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Healthy Love & Money: Financial Therapy, Intimacy, Conflict & Communication for Couples
Healthy Love & Money: Financial Therapy, Intimacy, Conflict & Communication for Couples
Author: Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™
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Why did you spend so much money on… Couples have fights, disagreements, and misunderstandings about money all the time. This is normal, but is it healthy for your relationship? The solutions to money differences are not always as apparent as smart couples would think.
Listen to incredible interviews with financial therapists, couples therapists, and financial planning experts to learn, heal, and grow your way through your most resentment-building financial differences. There is no need to experience financial misery with your happily ever after when you can foster financial intimacy.
If you are smart, ambitious, love your partner, and don’t want money to be a barrier to connection, meaning, and purpose in your life, then pop in your ear buds or crank up your speakers in your family mobile and let’s get you moving towards healthy love and money.
This podcast is for you if
If you are a female breadwinner or married to one
If you are a successful professional but still feel miserable about money
If you can’t stop thinking about money, and check your bank account three times a day
If you spend money and then worry what your partner will think
If you got a large sum of money and it has caused more problems than good
If you are planning to get married no matter which time it is
If one or both of your parents was a mess with money
If your siblings can’t stop asking for financial help
If you have adult children you want out of your wallet
If your a first generation professional and you feel out of place with your income
If you want your partner to participate in the finances with you
If you feel guilt, shame, anxiety, or fear about money
If you don’t see your money topic, let us know and we will be sure to cover it.
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Ed interviews Justin and Hailey Brown-Woods, the dynamic couple behind the 'Price of Avocado Toast' podcast and financial coaching business. The Brown-Woods share their personal journey from receiving a $600,000 wrongful death settlement to blowing through the money and accruing $220,000 in debt, and how they turned their financial hardships into a mission to help others. They discuss the origins of their podcast name, the impact of their similar humble upbringings, and their transformation through effective communication about money. They also delve into their unique approaches to financial counseling and education, emphasizing the importance of dreaming big, staying present, and de-stigmatizing money conversations. The episode provides valuable insights into how couples can navigate financial struggles, improve their financial health, and build a strong, supportive relationship.Key Timestamps:(00:00) - The Origin of 'Price of Avocado Toast'(04:17) - The Pumpkin Muffin Story(05:39) - Blowing Through $600,000(10:15) - Destigmatizing Money Conversations(14:38) - Healthy Communication Practices(19:55) - Managing Sensitivity in Relationships(24:16) - Redefining Masculinity and Vulnerability(29:07) - Supporting Each Other's Growth(34:28) - Evolving Financial Coaching Practices(37:03) - Balancing Dreams and RealityKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Website: https://www.priceofavocadotoast.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/priceofavocadotoastMentions: Happy Money Happy Life by Jason VitugMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed sits down with Blake Brewer, founder of Legacy Letter, to explore how one handwritten letter can change families for generations. Blake shares the heartbreaking story of losing his father at 19, and the unexpected gift his father left behind that transformed his grief into purpose. Together, they unpack why love, apology, belief, and identity are the true foundations of healthy relationships. This conversation is both a call to action and a reminder that the words we leave behind may matter more than anything we pass on financially.Key Takeaways:• How can intentional words and written legacy shape a child’s identity for life?• Why are apology, love, and belief essential foundations for healing and strengthening family relationships?• What responsibility do parents have to pass on emotional wisdom—not just financial or material inheritance?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - How Blake Lost His Father(09:00) - Letter That Healed(12:00) - Grief And Growth(15:00) - Why Words Matter(18:00) - Parenting With Intention(21:00) - Apology In Parenting(24:00) - Affirming Child Identity(27:00) - Love, Pride, Belief(30:00) - Sharing Meaningful Memories(33:00) - Advice That Shapes Life(36:00) - Writing From The Heart(39:00) - Legacy Beyond DeathKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Legacy Letter, Parent Child Relationships, Emotional Inheritance, Healing Family Relationships, Meaningful Parenting ConversationsMentions:Website: https://www.legacyletter.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blakecbrewer/More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed and researcher and financial planner Mikel Van Clelve, unpack the hidden emotional dynamics, common misconceptions, legal pitfalls, and the critical conversations couples need before making long-term decisions. Whether you’re part of a blended family or simply connected to one through parents, children, or extended relatives, this episode gives you the clarity, language, and confidence to handle even the most complex family-money situations. Mikel’s work is transforming how blended families navigate money, communication, and legacy-building, so you’ll walk away with practical steps, deeper understanding, and the tools to protect the people you love most.Key Takeaways:• What risks do couples face when they avoid discussing inheritance, assets, and fairness?• How can financial therapy and professional guidance help families create clearer, more equitable plans?• How can blended families better navigate the emotional and financial complexities of estate planning?Key Timestamps:(00:00) – Blended Family Landscape(03:00) – Estate Planning Foundations(06:00) – Unintentional Disinheritance Risks(09:00) – Blended Families Statistics(12:00) – What Are Emotional Barriers?(15:00) – Kinship Theory Insight(18:00) – Fairness Versus Equality(21:00) – Stepchild Support Dynamics(24:00) – Family Systems Complexity(27:00) – Emotional Avoidance Costs(30:00) – Negotiation Within MarriageKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Blended Family Estate Planning, Stepfamily Financial Challenges, Unintentional Disinheritance, Financial Therapy Support, Legacy And Inheritance PlanningMentions:Website: https://www.myweb.ttu.edu/mvanclev/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikel-van-cleve More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Dr. Daniel Crosby, psychologist, author, and Chief Behavioral Officer at Orion Financial joins Ed to explore the deeper meaning behind how we earn, spend, save, and relate to wealth. Drawing from his new book The Soul of Wealth, Daniel shares stories from his personal life, his faith background, and his years studying human behavior to reveal why our relationship with money is far more emotional than logical. Together, he and Ed unpack how childhood narratives shape our financial beliefs, why couples collide over money even when the numbers are fine, and how personal growth can dramatically increase both life satisfaction and earning potential. This episode goes beyond budgets and bank accounts to ask the profound questions of what wealth is for and how it can support a more meaningful life. Prepare for an honest, funny, and deeply human conversation about money, identity, and purpose.Key Takeaways:• How do childhood experiences and family beliefs shape the way we relate to money as adults?• Why do couples clash over financial decisions even when they share the same goals?• What role does personal growth and emotional awareness play in building true, sustainable wealth?Key Timestamps:(00:00) – Health Scare Perspective Shift(09:00) – Eating Disorders Background Connection(12:00) – Understanding Money Stories(15:00) – Budgets Reveal Priorities(18:00) – Couples’ Spending Conflicts(21:00) – Navigating Money Differences(24:00) – Anxiety’s Role In Finances(27:00) – Gender And Money Expectations(30:00) – Identity Beyond Net Worth(33:00) – Therapy Boosts Earnings(36:00) – Emotional Skills And WealthKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial Psychology, Money And Meaning, Behavioral Finance Insights, Wealth And Well-Being, Couples And Money DynamicsMentions:Website: https://orion.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielcrosby Mentions: The Soul of Wealth BookMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed chats with psychotherapist and author Tamala Floyd and financial wellness leader Saundra Davis for an eye-opening conversation at the intersection of healing, money, and identity. Together, they explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps people unlock deep emotional transformation, why legacy burdens shape our financial behaviors, and how ancestral wisdom can accelerate healing across generations. Through honest stories, vulnerable insights, and grounded guidance, this episode highlights the truth that money is never just about numbers, it’s about the parts of ourselves we’ve protected, the wounds we’ve carried, and the generations that came before us. Listeners will walk away with a new understanding of wholeness, the power of self-leadership, and the emotional roots underlying our financial lives. Key Takeaways:• How do internal parts and protectors shape the way we approach money and emotional healing?• In what ways do legacy burdens and ancestral patterns influence financial behavior across generations?• How can therapy, self-leadership, and mindful awareness create lasting change in both personal and financial well-being?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Childhood Creativity Foundations(06:00) - Therapy Journey Beginnings(09:00) - IFS Core Principles(12:00) - Legacy Burdens Explained(15:00) - Generational Money Patterns(18:00) - Emotional Money Conflicts(21:00) - Wealth Fear Insights(24:00) - Therapy and Money(27:00) - Protectors And Wounds(30:00) - Trauma Healing(39:00) - Rupture Repair ProcessKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Internal Family Systems, Financial Healing, Legacy Burdens, Ancestral Wisdom, Emotional Money PatternsMentions:Tamala’s Website: https://www.tamalafloyd.com/ Tamala’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamala-floyd-lcsw-2ba1a837 Saundra’s Website: https://www.sagefinancialsolutions.org/ Saundra’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saundradavis More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed sits down with financial therapist Haylie Castillo, whose powerful story bridges finance, trauma healing, and liberation work. Haylie opens up about her path from corporate finance to financial therapy, revealing how deconstructing her faith, motherhood, and her relationship with power shaped her approach to money and meaning. Together, Ed and Haylie unpack how systems, pleasure, and play influence our money stories, and how embracing joy can be a radical act of financial freedom.Key Takeaways:• What role does pleasure play in reshaping our relationship with money?• How can decolonizing and liberation-centered therapy transform financial healing?• Why is storytelling such a powerful tool for financial and emotional growth?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - MLM And Disempowerment(10:00) - Navigating Corporate Finance(12:00) - Motherhood And Awakening(17:00) - Discovering Financial Therapy(22:00) - Taking Up Space(25:00) - Storytelling And Self-Healing(28:00) - Pleasure And Play With Money(34:00) - Parallels With Sex And Food(39:00) - Healing Through Relationship(41:00) - Ritual And CommunityKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial Therapy, Money And Trauma, Liberation-Centered Healing, Pleasure And Money, Decolonizing WealthMentions:Website: https://www.castillofinancialtherapy.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/c_financial_therapy/ More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
What if the missing link in your healing journey was trauma, and no one ever told you? In this eye-opening episode, Ed Coambs sits down with renowned trauma therapist Lou Lebentz for a deeply moving and transformative conversation. Together, they uncover the hidden layers of trauma that shape our lives, from the subtle emotional imprints of childhood to intergenerational pain and societal systems of shame and scarcity. Lou shares her personal journey through breakdown, financial extremes, and profound healing, leading to the creation of her pioneering program, The Voyage. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand how unresolved trauma shows up in relationships, mental health, and even your financial behaviors and how true healing is not just possible, but your birthright. Key Takeaways:• How can healing through programs like The Voyage help individuals move from survival to thriving?• What role do our childhood experiences and inherited beliefs play in how we relate to money and self-worth?• How does trauma—beyond just major events—shape our emotional, relational, and financial lives? Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Discovering trauma in addiction therapy settings(05:00) - Four aspects of trauma explained(08:30) - How classism and societal systems create trauma(10:00) - Internalizing parental fears and money beliefs(13:00) - The importance of addressing past, present, and future in healing(16:00) - The role of therapy and coaching in trauma recovery(19:00) - Understanding parts work: adult, wounded, and adapted selves(23:00) - How childhood money experiences shape financial behaviors(37:00) - Integrating soul, vision, and purpose in healing(38:00) - Thriving after trauma as a birthright Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Trauma recovery program, Inner child healing, Financial trauma therapy, Parts work psychology, Emotional healing journey Mentions:Website: https://loulebentz.com/ LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/loulebentz Mentions: The VoyageMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed opens up about the deeply personal journey of buying a lake house with his wife, a dream years in the making that brought both joy and tension. Through raw reflection, Ed explores how financial decisions often uncover deeper emotional layers in relationships, revealing the power of vulnerability, trust, and emotional awareness. He shares how understanding attachment styles, embracing emotional honesty, and seeking guidance can transform financial conflict into deeper intimacy. This episode invites you to reflect on your own dreams, how you communicate them with your partners, and how shared meaning can strengthen love and money alike.Key Takeaways:• How can couples navigate emotional differences when pursuing shared financial dreams?• What role do attachment styles play in how partners communicate about money and security?• How can slowing down and seeking guidance turn financial conflict into deeper connection?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Dream Meets Resistance(05:00) - The Turning Point(07:00) - Attachment And Awareness(10:00) - Meaning Behind Dreams(12:00) - Guidance And Growth(14:00) - Lessons From The LakehouseKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
What happens when deep healing meets financial planning? Lindsay Troxell, business coach, certified life planner, and child-free entrepreneur, joins Ed to explore the profound intersections of money, identity, trauma, and relationships. Together, they unravel Lindsay’s personal journey through financial betrayal, her healing process, and the creation of a thriving life and business alongside her partner, Corey. From grounding practices to quarterly tax triggers, this episode is a masterclass in emotional resilience, authentic partnership, and what it means to truly thrive financially and emotionally. Key Takeaways:• How do our childhood experiences and past traumas shape our relationship with money and financial decision-making?• What does true financial intimacy look like in a romantic partnership, especially when personalities and money stories differ?• How can somatic practices and identity work support personal healing and professional growth for purpose-driven entrepreneurs?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Integrating wealth, health, and life planning(08:00) - From financial crisis to empowerment(12:00) - Launching a values-based RIA(14:00) - Navigating relationship dynamics with money(16:00) -Emotional safety and personal growth(20:00) - Childhood money stories and triggers(23:00) - Somatic tools for nervous system healing(26:00) - Communication and deep financial intimacy(29:00) - Trauma work and psychedelics in healing(32:00) - The human experience of worth and fearKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Website: https://www.discretionaryinc.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsaytroxell More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
What if the future of financial planning isn't in the numbers—but in the emotions behind them? In this episode, Ed sits down with Brendan Frazier—host of The Human Side of Money podcast and Chief Behavioral Officer at RFG Advisory—to explore why the most meaningful conversations about money aren’t about returns or budgets…they're about people. With deep insight into the psychology of money, Brendan shares why technology may soon outpace advisors on the technical front—and why human connection is the irreplaceable advantage. Whether you’re a couple trying to get on the same financial page, a planner aiming to deepen client relationships, or someone who just wants to feel seen in your money journey, this conversation is your invitation to shift from transactions to transformation. This is the episode you didn’t know you needed—but won’t stop thinking about. Key Takeaways:• How is the growing role of psychology reshaping the future of financial planning, especially in light of advancing technology and AI?• What challenges do financial advisors face when trying to help clients take meaningful action, and how can understanding human behavior improve outcomes?• Why are empathy and mutual understanding between partners crucial for navigating money conversations in relationships?Key Timestamps: (00:00) – The Emergence of Psychology in Financial Planning (03:00) – Technology's Role in Financial Advising (06:00) – The Human Side of Financial Planning (08:00) – Trust and Vulnerability in Client Relationships (10:00) – The Psychology of Spending and Understanding Behavior (17:00) – Financial Trade-Offs and Shared Decision-Making (19:00) – Automation and Willpower in Money Management (22:00) – When Knowing What to Do Isn't Enough (27:00) – Bridging the Financial Knowledge Gap Between Partners (35:00) – Taking Responsibility in RelationshipsKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Human side of money, Psychology and financial planning, Behavioral finance, Technology and financial advising, Financial advisor client relationships, Brendan FrazierMentions:Website: https://rfgadvisory.com/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendanfrazier?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F Mentions: Human Side of Money PodcastMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
In this solo episode, Ed unpacks the Five W’s—Who, What, Why, Where, and When—as a framework for building deeper financial intimacy. Money isn’t just about numbers; it’s about the stories, fears, hopes, and histories that shape how couples connect. From uncovering the “who” that shows up at the table, to redefining the “what” of financial intimacy, and exploring the “why” behind money conflicts, this conversation helps you turn financial stress into a pathway for trust and closeness. Whether you’re navigating careers, kids, or retirement planning, Ed offers practical reflections and heartfelt insights to bring more honesty, compassion, and teamwork into your financial life together.Key Takeaways:• What does financial intimacy mean beyond budgets and numbers, and how can couples practice it with honesty and vulnerability?• Who shows up in your financial conversations—the present you, or the past experiences that still shape your money story?• Why does exploring the deeper meaning behind money conflicts transform financial stress into trust, compassion, and connection?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Understanding financial intimacy(03:00) - Why money conflicts run deeper(04:00) - A story about mortgage vs. investing(05:00) - Where financial intimacy happens(06:00) - Couples and financial intimacy(07:00) - Pulling the Five W’s togetherKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial Intimacy, Healthy Money Conversations, Couples And Money, Building Trust With Finances, Relationship And Financial WellnessMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed is joined by the deeply insightful Diana Gisel Yañez—money coach, investment manager, and advocate for financial healing through a lens of social justice and sensitivity. Diana shares her unique journey from Wall Street disillusionment to empowering highly sensitive people (HSPs) to reclaim their financial narratives. Together, Ed and Diana explore the intersection of money, emotion, and meaning—unpacking how cultural background, nervous system regulation, and deep values shape our relationship with wealth. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by finances or questioned your place in traditional financial spaces, this episode will help you feel seen, soothed, and inspired to rethink your financial path with greater compassion and clarity. From navigating cash flow with intention to investing with purpose, Diana reminds us that money is more than math—it’s a mirror of our inner and communal lives.Key Takeaways:• What does it mean to be a highly sensitive person, and how does that shape one's relationship with money?• How can individuals align their financial decisions—like budgeting and investing—with their values and social justice commitments?• Why is understanding personal and cultural money stories essential for meaningful financial growth and healing?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Cultural diversity, social justice, and money(06:00) - Where highly sensitive people feel most at home(10:00) - Class, status, and emotional dissonance in money(13:00) - Giving back, family dynamics, and survivor’s guilt(17:00) - Discovering and defining highly sensitive people (HSP)(21:00) - Personal reflections on sensitivity and identity(28:00) - Healing through regulation & body awareness(31:00) - Investment management with a regenerative, justice-aligned lens(36:00) - The broader money picture: cash flow and lifestyle alignment(40:00) - Emotional and psychological components of moneyKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Highly Sensitive Person and Money, Socially Responsible Investing, Financial Coaching for Empaths, Money Mindset and Emotional Wellness, Values-Based Financial PlanningMentions:Website: https://highlysensitivemoney.podbean.com/ LinkedIn: https://mx.linkedin.com/in/dianagyanez More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed welcomes author, coach, and financial thought leader Leisa Peterson for a powerful conversation on money, relationships, and abundance. Leisa shares the journey behind her new book The Money Catalyst, a parable that blends storytelling with timeless lessons about love, wealth, and self-discovery. Together, they explore how our upbringing shapes money beliefs, the tensions couples face around finances, and the transformative power of shifting from scarcity to abundance. Whether you’re navigating money with a partner or seeking a deeper relationship with wealth, this episode will challenge old narratives and inspire new possibilities.Key Takeaways:• How do our childhood experiences shape the way we approach money in relationships?• What does it take to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance?• How can storytelling and reflection help heal financial wounds and create deeper connections with our partners?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Money beliefs and tension(09:00) - Childhood money stories(18:00) - Using books as resources(21:00) - Practical money strategies(23:00) - Early money books(26:00) - Detaching self-worth from net worth(30:00) - Navigating daily financial choices(34:00) - Healing family money woundsKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Money Mindset, Financial Intimacy, Scarcity vs Abundance, Leisa Peterson Interview, Healthy Relationship with MoneyMentions:Website: https://www.wealthclinic.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leisapeterson1 Mentions: The Mindful Millionaire More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed is joined by renowned financial psychotherapist Vicky Reynal, author of Money On Your Mind: The Psychology Behind Your Financial Habits. Broadcasting across continents—from London to North Carolina—Ed and Vicky explore the profound emotional undercurrents that shape our financial behaviors. Together, they unpack how money often acts as a stand-in for love, power, control, and self-worth in our relationships. Vicky shares moving insights on the emotional imprints from childhood that quietly dictate how we spend, save, avoid, or argue about money. From personal stories to real client breakthroughs, this episode goes beyond budgeting and investing—it’s about healing our relationship with money from the inside out. If you've ever wondered why you freeze during financial conversations, struggle with self-worth around money, or feel disconnected from your partner over spending decisions—this conversation is for you.Key Takeaways:• How do our early emotional experiences shape the way we use, avoid, or relate to money in adulthood?• In what ways can money serve as a silent language for expressing unmet emotional needs in relationships?• Why is curiosity—rather than shame or judgment—key to transforming our financial behaviors and beliefs?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - The emotional meaning of money: power, control, love(09:00) - Emotional imprints and their impact on financial decision-making(10:00) - The role of deservedness and agency in money habits(17:00) - Money issues in relationships(20:00) - The value of asking reflective questions around money(22:00) - Shame, avoidance, and freezing responses to financial matters(30:00) - The psychological role of financial professionals(33:00) - Language, empathy, and cooperation in financial systems(38:00) - The emotional complexity of receiving sudden wealth(40:00) - Redefining gratitude and expectations around money(41:00) - Finding healing, curiosity, and meaning through moneyKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy, Money and relationships, Emotional money habits, Psychology of money, Money mindset transformation.Mentions:Website: https://www.reynal-psychotherapist.co.uk/ LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/vicky-reynal-4070ba133 Mentions: Money On Your MindMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous RelationshipsBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.























