Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

We're diving into the sunny vibes of El Puerto de Santa Maria, a gem in southern Spain, where life is all about community and connection. Our guest, Daniel Cairns, swapped the hustle of London for the laid-back lifestyle of Andalusia, and he’s here to share how he and his partner are creating a welcoming home for expats in their Casa de Vecinos project. Together, they’re redefining retirement by blending practical tips on healthcare and living costs with the joy of embracing local culture—think flamenco and sherry tastings! We’ll chat about how to navigate life in this vibrant town, from the best places to eat (hello, tapas!) to how to get involved in the community. So grab your sunglasses and let’s get into the good life in El Puerto!El Puerto de Santa Maria is where the sun shines, the sherry flows, and the LGBTQ community thrives! In this episode, we dive into the coastal charm of this Andalusian gem with our guest Daniel Cairns, who swapped the hustle of London for a more relaxed life in Spain. Daniel shares how he and his partner, John, created a cozy home and a vibrant community project that welcomes newcomers with open arms. We talk about the importance of integrating into local culture, navigating the healthcare system, and embracing the joys of outdoor living. Daniel's stories are not just about retirement; they’re about finding your place in the world, making friends, and enjoying life to the fullest. Whether you're thinking of moving or just dreaming, this episode paints a picture of what life in El Puerto can be like for LGBTQ people, sprinkled with humor and heart. Get ready to be inspired by the beauty of community and connection!Takeaways:El Puerto de Santa Maria is a vibrant coastal town in Spain, perfect for LGBTQ retirees.Daniel and John created a community-focused project that blends affordable living with shared spaces.The local lifestyle includes outdoor living, festivals, and a strong sense of community and belonging.Healthcare in El Puerto is efficient, private insurance is affordable, and the services are excellent.Living in El Puerto means embracing a unique culture rich in flamenco, sherry, and local cuisine.Transportation is super convenient, making it easy to explore nearby cities and towns.Links referenced in this episode:https://andaluzliving.com/wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:Louis VuittonChanelHarrods

Ready to level up your retirement game? We're diving into the 10 essential questions every LGBTQ person should ask before picking their retirement city. Forget about palm trees and sunshine; we're talking about finding a place that vibes with who you are today, not who you were in your 20s. From walkability to genuine LGBTQ friendliness, we've got the scoop on what really matters for your happiness and sanity. Join me and my sassy AI sidekick, Michael, as we navigate the nitty-gritty of making your golden years truly shine!Diving straight into the heart of retirement planning, this week’s episode is all about the essential questions every LGBTQ retiree needs to ask when choosing that perfect place to kick back and relax. We start by discussing the importance of picking a city that resonates with who you are today—not who you were 20 years ago. I mean, did you really think a beachside bungalow would still be your jam when you can barely handle a sand grain in your flip-flop? The conversation is rich with insights about walkability, cost of living, and how a place can either support or stifle your daily joy. We even share a few personal anecdotes about our own misadventures in city selection, which, spoiler alert, involved a gator or two in a retention pond. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s unravel what makes a retirement city the right fit for you.Next up, we tackle the burning question of LGBTQ friendliness. Spoiler: it’s not just about rainbows and parades! We dive into what actual protections look like and how to spot a community that truly embraces you year-round, not just during Pride Month. Think about it—wouldn’t it be nice to stroll down the street with your partner without feeling like you’re on display? We chat about cities that excel in creating inclusive environments, from the glittering streets of San Francisco to the surprisingly warm vibes of Asheville, North Carolina. Plus, we share how places in Spain set the bar high when it comes to feeling normal and accepted. Trust us; it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss!Finally, we wrap it all up with the big picture—what does your ideal Tuesday look like in retirement? No, really! Tuesday is the unsung hero of your week, and we explore how the day-to-day aspects of a city can make or break your experience. Accessibility to stores, health care, and even coffee shops play crucial roles in your retirement happiness. We throw in a dash of humor with tales of our own Tuesday escapades, comparing cities that excel at making life easier (hello, Spanish trams!) versus those that turn errands into Olympic events. So, hang tight as we help you navigate these essential questions, ensuring your retirement isn’t just about the sun—it's about thriving in your new home!Takeaways:Choosing a retirement city is all about finding the right vibe for who you are today, not who you were in the past.Is the city LGBTQ friendly year-round? Because Pride Month isn't the only time we need love and support!Your Tuesday routine matters more than you think—make sure it fits your retirement lifestyle and makes you happy.Don't forget to check out the healthcare situation; it’s crucial to know if you can get the care you need when you need it!Affordability goes beyond just rent; consider all the little costs that can add up and stress you out.Ask yourself if the city supports your dreams for this new chapter of life, because you deserve to thrive!Links...

Ever been curious about retiring in Oaxaca, Mexico? Well, grab your sun hat, because today we're diving into that dreamy destination! We chat with David and Harvey, a dynamic duo who’ve crafted their lives in this vibrant city after years of exploring Latin America. They'll share the scoop on community vibes, cost of living, and the oh-so-important healthcare scene. Spoiler alert: it’s all about connection and convenience, from the cobblestone streets to the local markets. So, stick around and soak in the wisdom from two guys who’ve turned their retirement into a colorful adventure!Let’s talk about walkability, community vibes, and the sweet life in Oaxaca! David and Harvey break down the nitty-gritty of life in their new home, where cobblestone streets lead to charming markets and friendly faces greet you at every corner. They’ve lived in several neighborhoods, each with its own unique flavor, and they reveal what surprised them most about settling in. Spoiler alert: the vibrant energy of the city, especially during the Day of the Dead celebrations, is a total game-changer! They emphasize the importance of community and how they've built connections with fellow LGBTQ folks, from volunteer opportunities to regular meetups. Plus, they share tips on navigating local healthcare and the importance of learning some Spanish to truly immerse yourself in the culture. This episode is packed with insights for anyone considering a retirement adventure south of the border!Takeaways:Oaxaca is a vibrant city filled with music, art, and a friendly atmosphere, perfect for retirees.David and Harvey share their experiences living in various Latin American countries before settling in Oaxaca.The cost of living in Oaxaca is quite reasonable, with rent for a two-bedroom apartment around $500 monthly.Healthcare in Oaxaca can be affordable, but many choose private care due to overcrowded public hospitals.Community is key in Oaxaca, with places like the Oaxaca Lending Library connecting LGBTQ folks with each other.Transportation in Oaxaca is walkable, and public options like taxis and buses are readily available, making car ownership unnecessary.Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:AirbnbAmazonCostcoSantanderMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we're diving headfirst into the world of Americans moving to Spain! We'll chat about why folks from the LGBTQ community are flocking to this sunny slice of Europe, seeking safer and more affordable retirement spots. Our guest, Christopher Hughey, is a relocation guru who's got the inside scoop on what it takes to make the big move. From climate to cost of living, he's got the lowdown on everything you need to know to ensure a smooth transition. So, whether you're dreaming of tapas in Sevilla or sunbathing in Alicante, stick around for some fabulous tips and tricks to make your Spanish adventure a reality!Who knew moving to Spain could spark a whole new identity? In this episode, we chat with Christopher about the nitty-gritty of relocating, focusing on the non-lucrative visa that many Americans are eyeing. It's not just about the paperwork; it’s about understanding what life will look like once you land in Spain. Christopher emphasizes the importance of scouting trips, not just vacations, to get the real feel of living in Spanish neighborhoods. We also dive into the social aspects, from the vibrant LGBTQ community to the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Let’s just say, if you’re thinking about making Spain your next home, you might want to pack more than just your bags!Takeaways:This podcast episode highlights how to find affordable and gay-friendly retirement spots globally, especially in Spain.Mark Goldstein interviews Christopher Hughey, who shares insights about moving to Spain and life there.Understanding the visa process for moving to Spain is crucial, especially for retirees in the U.S.Scouting trips to Spain are essential for ensuring a smooth transition and happy living experience.Links referenced in this episode:americansmovingtospain.comwww.wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:Americans Moving to SpainFacebookMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

We’re diving into some heavy stuff today, folks! This episode is all about survival and community, wrapped in a personal story that hits hard. Mark Goldstein shares his experience surviving an aviation disaster 43 years ago, and how that day shaped his journey. We talk about the importance of choosing safe, queer-friendly places and how community can be your lifeline. Plus, we throw in some tips on what to look for when scouting your next retirement spot. So, grab a cozy drink, settle in, and let’s explore how navigating life—and where to live—is all about connection and choice!Strap in, folks! We’re taking a detour from the usual retirement chit-chat to tackle a wild and emotional ride. Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving a plane crash in Malaga, Spain, 43 years ago, and how that experience shaped his outlook on life and community. He reflects on the chaos of that day and the choices he made that still resonate with him. It’s all about survival, connection, and the power of returning to a place that holds so much history. This isn’t just about retirement; it’s about the life we lead and the people we surround ourselves with. Mark’s journey reminds us that choosing a retirement destination is about more than just geography; it’s about choosing a community that feels like home.Takeaways: This episode dives deep into the journey of finding safe and affordable retirement options for the LGBTQ community. Mark Goldstein shares a gripping personal story about surviving an airplane crash in Spain back in 1982. The discussion highlights the importance of community and connection when choosing a place to retire happily. Listeners are encouraged to consider key factors like walkability and safety in their retirement planning. Mark reflects on how past experiences shape our choices in life and retirement, emphasizing the value of chosen family. The episode wraps up with a reminder that choosing joy and community is a powerful act of survival. Companies mentioned in this episode: Drexel Burnham Lambert Iberia Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.com

We're taking a virtual trip to the gorgeous city of Montpellier in southern France, where retirement life for the LGBTQ community is as bright as the Mediterranean sun! Joining me, Mark Goldstein, is the fabulous Lloyd Meeker, who's got the inside scoop on everything you need to know—housing, healthcare, and the local vibe. Imagine living in a place where being gay is a total non-issue and the community is all about acceptance and celebration. We’ll dive into the costs of living, the stunning culture, and how to navigate the French healthcare system without losing your marbles. So grab your sunscreen and let’s explore what makes Montpellier a Mediterranean gem for retirement!Welcome to the sunny shores of Montpellier, where the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes you on a lively exploration of this Mediterranean haven! Mark Goldstein is on the mic with local resident Lloyd Meeker, who spills the secrets of what makes this city so special for LGBTQ retirees. From the moment you arrive, you’ll find a place that feels like home, where the climate is as warm as the community spirit. Lloyd shares his story of moving from the U.S. to France, navigating the housing market, and getting to grips with the local customs. Want to know about healthcare? He’s got you covered with all the juicy details on how the French system works and why it’s a game changer for retirees. Plus, if you’re a foodie, you’re in for a treat! The culinary scene in Montpellier is a delightful mix of traditional Occitan dishes and fresh seafood that’ll make your taste buds dance with joy. Throughout the episode, you’ll hear about the vibrant arts scene, the ease of getting around thanks to a top-notch public transport system, and the sense of safety that comes from living in such an accepting city. Whether you’re in the planning stages or just curious about life abroad, this episode is a treasure trove of information, camaraderie, and inspiration for your next big life chapter. So tune in and let’s get ready to retire in style!Takeaways: Montpellier is a Mediterranean gem where the LGBTQ community can feel safe and thrive. Living in Montpellier offers a unique blend of sunshine, culture, and community vibes for everyone. Healthcare in France is amazing, providing quality services without the exorbitant costs found in the U.S. Public transport in Montpellier is not only efficient but also free for residents, making life easier and more enjoyable. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Club Heasa - Building a Gay Men’s Oasis in Costa Rica with Colin BrownleeIn this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein interviews Colin Brownlee, who has established Club Heasa, a men-only vacation and short-term rental community in Costa Rica. Colin shares his journey from a marketing career in Vancouver to building a successful hotel business in Costa Rica, and eventually founding Club Heasa to create a safe and comfortable space for mature gay men. They discuss the specifics of Club Heasa, including its amenities, location, pricing, and the compelling reasons for choosing to make it a gay men-only community. Colin also offers insights into the Costa Rican climate, healthcare, local attractions, and the significance of creating physical spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. The episode sheds light on the benefits of retiring in Costa Rica and offers practical advice for potential residents.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast00:50 Meet Colin Brownlee: From Vancouver to Costa Rica01:56 The Birth of Club Heasa02:25 Welcome Colin to the Podcast02:39 Exploring Club Heasa: Concept and Vision03:03 The Story Behind the Name 'Club Heasa'09:40 Creating a Gay Men Only Community09:53 Challenges and Decisions in Building Club Heasa15:05 The Importance of Physical Community18:05 Demographics and Age Considerations20:12 Short-Term Vacation Rentals at Club Heasa25:33 Climate and Location Benefits31:32 Pricing and Amenities at Club Heasa33:17 Common Areas and Social Spaces37:11 Local Attractions and Excursions39:24 Transportation and Accessibility40:00 Car Rentals and Cost Savings40:11 Rules and Regulations at the Hotel42:49 Laundry and Housekeeping Services43:31 Guest Demographics and Preferences46:24 LGBTQ Scene and Social Life50:33 Healthcare and Medical Facilities53:28 Travel Insurance and Citizenship55:10 Security and Online Shopping57:03 Natural Risks and Earthquakes59:35 Visa Limits and Food Scene01:03:45 Final Thoughts and FarewellTakeaways: This episode highlights the importance of finding a safe and affordable retirement place for the LGBTQ community, as discussed by Mark Goldstein. Colin Brownlee's journey from marketing in Canada to creating Club Heasa in Costa Rica is both inspiring and insightful. Listeners will gain insight into the cost of staying at Club Heasa and the experiences that await them there. Colin emphasizes the significance of building a community for gay men in Costa Rica, especially as traditional gay neighborhoods fade away. The podcast dives into the unique amenities and environment of Club Heasa, including its clothing-optional policy and planned excursions. Listeners can learn about the healthcare accessibility in Costa Rica, making it a viable option for retirees. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comclubheasa.comlgbtqseniors.combooking.comexpedia.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Club Heasa Hotel Banana Azul Ajijic Wilton Manors Fort Lauderdale Palm Springs Steve Cross Rick's Bar Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark

Today, we're diving into the fabulous world of Fountain Grove Lodge in Santa Rosa, California, where Chuck and Ed just settled in. They're not just talking about where to retire; they’re sharing their journey to find a vibrant, LGBTQ-friendly community that feels like home. You’ll hear about their charming transition from the river towns of Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to this sunny, welcoming spot that’s got everything from a phenomenal dining experience to a lively social life. They also spill the tea on the climate, the cost of living, and why this place is a haven for those looking to age gracefully and joyfully. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore what makes Fountain Grove Lodge the place to be!Join Mark Goldstein as he takes us on a lively journey through the experiences of Chuck and Ed, a dynamic couple who recently made the leap from Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to Fountain Grove Lodge in sunny Santa Rosa, California. In this episode, they share their heartfelt reasons for choosing a retirement community that embraces the LGBTQ+ lifestyle, highlighting the importance of finding a supportive environment as they approach this new stage of life. With a sprinkle of humor and genuine warmth, Chuck and Ed recount their first impressions of Fountain Grove Lodge, from the beautiful architecture to the welcoming atmosphere that instantly made them feel at home. Their infectious enthusiasm shines through as they talk about the meticulous planning that went into their move, including the decision to choose a community that would provide joy and security as they age.The conversation flows effortlessly as they discuss the wide range of activities available, from gardening and art classes to social events that foster connections among residents. Chuck and Ed emphasize the significance of community and how it enriches their lives, noting that it’s more than just a place to live; it’s a vibrant hub of support and friendship. They also touch on the practical aspects of living at Fountain Grove, like the cost of living and amenities that provide peace of mind without sacrificing quality of life. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone considering retirement options, especially for those within the LGBTQ+ community seeking a place that resonates with their values and lifestyle. Chuck and Ed’s story is a testament to the joys of embarking on a new adventure together, proving that retirement can be as fabulous as you make it. So grab your headphones and join us for this delightful exploration of love, laughter, and the beauty of finding your perfect retirement community!Takeaways: Fountain Grove Lodge is a vibrant community that welcomes LGBTQ residents and their allies with open arms and festive spirits. Living at Fountain Grove means enjoying a stylish place with great food, activities, and an overall sense of belonging. Chuck and Ed's journey highlights the importance of finding a supportive retirement community that fits one's lifestyle and values. The podcast shows that aging can be a fun adventure, especially when surrounded by interesting people and engaging social activities. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Fountain Grove Lodge Philadelphia Orchestra Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts Curtis Institute Bucks County Playhouse Welltower Oakmont Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private...

Today, we’re diving deep into Friendship Village in Tempe, Arizona, the place where aging meets peace of mind. Our guest, Cole Marvin, spills the tea on what makes this community so special for LGBTQ seniors. From its inclusive culture to a variety of amenities designed for fun and connection, Cole shares how they prioritize creating a vibrant living experience. We’ll chat about the juicy details—like rooftop breweries and community gardens—that really set Friendship Village apart. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore what makes this retirement village a fabulous place to call home!Takeaways: Friendship Village is all about creating a fun and inclusive environment for seniors, where they can age gracefully and enjoy life to the fullest. Cole Marvin's journey to senior living was inspired by his grandparents' stories, showing how personal connections can shape our careers. The podcast highlights the importance of community and relationships for seniors, especially those in the LGBTQ community, ensuring they feel safe and celebrated. Friendship Village offers various levels of care, allowing residents to age in place without the fear of being forced to move elsewhere. Innovative amenities like rooftop breweries and community gardens provide residents with engaging activities that promote connection and wellness. The episode emphasizes the significance of open communication and understanding in creating a supportive atmosphere for both residents and staff. Links referenced in this episode:friendshipvillageaz.comwheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Friendship Village Life Care Services Ohio University LCS SAGE Starfire Brewery Fountain Grove Lodge Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we’re diving into the spicy topic of walkability and whether you can retire without a car. Spoiler alert: you totally can! I’ve lived in places where cars were as necessary as oxygen, and others where you can strut your stuff on foot with ease. We’ll chat about why walkable neighborhoods are the bee's knees for your health, social life, and wallet, plus I’ll share some fab locations where you can kick back without the hassle of a vehicle. From the bustling streets of New York to the sun-soaked sidewalks of Provincetown, let’s figure out where you can enjoy life without revving an engine! So grab your walking shoes, and let’s hit the pavement!Retirement isn’t just about sipping cocktails on the beach; it’s about living your best life, and that includes deciding whether you really want to own a car. Mark Goldstein dives headfirst into the importance of walkability in retirement, drawing from his own experiences living in car-dependent and pedestrian-friendly cities. He paints a vivid picture of life in New York, where owning a car feels like an unnecessary burden, versus the sprawling suburbs that demand a vehicle just to grab a quart of milk. Through his lighthearted anecdotes, he emphasizes how walkability isn’t merely about sidewalks — it’s about reclaiming independence and fostering community as we age.Mark lays out three compelling reasons why walkability matters in retirement: health, social engagement, and financial savings. Walking isn’t just good for your waistline; it’s a gateway to meeting people and experiencing life on a more intimate level. As he humorously notes, when you’re behind the wheel, the only connection you’re likely to make is through a honk or a wave of frustration. But when you’re out strolling, you’re more likely to share a smile or a spontaneous chat with a neighbor. Plus, let’s get real — cars can gut your retirement savings quicker than you can say “car insurance.” With the costs of gas, maintenance, and unexpected repairs piling up, it’s clear that ditching the car might free up some cash for those dreamy vacations you’ve been planning.As the episode unfolds, Mark explores various cities known for their walkability, from the iconic streets of San Francisco to the historic charm of Boston, where you can enjoy a leisurely stroll without feeling like you’re on a treadmill. He highlights LGBTQ-friendly neighborhoods that not only offer vibrant community life but also make it easy to live without a car. With a nod to international destinations, he gives a shout-out to places where walkability is the norm, unlike the car-centric U.S. Join Mark on this delightful exploration of where to retire without the burden of a vehicle, and you might just find your next home sweet home, where the only thing you need to worry about is which café to visit next!Takeaways: Walkability in retirement is not just about sidewalks; it’s about freedom and community. Living in walkable neighborhoods can save you tons of money on car expenses. Places like New York City are great for walking, but they can also be pricey. In retirement, it's important to live where life happens at eye level, not behind a wheel. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: New York City Phoenix Stamford Apollo Beach Wilton Manors Asbury Park Providence Provincetown Valencia Malaga Nice Montpellier Berlin Reykjavik Lisbon Mexico City Guadalajara Puerto Vallarta Mentioned in this

We're diving into the cozy world of retirement in this episode, where we chat with Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert, a fabulous couple living it up at Friendship Village in Tempe, Arizona. They've got a sweet setup in a community that’s not just welcoming but also filled with activities and amenities that make retirement feel like a never-ending vacation. Joe and Terry recently celebrated 30 years together, and their journey includes a landmark victory for same-sex marriage back in 2014. They share their experiences transitioning to this vibrant community and how it’s been a game changer for their quality of life. From dining delights to social connections, we spill the tea on why moving in early can be a total win for LGBTQ couples looking for a safe and supportive retirement space.Let’s get cozy with Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert, a dynamic duo living at Friendship Village, where they’ve made the leap into retirement living. They share their delightful journey from a traditional home to this fabulous community, which they chose for its high-end amenities and supportive environment. They’ve nailed down what makes this place feel like home: the people! From the friendly staff to the diverse residents, Joe and Terry feel embraced in a way that really enhances their quality of life. The episode dives deep into the nitty-gritty of living in a retirement community, covering everything from the financial aspects to the social scene. Joe and Terry discuss how they evaluated the costs of moving in and how those expenses stack up against what they were spending before. It’s a refreshing take on how retirement can be both enjoyable and economically savvy! But it’s not all spreadsheets and numbers! We also explore the richness of community life at Friendship Village. Joe and Terry describe the plethora of activities available, from arts and crafts to fitness classes, ensuring that there’s never a dull moment. They also touch on the importance of inclusivity and how being a gay couple in this environment has been a positive experience, with solid support from both staff and residents. So grab your favorite beverage and settle in for this enlightening chat about love, community, and what it really means to retire in style!Takeaways: This episode of the podcast highlights how important it is for LGBTQ couples to find a safe, welcoming, and affordable retirement community to enjoy their golden years together. Mark interviews Joe and Terry, a couple who has lived at Friendship Village for two years, and they share their journey of moving from independent living to a community that values inclusivity and respect. One key takeaway is the emphasis on the importance of community: Joe and Terry express how their life at Friendship Village has allowed them to be their true selves and feel accepted among diverse residents. Listeners will learn about the various amenities and activities available at Friendship Village, which include dining options, social events, and support services that promote an active and engaged lifestyle. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comvalleymetro.govCompanies mentioned in this episode: Friendship Village Corona Health Banner Desert Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please

This week, we're diving into the sunny vibes of Vigo, Spain, where our guest, Daniel Louis Loboto, is living it up under a digital nomad visa. He’s all about redefining community after coming out later in life, and he's got some fantastic insights on why Spain is the place to be for retirement. From the affordable cost of living to the lush, green landscapes, Daniel spills the tea on what makes Vigo so special. We’ll chat about everything from the local food scene to the LGBTQ+ community, and how easy it is to get around without a car. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore why Vigo might just be your next retirement hotspot!> Stepping off the plane and into the vibrant world of Vigo, Spain, our guest Daniel Louis Loboto shares the thrilling tale of his journey from Denver to this picturesque port city. At 62, Daniel's life took a bold turn when he came out later in life, transitioning from a traditional family life to one filled with adventure and self-discovery. With a rich background in Spanish heritage, he made the leap across the Atlantic, seeking a community that resonates with his identity. The conversation dives deep into the factors that drew Daniel to Vigo—its affordable cost of living, welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and the allure of a vibrant culture. We learn about the stunning climate boasting mild summers and manageable winters, making it an ideal retirement locale. Daniel is not just living in Spain; he’s thriving in a unique cultural tapestry that weaves together his roots and his newfound freedom. Join us as we uncover what it means to redefine home and community, and how life in Vigo fosters a sense of belonging and joy.> As we cozy up with Daniel, we explore the ins and outs of living in Vigo, focusing on the economics, culture, and the undeniable charm of the city. With his digital nomad visa in hand, Daniel discusses the financial advantages of retiring in Spain compared to the U.S. He shares how his retirement income stretches further here, allowing for a lifestyle filled with tapas, local wines, and the kind of leisurely afternoons that make life sweeter. Listeners will learn about the affordability of housing, utilities, and healthcare, painting a clear picture of financial freedom in this coastal gem. The conversation covers everything from the lush, green landscapes of Galicia to the vibrant street life, making it clear that Vigo isn't just a place to retire; it's a place to live life to the fullest. With a dash of humor and a lot of heart, Daniel's stories will have you daydreaming about your own retirement in this enchanting corner of Spain.> In the final segment, we get into the nitty-gritty of community—specifically, the LGBTQ+ scene in Vigo. Daniel describes a welcoming atmosphere where diversity flourishes, even if there aren't specific gay bars or organizations. The relaxed vibe of the city allows for a blend of cultures, where same-sex couples hold hands freely in the streets, and everyone feels at home. He shares his experiences of meeting other LGBTQ+ folks and emphasizes the importance of establishing a social network upon arriving. From local festivals celebrating Galician culture to the delicious culinary scene featuring Michelin-starred restaurants, it’s clear that Vigo offers a rich, fulfilling life. Daniel’s insights and experiences are not just informative; they’re an invitation to step out of your comfort zone and consider the beautiful possibilities that await in retirement. So grab your café con leche, sit back, and let’s dive into the wonders of life in Vigo!Takeaways: Vigo, Spain is a hidden gem for LGBTQ+ retirees, offering a vibrant community and low cost of living. The climate in Vigo is mild, with summers in the 70s and winters rarely freezing, perfect for outdoor lovers. Living in Vigo means enjoying fresh seafood, local cuisine, and a rich cultural scene with festivals and art....

Join me as we dive into the sun-soaked paradise of Gran Canaria, where the LGBTQ community is not just accepted but celebrated! This episode features the fabulous Raquel Rojas, an award-winning media exec who spills the tea on life in this vibrant island. We'll explore everything from the dreamy beaches and delicious local cuisine to the surprisingly low cost of living and the warm, friendly vibes of the locals. Plus, get the scoop on why Gran Canaria is a go-to spot for retirees looking to soak up the sun and enjoy life to the fullest. So grab your sunscreen, and let’s find out if this could be your next retirement destination!Gran Canaria, an island paradise in the Atlantic, is the focal point of today’s conversation on the Where Do Gays Retire podcast. We kick off with an exploration of the island’s charm through the eyes of Raquel Rojas, who was born and raised here. She paints a picture of Gran Canaria as a welcoming haven for the LGBTQ community, sharing her personal journey from the island to the bustling streets of Canada and back again. With a PhD in Cinematography and years of experience in media, Raquel brings a unique perspective on life in Gran Canaria, emphasizing its exceptional climate, rich culture, and vibrant community. The discussion flows into the nitty-gritty of what makes Gran Canaria so attractive for retirees, particularly those in the LGBTQ community. We chat about the island's mild temperatures year-round, making it a perfect escape from harsh winters. Raquel highlights the affordability of living here, especially when compared to other European destinations. Imagine renting a spacious apartment for just €600 a month or snagging a three-bedroom sea-view home for around €200,000! It’s a dream come true for many looking to enjoy their golden years in a beautiful, sunny locale. As we dive deeper, we get the scoop on the island’s safety and healthcare system, which are both top-notch. Gran Canaria boasts one of the best public healthcare systems in the world, and English-speaking doctors are readily available, providing peace of mind for expats. Raquel reassures us that the island is incredibly safe, allowing residents to enjoy life without the constant fear that often comes with living in larger cities. With all these perks, it’s no wonder Gran Canaria is becoming a go-to destination for LGBTQ retirees seeking a vibrant, inclusive community to call home.Takeaways: Gran Canaria boasts an amazing climate with mild temperatures year-round, making it a perfect retirement spot. The cost of living in Gran Canaria is significantly lower than in many other European countries, so your money stretches further here. Gran Canaria has a vibrant LGBTQ community, with a welcoming atmosphere and no discrimination, making it a safe haven for all. Healthcare in Gran Canaria is excellent, with both public and private options available to expats and retirees alike. Transportation is super convenient, with a great bus system and walkable neighborhoods, making it easy to get around without a car. Food in Gran Canaria is delicious and diverse, featuring fresh seafood, tropical fruits, and local wines that are very affordable. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at...

Today, we're diving into the sun-soaked paradise of Madeira, Portugal, where Paul and Kevin share their epic journey from Seattle to this dreamy island. They've been living it up on Madeira for over four years now, and let me tell you, they have no plans of ever leaving! We’re chatting about everything from the cost of living, which is basically a steal compared to Seattle, to the laid-back lifestyle that makes you feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard. Plus, they spill the tea on what it’s like to be part of the LGBTQ community on this little slice of heaven. So, grab your sunscreen and join us as we explore why Madeira might just be your next big retirement dream!Ever thought about trading your busy city life for the sunny, laid-back vibes of Madeira, Portugal? Well, our guests Paul and Kevin did just that, and they’re here to tell us all about their journey from Seattle to this picturesque island. With a dreamy climate that feels like endless spring and a cost of living that’s a fraction of their old life, these two lovebirds are living the retirement dream! They share how they navigated moving during the COVID pandemic, why they chose Madeira over Mexico, and all the juicy details of settling down in this subtropical paradise. Get ready to learn about the local culture, the unique flora and fauna, and why they absolutely adore their new home. Spoiler alert: it involves great wine, stunning views, and a sense of community that makes them feel right at home.Not only do Paul and Kevin give us the scoop on why Madeira is such a great place for LGBTQ retirees, but they also dive into the nitty-gritty of everyday life on the island. From the surprisingly low property taxes to the affordable healthcare system, they break down how living on this beautiful island compares to their previous lives in the U.S. And let’s not forget the food! They share some delicious local specialties and their thoughts on the dining scene, which ranges from cozy cafes to Michelin-starred restaurants. Whether you’re contemplating a move or just daydreaming about island life, this episode is packed with tips, insights, and plenty of hearty laughs. As they reflect on their journey, Paul and Kevin emphasize the importance of community and connection. They talk about how easy it is to meet people, make friends, and become part of the fabric of life on Madeira. With everything from local markets to vibrant festivals, there’s never a dull moment! They even share their experiences with healthcare, transportation, and the overall safety of the island. If you’ve ever considered retiring abroad or simply want to escape the hustle and bustle for a more serene lifestyle, this episode is a must-listen. So grab your headphones and let’s explore Madeira together!Takeaways: Living in Madeira, Portugal offers a beautiful subtropical climate and a friendly community vibe that makes settling in a delight. Retiring in Madeira can be much more affordable than in the U.S., with lower costs for housing and healthcare! The local cuisine in Madeira tends to be simple, focusing on fresh ingredients and comfort food rather than intricate flavors or spices. Madeira is incredibly safe, making it easy to enjoy late-night strolls without fear, a huge plus for anyone considering relocation. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.commatch.comLGBTQseniors.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: match.com Edmonds College Washington State Attorney's General Office Leroy Merlin Mentioned in this episode:Introducing...

We’re diving into the sunny vibes of Nerja, Spain, and trust me, it’s not just a pretty beach town; it’s the kind of place where you can actually picture yourself kicking back in retirement bliss! In this episode, we chat with Richard Carnaby, who’s on a mission to build his dream home on the eastern Costa del Sol. He spills the tea on why he and his husband chose Nerja over more touristy spots like Marbella, and let me tell you, their reasons are as delightful as a churro dipped in chocolate! We also explore the cost of living, the local LGBTQ scene, and the breathtaking scenery that’ll make you want to pack your bags ASAP. So grab your sunscreen and tune in as we uncover what makes this hidden gem the ultimate retirement destination!Nerja, Spain, is like that hidden gem you stumble upon when you least expect it. Richard Carnaby, an actor living in Norfolk with his husband Steve, takes us on a journey of how they found their future retirement home on the eastern Costa del Sol. Initially drawn to the popular town of Nerja, they soon realized that nearby Salobreña was their perfect match—a blend of beautiful beaches, a quaint atmosphere, and a dash of local charm. Richard shares delightful stories about their adventures in house hunting, including a memorable long weekend that reignited his love for the area after many years. They explore climate, community, and the lifestyle that awaits them in this sun-soaked paradise, where winters are mild and the summers are warm and inviting. Richard's narrative paints a picture of tranquility, highlighting why he feels Nerja and Salobreña are not just places to live, but true havens for those seeking peace and belonging.Takeaways: The Where Do Gays Retire Podcast is all about finding the perfect retirement spot for the LGBTQ community! Richard Carnaby shares his journey of choosing a retirement home in sunny Nerja, Spain, with his husband. Living in Nerja offers a chill vibe with beautiful beaches, great food, and a warm community! The cost of living in Spain is generally cheaper than in the UK, especially when it comes to food and dining out. Nerja is not just a tourist trap; it’s a tranquil town with rich history and culture to explore! Safety is a big plus in Nerja, where walking home late at night feels as safe as a cozy blanket on a cold day. Links referenced in this episode:www.wheredogaysretire.comwww.lgbtqseniors.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

In this episode of the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, Mark Goldstein speaks with Tomek Gurzynski, a 54-year-old Polish-born adventurer and longtime airline professional who lives in Medellín, Colombia. Tomek shares his journey from the United States to Colombia, discussing the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and vibrant culture of Medellín. He emphasizes the city's safety, LGBTQ inclusivity, and the affordable yet high-quality standard of living. Tomek also offers practical advice for those considering a move to Colombia, stressing the importance of preparation, learning Spanish, and understanding local customs. His personal experiences illuminate why Medellín could be an ideal retirement destination for the LGBTQ+ community.Takeaways: Medellín has a vibrant LGBTQ community that is super welcoming and friendly. Seriously, it's like a big hug every time you step out! The cost of living in Medellin is way lower than in the US, so you can live like a king or queen for way less. Talk about winning! Colombia's healthcare system is top-notch and super affordable, making it easy for retirees to access quality medical care without breaking the bank. Medellin has a fabulous climate, so you won't have to sweat like a popsicle in the sun! It's like eternal spring here, and who doesn't love that? Finding community is key when moving abroad, and Medellín has plenty of events and groups where you can connect with fellow LGBTQ folks. Safety in Medellín has significantly improved, allowing you to enjoy the city without constantly looking over your shoulder. Links referenced in this episode:lgbtqseniors.comwheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

We're diving into a super important topic today: the political climate of your potential retirement spot. It’s not just about sun-soaked beaches and affordable rent, right? We’re here to help you figure out if that paradise you’ve been dreaming of is actually a safe haven or just a pretty facade hiding some shady politics. Trust me, understanding the local vibe and what’s brewing politically can save you from future headaches. So grab your drink of choice, and let’s chat about how to be a savvy retiree and not just chase the latest trend!Rethinking Your Retirement: Political Landscapes MatterIn this episode of the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, host Mark Goldstein emphasizes the importance of considering the political climate of potential retirement destinations. While aspects such as cost of living, healthcare, and weather are often scrutinized, Mark argues that understanding the local political landscape is crucial for ensuring long-term safety and well-being. Using examples from Spain, Italy, Mexico, and other global locations, he illustrates how political shifts can impact the LGBTQ+ community. The episode encourages listeners to proactively research and engage with local news and communities to make informed decisions about their retirement plans.Takeaways: Retirement isn't just about palm trees and cute cafes; the political climate is key. Before moving, dig into local politics to ensure your future safety and well-being. Don't just fall for pretty beaches; make sure the local government supports LGBTQ rights. Awareness is crucial; knowing the local vibe can prevent future headaches for your retirement. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of Where Do Gays Retire?, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

We're diving into the fabulous world of Living Out, a unique 55+ LGBTQ community that’s all about creating a vibrant and accepting space for our fabulous queer elders. In this episode, we chat with Loren Ostrow, the mastermind behind this fantastic project, and trust me, you won't want to miss his insights on how Living Out stands out in a sea of retirement options. From its warm, inclusive vibe to its stunning amenities, Lauren shares how they’re flipping the script on aging in the LGBTQ community. We’ll also explore the importance of having a safe space where folks can genuinely be themselves without fear of judgment or prejudice. So grab your favorite drink and settle in—we're about to get cozy and learn about a retirement community that feels just like home!Takeaways: Living Out is a unique community where LGBTQ seniors can thrive together and foster authentic connections. Mark Goldstein interviews Loren Ostrow about the importance of safe, welcoming retirement options for the LGBTQ community. The podcast discusses how Living Out addresses specific challenges LGBTQ seniors face, ensuring they feel accepted and valued. Listeners learn about the vibrant local culture in Palm Springs, where Living Out is situated, enhancing the resident experience. Companies mentioned in this episode: Living Out SAGE Los Angeles LGBT Center National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Alice B. Restaurant Eisenhower Medical Brand G HRC

We’re diving into the fabulous world of Florence, Italy, where our guest Tom Leonard is living his best life in a city that’s as enchanting as it is historical. Tom spills the tea on everything from the cost of living to the vibrant Italian culture, plus a sprinkle about his own journey from California to the charming hills of Florence. He’s not just soaking up the sun and pasta; he’s also juggling his digital marketing gig while brushing up on his Italian skills and indulging in local cuisine. Whether you’re curious about healthcare, safety, or the dining scene, Tom's got you covered with all the juicy details. So, grab your virtual passport and let’s explore why Florence might just be the perfect retirement destination for everyone in the LGBTQ community!If you've ever thought about retiring in a beautiful, culturally rich country, Tom Leonard’s story will inspire you! This episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes us through Tom’s exciting experience of moving from California to Florence, Italy. He shares the good, the bad, and the absolutely delicious of living in this stunning city. From adjusting to the climate to understanding the cost of living, Tom gives us a real sense of what it’s like to call Florence home. He talks about the fantastic healthcare system, how to get by with the language barrier, and the incredible public transport that makes getting around a breeze. Plus, we dive into the culinary delights that await in local markets, and how to enjoy the Italian way of life while keeping fit with all that walking! Whether you’re considering a move yourself or just dreaming of an Italian getaway, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and laughter.Takeaways: Finding a safe and affordable retirement spot in the LGBTQ community is crucial. Tom Leonard's journey to Florence highlights the importance of embracing new adventures. Florence offers a vibrant culture, delicious food, and welcoming locals, perfect for expats. Understanding the local climate and costs is key to enjoying life in Italy. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Warner Brothers Netflix lifegateway Gamers Change Lives Smart Move Italy

Ready to explore Flagstaff, Arizona? Today, we’re diving into why this mountain town is a fab spot for LGBTQ retirees. Our special guest, Nancy Sullivan, spills the tea on everything from the breathtaking nature to the welcoming vibe for our community. We chat about the outdoorsy lifestyle, the rising cost of living, and how the climate’s changing—spoiler alert: it’s getting warmer! Plus, we’ll dish on the arts, culture, and those delicious local eats that make Flagstaff a hidden gem. So grab your hiking boots, and let’s get ready to fall in love with Flagstaff!Flagstaff, Arizona, is a hidden gem for LGBTQ retirees looking for a vibrant and welcoming community. With stunning natural beauty, outdoor adventures, and a climate that keeps things cool in the summer, it’s no wonder that people are flocking to this high-desert paradise. Nancy Sullivan, a music professor at Northern Arizona University, shares her journey of moving from Seattle to Flagstaff for a job opportunity, and she hasn’t looked back since. She describes the friendly atmosphere and liberal values that make Flagstaff feel like home, especially for those in the LGBTQ community. Retirees can enjoy a myriad of outdoor activities like hiking, biking, and even horseback riding right from their doorsteps, thanks to the abundance of trails and parks. Nancy's enthusiasm for her small ranch outside of town, where she lives with her wife and their animals, paints a picture of a life filled with adventure and tranquility. The climate in Flagstaff is another standout feature, especially for retirees who prefer a cooler environment compared to the scorching heat of Phoenix. Nancy discusses the high-desert climate, the changes due to climate change, and how the elevation impacts the weather patterns. She stresses that while the winters can be snowy and cold, they also offer opportunities for winter sports, making it a year-round playground for outdoor enthusiasts. For those considering Flagstaff as a retirement destination, Nancy emphasizes the need to acclimatize to the elevation but reassures that the lifestyle is worth the adjustment. The community spirit and the beautiful landscapes are definite pros, making Flagstaff an attractive option for anyone looking to retire in a friendly and engaging environment.Takeaways: Flagstaff is a stunning place filled with outdoor activities, perfect for nature lovers who want to stay active during retirement. The cost of living in Flagstaff can be a bit high, especially housing prices, so plan your budget accordingly. The LGBTQ community in Flagstaff is incredibly welcoming, making it a safe haven for retirees looking for inclusivity. Climate change is impacting Flagstaff, with hotter summers and less snowfall, so it's good to be aware of changing weather patterns. Wildfires are a real concern in Flagstaff, and retirees should have a solid emergency plan in place. Transportation options in Flagstaff are pretty good, with a decent public bus system and lots of bike-friendly routes available. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.com