Parenting With A Purpose

Join me, Donna Janel, as I team up with the insightful Rhonda Santos to peel back the layers on a topic that's both personal and universal – healing from the scars of narcissistic abuse and codependency. Celebrating a pivotal moment in my own journey towards becoming a registered nurse, we draw parallels between the transformation of graduates embarking on new beginnings and our own steps towards fostering growth within our families. We tackle the complex web of emotions that often intertwine within our relationships, discussing how our unhealed wounds from the past can lead us down a path of seeking drama as a stand-in for intimacy, and the impact this has on nurturing our children.As we chart the course of our conversation, we share stories close to our hearts, revealing the deep-seated roots of codependency that can ensnare those of us in the helping professions. We open up about the magnetic pull towards trying to 'fix' our partners, dissecting how this often masks a need for validation and caretaking. The discussion takes a turn towards self-discovery as we consider the importance of setting boundaries, not just for our own well-being but as a beacon for our children to follow. We're reminded that the journey of healing isn't just for us; it's a legacy we impart to our kids, replacing cycles of hurt with patterns of healthy, self-affirming love.Our dialogue ventures beyond the personal, considering how the post-pandemic world has reshaped our approach to dating and relationships. We celebrate personal victories, like the nearing end of Rhonda's doctoral program, and the joys of newfound financial independence – all milestones marking the progress on our paths. This episode is a testament to the courage it takes to confront our traumas, to the transformative power of education, and to the resilience that comes with learning to love ourselves fully. Listen as we affirm that each step we take is one towards a future where our children can thrive, unencumbered by the burdens of our past.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Have you ever witnessed a teenager's unexpected leap into maturity or grappled with the delicate equilibrium of single parenting? Today, on Parenting with a Purpose, Pam and I, Donna Janel, share heartfelt tales and insights that strike a chord with every caregiver. From the surprising growth of adolescents to the gritty reality of a mother's absence when choosing a cruise over her kids, we unravel the intricacies of showing up—both physically and emotionally—for our little ones.Pam rejoins us to navigate the arduous odyssey of  parenting with a purpose, highlighting the story of a valiant mother's struggle to raise four children alone. Together, we delve into the raw emotions of parenting in isolation—pride, fear, and the oft-overlooked self-care that leads to burnout. Yet, through these challenges, we uncover the power of vulnerability and the courage to seek help. Our conversation is a testament to the incredible fortitude found in asking for assistance and the delicate dance of fostering independence while providing nurture.Wrapping up our earnest dialogue, we emphasize the transformative role of self-care and its foundational place in effective caregiving. Join us as we explore how intentional parenting and moments of guidance forge a stronger bond between parent and child. We also dissect the significant impact parents have on their children's perception of relationships and emotional health. It's not just about raising children; it's about nurturing the future harbingers of change. Tune in and be part of this enlightening journey.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

When my 18-year-old stood at the crossroads of adulthood, uncertain whether to enlist in the Marines, it was a stark reminder of the delicate dance of parenting. Through my own confrontation with health challenges, including three strokes, I've learned the hard way that nurturing our children and ourselves is akin to tending a garden, requiring patience and time for the seeds of well-being to flourish. Join me, Donna Janel, as I share these intimate stories and more, offering insights into the art of guiding our children and ourselves toward a life resonant with wellness.This heart-to-heart extends as I sit down with Dr. Kim Rogers, whose expertise in lifestyle medicine brings a new dimension to the conversation about health beyond the clinical numbers. Dr. Rogers, from Restore MD Medical and Wellness, shares a holistic approach that blends the emotional, spiritual, and social aspects of our lives, advocating for a comprehensive wellness that transcends cultural expectations. Together, we navigate the importance of lifestyle assessments, challenging the norms of continuous productivity, and how rest, sleep, stress levels, and social connections play pivotal roles in our overall health.Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint, and this episode serves as a reminder of the vitality of self-care and mental well-being in the relentless pursuit of raising children. We tackle the notion of parental self-sacrifice, exploring how prioritizing our own health is integral to the legacy we build for our families. Embrace this journey with us as we seek to balance self-care with the rigors of parenting, and learn to cultivate a life where wellness is not an afterthought, but a cornerstone of our daily existence.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Ever find yourself in the midst of a parenting quandary, like that time I scoured the house for a wayward Bluetooth speaker, only to discover it nestled in my teenager's room? These moments, both maddening and mundane, are the threads in the rich tapestry of parenting that we tug at in today's heartfelt dialogue. We weave through the complexities of communication, loss, and the transformative power of responsibility, alongside my special guest, Jean- Pierre Brice, also known as Uncle P. His journey from anger to gratitude, from CMP radio station owner to beacon of community change, underscores our shared narrative of growth and the pursuit of purpose.Parenting with a Purpose isn't just a catchphrase; it's a living, breathing mission that takes shape in the stories we share. As P open up about the pivotal moments of his past—the loss of his father, his brush with street life, and the dream that propelled him toward starting his own radio station—we discover the sustaining force of support and belief. Uncle P's insights remind us that our experiences aren't just personal milestones, but guideposts for our children's futures, and the importance of breaking negative cycles for their sakes.Join us as we celebrate the essence of perseverance and the fruits of intentional parenting, from the revelation of watching his son handle money to the influence of a young woman's encouragement. Together, we explore how family, compassion, and the indomitable human spirit can lead us to sacrifice, overcome hardship, and ultimately, build a legacy that echoes through generations. So, tune in, as we share tales of redemption, the relentless pursuit of our dreams, and the indelible marks we leave through the noble art of parenting.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Parenting is an odyssey that shapes the destiny of our children, a fact I've come to realize more deeply with each passing day. My experiences have taught me that the guardianship of their dreams, especially in the glitzy but often treacherous entertainment industry, is both a privilege and a profound responsibility. In our heart-to-heart conversation, we navigate the complexities of providing our kids with the moral compass they need to stay grounded amidst the allure of fame. Expect a candid discussion on the paramount role of parents in arming the next generation with values that foster integrity and self-respect.I reminisce about the delicate dance of upholding principles within the home, a journey marked by the defiance of teenagers and the importance of leading by example. The tales shared of boundary-pushing and rule-setting are reflections of the broader narrative on character building in our children. We peer into the mirror of our actions, as I ponder how our everyday choices become the silent instructions our kids follow, witnessing the impact of our conduct on their development.To wrap up our session, I share insights into the day-to-day moments that become cornerstones of our children's ethical framework. From a teachable episode at a local Wawa to reinforcing reliability in the face of life's unpredictability, I highlight how these instances evolve into lessons on honesty, respect, and responsibility. As we close, I extend an invitation to join me in embracing the monumental task of parenting, fostering a space within our homes that not only nurtures but also radiates integrity and character, ultimately shaping a brighter future for our society.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Ever found yourself locked in a hilarious stand-off with your sixteen-year-old over shower rights? Me too. It's moments like these that remind us of the joys and challenges of parenting, a theme we unwrap along with special guest Stacey Woodson, a registered dietitian and nutritionist, in a heart-to-heart talk on family dynamics and the role of nutrition in our lives. We share a laugh and delve into the serious community issues that touch our everyday lives, with Stacy offering her expert insights on the often overlooked essentials of health.Parenting isn't just about managing the household chaos; it's also about navigating the complex narratives of food, culture, and mental health. Stacey and I break down common myths about the nutritional value of foods from diverse communities, and we chat candidly about the 'love it or leave it' philosophy, helping you enjoy those holiday treats guilt-free. From the cultural significance of soul food to the power of plant-based nutrition, we tackle how the choices we make at the dinner table can shape our family's health and happiness.But we don't stop there. We also tackle the practicalities of meal planning for busy families, offering tips and personal anecdotes on how to keep your family nourished without the stress of striving for perfection. And for the parents out there, we explore strategies for respecting your child's food choices while keeping mealtime manageable. It's an episode packed with laughter, empathy, and the shared goal of nurturing informed, healthy communities. So, cozy up and let's chat about making those nutritious choices that allow us all to thrive.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Navigating the teenage years can feel like steering a ship through a storm, and I, Donna Janel, am no stranger to the turbulent waters of parenting teens. This week’s heartfelt discussion is a beacon for fellow parents, offering a shared experience of enforcing consequences to foster responsibility. We take a step into the compassionate realm of foster care through the lens of Corkisha Pittman, a pediatric nurse whose journey as a foster parent embodies the nurturing spirit necessary to guide young lives through their most vulnerable moments.The path of fostering is strewn with both joys and heartaches, and during our conversation, we unearth the systemic hurdles that complicate this loving endeavor. We discuss how better support systems, community involvement, and governmental action can uplift struggling families. This episode doesn't just share the trials but celebrates the triumphs of parenting, as we also talk about the monthly 'parent in village' Zoom meetings, a testament to the collective wisdom and power of community in raising children.Wrapping up, we contemplate the profound impact of communal effort in creating nurturing environments for our little ones. We explore the importance of addressing fundamental developmental needs and the tools necessary to guide our offspring with precision and empathy. So join us on this journey of Parenthood with a Purpose, as we not only share stories but also honor the indelible mark we leave on the lives we shape.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Have you ever reflected on the complex dance of shaping a young life, particularly during those tumultuous teenage years? This week on "Parenting with a Purpose," I, Donna Janel, alongside insightful guests Bryce Shelton and Savion Thompson, dive into the rich layers of influence that mold our children. We tackle everything from gender roles to the powerful forces of religion and society, sharing stories and wisdom on guiding our youth with intention and heart.As we peel back the challenges of modern parenting. We discuss the delicate balance between tradition and technology, the quest for authentic success, and the art of nurturing each child's individual path. Our dialogue weaves through the importance of open communication and the art of negotiation within the family dynamic, striving to foster environments where both respect and individuality thrive.Concluding with a contemplative note. With guests Bryce and Save You enriching the discussion, we celebrate the victories that come from the trials of raising independent, expressive individuals. This episode is an affirmation of our dedication to parenting with love, understanding, and the recognition that through the challenges, there lies the beauty of transformation. Join us for a conversation that promises to resonate with parents united in the transformative act of raising the next generation.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Navigating the tumultuous waters of modern parenting, I open up about my personal journey through the highs and lows of raising teenagers, bringing a touch of humor to the real emotional rollercoaster that comes with the territory. There's a profound weight to the role we play as parents, likening ourselves to bows that launch our children—our arrows—into the future. The conversation takes a sober turn as we confront the harrowing issue of youth violence, exploring the tools we, as parents, can offer our children to help them not only succeed but also act as agents of positive change in the world.Joining me is Lashira Council from Chester Community Coalition, who brings an invaluable perspective on community intervention and the long-lasting ripple effects of gun violence. Together, we break down the Coalition's comprehensive strategy, from immediate action in hospitals to ongoing mental health support, emphasizing the importance of healing and engagement for affected families, including those of perpetrators. This dialogue doesn't shy away from the hard truths about violence normalization, survival mentality, and the imperative need for emotional literacy in breaking the chain of trauma passed from one generation to the next.As we wrap up, I stress the vital importance of intentional parenting, fostering open conversations with our children about topics such as gun safety and substance use, and keeping these discussions age-appropriate. The narrative touches upon the complexities of gun ownership, the nuanced connections between trauma and youth violence, and the profound influence of social media. The commitment to creating a nurturing environment goes beyond just meeting physical needs—it's about emotional support and preparing our children for the world they will inherit. I invite you to continue this meaningful dialogue, week by week, in 'Parent through the Purpose', as we strive to shape a brighter, safer future for our homes and communities.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

As I sat next to Jahi Ross, I couldn't help but reflect on the weighty role fathers play in the lives our children's lives. Our conversation took us through the landscape of black fatherhood, offering a glimpse into the rich, often unspoken narratives that shape our sons and daughters. Jahi, sharing his own experiences as a father and entrepreneur, opens up about the unique challenges and victories that come with raising children who are confident and grounded in today's multifarious society.Unraveling the complexities of parenting didn't stop there; we traversed the terrains of forgiveness, family dynamics, and the formidable influence of social media and music on our young. The intertwining of personal tales and shared wisdom led us to confront the harsh realities that young black males face, while also emphasizing the power of communication, emotional intelligence, and setting an example at home. This heart-to-heart discussion underscored the necessity for parents to be vigilant, proactive, and most importantly, present in their children's lives.Finally, touching on the subtler, yet equally crucial aspects of parenting, we explored mental well-being, the power of narrative, and the importance of recognizing each child's individual needs. From discussing the significance of downtime and fostering personal interests, to the critical role of parental self-care, every moment of this dialogue with Jahi Ross serves as a reminder of the enduring impact we have on our children. So join me, Donna Janelle, on this episode of 'Parenting with Purpose', where we don't just share lessons—we live them, learn them, and lovingly pass them on to the arrows we aim into the future.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

As a parent, have you ever felt like your child's actions are a reflection on your own upbringing, stirring a mix of pride and trepidation within you? This week, Donna Janel opens up about the journey of parenting with an earnestness that pulls at the heartstrings, accompanied by Pastor Charmayne Lane. Together, they examine the highs and lows of motherhood, from the daunting challenges of teenage pregnancy to the nuanced dance of single parenting and the complexities of blended families. Our candid conversation promises to leave you with a deeper understanding of the fortitude and grace required to guide our children through life's labyrinth.Remember the times when a parent's advice seemed to come from a place too distant to relate to? We've come a long way since then. This episode weaves personal narratives with practical insights on breaking free from damaging familial cycles and the importance of a robust support system.  Pastor Charmayne shares her own tale of teen motherhood, which blossoms into a broader discussion about the delicate balance of parenting roles, the impact of male figures in a child's life, and the journey from independence to interdependence in marriage and family units.Finally, we celebrate our show's one-year milestone by reiterating our commitment to empowering young parents and reinforcing support structures that anchor them. From navigating relationships and maintaining open communication with maturing children to the transformative leadership that parenting inherently demands, we underscore the lifelong influence parents have. This episode is not just a reflection on the past year but an ode to the purpose-driven nature of parenting—a testament to the profound impact of nurturing homes and the enduring guidance we provide beyond childhood's horizon.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Navigating the complexities of parenthood often feels like an odyssey, especially when technology blurs the lines between childhood and the vast ocean of information. Donna Janel and Rhonda Santos pull you into a candid realm of discourse, addressing the critical role of nurturing in child development and the significance of healing personal traumas. Our dialogues traverse the landscape of intergenerational curses and the effects of narcissistic abuse, where Rhonda, with her wealth of experience in nursing and healthcare informatics, shares profound insights into behavioral dynamics and the journey toward holistic family wellness.There’s an undeniable magnetism between empaths and narcissists, a dance that can both fascinate and devastate. This episode doesn’t just spotlight these interactions; it's an intimate reflection on setting boundaries, the art of forgiveness, and the process of personal healing. Through heartfelt narratives, we dissect the perils of toxic relationships and emphasize the importance of professional diagnosis when confronting personality disorders. Our conversations are more than just exchanges of ideas; they are a testament to the transformative power of self-care and the pursuit of inner peace.Concluding on a note of community and familial ties, we acknowledge the impact of supportive networks in child-rearing and share personal experiences of overcoming adversity, like my brush with homelessness. Reflecting on the role of father figures and the power of forgiveness, this episode is a beacon for those working to break cycles of trauma and embrace their worth beyond the shadow of judgment. Join us at our weekly gathering place, "Parenting With a Purpose," and be a part of these enriching dialogues that honor the responsibility and beauty of raising the leaders of tomorrow.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Every parent knows that moment when you're staring into the eyes of your child and see a glimpse of the future. It's in these moments that the weight of our role truly sinks in. I'm Donna Janel, and together with Dr. Kristen Ball Motley and her mother, Mrs. Edith Ball, we navigate the turbulent waters of parenting. From the nuances of father-daughter dynamics to the evolution of tough love, we share our stories and shed light on the complexities of shaping young minds in a rapidly changing world.Parenting is a tapestry of joy and challenges, each thread a lesson in resilience and love. Whether you're part of a blended family or standing firm in the face of teenage rebellion, this episode promises a treasure trove of insights. We delve into the art of setting boundaries and the struggle to maintain authority amidst the lure of technology. Listen closely as we reveal how we balance the push for independence with the pull of protection, crafting a space where the voices of our children can be both heard and guided.As we wrap up, I reflect on the journey we embark on as parents, the silent prayer that our teachings will arm our children with kindness and integrity in an often unkind world. With Dr. Kristen and Ms. Edith, we underscore the importance of community in parenting and the collective endeavor to sculpt the next generation. So join us, as we anchor our hearts in the hope that the arrows we launch are not only aimed at success but are also imbued with the courage and compassion to change the world.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Feeling overwhelmed by the ceaseless waves of parenting advice? Allow me to share my quarter-century trek through the wilderness of child-rearing, as I reflect on the pivotal mission that we, as parents, have in molding the citizens of tomorrow. This episode of "Parenting with a purpose" is a candid tapestry of the trials and triumphs we face – from the "terrible twos" to the stormy seas of adolescence. I delve into the heart of what it means to equip our children with the right values and tools for life, drawing from the well of my own experiences as a mother of four. We'll unpack the layers of complexity that come with each developmental stage, acknowledging that while the path isn't always straight, the values we instill are our children's true north.Expect a heartfelt dialogue on how the role of grandparents has evolved and the unique contributions they bring to the family dynamic. As we march into the new year, "Parenting with a purpose" is set to embrace more platforms and introduce a diverse array of voices to the conversation, all aiming to reinforce the responsibility, nobility and beauty inherent in the art of parenting. Whether we're discussing the nuances of adolescent pressures in an ever-changing technologically driven society or the importance of life insurance in planning for our children's futures, this series remains steadfast in supporting families to foster well-rounded, responsible, and prepared individuals. Join us, as we navigate the ever-evolving landscape of parenting, grandparenting, and everything in between.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

Discover the transformative power of parenting with a deliberate and heartfelt approach as I, Donna Janel, sit down with Bishop Billy Lane Jr. His deep wisdom on raising children in today's complex world is not to be missed. We share stories and strategies that will equip you to shape a future for your children that's as bright as the visions you hold in your heart. If you've ever questioned how your upbringing influences your parenting style or how to bring up your children with a sense of purpose, this episode promises to offer you both solace and inspiration.Together with Bishop Lane, we navigate the intricate dance of maintaining a vision while juggling the daily realities of family life. From the powerful acronym VISION to our very own experiences with faith and forgiveness, this conversation transcends the usual parenting advice. It's about crafting a legacy, embracing the roles we've been given, and infusing every decision with intention. Whether you're a parent in a traditional, blended, or single-parent family, the insights shared here will resonate deeply and perhaps even alter the course of your family's journey.Our discussion culminates in an exploration of the spiritual dimensions of parenthood, as well as the practical aspects of forging a family vision that stands the test of time. By examining our own stories and those of the families we encounter, we uncover the balance between grace and accountability, communication and individuality. This episode isn't just about parenting—it's an invitation to reflect, renew, and rise to the noble calling that is raising the next generation. Join us for a conversation that will leave you moved and motivated to parent with unwavering purpose.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!

As a parent, the journey of guiding our children can be fraught with uncertainty and challenges. This week, I'm joined by Bryce Sheldon and Savion Thompson, who offer a stirring window into their lives as young black men and the parenting that shaped their paths. Our discussion peels back the layers on what it truly means to nurture not just the physical, but the emotional and mental fortitude of our children. We reveal how breaking free from restrictive gender roles and addressing the nuanced effects of family dynamics, such as divorce, can impact a child's development and sense of self.Navigating the tightrope between authority and camaraderie in parenting roles, this episode sheds light on the delicate balance that cultivates respect and openness within the family unit. We grapple with the consequences of inflexible parenting, and how understanding and compassion can fortify our children against the pressures to conform. With personal insights and reflections from literature, our conversation serves as a clarion call for intentionality in parenting—providing children with the liberty to express their individuality and pursue their unique passions.Wrapping up, we confront the pressing need to equip our sons for a future where they can thrive as men of character. By emphasizing conversation and planning, we underscore our commitment to fostering responsibility, nobility, and beauty in the upbringing of our children. It's a purpose-driven approach to parenting that Bryce and Savion illuminate with their own experiences, from the demands of home life. Join us as we continue to champion the journey of raising boys into men with grace and a clear vision for their tomorrow.Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!