online dating, SMITTY, dating stories, friendship, betrayal, dating criteria, dangerous situations, dating experiences, personal growth, dating, personal stories, domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault, boundaries, relationships, trust, instincts, accountability, sharing experiences, red flagsDesiree - Episode Link"His Name Was SMITTY"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283https://open.spotify.com/episode/1jQ7VjUQ0S7feHDADg1fM6National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support!