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Author: Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™

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Why did you spend so much money on… Couples have fights, disagreements, and misunderstandings about money all the time. This is normal, but is it healthy for your relationship? The solutions to money differences are not always as apparent as smart couples would think.

Listen to incredible interviews with financial therapists, couples therapists, and financial planning experts to learn, heal, and grow your way through your most resentment-building financial differences. There is no need to experience financial misery with your happily ever after when you can foster financial intimacy.

If you are smart, ambitious, love your partner, and don’t want money to be a barrier to connection, meaning, and purpose in your life, then pop in your ear buds or crank up your speakers in your family mobile and let’s get you moving towards healthy love and money.

This podcast is for you if
If you are a female breadwinner or married to one
If you are a successful professional but still feel miserable about money
If you can’t stop thinking about money, and check your bank account three times a day
If you spend money and then worry what your partner will think
If you got a large sum of money and it has caused more problems than good
If you are planning to get married no matter which time it is
If one or both of your parents was a mess with money
If your siblings can’t stop asking for financial help
If you have adult children you want out of your wallet
If your a first generation professional and you feel out of place with your income
If you want your partner to participate in the finances with you
If you feel guilt, shame, anxiety, or fear about money

If you don’t see your money topic, let us know and we will be sure to cover it.

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Ed is joined by the deeply insightful Diana Gisel Yañez—money coach, investment manager, and advocate for financial healing through a lens of social justice and sensitivity. Diana shares her unique journey from Wall Street disillusionment to empowering highly sensitive people (HSPs) to reclaim their financial narratives. Together, Ed and Diana explore the intersection of money, emotion, and meaning—unpacking how cultural background, nervous system regulation, and deep values shape our relationship with wealth. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by finances or questioned your place in traditional financial spaces, this episode will help you feel seen, soothed, and inspired to rethink your financial path with greater compassion and clarity. From navigating cash flow with intention to investing with purpose, Diana reminds us that money is more than math—it’s a mirror of our inner and communal lives.Key Takeaways:• What does it mean to be a highly sensitive person, and how does that shape one's relationship with money?• How can individuals align their financial decisions—like budgeting and investing—with their values and social justice commitments?• Why is understanding personal and cultural money stories essential for meaningful financial growth and healing?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Cultural diversity, social justice, and money(06:00) - Where highly sensitive people feel most at home(10:00) - Class, status, and emotional dissonance in money(13:00) - Giving back, family dynamics, and survivor’s guilt(17:00) - Discovering and defining highly sensitive people (HSP)(21:00) - Personal reflections on sensitivity and identity(28:00) - Healing through regulation & body awareness(31:00) - Investment management with a regenerative, justice-aligned lens(36:00) - The broader money picture: cash flow and lifestyle alignment(40:00) - Emotional and psychological components of moneyKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Highly Sensitive Person and Money, Socially Responsible Investing, Financial Coaching for Empaths, Money Mindset and Emotional Wellness, Values-Based Financial PlanningMentions:Website: https://highlysensitivemoney.podbean.com/ LinkedIn: https://mx.linkedin.com/in/dianagyanez More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed welcomes author, coach, and financial thought leader Leisa Peterson for a powerful conversation on money, relationships, and abundance. Leisa shares the journey behind her new book The Money Catalyst, a parable that blends storytelling with timeless lessons about love, wealth, and self-discovery. Together, they explore how our upbringing shapes money beliefs, the tensions couples face around finances, and the transformative power of shifting from scarcity to abundance. Whether you’re navigating money with a partner or seeking a deeper relationship with wealth, this episode will challenge old narratives and inspire new possibilities.Key Takeaways:• How do our childhood experiences shape the way we approach money in relationships?• What does it take to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance?• How can storytelling and reflection help heal financial wounds and create deeper connections with our partners?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Money beliefs and tension(09:00) - Childhood money stories(18:00) - Using books as resources(21:00) - Practical money strategies(23:00) - Early money books(26:00) - Detaching self-worth from net worth(30:00) - Navigating daily financial choices(34:00) - Healing family money woundsKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Money Mindset, Financial Intimacy, Scarcity vs Abundance, Leisa Peterson Interview, Healthy Relationship with MoneyMentions:Website: https://www.wealthclinic.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leisapeterson1 Mentions: The Mindful Millionaire More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed is joined by renowned financial psychotherapist Vicky Reynal, author of Money On Your Mind: The Psychology Behind Your Financial Habits. Broadcasting across continents—from London to North Carolina—Ed and Vicky explore the profound emotional undercurrents that shape our financial behaviors. Together, they unpack how money often acts as a stand-in for love, power, control, and self-worth in our relationships. Vicky shares moving insights on the emotional imprints from childhood that quietly dictate how we spend, save, avoid, or argue about money. From personal stories to real client breakthroughs, this episode goes beyond budgeting and investing—it’s about healing our relationship with money from the inside out. If you've ever wondered why you freeze during financial conversations, struggle with self-worth around money, or feel disconnected from your partner over spending decisions—this conversation is for you.Key Takeaways:• How do our early emotional experiences shape the way we use, avoid, or relate to money in adulthood?• In what ways can money serve as a silent language for expressing unmet emotional needs in relationships?• Why is curiosity—rather than shame or judgment—key to transforming our financial behaviors and beliefs?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - The emotional meaning of money: power, control, love(09:00) - Emotional imprints and their impact on financial decision-making(10:00) - The role of deservedness and agency in money habits(17:00) - Money issues in relationships(20:00) - The value of asking reflective questions around money(22:00) - Shame, avoidance, and freezing responses to financial matters(30:00) - The psychological role of financial professionals(33:00) - Language, empathy, and cooperation in financial systems(38:00) - The emotional complexity of receiving sudden wealth(40:00) - Redefining gratitude and expectations around money(41:00) - Finding healing, curiosity, and meaning through moneyKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy, Money and relationships, Emotional money habits, Psychology of money, Money mindset transformation.Mentions:Website: https://www.reynal-psychotherapist.co.uk/ LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/vicky-reynal-4070ba133 Mentions: Money On Your MindMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous RelationshipsBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
This special series dives deep into the heart of financial therapy through nine powerful, 10-minute interviews with professionals at the intersection of money and mental health. Recorded live at the 2025 Financial Therapy Association Conference, each episode explores a single, compelling question: Why financial therapy?What emerges is more than just conversation—it's a living, breathing archive of a growing movement. From financial planners turned therapists to those shaped by personal financial pain, every guest brings unique insight into how empathy, vulnerability, and self-awareness are transforming the way we relate to money.You’ll hear about the unspoken burdens people carry—shame, fear, identity, power struggles—and how financial therapy creates space for healing. You’ll also see how these practitioners are not just helping others, but growing through the work themselves.Whether you're a therapist, financial advisor, coach, or someone seeking a healthier relationship with money, this series invites you to slow down, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible when we bring humanity back into our financial lives.Key Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for CouplesMentions:Contact Ed at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com to get in touch with:Oliver Schnusenberg - Financial Therapy: Neuroscience Meets Money ShameSusan Fee - Financial Therapy: Self-Worth vs Net WorthJaelyn Vickery - Financial Therapy: Compulsion, Consumption & ControlDr. John Lee & Emilia Kasprzak - Financial Therapy: How Self-Esteem Affects SpendingTairsa Mathews - Financial Therapy: What Feels Good Today Might Cost You TomorrowHeidi Clemons - Financial Therapy: The One Log MethodHaylie Castillo - Financial Therapy: Money Is a Relationship, Not a ChecklistBarb Fallon - Financial Therapy: Bridging Identity & Money for Polyamorous CouplesBen Hampton - Financial Therapy: Reframing Fear Around Running Out of MoneyMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
What happens when financial tension meets emotional depth in a relationship? In this unforgettable episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed sits down with Dr. Stephanie Zepeda, a licensed marriage and family therapist and director of Financial Therapy Texas, for a transformative conversation on money, identity, and the emotional roots of our financial behaviors. From navigating income insecurities to the liberating power of second-order change, Stephanie brings her deep expertise and compassionate lens to the heart of what couples truly struggle with—and how they can heal. Whether you're a therapist, financial planner, or someone trying to make sense of your own money story, this episode offers insight, relatability, and hope. Don’t miss this journey into the psychology of money, the mysticism of mismatched couples, and the radical act of dreaming together.Key Takeaways:• How do our childhood experiences and cultural backgrounds shape our beliefs and behaviors around money in relationships?• Why is it essential for couples to move beyond budgets and into deeper conversations about values, hopes, and dreams?• What role does emotional safety play in helping partners address financial conflict and build mutual confidence?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Why talking about money is so “edgy” for couples(05:00) - Frugal vs. YOLO(13:00) - Exploring confidence, self-worth, and income insecurity(17:00) - Gender roles, income dynamics, and financial responsibility(20:00) - The power of psychological merging of finances(24:00) - Deconstructing inherited financial values and narratives(28:00) - Finding virtue in financial “obsessions”(33:00) - When and how to seek professional supportKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy for couples, Money and relationships, Marriage and money counseling, Emotional triggers around finances, Income inequality in relationshipsMentions:Website: https://www.financialtherapytexas.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-zepeda-phd-lmft-633a3525 More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed and the brilliant Dr. Shay Harris-Pierre dive deep into the emotional and relational dynamics of family, business, and money. As a licensed therapist, financial therapist, and expert in family business governance, Dr. Shay brings a rare blend of clinical insight, lived experience, and academic expertise. From childhood lessons of delayed gratification to guiding high-achieving women of color through the emotional complexities of wealth, Dr. Shay shares how our earliest money memories shape adult financial behavior—and how we can rewrite the story. Whether you’re navigating family business dynamics, wrestling with your financial identity, or just seeking a deeper connection with your partner and your money, this episode is a must-listen.Key Takeaways:• How does early financial socialization shape our adult relationship with money and identity?• What role does self-awareness play in improving financial behavior and relational dynamics?• How can families in business navigate overlapping personal and professional roles to maintain both healthy relationships and business success?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Financial socialization(08:30) - Financial therapy during the pandemic(10:00) - The impact of early life experiences on money beliefs(14:00) - Understanding the client’s financial narrative and identity(20:00) - Addressing core identity issues through financial therapy(22:00) - The metaphor of the inner well and emotional roots of behavior(25:00) - The role of prenatal and early developmental influences(27:00) - Importance of self-awareness in relationships and money(30:00) - Family governance and its impact on business(32:00) - Navigating multiple roles in family-owned businessesKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy for Families, Money and mental health, Family business dynamics, Financial socialization, Self-awareness and money behaviorMentions:Website: https://www.harrispierreconsulting.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharris-pierre Mentions: Shades of Wealth PodcastMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Ed sits down with Myra Salzer, founder of The Wealth Conservancy and a pioneering advocate for inheritors. Together, they pull back the curtain on the often-misunderstood world of inherited wealth. With warmth and wisdom, Myra shares how inheriting money can be as disorienting and isolating as it is liberating and why traditional financial planning often fails those who never earned their wealth but must still learn to manage it wisely. From emotional identity struggles to relationship challenges, gender expectations, and the psychological impact of sudden wealth, Myra offers a roadmap through the unspoken realities of inheritance. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating or supporting someone on the complex journey of inherited wealth.Key Takeaways:• What are the hidden psychological and social challenges that inheritors face when managing significant wealth?• How can inheritors develop self-worth and confidence when their financial independence wasn’t earned through traditional means?• How can inheritors develop self-worth and confidence when their financial independence wasn’t earned through traditional means?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - The fantasy vs. reality of inheriting wealth(03:00) - Life expectations and responsibilities of inheritors(05:00) - Gender differences in wealth support systems(07:00) - Emotional challenges and self-esteem in wealthy heirs(10:00) - Aligning net worth with self-worth(13:00) - Navigating financial partnerships with fiscal unequals(25:00) - Why inheritors need social and emotional support(27:00) - Stages of inherited wealth developmentKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Inherited Wealth Challenges, Inheritor Financial Planning, Psychology of Money, Building Self-Worth With Wealth, Family Wealth DynamicsMentions:Website: https://www.thewealthconservancy.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/myra-salzer Mentions: https://www.wayintowealth.com/ More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
Welcome to a bold conversation you didn’t know you needed. In this groundbreaking episode, host Ed Coambs sits down with Angela Skurtu—licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and all-around force of nature—for a candid, hilarious, and deeply insightful conversation about the unexpected but undeniable connection between sex and money. If you've ever felt anxiety talking about either topic, this episode is your permission slip to get curious and playfully explore the intimacy and financial patterns in your relationship. From breaking taboos to redefining orgasms (yes, financial ones too), Angela shares practical wisdom, contagious energy, and a refreshing take on how couples can stop friend-zoning each other and start building passionate, connected, and abundant lives—both in bed and at the bank. Let’s get it on!Key Takeaways:• How does our relationship with sex mirror our relationship with money—and why do both often feel like ticking emotional bombs?• What role does communication and shared responsibility play in reviving intimacy and financial connection in long-term relationships?• How can couples move beyond performance goals (like orgasm or saving) to enjoy the full journey of sexual and financial intimacy?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Sex, money, and emotional taboos(03:45) - Best friends who stop having sex(05:30) - Why sex feels like a “bomb” in the room(08:00) - Why money and sex both trigger fight-or-flight(10:30) - Casual conversations about sex(13:00) - Sexual play, orgasms, and how goals get in the way(16:00) - Religion, shame, and how belief systems shape our sexual identities(19:00) - Redefining sex as exploration, not performance(25:00) - Money as playful math(27:00) - Emotional and physical intimacy(29:00) - The real skill behind great sex and strong financesKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Sex and money in relationships, Couples therapy for intimacy, Financial and sexual wellness, Overcoming shame around sex, Marriage and money communication tipsMentions:Website: https://openbedroomdoors.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822 More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
In today’s episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed is joined by the incredible Brooklyn Brock — a trailblazing financial planner who specializes in helping dual-career couples navigate the complex intersection of love, work, and money. Brooklyn opens up about her own journey as part of a dual-career couple and shares deeply personal insights into the challenges and breakthroughs that come with balancing two ambitious careers under one roof. Together, Ed and Brooklyn dive into the emotional realities behind financial planning, the art of crafting a "couple's contract," and how self-discovery is a hidden — but critical — ingredient in building thriving relationships and financial futures. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a working professional, or simply striving for a healthier relationship with your partner and money, this episode will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and inspired.Key Takeaways:• How can dual-career couples create a "couple’s contract" to align their values, boundaries, and fears in both life and career decisions?• Why is self-discovery essential for individuals and couples when navigating major career and financial transitions?• How do entrepreneurs balance the emotional realities of business ownership with maintaining a healthy relationship and financial plan?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Statistics on dual-career couples and early career challenges(05:00) - Creating a “couple’s contract” for career and life decisions(08:00) - The role of self-discovery in financial and relationship planning(10:00) - Balancing entrepreneurship and personal life as a couple(14:00) - Navigating individuation and renegotiating relationship roles(17:00) - Double primary vs. double secondary career models(20:00) - Importance of revisiting career and life expectations(24:00) - Emotional impact of entrepreneurship on relationshipsKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Dual-career couples, Financial planning for entrepreneurs, Couples career balance, Self-discovery in relationships, Navigating career transitions togetherMentions:Website: https://www.ellevateadvisors.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brooklynbrock Mentions:  ”Couples That Work" by Jennifer  PetriglieriMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
In today’s powerful conversation, Ed welcomes back the insightful and trailblazing Lindsay Bryan-Podvin, financial therapist, author, and educator, to explore the emotional undercurrents of our financial lives. From her innovative work at the University of Michigan to her unique blend of social work and financial literacy, Lindsay shares how she’s creating safe, inclusive spaces for real financial healing. Together, Ed and Lindsay unpack the emotional weight of money, how to know if financial therapy is right for you, and why understanding your money story is essential no matter your background or bank account balance. Whether you're a professional in the financial or mental health field or someone trying to make peace with your money, this episode is full of powerful truths, personal reflections, and practical guidance. Tune in for a deeply affirming and thought-provoking journey into the heart of money, emotion, and healing.Key Takeaways:• How can financial therapy help people address the emotional side of money beyond traditional financial literacy?• What makes group-based financial empowerment programs effective across diverse backgrounds and experiences?• What should you consider when choosing a financial therapist, and how do you know if it's the right fit for your needs?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - The emotional weight of money conversations(02:30) - Financial empowerment program(09:00) - Program structure and future plans at CEW+(16:00) - Transitioning from one-on-one work to group education(22:00) - When financial therapy is the missing piece(28:00) - The boundaries of financial vs. mental health support(32:00) - The importance of cross-trained professionals(34:00) - Encouragement for listeners to find support(35:00) - How to bring up financial therapy with a partnerKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Money and mental health, Financial empowerment workshops, How to find a financial therapist, Emotional side of money, University of MichiganMentions:Website: https://www.mindmoneybalance.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsaybryanpodvinMore of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
In this deeply insightful episode, Ed welcomes the brilliant Dr. Megan McCoy—professor at Kansas State University and a pioneering voice in the field of financial therapy. With warmth, humility, and her signature sense of humor, Megan opens up about the complexities of receiving praise, navigating imposter syndrome, and how shifting socioeconomic status shapes our relationship with money. Together, Ed and Megan explore the nuanced intersections of gender, money, and identity—unpacking why so many of us feel conflicted about success, wealth, and our roles in relationships. From the emotional weight of accolades to the hidden double binds in household income dynamics, this conversation offers profound takeaways for anyone working to align their financial life with their values and relationships. Whether you're a therapist, financial planner, or someone seeking deeper harmony between love and money, this episode is packed with heartfelt moments, fresh perspectives, and the kind of authenticity that stays with you long after the final word.Key Takeaways:• How do imposter syndrome and gender roles shape our ability to accept success and manage money?• What hidden dynamics impact couples when income, power, and emotional labor are unevenly distributed?• How can financial professionals and therapists work together to help clients build healthier relationships with money and each other?Key Timestamps:(00:00) - Compliments vs. Accolades(07:00) - The Psychology Behind Spending on Yourself vs. Others(10:45) - Gender, Income, and the “Too Much Money” Problem(17:20) - Reframing Couple Conflicts About Money(21:45) - Rethinking Financial Self-Control(25:30) - Hiding Wealth(28:40) - Money Dysmorphia and the Million-Dollar Disconnect(33:15) - Therapy Meets Financial Planning(37:00) - You’re Not Broken—You’re UnpackingKey Topics Discussed:Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy for couples, Megan McCoy, Gender and financial dynamics, Imposter syndrome and success, Navigating wealth and identity.Mentions:Website: https://www.hhs.k-state.edu/pfp/about/people/meganmccoy/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-mccoy-phd?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F More of Healthy Love & Money:Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.comHealthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.
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