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The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast
The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast
Author: Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD
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Welcome to Revolutionary Marriage, the podcast for couples who are ready to break free from the status quo and create an extraordinary relationship. Hosted by Dr. Debi Smith, this show dives deep into proven strategies, heartfelt stories, and expert insights to help you build a marriage that’s not just good—but extraordinary. Whether you’re navigating challenges or simply want more connection, this is your go-to resource for a love that lasts.
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A wife can feel lonely even in a good marriage. Here’s why that happens—and what husbands can do to reconnect without pressure or blame.
START HERE ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com 👉 Wives: Download Understanding Him 👉 Husbands: Download Understanding Her
Because extraordinary love isn’t an accident. It’s the result of Strength. Beauty. Synergy. Life.
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
A husband often feels disrespected in tiny moments a wife doesn’t even notice. Here’s why those micro-moments matter so much—and how understanding them can transform your connection.
START HERE ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com 👉 Wives: Download Understanding Him 👉 Husbands: Download Understanding Her
Because extraordinary love isn’t an accident— It’s the result of Strength. Beauty. Synergy. Life.
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Discover why her tears trigger defensive anger—and how she can express what she needs and wants in a way that he can hear and understand.
Want to understand each other in ways that actually work? START HERE ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com 👉 Wives: Download Understanding Him 👉 Husbands: Download Understanding Her
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
When he’s stressed, he needs her more—not less. Learn how loving presence grounds his nervous system and restores connection.
Download Understanding Him and Understanding Her at https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
His focus isn’t disconnection—it’s design. Learn how masculine attention works and how it creates deeper connection.
Your Next Step: If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her Find both at ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
His silence doesn’t mean he’s checked out. It often means he’s processing. Learn how understanding his quiet builds connection.
✨ Your Next Step: If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her Find both at ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Because extraordinary love isn’t found by accident— it’s designed by and through understanding.
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Why his strongest reactions often come from the tenderness of his heart—and how recognizing that creates deeper connection.
Your Next Step: If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her Find both at ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Because extraordinary love is built through understanding the person you love most.
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
A wife’s admiration awakens her husband’s confidence, leadership, and love. Here’s how.
Your Next Step: If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her Find both at ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
You both want the same thing: connection. 💗 So why do you keep missing each other? Dr. Debi reveals the problematic pattern—and the solution.
✨ Choose Your Next Step:
If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him
If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her
Get both free guides ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Why a husband hides his heart—and how to restore connection by understanding his sensitivity and strength.
✨ Your Next Step: Choose the resource tailored for you:
If you’re a wife → Download Understanding Him
If you’re a husband → Download Understanding Her
Get both at https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Because extraordinary love isn’t a mystery— it’s a matter of understanding strength, beauty, and the synergy between them.
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Talking more doesn’t solve anything if you’re not truly understanding one another. Learn how to translate and decode the language of love between men and women.
FREE GUIDE: 3 Secrets to Being Heard ► https://www.awisewomansguide.com/3-Secrets
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Every couple follows the same predictable pattern: they fall in love, misunderstand each other, disconnect, and eventually fight. Most never realize the problem isn’t the conflict—it’s what happens long before it.
Download the free guide "3 Secrets to Being Heard" at https://www.awisewomansguide.com/3-secrets
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
What if everything you thought you knew about men was wrong?
In this episode, Dr. Debi reveals the shocking truth about men’s hidden feelings, how they’ve been taught to hide them, and why honoring their sensitivity is the key to extraordinary love.
Ready to take your marriage from "good enough" to extraordinary? Visit https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
For decades, women have been told that masculinity is toxic. But is that really true? In this episode of The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast, Dr. Debi unpacks the cultural narrative about men, why so many women struggle to see masculinity in its healthy form, and how couples can rewrite the story together.
Visit https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Why does marriage counseling fail so often? After 25 years with couples, I’ve seen the surprising reasons—and the 3 essentials that actually make it work.
Ready to take your marriage from “good enough” to extraordinary? Visit https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Your marriage was never meant for “good enough.” In this 100th episode, Dr. Debi shares The Revolutionary Marriage Manifesto—a bold vision for couples to rise together in strength, beauty, synergy, and extraordinary love.
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Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Does she want him more than his money? Husbands often feel wanted at work but unseen at home, while wives long for presence over provision. Discover the simple shift that changes everything.
START HERE ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
What if men aren’t the problem—they’re the solution? Discover why a man’s role to protect, provide, and lead is essential for extraordinary love.
In this episode of The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast, Dr. Debi explores one of the most misunderstood truths about men, women, and marriage: the deep connection between provision, protection, and communication.
You’ll hear stories of couples like David and Sophia, and Mark and Elena that reveal how these dynamics play out in everyday life—from financial decisions to long conversations at the kitchen table. Most of all, you’ll learn practical ways to shift your relationship into a rhythm where both partners thrive—and create a marriage that feels safe, radiant, and deeply connected.
Learn more at RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
Becoming parents changes everything—but for many couples, it also creates an invisible wedge that slowly drives them apart.
In this episode of The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast, Dr. Debi shares the real-life story of Anthony and Chloe, whose marriage shifted dramatically after the birth of their first child. What started as small misunderstandings eventually led to deep disconnection, conflict, and even an affair.
But their story isn’t just about pain—it’s about the turning points every couple faces. Dr. Debi explains how disconnection takes root, the patterns couples fall into without realizing it, and how awareness and intentional choices can reverse the cycle before it destroys a marriage.
You’ll also hear a hopeful story of a young couple who, with the right guidance, turned their struggles into strength early on—and built a thriving marriage with three children.
👉 Whether your story includes big betrayals or just the slow erosion of closeness, this episode will help you recognize the crossroads in your own relationship—and choose connection over conflict. If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs encouragement today.
Learn more here ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.
What if you could transform your marriage in 90 days? In this episode of The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast, Dr. Debi introduces the Revolutionary Marriage — the rocket ship that takes couples far and fast. It’s the only path that leads to a lifelong honeymoon.
You’ll discover:
Why baggage can’t come with you on the rocket ship
How want and desire create faster transformation than need and fear
Real stories of couples who reignited passion in just 90 days
How you can board the rocket and build the marriage you’ve always wanted
🚀 Don’t settle for ordinary. Step into a Revolutionary Marriage today ► https://RevolutionaryMarriageCoaching.com
Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.























