Legacy Makers: A Conversation For Dads

On this episode of Legacy Makers, Kevin and Eric dive into the power of rhythms, rites, and milestones in fatherhood. Drawing inspiration from David Salyers' Champion Tribes and cultural traditions like Bar Mitzvahs, they explore how to intentionally mark life's big (and small) moments—from firsts like losing a tooth or riding a bike, to transitions, coming-of-age experiences, achievements, and even hardships. The conversation unpacks the Peak-End Rule from the Heath Brothers, shares personal stories of one-on-one trips, monthly dates, bedtime rituals, and holiday traditions, and challenges dads to reject "good enough" parenting for a higher standard of legacy-building. Whether it's celebrating a kindergartner's success with ice cream or guiding teens through tough decisions, discover practical, low-cost ways to create lasting memories and teach resilience. Perfect for fathers seeking to amplify everyday moments and build a family legacy that endures—because what gets celebrated gets repeated. Tune in and get inspired to start your own traditions today! Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads06:33 Creating Meaningful Moments and Milestones11:49 Navigating Transitions and Coming of Age17:27 Marking Achievements and Overcoming Hardships22:08 Building Lasting Legacies Through IntentionalitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos in today’s world? This episode dives into how dads can lead with courage and clarity when tragedy strikes. From having tough, age-appropriate conversations with kids to modeling boldness and unity, we explore practical ways to engage rather than disconnect. Learn why staying out of the social media echo chamber matters, how to focus on your “three feet of influence,” and why your role—at home and in the community—truly makes a difference. If you’ve ever wondered how to drive positivity in heavy times, this conversation is for you. Chapters 00:00 Introduction & Welcome00:05 The Weight of Recent Events: Tragedy and Disconnection02:18 Leaning In: Why Dads Must Engage During Tough Times04:00 Understanding “Calling” and Our Unique Role05:32 Starting at Home: Age-Appropriate Conversations with Kids06:16 Preparing Kids for Reality: Boldness and Safety10:09 Leading Conversations as Fathers12:12 Grace and Truth: Balancing Conviction with Compassion14:02 Modeling Consistency: Actions Matching Words15:39 Teaching Boldness and Micro-Decisions17:34 Heroes Wanted: Impact Within Your Sphere of Influence19:37 Beyond the Home: Responding in Work and Community21:07 Avoiding the Fringes: Social Media and Division22:38 Building Bridges and Resisting Isolation23:56 The Power of Conversation in Times of Adversity25:14 Closing Thoughts: Stepping Up and Leaving a LegacySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever feel like you’re drifting through fatherhood, marriage, and work—wondering if true connection is possible? This episode with Larry Hagner reveals how intentional living can break the cycle of overwhelm and transform your relationships. Hear practical strategies for building legendary marriages, connecting deeply with your kids, and finding purpose beyond the daily grind. Discover why small moments matter, how humility unlocks growth, and why every dad’s journey can spark a movement. Tune in for real stories, actionable tips, and inspiration to live your legacy—starting today.  Grab your FREE “Questions for the Car” for kids ages 5-8, 9-12, and teens—spark great conversations on the go! [Get them here.] Order Larry’s book, “The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,” on Amazon and start building your epic legacy today! Want a signed copy? Get Larry’s book PLUS two free courses—Creating More Patience and Creating Extraordinary Marriage—right here! Chapters 00:00 Introduction & Welcome00:52 Larry’s Journey: Fatherhood, Marriage, and The Dad Edge02:18 Understanding “The Drift” in Life04:47 Creating the Avatar: Lance’s Story06:53 The Reality of Overwhelm and Disconnection10:43 Defining Legendary Fatherhood13:21 Kids Spell Love “T-I-M-E”16:36 Practical Connection: Car Conversations & Notes21:12 Loving Your Kids’ Mom Well27:19 Integration vs. Balance in Life30:41 When the Expert Feels Lost35:24 Learning, Unlearning, and Relearning as a Parent39:44 The Future of Intentional Fatherhood43:54 The Wedding Toast Moment: Living Your Legacy45:49 Resources & Closing ThoughtsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the secrets to better fatherhood were hiding in your business playbook? In this episode of Legacy Makers, Kevin and Eric unpack five powerful principles from Jesse Cole, founder of the Savannah Bananas, and explore how they apply to parenting. From eliminating friction in morning routines to experimenting with joy and empowering kids to take ownership, this is a heartfelt, practical guide for dads who want to lead with intention and build lasting legacies. Tune in for real stories, actionable insights, and a fresh take on what it means to be a present, purposeful dad. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Legacy Makers00:52 Applying Business Principles to Fatherhood03:14 The Five E's of Experience10:11 Eliminating Friction in Parenting13:54 The Importance of Entertainment17:03 Engaging Deeply with Kids19:25 Empowering Action in ParentingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dads, learn to feel your child's pain without fixing it all—channel empathy into compassionate guidance that builds resilience, problem-solving, and true confidence. Real stories from the trenches.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Caught between crushing it at work and being present at home? In this episode of Legacy Makers, Eric and Kevin dive into the real tension dads face between hustle culture and family life. From Instagram algorithms to Nick Saban quotes, they explore how to manage seasons of hustle and rhythms of rest—without guilt. It’s not about choosing one over the other, but learning to live in the tension with agility, duality, and intention. If you’ve ever felt torn between ambition and connection, this conversation is for you. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads08:15 Navigating the Hustle and Home Balance15:51 Finding Harmony in Tension20:36 Living in the Tension Without GuiltSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the secret to leading a billion-dollar turnaround was the same as raising great kids? In this episode of Legacy Makers, Kevin Hochman—CEO of Brinker International—shares how intentionality, mentorship, and values-driven leadership have shaped both his professional success and personal life. From one-on-one trips with his kids to reigniting Chili’s culture, Kevin reveals practical wisdom for building legacy at home and at work. Whether you're a parent, a leader, or both, this conversation is packed with insights that will inspire you to lead with purpose.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if one small decision could unravel everything you’ve built as a dad? In this episode of Legacy Makers, we dive into the invisible force that shapes your children’s future—integrity. From workplace choices to personal vices, we explore how seemingly unrelated actions can either pave a clear path for your kids or leave them lost in the weeds. With honest stories, practical tips, and a powerful metaphor you won’t forget, this conversation challenges every father to lead with consistency, not just at home—but everywhere. 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads02:17 Navigating Leadership and Integrity07:56 The Impact of External Choices on Fatherhood14:31 Addictions and Their Effects on Parenting20:00 Building Consistency and Integrity as a Dad25:57 Creating a Legacy of Dad PrivilegeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Eric and Kevin on this episode of Legacy Makers as they explore parenting strategies through the powerful lens of sowing and reaping. Discover how patience, long-term growth, and the shift from discipline to discipleship can transform your parenting approach. They discuss teaching delayed gratification, fostering connection before correction, and finding grace in teachable moments as children grow. Whether you’re navigating everyday challenges or striving to nurture deeper bonds, this episode offers thoughtful insights to help you parent with purpose. Tune in now for practical advice and encouragement to sow seeds that cultivate a lasting legacy for your family. Chapters 00:00 Sowing and Reaping: The Long View03:13 Patience in Parenting: The Long Game06:01 Teaching Delayed Gratification08:53 Discipline vs. Discipleship12:07 Connection Before Correction14:57 The Importance of Teachable Moments17:59 Growth and Grace in ParentingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Eric and Kevin on this episode of Legacy Makers as they share heartfelt insights into the unique parenting challenges and joys of raising daughters. From modeling healthy relationships to offering affirmation and emotional support, they emphasize the lasting impact fathers have on their daughters’ confidence and self-worth. Discover how they balance protection with independence and adapt their parenting styles for sons and daughters alike. Packed with practical advice and thoughtful discussion, this episode is your guide to fostering strong father-daughter relationships and empowering the next generation. Don’t miss it—tune in now to start building your legacy. Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Challenges of Parenting Daughters03:10 The Importance of Affirmation and Validation05:56 Empowering Daughters Through Confidence08:50 Modeling Healthy Relationships12:02 Engagement and Emotional Support14:53 The Role of Dads in Shaping Identity18:10 Balancing Protection and Independence20:56 Advice for New Dads of DaughtersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Eric and Kevin on this episode of Legacy Makers as they explore the everyday parenting challenges that test patience and perspective. They share insights on shifting focus from short-term frustrations to long-term character development, offering practical advice for fostering a nurturing environment. The conversation dives deep into handling difficult moments with grace and addressing the often-overwhelming influence of public perception on parenting decisions. Whether you're navigating tantrums or tough choices, this episode encourages you to parent with intention, kindness, and resilience. Tune in for thoughtful guidance aimed at building a legacy of strong, compassionate families. Chapters 00:00 The Long Game of Parenting02:53 Frustrations and Challenges in Parenting05:40 Shifting Perspectives: Long-Term vs Short-Term09:51 Performance Parenting and Public Perception15:01 The Impact of Others' Opinions19:55 Mindset Shifts for Effective ParentingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join hosts Kevin and Eric on Legacy Makers as they tackle the rewards and challenges of parenting. This episode dives into parenting challenges, emotional intelligence in parenting, and how ego can impact relationships with your kids. Kevin and Eric share personal stories of frustration, offering strategies to overcome daily parenting struggles while cultivating a positive mindset for parents. They emphasize the importance of long-term parenting strategies over focusing on short-term frustrations and remind listeners that parenting is a meaningful, ongoing journey. Tune in for inspiration, insights, and encouragement to grow as a parent. Subscribe now and join the conversation! Chapters 00:00 The Long Game of Parenting02:53 Navigating Daily Frustrations05:40 Shifting Perspectives in Parenting09:51 Performance Parenting and Ego15:01 Understanding Emotions and Identity18:29 Cultivating a Positive Parenting MindsetSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Eric and Kevin highlight the critical need for emotional support for dads and the role of community in overcoming barriers. Discover how ideal Father's Day experiences can strengthen bonds and why building deeper connections is so important. Learn practical ways to break emotional barriers, support one another, and model these behaviors for future generations. Whether you're navigating fatherhood challenges or seeking inspiration to grow, this conversation offers valuable insights. Subscribe now and join us in redefining connection, legacy, and what it truly means to show up for yourself and others. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Fatherhood Conversations03:11 Building Community Among Dads08:21 The Challenge of Emotional Connections12:47 Practical Ways to Support Each Other20:34 Modeling Support for Future GenerationsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin and Eric explore the challenges and rewards of fatherhood, focusing on the importance of community among dads, the desire to raise children who are leaders, and the strategies for modeling leadership at home. They emphasize the significance of instilling a sense of purpose in children and the need for dads to lead by example, while also addressing the complexities of leadership in public and private settings. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads00:35 Raising Future Leaders06:16 Modeling Leadership at Home12:42 Leading from Any Position18:22 Navigating Leadership and Public Perception20:51 The Enterprise Mindset in LeadershipSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This conversation explores the challenges and responsibilities of fatherhood, focusing on the importance of building a supportive community for dads. The discussion delves into the concept of entitlement in children, examining how parenting styles and societal influences contribute to this issue. The speakers share personal anecdotes and strategies for fostering gratitude, responsibility, and resilience in kids, emphasizing the need for setting clear expectations and modeling appropriate behavior as parents. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Fatherhood Conversations03:07 Understanding Entitlement in Children05:57 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Entitlement09:13 Navigating Expectations and Reality11:46 Strategies to Prevent Entitlement17:59 Building Gratitude and Responsibility in KidsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin and Eric explore the challenges and joys of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of community, intentionality, and legacy in parenting. They share personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate the complexities of being a dad while maintaining a focus on what truly matters: being present and building lasting relationships with their children. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads02:57 Navigating Fame and Family11:56 Intentionality in Parenting20:50 Building Lasting LegaciesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin Scott and Eric Blumenthal discuss the challenges of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of community, inner peace, and effective parenting strategies. They explore how decision fatigue, overscheduling, and the need for strong partnerships can impact a father's ability to maintain peace at home. The conversation highlights practical steps dads can take to prioritize their well-being and create a positive environment for their children. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads02:18 Finding Inner Peace as a Parent06:31 The Impact of Overscheduling on Family Life09:20 Managing Tension and Demonstrating Peace12:27 Setting the Tone: Being the Thermostat15:30 Building Strong Partnerships for Peace18:13 Prioritizing What Matters Most21:32 The Power of Presence in ParentingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin and Eric discuss the challenges and joys of fatherhood, the importance of community, and the journey of building a business with Greg Vetter. Greg shares his personal story of starting a salad dressing company, the lessons learned from his entrepreneurial journey, and how he instills values of resilience and grit in his children. The discussion also touches on defining success beyond financial metrics and the legacy they hope to leave for their kids. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads04:13 Greg's Journey: From College to Family Life12:02 Building a Business: Lessons from the Salad Dressing Company19:54 Parenting Philosophy: Instilling Grit and Resilience25:08 Urgency in Life and Business32:04 Defining Success Beyond Money33:51 Legacy: What Dads Want Their Kids to RememberSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin and Eric discuss the challenges and rewards of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of community among dads. They explore themes of empowerment, the balance between significant moments and everyday life, and the necessity of context in communication with children. The conversation highlights the need for intentional parenting and creating lasting memories, while acknowledging that fathers do not have complete control over how their children perceive their experiences. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads04:45 Empowerment and Control in Parenting10:16 The Balance of Big Moments and Everyday Life15:46 Interpreting Messages and Context in Parenting21:52 Creating Lasting Memories and ExperiencesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin and Eric discuss the challenges and rewards of fatherhood. They emphasize the importance of community, love, and work ethic in raising happy children. The conversation explores how to instill responsibility in kids through chores, the significance of assuming positive intent, and the long-term goals of parenting. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, encouraging dads to model positive behaviors and values for their children. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Community for Dads01:56 Keys to Happiness: Love and Work Ethic03:50 Raising Responsible Kids: Chores and Expectations10:19 Assuming Positive Intent in Parenting15:58 Teaching Work Ethic and Responsibility20:09 Long-Term Parenting Goals: Building Habits and ValuesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.