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This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most unhinged and heartbreaking ones we've ever covered 😭🎙️She met him at a conference. He was charming, charismatic, easy to talk to. Within weeks they were dating. Within months she was in what felt like the best relationship of her life 💕He understood her demanding career. He never pushed to move in. Everything worked perfectly.For 18 months.And then his wife called. 😳Not only did she find out he had been married for 15 years with two children the entire time…He didn't even live where he said he did. He lived in a completely different state. 💀And just when she thought it couldn't get worse — the wife found her mother. And contacted her too. 😭Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts on the man, the wife and every single red flag that was hiding in plain sight 🎙️Drop your thoughts below 👇Was there anything she could have done differently or was this completely impossible to see coming?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 115 is here and we did not come to play 😭🎙️From a bush meat scandal in Dalston that we are still not over, to the conversation about eating ass that started casually and went further than anyone planned 💀Then there's our wildest fantasies 👀 (some wilder than others, we'll let you decide)And then the Reddit post that had us fully invested — she's catching feelings for him, everything is going well… but he's balding. And she doesn't know how to feel about it. And honestly? Neither do we 😭📌 TIMESTAMPS:0:00 – Intro09:39 – The Dalston Bush Meat Scandal & Eating Prawn Poo?!16:17 – So Everyone Is Out Here Eating Ass?! 😳42:00 – Our Wildest (Or Not So Wild) Fantasies 👀01:14:14 – Reddit Realness: "I'm Falling For Him But He's Balding…"01:16:21 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week01:37:27 – Adult Finds of the WeekIf you've ever had a feeling you were too embarrassed to admit out loud… Steph & Tia said it for you this week 💕➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

This week's Reddit Realness hit different 😭🎙️A Black woman living abroad finally found someone who felt like home in a foreign country. A man who shared her background, her culture, her world. And then she watched him flirt with another woman. Right in front of her. Repeatedly. Gleefully. 💀 When she confronted him he laughed it off. When she went through his phone she found exactly what her gut already knew. His explanation? It was just a joke. Just an ego boost. He was never really interested. 😳But here's the part Steph & Tia cannot move past — the compliments, the excitement, the energy he showed this woman… Was she the punchline the whole time? 👀 And is this just about flirting or is there a much bigger pattern here that needs to be talked about? Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and this one got deep 🎙️ Drop your thoughts below 👇Have you ever felt like you were the stable choice while someone else got his best self?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

This week the girls are getting into the Ls, the Ws, the vents AND the things we should have never — not even for one second — accepted in our lives 💀Because apparently we have ALL stayed somewhere we had absolutely no business being 😭And then we get a jaw-dropping dilemma from a fellow got here baby that you do not want to miss! 👀📌 TIMESTAMPS:0:00 – Intro1:00 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week24:55 – Vent of the Week28:30 – Craziest Thing You've Accepted That You Should Have Never Been There For57:17 – Reddit Realness: "I Just Caught My Man Cheating On Me With Other Men"01:07:55 – Adult Finds of the WeekIf you've ever stayed in a situation way longer than you should have… this episode will make you feel very seen 💕➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Two Reddit dilemmas. Zero chill. Absolutely no holding back from Steph & Tia 😭🎙️ This week on Reddit Realness: 💔 Dilemma 1: She's been with her partner for 3 years. She has major surgery coming up in 10 days. He breaks up with her… via letter. Is she overreacting or is this genuinely one of the worst things a partner can do? 👀 😈 Dilemma 2: He cheated on his girlfriend. Then karma came for him immediately and did NOT hold back 💀 Was he a victim of his own decisions or did he genuinely get what he deserved? Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and we are NOT sorry 😭 Drop your verdict in the comments 👇 Who has it worse — the woman dumped before surgery or the cheater who got karma'd?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 111 is giving EVERYTHING and we are not holding back 😭🎙️ This week Steph & Tia are back on their nonsense — from gym couple drama, to the very real pressure of marriage and kids, to the Reddit reader whose relationship started crumbling the second she moved in with her boyfriend 💀 Plus… are we really out here EATING our skincare? We need to talk 👀 📌 TIMESTAMPS:0:00 – Intro / Gym Woes & The Downside of Training With Your Partner 16:49 – Steph & Tia's Ls and Wins of the Week 40:24 – Prison Guard Baddies 51:10 – Fighting Against the Pressure of Getting Married and Having Children 01:04:26 – 'Eating Your Skincare' / Are We All Too Desperate to Be Beautiful? 01:20:58 – Reddit Realness: "My Boyfriend and I Just Moved In Together and I'm Starting to Resent Him" 01:31:25 – Adult Find of the Week If you've ever felt pressured to hit life milestones on someone else's timeline… this episode is for you 💕➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 110 is HERE and we are NOT holding back 😭🎙️This week Steph & Tia are back with another chaotic, honest and hilarious episode covering EVERYTHING — from the week's biggest Ls and Ws, to the countries we'd actually pack up and move to, to the thrush chat nobody asked for but everybody needed 👀📌 TIMESTAMPS:0:00 – Intro01:40 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week + Countries We'd Actually Visit26:31 – When Not Replying to Texts Becomes Your Whole Personality 😭45:03 – When That Thrush Comes to Get You 💀51:53 – Reddit Realness: "How do I tell my colleague I'm not interested without making it awkward?"59:30 – Adult Find of the WeekIf you've ever left someone on read for 3 days and felt nothing… this episode is for you.➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma.A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted.Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled.She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing.Is she selfish for wanting to leave?Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship?We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain.Drop your thoughts in the comments:Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point?Timestamps:0:00 - Intro 05:25 - Dilemma➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 108 of the We Just Got Here Podcast is messy in the BEST way.Steph & Tia start with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into absolute chaos — from fighting for justice for Punch the monkey to unpacking the very real problem of dusty monkey baby dads 🥴Things only get wilder as the girls rank the ultimate “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs (some of these are genuinely dangerous), followed by a Reddit Realness story that will have you SCREAMING: she laughed at his turn-on… and then blocked him 😭And of course, Adult Finds of the Week makes its iconic return ✨Timestamps:0:00 – Intro1:36 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week7:54 – Justice for Punch the monkey! / Dusty monkey baby dads30:50 – “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs43:40 – Reddit Realness: “She laughed at my turn on and blocked me”48:30 – Adult Finds of The WeekExpect unfiltered opinions, chaotic energy, and nonstop laughs.Subscribe for new episodes every week 💅✨➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a confession that left us speechless.A man matches with a woman on Tinder, falls hard, and genuinely believes he’s found something real.No red flags. No suspicious behaviour. No profile picture. No visits to her place.Until one night… they run into her husband.He claims he had absolutely no idea she was married with two kids, and immediately ends it in front of her husband. But months later, after she divorces, she tries to get back with him.Now he’s carrying guilt for being part of something that broke up a family, especially because his own mum cheated on his dad when he was a child.Is he responsible? Or was he just another victim of her deception?We unpack guilt, accountability, accidental affairs and whether ignorance truly makes you innocent.Drop your verdict in the comments.➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Welcome back to Episode 107 of We Just Got Here Podcast 💛This week gets REAL.We start with life updates and Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week before diving into a heated conversation about polyamorous vs monogamous relationships… and whether Nick Cannon’s “colony” lifestyle is chaos or clarity 👀Then in Reddit Realness, we react to a jaw-dropping dilemma:A woman’s husband cheats on her… and when she confronts her mother-in-law for advice, she’s told she needs to “work on her marriage.”The twist? Her father-in-law previously had an affair too.Is this generational enabling? Internalised marriage loyalty? Or misplaced advice?We unpack it all.As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week:Tia: Fresh mint teaSteph: PALS & getting your health checks sortedFollow and comment your thoughts and join the Got Here Gang 💬⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro / Life Update17:48 - Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week32:35 - Tia’s Ls & Wins of The Week53:56 - Polyamorous and Monogamous Relationships?!/ Nick Cannon & His Colony01:17:44 - Reddit Realness: AITA for asking my mother-in-law for advice on how she dealt with her husband’s affair after she said that I needed to work on my marriage when her son cheated on me?’01:24:44 - Adult Finds of The Week ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a heartbreaking dilemma about love, betrayal, and the moment everything falls apart 💔A listener shares how, after a beautiful first Valentine’s together, she checked her boyfriend’s phone, only to discover he had been using Grindr since the very beginning of their relationship.He insists he never physically cheated. He says it “meant nothing.” But the emotional deception? The secrecy? The double life? That’s what shattered her.Now she’s left questioning everything:Was it cheating?Was he hiding his sexuality?Can you rebuild trust after something like this?Steph & Tia dive into honesty, identity, betrayal, and whether love alone is enough to fix what’s broken.👇 Be honest…Is this something you could move past? Or is it done?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 105 of We Just Got Here Podcast was supposed to be a short Patreon bonus episode… but due to a family emergency, we weren’t able to record our usual show this week.We still wanted to give you your Thursday dose to get you through the rest of the week, so this one is a little more raw, a little more honest, and very much unfiltered.Expect banter, dark humour, and chaotic tangents as we get into:• An NHS rant that needed to happen• Tia’s ethnicity conversation• Tia’s issue with Chinese takeaways• The Grammys• Why there might be a private investigator after Tia 😳• Steph’s brand new paranoiaIt’s messy. It’s real. It’s slightly spiralling. And it’s very much us.We’ll be back to regular scheduling next week. Thank you for sticking with us and being part of the Got Here Gang 💛➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia read a dilemma that proves the grass is not always greener… sometimes it’s just AstroTurf 😭💀A listener writes in after leaving her husband for another man who convinced her she “deserved better,” promised the world, and had her mentally picking out kitchen appliances and baby names. Fast forward a few months and… the man has vanished, the future has evaporated, and karma has clocked in early 😳Steph & Tia break down how to strategically spin the block, when “deserving better” turns into self-sabotage, and why we should maybe stop trusting people who sell dreams with bullet points.It’s messy, it’s honest, and it’s giving life lesson wrapped in chaos.👇 Be honest…Is this karma, or just a very loud reality check?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal).The girls also get into:The internet’s obsession with vabbingWhy the dating scene feels completely cookedThe rise (and menace) of AI videosHyper-femininity, dressing for yourself, and rejecting the male gazeTia’s emotional vulnerability, Steph’s maid-of-honour dreams, and classic oversharingThings take a turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks how to recover after her boyfriend gave her a serious case of the ick 💔As always, the episode wraps with Adult Finds of the Week and peak We Just Got Here banter.⏰ Timestamps0:00 – Intro08:28 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week10:04 – Neighbour Group Chat Update: ShtGate Edition*26:03 – Let’s talk about vabbing35:31 – The state of the dating scene43:04 – The rise of AI videos46:58 – Hyper-femininity & not dressing for the male gaze50:45 – Is Tia scared of emotional vulnerability?53:33 – Steph as the toxic maid of honour01:08:23 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend gave me a serious case of the ick”01:29:50 – Adult Finds of the WeekAdult Finds of the Week: Tia: https://shorturl.at/hsesPSteph: Available at your nearest Starbucks➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm.Things get even more awkward when he calls his mum on the spot, and she starts shouting down the phone. Instead of acknowledging how intense it all felt, he doubles down and insists it’s just a close family who “care about him.”So the question is 👀Is this just a strong support system… or a massive red flag?Steph & Tia break down boundaries, family dynamics, and when “close” crosses into too much.👇 What would YOU have done?Timestamp:0:00 - Intro 06:50 - Dilemma➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question:Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become?The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dynamic can quietly destroy relationships.Things get even deeper during Reddit Realness, where an OP asks for advice after realising the man she’s dating only seems to like the version of her he imagines, not the real her.As always, expect honesty, humour, and classic We Just Got Here chaos, wrapped up with Adult Finds of the Week.⏰ Timestamps0:00 – Intro03:16 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week42:14 – Are you dating for potential?58:09 – Reddit Thread: How does it feel to be dated for potential?01:13:06 – Reddit Realness: “He only likes the idea of me”01:27:46 – Adult Finds of the WeekAdult Finds of The Week:Tia: https://shorturl.at/vGvgSSteph: https://shorturl.at/YP0Q6➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a devastating dilemma 💔A listener writes in after discovering that during the early years of her relationship, her partner was secretly sleeping with another woman,  sometimes on the same day she’d just left his place. When she confronted him back then, he denied everything… only for her to later find the messages, photos, and proof still saved on his phone.Now here’s the twist 😳He proposed on Christmas Day, and she’s left questioning whether the entire foundation of their relationship was built on lies.Steph & Tia react with honesty, humour, and zero tolerance for nonsense — breaking down betrayal, trust, and whether you can move forward when the past finally catches up.👇 Would you stay… or walk away?➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Episode 100 of We Just Got Here Podcast is pure chaos 😭💀Steph & Tia kick off the milestone episode asking the important question: what would you actually do if you were in a horror movie? Before diving into their Ls & Wins of the Week.We read out the worst text messages people have ever received, share some of the most unhinged messages we’ve personally been sent, and then hit peak Reddit Realness with a dilemma you truly have to hear to believe… should you keep babysitting for a woman whose “baby” is actually a doll?! 😳As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week and classic We Just Got Here banter.🎧 Whether you’re here for the laughs, the chaos, or the internet’s wildest stories, Episode 100 delivers.⏰ Timestamps0:00 – Intro / What would you do in a horror movie?10:29 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week26:19 – Reddit Thread: Worst text message you’ve ever received36:44 – The most unhinged texts we’ve received57:58 – Reddit Realness: Should I keep babysitting for a woman whose baby is a doll?01:02:33 – Adult Finds of the WeekAdult Finds of the Week: Tia: https://shorturl.at/YzRXVSteph: https://shorturl.at/D0MUw➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts