The New Age Sage Podcast

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I confront one of the most anxiety-charged struggles women face in their 30s: the fear that time is running out for love.We’ll break down why age pressure creates desperation, why so many women over 30 settle for partners who can’t meet their needs, and the harsh truth about what it really takes to build a stable relationship after years of chaos.I reveal how chasing chemistry, ignoring compatibility, and waiting for someone to “save you” are the very patterns that keep love out of reach. And I’ll show you why your 30s are not a death sentence for romance. but the perfect mirror forcing you to face the deeper wounds, beliefs, and habits that block lasting love.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I expose the hidden pattern that keeps the kindest, sweetest people trapped in cycles of heartbreak.We’ll dive into why “being nice” so often backfires in dating — why the very instinct to please, adapt, and win approval leads to giving away your power, abandoning your true self, and attracting partners who never really value you.I’ll reveal how people-pleasing isn’t a sign of kindness at all, but of a deeper wound: the childhood imprint of believing you had to become someone else to deserve love. And I’ll show you how this single belief silently shapes every date, every text, every relationship.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I reveal the hidden wound that keeps even the most radiant, successful women stuck in relationships with men who never fully choose them.We’ll uncover why women fall for the player they hope to change, stay with the man who won’t commit, or settle for breadcrumbs from someone emotionally unavailable. I’ll show you how these patterns all trace back to one core childhood imprint: not feeling fully chosen for who you truly were.By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why you’ve been drawn to men who withhold love, how to stop mistaking breadcrumbs for devotion, and what it really means to choose yourself so you can finally attract a man who chooses all of you.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I expose one of the biggest sources of confusion in love: the difference between what women think they want in a man and what they actually desire.We’ll break down why women lose attraction to the “safe nice guy,” why they keep running back to the “a$$h*le" and why both leave them unfulfilled. More importantly, I’ll reveal what women truly crave: a man rooted in truth, strength, and heart, and why this kind of man terrifies them as much as he excites them.By the end of this episode, you’ll have clarity in your body about what you really want in a partner, why you’ve been sabotaging yourself, and how to finally experience both safety and desire in the same relationship.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I sit down with Ryan Moresby-White to explore the painful truth most men avoid: how unhealed boys show up in adult relationships and sabotage the very love they crave. Ryan shares his journey of growing up emotionally disconnected, carrying the grief of his family system, and realizing that beneath his achievements was still a scared little boy running the show.We dive into why women pull away when they feel a man’s wounded boy, how unprocessed grief keeps men stuck in cycles of abandonment, and why “being a safe man” has nothing to do with perfection and everything to do with owning your nervous system. This isn’t theory... it’s the lived initiation of heartbreak, shame, and deep inner work that transforms a boy into a man.Ryan's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmoresbywhite/———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode I share the biggest realization I have had about sacred union, one that completely changed my marriage and how I see relationships. I discovered that when I brought fear to my wife, she instantly went into survival mode, no matter how carefully I chose my words. When I learned to regulate that fear and come to her with love, ownership, and presence, everything shifted.I also explore why women are unconsciously allergic to male fear, how the feminine expands whatever energy she receives tenfold, and why the greatest gift a man can offer is safety. These lessons did not come from books. They came from my own initiations, mistakes, and hard-won growth.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

If you’re still waiting to be chosen, this one’s for you.Waiting for the text.Waiting for the guy.Waiting for the moment it finally feels like you’re enough.But what if you’ve been waiting for something that was never coming?In this episode, I break down one of the most important archetypes I’ve ever studied on the feminine path: The Wounded Maiden.She’s the version of you that still believes being loved means being saved.That power comes from being desired.That worth is proven by who stays.Using the myth of Persephone, I explore what it actually takes to move from unconscious innocence into sacred womanhood, and why most women never make the leap.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

They told you she was empowered.Independent. Sexy. Untouchable.They sold you the "strong female lead" but forgot to mention she was written to keep you small.What if the women you admired weren’t role models… but weapons?In this episode, we expose how Hollywood and the Matrix hijacked the feminine through subtle programming. From Blair Waldorf to Bella Swan, Carrie Bradshaw to Meredith Grey, we unravel how glamorized archetypes have shaped the way you see love, power, and yourself.This isn’t just about TV characters.It’s about the blueprint you’ve been following without even knowing.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

They taught you love was a chase.A performance. A transaction.Give enough. Look good enough. Stay quiet enough.And maybe, just maybe, you’ll be worthy of staying.But what if everything you learned about love was designed to keep you disconnected from it?This isn’t a relationship advice episode.It’s a full-blown unraveling of the illusion.In this transmission, I reveal how the matrix rewires love into ego, how both men and women are conditioned to use each other in the name of intimacy, and why porn, power, and performance are all just the ego’s tools to keep you afraid of real connection.If you've ever felt like love is confusing, unsafe, or out of reach, this is for you.Not to fix you.But to wake you up.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com#

They say they’re healed. But if you look closely, you’ll see it — the mask.In this episode, I dismantle the illusion of “being healed” and explore the subtle ways spiritual performance hides unprocessed pain. From personal missteps to relationship blind spots, I share the difference between real inner work and the ego’s favorite costume: enlightenment.You’ll learn how to spot false healing, how to hold yourself and others through shadow work, and why true healing has less to do with being perfect — and everything to do with how you show up after the fall.This is not about being fixed.It’s about being honest.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

So many of us confuse love with proving. We fall into the trap of making the person we love jump through hoops to earn what should be freely given. Why? Because a part of us doesn’t feel safe. A part of us still believes love will disappear, and we’d rather control it than risk losing it.In this episode, I expose how “testing love” is often a trauma response in disguise. I walk you through the psychology of abandonment wounds, the shadow that fuels mistrust, and why your nervous system might be sabotaging the very thing your soul is craving.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

This episode is for anyone who has ever asked themselves, am I being loved for who I am or for what I do?In this episode, I sit down with Sacred Thomas to explore the invisible weight we carry when we tie our worth to performance. We talk about growing up in survival mode, the pressure to succeed, and the fear of being a burden. We unpack avoidant and anxious attachment, the wounds we bring into love, and the path to feeling safe enough to stay open.If you are building something that matters, in your work or your relationships, this episode will meet you where you are. It is a conversation about healing, creating, and becoming the kind of person who can hold what you are asking for.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

This episode is for anyone who’s ever found themselves in a fight with the person they love most — and walked away wondering, why did we just do that?You’re not trying to hurt them. You’re trying to protect yourself. But in that moment, something deeper takes over — a wounded part of you that turns love into a battlefield. And suddenly, it’s not about connection anymore. It’s about being right. About not losing.In this episode, I break down the Warrior Lover — an archetype that lives in all of us. The part that’s willing to fight for the relationship, not against it. I share the painful moment that led me to this realization, what it taught me about masculine presence, and how the ego quietly hijacks even our most sacred connections.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt the weight of love start to slip through their fingers, even when everything should be working.You’re in love. You’ve chosen each other. But something keeps pulling you apart. The arguments feel meaningless. The distance feels unexplainable. And no matter how much you talk about it, the same patterns keep showing up.In this episode, I explore the deeper spiritual mechanics behind relationship disconnection. From karmic loops and family trauma to anxious and avoidant patterns, we dive into why so many sacred unions are tested just before they expand. I also share my own story, and how I had to face the hidden wounds that kept recreating the pain I swore I’d never repeat.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I’m pulling back the veil on one of the most painful — and illuminating — experiences we can have in love: being entangled with a narcissist.We’re taught narcissists are just selfish and manipulative, but that’s only the surface. The truth? A narcissist is a wounded child hiding behind a mask of power — and empaths, in their deep sensitivity, often mistake that mask for strength.This episode is a raw, unfiltered exploration of the empath–narcissist dynamic: why we attract it, how we mistake charm for love, and what it really takes to break free.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most misunderstood truths about love: neediness isn’t weakness — it’s misdirected truth.For most of my life, I thought having needs made me unlovable. So I hid them, twisted them, performed around them. But every time I chased validation, pulled away to get closer, or fished for love in subtle ways... I wasn’t being needy. I was being unseen — mostly by myself.This episode is a raw exploration of what happens when we stop apologizing for our emotional needs and start owning them without shame. I unpack how unspoken needs become manipulation, how childhood wounds shape adult relationships, and why expressing what you really want is the most courageous thing you can do in love.If you’ve ever felt too much for wanting closeness — or not enough when you need space — this conversation will show you the path to intimacy that actually heals.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most seductive lies in the spiritual and dating space: the idea that you need to “be more feminine” or “more masculine” to attract real love.I used to believe it too. I studied the books, practiced the polarity scripts, tried to become the perfect masculine man. But the more I performed, the emptier I felt. Until I realized: the real reason it wasn’t working wasn’t because I wasn’t doing it right. It’s because I wasn’t being me.This episode is a raw, unfiltered reflection on how sexual polarity has become another spiritual costume. I share the truth I’ve lived into: that love doesn’t come when we master roles — it comes when we drop them.If you’ve ever felt like you had to become someone else to be loved... this episode will bring you home to yourself.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

In this episode, I go deeper than I ever have. I finally uncovered the root cause behind why we keep attracting the same partners and repeating the same pain, no matter how much trauma work or therapy we do. It's not just about childhood wounds or inner child stories.It's about the illusion of identity itself. I share how I broke free from the ego, what it means to become pure awareness, and how realizing "I am nobody" changed everything in love, in life, and in how I see the world.If you’re tired of chasing healing but still attracting chaos, this is the truth you’ve been waiting for.———————00:00 - Intro01:01 - Why therapy awareness alone doesn’t heal you03:34 - The energetic pattern behind failed relationships06:49 - The ego is the character you believe is real09:32 - Consciousness is the blank screen behind the story12:19 - You are not real, only awareness is13:52 - The ego creates your karma16:00 - Escaping the matrix means realizing you don’t exist18:37 - Karma dies when you realize there’s no you21:04 - What it means to become God22:20 - Silence is louder than thoughts23:38 - Becoming divine changes how you treat others25:14 - Psychedelics show the ego is not real26:56 - Why depression is just a story28:25 - The ego can’t survive in the present moment30:02 - Burn karma by staying in the now33:07 - Even sparring is a mirror of unity35:34 - Why empathy is telepathy36:43 - Give grace a chance38:35 - The ego is the devil, awareness is the light40:49 - You are God, when you stop adding stories46:14 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I break down why I believe the highest form of love requires sobriety.I explore how alcohol and drugs don’t just numb pain, they block us from healing the trauma that keeps us separate from love.I share my own journey through addiction, the illusions it fed, and why real love only became possible when I stopped running from myself.This is a deep, controversial, and honest reflection on what it means to be fully available for love, with nothing to hide behind.———————00:00 - Intro01:01 - Why the highest love demands sobriety03:26 - Alcohol as the silent killer of relationships05:13 - What love really is: unity, not a feeling07:16 - Mental stories that separate us from love08:38 - My abandonment trauma & anxious thinking12:22 - Karma is just recycled thinking13:52 - How to find peace from the mind15:13 - Addiction is spiritual avoidance16:23 - My years of drug-fueled identity20:48 - What makes a man truly safe in love24:38 - Suppressed trauma becomes abuse27:29 - You can’t unify while numbing30:29 - Why alcohol is a portal for darkness33:17 - Spiritual possession & blackout behavior36:22 - Our culture is possessed too37:40 - The illusion of “harmless” weed40:03 - If you take Adderall, you're a crackhead42:06 - Psychedelics won't get you to heaven46:58 - Why sober couples grow faster56:36 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I share what I’ve learned since entering deep partnership with my soulmate. I no longer believe love is just a feeling, it’s a consciousness. A force that unifies.I explore how conflict, judgment, and the need to be right create separation, and why real love lives in our willingness to understand rather than control.This is the most honest I’ve ever been about what it means to truly love and be loved. It’s also the first time I’ve had to face how often my own mind gets in the way of the love I say I want.———————00:00 - Intro01:19 - I found the love I always dreamed of03:33 - Love is not a feeling, it’s a consciousness06:04 - Why arguing means separation, not love08:14 - What is the consciousness of love?10:10 - Right and wrong are the enemy of unity11:41 - Feelings are facts: perception vs truth13:02 - The true test is how fast you repair15:00 - The golf cart fight in Hawaii19:15 - Conscious space versus separation23:48 - Unify before the next argument begins25:50 - The heart accepts, the mind fixes30:36 - The mind invents problems out of peace32:11 - Surrendering the mind’s addiction to control34:17 - You can’t change your partner34:40 - Judgment separates, understanding unites37:18 - What is vampire consciousness?40:14 - Fearful thoughts are the vampire’s invitation43:23 - Cast out darkness with devotion to love48:57 - The heart loves, the mind suffers50:59 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com